The fact the sterotype of all people who just may be struggling a bit have to have black hair, black nails, eyes caked in eyeliner... It all is very bitterly amusing.
Everywhere i look, people look away. Nobody is understands me. No one is nice to me or thinks the slightest bit about me. I could easily die and have no one notice. I could write a suicide note and have no one find it. I'm fading away on the inside thinking how could this happen to me???
I cut and am suicidal. nobody's my friend and nobodies ever tried. everyone makes fun of me and i wish i could just end it all. I'm sick of this life
I once went to a discount store.I was looking amongst the shelfs for the materials i needed. However my eye caught the image of a packet of razors.I took that packet to the counter. The person working there said that my age was restricted from buying it. I mentioned it was for an "assignment". Since then i regret buying that packet.. People always ask why do you always wear a jacket? aren't you hot? i have been hiding cuts under my sleeves. I wish i never went to that store.
if you want :) Give God a chance, you won't regret it. You're not alone, I have also struggled with an addiction, an escape that could've destroyed me entirely. Christ freed me of it, and He can free you too!
Any of you that are suffering, any of you that cut or anything that is an addiction or an escape.....there is a far better Way. That Way is through Christ. Do I mean religion? Absolutely not. I mean a real relationship, REAL LOVE, with God Himself! The One who Loves you more than anyone in existence! He is very real and wants to help us all, give Him the chance! If you want to talk or anything and want to know about this indescribable Love, you can message me. You can drop to your knees and pray
You're very wrong for most of us. I'm not saying it doesn't work out fine down that path, just that not everyone would survive it. The attempt to allow "god" to take over in a sense may only bring the feeling of being helpless yet again. Knowing you aren't actually better, nor free, you're just trying to shove it all under the rug, making matters worse than they've ever been. We all need something different, something dependable that works. Whatever that mat be.
@cancermouth1 I've struggled with addiction myself. I've struggled with pain and suffering, a lot truthfully. The reason I'm free of it today, the reason many people I know are free of it today, is because of Jesus, because of God. This is the most dependable you're gonna get. I assure you. This isn't shoving it under the rug, when Jesus did what He did, HE TOOK IT ALL on Himself and NAILED it to the cross! I've let God take over, and that doesn't bring a feeling of being helpless...it brings a
@cancermouth1 feeling of joy, peace, and love unlike any other! There are many people I know that will vouch for everything God has placed on me to say here. God continues to place things on me to say, to help others. His love is very real....I assure you. He loves us all, and wants to help us all. You got to let Him.
There would be no point for me to do that. I've tried before, It only made blind and as much pain, hate, ect. as I have to see, I'd rather learn their every detail than be ignorant. And that's exactly what I became when I came to the point of "anything goes" so I made an attempt to linger toward a "god" for help. If love were real in any sense this world would be uncomfortably perfect, I wouldn't be as I am, and no one would go looking for "love" from something that was never there.
@cancermouth1 Brian Welch from Korn, chose Christ. Brian Welch left Korn after coming to Christ and being freed of drug addictions. You gotta ask yourself, why would Brian Welch leave Korn? He had everything a band really dreamed of, but he threw all that away because of Christ. Someone dear to me had a massive cutting addiction, she has over 130 scars on her body even, but Christ freed her of that. I had a pornography addiction for 3 years but Christ freed me of it. God is real, I promise that.
Brian Welch, much like everyone else had a choice an he made it. Your friend Isn't that different from me in the scar department, and I'm glad you got rid of that addiction. But you got rid of it because you saw it at some point that it was "bad" so you too made a choice for yourself. Really you are what got you through it. By a series of choices that took you down a better road in your opinion. By the way, you can't promise anything.
@cancermouth1 Brian Welch made a choice because he saw real hope and real love. What other reasons are there that he would throw away all that he had with Korn? Btw, I didn't get free of that without God's help. That addiction had total control over me in every way just about, mentally even. Oh and yes, I can promise that.
Like I said some things work for certain people and your "god" theory doesn't and will never work for me. I congrat you on the change you've made in your life for the better, but do not shove it down my throat, thinking it's a cure all. You are dead wrong.
@cancermouth1 I apologize if you got the vibe that I was shoving it down your throat. That's not what I intended. You did on the other hand call me out as being wrong, causing me to defend my belief. Again, I apologize if that is the vibe you got, but I've told you my belief and so on, and I've heard you state yours more or less. Let us end this conversation in peace, and I will be praying for you and for us all. If that means anything to you or not, you may decide for yourself I suppose.
I wish I could make atleast one girl feel she is not alone. I'd make sure she is ok all the time. Make sure she knows that I love her. I'd give her the world. I'd be her everything. that's all I want. Is a girl in my arms.
@Laurawwrable Ha, If I was that then I'd be like those boy bands (or Justin Bieber -.-) having girls chasing after them. And another thing, I'm stuck in the friend zone with all my Gal friends, so It doesn't look like any girl is "dreaming" of me... Although, it would be nice.
@Jake38nine So what if your not in a boy band? eww justin beiber?! wow thats low,if you want to be there for a girl,hold her and that stuff then alot of girls should be chasing you,alot of girls dream for that!
@Laurawwrable I love music, though. And I'm looking for more opportunity to get into music and maybe a band. I don't like Justin Bieber either. He was an example. I respect the kid, but don't like his music. What's low?
I would hold A girl and do all of that. Just no girl has ever given me the chance to show her what I could give her... Believe me, if I was given the chance, I woudn't let any girl down..
@Jake38nine Alot of people love music,i'd be lost without it,im just saying not every girl wants a boy from a boyband and i promise you the right girl will come along for you and she will be dam lucky!
@Laurawwrable That's just what I thought of when you said girls be dreaming of.Just one of my dreams is to write a song for a girl that I know Loves moi.I can sure write a love song pretty easily,but I have noone to write it for,so I write songs that're more for when I like or have a cush on a girl.I'ma romantic type I know :3 Not to make this sound stubborn,though,I have heard that a lot.I guess the more patient I am the better the girl I'll have.
people judge me all the time from the scars and cuts on the inside and dont focus on whats causing them, im alone even though i have friends and family... im alone in this screwed up world all i want is to be free...
@hannalovesrio1 an every1 u just wanna talk come over 2 facebook my names freedom stewart just check it out if u want to talk add me if not check my pro out anyways i use to be a cutter addicted to blood tattoos plz come talk to me and plz dont give up u are worth it
@hannalovesrio1 an every1 u just wanna talk come over 2 facebook my names freedom stewart just check it out if u want to talk add me if not check my pro out anyways i use to be a cutter addicted to blood tattoos plz come talk to me and plz dont give up u are worth it
1:47 so true. If you are ever thinking of cutting, please don't. Find someone to talk to because it will kill you eventually. Even though your body still lives you will have died and something else, a broken remanent of what you once were, will be all that carries on. I know because I am one of those broken remains that still clings to life.
ii can't stopp cuttingg .. ive done it since ii was 13, just the littlest things make me cutt,, anythingg to get help,, im tryingg councilng,, but thatts onlyy helpingg a wee bitt ''/ anyone want 2 try help mee .. ii alsoo have thiis thingg wheree if i hurt sum1,, ii then take it out on myself and give myself black eyes etc ... ive done sum vids of my cuttingg they'l be up in video response (( im 14)) ..
i need help,i am on the brink of suicide,i have pushed away anyone close to me because they all have a life...now my best friend is pissed with me for not tanking to her,i can´t deal with this alone! HELP!! :´(
cut myself again today...... im fucking sick of all this shit. i hate listening to my mam and step dad fighting about shit like money. i wont stop, i know i wont, its enevitable. my dad asked me what was wrong today. and i thought he knew, but he doesnt, thank god.
everytime i throw away my blade, i get a new one almost instantly. i have asked to go to a councellor, but she said no.
i am a fucking eijit and dont deserve anything i have.
i used to cut.. im still getting over it.. its been a month.. if anybody needs somebody to talk to.. feel free to message me.. im here to talk.. and i know what your going through.
@samanthaaaa420 hi i have been cutting since i was 8 and i can not stop i know i need help but i am scard to tell anyone what can i do who can i turn to
For all those who self- harm or just suffer/recovered from depression, and you have Facebook, go check out the page for Bleed Just To Breathe. Its just is a place for people to reach out to others who share the same problems since its hard to share out loud.
When I told my best friend I loved him he didn't feel the same way and it broke me so much and sadly to say now we aren't friends anymore because he dumped me as a friend because his BF (he turned gay after I told him my feelings but at the time he was bi) told him to. He was such a dumb fuck and I still hurt from what he did to me.
Your friend should be very lucky to have you in her life.
When I told her : I love you. : I began to love her about 6-7 weeks ago and now I know I love her for real. But She told me she was cutting like 3-4 weeks ago. So I loved her before she told me all this stuff.
Something Im laughing about is when I'm saying : I love u And she says : I dont answer to that.
Always make sure they know that you're there for them, i have a really great friend that i ring up at like 3 o'clock in the morning. Make sure they ALWAYS know your there, make sure they ALWAYS knows you care coz everybody has to have somebody. So yes what your doing for your friend is great keep doing it. I hope that helped.
believe me, we know it's stupid, and most of us try to find other ways to cope, but it's not the same. it feels different, and cutting is f*cking addictive.
please - what is the song?? i loved the video... i've gone alittle over a month now without cutting- i still have the urge everyday but - word to the people out there- you are not alone - no matter how you feel sometimes.. it does get better- little by little- i'm not saying its easy- its hard as hell but trust me - its the best and bravest thing you can do ... message me if u got questions
A real good way to stop Cutting is go in therapie if you think a shrink isn't somethink for you go to a special Borderline Theraphy there you learn that you can do other thinks instead of cutting. I am in this theraphy and it really helps i havent cut now about 3 Month
no your not im 14 female and know a few guys in my school who do sh also i do girls are more common because they go through changes more than guys and they get depression more so your not the only guy theres alot out there
Hey i am a Guy too im from Germany and i have a lot of friends who cut too the only differents here is i cut much more and extrem. You are not alone the Problems is just, many guys or boys are afraid of telling that they cut or burn.
I loved the video it had to be the best thing i have ever seen on you tube perfact song to. wow the video tuched me in ways you would only understand if u saw my arms
there is hope to recover from self injury, i stopped after 15 years, anyone that wishes to recover can stop. message me for more info. liked the video
The fact the sterotype of all people who just may be struggling a bit have to have black hair, black nails, eyes caked in eyeliner... It all is very bitterly amusing.
ThisIsMyCourage 2 months ago
Everywhere i look, people look away. Nobody is understands me. No one is nice to me or thinks the slightest bit about me. I could easily die and have no one notice. I could write a suicide note and have no one find it. I'm fading away on the inside thinking how could this happen to me???
I cut and am suicidal. nobody's my friend and nobodies ever tried. everyone makes fun of me and i wish i could just end it all. I'm sick of this life
aokska 5 months ago
@aokska don't be suicidal! =(
i have learned one thing! and that is: To be just a bit happy, you have to go threw alot of shit..
i know that because i fell the same way as you...
and because i'm also a cutter...
but i keep on living because i know in the end, i know i will be happy =)
3633163 2 months ago
@aokska
I'll be your friend
SuperMyrt 1 week ago
once you start it.. it will be hard to stop..
TheCianne 7 months ago
I once went to a discount store.I was looking amongst the shelfs for the materials i needed. However my eye caught the image of a packet of razors.I took that packet to the counter. The person working there said that my age was restricted from buying it. I mentioned it was for an "assignment". Since then i regret buying that packet.. People always ask why do you always wear a jacket? aren't you hot? i have been hiding cuts under my sleeves. I wish i never went to that store.
explosionhype 9 months ago
Thank you so much! OMFG, I'm crying...love this video <3
marilyna122 10 months ago
if you want :) Give God a chance, you won't regret it. You're not alone, I have also struggled with an addiction, an escape that could've destroyed me entirely. Christ freed me of it, and He can free you too!
Kodar777 10 months ago
Any of you that are suffering, any of you that cut or anything that is an addiction or an escape.....there is a far better Way. That Way is through Christ. Do I mean religion? Absolutely not. I mean a real relationship, REAL LOVE, with God Himself! The One who Loves you more than anyone in existence! He is very real and wants to help us all, give Him the chance! If you want to talk or anything and want to know about this indescribable Love, you can message me. You can drop to your knees and pray
Kodar777 10 months ago
@Kodar777
You're very wrong for most of us. I'm not saying it doesn't work out fine down that path, just that not everyone would survive it. The attempt to allow "god" to take over in a sense may only bring the feeling of being helpless yet again. Knowing you aren't actually better, nor free, you're just trying to shove it all under the rug, making matters worse than they've ever been. We all need something different, something dependable that works. Whatever that mat be.
cancermouth1 8 months ago
@cancermouth1 I've struggled with addiction myself. I've struggled with pain and suffering, a lot truthfully. The reason I'm free of it today, the reason many people I know are free of it today, is because of Jesus, because of God. This is the most dependable you're gonna get. I assure you. This isn't shoving it under the rug, when Jesus did what He did, HE TOOK IT ALL on Himself and NAILED it to the cross! I've let God take over, and that doesn't bring a feeling of being helpless...it brings a
Kodar777 8 months ago
@cancermouth1 feeling of joy, peace, and love unlike any other! There are many people I know that will vouch for everything God has placed on me to say here. God continues to place things on me to say, to help others. His love is very real....I assure you. He loves us all, and wants to help us all. You got to let Him.
Kodar777 8 months ago
@Kodar777
There would be no point for me to do that. I've tried before, It only made blind and as much pain, hate, ect. as I have to see, I'd rather learn their every detail than be ignorant. And that's exactly what I became when I came to the point of "anything goes" so I made an attempt to linger toward a "god" for help. If love were real in any sense this world would be uncomfortably perfect, I wouldn't be as I am, and no one would go looking for "love" from something that was never there.
cancermouth1 8 months ago
@cancermouth1 Brian Welch from Korn, chose Christ. Brian Welch left Korn after coming to Christ and being freed of drug addictions. You gotta ask yourself, why would Brian Welch leave Korn? He had everything a band really dreamed of, but he threw all that away because of Christ. Someone dear to me had a massive cutting addiction, she has over 130 scars on her body even, but Christ freed her of that. I had a pornography addiction for 3 years but Christ freed me of it. God is real, I promise that.
Kodar777 8 months ago
@Kodar777
Brian Welch, much like everyone else had a choice an he made it. Your friend Isn't that different from me in the scar department, and I'm glad you got rid of that addiction. But you got rid of it because you saw it at some point that it was "bad" so you too made a choice for yourself. Really you are what got you through it. By a series of choices that took you down a better road in your opinion. By the way, you can't promise anything.
cancermouth1 8 months ago
@cancermouth1 Brian Welch made a choice because he saw real hope and real love. What other reasons are there that he would throw away all that he had with Korn? Btw, I didn't get free of that without God's help. That addiction had total control over me in every way just about, mentally even. Oh and yes, I can promise that.
Kodar777 8 months ago
@Kodar777
Like I said some things work for certain people and your "god" theory doesn't and will never work for me. I congrat you on the change you've made in your life for the better, but do not shove it down my throat, thinking it's a cure all. You are dead wrong.
cancermouth1 8 months ago
@cancermouth1 I apologize if you got the vibe that I was shoving it down your throat. That's not what I intended. You did on the other hand call me out as being wrong, causing me to defend my belief. Again, I apologize if that is the vibe you got, but I've told you my belief and so on, and I've heard you state yours more or less. Let us end this conversation in peace, and I will be praying for you and for us all. If that means anything to you or not, you may decide for yourself I suppose.
Kodar777 8 months ago
I dont know what it is about this video bet everytime i watch it it makes me cry.....
emochich23 11 months ago
love the vid
doglover140 11 months ago
I think a lot of people in this world feel so alone. I still do off and on
soulmacia 11 months ago
Thank you so much!!!
marilyna122 11 months ago
ive stopped self harming but everyday is a battle im tired of this battle
doglover140 1 year ago
I wish I could make atleast one girl feel she is not alone. I'd make sure she is ok all the time. Make sure she knows that I love her. I'd give her the world. I'd be her everything. that's all I want. Is a girl in my arms.
Jake38nine 1 year ago 25
@Jake38nine awwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!! XD
soulmacia 11 months ago
@soulmacia Yep, and it might be coming true... :)
Jake38nine 11 months ago
@Jake38nine your the man of every girls dreams..:/
Laurawwrable 5 months ago
@Laurawwrable Ha, If I was that then I'd be like those boy bands (or Justin Bieber -.-) having girls chasing after them. And another thing, I'm stuck in the friend zone with all my Gal friends, so It doesn't look like any girl is "dreaming" of me... Although, it would be nice.
Jake38nine 5 months ago
@Jake38nine So what if your not in a boy band? eww justin beiber?! wow thats low,if you want to be there for a girl,hold her and that stuff then alot of girls should be chasing you,alot of girls dream for that!
Laurawwrable 5 months ago
@Laurawwrable I love music, though. And I'm looking for more opportunity to get into music and maybe a band. I don't like Justin Bieber either. He was an example. I respect the kid, but don't like his music. What's low?
I would hold A girl and do all of that. Just no girl has ever given me the chance to show her what I could give her... Believe me, if I was given the chance, I woudn't let any girl down..
Jake38nine 5 months ago
@Jake38nine Alot of people love music,i'd be lost without it,im just saying not every girl wants a boy from a boyband and i promise you the right girl will come along for you and she will be dam lucky!
Laurawwrable 5 months ago
@Laurawwrable That's just what I thought of when you said girls be dreaming of.Just one of my dreams is to write a song for a girl that I know Loves moi.I can sure write a love song pretty easily,but I have noone to write it for,so I write songs that're more for when I like or have a cush on a girl.I'ma romantic type I know :3 Not to make this sound stubborn,though,I have heard that a lot.I guess the more patient I am the better the girl I'll have.
Jake38nine 5 months ago
@Jake38nine awwww :') :3
Laurawwrable 5 months ago
it's so amazing... and true <3
TheMgirl90 1 year ago
That was so pretty video.
MijnSokjes 1 year ago
This should have been labeled as triggering really. The song is natalie merchant "My Skin" I believe.
ColleenF30 1 year ago
beautiful...
MiiVampire 1 year ago
people judge me all the time from the scars and cuts on the inside and dont focus on whats causing them, im alone even though i have friends and family... im alone in this screwed up world all i want is to be free...
hannalovesrio1 1 year ago 4
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@hannalovesrio1 an every1 u just wanna talk come over 2 facebook my names freedom stewart just check it out if u want to talk add me if not check my pro out anyways i use to be a cutter addicted to blood tattoos plz come talk to me and plz dont give up u are worth it
freedom22yeshuua 1 year ago
@hannalovesrio1 an every1 u just wanna talk come over 2 facebook my names freedom stewart just check it out if u want to talk add me if not check my pro out anyways i use to be a cutter addicted to blood tattoos plz come talk to me and plz dont give up u are worth it
freedom22yeshuua 1 year ago
Its so Beautiful and Touching!!!:*
Littleboazfly 1 year ago
This video, made me break down. I cut all the time, because of all the reasons. :(
dancer16130 2 years ago
@dancer16130 what reason is there to cut tell me i will listen
proudmommy082709 2 years ago
well, depression, anger, BOYS, family problems, and sometimes, when i have NOTHING else to turn to to make me feel better. :(
dancer16130 2 years ago
Hey does anyone here know the name of the song used here...I love it
Mstam031583 2 years ago 6
Natalie Merchant - My skin
1StJimmy 2 years ago
@Mstam031583 natalie merchant -my skin
crazzygirl385 1 year ago
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blackstarz98 2 years ago
Thanks alot x
1StJimmy 2 years ago
1:47 so true. If you are ever thinking of cutting, please don't. Find someone to talk to because it will kill you eventually. Even though your body still lives you will have died and something else, a broken remanent of what you once were, will be all that carries on. I know because I am one of those broken remains that still clings to life.
SaltyBlackTears 2 years ago
Someone i love cuts it crushes me.
Beautiful song.
1StJimmy 2 years ago
Hold them and let them know they are not alone. Help them deal with their emotions but don't force them to stop as that will only alinate them more.
SaltyBlackTears 2 years ago
what song is this! thnx for the vid it means alot
TwilightAngel09 2 years ago 7
It's from Natalie Merchant- My skin..
Mloes872 2 years ago
please ,dont harm your self,,you are all wonderfull people ,,if you want an ear or just to say nothing about every thing,, contact me
saorscott 2 years ago
what song is this? its one of the most fitting songs i've heard...
GimmeMOARRR 2 years ago 3
if only ppl could see this before they judged me! amazing vid! you captured everything i feel!
nalamprecht 2 years ago 11
thanks :)
Mloes872 2 years ago
this is a really meaningful video....
its really gud and i really lyk it....
btw wats d name of d song???
roisinxx11 2 years ago
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TheSelfHarmer97 2 years ago
why did u lot do 2 thumbs down on my last comment?X
memewarz 2 years ago
thank you, i just wish the rite ppl could see this...but like it says in the vid, i can't bring myself to say anything...
Lizzy4Rizzy 2 years ago
ii can't stopp cuttingg .. ive done it since ii was 13, just the littlest things make me cutt,, anythingg to get help,, im tryingg councilng,, but thatts onlyy helpingg a wee bitt ''/ anyone want 2 try help mee .. ii alsoo have thiis thingg wheree if i hurt sum1,, ii then take it out on myself and give myself black eyes etc ... ive done sum vids of my cuttingg they'l be up in video response (( im 14)) ..
LeonieBi1995 2 years ago
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memewarz 2 years ago
wat song is this???
nekohellgirl 2 years ago
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TwlohaLITM 2 years ago
What song do you use here? It fits it very well *hug*
lillabee1992 2 years ago
its by natalie merchant called my skin.
dmheath1101 2 years ago
i need help,i am on the brink of suicide,i have pushed away anyone close to me because they all have a life...now my best friend is pissed with me for not tanking to her,i can´t deal with this alone! HELP!! :´(
jager2392 2 years ago
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WHY DIDN'T YOU TANK WITH HER?!
dafhgadsrhadjtb 2 years ago
sorry i meant talk,and i depress her and when i do that i hate myself even more so i just stay away from her,but it isnt helping
jager2392 2 years ago
im a recovering self harmer and everyday is a struggle for me but if i can stop anyone can.
if anyone wants or needs 2 talk feel free to message me,im always here to lend a helping hand
-Dae
XxStopSelfInjuryxX 2 years ago
I cant stop. I need help. Im scared. </3 :'(
XxskiingchicxX13 2 years ago
cut myself again today...... im fucking sick of all this shit. i hate listening to my mam and step dad fighting about shit like money. i wont stop, i know i wont, its enevitable. my dad asked me what was wrong today. and i thought he knew, but he doesnt, thank god.
everytime i throw away my blade, i get a new one almost instantly. i have asked to go to a councellor, but she said no.
i am a fucking eijit and dont deserve anything i have.
sorry if you actually read that.... :(
blancgirl 2 years ago
i used to cut.. im still getting over it.. its been a month.. if anybody needs somebody to talk to.. feel free to message me.. im here to talk.. and i know what your going through.
samanthaaaa420 2 years ago
@samanthaaaa420 hi i have been cutting since i was 8 and i can not stop i know i need help but i am scard to tell anyone what can i do who can i turn to
1ryancain 1 year ago
They say we're not alone... しかし私たちは are
XxxUnwantedFREAKxxX 2 years ago
i turned 18 three days ago. this isnt something that goes away. i bought a pack of ten razorblades today, and i dont know why i did that.
why do we do this?
teething112 2 years ago
because we're lonely.
XxxUnwantedFREAKxxX 2 years ago
wats the song called i love it so meaningful
siobhannugent 2 years ago
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GothmoBabeRay 2 years ago
What is the video clip of the girl cutting herself from?
xXLunaJLovegoodXx 2 years ago
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it's from the movie "Thirteen". Beautiful movie, so deep and meaningful. I love it, and watch it all the time. Speaks out to me and my life.
Does anyone know what the songs called though? I ove it but don't know t name.
BrokenAndGone 2 years ago
its from natalie merchant and is calles my skin..
Mloes872 2 years ago
My Skin by Natalie Merchant.
lightershadesofblack 2 years ago
Sorry I didnt finish I clicked Post ..
Im telling her :
''your friends are always there for you, they love you''
''We will go through, don't worry''.
''Tell me everything you feel, whenever you fell something hard or just smooth''.
Im calling her every night to be sure everything is fine and I dont know if I made an error by saying what I felt for her.
She called me one day and said : Will say something! I got the blade in my hand..
It was so hard to keep I said : I love you...
so?
william19940525 2 years ago
I think what you do is great... be there for her..
Mloes872 2 years ago
wow man thats strong.
It must have taken a lot to say I love you.
When I told my best friend I loved him he didn't feel the same way and it broke me so much and sadly to say now we aren't friends anymore because he dumped me as a friend because his BF (he turned gay after I told him my feelings but at the time he was bi) told him to. He was such a dumb fuck and I still hurt from what he did to me.
Your friend should be very lucky to have you in her life.
P.S. I dont think you made an error
LoveAriel13 2 years ago
Thank you for everything but I have another question.
What should when I am with her between : Talk about her problem Or Just talk about another subject.
Maybe both of em are better?
What do you say.
william19940525 2 years ago
Maybe you should know something else.
When I told her : I love you. : I began to love her about 6-7 weeks ago and now I know I love her for real. But She told me she was cutting like 3-4 weeks ago. So I loved her before she told me all this stuff.
Something Im laughing about is when I'm saying : I love u And she says : I dont answer to that.
I know there is no funny stuff in what she says.
william19940525 2 years ago
I mean, Why do people cut?
I know its addictive... Or something.
I know That those who self harm get rid of emotional pain by physical pain.. I know its a way to feel great in your head.
One of my friend cuts himself but can you tell me if what Im doing is great!?
I always tell her Im there, anywhere, anytime.
william19940525 2 years ago
Always make sure they know that you're there for them, i have a really great friend that i ring up at like 3 o'clock in the morning. Make sure they ALWAYS know your there, make sure they ALWAYS knows you care coz everybody has to have somebody. So yes what your doing for your friend is great keep doing it. I hope that helped.
IndieCindiie 2 years ago
Ok. Ty.
william19940525 2 years ago
in saying that because she needed to know that someone loves her and will be there 4 her.
-Ariel
LoveAriel13 2 years ago
Ok thanks everyone
william19940525 2 years ago
good job on the video. i cut myself, too.
12KingdomHearts12 2 years ago
Oh, by the way what is this song called? It's beautiful :]
DrMooshkwa 2 years ago
very nice.
I've been there too. No one would ever guess it though if they were to meet me now. : )
SaraBfromIV 2 years ago
Why people cut?
why not other similar stuff which leaves no permanent damage?
why ruin your body if you can do same safely ?
deltaxcd 3 years ago
believe me, we know it's stupid, and most of us try to find other ways to cope, but it's not the same. it feels different, and cutting is f*cking addictive.
sunlovinggirl 2 years ago 2
I agree..
Mloes872 2 years ago
please - what is the song?? i loved the video... i've gone alittle over a month now without cutting- i still have the urge everyday but - word to the people out there- you are not alone - no matter how you feel sometimes.. it does get better- little by little- i'm not saying its easy- its hard as hell but trust me - its the best and bravest thing you can do ... message me if u got questions
rescueisfound18 3 years ago
i can relate to this so much!! it made me cry so hard
poohkristin13 3 years ago
I can relate to this video so much.
I struggle with self-harming too, and I have done for many years. It's been getting worse and worse.
This video made me cry, because it reminds me of what I'm trying to cope with.
But I'm so glad there are people who can understand, thank you for posting this video.
DrMooshkwa 3 years ago
This is amazing...
I'm not gonna lie... i struggle with this so much but you have at least made me think for a minute
Thank you...
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Innergoth333 3 years ago
the songs choice is perfect for the video.
Good Video and its very touching.
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BabyxHelpx91 3 years ago
Yoor not the only one... Not that im a boy lol i just know your not alone. x
xDjBabyDollx 3 years ago
thanks for your comment, it means a lot xx
Mloes872 3 years ago
A real good way to stop Cutting is go in therapie if you think a shrink isn't somethink for you go to a special Borderline Theraphy there you learn that you can do other thinks instead of cutting. I am in this theraphy and it really helps i havent cut now about 3 Month
tristanjanz 2 years ago
Great video , perfect song for it,
Why are all the images on self injury videos of girls? I'm a guy and I self injure , am I the only one ?
Hoopybluefood 3 years ago
no your not im 14 female and know a few guys in my school who do sh also i do girls are more common because they go through changes more than guys and they get depression more so your not the only guy theres alot out there
XxXnightelfXxX 3 years ago
you are not the only one- i know many guys who self injure- its not as uncommon as people think... but still just as painful and well hidden...
rescueisfound18 3 years ago
Hey i am a Guy too im from Germany and i have a lot of friends who cut too the only differents here is i cut much more and extrem. You are not alone the Problems is just, many guys or boys are afraid of telling that they cut or burn.
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ValkyrieAngel1 2 years ago
this is beautiful.
meaniemay 3 years ago
I loved the video it had to be the best thing i have ever seen on you tube perfact song to. wow the video tuched me in ways you would only understand if u saw my arms
EmoLoverBoy12 3 years ago
what is that song
mynamemaranda 3 years ago
Nathalie Merchant- My skin
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Mloes872 3 years ago
this song is very special to me
great video <3
BigKarinen 3 years ago
there is hope to recover from self injury, i stopped after 15 years, anyone that wishes to recover can stop. message me for more info. liked the video
stopselfinjury 3 years ago
i relly like this video.Thanks for posting it.I was wonder what the song is thyo.Does anyone know the name of this song?
chas2chasity 3 years ago
Thanks for your comment, the song is called my skin from Natalie Merchant :)
Mloes872 3 years ago