i was hectic, cheerful kid at school, who just loved being with people, now im 25 losing almost all of my friends, almost dont see anything positive in future and siting at home almost all of time. I try to go outside but i feel like people do not accept me, it so hard it seems like you locked in jail. so within these 6-7 years those sparks of hope that everything will turn out ok in future gettin less and less frequent. i just need to get out of this somehow...
I'm always depressed Because of those Motherfu**ing Bully's
Most friends Dont like me anymore and its made my life shit ;(
and i am back to thinking about death ;(. i know it sounds Emo but i'm Not... i really want to beat the bullys up But my school never Understands and the Bullys get free and i'll get weeks detension
@thecakeThief The same thing is happening to me, exept my best friend turned aginst me, It sucked. But sometimes you just gotta pick your self up and move on. Sure they'll bully you, but if they're physicly hurting you fight back! I had to do this, but I had a talk with my mom about it, and she felt thet the only way to get through to him was force, so I punched him, got detenton sure, but haven't been messed with sence, It may not awlways be the best souluton, but it may work.
Okay, I'm not being a douche or a troll or whatever but I seriously do want to know. How do you get depression at 8? It's a serious question. I don't understand how you would get it. Please explain it to me?
@Ineelia Wow. Sometimes it is inherited.. it can be passed on from other family members and then hits out of nowhere. And no one does anything about it because hey you're 8 how can you be depressed? The best you can do is just try and suppress it. It chills for a few years then pops back up. It's a bitch to deal with.
@Ineelia Depression is more of a mental illness, and can be obtained at any age, it has to do with the serotonin and other chemicals transferred throughout the brain. Alot of ppl actually suffer from mild depression, but the people who commit suicide have it bad.
@ExciteBike20 many people who have severe depression can't kill themselves because they are afraid to die for different reasons, or they simply don't care a little bit and don't have enough power to kill themselves.
Anywhos, Im not expecting a reply, but I just started writing this and it felt good to vent and put it out there. Thanks! You're an amazing person, I wish more people were like you :)
Sorry for the three comment long rant, though, lol I didnt mean for it to be that long.. :P
But sometimes I feel like my parents only love me when I bring home an A. Theres this really prestigious college where I live, and my dad practically said he would disown me if I didnt get in :/ Its crap, but I have reading (love it!), writing, drawing, my cat, and now your videos! You truly seem to understand, and you're TOTALLY right about those well meaning words people tell you, the intent is great, but it doesnt help.Maybe I'll try that 100 jumping jacks thing...
Um, I'm kinda semi-depressed, I guess. I feel cranky and irritable and horrible and useless a lot of the time. I feel like I dont have anyone to go to, to talk to, anyone who would understand. I was made fun of in middle school and didnt even realize that all those people were actually teasing me, laughing AT me and not with me. I was "The Weird Girl" and didnt know it. Thankfully I moved, and the people here dont know me with that title. I'm not like that anymore, which is a relief.
I've never really felt depressed but think I have some symptoms and it's affecting my schooling. It's not extensive, just don't have any enthusiasm towards things (especially school). And I'm 15.
os one of best friends gets depressed all the time and me and her boyfriend r like sick of it cause as soon as she does she gets the worst thought and looks at me and says "im going go kill myself" but she never gets close enough for really harm her arms are carved with scares plz help me so i can help im seriously worried about her thanks u rock
Hurm well the first thing is.You actually have a good lie it sound's like.Be thankfull your life is this good.Be happy you have a girlfriend dude even if she did use you.My parents got divorced.I have not talked to a girl in 4 year's that is my age or even close.And Only maybe only 4 people in the entire world care if im here or not.You got to flow with life bro.Be proud of what you do have :D.
For me i Try to turn depression into something fun ill look at myself in the mirror then laugh becuz wats ther to be depressed about watever happens happens if i die i die U only have one chance in this world,if u feel that u are not wanted?Look at yr past,wat many people important or not have done for u if they think of u as a nuisance they wouldnt see u no up but they tried to be the very best so sometimes u got to just let go of the past and look forward to the future
Sorry for the second comment. Yesterday me and five other people were at the gym including her and my best friend. For the whole session they were talking. Then they both walked out of the gym together! When the session finished I went into the changeing rooms to get changed. Then I could hear kissing from the bathroom. Then they both walked out. This is killing me. I don't know what to do! I have tried to kill myself but I just couldn't. I feel so depressed right now.
I am at the worst stage of my life. About three years ago I moved into another school and things were going well. In the same class as me there was a really nice girl that I was crazy about. She would sometimes talk to me and would sit next to me most days. Things got complicated about five weeks ago. She started talking to one of my closest friends. I wasn't that worried becuase I thought this kind of thing would brush off.
@spearcrush7 man, Im not Dylan, but youve got it good. My girl is a jehovas witness, and even though were dating, she isnt technically aloud till 18, no sex till marriage, sex only for kids, nothing besides that. and tbh life is hard cus we have to sneak, and my parents and hers want us broken up. by the way, how old are you? if i knew more i could help.
Dylan, you're one of the best people to talk to about these things, because we can relate to you, unlike all the other youtubers who just rant, you tell your stories and you talk to your fans and that's what makes you so much better for these sorts of things ^____^ :)
My Girlfriend she lied to me and dated behind my back and the day i found out about it she kissed me and we had sex i felt like she used me. i beat up her boyfriend and nothing good happened im failing every class i have and can't do anything right. i've cut nothing good ever comes and tried to poison myself and i'm still here. Can i do anything to fix all this? Im always faking my smile around my friends and they usually don't care. Only 17 people care if i'll die i want to fix this help me :c
@Person8492 I can help. first things, clear up friends. if anyone isnt falling under the definition of friend then drop them away. if they want to be your friend they'll stay. Second get your game face on. fix those grades using extra time you mope around. third, take no BS. if someone really is serious with you they won't be cheating. if so tell them that kindly and leave em. if they really care they will stay. with all that, find some people who aren't D-bags and leave those who don't care.
@Person8492 The one thing you have to remember is that it might only 17 people, but its still 17 people. That's what helped me get through my depression. Those 17 people love you and care about you, your lucky I only had 4. But I realized that I was blind and could not see how much they meant to me. So remember, 17 is a pretty big number. If you don't so it for yourself, do it for them.
@IrikeBubblez If people are commenting on the way you look, hang out with other people whenever possible. If one is to judge another by One's looks, he/she is not a true friend. If however it is simple bullying, talk to a trusted adult. You are probably thinking "I don't want to do that", you are not alone, but it helps, it really does
believe me never take a nap when you are depressed if you do you'll feel worse now try to get your mind off it its hard but try it or watch videos to get your mind off it or do what bananapielord did or do what you like to do or do what i do most of the time fool around on the guitar or somethin' i dont know do what you like to do it works
this helped alot I've been bullied all my life because I have ADHD they say I'm 'weird, retarded' and I was at the brink of suicide thank you sooo much BPL
Dude... My life f***ing sucks balls! You want to know why? Well first of all, I am 14, my mother shouts at me for the smallest things like getting a bit of dust in my room, my friends betray me, my girlfriend dumped me, I dont have anyone I can trust, my mom used to hit me before, so I lost my selfconfedence, the friends that still didn't betrayed me are in another country far away from me and I dont have the guts to suicyde... Help please, just if you answer this comment, it would help alot.
could you also help me/us with handling with stress im a musician myself to :) i liked the tip to put that feeling in making music i would like some more advice :)
My friend has recently lost everything that made him ... him, he says he doesn't like anything and doesn't care, my attempts to retrieve him from his sadness has backfired. I'm at a lost in what to do or say, even comforting hasn't helped him. Do you know what i could try next to get his old self back?
BPL, I'd like if you could talk about trying to find the right people to be friends with. Recently I've been turning the wrong way in life, and I think my friends are causing it. I'm starting to think they're bad influences. Could you help?
I can't draw when I'm depressed; Gaming sucks when I'm depressed. What I do is I call my friends on skype and just chat with them... I'm mostly depressed because of school. 'cause when I'm depressed, I can't remember and I can't even focus on things properly. Hope the exercises will work for me; I play tenis but it doesn't work at all.
Herp derp Dylan is good that he found his point of life :D
When I m really depressed I sit down and im improof my penspinning cause i saw it and i love it im not that good but i will get better and i think i make a video sometime =)
Making the world a better place with your vids. Im diagnosed with depression, attempted suicide when I was 14. Then I discovered Doom Metal. I just speaks to me like nothing else. I now consider myself to be happy with life, music has shown me beauty where I couldnt see it before. For those thinking of suicide: The last few moments before I lost conciousness were the most painfull moments of my life. No relief, just revultion at what I had done. Those moments still haunt me to this day.
@TheMinecraftOtter I can hardly put that into words, let alone through the constraints of a youtube comment. Glad to know I could help though. If you ever want to talk feel free to send a pm :)
im 12 im on the suicide note but i kinda past it couse of my school well that was making me deperesed and i kinda got better at it so it kinda fix's it but my mum and me were allways in a fight if u know what do i mean so thats it from im gonna watch youre latest video
Thank you so much dylan! you dont realise how helpful this has been to many people. and tbh i look up to you. your an inspiration to me and probably many other people. when i feel i need to block everything out and relax. i come to your videos. You should call this series Dylan's Dilema Tips Or something. people could ask you for advice on anything at all!!
Thank you for everything Dylan, I means the absolute world to me and others,
this is your 2nd (or so) video you've made about theese deep subjects on demand. You are now the most caring person on youtube! Keep it up, Dylan <3<3
I've gone through a lot in my life allready. I've been bullied, I have been in the hospital a couple of times (got run over by a car etc.) and i nearly died(30 more mins before opperation and i would been dead). I have suffered from 13 mental issues, and depression is one of them. I was VERY depressed, and when i was about to commit suicide(had rigged everything) i remembered Dyllan's words in his subscriber special. That saved my life. You saved my life. Thank you Dyllan. I love you <3 -bendik
BPL You made my day, your so honest, and normally when people say " I know what your going through," I wish to punch them, but when you say it... It makes everything better. So thanks. We love you BPL don't forget <3
Everything BPL said is true, 5 years ago my mum was struck down with an Aneurysm and is now paralyzed and on a lot of medication which has changed her into the most loving person to someone else, it made life difficult at home, I turned to gambling/excessive drinking, I lost 2 amazing relationships, got messed around in another which then got too much and then I tried to take my own life which I sincerely regret doing I have been on anti depressants since and music and exercise really has helped
Lately school has been seeming more and more difficult. I was wondering if you could maybe talk about school/work sometime. I do my homework and keep my grades up high, but going to school is like torture. Do you have any tips on how to enjoy it more?
im really depressed cause my mom just got diagnosed with cancer and we r moving i wont see my bff anymore im homeschooled and it sucks and iv never had a boyfriend an im only 13! DX
@ninjacat512 You shouldn't try to move on to fast with your life(I tryed to move fast with mine and I relise that I'm almost 16 and pretty soon here I'm gonna have to find a job, and move out of my house, find and apartment, pay bills, and everything, just don't try to rush your life), just wait for the right guy to come along. Also, I';m very sorry about your mother, I sincerely hope she gets better.
@galioth41 I'm not intending to imply insult or judgment here but I am curious to know in order to be able to respond to your posts in an appropriate manner, so please forgive what appears to be, but in fact is not intended as an insulting question:
I would love if you talked about when you started making videos, you've said that you used to be anti social many times, which would also relate shyness or some sort. Did you have to gain a lot of confidence before making youtube videos? Or is it something where you just went for it and your confidence grew over time?
I would really love to start making my own commentaries, but I really don't have the confidence towards it.
I suffer from a Learning Disorder, Tourettes and ADHD. I'm very anti-social, I don't like being around people (including my friends who I seem to resent), and it really sucks..It's so depressing not being able to control the way I am, I lose my temper a lot...I really don't know what to do right now.
Thank you so much for this video, Dylan :) It means... well. the world to me that you would make a video like this. I've suffered from severe depression and anxiety for since I was 13, which I'm nearly 19 now, and just hearing from someone who knows what I'm going through is enough to put a smile on my face :) keep just being yourself, because it is absolutely perfect, and I know that all of us viewers can't even begin to try to express how grateful we are :)
You know, looking at you now, you're nothing like how I imagined you. XD But then again, now I have a good image of how you look and now I can imagine what kind of faces you're making. lol.
hey bpl, did you ever have problems with cutting yourself? I know its pretty fucked up but I've kinda been having problems with it lately and I just wanted to know if it ever got to that with you...
@BPL Thank you for your words Dylan. You're a great guy not only for being yourself, but for being such a caring person. I haven't had much major depression lately since I started doing videos and writing, but I definately know you help a lot of people just by letting them know you care.
I've had depression since i was 9 and i'm 14 now. :/ it really sucks, and i think because i have it, its holding me back from having friends or even trying to be who i want to grow up to be in life :/
My Banana friend, thank you for trying to help people. I know you don't have all the answers but the fact that you still try to help is something to be commended. God bless you my friend, and I hope that you were able help someone
Thanks for uploading a vid like this. I have been feeling shit lately due to a 2-3 year old injury wich have made me be in pain, all the time. Keep strong BPL;) 3
*looks at self at end of video* How did my clothes come off? Oh Dylan, you certainly have a way with words...and somehow taking women's clothing off when they're not even in the same room...Otherwise, love this video ^^
Bro, when I saw your face on the thumbnail, then I jizzed in mah pants. I love you man, no homo.
I KNOW through personal experience what fixes depression: it's love. Love from someone. Sadly, it's up to someone else to do that. But yeah, if you know someone's who's depressed, just give them really genuine love.
Hey BPL:My sister's friend just died from (what i have heard) suicide.I almost cryed at the service but i held it in.But im still sad about her death because she was one of the 1st people i met when i moved (and i was pretty lonely at the time outside of school, so she was kinda like an older sister in a sense at the time).Idk how to deal with it,its making me scared of the fact that one of my best friends(that are like brothers to me)could die at a young age like her(15-16).I seek your guidance
A tear came out of my eye, just now, when i remembered the death of my grandfather 2 years ago, i look back and realize what i did wrong, i hate myself for that, and i realized that i cant change it anymore, i love you grandpa, you will alwayse stay in my heart!-3
Dude it really amazes me that after what you've gone through that you are the amazing person you are today. I think it's great that you want to help others. Much respect from me and from Canada -3
Thanks for all you have done my grandmother died early last year and your videos really made me laugh and feel better about the whole situation and for that I love you man<3
@MrMadfrager Oh gosh, I know it is to lose a grandmother. I was extremely close with mine, so it was one of the hardest things I had to go through. Best of luck, bro <3
i was hectic, cheerful kid at school, who just loved being with people, now im 25 losing almost all of my friends, almost dont see anything positive in future and siting at home almost all of time. I try to go outside but i feel like people do not accept me, it so hard it seems like you locked in jail. so within these 6-7 years those sparks of hope that everything will turn out ok in future gettin less and less frequent. i just need to get out of this somehow...
juliusreea 2 days ago
I'm always depressed Because of those Motherfu**ing Bully's
Most friends Dont like me anymore and its made my life shit ;(
and i am back to thinking about death ;(. i know it sounds Emo but i'm Not... i really want to beat the bullys up But my school never Understands and the Bullys get free and i'll get weeks detension
thecakeThief 1 week ago
@thecakeThief The same thing is happening to me, exept my best friend turned aginst me, It sucked. But sometimes you just gotta pick your self up and move on. Sure they'll bully you, but if they're physicly hurting you fight back! I had to do this, but I had a talk with my mom about it, and she felt thet the only way to get through to him was force, so I punched him, got detenton sure, but haven't been messed with sence, It may not awlways be the best souluton, but it may work.
ShinyEevee2011 1 week ago
@ShinyEevee2011 Thanks for the tips man ;)
thecakeThief 1 week ago
@thecakeThief No prob, good luck!
ShinyEevee2011 1 week ago
Thank you for posting this :) Thank you for trying to help people going through depression. God bless you.
TheLadieLoLLipop 1 week ago
Okay, I'm not being a douche or a troll or whatever but I seriously do want to know. How do you get depression at 8? It's a serious question. I don't understand how you would get it. Please explain it to me?
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@Ineelia Wow. Sometimes it is inherited.. it can be passed on from other family members and then hits out of nowhere. And no one does anything about it because hey you're 8 how can you be depressed? The best you can do is just try and suppress it. It chills for a few years then pops back up. It's a bitch to deal with.
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@Ineelia Depression is more of a mental illness, and can be obtained at any age, it has to do with the serotonin and other chemicals transferred throughout the brain. Alot of ppl actually suffer from mild depression, but the people who commit suicide have it bad.
ExciteBike20 6 days ago
@ExciteBike20 many people who have severe depression can't kill themselves because they are afraid to die for different reasons, or they simply don't care a little bit and don't have enough power to kill themselves.
flummum 4 days ago
@flummum thats happening to me right now, i've tried to hang myself and cut myself, but i just cant go through with it...I can't step off the stool.
ExciteBike20 4 days ago
The hair coupled with the facial hair is awesome.
coldfyre18 2 weeks ago
.....SHAVE!!!!
poopingrobot 2 weeks ago
Anywhos, Im not expecting a reply, but I just started writing this and it felt good to vent and put it out there. Thanks! You're an amazing person, I wish more people were like you :)
Sorry for the three comment long rant, though, lol I didnt mean for it to be that long.. :P
sylviakitty348 2 weeks ago
But sometimes I feel like my parents only love me when I bring home an A. Theres this really prestigious college where I live, and my dad practically said he would disown me if I didnt get in :/ Its crap, but I have reading (love it!), writing, drawing, my cat, and now your videos! You truly seem to understand, and you're TOTALLY right about those well meaning words people tell you, the intent is great, but it doesnt help.Maybe I'll try that 100 jumping jacks thing...
sylviakitty348 2 weeks ago
Um, I'm kinda semi-depressed, I guess. I feel cranky and irritable and horrible and useless a lot of the time. I feel like I dont have anyone to go to, to talk to, anyone who would understand. I was made fun of in middle school and didnt even realize that all those people were actually teasing me, laughing AT me and not with me. I was "The Weird Girl" and didnt know it. Thankfully I moved, and the people here dont know me with that title. I'm not like that anymore, which is a relief.
sylviakitty348 2 weeks ago
I've never really felt depressed but think I have some symptoms and it's affecting my schooling. It's not extensive, just don't have any enthusiasm towards things (especially school). And I'm 15.
DillyDaDood 2 weeks ago
os one of best friends gets depressed all the time and me and her boyfriend r like sick of it cause as soon as she does she gets the worst thought and looks at me and says "im going go kill myself" but she never gets close enough for really harm her arms are carved with scares plz help me so i can help im seriously worried about her thanks u rock
iamadr3am3r 3 weeks ago
fail
junglejim519 3 weeks ago
lol plz dont judge
junglejim519 3 weeks ago
i have been in a bad place lately and watching bpl's videos r like away to escape and be happy i guess srry please judge
junglejim519 3 weeks ago
@Person8492 If seventeen people care I'd go to them for help.
SerenStroke 3 weeks ago
@omerDP Yeah, but for me I can't even pick up the bottle!
NinjaStrikeofDeath 3 weeks ago
depressions a bitch. Trust me
machswim 3 weeks ago 10
friend zone. 'nuff said
RogueLemonFTW 3 weeks ago
By the way i can help you guys as long as you ask.
OverseerThe 3 weeks ago
All of my role models are depressed
Citidarkmaster 4 weeks ago
yay for canada? we have depressed people i guess...
INDIEexperience 4 weeks ago
Hurm well the first thing is.You actually have a good lie it sound's like.Be thankfull your life is this good.Be happy you have a girlfriend dude even if she did use you.My parents got divorced.I have not talked to a girl in 4 year's that is my age or even close.And Only maybe only 4 people in the entire world care if im here or not.You got to flow with life bro.Be proud of what you do have :D.
TropicTributes 4 weeks ago
i fucking love your shirt :D
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you're by far my most favourite person on the youtubes :P
TheAlpineFisher 1 month ago
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TheAlpineFisher 1 month ago
dude you look like brad pit..........kinda.
megamomoify 1 month ago
For me i Try to turn depression into something fun ill look at myself in the mirror then laugh becuz wats ther to be depressed about watever happens happens if i die i die U only have one chance in this world,if u feel that u are not wanted?Look at yr past,wat many people important or not have done for u if they think of u as a nuisance they wouldnt see u no up but they tried to be the very best so sometimes u got to just let go of the past and look forward to the future
DragonDanielDean 1 month ago
Sorry for the second comment. Yesterday me and five other people were at the gym including her and my best friend. For the whole session they were talking. Then they both walked out of the gym together! When the session finished I went into the changeing rooms to get changed. Then I could hear kissing from the bathroom. Then they both walked out. This is killing me. I don't know what to do! I have tried to kill myself but I just couldn't. I feel so depressed right now.
SuddenlyImpulsive 1 month ago
I am at the worst stage of my life. About three years ago I moved into another school and things were going well. In the same class as me there was a really nice girl that I was crazy about. She would sometimes talk to me and would sit next to me most days. Things got complicated about five weeks ago. She started talking to one of my closest friends. I wasn't that worried becuase I thought this kind of thing would brush off.
SuddenlyImpulsive 1 month ago
Hey dylan what should I do the girl I like is Mormon and I dont want to wait till I'm 16 to date her what should I do
spearcrush7 1 month ago
@spearcrush7 man, Im not Dylan, but youve got it good. My girl is a jehovas witness, and even though were dating, she isnt technically aloud till 18, no sex till marriage, sex only for kids, nothing besides that. and tbh life is hard cus we have to sneak, and my parents and hers want us broken up. by the way, how old are you? if i knew more i could help.
INDIEexperience 4 weeks ago
hey my friend has that shirt
Natman890 1 month ago
i love you:-)
eiHannah 1 month ago
what makes me not depressed is listening to your music it just clears me out of all mad and sad thoughts
annalove9895 1 month ago
Thank you :)
janet07100 1 month ago
Dylan, you're one of the best people to talk to about these things, because we can relate to you, unlike all the other youtubers who just rant, you tell your stories and you talk to your fans and that's what makes you so much better for these sorts of things ^____^ :)
321xander 1 month ago
My Girlfriend she lied to me and dated behind my back and the day i found out about it she kissed me and we had sex i felt like she used me. i beat up her boyfriend and nothing good happened im failing every class i have and can't do anything right. i've cut nothing good ever comes and tried to poison myself and i'm still here. Can i do anything to fix all this? Im always faking my smile around my friends and they usually don't care. Only 17 people care if i'll die i want to fix this help me :c
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@Person8492 I can help. first things, clear up friends. if anyone isnt falling under the definition of friend then drop them away. if they want to be your friend they'll stay. Second get your game face on. fix those grades using extra time you mope around. third, take no BS. if someone really is serious with you they won't be cheating. if so tell them that kindly and leave em. if they really care they will stay. with all that, find some people who aren't D-bags and leave those who don't care.
OverseerThe 3 weeks ago
@Person8492 :'(
JakobRW 2 weeks ago
@Person8492 The one thing you have to remember is that it might only 17 people, but its still 17 people. That's what helped me get through my depression. Those 17 people love you and care about you, your lucky I only had 4. But I realized that I was blind and could not see how much they meant to me. So remember, 17 is a pretty big number. If you don't so it for yourself, do it for them.
ellisdylpo 2 weeks ago 2
@IrikeBubblez If people are commenting on the way you look, hang out with other people whenever possible. If one is to judge another by One's looks, he/she is not a true friend. If however it is simple bullying, talk to a trusted adult. You are probably thinking "I don't want to do that", you are not alone, but it helps, it really does
mooshap1 1 month ago
believe me never take a nap when you are depressed if you do you'll feel worse now try to get your mind off it its hard but try it or watch videos to get your mind off it or do what bananapielord did or do what you like to do or do what i do most of the time fool around on the guitar or somethin' i dont know do what you like to do it works
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i sometimes am sad... but not to the point of suicide, im just not happy sometimes. (im fat!)
IrikeBubblez 1 month ago
hi
StuddMcDonut 1 month ago
bpl next video could u talk about video game/internet addiction
kettlemypedals 1 month ago
this helped alot I've been bullied all my life because I have ADHD they say I'm 'weird, retarded' and I was at the brink of suicide thank you sooo much BPL
MultiClarkyboy 1 month ago
my dog died yesterday and my cat died two hours ago
applepielord667 1 month ago
Dude... My life f***ing sucks balls! You want to know why? Well first of all, I am 14, my mother shouts at me for the smallest things like getting a bit of dust in my room, my friends betray me, my girlfriend dumped me, I dont have anyone I can trust, my mom used to hit me before, so I lost my selfconfedence, the friends that still didn't betrayed me are in another country far away from me and I dont have the guts to suicyde... Help please, just if you answer this comment, it would help alot.
01dankeman 1 month ago
could you also help me/us with handling with stress im a musician myself to :) i liked the tip to put that feeling in making music i would like some more advice :)
berts1405 1 month ago
This helped out alot :)
MegaExpertkiller 1 month ago
BPL's Support Group? I'd go. (: Thanks Bipple
sebashin1 1 month ago
I finally found waldo
Sorcery93 1 month ago
My friend has recently lost everything that made him ... him, he says he doesn't like anything and doesn't care, my attempts to retrieve him from his sadness has backfired. I'm at a lost in what to do or say, even comforting hasn't helped him. Do you know what i could try next to get his old self back?
Kaldorei71 1 month ago
They are called endorphins Dylan. thats the happy stuff.
randomtuber700 1 month ago
:)
TheGopherTactic 1 month ago
are trying the hitler stash?
TheZxv18 1 month ago
Talk about boobs
PhatBoozie 1 month ago
BPL, I'd like if you could talk about trying to find the right people to be friends with. Recently I've been turning the wrong way in life, and I think my friends are causing it. I'm starting to think they're bad influences. Could you help?
RFPRFanFicWriter 1 month ago 2
ever hear of a razor???
bassdominator1 1 month ago
I can't draw when I'm depressed; Gaming sucks when I'm depressed. What I do is I call my friends on skype and just chat with them... I'm mostly depressed because of school. 'cause when I'm depressed, I can't remember and I can't even focus on things properly. Hope the exercises will work for me; I play tenis but it doesn't work at all.
Thanks BPL
Bubatu7 1 month ago
you could also talk about it to someone that might help you.
pyrovoooon24 1 month ago
well monty python told me to, always look on the bright side of life <3
murdochmonkey1 1 month ago
This video. Beautiful. I can't even. Why. I don't even know. Amazing.
BeckieFolkes 1 month ago
But now you're awesome! :3
MrTheAtli 1 month ago
bpl what was the first video game u got addicted to
kettlemypedals 1 month ago
@kettlemypedals probably WoW, that was his first LP
LPchampion 1 month ago
what does ur shirt say
kettlemypedals 1 month ago
@kettlemypedals support the right to arm bears... it has a picture of a bear holding a gun on it
Xipeify 1 month ago
@Xipeify haha lol
kettlemypedals 1 month ago
@kettlemypedals Support the right to arm bears
Donnnnnnny 1 month ago
whats up with the Hitler stash?
supermac18rocks12 1 month ago
Herp derp Dylan is good that he found his point of life :D
When I m really depressed I sit down and im improof my penspinning cause i saw it and i love it im not that good but i will get better and i think i make a video sometime =)
HeyHoRangerJooo 1 month ago
shave the stash bpl :D
death2cake 1 month ago
Making the world a better place with your vids. Im diagnosed with depression, attempted suicide when I was 14. Then I discovered Doom Metal. I just speaks to me like nothing else. I now consider myself to be happy with life, music has shown me beauty where I couldnt see it before. For those thinking of suicide: The last few moments before I lost conciousness were the most painfull moments of my life. No relief, just revultion at what I had done. Those moments still haunt me to this day.
syntheticskull 1 month ago 2
@syntheticskull that is probably the mosthelpful comment I have seen
TheMinecraftOtter 1 month ago
@TheMinecraftOtter I can hardly put that into words, let alone through the constraints of a youtube comment. Glad to know I could help though. If you ever want to talk feel free to send a pm :)
syntheticskull 1 month ago
Yeah do something about relations and girls and such
ppad3 1 month ago
he: you can pick music,school
Me: I pick youre videos
dejan3222 1 month ago 21
@dejan3222 yeah same mostly :)
he is really helpful to me
dgspandl2012 4 weeks ago
im 12 im on the suicide note but i kinda past it couse of my school well that was making me deperesed and i kinda got better at it so it kinda fix's it but my mum and me were allways in a fight if u know what do i mean so thats it from im gonna watch youre latest video
dejan3222 1 month ago
when i feel depressed i go into my spare room pick up some poxing gloves and start punching my punching bag
benben471 1 month ago
You look like my cousin, I miss him :c
KitaxNekoSama57 1 month ago
hey bipple, do something about relationships.
xxfangtimexx 1 month ago
Music makes me feel better when I'm depressed :D
skyground95 1 month ago
Make a video about the friend zone and how to get out of it (if possible)! I'd love to see that. :)
Ninterd2 1 month ago
I also Asked you this question :D
ChaosLel 1 month ago
you mustache looks silly as fuck lol
kodytube 1 month ago
@kodytube His moustache is amazing! :3
galxy65 1 month ago
BPL looks like moses, he is our saviour.
dvdylan 1 month ago
@dvdylan ALL HAIL BPL
steamempire 1 month ago
Thanx and uhmm...Can i touch ur beard?
Voxorol 1 month ago
Thank you so much dylan! you dont realise how helpful this has been to many people. and tbh i look up to you. your an inspiration to me and probably many other people. when i feel i need to block everything out and relax. i come to your videos. You should call this series Dylan's Dilema Tips Or something. people could ask you for advice on anything at all!!
Thank you for everything Dylan, I means the absolute world to me and others,
xxx
stylemakeup247 1 month ago 2
almosthitlerstache lol
TheGn0mi 1 month ago
this is your 2nd (or so) video you've made about theese deep subjects on demand. You are now the most caring person on youtube! Keep it up, Dylan <3<3
lolzHAXzOR 1 month ago
dont worry you have alot of people who love you and your vids GO BPL
LeG0BoY123 1 month ago
Fegelein Fegelei..... sorry i just... that thing over your lip well u are awezumm
EliasxSwe 1 month ago
Why are you so hawt! Oh god
ElvarPetur 1 month ago
go out of your house and do crazy thing(I don't mean suicide)
mnibbi98 1 month ago
I've gone through a lot in my life allready. I've been bullied, I have been in the hospital a couple of times (got run over by a car etc.) and i nearly died(30 more mins before opperation and i would been dead). I have suffered from 13 mental issues, and depression is one of them. I was VERY depressed, and when i was about to commit suicide(had rigged everything) i remembered Dyllan's words in his subscriber special. That saved my life. You saved my life. Thank you Dyllan. I love you <3 -bendik
NineofNorway 1 month ago
BPL You made my day, your so honest, and normally when people say " I know what your going through," I wish to punch them, but when you say it... It makes everything better. So thanks. We love you BPL don't forget <3
Meercatgal 1 month ago
Everything BPL said is true, 5 years ago my mum was struck down with an Aneurysm and is now paralyzed and on a lot of medication which has changed her into the most loving person to someone else, it made life difficult at home, I turned to gambling/excessive drinking, I lost 2 amazing relationships, got messed around in another which then got too much and then I tried to take my own life which I sincerely regret doing I have been on anti depressants since and music and exercise really has helped
Evisiling 1 month ago
Dear BPL,
Lately school has been seeming more and more difficult. I was wondering if you could maybe talk about school/work sometime. I do my homework and keep my grades up high, but going to school is like torture. Do you have any tips on how to enjoy it more?
-Zanthous
taisakukaizoku 1 month ago
@TheLastMinuteGamer Back off
galioth41 1 month ago
@xLuzyBoyx :) thx man
galioth41 1 month ago
im really depressed cause my mom just got diagnosed with cancer and we r moving i wont see my bff anymore im homeschooled and it sucks and iv never had a boyfriend an im only 13! DX
ninjacat512 1 month ago
@ninjacat512 You shouldn't try to move on to fast with your life(I tryed to move fast with mine and I relise that I'm almost 16 and pretty soon here I'm gonna have to find a job, and move out of my house, find and apartment, pay bills, and everything, just don't try to rush your life), just wait for the right guy to come along. Also, I';m very sorry about your mother, I sincerely hope she gets better.
MisterEclipse96 1 month ago 23
@MisterEclipse96 thx :)
ninjacat512 1 month ago
I'm going thru depression right now. Taking medicine and all. It really sucks. I completely understand what you are saying here.
Pointlessbullshizzle 1 month ago
may i rape that one who disliked?
xpl0ckx 1 month ago
I can't believe it... You don't answer my messages like this one but you answer his... Wow
galioth41 1 month ago
@galioth41 dont be such a ego ;) atleast he gave you a awnser now :)
xLuzyBoyx 1 month ago
@galioth41 probably your impatient and make a big deal out of it...
TheLastMinuteGamer 1 month ago
@galioth41 I'm not intending to imply insult or judgment here but I am curious to know in order to be able to respond to your posts in an appropriate manner, so please forgive what appears to be, but in fact is not intended as an insulting question:
Are you stupid?
xTeign 1 month ago
I would love if you talked about when you started making videos, you've said that you used to be anti social many times, which would also relate shyness or some sort. Did you have to gain a lot of confidence before making youtube videos? Or is it something where you just went for it and your confidence grew over time?
I would really love to start making my own commentaries, but I really don't have the confidence towards it.
monachachi 1 month ago
Dive in to something you enjoy eh? Ima gonna dive right into those Asian women!!!
MegaWeirdalyankovic 1 month ago
@BPL notto upset you about that I have a load mouth Forgive me for that but yeah :P
CrazyCooter88391 1 month ago
I suffer from a Learning Disorder, Tourettes and ADHD. I'm very anti-social, I don't like being around people (including my friends who I seem to resent), and it really sucks..It's so depressing not being able to control the way I am, I lose my temper a lot...I really don't know what to do right now.
Axisoflords 1 month ago
Straaaange moustache :p
Antimated666 1 month ago
@BPL ummmm is that a hitler slash regualr stash?
CrazyCooter88391 1 month ago
i was listening to the video but i couldnt stop looking at the shirt :P
Zed643 1 month ago
Thank you so much for this video, Dylan :) It means... well. the world to me that you would make a video like this. I've suffered from severe depression and anxiety for since I was 13, which I'm nearly 19 now, and just hearing from someone who knows what I'm going through is enough to put a smile on my face :) keep just being yourself, because it is absolutely perfect, and I know that all of us viewers can't even begin to try to express how grateful we are :)
Your loving fan,
Mikey :)
Buffaloxcore 1 month ago 48
You know, looking at you now, you're nothing like how I imagined you. XD But then again, now I have a good image of how you look and now I can imagine what kind of faces you're making. lol.
I knwo that this sounds out of place...but meh.
Destroyer91able 1 month ago
hey bpl, did you ever have problems with cutting yourself? I know its pretty fucked up but I've kinda been having problems with it lately and I just wanted to know if it ever got to that with you...
donutt42 1 month ago
@BPL Thank you for your words Dylan. You're a great guy not only for being yourself, but for being such a caring person. I haven't had much major depression lately since I started doing videos and writing, but I definately know you help a lot of people just by letting them know you care.
MkGrinngo 1 month ago
i too support the right to arm bears.
randomretardedpeanut 1 month ago
I've had depression since i was 9 and i'm 14 now. :/ it really sucks, and i think because i have it, its holding me back from having friends or even trying to be who i want to grow up to be in life :/
AnimeLuver2597 1 month ago
what do you do if your family is what depresses you and you have no choice but to go back to them daily?
katgirl28888 1 month ago
You need to be a councilor at my school.
no0bh4ter1 1 month ago 2
dylan ur to cute to be depressed! oh and... shave?
MrPokemon222222 1 month ago
the thumbnail for the video makes it look like a tornado is coming out of your hand
no0bh4ter1 1 month ago
since you posted this I'm putting pretty lady with with big boobs on your facebook page
Kraken160th 1 month ago
mein fuhrer?
Vespuhneguess 1 month ago
I need help (:
NinjaCookieHD 1 month ago
My Banana friend, thank you for trying to help people. I know you don't have all the answers but the fact that you still try to help is something to be commended. God bless you my friend, and I hope that you were able help someone
roxas006 1 month ago
at work I saw like a 60 year old dude with that same shirt on. Coolest old dude ever
c00lc0uch 1 month ago
Thanks for uploading a vid like this. I have been feeling shit lately due to a 2-3 year old injury wich have made me be in pain, all the time. Keep strong BPL;) 3
MilockP 1 month ago
*looks at self at end of video* How did my clothes come off? Oh Dylan, you certainly have a way with words...and somehow taking women's clothing off when they're not even in the same room...Otherwise, love this video ^^
chiisaiXtori91 1 month ago
Oh yeah, another thing. You should grow out a mountain man this No-Shave November.
Baltabak 1 month ago
Bro, when I saw your face on the thumbnail, then I jizzed in mah pants. I love you man, no homo.
I KNOW through personal experience what fixes depression: it's love. Love from someone. Sadly, it's up to someone else to do that. But yeah, if you know someone's who's depressed, just give them really genuine love.
Baltabak 1 month ago
Hey BPL:My sister's friend just died from (what i have heard) suicide.I almost cryed at the service but i held it in.But im still sad about her death because she was one of the 1st people i met when i moved (and i was pretty lonely at the time outside of school, so she was kinda like an older sister in a sense at the time).Idk how to deal with it,its making me scared of the fact that one of my best friends(that are like brothers to me)could die at a young age like her(15-16).I seek your guidance
RayMaster32 1 month ago
A tear came out of my eye, just now, when i remembered the death of my grandfather 2 years ago, i look back and realize what i did wrong, i hate myself for that, and i realized that i cant change it anymore, i love you grandpa, you will alwayse stay in my heart!-3
BPL thank you so much -3
THEgizmo302 1 month ago
Dude it really amazes me that after what you've gone through that you are the amazing person you are today. I think it's great that you want to help others. Much respect from me and from Canada -3
thegamingvlogger 1 month ago
well you are one of the people that we know that dealt with depression so thats why we ask
TheArkane228 1 month ago
:)
ghostax1 1 month ago
Amazing hair :D
orland96 1 month ago
BPL i have the exact same shirt that you do! =D just had to throw it out there..
ragiacomoable 1 month ago
Is it a hand lotion there on your table? >)
lazycurl 1 month ago
I like your advice bpl even thou i've never been depressed I love to just hear you talk :) I live one state above you btw!!! I'mma stalk you :)
TheDynastyAssassin 1 month ago
thx that really helped me out
1000Boulders 1 month ago
We need more vids Dylan
forceuser98 1 month ago
You upload at the perfect times. I was just starting to get depressed lately.
Charizard36 1 month ago
Thanks for all you have done my grandmother died early last year and your videos really made me laugh and feel better about the whole situation and for that I love you man<3
MrMadfrager 1 month ago
@MrMadfrager Oh gosh, I know it is to lose a grandmother. I was extremely close with mine, so it was one of the hardest things I had to go through. Best of luck, bro <3
Bananapielord 1 month ago
@Bananapielord my great grandfather died just this morning im very sad but your vids make me rofl thank you BPL
supermodel5011 1 month ago
Thank you for all of your videos BPL, they really have helped me with my depression :3 I love you, full homo bro <33
XTheSwissX 1 month ago
i really enjoyed your lets talk series, as i could relate to a lot of problems in it :).
Lordhotshot 1 month ago
I love you :3
Uberbabies 1 month ago
You are a god. I feel like crap most of the time, But your video cheers me up!! ;D
lukewind13 1 month ago
i advise people to take a 30 minute walk if you feel like you are going to let your depression and anger out on someone.
it really helps
Jvraz 1 month ago
Sorry I tried watching this but I got distracted by my fantasizing about making out with yoh
TheSuperGrizz 1 month ago
Does masturbation count as exercise?
ShockAndFox 1 month ago
Physical exercise and doing an enjoyed activity, got it.
Swordofswordom 1 month ago
I HAVE THAT SHIRT!!!!! :3= <---(walrus)---
SenorFatMan 1 month ago
I need to know if you're TRYING to grow a hitler stash or not.
Like that's a big thing for me right now
David11X 1 month ago