@stephanerdman Can you please delete the comments of MichaelColeSuckedME, they're very disturbing and I'm sure you wouldn't want comments like these on your video.
@MichaelColeSuckedME Just smile and look happy with being Ginger with a lot of spots, its not about sexyness, it's about how happy you look and good eye contact with women.
stephan sorry to say this but you will never understand... from what it looks like you probably attract women left and right therefore its easy for you to give tips to us more unlucky guys
if you were born on the unlucky side of societies standards of looks, i guarantee you wouldnt be making videos
i understand some ugly guys do get girls, but most ugly guys DONT get girls
@amouralizee because they have your mindset that looks actually matter. you just have to have a personality that is worthwhile and make her feel many emotions.
@illyas1 so your saying if i have a bomb ass personality, im funny, respectable, considerate, unselfish but i look like steve buschemi girls would pick me
over a guy who looks like denzel washington and only has minor quirks in his personality.
ok maybe in the LONG LONG run maybe the personality wins. but in terms of NOW and finding a sex partner and having fun while youre young. the ugly guy will NEVER win.
@amouralizee what would other people say about you though?you may think those things but not them.
99 percent of guys are in that mediocre zone in terms of looks. represent we are the 99 percent lol.to a woman looks logically matter but trust me they dont,time and time again i see ugly guys with 10s, trust me it aint because of the guys looks,it becuase he got "swagg"and thats what u need to find..
@amouralizee not all of them are good looking. do you know mystery? i wouldnt say he is above average for a guy but he is one of the best pickup artists. swagg isnt about with luck,with all things it takes practice.think about how good you are at whatever your good at,it took u some practice to get to that level.its not like this stuff is unlearnable,anything you can do bro.mind over matter.dont be afraid of getting wrong,even stephan got it wrong ,but he learned and thats all toit
hey Stephan, i somehow attracts girls who im not really into. They're nice but just not my type. GOt any advice for me in how to speak to them next time to keep it at a friend level?
i have a big problem dude! its a girl i realy like and she likes me too, but shes has a boy friend she was dumped by 1mouth now she dont feel right to have a boyfriend right now.. she says she needs more time ? what sould i do !!!! ;((( im crying here . beacuse im so in love with here plzz what the answear now , im feel pain .help. noww
Yea, u might be able to make her feel good, but for that to happen, she needs to like your physical appearance and that is something we know it's a big factor when it comes to dating.....sooo yess Stephan us ugly men are basically fucked, with all the respect I have for u and everyone else below, do u have something g to cure ugliness? I don't think so, so again...we are fucked!!
cause i think she want me start a convesation with her, plzz if you can help me with that by tuesday will be very VERY helpful! and we are have party the same week, what should i do in the party? plzzzzzzzzzz help! or replay " plz thumbs up everyone so he can help me out thanks
HI stephan Plz make a video respons of this question by before next tuesday!!!! ok, here is the Question! i have a girl a like realy like and i have heard that she likes me too, every time she look at me and smiling , and every time i logg on facebook she send me a messge , but every time i see her at school can have the confidence to talking to here . and now she never send me a messege on face, im a shy guy and i dont know waht to do! what should i do or say to her?
exactly. you know, there are some people who remind me of lava lamps. Nice, fascinating to watch during different times of the day but couple of hours later, you're starving. You know exactly what you need but unfortunately all you have are lava lamps. If you find at least a cup, you're gonna be a little bit relieved. With a cup, you could look for a tap to fill it with water; a lot more useful than a lamp. Oh and yes, sometimes voices can be a real turn off no matter how good looking he is.
I have personal found the net can be a great put of to meeting someone new. In my life outside the net I have dated several women that where taller then me. I am 5 foot 6 and I have dated women as tall as 6 foot. Chatting them up and making jokes about both are heights could be fun but on the net people are forced to make a shopping list of what they want in a partner and something s just don't workout like meeting without net.
Thx for the good news ill try and relax and be more out going,im learning its fun to tease women for the heck of it, they seem to respond to Neg behavior anyway, might as well, have some fun along the way..
i not good looking so i emphasize on understanding girls mostly with eyes because most when i look in to a girls eyes i feel i could understand them a little. some more some less
I love your advice, you mention situations and circumstances that really suit me. I have found confidence and knowledge because of your videos. Thank you
Everything you said it's truth. but to make a first move, well...it's a little bit difficult. Ooooo, but when you're drunk...everything's easy than. But, no results.
Case 1: Hugh Hefner. He looks like a wrinkly piece of dead something, but he always has amazingly hot women around him because he makes them feel amazing and beautiful and special. Money helps too.
@alehax27 Don't change your personality, just don't hide it. If you change who you are and a girl likes that person, you'll never be comfortable being yourself around her and she'll never really like you for who you are. If you're just trying to get laid, this is fine, but if you want a real relationship, be yourself so girls who are attracted to you are attracted to the real you.
thanxs
mastermind23ify 2 weeks ago
I get your ideas.
zyzll 3 weeks ago
How to be attractive to guys?
zyzll 3 weeks ago
@zyzll Be good looking. Haha
VladiKun 3 weeks ago
i just love how he has the balls to record this outside in public...
im guessing he might be ugly but very strong man who can beat the shit out of anyone who makes fun of him ;)
rashad2312 3 weeks ago
I love you man. -3 XD
AgedHarmonics 1 month ago
@AgedHarmonics you forgot to say no homo, dude! but ya, that's some gold stuff.
gilakot 1 month ago
XD the kids starts running in the backround at 3:35
Swiggitrican 1 month ago
0:59 AHAHHAAHAHAHAH OMG you did so so accurately like those stupid girls...
stephan, this has hapend to me and i was like :O WoW and now seeing you i went like WoW :O
P.S.keep up the good work i am subscribed to your newsletter and i read them every day!
pumamanremalaka 1 month ago
hi , so once we subscribe can we use the same email to watch your free videos?
or hows that work ? thanks for putting out or vidz bt hopefully ur not reverse hypnotising me ..........
john50358 2 months ago
@stephanerdman Can you please delete the comments of MichaelColeSuckedME, they're very disturbing and I'm sure you wouldn't want comments like these on your video.
JimmyTheWiseGuy 2 months ago
you are goood....you're goood....nooo you ! :D
Jonkata89 2 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
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monteoly 2 months ago in playlist Meer video's van stephanerdman
I've watched a lot of different people talk about dating and attraction etc but your videos theoretically make sense. Good work man.
iChribuscus 2 months ago in playlist More videos from stephanerdman
i pissed myslef laughing at the funny voice bit and i have to be quiet parents sleeping in the next room
OzzTonWentToSpace 2 months ago
You really smart
jordans4444 2 months ago
....You just ARE a fuckin star man!!
peteryyz43 2 months ago
help me look more attracting if i am a ginger and have alot of spots how can i look sexy?
MichaelColeSuckedME 2 months ago
@MichaelColeSuckedME Just smile and look happy with being Ginger with a lot of spots, its not about sexyness, it's about how happy you look and good eye contact with women.
JimmyTheWiseGuy 2 months ago
@JimmyTheWiseGuy STFU AND EAT MY SHIT
MichaelColeSuckedME 2 months ago
@MichaelColeSuckedME Fuck you, Ginger mofo
JimmyTheWiseGuy 2 months ago
@JimmyTheWiseGuy thats what i thought you fake dumb asswipe shie EAT MY SHIT
MichaelColeSuckedME 2 months ago
i feel like forever alone by watching this :P
MrFJ95 2 months ago
stephan sorry to say this but you will never understand... from what it looks like you probably attract women left and right therefore its easy for you to give tips to us more unlucky guys
if you were born on the unlucky side of societies standards of looks, i guarantee you wouldnt be making videos
i understand some ugly guys do get girls, but most ugly guys DONT get girls
amouralizee 2 months ago
@amouralizee because they have your mindset that looks actually matter. you just have to have a personality that is worthwhile and make her feel many emotions.
illyas1 2 months ago
@illyas1 so your saying if i have a bomb ass personality, im funny, respectable, considerate, unselfish but i look like steve buschemi girls would pick me
over a guy who looks like denzel washington and only has minor quirks in his personality.
ok maybe in the LONG LONG run maybe the personality wins. but in terms of NOW and finding a sex partner and having fun while youre young. the ugly guy will NEVER win.
amouralizee 2 months ago
@amouralizee what would other people say about you though?you may think those things but not them.
99 percent of guys are in that mediocre zone in terms of looks. represent we are the 99 percent lol.to a woman looks logically matter but trust me they dont,time and time again i see ugly guys with 10s, trust me it aint because of the guys looks,it becuase he got "swagg"and thats what u need to find..
illyas1 2 months ago
@illyas1 ok so why is it that most guys who do make these "how to pick up chicks" video , are actually good looking.
youd never see a guy who looks like zack galifianakis make a video on how to pick up women.
and swag really only comes with luck. if i had a lot of female friends growing up and some of em digged me, id have swag right now.
but most guys that watch this video werent chick magnets therefore they dont have swag, and unfortunately thats the hardest thing to develop
amouralizee 2 months ago
@amouralizee not all of them are good looking. do you know mystery? i wouldnt say he is above average for a guy but he is one of the best pickup artists. swagg isnt about with luck,with all things it takes practice.think about how good you are at whatever your good at,it took u some practice to get to that level.its not like this stuff is unlearnable,anything you can do bro.mind over matter.dont be afraid of getting wrong,even stephan got it wrong ,but he learned and thats all toit
illyas1 2 months ago
@amouralizee The best advice is to pick on insecure girls actually.
rurounikenshin75 2 months ago 2
What about when you don't have a lot of money, or a great job? This also limits the close one can buy?
Greenmist14 2 months ago
hey Stephan, i somehow attracts girls who im not really into. They're nice but just not my type. GOt any advice for me in how to speak to them next time to keep it at a friend level?
minhmeo1209 3 months ago
i have a big problem dude! its a girl i realy like and she likes me too, but shes has a boy friend she was dumped by 1mouth now she dont feel right to have a boyfriend right now.. she says she needs more time ? what sould i do !!!! ;((( im crying here . beacuse im so in love with here plzz what the answear now , im feel pain .help. noww
ArcezHD 3 months ago
Yea, u might be able to make her feel good, but for that to happen, she needs to like your physical appearance and that is something we know it's a big factor when it comes to dating.....sooo yess Stephan us ugly men are basically fucked, with all the respect I have for u and everyone else below, do u have something g to cure ugliness? I don't think so, so again...we are fucked!!
MrKilla3030 3 months ago
Also if you can perform REALLY good oral sex on a girl, I've heard that that makes up for a lot too.
bg11215 3 months ago
cause i think she want me start a convesation with her, plzz if you can help me with that by tuesday will be very VERY helpful! and we are have party the same week, what should i do in the party? plzzzzzzzzzz help! or replay " plz thumbs up everyone so he can help me out thanks
VectzHD 3 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos 5
HI stephan Plz make a video respons of this question by before next tuesday!!!! ok, here is the Question! i have a girl a like realy like and i have heard that she likes me too, every time she look at me and smiling , and every time i logg on facebook she send me a messge , but every time i see her at school can have the confidence to talking to here . and now she never send me a messege on face, im a shy guy and i dont know waht to do! what should i do or say to her?
VectzHD 3 months ago in playlist Uploaded videos 17
london national theatre!!! sorry that was inappropriate i just recognise the yellow stairs :)
MsAbercrombieFitch 3 months ago
exactly. you know, there are some people who remind me of lava lamps. Nice, fascinating to watch during different times of the day but couple of hours later, you're starving. You know exactly what you need but unfortunately all you have are lava lamps. If you find at least a cup, you're gonna be a little bit relieved. With a cup, you could look for a tap to fill it with water; a lot more useful than a lamp. Oh and yes, sometimes voices can be a real turn off no matter how good looking he is.
QuoGirl 3 months ago
Looks attract the eye but personality attracts the heart.
Amen.
BboySuperFreeze 3 months ago
I have personal found the net can be a great put of to meeting someone new. In my life outside the net I have dated several women that where taller then me. I am 5 foot 6 and I have dated women as tall as 6 foot. Chatting them up and making jokes about both are heights could be fun but on the net people are forced to make a shopping list of what they want in a partner and something s just don't workout like meeting without net.
MicrosoftsourceCode 3 months ago
KK thats cool after i finish giving your girl a hard banging i will tell Angelina to stop calling you
ImOneOfUhKind 3 months ago
HAHA jokes on you i am Brad Pitt :D
ImOneOfUhKind 3 months ago 4
@ImOneOfUhKind Oh, Hey Brad, thanks for watching. Tell Angelina not to keep calling me after 11, ok? Even I need some sleep! S. ;-)
stephanerdman 3 months ago 67
Thx for the good news ill try and relax and be more out going,im learning its fun to tease women for the heck of it, they seem to respond to Neg behavior anyway, might as well, have some fun along the way..
karlbuttler 3 months ago
This is true...all my ex boyfriends were pig ugly.
andicatz 3 months ago
@andicatz lol ! ahahhaa
TheYanislav 3 months ago
i not good looking so i emphasize on understanding girls mostly with eyes because most when i look in to a girls eyes i feel i could understand them a little. some more some less
allanpeter7700 3 months ago
i think you have to be calm and mostly the eyes.SMILE with your EYES
allanpeter7700 3 months ago
Is that southbank?
classic1984 3 months ago
i fell to the ground laughing at 1:02, great video btw :D
dmohr7 3 months ago
I love your advice, you mention situations and circumstances that really suit me. I have found confidence and knowledge because of your videos. Thank you
Astroghouls 3 months ago
Everything you said it's truth. but to make a first move, well...it's a little bit difficult. Ooooo, but when you're drunk...everything's easy than. But, no results.
versa2004 3 months ago
Very, very, very true... "hot" woman with not a quite so good looking guy!
mjuliadot 3 months ago
really nice video....
and I like your possitive way of thinking anything....
Have a great life
sandepan1900 3 months ago
we should start approaching females randomly, I know all the theory just need to fu**ing start... :D
moviescorner 3 months ago
I don't want to tell her I like her,not yet, because I don't want her to feel awkward with me. I'm really close to her, a best friend.
brozac1011 3 months ago
How can I make my close friend(girl) to like me and not remain just best friends?
brozac1011 3 months ago
Case 1: Hugh Hefner. He looks like a wrinkly piece of dead something, but he always has amazingly hot women around him because he makes them feel amazing and beautiful and special. Money helps too.
CubexDE 3 months ago
6:16 Except it?! It's true! I've seen ugly guys with pretty girlfriends?! And me thinking to myself how is this possible?
Greatwhite75 3 months ago
Its really all about confidence. But its true that some girls are just plain picky at times, aren't we all?
TheTruth285 3 months ago
Personality is really hard to change without seeming fake.
alehax27 3 months ago
@alehax27 Don't change your personality, just don't hide it. If you change who you are and a girl likes that person, you'll never be comfortable being yourself around her and she'll never really like you for who you are. If you're just trying to get laid, this is fine, but if you want a real relationship, be yourself so girls who are attracted to you are attracted to the real you.
CubexDE 3 months ago
Stand up video Stephan, you're the truth. I'm ordering your program right away.
13Blaster31 3 months ago
"Ew,! I don't like you really "XD
eyeoftiger101 3 months ago
If you feel like Shit, then you look like Shit
If feel Good, then you look Good
Datruebdizzy7285 3 months ago 14
im sexy and i know it
ThatGuyNamedTim 3 months ago
this is why you see ugly ass guys with hot girls. good stuff stephan
drumaboy200 3 months ago 28
Go on a date and record it!
LaughGames 3 months ago 2
what hair product do you use?
kpgpwi64 3 months ago 4
'im basically fucked' lol
shimenga1 3 months ago 5
Feel great about yourself and you naturally emit that energy to the women in your presence.
DaZ316x 3 months ago
moral of the story is to make her feel good. sorted.
dominionphoenix 3 months ago
Yeah i hate it when that happens very sexy girl and then she has a donkey voice.
P.S.beauty is in the eyes of the beholder people just keep your head up. Confidence!
LAYITLOOSE 3 months ago
i appreciate bro
Isyck1337 3 months ago
thanks for the tips man! I'm feeling more confident after every video :)
keep up the good work
PS:lol...filming on the street :P
Ificationer 3 months ago