When you are dating someone more accomplished than you are....

[Shuukyou]

dude you make me feel better about meself

[MasterFlores75]

your the best brother keep them coming! your advice always helps me alot, God bless you with more succes for it! :D

[InTune500]

This guy can get a nun into bed

[rowsdower12]

I needed to hear this. I struggle with this. Just feeling inferior to people who are more "successful" than I am. Doesn't have to be just girls. But its intimidating to date cause I don't make much money. but I know I must fight the lies and you hit it on the head. American culture really puts a persons worth in what they do when in reality that's only a part of it but its not all of it. There is more to a person.

[avenger1000]

I forgot all about this channel but I will begin viewing again. You have great content.

[hubomba]

I think it depends how you define success alot of the time.

[honeydewim]

Truly a blessing in disguise...

[jhead1212]

What if you been trying to show her that Im growing... and still stays with me (emotionally/Physically) eventhough, she goes on "dates" .....she complains about my immaturity, and things I havent done for you emotionally, but still wants me, I notice I have insecurities that I never felt before...I always been a type who always had beautiful women, but with this one girl I feel inferior because she posses traits I strive for...Would that hinder growth of awareness?

[cdixon5150]

If your a dude who makes a lot less money or are far less accomplished than the girl you are with, either move to a higher social status or be prepared to be eventually kicked to the curb. Women by their very nature seek qualities ina man that make them feel protected..thata man can provide and take care of them. Even if they make a lot or have alot, they eventually won't respect you if their position in life is higher.

[TiPhiJo93]

The FPS Russia of Love.

[elbatimisoara]

That is exactly how it works. Yes Sir !!

[letsfixthis]

arkady did you change apartments? or is this your office?

[recaked]

I'm a college student and I recently went on a date with a career woman with good money. I felt kind of inferior, but I shouldn't like you said. Loving someone is more than just money and status.

[cdoggyfizzle]

hahaha! this my nigga, man!

[GandhiLama]

My bf is far more successful in all aspects of life than me, but with every new achievement he praises me and gives me credit for supporting him. I know one day all of our dreams will come true, and I don't feel less because we play different roles in our relationship and we need of each other to accomplish all our goals.

[arkady39]

@GandhiLama Well, this is a wonderful dynamic you have. It sounds like your boyfriend is not only successful but he also has the maturity and humility that compliments his success. Guys often have a harder time with women's success than the other way around.

[harpkang]

The 2 dislikes of people are inferior !

[schu2020]

You have the coolest accent! Thanks for posting more videos more frequently.

[HOUSEtwisted]

very useful video for guys with low self esteem

[rainshot]

your argument is good and you should feel good

[maxauto44e]

#realtalk

[kingbarneyoflondon]

What about the other way around ? How does the more accomplished one deal the relationship ?

[arkady39]

@kingbarneyoflondon

Great question. A little modesty and humility will go along way.

[MrStighl]

@centuian She'll ditch you for me then.

[TheBiggamer64]

great video arkady

[123finallyfriday]

THANK YOU! for this video, I really needed this!!!

[DrumChanel]

And know we are not all called to the same "level" of success. I am actually seeking a mate who wants to be a homemaker while I continue to work. We all have a purpose and all have different gifts to give our spouse and this world.

[bettydude]

Your videos are very helpful and always relevant, but after watching your videos and being gay, now I want a date with you. Can we practice your ideas? :-)

[5my9other93half]

I used to be in that situation, I ended up having to break it off. Saddest part is, she was the first girl I truly fell in love with and I couldn't get over my insecurities.....oh well, we live and we learn. Thanx for the video.

[Blizzard500]

Great video as always. Love the new office background over the old kitchen counter.

[arkady39]

@Blizzard500 :) Thank you. I won't make any more kitchen videos but I will keep the old videos on for the sentimental value...

[Designozour]

WHY DOES THIS HAVE SO LITTLE VIEWS?!!!???

[Darthbelal]

@Designozour Uhm, because this video has only been up for a day or so? Just guessing on that one.

[sugarhighwhoo]

Thanks a lot man this is actually very relevant and it helps a lot.

[shbomb]

Awesome video, thanks for talking about this because it applies to me a little and it was great advice to reinforce in my head. I just started dating someone who I see as more successful than me not financially or educationally, but more in terms of social skills, life experience and well... just being a cool & interesting person. But one time I told her I'm afraid I might be a bit boring, and she kissed me & said "I don't date boring guys!" So arkady, you must be right :D

[TheBiggamer64]

@shbomb aw nice to hear.

[grasscutter88]

I don't see why a woman would brag about how much more accomplished they are. Not really anything good would ever come out of it as far as the relationship goes.

[a7sana7dat]

u r good !

[Super4Truth]

I love this guy!!!!!...thank you

[silverdark43]

woooohooooooo

arkady!!!!!!

thank you



[TheodorusRex]

i dig

[paulojungmann]

Excellent!

[jradetzky]

yeah, I once was going out with a lady that--thanks Google--I knew was far above me. I couldn't understand what she saw in me that made her so happy, but whenever we went out she was always laughing and there was a spark in her eyes. Unfortunately, the relationship didn't work out because of my own insecurity and issues.

[jradetzky]

so true, so true

[GearsDemon]

This guy is always 100% on.

[kiljanettew]

thank you!!

[tucsondog]

I would love to have a beer with this guy...

[MrGdawg818]

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