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[GunsNRosesTrans]

See FETLIFE for more on the subtleties of BDSM...as it is a vast topic with many layers.

[dougarr]

you can write whatever you want but still BDSM is total lack of respect

to another human being.

sorry for my bad english.

[JosePablo24]

@dougarr Except if the other person agrees? dont you think

[wishcraft4u2]

It always seems to me like there are way more men who are into this thing than women. Your explanation makes it sound like its difficult for such women to find someone "compatible" or something. It seems much harder the other way round, somehow...

Especially when its not just confined to sex. It seems like this feminine position as object of desire is the last thing women will ever give up to their male partner.

tl;dr: where do I find such women? lol!

[GunsNRosesTrans]

@wishcraft4u2 FETLIFE>...the "facebook' for Kinksters...

[hare122275]

Being bi, my enjoying of being pegged is a given. But I can see how a hetero guy could like it too. The reall issue is how society views masculinity and femininity and how each is valued. For as "tough" as masculinity is supposed to be, it's so easy to shatter because it has all of these bullshit guidelines.

[marthanyc]

I don't agree with you, at all. I'm not butch or even remotely interested in playing with pussy in bed....BUT, I love, love, love to explore boy's bodies. It's a fact, men are just gorgeous creatures who's every orifice need to be FULLY explored - and I'm the woman for the job. Tall, slim and with foreign accents just drive me insane. Someone's gotta do it....Why not me? I've got the skillllzzz and the inclination.

[marthanyc]

@marthanyc :-) Gawd, i'm so horny right now.

[amodamian]

I was transgender mistress before going back now I am a man but I dare not even as a male dominating impact will not be here in my country I'm from peru mistressdemmi now my name is mishell a hug from a distance

[southern47]

My slave serves Me by using her strap on me. Its what I want and she enjoys it.

[gamerChilliad]

still misandry........

[bimlove2]

I totally agree with you StraightQueer, and that's what i've often thought of.

[bimlove2]

I totally agree with you StraightQueer, and that's what i've often thought of.

[LaffinLykShizzle]

Now I know how to describe my relationship with my gf. She loves to play with my tits and finger me, and occasionally she fucks me. Her mood dictates who's the giver and the taker in thebedroom. Its more fun that way.

[lautour]

I hope this is not too personal, but I want to explore why "BDSM" has to be the only way for a woman to be allowed to penetrate. Why must there be a "I dominate-you submit" narrative at all? I like the idea of "exploring boy's bodies" and actually identify very strongly with that feeling, but it's not because I am "womanizing" them through domination, which is what so much of BDSM is about. Any thoughts?

[StraightQueer]

I think that BDSM provides a supportive environment for people to explore desires which are taboo. BDSM creates a social space for Sex Positivity and Body Positivity in San Francisco. Tantra, Polyamoury and Neo-Pagan social formations also support their own flavors of Sex Positive Social Geography in Northern California.

Fabs (female at birth) exploring Mab bodies violates cultural assumptions about gender. In hegemonic America is is invisible.

[StraightQueer]

I believe that sexuality is always a giving and receiving. Hegemonic America labels giving as Mal At Birth (Mab) sexuality and receiving as Fab Sexuality.

Giving is translated as dominance or Topping in BDSM culture and Femme and Butch in lesbian Butch/Femme culture where they are explicitly decoupled from Fab/Mab.

It is also sometimes translated into an older woman younger man relationship, which also been the subject of taboo.

Most people I've talked to have a preference for one or the other.

[DomBarber]

@lautour interesting comment

[PLERF]

Thanks for that. Now I know why I am attracted to bull dykes.