Same for me but if u thonk about it wat makes them so cool?
It might be clothing ,personality or just outgoing.
But u shud slowly work ur way in the conversatipn with small steps and remember be urself and dnt try to be something ur not n i now learned that the more u talk to a girl the more confident youll be around a group of ppl
Talkative,outgoing bubbly people need to do their part and get to know the shy person...instead they like to make the shy person feel like crap and point a flaw in them to make themselves feel like they're superior in the social latter.
Why can't outgoing people just say "Hello, how are you doing? My name is Amanda what is yours?."
I think if more outgoing people can do this and make shy people comfortable in social settings...we would live in a much better world.
i hav a girlfriend now, but i only recentally asked her out and she doesnt seem thhaat into me but we were good driends before. wut do i do when shes talkin to her friends? should i approach her?
Women who are shy are not frowned upon as badly as shy men. All I can say is if you are shy guy, participate in as many activities as you can. Play as many sports as you can. And be willing to take physical risks in these sports. I am determined to overcome my shyness even if I break myself in the process!
I'm kinda weird this way but I'm like all out going and not really shy but when certain people come around like the kids that everyone calls " cool" I just automatically shut up! I don't like it I guess in afraid they will think im weird or something HELP!
like everytime i walk let's say to a mall people always stra at me..and i dont why -_- please help!! thx.. Hmm my brother has a girlfriend..and she says "ashley can u hand me my jacket and she says thank u". and i say nothing.. i was wondering if u could help me on that.. too!!
@gummynumberone dude... that was rude. She probably is on fb but that doesn't mean that she will accept you as a friend. She probably doesn't even know you...
This is funny how day after I finally make my New Year's resolution (On Febuaury 8th btw -very sad- ahha) about how I wanna be more out going at school I happen to find your vid. Ya Im in seventh grade and I have slowly gotten more friends and have opened up more and stuff but I am still holding back so ya your vid will most likly work wonders
Anyway can you maybe make a vid on like how to make a guy notice you/ how to get a bf or even how to just get his number and get to know him.
@11940ful Iam still shy but Iam getting over it by doing alot of public speaking(which I never thought in a million years I would be doing given my shy state)But by doing public speaking,it has helped me to speak to people with more authority and confidence.There was a time in were I could not look a person directly in the eye! But now I can do it without a flinch:).Communication goes a long way in every facet of life.Hey stay positive and things will work for the better.
@11940 hey I understand what you are going through and can relate as well.Thats right if your friends can't accept you for being shy! Then get new friends and I see from your comments that you have taken action in that department:)Iam also shy as well and I hate being in big crowds of people,being in that surrounding makes me want to crawl under a rock and hide.
I've been shy sense I was 6 years old and it gradually got worse. Now in my sophmore year at highschool, I don't talk at all, only when someone talks to me. Sometimes, I will go out of my comfort zone and say something, but it doesn't feel great. I wish I could just be myself without being afraid of people. Also, I'm starting to get a human phobia. :(
Thanx for the vid :) it's good advice. I'm the same as you were! I hit 10 and I just shut down. I'm 18 now and going to college. And I had a horrible time in high school. I was always by myself during lunch, rallies, group assignments. Now it's time to stop being shy and move on. I won't let myself go through the same thing as H.S. I'm gonna do whatever it takes to shake this shyness. Thanx again and u r very beautiful! :DD
Imma show this vid to my daughter I think it will help, I feel like she over compensates and she becomes a bit over boisterous bordering on rude with sarcasm. and its all because she is scared of what ppl might think of her or judge her.
I'm just like u outgoing and confident but people started bullying me so i stoped talking because that made the bullying stop but now I'm finished school I'm really shy :( I'm getting help for it tho :)
why iam only shy when i have to talk out loud too my school project i get nerves and shaking so how can i over come it that all i good with everyone but when talking in front of the class i get shy and crap need help
@xpinkyxox Honestly, this is how I view things, who cares what others think. As long as you love yourself, then it doesn't matter what people think about you. Check out my video "The Positive List- Gaining Confidence". It will help you focus on the good things about you.
Another tip is to say even a simple hi and a smile is good enough and theres a good chance they'll smile and say hi back. Im shy too and I find this helps me feel confident and also feel more confortable around people when I do this.
Anyone feel like committing suicide? Because of their look? and lonelyness.....sadness.... I know nobody cares..but, I cant take it anymore, im killing myself. goodluck with your lifes. I shall rest in peace.... :(
@PartyLikeARockstarr9 Man, many people would say my life fucking sucks. Not because I'm getting bullied or anything. You just need to find something to live for. I play guitar. It gave me a reason to live. I want to become famous. It's just a dream, but it keeps me alive.
IM shy and all the girls come to me telling me im cute and everything. All the boys are calling me retarded because they say all the girls are over you but i dont make a move. IM TO SHY. i can get a gil easy but IM TO SHY :(
I am really shy. I was the same really outgoing and fun to be around until I was in 6th grade. I lost all my confidence. I am in eighth now. I want to get out there I am tired of not having really any friends. I dont know what to say. I want to start a conversation but have no idea how to keep if flowing after whats your name or next period?? Barely this boy said he didnt like me cause I am "shy as shit" and it really hurt. I need some help!! please): I cry cause i am too shy.
i hate being so shy and i know that is completely stems from my appearance. i am 18 and a guy so i think i must be the only shy guy in the world :( i feel that as soon as i talk people will just take the piss or say something hurtful :/
to all the shy people just remember, everyone is more worried about themselves & probly thinking the same thing your thinking. but the key is not to think too much and just think about the end of the day, like planning, goals, whats next? if that dont work..talk to someone, if your the shy type that hates talking then you seriously need to exercise! keep your mind and body active
why are people so stupid? i mean, this chick definitely doesn't know what she's talking about, she makes shy people look like they're an human error or something like that(shut down, really?)... i used to be shy, but necessity made me change my ways in life so,in my opinion, "shy" people need to learn to fuck everyone around them if they wanna feel comfortable and need to learn not to care about those around them since we're all human beings and make mistakes. period.
well i feel that if i am not the perfect person then i cannot talk to people or people wont be interested in me. like because i am not 6'2 and good looking then people wont take me seriously and girls will just laugh at me, it is crazy really but i am probably the most shyist person i know.
I started getting really shy when i started 7th grade and now that im a freshmen i really hate it! And i don't know how to change that... It holds me back from alot of things.
I been shy my entire life.When people meet me they can tell right away that im shy.Now that Im 19,its not as bad as it once was.But I did get to a point about a year ago when I became fed up with being a shy girl.My advice to ANYONE would be this:"ACCEPT that you are shy, & don't try and hide it!"I spent most of my time trying to change the fact that I'm shy & hide it,but when I got to the point where I just accepted who I was,that's when I began to see a change!Message me if you have questions!
@musicproducer16 I like shy girls and so do a lot of guys. A lot of them think it's really cute. You're right don't change who you are. But you do have to open up a little bit otherwise a guy will think you're not interested.
@musicproducer16 Well...I'm in my mid 20s and i still can't accept that i am that way! I'm always surrounded by people who remind me that i am THAT!!!! Like it's bad...Like it's wrong! I know that bcuz i lack confidence it's holding me back a whole lot! I just lack so much social skills that u have no freaking idea... Idk...last night i kinda cried about it...I was like I'm me...everyone is different with different personality...Why can't they just get that!
@11940ful Idk why some people have a hard time accepting that everyone has different personalities. Quiet as its kept...EVERYONE has some form of shyness. The only thing that make you different from them is that your LEVEL of shyness is different. There's no such thing as a person never being shy,ever. Thats like saying theres a such thing as someone who never gets angry. smh. If your friends can't accept the fact that your shy then you need new friends. I just hope your family isn't doing that!
@musicproducer16 I've gotten rid of 2 friends...When it comes to family...My mom and sister they know if as the softy so i was kinda like a rag doll and a punching bag to them... Treating me horribly like i'm nothing and then act like nothing happened and even asking me for my address to send me birthday cards and stuff! I tried to be positive...i don't want to think that everyone is like that but once they see that ur quiet, shy and stuff ur automatically the fucking target!
@gummynumberone I just told myself that I am shy, and that I accept myself as a shy girl. I stopped thinking of ways to please others or to amount to the person THEY feel I should be. Not everyone has to be super outgoing. The truth is, there will always be someone who finds something wrong with you or something they feel you should change. No matter how many times we change and alter ourselves, there will always be something that someone will see in us and not like. So why change?
I'm in 7th grade and I've been incredibly shy since kindergarten, no one likes me, when we have to pick a partner I have none, I say 4 words a day at school, I have NO FRIENDS and everyone hates me. Im a loner and I need major help but Im not really this person! Im crazy at home and I wish I could express the real me I love sharing my feelings like im doing now but i cant talk at school :(((((( you guys dont know how bad it is
what to do (if you are a boy) i'm also a little shy but i started throwing parties, people started to like me , i became more popular, girls started to like me too , and i just kinda forgot about this ..being shy thing...( and how not to be shy at parties... well a little bit of alcohol solves a lot of problems)
I wasnt ever shy until 7th grade i always was popular and had alot of friends but i moved to a new school and i got in a group of friends and i said the wrong thing and they all abandoned me so i learned to just not say anything at all and now i have some friends that i know will never abandon me if i say the wrong thing because now i dont say anything! But im begining to regret being shy but i dont know how to be popular i just feel like if i do something or say wrong noone will like me!
i tryed to overcome my shyness but i get terrifide if someone i dont know talks to me even if teachers say things to me i freaz , go red and my throught closes and im like that with almost everyone also no one wants to talk to me its like no one cares also it feals like peopl are only my friend when they want somthing ... i have my shyness and if people do talk to me i blurt out random tings land then people bac away ,its just i got noting to say
But lately I haven't been leaving the house much on my off days and there are days when I hardly get any sleep because of my job. Anyhow does lack of sleep and not leaving the house affect your confidence and attitude much? Please answer.
Great video LuciaLight100. I went to work today and barely got any sleep (only 4 and a half hours ) and I had a difficult time following your tips. Sleep plays an important part for confidence and positive attitude? Am I right? Anyhow I do agree 100% that your 4 tips do work because I actually did those in this past and had great results.
This is about to be soo long ahaha but I completely know how everyone of you guys is coming from. honestly. I really didnt start being shy until I was like 8 or 9, I was the most funniest insane loud kid from when i was like 2-8 or 9 and then I just completely stopped talking, Most the time theres a reason for being shy. Its never like from heredity. And shes right, fake it until you make it. Say whats on your mind, dont hold back, If someone dont like what you say, forget them. for real.
@sodapopluvable same thing with me ! you are not shy and quiet.. they want to make you feel that way just to make it seem like something wrong with you. there is nothing wrong with you . they are TOXIC . they don't want to communicate with you so that's why they would say those things. It's not you..It's them, so don't feel bad hun:)
The same happened to me i was really outgoing and when i went into 5th grade (i was 10) i stopped bieng outgoing and really shy i only had 1 friend wich was really sad cuz when my family asked me how many friends i had I lied to them and said like a lot. I'm now in middle school and im still shy, but to some ppl im a little more outing...... Thx for the tips, and I love your hair, Keep up the good work :)
@sarahgonzales2 try not to let the things people say or call you get to you try not to let it hurt you and eventually just like me you will grow immune to it and if that doesn't work try being nice to the people that hurt you because honestly when your nice to them when they're being mean it completely screws up their system. And as regards to talking with people you gotta find common interests plus start off with basic things such as what's ur name or where r u from this'll most likely get thi
I've heard this alot of times but idk.. hearing it come from you made me feel like REALLY wanting to do it.. gave me the will. So Yeah, Favorites.. and I'll fake it till I make it. ;D
I don't like cheerleading much.. but since there were so few people in it at my school.. I just had to join.. the group looked empty soo yeah 0.o I am now in cheerleading and i feel like I'm going to suck but oh well..
@sarahgonzales2 i know how you feel im in middle school and really shy and once this girl said im rude and other things a nd it hurt me too just because im shy i talk to my friends a little though (that girl is really spoilt and stuck up)
@sarahgonzales2 You're not alone. I rarely speak. Partly because I don't want to sound stupid. Sometimes because I don't know what people are talking about.
@sarahgonzales2 You want advice? never let people put you down! stand up for yourself! the more you ignore and don't say anything , the more the other girls will gain confidence and try to break yours! Being confident is not a skill..you will realise when you go to college, you'll be quiet confident. but why wait till college? how about you just start talking to people now, nice people. talk to them, if you freak out take deep breathes and talk slowly to not stutter. enjoy high school while you
@sarahgonzales2 awww! people made fun of me cus i can be quiet, too :p no matter what your like, people shouldn't judge you ! she doesnt know you :) ps if i were you, i wouldn't talk to that mean girl anymore :(
@sarahgonzales2 I always say stupid things. I think it's one of the reasons why I became a quiet person. I've learned though that you just have to not makes a big deal out of saying dumb things. You just kind of play it off like it's not big deal. Say you trip you can be like. Hey it's my first day walking give me a break.
@sarahgonzales2 you shouldn't be afraid! you should be open and be yourself i know evry1 says it and it's not easy but if you're going to think stuff like*am i going to say something stupid?* ppl ARE going to notice that you're frustrated but they're not going to realize that's what you're thinking and they might take it as *you don't want to really talk with anybody* and cuz of that you'll get misunderstood you should talk without thinking of stupid things
even though im shy ppl call me a bitch so its makes it realy hard 4 me 2 make frens i talk like less than twenty sentences a day in school and oh god i bet they will give anything 4 me 2 disappear out of their life.. :(
Well, my college does have clubs, but it is a community college, I don't have my license, and I only have classes on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays....I just think that it is hard to approach someone I don't see all the time, especially guys haha XD I feel so silly
i watched some video when i was little and i find out that i was not shy .then after 5 i turn shy ,really shy .after that i was shy ever since it been more than 8 years now and im still shy.i want to believe that there is ways to make me brave but i just cant .my life is torn apart because im shy!
People, don't be sad if you are shy! It's hard, I know. I, well, I'm practically a synonym of the word "shyness". And yes, it might be a curse, but in the end it is nothing but a treasure. And with "in the end" I am not talking about the end of your life, but about the real and honest relations with people. I hardly think someone would prefer a chatty person to talk to when you are sad rather than someone who can actually listen no matter how much you talk, and respond a good, usefull answer.
@blackwaterboy2 I don't think it's a "if you are shy you are XYZ", but that, mostly, shy people, especially people who has been like that all their lifes, develop (I apologize if "develop" is not the correct word for this context; I am Mexican and my English is a little "empty", I guess.) those kind of feelings; they learn them, or you can even say that they basically have to learn them because of social issues.
They appreciate what they have and that's why, most of them, are like that; "XYZ" :)
hi christina, im exactly like you.. i understand how you feel. i too ' fake it till you make it'.... those you doesn't go through this would say its dramatic. but its definitely not! i got sick of being shy that i just force myself to snap out of it. i usually dare myself to get out of being shy. i used to care a whole lot of what people would think or say. but when you stop that kind of thinking, 'some' of the shyness will slowly fade away.....
people tell me im too shy. and im not really that shy when i get used to you. and also they say i dont talk enough.... but really, theres not much to talk about when i dont want to talk to people i dont normally talk to :P
i like your video and actually i was shy myself and did all what you said before even watch the video , i'm in college now and i'm a founder of a club in our university , i meet a lot of people everyday asking me and want my help or advice , i was too shy that i can't talk to a girl or even look in her eyes .
for shy guys just get involved as she said in the video you don't have to loose anything, people are going to talk to you you or just try to ask questions and be confident
Im always shy. Meeting new people or when a boy talks to me... But i want to come out of this shyness . Is there any way i can "come out" of this shyness cuz quite frankly i am tired of it already! O.O
@LuciaLight100 hi :) i am pretty normal when it comes to convos with people i know and im comfortable with but when it comes for meeting new people i have a fear of rejection... I know what i have to do but it's just finding the courage to actualy go up and talk to a new person. The reason why i am shy is bcus sometimes i can get socialy awkward and i just hate it especially if im the one that caused it... please give me some advice :) thank you x
Srry to tell you this but it doesnt work...My face is burnt and i still do all of this when i smile with my eyes and mouth its genuine cheek to cheek and im myself a majority of the time all...ppl dimay eye contact and look at me weird and disgusted like go away..My face just makes people depressed o well their problem but yeah if ur face isnt pretty or normal like hers and it has problems then it wont work..Imagine pimples all over ur face with pose no one will talk to that confi or not
girl:do u think im pretty Boy:no girl:do u want to b with me forever Boy:NO she heard enough and waz hurt, she walked away tears ran down her faceThe boy grabbed her arm boy: your not pretty your beautiful i dont want to b with u forever, i NEED u forever plz stay with me girl: i will Tonight at midnight ur true love will realize they love u Something good will happen to you between 1-4 pm tomorrow anywhere If you dont post this to 5 other pages you will have love problems for the nxt 10 yrs
@RetroJenny the thing about being shy is that its not our nature instead we are being someone were not.This is just me though and it sounds like it was the uploaders too once
If you're shy it's your nature, and you should not have to change in order to please the so called normal "outgoing" people. Why put on a facade just to be liked?
@RetroJenny But the thing is, some people don't like being shy and are looking to try and change. It isn't to fit in, it's to feel more comfortable with yourself, which goes for anything that you can - but don't have to - change about yourself.
get on wiv it ur hair looks fine!
assassin99942 1 day ago
can you do a video on how to not give a shit.
sissiegurl 2 days ago
Your hot!
manlancer24 3 days ago
@ceCelambrecht
Same for me but if u thonk about it wat makes them so cool?
It might be clothing ,personality or just outgoing.
But u shud slowly work ur way in the conversatipn with small steps and remember be urself and dnt try to be something ur not n i now learned that the more u talk to a girl the more confident youll be around a group of ppl
alee0294 4 days ago
Talkative,outgoing bubbly people need to do their part and get to know the shy person...instead they like to make the shy person feel like crap and point a flaw in them to make themselves feel like they're superior in the social latter.
Why can't outgoing people just say "Hello, how are you doing? My name is Amanda what is yours?."
I think if more outgoing people can do this and make shy people comfortable in social settings...we would live in a much better world.
EricSchwin22 5 days ago
i hav a girlfriend now, but i only recentally asked her out and she doesnt seem thhaat into me but we were good driends before. wut do i do when shes talkin to her friends? should i approach her?
Number1Maximus 1 week ago
Women who are shy are not frowned upon as badly as shy men. All I can say is if you are shy guy, participate in as many activities as you can. Play as many sports as you can. And be willing to take physical risks in these sports. I am determined to overcome my shyness even if I break myself in the process!
RB902050 1 week ago
a tip to get a boy friend
dracorules123 1 week ago
1 tip : drink alcohol
ocelot435 1 week ago 5
I'm kinda weird this way but I'm like all out going and not really shy but when certain people come around like the kids that everyone calls " cool" I just automatically shut up! I don't like it I guess in afraid they will think im weird or something HELP!
CeCelambrecht 1 week ago
You are really cute :)
4200Cruzito 2 weeks ago
like everytime i walk let's say to a mall people always stra at me..and i dont why -_- please help!! thx.. Hmm my brother has a girlfriend..and she says "ashley can u hand me my jacket and she says thank u". and i say nothing.. i was wondering if u could help me on that.. too!!
Ash7038 2 weeks ago
ur sexy.r u on fb?
gummynumberone 2 weeks ago
@gummynumberone dude... that was rude. She probably is on fb but that doesn't mean that she will accept you as a friend. She probably doesn't even know you...
TheAm3thyst 2 weeks ago
@TheAm3thyst ......whats it to you fuck face? you got nothing better to do? what makes you so perfect? .....i dont kno u ,so fuck off.now thats rude
gummynumberone 2 weeks ago
I'm a shy person but everyone loves me o__O
I aint lying, its true.
xKrizza 2 weeks ago
Heres a good tip,lets say your in the hall way just yell and that will get you attention
Motocross6500 2 weeks ago
This is funny how day after I finally make my New Year's resolution (On Febuaury 8th btw -very sad- ahha) about how I wanna be more out going at school I happen to find your vid. Ya Im in seventh grade and I have slowly gotten more friends and have opened up more and stuff but I am still holding back so ya your vid will most likly work wonders
Anyway can you maybe make a vid on like how to make a guy notice you/ how to get a bf or even how to just get his number and get to know him.
xoxoCrazyGirlMexoxo 2 weeks ago
@11940ful Iam still shy but Iam getting over it by doing alot of public speaking(which I never thought in a million years I would be doing given my shy state)But by doing public speaking,it has helped me to speak to people with more authority and confidence.There was a time in were I could not look a person directly in the eye! But now I can do it without a flinch:).Communication goes a long way in every facet of life.Hey stay positive and things will work for the better.
MegaPsycho84 2 weeks ago
@11940 hey I understand what you are going through and can relate as well.Thats right if your friends can't accept you for being shy! Then get new friends and I see from your comments that you have taken action in that department:)Iam also shy as well and I hate being in big crowds of people,being in that surrounding makes me want to crawl under a rock and hide.
MegaPsycho84 2 weeks ago
I've been shy sense I was 6 years old and it gradually got worse. Now in my sophmore year at highschool, I don't talk at all, only when someone talks to me. Sometimes, I will go out of my comfort zone and say something, but it doesn't feel great. I wish I could just be myself without being afraid of people. Also, I'm starting to get a human phobia. :(
xHaruYamasakiX 3 weeks ago
Tips for talkative people...don't talk too much, you don't want that jaw to fall off.
EricSchwin22 4 weeks ago
Thanx for the vid :) it's good advice. I'm the same as you were! I hit 10 and I just shut down. I'm 18 now and going to college. And I had a horrible time in high school. I was always by myself during lunch, rallies, group assignments. Now it's time to stop being shy and move on. I won't let myself go through the same thing as H.S. I'm gonna do whatever it takes to shake this shyness. Thanx again and u r very beautiful! :DD
ravendarkie 4 weeks ago
sorry what did you say? i was too busy looking at your eyes
GhostMediaReborn 4 weeks ago
BTW. thanks for the vid
miavonni 1 month ago
Imma show this vid to my daughter I think it will help, I feel like she over compensates and she becomes a bit over boisterous bordering on rude with sarcasm. and its all because she is scared of what ppl might think of her or judge her.
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I'm just like u outgoing and confident but people started bullying me so i stoped talking because that made the bullying stop but now I'm finished school I'm really shy :( I'm getting help for it tho :)
kurtanglerocks555 1 month ago
wow you are very pretty am shy help me
capleskylline 1 month ago
@blackwaterboy2 Me too
swaggXgam3 1 month ago
jzaper1 1 month ago
why iam only shy when i have to talk out loud too my school project i get nerves and shaking so how can i over come it that all i good with everyone but when talking in front of the class i get shy and crap need help
blazeblue1991 1 month ago
it is much worse being a guy who is 18 going on 19 and really shy.......
AKBeazBoi 1 month ago
I cant talk to girls,,,,, can you help me?
blackwaterboy2 1 month ago
@xpinkyxox yeah all the boys call me stupid because i ruined so much chancess...
MrReinerRocks 1 month ago
You have cute nose!
alam77ny 1 month ago
I want to kiss you
ndspanky 1 month ago
I basically never say a fucking thing around girls. I don't know why. I'm not really shy, I just don't know what to say.
Rihew 1 month ago
@MrReinerRocks Same here.... But girl make fun of me and boys are plain rude to me. :[
xpinkyxox 1 month ago 2
@xpinkyxox Honestly, this is how I view things, who cares what others think. As long as you love yourself, then it doesn't matter what people think about you. Check out my video "The Positive List- Gaining Confidence". It will help you focus on the good things about you.
LuciaLight100 1 month ago 3
@PartyLikeARockstarr9 well dnt give up!! :[
xpinkyxox 1 month ago
Rawr :)
jmancatdog19 1 month ago
@jmancatdog19 Rawr Im A Dinosaur And Stuff :)
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Another tip is to say even a simple hi and a smile is good enough and theres a good chance they'll smile and say hi back. Im shy too and I find this helps me feel confident and also feel more confortable around people when I do this.
hi24times 1 month ago
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hi24times 1 month ago
Anyone feel like committing suicide? Because of their look? and lonelyness.....sadness.... I know nobody cares..but, I cant take it anymore, im killing myself. goodluck with your lifes. I shall rest in peace.... :(
PartyLikeARockstarr9 1 month ago
@PartyLikeARockstarr9
The only reason you need is your poor spelling and grammar.
CrazyToastie 1 month ago
@PartyLikeARockstarr9 Man, many people would say my life fucking sucks. Not because I'm getting bullied or anything. You just need to find something to live for. I play guitar. It gave me a reason to live. I want to become famous. It's just a dream, but it keeps me alive.
Rihew 1 month ago
@PartyLikeARockstarr9
Wow!! And are you still alive? I hope you will find something to live for and enjoy your life.
Try to take thing easy way. Good luck all the way in your life.
alam77ny 1 month ago
@PartyLikeARockstarr9 noooooooooooooooooooooooo doooooooooooont.. read quran trust me its a cure for all mental problems..
flowbee9 1 month ago
IM shy and all the girls come to me telling me im cute and everything. All the boys are calling me retarded because they say all the girls are over you but i dont make a move. IM TO SHY. i can get a gil easy but IM TO SHY :(
MrReinerRocks 1 month ago
@MrReinerRocks at least you have girls over you im both shy and a loss.....FML sometimes.....
Darkfatez117 1 month ago
@MrReinerRocks Its the same way with me bro!
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I am really shy. I was the same really outgoing and fun to be around until I was in 6th grade. I lost all my confidence. I am in eighth now. I want to get out there I am tired of not having really any friends. I dont know what to say. I want to start a conversation but have no idea how to keep if flowing after whats your name or next period?? Barely this boy said he didnt like me cause I am "shy as shit" and it really hurt. I need some help!! please): I cry cause i am too shy.
xxLuvBbyTOXICxx 1 month ago
one word... Alchohol
MrMMABoy 1 month ago
i hate being so shy and i know that is completely stems from my appearance. i am 18 and a guy so i think i must be the only shy guy in the world :( i feel that as soon as i talk people will just take the piss or say something hurtful :/
AKBeazBoi 1 month ago
to all the shy people just remember, everyone is more worried about themselves & probly thinking the same thing your thinking. but the key is not to think too much and just think about the end of the day, like planning, goals, whats next? if that dont work..talk to someone, if your the shy type that hates talking then you seriously need to exercise! keep your mind and body active
whanaublood 1 month ago
Yeh I almost killed my self cus of shyness... Seems drastic haha :) but yeh being shy sucks major balls
jmancatdog19 1 month ago
i m really shy and i feel so tired about trying it so many years... and i m not ugly at all. but i m shy i should be all confident
WutangClan4LiF3 1 month ago
@WutangClan4LiF3i feel the same way
w4cGjj123 1 month ago
ive always been very shy and i know that these tips will help alot
RAZOR9433 1 month ago
why are people so stupid? i mean, this chick definitely doesn't know what she's talking about, she makes shy people look like they're an human error or something like that(shut down, really?)... i used to be shy, but necessity made me change my ways in life so,in my opinion, "shy" people need to learn to fuck everyone around them if they wanna feel comfortable and need to learn not to care about those around them since we're all human beings and make mistakes. period.
11MasterBlade 2 months ago
@lulupeanutlady I don't talk to her at all she wonders why I don't talk to her..
sarahgonzales2 2 months ago
i am so freaking loud with my friends but when it comes to hot guys im SUPA shy :P its actually really anoying
prettylilstarable 2 months ago
well i feel that if i am not the perfect person then i cannot talk to people or people wont be interested in me. like because i am not 6'2 and good looking then people wont take me seriously and girls will just laugh at me, it is crazy really but i am probably the most shyist person i know.
AKBeazBoi 2 months ago
I started getting really shy when i started 7th grade and now that im a freshmen i really hate it! And i don't know how to change that... It holds me back from alot of things.
JackieBieber11 2 months ago
I been shy my entire life.When people meet me they can tell right away that im shy.Now that Im 19,its not as bad as it once was.But I did get to a point about a year ago when I became fed up with being a shy girl.My advice to ANYONE would be this:"ACCEPT that you are shy, & don't try and hide it!"I spent most of my time trying to change the fact that I'm shy & hide it,but when I got to the point where I just accepted who I was,that's when I began to see a change!Message me if you have questions!
musicproducer16 2 months ago 20
@musicproducer16 I like shy girls and so do a lot of guys. A lot of them think it's really cute. You're right don't change who you are. But you do have to open up a little bit otherwise a guy will think you're not interested.
grasscutter88 2 months ago
@musicproducer16 Well...I'm in my mid 20s and i still can't accept that i am that way! I'm always surrounded by people who remind me that i am THAT!!!! Like it's bad...Like it's wrong! I know that bcuz i lack confidence it's holding me back a whole lot! I just lack so much social skills that u have no freaking idea... Idk...last night i kinda cried about it...I was like I'm me...everyone is different with different personality...Why can't they just get that!
11940ful 2 weeks ago
@11940ful Idk why some people have a hard time accepting that everyone has different personalities. Quiet as its kept...EVERYONE has some form of shyness. The only thing that make you different from them is that your LEVEL of shyness is different. There's no such thing as a person never being shy,ever. Thats like saying theres a such thing as someone who never gets angry. smh. If your friends can't accept the fact that your shy then you need new friends. I just hope your family isn't doing that!
musicproducer16 2 weeks ago
@musicproducer16 I've gotten rid of 2 friends...When it comes to family...My mom and sister they know if as the softy so i was kinda like a rag doll and a punching bag to them... Treating me horribly like i'm nothing and then act like nothing happened and even asking me for my address to send me birthday cards and stuff! I tried to be positive...i don't want to think that everyone is like that but once they see that ur quiet, shy and stuff ur automatically the fucking target!
11940ful 2 weeks ago
@musicproducer16 how did u accept ir?
gummynumberone 2 weeks ago
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musicproducer16 2 weeks ago
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@gummynumberone I just told myself that I am shy, and that I accept myself as a shy girl. I stopped thinking of ways to please others or to amount to the person THEY feel I should be. Not everyone has to be super outgoing. The truth is, there will always be someone who finds something wrong with you or something they feel you should change. No matter how many times we change and alter ourselves, there will always be something that someone will see in us and not like. So why change?
musicproducer16 2 weeks ago
this idiot says nothing, this is completely stupid and a waste of time.
MrAugustus88 2 months ago
thankyou soo much !!! :D these are really good tips
bry252123 2 months ago
I'm in 7th grade and I've been incredibly shy since kindergarten, no one likes me, when we have to pick a partner I have none, I say 4 words a day at school, I have NO FRIENDS and everyone hates me. Im a loner and I need major help but Im not really this person! Im crazy at home and I wish I could express the real me I love sharing my feelings like im doing now but i cant talk at school :(((((( you guys dont know how bad it is
popsfartsonworms54 2 months ago
@popsfartsonworms54 I know exactly what you mean!! Im the same way!!
ItsEmily26 2 months ago
@popsfartsonworms54 Im the same way and i know how bad it can be. just know ur not alone.
lilmrsbabyboo 2 months ago
@a1exell yes i am why do u ask?
sarahgonzales2 2 months ago
i always shy to people if face to face if like chatting i'm not shy with people ;p BTW thx 4 the tips..And i like ur face lol....
LisaIzZaLov3Y0u 2 months ago
what to do (if you are a boy) i'm also a little shy but i started throwing parties, people started to like me , i became more popular, girls started to like me too , and i just kinda forgot about this ..being shy thing...( and how not to be shy at parties... well a little bit of alcohol solves a lot of problems)
a1exell 2 months ago
To save you all 7.5 minutes...in a nutshell - Join clubs, singing, sports, writing ect. Talk. ask questions. Walk straight. Look happy. Smile.
ManaMania60 2 months ago 10
I wasnt ever shy until 7th grade i always was popular and had alot of friends but i moved to a new school and i got in a group of friends and i said the wrong thing and they all abandoned me so i learned to just not say anything at all and now i have some friends that i know will never abandon me if i say the wrong thing because now i dont say anything! But im begining to regret being shy but i dont know how to be popular i just feel like if i do something or say wrong noone will like me!
bigal0595 2 months ago
i tryed to overcome my shyness but i get terrifide if someone i dont know talks to me even if teachers say things to me i freaz , go red and my throught closes and im like that with almost everyone also no one wants to talk to me its like no one cares also it feals like peopl are only my friend when they want somthing ... i have my shyness and if people do talk to me i blurt out random tings land then people bac away ,its just i got noting to say
(soz my little rant just then :/ )
foxyspirits 2 months ago
Thanks so much, thanks for your advice and wanting to help ppl!
MagicalEnigma13 2 months ago
I really dont know how to do these things i am quite young after all though
catz9820 2 months ago
But lately I haven't been leaving the house much on my off days and there are days when I hardly get any sleep because of my job. Anyhow does lack of sleep and not leaving the house affect your confidence and attitude much? Please answer.
RussX5Z 2 months ago
Great video LuciaLight100. I went to work today and barely got any sleep (only 4 and a half hours ) and I had a difficult time following your tips. Sleep plays an important part for confidence and positive attitude? Am I right? Anyhow I do agree 100% that your 4 tips do work because I actually did those in this past and had great results.
RussX5Z 2 months ago
I'm realllllly shy too! And i reallly hate being that way!
ao83151 2 months ago
U totally helped me
After 2 days I'm now the hilarious popular one.
jackiegirlrocks99 2 months ago
This is about to be soo long ahaha but I completely know how everyone of you guys is coming from. honestly. I really didnt start being shy until I was like 8 or 9, I was the most funniest insane loud kid from when i was like 2-8 or 9 and then I just completely stopped talking, Most the time theres a reason for being shy. Its never like from heredity. And shes right, fake it until you make it. Say whats on your mind, dont hold back, If someone dont like what you say, forget them. for real.
tdawg191 2 months ago
@tdawg191 by thee way to the girl that made this... yourr freakinn georgeous. hahaha
tdawg191 2 months ago
ahh i love your voice i could listen to it for hours lol
AKBeazBoi 2 months ago
@sodapopluvable same thing with me ! you are not shy and quiet.. they want to make you feel that way just to make it seem like something wrong with you. there is nothing wrong with you . they are TOXIC . they don't want to communicate with you so that's why they would say those things. It's not you..It's them, so don't feel bad hun:)
prettyyoungthing90 2 months ago
there are 25460 shy people who watched this video
Phil7Alex 3 months ago
I'm the opposite I was shy until I was 10. My tip is be loud and have good comebacks
Helpyounot 3 months ago
I'm really shy around talkative ppl and I'm outgoing around shy ppl.
xoclarebiebsfanxo 3 months ago 17
@xoclarebiebsfanxo me too!
unknownlove19 2 months ago
@xoclarebiebsfanxo yeah same lol
AKBeazBoi 2 months ago
Im very outgoing and loud when in at school, where i know everyone. But im moving to a new school and i dont know anyone... Any tips?!
Emmajemmalovesyou 3 months ago
The same happened to me i was really outgoing and when i went into 5th grade (i was 10) i stopped bieng outgoing and really shy i only had 1 friend wich was really sad cuz when my family asked me how many friends i had I lied to them and said like a lot. I'm now in middle school and im still shy, but to some ppl im a little more outing...... Thx for the tips, and I love your hair, Keep up the good work :)
321imhot 3 months ago
@sarahgonzales2 try not to let the things people say or call you get to you try not to let it hurt you and eventually just like me you will grow immune to it and if that doesn't work try being nice to the people that hurt you because honestly when your nice to them when they're being mean it completely screws up their system. And as regards to talking with people you gotta find common interests plus start off with basic things such as what's ur name or where r u from this'll most likely get thi
matthewslimbu 3 months ago
I never comment on videos but I just have to say THANK YOU!!!!
Thank you to everyone for sharing your feelings. It really makes me feel better to know that I am not alone in my struggles.
wickedfronty 3 months ago
society real fucks pepole up
TheMidwestsk8ter 3 months ago 5
19 people aren't shy.. y are they watching this video?? idk
facebookadict123 3 months ago
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shy people should check out my blog.
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its about my first-hand experience and steps to change myself.
please check it out
FruityLoopsJunkie 3 months ago
I've heard this alot of times but idk.. hearing it come from you made me feel like REALLY wanting to do it.. gave me the will. So Yeah, Favorites.. and I'll fake it till I make it. ;D
I don't like cheerleading much.. but since there were so few people in it at my school.. I just had to join.. the group looked empty soo yeah 0.o I am now in cheerleading and i feel like I'm going to suck but oh well..
Thanks for the tips you're great(:
4n4Me 3 months ago
Ikr can anyone give me advise...
People call me shy and this one girl called me emo and goth and it hurt me :(
I don't really know how to start a conversation .. I'm afraid I'll say something stupid
sarahgonzales2 3 months ago 41
@sarahgonzales2 dont be scared you will have ot risk it, sometimes you might fail
macdangnguyen 2 months ago
@sarahgonzales2 i know how you feel im in middle school and really shy and once this girl said im rude and other things a nd it hurt me too just because im shy i talk to my friends a little though (that girl is really spoilt and stuck up)
catz9820 2 months ago
@sarahgonzales2 just spit it out...it's better than saying nothing...i don't know drink a beer or two before ...trust me it helps a lot xD
BTW , are you a girl?
a1exell 2 months ago
@sarahgonzales2 You're not alone. I rarely speak. Partly because I don't want to sound stupid. Sometimes because I don't know what people are talking about.
EPICsliceOFcake 2 months ago
@sarahgonzales2 You want advice? never let people put you down! stand up for yourself! the more you ignore and don't say anything , the more the other girls will gain confidence and try to break yours! Being confident is not a skill..you will realise when you go to college, you'll be quiet confident. but why wait till college? how about you just start talking to people now, nice people. talk to them, if you freak out take deep breathes and talk slowly to not stutter. enjoy high school while you
Amse94 2 months ago
@sarahgonzales2 awww! people made fun of me cus i can be quiet, too :p no matter what your like, people shouldn't judge you ! she doesnt know you :) ps if i were you, i wouldn't talk to that mean girl anymore :(
lulupeanutlady 2 months ago
@sarahgonzales2 I Have The Same Problem!! :\
MegGoesRawrX3 2 months ago
@sarahgonzales2 I always say stupid things. I think it's one of the reasons why I became a quiet person. I've learned though that you just have to not makes a big deal out of saying dumb things. You just kind of play it off like it's not big deal. Say you trip you can be like. Hey it's my first day walking give me a break.
grasscutter88 2 months ago
@sarahgonzales2 im the same thing... but not so much when i am typing because i can SEE what i am going to say x)
tinyheartbreakx 1 month ago
@sarahgonzales2 Emos's ad goths = be who u want to be its ur life choose wat U want 2 do with it!
akeilamermaid62 1 month ago
@sarahgonzales2 you shouldn't be afraid! you should be open and be yourself i know evry1 says it and it's not easy but if you're going to think stuff like*am i going to say something stupid?* ppl ARE going to notice that you're frustrated but they're not going to realize that's what you're thinking and they might take it as *you don't want to really talk with anybody* and cuz of that you'll get misunderstood you should talk without thinking of stupid things
daianeisfun 1 month ago
y are u shy ..... ur hot
MrJaycrazi169 3 months ago
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BOYG1234 3 months ago
i really like you you're lovely (from a boy)
bonlian 3 months ago
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NitroPazuzu 3 months ago
I think if i said to someone in the bathroom " this water is hot " then that kid would think im eaven more of a wierdo. Lol but your beautiful:D
aXceraTe 3 months ago
even though im shy ppl call me a bitch so its makes it realy hard 4 me 2 make frens i talk like less than twenty sentences a day in school and oh god i bet they will give anything 4 me 2 disappear out of their life.. :(
enchanted9789 3 months ago
How did I find myself at that weird part of youtube again...
Knastus257 3 months ago
Well, my college does have clubs, but it is a community college, I don't have my license, and I only have classes on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays....I just think that it is hard to approach someone I don't see all the time, especially guys haha XD I feel so silly
RebeccasMusic93 3 months ago
i watched some video when i was little and i find out that i was not shy .then after 5 i turn shy ,really shy .after that i was shy ever since it been more than 8 years now and im still shy.i want to believe that there is ways to make me brave but i just cant .my life is torn apart because im shy!
ivselgandjoby 4 months ago
why cant girl come up to me??? why is it that i always go up to the girl?
PS: Do girls even care how good your face looks
runedude6131985 4 months ago
People always say I'm quiet. :P
neenarae27 4 months ago 42
@neenarae27 me too i hate it they think im mean too
tosha7891 3 months ago
@neenarae27 Same.
halo4life090 2 months ago
I"M NOT SHY WHEN I"M TALKING TO PEOPLE I DON"T KNOW, I JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO START A CONVO LOL OR SAY SOMETHING WITHOUT looking retarted
happybro1 4 months ago
@happybro1 Sameee heree
chichkkabob 4 months ago
I don't know about u but shy girls are sexy, at least this shy girl is ill fuck this shy girl
G13RAA 4 months ago
People, don't be sad if you are shy! It's hard, I know. I, well, I'm practically a synonym of the word "shyness". And yes, it might be a curse, but in the end it is nothing but a treasure. And with "in the end" I am not talking about the end of your life, but about the real and honest relations with people. I hardly think someone would prefer a chatty person to talk to when you are sad rather than someone who can actually listen no matter how much you talk, and respond a good, usefull answer.
:)
pabloindustries 4 months ago
"Make a joke like: Oh the water is so hot." Thats a good one...
PurpleKoolaid95 4 months ago
If i am shy will girls think i am inocent and sensetive?
blackwaterboy2 4 months ago
@blackwaterboy2 I don't think it's a "if you are shy you are XYZ", but that, mostly, shy people, especially people who has been like that all their lifes, develop (I apologize if "develop" is not the correct word for this context; I am Mexican and my English is a little "empty", I guess.) those kind of feelings; they learn them, or you can even say that they basically have to learn them because of social issues.
They appreciate what they have and that's why, most of them, are like that; "XYZ" :)
pabloindustries 4 months ago
hi christina, im exactly like you.. i understand how you feel. i too ' fake it till you make it'.... those you doesn't go through this would say its dramatic. but its definitely not! i got sick of being shy that i just force myself to snap out of it. i usually dare myself to get out of being shy. i used to care a whole lot of what people would think or say. but when you stop that kind of thinking, 'some' of the shyness will slowly fade away.....
arabgal2y 4 months ago
people tell me im too shy. and im not really that shy when i get used to you. and also they say i dont talk enough.... but really, theres not much to talk about when i dont want to talk to people i dont normally talk to :P
tessaxloveable 4 months ago
i like your video and actually i was shy myself and did all what you said before even watch the video , i'm in college now and i'm a founder of a club in our university , i meet a lot of people everyday asking me and want my help or advice , i was too shy that i can't talk to a girl or even look in her eyes .
for shy guys just get involved as she said in the video you don't have to loose anything, people are going to talk to you you or just try to ask questions and be confident
that's all
youwydady 4 months ago
you suffered from being shy? seriously? i think your being way to dramatic!
AgentSomethingCool 4 months ago
2:34 Pause Hehehehe Hahahaha!
SmallworldsVevo 4 months ago
Good advice, but your tone of voice is boring...
iMonique808 4 months ago
Im always shy. Meeting new people or when a boy talks to me... But i want to come out of this shyness . Is there any way i can "come out" of this shyness cuz quite frankly i am tired of it already! O.O
sexiiA13 4 months ago
Your a fucking idiot
Jackf1n 4 months ago
@Jackf1n you mad bro?? goddamn so many trolls on youtube
PurpleTigon 4 months ago
Ur realy pretty! :) nice vid too!!
EgilFearFactor 4 months ago
hi christina your really hot :)
Spike579 4 months ago
@LuciaLight100 hi :) i am pretty normal when it comes to convos with people i know and im comfortable with but when it comes for meeting new people i have a fear of rejection... I know what i have to do but it's just finding the courage to actualy go up and talk to a new person. The reason why i am shy is bcus sometimes i can get socialy awkward and i just hate it especially if im the one that caused it... please give me some advice :) thank you x
thelaws1123 4 months ago
13 People Are Bad Kissers. And are so Shy, That They Are Afraid To "Like" This! :)
1sillycj 4 months ago
im a stoner and im shy nd i cant join groups nd stuff cuz i hav a bad rep wut should i do
MASTERSLAPAHO 4 months ago
Srry to tell you this but it doesnt work...My face is burnt and i still do all of this when i smile with my eyes and mouth its genuine cheek to cheek and im myself a majority of the time all...ppl dimay eye contact and look at me weird and disgusted like go away..My face just makes people depressed o well their problem but yeah if ur face isnt pretty or normal like hers and it has problems then it wont work..Imagine pimples all over ur face with pose no one will talk to that confi or not
LilTubeBoi 4 months ago
Ur face got me boner
shreyans94 4 months ago
girl:do u think im pretty Boy:no girl:do u want to b with me forever Boy:NO she heard enough and waz hurt, she walked away tears ran down her faceThe boy grabbed her arm boy: your not pretty your beautiful i dont want to b with u forever, i NEED u forever plz stay with me girl: i will Tonight at midnight ur true love will realize they love u Something good will happen to you between 1-4 pm tomorrow anywhere If you dont post this to 5 other pages you will have love problems for the nxt 10 yrs
avry97 4 months ago
@RetroJenny the thing about being shy is that its not our nature instead we are being someone were not.This is just me though and it sounds like it was the uploaders too once
ThePlanBtv 4 months ago
damn your pretty
s0uthparkmex 4 months ago
@sgpmr I disagree. I think it comes mainly from life experiences.
101feven101 4 months ago
you should make a video of tips for sheech problem people over come shyness and how to talk more
snikersKitKat66 4 months ago
im shy but, gradually building up but how do you you do it? just get into trouble?
NeonBladeFX 4 months ago
Thank you (:
chiquiita93 4 months ago
Thanks
goodendjg1 4 months ago
Same here 777jackpot. Sucks doesn't it?.... Hi Christina, looking beautiful.
undeadgil 5 months ago
I think I'm shy because im ugly
miguelismetro 5 months ago
@miguelismetro awwww dont feel tht way jus accept yourself for who you are .
goodendjg1 4 months ago
If you're shy it's your nature, and you should not have to change in order to please the so called normal "outgoing" people. Why put on a facade just to be liked?
RetroJenny 5 months ago
@RetroJenny But the thing is, some people don't like being shy and are looking to try and change. It isn't to fit in, it's to feel more comfortable with yourself, which goes for anything that you can - but don't have to - change about yourself.
Twigglet13 4 months ago
Omg i like ur hair a lot :D
SkinnykidK5 5 months ago
Well... I'm not really shy or anything