omgz... I loved this video. If it weren't for your mic, it'd have been perfect. the dancing? classic.
I know what you mean about experiencing that sense of freedom - I'm getting better about that. I used to try to be girly, because I just... well, wasn't, and everyone told me I needed to be. And then over the past year or so, I've been the antithesis of that, b/c I didn't want to be "girly." And so now I'm trying to just "be."
as far as your question of how I experience gender, I am not very girly, and definitely as far as my manner of speaking and my sexual appetite/sexual expression, I feel like I sometimes must have been a man in another life or something LOL but when it boils down to it, I am me and I don't try to be girlier than I naturally am just cuz some people find my openness and aggression off-putting. Fuck people. Let them deal with whatever THEIR problem is that they're deflecting on to me...
omgz... I loved this video. If it weren't for your mic, it'd have been perfect. the dancing? classic.
I know what you mean about experiencing that sense of freedom - I'm getting better about that. I used to try to be girly, because I just... well, wasn't, and everyone told me I needed to be. And then over the past year or so, I've been the antithesis of that, b/c I didn't want to be "girly." And so now I'm trying to just "be."
And you'd better come on Saturday, btw. :)
~LJ
Saxwoman2 2 years ago
as far as your question of how I experience gender, I am not very girly, and definitely as far as my manner of speaking and my sexual appetite/sexual expression, I feel like I sometimes must have been a man in another life or something LOL but when it boils down to it, I am me and I don't try to be girlier than I naturally am just cuz some people find my openness and aggression off-putting. Fuck people. Let them deal with whatever THEIR problem is that they're deflecting on to me...
desi7885 2 years ago
5 stars for awesome dancing indeed LMAO <3
desi7885 2 years ago