Gender Bender

[Zinetha]

The True Gender-Bender, I'd say :) I'm interested in it, but so far I only got an androgyne hair (a bit longer than yours, and black), and some oversize girls' clothing, which kinda hide my curves quite a lot :D I'm bi, btw, but have a bf. Sometimes I like dressing up girly kinda for him, 'cause I know he likes it, just not saying it out loud. And on bigger celebrations such as weddings and confirmation (quite big thing here in Finland) I like dressing up real girly, dress, high heels, etc.

[rogerwilco2]

Very nice vid. It's very nice in expressing who you are.

I think it's more accepted for girls though.

[sismomo101]

lol i so wish i could make u my gf not trying to sound like a giddy school girl but your just down to earth unlike 99% of the rest of the female population.

[rockydino96]

how old are you ?

[rockydino96]

i love your face :D tooo cute! <3 and amazing hair :)

[ThunderManiack]

heyy you like me exept i'm a boy sometimes i wear some girly things ansome guy things an some benders we almost have the same hair too creepy right

[Ichliebemusikundybd]

@lindso0929 She does look better as a guy lol I could never pull off that hair-style my head is too big but semi-short hair works for me oh I emulate men so well lmfao

[Ichliebemusikundybd]

You are adorable, I wear whatever my mood conveys overall though men''s clothes are much more comfortable.

[MsToxicgirl101]

you and me are like mind twins but i never dress in skirts i love my jeans i'm like a boy and a girl but i always had long heir but i got it cut really short so i wonder what my friends at skool will think cuz its summer and i just got it cut so all i can do is wait ^^

[TheRomyChelsea]

you´re cute

[aubreyandkylie]

ahwhhwhwh



[TheEggsonToast]

OMG If you were a guy, you would be SUCH a pretty guy! I love that you're not afraid to do this. I wish my mom would except me if I were a cross dresser.

[MrMacka102]

MIND BLOWN, On mute you think your a guy but your voice gives you away

[AnnaMc456]

Lol ^^

I keep thinking, "HE'S HOT" in my mind but I'm like oh wait it's a girl, haha xD

[MoonDreamofA]

I did that once! I cut my hair like Justin bieber but I had to bind my chest, it made it slightly hard to breathe though ;) I can't do it anymore because my hair grew out and I'm working on growing out, I'm so torn! I really wanna cross dress again!!!

[Masked27]

you're can pull of beign a beautiful girl and a handsome boy at the same time. I'm jelous :( also your video is great to see, because you seem so happy. It gives me hope.

[Masked27]

you're can pull of beign a beautiful girl and a handsome boy at the same time. I'm jelous :( also your video is great to see, because you seem so happy. It gives me hope.

[animalvampgirl]

I usually wear more guyish clothes and even though i have long hair a kid on my bus thought i was a guy. girly clothes really don't suit me, guys clothes for me are way more comfortable. I'll still sometimes wear girlyish clothes but not as much. idk i m just being me.

[UBCpsycstudent]

Hi you look totally cute in guys clothing and you also seem more comfortable! 

[vayumikaru]

this is a very interesting video hahaha

[scootwhoman]

aarfan, you are awesome! Wonderful to see someone who is happy with themselves as they are, because it makes you attractive. Is that your drum kit in the background? Music is one field where gender stereotypes are easily bent. Sow confusion! Trip people out! Make people pay attention instead of assuming!

Thank you!

[MrMally666]

omg this is awsome! totally down to earth about it~ i love the movie wahah~~

[LoganTheLoony]

I think you are excellent, so lovely to see someone with such a gender varient nature so confortable within themselves and so exceptant of it so young, I wish I had the same mind set so young :) I guess what I'm trying to say, good on you!

[XxKittyGotClawsxX]

Basically all of my clothes are guy clothes (even my shoes XD) but I like my hair long and i have pretty big boobs XD so I can't pull it off. but when I was younger and had shorter hair everyone thought I was a guy. I find nowadays girl clothes can be uncomfortable and slutty :| so I stick with guy clothes and you know I am as gay as can be >;D

[Ichliebemusikundybd]

@XxKittyGotClawsxX I agree most clothes are designed for thin, provocative, and women with borderline eating disorders today, it's a sad truth to swallow. Learned a long time ago that classy clothes were generally above my wallets value so I began to wear men''s clothes more frequently. Currently I am learning to sew though, I still wear some women''s clothes but ya society is attempting to mold females into a box talk about a FAT chance.

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[purebelterrr]

i've had to same thing happen to me too, except i'm a dudee and sometimes people have thought i was a girl. xD

gender bending, awesomeee !

[KOSMOSandTELOS]

Ahhhh you looked so pretty in that dress :D

One of my friends is like that with her clothes. She gets mistaken for a guy a lot because she always has her hair bunched up in a hat. But if she's not wearing one, it's obvious she's a girl(super long hair). And plus, her face is intensely feminine, so it's kinda hard to mistake her for a guy if you see her face lol.

Oh god. I'm rambling. D:

[natemorey]

Your adorable! guy or girl adorable!

[Cruzii]

I am someone who would identify as a gender bender. your a sending a powerful message. Keep up the good work. And thank you for putting this video together.

[TheGordogringo]

She's awesome I totally agree, sometimes I just feel like dressing like a girl

[ajdanni]

I love your hair, and you are very cute girl or boy =)

[bustitwydeopen365]

well i dont wear anything that shoes off my boobs hips or any of that stuff so upsettin when i c that in my clothes and tight jeans i havent tried male skinny jeans but gay guys that wear tight jeans r hot they have a str8 figure and i dont i have hips etc.. so my jeans r more on the baggy side i wud say i have an andro look cuz of my face its soft and sum ppl can tell im a girl well the really smart ones can i try wearin dark colors that helps to and less jewlery

[foozeball11]

Your hair is awesome!

[JDMiller95]

You make a very pretty girl and a very cute boy. Just letting you know that you're awesome as either :)

[1337Tazer]

So your a homosexual :'(

[youobeythefist]

you are so cute! It just overloads my brain... You are just so adorable looking like a boy or a girl!

[TheChuchiny]

are you gay?



[Ryuk]

Damn you just mind-fucked me.

[brendandawna]

right on.... just be yourself...

[screamolullaby2]

Either way, Girl or guy, You're amazingly gorgeous both ways :) Take it from a bi.

[misfitspunx69]

I like your style

Both as a dude and girl

and might i say your really cute :D

[erinnitzberg]

you are so cute! <3

[Senimsaj]

I honestly wish I knew you. You are beautiful beyond words D:

[TheFirezord]

and people mostly think im girl really weird

[TheFirezord]

Lol weird i have a girls face but im a guy

[babita111]

super liking

[MuffinMonkey319]

How old are you? :) I'm 13 and my friends and I are playing a prank on my neighbor, we're saying that we're brothers.

[guttermoth]

why the fuck did I almost watch 4 mins of this?

Be what you wanna be though,dude.

[diabirde]

the only reason i thought you were a dude ( at first ) was because of the hat.

not what it said, just that where I live, Girls don't wear hats all that often.

[KasuganoAkira]

wow, you're the first person i ever found who's similar to me! except i'm 14 and i have long-ish hair so people don't mistake me for a guy and i don't do the whole girl clothes thing...still, principle stands...i think

[thedrummerization]

go gender freedom !!! :)

[lllRodrigo]

#1,5,6.dress all super cool,super super supersuper super super cool!

[SakuraDoll]

YOUR SUCH A CUTIE!!! <3

[googooglob]

Super pretty/handsome!

[KiraVicious]

this is amazing :)

what's the name of the song at the end?

[SkyFoxCode]

just broke up with my bf because he didn't like me being genderfluid

fuck him.

[superotter77]

i love that you accept both your genders! way to accept yourself in a society that tries so hard to make us all hate ourselves and stuff ourselves in ONLY male or female boxes, rejecting the reality that we ALL have both genders going on within us. rock on sister!

[TheCosplaylover]

I'm the same as you and you look really cool :)

[jackolantyrn356]

same with my sister you look just like her! Where twins so she looks like a boy too!

You are seriusly just like her! O,,o that is fucking awsome!

[XDWinter]

you look like adam from degrassi

[bonifagurl]

@XDWinter Thats what I was thinking, and both are cute as a girl and guy.

[SONOrTALON]

you're really inspiring. And pretty.

[nOWaNDaLWAYSkEVIN]

you are soo adorable/cute lol

[McTaconess]

You seem like a really sweet down to earth girl.

I think we have a lot in common.

Also, what is your sexual orientation?

[aarfan]

@McTaconess basically super fucking gay. like...SUPER.

and thanks too :)

[KiaraVerg]

@aarfan Omg, I'm super fucking gay too! lol

[Rovering0Spirit]

@aarfan Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait...So are you LITERALLY homosexual or not?Sorry if I sound like an asshole....

[Pundit2k]

@Rovering0Spirit No, she's just figuratively homosexual.

Get over it, will ya? There are gay people in the world.

[Rovering0Spirit]

@Pundit2k What does figuratively mean?

[NitroSensitive]

the first part of the video felt like i was in a conversation where you don't say anything. O_O and the wide hips and rather short shoulder lengths give you away pretty much... o_O

[Eternalycalm]

You're so adorable!

[invaderkarly]

u are so pretty your like my new idol *subscribes* :D i like do the same thing its jus my hair lol

[ariedarie]

fuck u bitch or  nigaa.

[msifreak2006]

I wathed this and all I could think of was how you would make doing drag... LOL simply because your look is so versitle and that is a really unique thing it takes alot of us a long time to do it but that was a good video great job.

[DayDay0Chan]

Haha, I stumbled up on this from watching Anime Gender Bending videos. Honestly, you look good either way you dress, more male or female. Either way you're an attractive person :D

[R1f3]

you are very beautiful the way you are, do not ever change :)

[rocktronical]

nice music! what band?

[wavemontion]

Very nice video. Enjoy yourself and have fun. just be safe

[DannaGoat]

thats so cool/crazy how you can do that and really look like a boy and a girl lol

[superhard]

HOLY GOD!! u look like 1 of my male friends from school,Bret!!

[woo2fly21]

that guy has tits

[blunklaura]

go mizzou!!!

my bro went there :)

[AngelFJuarez]

I get mistaken for a girl all the time, haha, one of my principals calls me sweatie sometimes then he goes,. i mean sir lol I even get asked it, whats weird is guys are the ones who ask me most of the time, I say im just a pretty guy=] what can you do huh. I have feminine features and a baby face haha so its all good, i find gender bending fun as well

[rosiel7673]

I used to do this a lot when I was your age. it was fun. Although, like you say, sometimes people really DON'T get it. Some of the things people said just to be mean hurt,. So, keep good friends who like you just the way you are, for those days. Good for you!

[SkeletonMr]

You're so cute~

[derekunclean]

You're quite beautiful either way ^-^

[derekunclean]

You are quite beautiful either way ^_^

[acaseoflove1]

omg wen i say you in the more masculine clothes i was like no way will she pull off girly...but u did omg you look so good in both:)

[Arkenarge]

you look like a friend of mine

[jayponko]

awesome vid!!! you look great any way! :)

[MorroccoSurrogate]

I like to move between genders, too. I really like the habits and trappings of traditional femininity and prefer wearing skirts and dresses, but my hair, features, and figure make it easy for me to pass as a guy if I want to. Sometimes I switch how I act to suit, and in Japanese I change my speaking patterns.

I say that so many experiences are lost by confining yourself to one gender. Why not try both?

[tansyfairy77]

i love this vid. you are beautiful as both a boy or a girl. I love your attitude towards gender too. x. tansyfairy.

[silvrstar9]

Your really cool

[niveksiwel]

at 5:55 add long brown hair and you would take my breath away! stunning the similarities you have as a boy and girl!

[Arkenarge]

lol, i would say something, but i know people who search up your youtube name on google, and see all the comments you made in your life time.

[DrakhIM]

@ aarfan

4:52 & 5:00 ok.

5:21 better.

5:24 nice...

5:31 very nice

5:41 BEAUTIFUL!! (loose the "boy" cap you have a nice girl skirt on here.)

5:55 HELLO HONNEY!!!!

[kierano1234]

i look like you but with black hair and a bit of blonde

[Genderbender2010]

Consider yourself lucky. It's tougher for us guys to switch back and forth.

[Arkenarge]

0.0

[blahhchristi]

hah wow, this is awesome

you look great in whatever you wear :)

[HonorableTheft]

This was adorable ^_^ i perfer to say that im a girl when i was born a boy =/ so my parents and i have agreeds that im a girl :D yay mtf :D anyway XD i dun no how to say this X3oh well im a girl reguardless and how you want to identify yourm self is up to you as long as your happy :D LIKE MEH :D

[FaiiryCakez]

are you playing playradioplay?

[morganannnn]

i'm deff like striaght, but with you as a guy i think i have like a girl crush(: tip if you want it, um i think if you are being more girly you should straighten you hair and use mascara. doesn't have to be alot i can tell you probably don't like wearing makeup but i think it would really look cute on you.

[VulgarityDivine]

I'm a straight guy and I like to genderbend but if I told people it'd be weird

[Lendepen]

it's really nice to watch - esp. because you have so much fun with it too!!!!!

[kingofthemuffins]

hi im realy kinda screwed up here and i see loads of people have all commented on this so i was wondering if anyone cud gimmi sum advise about wat to do with my own genderbender life style???

[YukiKittyRawr]

I'm a genderbender too! X3 I love genderbending :D It's always cool to meet other genderbenders, too..:'D

[Maria259]

love the confidence! so are you gay or???

[themoonlanding0]

What's the song that plays at the end??? The 'I'm a lady' one. I used to listen to it all the time in a firend's car, and totally forogt about it until now!

[wolfheart4000]

I'm a girl but mentally a guy so i don't to be feminie and i get called a dude alot especially when i strp my boobs down coz they ruin the whole guy thing for me really lol

[taijacmonkey]

oh my god, you're so adorable! you make it look like so much fun.. (:

you're so rad.

[darkessRises]

omg! that must be soo fun :D and you look great as both!

[TheGenderblender]

That was amazing. You are hot. It's amazing that you are so young and you have it all figured out. :) I'm still working on it. I liked you best as an in-between. I'm a boi-gurl who loves boi-gurls. I guess I do have it figured out. :P

[videokidsam]

this is AWESOME. i like the music too!

[elysssa654321]

Thanks for sharing.  I love androgyny.

[WildlyWitty]

OMG your are soo adorable!! hahah

i didn't know other people felt this same way besides myself...

thank you so much XD

[CdnStargazer]

Awesome. :)

[KyokaraNaruto]

Some people say I'm a cute girl and some people mistake me for a guy even though I have a pretty curvy body, I guess it's because I wear big hoodies. People mistake me the most when I'm wearing braids, though. But, you are not alone! Way to be proud, girl!

[SlouchingPoet]

I wish more straight chicks would take up the 'butchy' look. I think it's cute.

[phlewis86]

I think that what is most important is that you have the freedom to be what you choose to be and not have society define who and what you can be.

[EmilysBloodycorps]

im am just like you it depends on my mood

[Unown990]

lol i didn't know you had breasts till like the green girl outfit.. but really the only giveaway that you're a girl is the hips...they look bigger than a guy's normally would =D but other than that, u look both

[strwbryx3lov]

ok well if your a guy! ur super cute ;]

and if ur a girl (: hunny ur so pretty

wow thats so cooool

[tyrannoraptorx119]

I watched this twice and I cant tell what gender. I'm so dumb :(

[JordmanKNOWS]

I don't wear tight shirts or baggy shirts, i kinda go inbetween. It's weird because even though i have big boobs i still get mistaken for a guy sometimes. It makes me laugh.

[knightsintodreams]

that's the neatist thing i've ever seen~!!! even your voice~!!! it's not distinctly masculine or feminine, it's sorta both. way cool

[alexvegas]

Where did those boobs come from?! Bam! Out of nowhere.

[Arkenarge]

raising a tomboy daughter is cool :) she doesnt get raped easily

[325Sharona]

Haha, NOOO homo, but you're a pretty purdy gal & one hawt guy!! Lol XD

[SunfishsTwoCents]

wow - i've never seen someone be able to pass equally on both sides like that before. you're adorable!!

[Arkenarge]

lol wow its rare to find someone like you, she really looks like a guy

[Kiljan137]

i like to go between, too, though most of the time i dress really neutral, and my mom named me kyle, even though i am a girl, so its really easy for me, because people just assume, without really looking, especially at school, when they call role.

i used to think that everybody liked to go between and stuff, but then someone told me that it was cruel of my mom to name me kyle and so on.

[thebordnessbrothers]

at first i thought this was a voiceover but i saw ur other vids. i envy you thats awesome and i have a q: which do u like the most personally i think u looke very cute as a girl and rly cool as a guy

[IbakerboyI]

Dude that's toytally sick "as in awesome" that you can dress one way or another! Some people might see that as bad but if someone that wanted to dress like the other sex couldn't because they wouldn't fit in with it but you do that's awesome if I knew you you'd be like one of the guy's but still a girl. xD! Keep up the good work. Oh and your music you play is good!

[KyonKun0993]

I personally like how you look in the number 5... You look... cute I think haha...

[xheartwithaslash]

im pretty sure i have a crush on you : )

[postcardsfromca]

i stumbled across this purely on accident.

you're so adorable though. *swoons*

[cdidrepresent]

im from australia :P

so randomly came accross this..

x

[omgSQUIRREL]

boy, girl, betweener, one thing's for sure, you're cute as hell.

[FANOFRANMA]

you know you look like a jonas brother

[alittlebouffant]

atleast you dont get mad at people when they do that.

its an honest mistake.

and you understand that.

YAY FOR MATURITY

[TheFlyingNietzsche]

Namaste

You remind me of the character Edward from the anime Cowboy Bebop. She has a very bubbly attitude, just as yourself :-), and gets mistaken for a boy often as well. May I ask what what songs you used towards the end of this video?

Your attitude and personality are really inspiring, keep up the good work!

[aarfan]

thanks!

the second to last song is 'confines' by playradioplay! and the last song is 'i'm a lady' by santogold.

[knightsintodreams]

ditto about the personality thing~ you're so cool

[TheSarahRah]

aww this helped me feel so much better about myself. you're so confident! :D

[r2bt99]

you are so cute!

i like occupying the "in between", too.

i kind of feel genderless.

[swagalikeus101]

wow man!.. i mean gurl hehe. i think itz da hairstyle dat makes ppl think ur a guy. if u were flat chested no1 wuld believe you lolz. u dress pretty gud as a guy and kinda gud as a gurl *no offense*

[mdalivl]

I wanted to see your boobs

[ObscureStorm]

I envy you. *Sigh*

[angelpenguin13]

omg wow crazy i thout u were a girl i was right lol

[MeetMeInBtween27]

Nice video, thanks for sharing ;) Do u find that dressing like a 'girl' gets less and less satisfying? I feel the same way you do, as far as being 'both', either, depending on mood, however, i'm wanting to portray myself male more on a regular basis. This gender stuff is confusing...

[aarfan]

ha, yeah it is confusing... sometimes i think just leaving it open (fluid) and not labeling it is the easiest thing to do.

[Tobie2]

This was very creative and very true!

Nicely done :O)