my problem is that i am worried, first is it is me my daughter and my son,13 and 9....i feel that financially for the 3 of us in a 3 bedroom house is perfect..but now i have a girlfriend and her 2 kids boy 12 and girl 10..it is going to be harder to give my kids a better life than adding on 3 more people,,,,i love her a-lot but am scared...anyone have any advice? let me know....
Divorce is now apart of marriage. That is why I don't believe in marriage. Love em and leave em. And yes I can commit but if a woman starts to get out of pocket like my babies momma I gotta bounce. Also the babies daddy and babies momma is an epic. So pretty soon marriage is gonna be obsolete. Men got to much to lose to be getting married.
Thanks for the comment. As adults choose to leave a relationship, they need to do so in a way that supports the children in adjusting to the chaos and confusion. Children learn from their parents. It's time for parents to ask themselves what are they teaching their children by acting this way? And more importantly, what are the consequences?
Good points and we can be programmed to be too skeptical in the beginning. Good points!
Reddigitalmusic 3 weeks ago
my problem is that i am worried, first is it is me my daughter and my son,13 and 9....i feel that financially for the 3 of us in a 3 bedroom house is perfect..but now i have a girlfriend and her 2 kids boy 12 and girl 10..it is going to be harder to give my kids a better life than adding on 3 more people,,,,i love her a-lot but am scared...anyone have any advice? let me know....
jdu6 3 weeks ago
Divorce is now apart of marriage. That is why I don't believe in marriage. Love em and leave em. And yes I can commit but if a woman starts to get out of pocket like my babies momma I gotta bounce. Also the babies daddy and babies momma is an epic. So pretty soon marriage is gonna be obsolete. Men got to much to lose to be getting married.
u2hubbard 1 year ago
Thanks for the comment. As adults choose to leave a relationship, they need to do so in a way that supports the children in adjusting to the chaos and confusion. Children learn from their parents. It's time for parents to ask themselves what are they teaching their children by acting this way? And more importantly, what are the consequences?
bwhouare 3 years ago
Excellent points! Very valuable, helpful information for parents out to do the best for their children affected by divorce and new step parents.
IAmThat1111 3 years ago