Help? People don't want help from a rational problem solver. People are irrational. I get judged for trying to help. I don't need to care. Go to war, destroy yourselves...
Thanks. I really appreciate the tips, eventhough I know it's really going to be difficult because I'm already used to people calling me a snobbish prick behind my back.
I've found nothing difficult except dealing with humans. It held my career back. I got a job in sales to force myself to acquire people skills. It was enormously stressful inventing small talk and pretending to care about them (customers), but it was a valuable training experience and has had great career benefits. People are your greatest resource and you won't be able to get anywhere without them even if you are a genius. It's worth allotting an hour or two per week to socialise and network.
@Craptron2000 i have the same experience. Its why I took communication classes as well. After them, I wasn't as adverse to small talk as every other intj claims they are because I could really see the value in toward building other conversations.
Help? People don't want help from a rational problem solver. People are irrational. I get judged for trying to help. I don't need to care. Go to war, destroy yourselves...
riverlioness 4 months ago
@riverlioness Same here! Sometimes they even realise theyre being irrational but they often don't seem to mind. I feel your frustration, lol.
106141214 3 months ago
Thanks. I really appreciate the tips, eventhough I know it's really going to be difficult because I'm already used to people calling me a snobbish prick behind my back.
NinjaSperm 5 months ago
This is defo my personality type! yay I am rare :) and I my career fits me perfectly
jamiecp333 5 months ago
I've found nothing difficult except dealing with humans. It held my career back. I got a job in sales to force myself to acquire people skills. It was enormously stressful inventing small talk and pretending to care about them (customers), but it was a valuable training experience and has had great career benefits. People are your greatest resource and you won't be able to get anywhere without them even if you are a genius. It's worth allotting an hour or two per week to socialise and network.
Craptron2000 6 months ago
@Craptron2000 i have the same experience. Its why I took communication classes as well. After them, I wasn't as adverse to small talk as every other intj claims they are because I could really see the value in toward building other conversations.
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@Craptron2000 What do you do now?
Purifiedinfire 4 months ago
@Purifiedinfire marry an esfp
psychrist 3 months ago