I was looking for a video for PTSD and somehow ended up here. This video is stupid. How to prevent a emotional infidelity: Don't be a dick. If you can't appreciate your partner, then leave and let them find someone who can. If your partner can not appreciate you, leave and find someone who will. If you really have to struggle you are not in the right place and DEFINITELY not loving yourself enough to love someone else.
I had all that happen to me. My bf had a major emotional affair, less than a month after we bought a house too. Everything is still all f*cked up now, I don't trust him and don't know if I'll ever fully have my trust back. If I could afford it I would get my own place cuz it feels like things will never be the same. I love him but i'm not in love with him which breaks my heart. We were supposed to get married this year before all that bullshit, and I am so mad at him for messing everything up.
In the end you can only hope to be yourself and do what you would usually do in a relationship, if your boyfriend is going to cheat on you he's going to cheat and there is nothing you can do about it, not your fault but its not your decision its his
Well, as far as the whole porn debate goes, in a sense...when you really, really think about it, it kinda is like cheating. Your looking at people have sex, more than likely wishing you were doing the same with the people you're watching. In general, your watching other's naked instead of your spouse, so then if it were in person that you watched this happen, I bet alot of people would consider it cheating. I'm not against porn or anything, just saying is all lol
I hope my so called girl friend could see this. I wouldnt have bothered if i spent money alone lol. But i wasted by giving her my precious love . Which she wasted!
wtf racial identity shouldnt matter in a relationship ppl cmon what generation r u in??? havnt u guys gone too college dayumm shit, race should fuckin matter, we're all americans and immigrants cmon now
This is fucking stupidity. So if i don't want my girlfriend to read my mail basicly to Howcast it means i'm cheating, i don't want anyone to read my mail or messages nevertheless..doesn't have anything to do with cheating
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If people don't want to be in a relationship with someone.. why not break up with them first.. instead of going behind their backs and cheating on them??
Even if they broke up with you, honestly, you would cry and beg for them to stay and not leave you. Either/or cheating on you or breaking up with you will still make you just as upset.
It almost really doesn't matter which happens first, in my opinion.
Me personally though.. I think its better to tell the truth, that you aren't interested in them anymore.. then going behind their back and cheat on them first.
Or at least that's how I would like it.. Regardless of what happens after.
And if I was cheated on.. I don't think I'd want to get back with them. /=
No, Im gay- Im just tired of seeing all these pist off white chicks getting there men stolen by them and they act all oblivious to the fact that theyre homewreckers
okay how does that make me racist? because i feel that they should quit stealin white men that makes me racist? if a black woman is pist because her man left her for a white girl does that make her racist?? Im sick of this racist labelling in this country its fucking out of control
"because i feel that they should quit stealin white men that makes me racist? if a black woman is pist because her man left her for a white girl does that make her racist??"
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This video is all wrong. It's not cheating if there's nothing physical happening. If I had a girlfriend who felt threatened by my friends and asked me to stop speaking to them I'd just think she was being overly jelous and break up with her for that reason not because I was leaveing her for another girl.
i agree with the majority of what you're saying, apart from "its not cheating if there's nothing physical happening". well what about for example: texting other girls with lead ons and flirting etc. or phone sex, cyber sex etc. etc. etc. it probably hurts more when its emotional rather than physical.
Well I personally find phone sex to be kinda silly and pointless anyway so not sure exactly how to answer that one but as for the lead ons and flirting... I guess that would depend on who's flirting with who. I could give you a few situations where flirting is done with no emotion attachment what so ever but it'd take up too much room in the comment box.
I was looking for a video for PTSD and somehow ended up here. This video is stupid. How to prevent a emotional infidelity: Don't be a dick. If you can't appreciate your partner, then leave and let them find someone who can. If your partner can not appreciate you, leave and find someone who will. If you really have to struggle you are not in the right place and DEFINITELY not loving yourself enough to love someone else.
zenhaltija 2 months ago
step 7 - buy a gun and kill everyone in the ofice
charqui101 3 months ago
If ur gonna cheat w/ someone (for the sex) can u at least cheat w/ someone who isn't ugly?
Crazayblasiangirl 5 months ago 2
according to this video I'm an adulterer...
Ishbu101 6 months ago
I just realized, I'm cheating.lol
AvaNonGrata 7 months ago 2
@AvaNonGrata CONGRATS!!!
Crazayblasiangirl 5 months ago
I had all that happen to me. My bf had a major emotional affair, less than a month after we bought a house too. Everything is still all f*cked up now, I don't trust him and don't know if I'll ever fully have my trust back. If I could afford it I would get my own place cuz it feels like things will never be the same. I love him but i'm not in love with him which breaks my heart. We were supposed to get married this year before all that bullshit, and I am so mad at him for messing everything up.
paperpusher75 10 months ago 2
people cheat cause their fucking weak
fathomthegist 1 year ago 2
In the end you can only hope to be yourself and do what you would usually do in a relationship, if your boyfriend is going to cheat on you he's going to cheat and there is nothing you can do about it, not your fault but its not your decision its his
bocachica27 1 year ago
wow he is soooooooooo handsome O_O''''
i would kill for a guy like that...
shahed2oo6 1 year ago 4
This crap is the reason I prefer being single.
contemplativegirl21 1 year ago
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"Emotional cheating"? Where do women come up with this nonsense. Smh.
AllPro777 1 year ago
Well, as far as the whole porn debate goes, in a sense...when you really, really think about it, it kinda is like cheating. Your looking at people have sex, more than likely wishing you were doing the same with the people you're watching. In general, your watching other's naked instead of your spouse, so then if it were in person that you watched this happen, I bet alot of people would consider it cheating. I'm not against porn or anything, just saying is all lol
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PinoKakelkip 1 year ago
100% of men mentally cheat regardless how well the relationship is going. the leap to being physical is one argument away...
steelfury455 1 year ago
that Asian girl is nice :)
felixoa 1 year ago
I'm telling you folks everything in this video is on the money. Take it from someone with experience and listen up
SuperGuitarman69 1 year ago
1:07 DAMMIT HONEY I WAS LOOKING AT PORN
Kingzogre 2 years ago 3
YOU ARE LOVELY !
SuzumiyaHaruhi0 2 years ago
I personally think the guy is gay and is just using the chicks as a cover. He needs to seriously come out
dickdriver25 2 years ago 5
no, i do what i want!
pyro51090 2 years ago
I hope my so called girl friend could see this. I wouldnt have bothered if i spent money alone lol. But i wasted by giving her my precious love . Which she wasted!
sairamsridharaa 2 years ago 4
Mine is already gone lol!!! and girls are better at cheating !
sairamsridharaa 2 years ago 2
well yeah we have like 900 diffrent flirting techniques guys have like 5 or 6 lol
ichigoxmarura15 2 years ago
why u need so many?..... can't u manage with 5 or 6 ..like men do...:P
Luckychap1 1 year ago
@Luckychap1 What was your question?
ichigoxmarura15 1 year ago
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ichigoxmarura15..... i was asking why u need so many flirting techniques ?..... can't u manage with 5 or 6 ..like men do...:P
Luckychap1 1 year ago
wtf racial identity shouldnt matter in a relationship ppl cmon what generation r u in??? havnt u guys gone too college dayumm shit, race should fuckin matter, we're all americans and immigrants cmon now
drmmer101 2 years ago
Well... changing your screen when you partner walks in isnt always cheating. Could be porn (if thats not considered cheating)
flapplewapple 2 years ago 5
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sorry xD IM FUCKING THAT CHICK BRO! XDDDDDDDD, screw the caucasian IM GOING ORIENTAL! XDDD
billybatson55 2 years ago
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So stupid, this is for retarde people
Neykos 2 years ago
Well why did you click on the video? if it says "How To Prevent Emotional Infidelity" wow look whos retartede.
mirandaollem 2 years ago
This is fucking stupidity. So if i don't want my girlfriend to read my mail basicly to Howcast it means i'm cheating, i don't want anyone to read my mail or messages nevertheless..doesn't have anything to do with cheating
Tombking2 2 years ago 2
bullshit
imdaprince2 1 year ago
...And somehow race comes into play. Gosh...
ImNotYourFriend212 2 years ago
dat has to many step to follow
gatiko2006 2 years ago
no shit. they lost me when that hot asian chick showed up.
0gumbasia 2 years ago 2
this asian chICK=HOOOOTT!!..man i almost cheated now wz her!!LOL!!
mostbayomi 2 years ago
this is a good how-to video good job howcast..
mellowdalyricist 2 years ago 5
all of this depresses me and makes me glad i am not attracted to anyone or with anyone anymore...:-\
No matter what, your hearts always going to be broken.
PepperLust1 2 years ago
fuck as long as you can!
REALLRAPMUSIC 2 years ago
lol 2:07 double chin.
92837451 2 years ago 3
that guy has chest hair up to his neck
broadcass 2 years ago 4
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gosh, the guy's hot...
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gurlicutie 2 years ago
No one likes to get cheated on..
If people don't want to be in a relationship with someone.. why not break up with them first.. instead of going behind their backs and cheating on them??
sselemaNrM 2 years ago 12
Even if they broke up with you, honestly, you would cry and beg for them to stay and not leave you. Either/or cheating on you or breaking up with you will still make you just as upset.
It almost really doesn't matter which happens first, in my opinion.
blacklightfreakout 2 years ago
Me personally though.. I think its better to tell the truth, that you aren't interested in them anymore.. then going behind their back and cheat on them first.
Or at least that's how I would like it.. Regardless of what happens after.
And if I was cheated on.. I don't think I'd want to get back with them. /=
sselemaNrM 2 years ago 6
Simple...
Keep Asian whres away from white men.
solobackpacking 2 years ago
changing the screens when u enter the room and spending too much time on the pc.... tahst every guy out there looking at porn lol
shitsons 2 years ago 29
coMunication? Suggestion for the next video: how to spell
playmate1986 2 years ago
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abcmissme 2 years ago
We are aware of temptation.. why do u think girls cheat too?
Alisha21210 2 years ago 6
i wish all women understood the concept of temptation
brianutube 2 years ago
Lol thats all greenscreen
xSN00ZYx 2 years ago
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That asian bitch is a homewrecker!! Azn chicks date your own kind and quit stealing white men homewreckin tramps!! >:(
RayOfLight11 2 years ago
but they are sooo hot =(
itzmikeyd 2 years ago
looks like someone gots some hard feelings. :)
whitneytyler 2 years ago
No, Im gay- Im just tired of seeing all these pist off white chicks getting there men stolen by them and they act all oblivious to the fact that theyre homewreckers
RayOfLight11 2 years ago
yeah, but they're still pretty hot
hacktheplanet90 2 years ago
Racist much?
Seibzehn 2 years ago
okay how does that make me racist? because i feel that they should quit stealin white men that makes me racist? if a black woman is pist because her man left her for a white girl does that make her racist?? Im sick of this racist labelling in this country its fucking out of control
RayOfLight11 2 years ago
"because i feel that they should quit stealin white men that makes me racist? if a black woman is pist because her man left her for a white girl does that make her racist??"
Yes and depends on her exact reasoning.
Kdbattista 2 years ago
...They basically said that if u like ur privacy... ur cheating.
>_>
xVampLette 2 years ago
no, they said if you're being sneaky about your other friendships, then the biggest step has already been made.
snoopyloopy 2 years ago
HOWFAIL!
sk8erboy182 2 years ago
Lol i was thinking the same thing XD
MeR0bert 2 years ago
ohhh man that's hard
slygirls09 2 years ago
Lol, tell your spouse who they can't be friends with. Yea, that'll go over well.
/sarcasm
LilT2o00 2 years ago 6
why would you cheat that dark hair girl when shes sexier then that ugly chineese whore lol
Nem92 2 years ago
im willing to guess your single lol
pboisei 2 years ago
how do u knows shes a whore lol she could be a slut
UtkarsJainTV 2 years ago
You, my fellow human, are an idiot.
HomoCyberneticus 2 years ago
"You, my fellow human, are an idiot."
-HomoCyberneticus
LOOOLLLLOOLOL!!!
bluesmanvi 2 years ago
o.O Heresy!
Henners1991 2 years ago
Oh shit.... I gotta talk to my girl now @_@
Receptical 2 years ago 2
like a cheating dog would care about this. most ppl are cheating dogs.
Sugarfexx 2 years ago 3
i could c this backfiring something lovely lol. feel free 2 use this advice at ur own discretion.
ramone2385 2 years ago
LOL That lady is like Jaws or a ninja, the way she lurks into the room so suspiciously all the time.
harukamae 2 years ago
amazing arse near the end
sfnoodles 2 years ago
He's cute.
OdeToNecrophilia 2 years ago
Sad, but true. A huge factor in the US divorce statistics.
grodenbarg 2 years ago 2
the guys cute tho
10thStreetBlvd 2 years ago
lovely lady ... I wonder I could get her email without my wife finding out lol
phoeniximperator 2 years ago
1:51 nice ass
sosplz987654321 2 years ago 6
HELL YES!
TkrB 2 years ago
i nid that RADAR...where to buy it?? lmao
baboon940918 2 years ago 12
It'd be more than emotional with me and that girl
GWOZ0Z0 2 years ago
Well I wouldn't want anyone reading my emails.
Even if it's from my grandmother.
eletronicguru 2 years ago 34
nice house
tigiris2257 2 years ago 4
according to research, the cheek.... the fuckin cheek :P
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CLUBZSPADEZ 2 years ago
0:15
what is she looking at?
the girl in the bottom left corner?
xoANONiMUSox 2 years ago 4
AT 1:40, she finaly gets to some real good info. How to keep a man: long Hair, stay thin, never leave him wanting sex, don't nag.
goose1077 2 years ago
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This video is all wrong. It's not cheating if there's nothing physical happening. If I had a girlfriend who felt threatened by my friends and asked me to stop speaking to them I'd just think she was being overly jelous and break up with her for that reason not because I was leaveing her for another girl.
RialVestro 2 years ago
i agree with the majority of what you're saying, apart from "its not cheating if there's nothing physical happening". well what about for example: texting other girls with lead ons and flirting etc. or phone sex, cyber sex etc. etc. etc. it probably hurts more when its emotional rather than physical.
napkinx3 2 years ago 5
Well I personally find phone sex to be kinda silly and pointless anyway so not sure exactly how to answer that one but as for the lead ons and flirting... I guess that would depend on who's flirting with who. I could give you a few situations where flirting is done with no emotion attachment what so ever but it'd take up too much room in the comment box.
RialVestro 2 years ago
lol i was just using examples for "non physical" but yeah i get what you mean, i was just making a point.
napkinx3 2 years ago
Damn that chinky girl is STACKED.
L00pyL0u 2 years ago
that guys hawt!!!!
Michelletohell 2 years ago
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i'd fuck the asian instead of her
MCpapalop2 2 years ago
oh man that guy is so hot!!
fairlyagile 2 years ago
the asian one is ugly but the other one is hot
deagle94 2 years ago 3
True.
st204rna 2 years ago
interesting
asiangirlmob 2 years ago
this is a big wtf
Fallout64911 2 years ago
that guy is hawt
tchanabc 2 years ago 3
This is one of the reasons why i'm still single.. and always will be
xqueensexii 2 years ago 2
hes cutee
Sahtastic 2 years ago
???
nmorris47 2 years ago
what is Emotional Infidelity?
pyro123kid 2 years ago 5
"keep the relationship professional"
BornOfMaya7 2 years ago
im first too!
CnzYLMAcnZ 2 years ago
nice
layanmahshi 2 years ago
who cares what number you are. oh, only you.
looow 2 years ago 2
First!
Gary007FTW 2 years ago
3rd
POWERJFROMLA 2 years ago
second!
makenewmistake 2 years ago
FIRST ZOMG11111
PeterPlaysGH 2 years ago