"Parental Alienation"

[GoddessofPentacles]

WE NEED HELP IN GETTING MEDIA ATTENTION FOR THE INJUSTICE IN THE COURT SYSTEM AND CSE AGAINST NON-CUSTODIAL PARENTS WHO ARE GOING THROUGH PARENTAL ALIENATION AND BEING ACCUSED UNJUSTLY!! LOOK UP GUY RIGHTZ on FACEBOOK, who is fighting for his freedom and others in the same situation.

[russ5074]

I do believe that the rate of children being raised without a father is alot higher then a mere 40%

[realexhousewifeoc]

It is extremely sad to know that either parent could do such a thing as to use children as pawns. This is NOT why we had children to begin with. To destroy them in the process when someone didn't get "their way" during the marriage? What ever happend to, "I love you enough to say Have a Wonderful Life. Now let's make sure our children's lives ARE WONDERFUL." Watching this video; I see my own life and my children's idealistic little faces. May God Bless ALL of Our Souls and HEAL Our Wounds.

[lisahere123]

Dear realexhousewifeoc,Thank you for your kind and insightful words about my video. Sadly I am sorry to find another woman who is suffering this horrible ordeal. I feel it is the worse pain a mother can experience. My heart goes out to you. I find that this pain is hardly tolerable and is only somewhat endurable over time as we see that our children are growing up. I feel that we alienated mothers are some of the greatest humans on the planet to be able to overcome this awful trial. Hugs, Lisa

[lawker777]

@realexhousewifeoc My mom and dad have been seperated for 10 years and have rarely talked to each other. My dad demands me to do various tasks. My mom just leads a sedentary life and depends on my dad for money. Ive encountered many emoitional outbreaks with her. It was scary when i was a kid, but now i never tolerate it. Ive had many aspirations, but most of them never happened. Ive tried to study my ass off by getting high SAT and enriched course marks, only to get kicked out of my own home.

[realexhousewifeoc]

@lawker777 I'm so sorry for your pain. I know my children have been used, manipulated and confused. It pains me beyond belief to know how hurt they have been when it didn't have to be this way. Had HE done what was fair and civil from the beginning my children would have never been toyed with mentally, nor have the irreprable emotional pain they endure. This was not fair what your parents did to you. My son and I both had to be homeless for some time as a result of my ex's vindicivness.

[realexhousewifeoc]

@lawker777 I'm so sorry for your pain. I know my children have been used, manipulated and confused. It pains me beyond belief to know how hurt they have been when it didn't have to be this way. Had HE done what was fair and civil from the beginning my children would have never been toyed with mentally, nor have the irreprable emotional pain they endure. This was not fair what your parents did to you. My son and I both had to be homeless for some time as a result of my ex's vindictivness.

[realexhousewifeoc]

@lawker777 How old are you? There are plenty of kids, like yourself, who have endured this merciless pain, unfortunately, some took their own lives. However, we can ALL BAN TOGETHER and make a difference to show the world that PARENTAL ALIENATION DOES EXIST. Inbox me and perhaps you can join the many supporters and victims, who will become VICTORS, in bringing JUSTICE to this corrupt INjustice system. And STOP the ABUSIVE PERPETRATORS. Peace and Blessings to you!

[scottdavene]

Mothers are more likely to try to alienate then fathers are.

[4gr8funvideos]

Lisa...Bless you! You've created a visual that speaks louder than words. I'm also alienated from my sons - know first hand of the horrors and nightmares of PAS.

[lisahere123]

@4gr8funvideos

I'm sorry to hear that.... :(

[lonewolf1264]

When it comes down between a father and mother,a heroin addicted,drunken mother has more chance than the father,the courts,and the laws[that many women use,lying and maniplulating!],it's calledf misandry and before you women shoot your mouths off check the statistics,almost 40% of children are raised without a father!

[lisahere123]

@lonewolf1264

Sorry Lonewolf to hear you are soo bitter. I know your pain though. I do understand that many children are without their fathers and that is so sad...but remember this is NOT a gender thing.

Male or Female...alienation happens to the BEST of us...usually from the nasty controlling ex. It is a sad day for us and the kids...regardless if the Mother or the Father is no longer there...

[lonewolf1264]

@lisahere123 It does go against the father more than the mother as the police beleive the woman more than the man,ever try to have a wife charged for assault,they laugh at you but wifey lies and without a mark on her gets father cherged! I do agree with you that it is sick ! Society,the govt.,courts,police etc..are against the family,that's 1 of satan's agendas to destroy the U.S. and Canada by destroying the family! I will pray for you Lisa,children need both a mother and father!

[SacredSocietyAP]

Great Video...I feel so sorry for you..as I am going through the same thing...I am going on 5 years without my daughter. PAS is Real and is ABUSE. I hope you get your kids back...GOD BLESS YOU!!

[lfant65]

Lisa, Please receive all my sympathy and solidarity. I totally agree with you that PAS is not a matter of gender. This is not about good fathers against bad mothers: it´s about people who respect and love their children against those who do not, it´s about people who fight for their children emotional health against those who fight for their own selfish interest.

Gos bless you and your kids!! (by the way, I have five children too, and loves them with all my heart).

[lisahere123]

Thank you Ifant65,

LOVE will conquer all.....

[avonrangemaster]

Great shame..lovely children..the truth comes out eventually..

[forfatherlessfive]

I was thinking about you and hope you are okay. We saw each others videos about a year ago. I still haven't been able to see my 5 kids for almost 3 years now and all email & phone communications were cut off about 1.5 years ago. How about you? Have you had any contact with any of your 5? I saw your myspace page too - great idea about the birthday cards. Hope you're well - take care.

[4paws4life]

Thank you for putting up this video. My mom is the victim of parental alienation and my brother was removed from our family 4 years ago. Please watch my video on Parental Alienation, my story. My thoughts are with you.

[joycelmft]

Thank you so much for including the grandparents and other extended family members. I am a grandmother who has been cut off by my don and dil. They will not let me and husband see our grandchildren. It has been 4 long years of grieving and depression. Parents are not divorced in this case.

[lisahere123]

Youre welcome "joycelmft".

Grandparents DO suffer and grieve through this too...and on top of this, the grandchild miss out on some of the "choicest" people on the planet (our wise and kind elderly) who have so so so much to offer these young children who are struggling to grow up in this difficult world. Thanks again for your comment Joyce. Lisa

[celiayo]

Lisa, I first want to congratulate you on absolutely beautiful healthy children. No matter how much your ex wants to rid you from their lives, he can not rid their/your DNA. (You gave birth to his children and he feels entitled to this and then throw you away when he does not need you anymore. It sounds like he has a narcissistic personality disorder & $). My heart goes out to you> Any court should award you custody, but how do you prove the other parent is guilty of this form of child abuse.

[penzandpaul]

im going though this at the moment and carnt even see light at he end of the long dark tunnel

[lisahere123]

I am so sorry! What helped me was when I began to write many cards and letters to my children. I wrote down my many feelings of love for them and what I would have said to them IF IF IF they would have been here with me while they are held captive. I keep all these letters and cards here at home for them for the day they are finally FREE to find me and come home. They will read them and know of my love. I hope this helps you in some way. NEVER give up...time heals ALOT !

[tical926]

Me too. I have a new claim sitting in a drawer and I still haven't worked up the courage to go and file it... As bad as it sounds, I'm more used to this hurt and pain than prepared for the uncertainty :(

[sepharothgal67]

Lisa, thank you for this video. It is not just the father of my children who has done this to me and my beautiful 3 daughters but his family with whom my girls live. My eldest daughter hates me and only yesterday they got my youngest girl to come on the phone and scream at me. I felt so destroyed and alone, questioning myself as a mother. Tonight I found your vid and I now know I am not alone in this hell. Thank you again and I hope that one day our children will see the truth!

[bobbidoll55]

My heart breaks for you. This video was put together really well. People just don't realize until they are involved in something like this.

[TruthIsAlwaysGood]

Lisa,

I just signed up for YouTube today, even though I have been watching videos for years.

I had to in order to respond to your touching video. I cried and cried. As a mother, I can't imagine having my children taken away from me.

I pray for you and your boys, that they learn the truth and that you are reunited.

God Bless. Will keep you in my prayers.

[lisahere123]

Thank you....thank you. Believe it or not, I didn't have them taken from me, since I am a righteous, fantastic mother. My ex was systematically destroying me and I would have been dead soon and by the grace of God had the opportunity to save it so that my children would NOT live the rest of their lives WITHOUT a mother in the future.

[lisahere123]

My ex was LIVID that his plans were foiled....and then took that opportunity to do the only thing left to punish me...to keep us apart in hopes that THIS in turn would somehow kill me of heartache! Indeed it would have if not for the simple fact that I was and am WHERE GOD wants me to be and that FACT alone has spared my life while going through this horrid separation pain.

[lisahere123]

Thank you for your prayers...we FEEL them ! And, yes...thankfully I AM ALIVE today so that they will learn the sad truth about their father... and this form of abuse they had to live through at his hands...IF they will have the courage to come home to me KNOWING that their bio father will disown them or worse. (One of my sons has already shown this faith and made it !!) I can not say more...

[rhinoerect]

Well almost full custody, the final hearing is next month. He still calls me my first name sometimes, tells me i'm a loser, prays to god to protect him from the bad people being me. Every time he comes back from a visit with his mother its as if i have to undue it all over again. After the new ethical judge awarded me custody, she still continues to put him through any chaos that she feels will be beneficial to her making me look bad regardless the cost or toll takes on my innocent 4 yr old.

[rhinoerect]

So sorry to see your story, I know it feels like your in the battle alone. Ive been alienated from my son for three years and made every attempt of seeing him. I was had by a corrupt courtsystem in east texas who helped my ex, her mother and sister completely shut out the fathers of their children after separation. I'm the one who stood up and fought a losing battle for three years. After she falsely reported me to cps 4 times now for alleged sexual abuse I now have custody.

[lisahere123]

THANK YOU ALL...for you comments. I recently posted a comment on another one of my video that you may want to read since it applies here:

Thanks...I wish more people had an attitude of being more helpful !

I don't see them because I have an ex husband that is so hurt and bitter that his "revenge" towards me is to make my 5 boys hate MY guts for divorcing him and not staying in our worldly marriage which was killing me...and he can't very well do that with me around...now can he??

[lisahere123]

Especially since our 5 boys LOVED and charished me from the deepths of their hearts and would have REFUSED to live without me. So, they have been held hostage for almost 5 years now. He tells others terrible lies about me and my family to keep the facade going, but me and my family keep praying that SOMEDAY he will grow a conscience and let our children reunite with me their loving mother. So far the two oldest have been completely brain washed that I am NOW their enemy :(

[lisahere123]

It still blows MY mind that there is this kind of HORRIBLE child abuse going on all around us...and VERY FEW people seem to care!!...UNTIL... it happens to them???

[lisahere123]

If what I speak of is NOT the truth ...then why wouldn't my ex or those who are the alienators defending themselves against what I or others against alienation are saying about it or them here on anywhere on the Internet ??? Where is he or them?? Hiding behind their lies??? Where are THEIR videos or YouTube blogs defending themselves???

OH thats right...there ARE none !!!

They are hoping that the world is asleep to their wicked deeds....

[PASCRAA]

well done for this video

[lildottie]

Thank you for this video. Sadly this is many parents daily reality and I know exactly how you feel :) We must never give up!

[ynotawoody]

Thank you for posting this video, it goes a long way towards helping me understand that men do this too. You have tougher path to follow than most of us dads, with you being a minority within a minority.

[forfatherlessfive]

Our stories are similar. I lost five kids too, to a very abusive mother and a very corrupt family law system in Colorado. Our day will come. Keep plugging away. We will see them soon.

[OhhCanada69]

good video

[Twinhit]

"Children need both parents and should always be encouraged to love both." I agree 100%

Also, I think that both parents should be encouraged to love each other.

Remember the child is a part of each parent.

To love the child in full is to love the other parent also.

That's my rule. Even if I am the only one abiding by it.

[wogbunny]

I'm sorry this has happen to another person. I know the empty feeling you have. I'm a grandmother of three wonder grandson's and my daughter won't allow me to see them out of spite. I don't understand how this is legal.

[Twinhit]

that is sad and wrong.

[MelodyGerow]

My 19 year old daughter Demi and I are both very interested speaking about our experiences with Parental Alienation. For reasons I'm still searching to understand, and through circumstances surrounding a nasty divorce, my younger daughter Scarlett (15 yrs old) has been alienated from us since 4/1/2003.

[Twinhit]

Sometimes the alienated parent doesn't realize that their actions may alienate themselves from the family. - Perhaps the father feels that you have alienated Demi from him.

Lack of communication or the lack of the desire of communication for all the hard feelings. Too bad you cannot kiss and make up.

[foryoutohear]

PAS DOES exist!!!Period!! What you women want is just ANOTHER way to get what you want based ONLY on YOUR word! I agree that if a woman says there is abuse it should be investigated but NOT taken as fact.MANY men lose children ,the love of their children ,money and sometimes their freedom based entirely on a woman's word. Absurd! I will fight to make sure that EVERYONE accepts the REALITY of PAS!

[mothersforjusticeAU]

every case is unique sweet dont worry this isnt the  last!!!

[lisahere123]

Thank you "foryoutohear" for your comment, and for agreeing that PAS does indeed exist as I am telling others here in this Video called "Parental Alienation".

Sad thing is...is that it seems as though ONLY those who have lived through this "nightmare" are the ones who finally come to the realization that it is REAL.... to be continued

[lisahere123]

REMEMBER...when you say "what you women want is.....yada yada"... that you are singling out "WOMEN" when this is a INDIVIDUAL problem...not a "WOMEN" or "FEMALE" sydrome ! (or MALE)

Many men and women are the ALIENATORS and are causing EXTREME pain and anguish to the ex spouse and children. Thank you for saying that you are making sure that everyone you know will accept that the reality of pas exist, but hopefully through loving education and NOT through forcing others to live it as we have :)

[PaulG849]

I posted the video response also. My ex tells my son I am evil, I will steal him, I am crazy, I am dangerous. She tells him I don't really love him, that she has every right to hate me, I am abusive, and she discourages us from spending more time. Many alienators are Narcissistic and do not regard the feelings of their child. Children need both parents and should always be encouraged to love both.

Paul Greiner

[Saechem]

I lost custody of my daughter about two years ago. There were times I kept her from her stepgrandmom because she was undermining me, overstepping her boundaries and causes tension in my own family. She originally wanted to adopt my daughter. I got in a big fight with my daughter over doing the dishes and making her bed. All of a sudden she wanted to move and live with her dad. He won custody of her by making false accusations. The judge never said the accusations were founded yet he won.

[Duck8it]

You are not alone Lisa. This is being done to Ida a wonderful mother in Holdenville/Seminole Oklahoma too.

[ctyofangels]

Lisa this is beautiful and well done!

Let god be with them and direct them hear to see your love for them

God we pray you bless Lisa and heal her hurt give her strength and give her children and her direction to come back together again amen

Love ya Chrissy

[ctyofangels]

Sorry I tried to give it a 5 star but it hit on the three! SO folks this is a FIVE STAR VIDEO!!!!!

[UKSecretCourts]

Parental Alienation

Dr Gardners Quotes

watch?v=-bjsurmxCug

[airstreamed]

well done for this. excellent and something we all need to scream from the roof tops about