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  • God bless you and your brother <3

  • SO SAD. THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO.

    YOU ARE A WONDERFUL SISTER. GOD SEES ALL YOU DO. HE WILL REWARD YOUR LOVE.

    THIS MADE ME CRY.

  • I agree . I dont understand people . when you are sick like that in nature life you would die

    it is a shame but mother should let him go when he was young like that

    why keep person like that alive ? maybe they want to have more work for hospital and thats way this mentally of keeping people who are not capable to live

  • @MrDamianstep Its illegal to just let someone die, whether they have diability or not. Doctors are obliged to provide any service to keep a person alive

  • When I see young guys like this with severe intellectual disability, I feel sad and I always imagine what theyd be like if they didnt have it and the fact theyre missing out on development, having a wife, kids... its sad.

  • ;(

  • The Walking Dead season 3!

  • the message of this video is good, but....honestly, it's really cruel to keep him in this world. his existence is pain. i know you love your brother but...damn...sometimes when you love someone you really have to let him go... ;'(

  • @Muxxyy It's illegal to kill people or neglect someone in your care so what exactly are you saying she should do? kill him? starve him to death? I mean wtf. Thats illegal.

  • @ByeByeBelly they should have just let the nature run it's course. he had a whole bunch of surgeries done to keep him alive..and for what? they should have let him die back when he was still little. i mean come on - he can't even eat on his own - he has to be force fed! if he ever chokes on something they just simply shouldn't cpr. and god damnit america is f*ed up on some laws. euthanasia should be legal for extreme cases. it's more cruel to keep them alive -> just a lab rat for surgeons

  • @Muxxyy I work with people who are 90% more disabled than this guy. I dont see why he shouldnt be allowed to live. He can move, he makes noises, he has at least basic thoughts

  • @ByeByeBelly what's the point? do you really think he's aware of himself? cos if not - he's a potato and if he is then it's a torture. what is the reasoning behind you? do you think you're helping? do you think it "wants" to exist? i doubt. i've seen less disabled people begging their doctors to end their lives, claiming it was too hard on them. the only reason why this guy isn't doing the same is because he can't speak -.-'

  • @Muxxyy I think youre talking shit. I work in disability support and Ive never known anyone with a disability to want to die.

  • @Muxxyy Also he's clearly a guy, not "it"

  • @Muxxyy : Just watched this and it made me sad, too. But it's not ours or any other people's right to judge about his life and the value of his personality or his life. I think he's well aware of himself, it may be another level of awareness, as we would perceive it as usual, and the fact that we can't notice, doesn't turn down the value of his life. I think his sister, his people care for him very well.

  • @Muxxyy His life will be good for teaching us, raising up all these questions on how we deal with one another, how we could care for one another. You'll agree on this, any time in your life you could have some bad accident or disease, that will leave you to the decisions of your people, friends or doctors. Even if you were in a locked-in stage of stroke, not able to tell anyone you are aware, you wouldn't want to be just 'shut off' or euthanized, would you?

  • I'm sorry, i'm not trying to be insensitive, but honestly what is the point in letting this persist? Have you ever thought about your brother's quality of life? He can't even control himself.

  • @Crabtakular Youre not allowed to kill people, so what are you implying?

  • the stupidity in these comments is alarming.

  • نسأل الله له الشفاء وبان يرحمه ويصبرك على خدمته

  • God Bless you and your family ... thank you for sharing with the world, and teaching us what abuse does.

  • he is humping the bed towards the end.

  • god bless you and your family.

  • He can't talk, can't eat, can't walk :( Good on you sis for looking after him...i wish you all well

  • my goodness clean that fish tank cleaned up!

  • @sonthaivu .... it is clean !! , it is a small room and it is only crowed and cluttered !!!

  • @sonthaivu what the fuck kind of english is that?

  • 2:38 The bed got impregnated

  • Bless him. Poor man. :(

  • As a mother, I just wanted to say, I'm so very proud of you! Such a wonderful sister you are. He's gorgeous! I love how he pushes you away, as if to say "Okay, okay, enough Sis!" lol

    I'm sure you've hit home so to speak to many abused families, and have helped them to see the importance of your message. I salute you kiddo! I'm sure you've had to grow up fast, just glad you grew up so humble and sweet. A big hug to you and your brother!!

  • This looks like some kind of schizophernia?

  • @ivanfink1 Looks nothing like schizophrenia. But you can see he has a genetic defect since birth because his abdomen is wasted and his legs are very small and malformed. He cant walk or talk. Thats not schizophrenia in the slightest. Its a physical disease.

  • So, did any of these abuses get reported to the police? I bet not!

  • gob bless

  • You're a very good, loving sister. God bless you and your brother.

  • He's got a pretty sweet beard going on...

  • لا الله الى الله  وان محمد عبده ورسوله

  • how stupid are you illiterates who actually agreed with the uncertainty of the link between the topics?

    beating on a woman during her pregnancy can cause many different types of birth defects, and harm to the fetus in general. she's trying to warn women who allow these douchebag men to continue hurting them to GET OUT, so they don't end up with the harsh reality her family deals with.

    and she's not showcasing him as a freak, asshole. she posted her love for him right underneath; RESPECT.

  • @cupcakeporno

    beating on a woman should never be condoned and yes it may cause harm to a fetus if that woman is pregnant...but being as illiterate as you claim i am i still fail to see the connection between her parents' shitty relationship and their shitty genetics. His syndrome is congenital, in his genes, so claiming it was caused directly by abuse makes her (and you by extension) seem like the ''illiterate / stupid'' one. please....prove me and my fellow doubters wrong.

  • @madhadr beating her = not developing right = shitty genes

  • @M3aaaqHD beating her might = not developing right (ok)... not developing right = shitty genes (ok)...but beating her =/= shitty genes . still dont see the correlation here between what she says about spousal abuse and his CONGENTIAL condition, sorry. genetics and environment (the beat downs) can interact but are two separate systems...its been awhile since basic bio so please correct me if i'm wrong

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  • GOD BLESS HIM

  • What does his condition have to do with abuse?

  • you should just put that poor fucker out of his misery

  • @SilkyJoe2 its illegal to murder someone.

  • Dandy–Walker syndrome (DWS) is a congenital brain malformation involving the cerebellum and the fluid filled spaces around it. DWS is a genetically sporadic disorder that occurs one in every 25,000 live births, mostly in females. There is no correlation between DWS and spousal abuse. Source: Wikipedia

  • To 'conclude' that DWS is the result of spousal abuse... casts aspersions on ANY parent having offspring that suffer this disorder. It's irresponsible to spread such misinformation.

  • @kkalajan Yeah, I have never known it to be caused by spousal abuse.

  • bastard, why do you make this video and why are you bulling your brother?

  • @Froxus bullying? they probably take care of him every day it would be a full time job, they have to move for him, they are not bullying him

  • a meaningful attempt. But a little more detail about how spouse abuse caused his condition would make it more impactful. I encourage you to add this edit. A great topic, and a tragic illustration, if beating his mother while she was pregnant directly caused this horrible condition.

  • he has scars.. he has this.. he has that..

    ok but why put it on youtube..

  • @stepxunit awareness

  • What in the hell is the correlation between spousal abuse and his condition? Apparently I missed the connection. If any of you see her point, help me understand. damn...

  • does he know whats going on?

  • @1234chair5432 He is probably aware of some basic things and then not aware of some things that you and I would be

  • Its funny because is a retard.

    

  • @ChikloMutante You must be one yourself as you do not even have the ability to form a sentence that people can understand.

  • @ChikloMutante He has a valid reason to have mental retardation, YOU are just a fucking dickhead!

  • it makes me sick seeing the disrespectful comments that are one here .

  • Dandy–Walker syndrome (DWS), or Dandy–Walker complex, is a congenital brain malformation involving the cerebellum and the fluid filled spaces around it. A key feature of this syndrome is the partial or even complete absence of the part of the brain located between the two cerebellar hemispheres (cerebellar vermis).[1] The Dandy–Walker complex is a genetically sporadic disorder that occurs one in every 25,000 live births, mostly in females

  • Thanks for posting.. Good to hear you say that the abused person ''wants to wait" till the abusing partner 'gets better'. That is the sad part: that the victim is not able to make the decision that he/she needs to do. He/she temporarily no longer has the mental capacity to make the decision to leave. specificly because the abuser prohibits any ideas of any changes. . It is only after (some years of) leaving that he/she can get an idea of their having done the right thing. . Cheers. from, del-boy
  • Pay a prostitute to give Andrew some pussy poor kid

  • Гамаз?

  • 2:35 hes haveing a wet dream

  • is this fake?

  • just kill him, you've just ruined his social life. who's gonna want to date him now with a sister like you bad mouthing like that.

  • It just makes me really sad that u film ur brother with this type of syndrome and put him up on youtube... Hes no circus animal, Its a fucking human like al of us

  • @Lillajohan123 "IT"?????? very compassionate there.....

  • @Lillajohan123 She is taking care of her brother instead of having him disappear in an institution. Would you do this too?

  • @Lillajohan123 She's promoting awareness for this terrible condition. This video was obviously not uploaded onto youtube to display him as a "circus animal". People like you are scum of the Earth and you even contradict yourself by refering to him as "it".

    I do not want to live on this planet with people like you, go and get a fucking education.

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  • You know what always scares me? Is what if people like the brother are stuck in that prison, yet their minds are completely normal and away, and there is nothing they can do about it.

  • @HawesomePossum His mind isnt normal, he has severe intellectual disability

  • @ByeByeBelly ...yes, I know. It was a "what if". Don't be stupid.

  • Sweetheart!

    You are a VERY Special person and I take my hat off to you! <3

    God Bless you and Andrew ............XOXOXOXOX

  • You got a lot of heart.

  • Didn't really explain a lot..

  • dandy-walker named for the drs who discovered it is a genetic disorder my mother and son have it it is caused by a swelling of the fourth ventricle of the brain that does not allow the spinal fluid to drain off so it builds up on the front of the brain causing verying degrees of problems my mom walks like shes drunk and has seizures my son developed a tumor before any other symptoms presented so please have your children screened at birth your kids can develop it

  • god bless you and your family

  • <3

  • @theonemirror really... thats the saddest, and dirtiest fucking comment ever, go to hell you stupid bitch.

  • @theonemirror You still have a right to your opinion, so i unspamed you. Spam is when your trying to sell something.

  • So, was it your mother that was abused while she was pregnant with him and he was hurt in the womb ? Was your mother and father charged with a crime ? Your father should be in prison for doing it and your mother should be right beside him for allowing this. Just my opinion but I'm only speculating on the little info you're giving and relating everything to "spousal abuse".

  • Poor fella, awful quality of life he'll have...but what has spousal abuse got to do with his terrible condition?

  • @neverfindaname Its not right to assume all people with disabilities like these will have awful quality of life. Hes being taken care of so he has the best quality of life he can have. He has intellectual disability so he is not aware that he is "missing out" on certain things you and I consider vital in life.

  • :(

  • to Sp33dDem0n1 did your sister do something to you that made yo actually believe that it was even possible that a woman would do that to her brother, what's going on in your home to make you so twisted and vile

  • @silverseekerfy Learn to rely proper you dumb whores abortion lol

  • @Sp33dDem0n1 What the hell is wrong with you? Maybe you should keep your mouth shut cause you just made yourself sound like a low life retard! Hope you have an accident now that will turn you severly disabled so that you can know what that must be like! JACKASS!!!!

  • @nikizee1 Not likely you scumbag

  • @Sp33dDem0n1 Rotton troll. Leave these good people out of your sick fantasies.

  • @veelalynne Go fuck yourself you stupid cunt.

  • @Sp33dDem0n1 And while you're at it, keep ME out of your sick fantasies as well.

  • @veelalynne Dont worry buddy you aren't all that. Full of yourself much?

  • @Sp33dDem0n1 Wow...you're a pervert, a troll, and above all, an improvident jerkwit who doesn't even make any sense when he trolls. You are the total loser package. Go away. No one likes you. Now, you'll get no more attention from me. Toodles.

  • To all of you idiots saying the kid didn't want to be "shown to the world" and the sister is dumb and abusive for posting this, shut up. The lid doesn't have the capacity to speak, he groans an flops around: you assholes really think he knows there's a camera on him?

  • Ι am sorry, but I didn't understand why the guy was abused. And by whom. Thanks

  • OMFG U are tha most LOVED chick of my friends, I just wanned to tell you tht u are a have a relly BIG heart!

    <3 from csantnio

  • What happened to him ? You said spousal abuse but how did that affect him ? Was he caught in the violence and how ?

  • @RECONDO101st Agreed, I have no idea how the two relate.

  • @RECONDO101st Must be that the mother was physically abused while pregnant and this could be the cause of his genetic syndrome because he didnt form properly

  • Dandy-Walker syndrome isn't caused by trauma. It's caused by genetic abnormalities and sometimes prenatal viruses,

  • @KaliDemiDarkness Why is this woman blaming abuse for her brothers condition?

  • @Jackiedajackass I have no idea. I think she is trying to say his mother was abused when she was pregnant with him, and therefore he has a birth defect. But this particular disorder is not caused by prenatal trauma.

  • @Jackiedajackass this is what happens when the mother is abused (beaten) while pregnant, it affects the way the fetus is developed.

  • @ihadnothingtodo How is that ..when this is a GENETIC ABNORMALITY??????

  • Thankyou for sharing this, i had previously never heard of dandy walker syndrome.

  • If this was a dog or cat you would put him down. I'm not saying he is a DOG or some kind of creature. But if he was able to be mentally sound ANYONE would beg them to stop being this way. It is cruel. I feel so bad for him. If that was all life was, same as being a vegetable or any thing of the sort I would beg to have my death me peaceful but taken as soon as possible. It's actually in my will to do so.

  • @NurseEri

    I'm not saying this isnt an AMAZING message and great way of showing the real truth, but honestly, this is just...too sad. This shouldn't happen to a human

  • Holy shit man!

  • Ok... So... Ok... So first respect to your brother who has Dandy walker Syndrome. Can you please explaine what the link between this and Spousal abuse is? Just for those of us that arent sure.

  • @Girkinboy his mom was beaten by his dad while he was in her womb. so it messed him up :/

  • You stupid cunt! How is his condition related to spousal abuse??? With that aside, it's obvious he doesn't want you showing him off to the whole world since he keeps trying to cover his face and pushing you away! Stupid girl!

  • @autumnriley78 Thats the syndrome and its pretty obvious that she loves her brother but she is trying to spread awarness dummy :P go get smart and go get some respect.

  • @mamal12395 It's hard to respect a LIER,,,,cause her brother has a genetic disorder.

  • @Jackiedajackass you spelled that wrong dumb ass

  • @mamal12395 Who give a rats ass??? The girl is lieing. bee itch.

  • @Jackiedajackass its lying. Learn how to spell

  • @autumnriley78 Keep thinking that. By the way you talk, you own a dog or a car or several, and probably sleep with them in your bed. Being emotional might seem right but all you do is make a fool out of yourself, and show the world how weak you are, and how you depend on other beings to maintain a stable state of mind. She is not stupid. You are!

  • you know we never really realize how lucky we all are...bless you and your brother =)

  • Dandy–Walker syndrome (DWS), is a congenital brain malformation involving the cerebellum and the fluid filled spaces around it. The Dandy–Walker is a genetically sporadic disorder. So how is his condition related to spousal abuse?

  • @alamande It ain't,,,,,,,,,,the girl's a LIER!!!

  • WTF...how the hell can this poor guy be faking this...for God's sake....what she means by spousal abuse is probably that this poor guy or the mother who was pregnant with him was beaten....therefore he suffered some kind of neurological damage while a fetus or while an infant...God bless this woman and her brother....

  • stay strong and im glad he gots a sister like you to take care of him.

  • he act very well

  • Stay strong. your brother is blessed. i hope your not faking this. if not, dont take that to offence. there are so many fake vidoes that its hard to see what is real or not. in any case, stay strong, and great video. my blessings go to you

  • @monara1997 You cant fake a wasted abomen, a PEG implanted in his abdomen for feeding and wasted deformed legs. Its obvious he has a genuine disability since birth that affected his development.

  • Debora stay strong hun.

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  • its just a joke guys hes acting like that no ones actually that tarded relax and be respectful please

    btw you need a better transition when shifting from one topic to the next s confusing makes it seem like they are directly related

    anyways cool video pretty entertaining thanks

  • @theonemirror Wow, youre ignorant, you honestly think its a joke when he's clearly intellectually AND physically disabled? you can see the scars from his surgeries, you can see the peg implanted in his stomach, thats for tube feeding because hes unable to eat properly and hell aspirate and get food in his lungs. I work in disability, HE IS NOT FAKING ANYTHING. You can see his legs and feet are deformed. God.

  • Regardless of his condition he's a handsome young man and the love you have for your brother is very strong :O)

  • God bless you for caring so greatly about your brother, he is truly blessed to have you, and that is a positive message that you are sending. So many people stay with abusive people and that is not love at all.

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  • Thank you all in the family for sharing this <3

  • He keeps trying to hide his face with his hands and blanket and pushes you away, I don't think he wanted to be displayed like this :(

  • You obviously love your brother, and your message is strong - ive passed it on. may he be healthy and you continue to be a wonderful sister, caretaker and messenger for this cause. I'm not a particularly religous person but i do pray for you and your brother, that you have the strength, and health to keep together, and only good things are in your future

  • Yes, I also do not understand, was your mother beaten while pregnant or was your brother abused? You are very brave, and blessings to you and your brother, but I can't quite follow.

  • @eesairt Yeah, I'm wondering the same thing, I think it might be he was beaten when he was young, but I could be wrong.

  • Thank you SOOOOOOOOO much for doing this.

  • I don't really understand. How was the condition caused by spouse abuse? Sorry, I don't quite follow. 

  • @CornishRicky im assuming daddy hit mommy and was abusive to her while pregnant so he was born early in this condition.

  • DUHH DUrurrrrrrrrr FLAPy HanDS DurRRR BOOggERR

  • @TheAssNigger1 Your a dick. GTFO! What if THAT was you.? Fuck yourself.

  • i appreciate your strenght to fight with this situation, thanks for posting....we have to learn from it...

  • listen here The AssNigger this is not funny your stupid for saying such things and one day you will regret ever saying that cause it will come back to you 10 folds asshole

  • THIS IS TO THE ASSNIGGER1 ? WHY IS THIS SO FUNNY IS NOT FUNNY BEING LIKE THAT YONG MAN

  • WOW, I'm blown away by the absolutely stupid, cowardly, cold heinous remarks here. Verbal abuse is just as damaging as fiscal abuse & in some cases can cause damage that can last a lifetime.

    Your brother is a lucky man to have you for assistance.

    Remember people, abuse goes both ways, man against woman or woman against man. Abuse of any form should never be tolerated.

  • @TheAssNigger1 you are a fucking cunt this happened to my brother he died just after birth so fuck off

    

  • UH, I'M "MISSING" SOMETHING HERE...

  • you should have had some coaching befor you made this video because you act like a true red neck sweetheart i feel for your bro but you girl friend come out the trailer court an visit the projects an if you have probs reading this i am sure some one there in your trailer can read it to you

  • I hope u to wellness especially him. God bless

    Him.

  • God bless you and your brother. I wish you both wellness.

  • Honestly,I feel bad for the kid.But listen here woman,you are so incapable of appropiate decesions.Look at how your brother trys to hide himself from you while you show the whole world his face.Let it be the other way around,would you want him to do that?THINK GIRL.If my sister did that to me,i'd prolly ask God to take her out.

  • @Mr704forlife She would be used to him doing things like that. She has to dress him every day, tube feed him, he will misbehave and get frustrated and groan and slap her, it happens. she will be used to it by now and ignore him when he pushes at her like that.