I feel like my boyfriend is not validating my emotions when I am upset

[lovealittlered]

O my god ... the reason why he does not validate you problem is a he could not give a hoot or you do it 20 times a day. If he listens a tried to solve the problem then he is finished if he listens that opens the door to a flood gate of other problems. If you what a plug fixed.. asking for validation...for get about it.

[pixieAvery]

Ya. Good idea in THEORY.

[lisabella00]

I like the confirm your feelings, that what your feeling is real..Your feelings are always valid so validation is redundant, feelings are just not always in every case real...