A word of warning. Pshychologists can take normal behaviour and make it seem abnormal if they have an agenda. The left wing do this all the time and we call it, PC. In other words, psychology can itself become manipulative by playing upon pseudo-logic and fears within people. Don't be fooled. Think through all counter arguments to maintain balance.
What I have found confusing is something I had done to me a couple of time somewhere I worked. Two people I was with started up a conversation which seemed to have been chosen to include me but with no pauses for me to take part and with body language which suggested I was excluded. I am sure it was done deliberately. It was confusing...
@nephthysuk Its hard to say, sometimes the conversation does not always revolve around us, but sometimes it can and does come back around. Sometimes these people don't know how to give and take in normal communication. Some people talk over, some talk down to, some talk at. A healthy conversation has a give and take, where both sides share. But body language does say a whole lot, you probably are more astute than you give yourself credit for.
A word of warning. Pshychologists can take normal behaviour and make it seem abnormal if they have an agenda. The left wing do this all the time and we call it, PC. In other words, psychology can itself become manipulative by playing upon pseudo-logic and fears within people. Don't be fooled. Think through all counter arguments to maintain balance.
DumblyBrilliant 6 months ago
What I have found confusing is something I had done to me a couple of time somewhere I worked. Two people I was with started up a conversation which seemed to have been chosen to include me but with no pauses for me to take part and with body language which suggested I was excluded. I am sure it was done deliberately. It was confusing...
nephthysuk 1 year ago
@nephthysuk Its hard to say, sometimes the conversation does not always revolve around us, but sometimes it can and does come back around. Sometimes these people don't know how to give and take in normal communication. Some people talk over, some talk down to, some talk at. A healthy conversation has a give and take, where both sides share. But body language does say a whole lot, you probably are more astute than you give yourself credit for.
PsychDoctorate 1 year ago