love...i had been through relationships an none like the one that really hurt me an what hurts the most is that he liked someone else when we had 9 months an i went through so much to be w/him jus 2 be thrown away.....my heart felt he was the one but i guess i was wrong....he never told me why an he even ran away from me when i had so much 2 give to him
in 1829 a man named fredrick was working in his lab and a ghost came by and killed him the next morning fredrick was nowhere to be seen 100 years later 2 boys went to the lab as a dare the boys were never seen again aperently murdered now that u red this comment when u go 2 sleep fredeick and the boys will come and murder u but u can stop this by postiong this on 5 comments
Like all intense emotional experiences, the only real resolution is time. Your mind will cycle thru the experience until there is no more emotional value. (psychological phenomenon termed "extinction"). Much like listening to a favorite song until you get tired of listening to it.
So, dont stress. Your trist will run it's course, than it will be over. You are way to young to get seriously involved with anybody. Have fun! Enjoy life! Move on...
Here's what you do: eat a lot of beans and then fart a lot in front of that person. It'll completely turn him off and he'll never want to see to you again.
well.....first off think about what U consider love to be....then compare that to how they treat you. If u don't think there is anyway u could make it work....and if they really hurt u......GET REVENGE...so they'll get mad at u then u can move on lol
Getting revenge so they are mad at you is SO immature and SOOO exactly what I want to do. But I'm always afraid that they will get mad and I won't ever get them back. (Which is stupid because you make them mad to make them go away.) And yes. I pissed off my ex hardcore two months ago, and now he's back too. BOO. I can't stay away from the darn guy.
.....ie (when i was younger i was seeing this guy...found out he was married and made me believe he was living at his friend's place.....when i found out he was married i phoned him up and told him i had a talk with his wife and that he best not go home....i really didn't but it got him so scared ...well i heard that he talked too much when he got home and got himself in trouble).
you cut them off completely. you'll feel like a dirt bag but then again it's better feel like a dirt bag then to be treated like one. your cute look me up. :)
justmomo89 its even worst if you work with them...i just kept wishing she would quit and leave...is that wrong of me...like they say..."OUT OF SIGHT, OUT OF MIND" Everytime i see her the feelings are reborn. its not healthy
i feel this way...i hate myself, im a horrible gf, and i have known that i dont, and never will deserve the guy that i like right now...because he's too perfect for me...and idk what to do
you befriend them, be the best thing in the world to them, and then just when THEY are like soo deep into you - you fuckin' CUT them OFF like BAD TUMORS. and you leave em a letter saying you're cutting em off and why, and not to contact you again. then watch em outside your window, watch their number on your phone, and cry, laugh... then get over it. But cut em off --- and don't go back. if u see them in the mall a year later, wave, and walk away.
I definitely felt this way before and I believe that the best way to end a relationship with someone who is not good for u is to COMPLETELY cut them off. I changed my number and eventually moved. I forced myself to mentally delete this person. Its now been over a year and now my mind is clear and I am proud of myself for taking such a mature step. I reminded myself daily that when you love yourself u dont put up with BS and u dont allow someone who professes to love u continue to hurt you.
I think the key is to stay single; going out to get another person to replace isn't going to work. I believe it will only make things worse. I say stay single until you're at a point that you aren't affected by that person's actions.
This is one person so far that has done the exact same thing to me from what you have described. It has been a year I'm still single and I'm not in a rush to be in a relationship. In conclusion I say take things one step at a time and learn from the relationship.
Push yourself into multiple projects until you have no time to think about him. Try to date again right away. Move on little by little. If a person disrespects you, remove them completely from your life. Don't give them an inch to creep back in. They don't deserve your time if they can't act respectfully. They are usually easy to get over once you meet someone real and nice. Recognize the behaviors so you never settle for that again. Stop the cycle now.
it took me awhile to get over my ex but i found another man in the mean time, at first i think he'd be a rebound but we're still together almost a year later and i'm more in love then i ever was with my ex. you just have to know when the time is right to move on. time heals everything. it will def take LOTS of time. occupy yourself!
you have REALLY nice skin, what kind of cleanser do you use? if you don't mind me asking lol.
I keep a mental report card on the females that I date.I base it on several things like marales, values, character, sex, good credit and an ability to lol at my stupit jokes.If you get a failing grade overall then your cut,nothing personal.If I see that person in the streets im going to give a huge and keep it moving.
yo this is david. dont find another person to rebound with. find sometime to yourself or your friends. you and your ex can still be cool or not depends on you. just dont let the situation get the best of u ok. keep your head up and your ass down. peace
Never settle for less. If they're no good pieces of shit, let them GO. It's the easiest thing to do, but people make it so hard. Never hang on to somebody who brings you down in whichever way; and never EVER rush into another relationship to forget the last because you are really doing damage to yourself by doing that.
This always made me Laugh "The Best Way to Get over somebody is to get Under Somebody"=]...lol but it's not advise! i've tried it it Don't work! so when you find out how to move on...LET ME KNOW!!!
HEEEEEEY MORGAN! so they say the best way to get over something old is to get something new...this comment wont help...but i felt like saying it anyway ; )
well Momes im turning 32 in a month and I have to let go of someone right now and its hard. endings come new beginnings. Breath deep when you are meditating on this.
just always remember u do not hafta settle for just nebody, even if it means waiting a lil while longer for that right person..trust me for me it was worth the wait..all the pain crying i endored.so worth it now im soo happy
Just tell'em straight to hit the road and don't listen to i'm sorry's or excuses. Cut'em off completely and go party with your closest friends. Avoid situations that leave you feeling lonely, thats what friends are for. And on a side note (and im sure you hear this a lot) you are beautiful and i love your voice. CIAO
By doing just what you said...remembering all the wrong that a person did and asking yourself "Is it worth to get back with E, knowing good and hell well you shouldn't?" I really dont understand why people CONTEMPLATE being with shitty mofo's who they say out of their own MOUTHS are not good for them. That's akin to me saying that I'm going to take a study break with this guy who always goofs around when we're suppose to be studying. Whats the point??
Sigh..big sis..your right. You were from the beginning..thanks for listening to me all those nites when i was saying the same thing i did in this vid and you kept telling me to leave him alone...i love u. =) momo's gon get it right real soon promise!!!
u tell them how they hurt u and that u can't forgive them for what they did and its time for u to move on ,not into another relationship but just move forward without them.
You answered your own question. Why are you gonna carry on loving someone who doesn't deserve you and your love? If they loved you they wouldn't fuck you over. Forget about them and wait for that one that will love you how you deserve to be loved. And as for "real love" you can't "really" love someone who doesn't love you. Alot of females make the mistake of thinking they can and often confuse love with other emotions, me, never. If you're an asshole Idon't deserve to know you. Simple as.
Your right and its crazy i give my friends the same advice..you think he really loves you if he did this too you? and ii cant even take my own..eh..ill get over it!! thanks for the advice mama
You answered your own question and its easier when you KNOW they "don't deserve you or your time." I'm going through this now....you have to love yourself more and constantly remind yourself that someone who is deserving is indeed out there.
And whenever you get the urge to call, repeat fuck that fool out loud over and over (LOL) and remind yourself of everything they did to you. If was bad enough for you to leave the relationship, it's a good enough reason to stay away...
Yeps, love is pain, but it's such a beautiful thing too. You can't help falling in love =P it will happen to you one day and you're gonna be like wtf how did this happen...
love...i had been through relationships an none like the one that really hurt me an what hurts the most is that he liked someone else when we had 9 months an i went through so much to be w/him jus 2 be thrown away.....my heart felt he was the one but i guess i was wrong....he never told me why an he even ran away from me when i had so much 2 give to him
GothLeya 1 year ago
i cut them off but i always hurt! Life has to go on
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dannyboy860 2 years ago
in 1829 a man named fredrick was working in his lab and a ghost came by and killed him the next morning fredrick was nowhere to be seen 100 years later 2 boys went to the lab as a dare the boys were never seen again aperently murdered now that u red this comment when u go 2 sleep fredeick and the boys will come and murder u but u can stop this by postiong this on 5 comments
CHERRYcutieX 2 years ago
Like all intense emotional experiences, the only real resolution is time. Your mind will cycle thru the experience until there is no more emotional value. (psychological phenomenon termed "extinction"). Much like listening to a favorite song until you get tired of listening to it.
So, dont stress. Your trist will run it's course, than it will be over. You are way to young to get seriously involved with anybody. Have fun! Enjoy life! Move on...
smallbee1234 3 years ago
Here's what you do: eat a lot of beans and then fart a lot in front of that person. It'll completely turn him off and he'll never want to see to you again.
sromano82 3 years ago
well.....first off think about what U consider love to be....then compare that to how they treat you. If u don't think there is anyway u could make it work....and if they really hurt u......GET REVENGE...so they'll get mad at u then u can move on lol
kathyputinish 3 years ago
LMAO@ that last part...
i ended up doing that(posted this vid a few months ago) and now he's back speaking to me...go figure!
justmomo89 3 years ago
Getting revenge so they are mad at you is SO immature and SOOO exactly what I want to do. But I'm always afraid that they will get mad and I won't ever get them back. (Which is stupid because you make them mad to make them go away.) And yes. I pissed off my ex hardcore two months ago, and now he's back too. BOO. I can't stay away from the darn guy.
iammischief 2 years ago
yeah it is immature but can be a good coping mechanism.....however when i say revenge.....not something stupid like keying their car , etc.
kathyputinish 2 years ago
I mean revenge by an action showing them that they can't insult your intelligence and that mocks what thye were doing to u at the same time
kathyputinish 2 years ago
.....ie (when i was younger i was seeing this guy...found out he was married and made me believe he was living at his friend's place.....when i found out he was married i phoned him up and told him i had a talk with his wife and that he best not go home....i really didn't but it got him so scared ...well i heard that he talked too much when he got home and got himself in trouble).
kathyputinish 2 years ago
you cut them off completely. you'll feel like a dirt bag but then again it's better feel like a dirt bag then to be treated like one. your cute look me up. :)
mammal360 3 years ago
justmomo89 its even worst if you work with them...i just kept wishing she would quit and leave...is that wrong of me...like they say..."OUT OF SIGHT, OUT OF MIND" Everytime i see her the feelings are reborn. its not healthy
darpachief 3 years ago
your make up is cute
TheHuongryHippo 3 years ago
go to the gym and workout until you forget them and meet other people.
KamenHanya 3 years ago
i feel this way...i hate myself, im a horrible gf, and i have known that i dont, and never will deserve the guy that i like right now...because he's too perfect for me...and idk what to do
AngelOnHerWings 3 years ago
you befriend them, be the best thing in the world to them, and then just when THEY are like soo deep into you - you fuckin' CUT them OFF like BAD TUMORS. and you leave em a letter saying you're cutting em off and why, and not to contact you again. then watch em outside your window, watch their number on your phone, and cry, laugh... then get over it. But cut em off --- and don't go back. if u see them in the mall a year later, wave, and walk away.
thinsoldier 3 years ago
my god your georgeous lol
100PercentTHCfilms 3 years ago
I definitely felt this way before and I believe that the best way to end a relationship with someone who is not good for u is to COMPLETELY cut them off. I changed my number and eventually moved. I forced myself to mentally delete this person. Its now been over a year and now my mind is clear and I am proud of myself for taking such a mature step. I reminded myself daily that when you love yourself u dont put up with BS and u dont allow someone who professes to love u continue to hurt you.
1StrawberryFairy 3 years ago
I think the key is to stay single; going out to get another person to replace isn't going to work. I believe it will only make things worse. I say stay single until you're at a point that you aren't affected by that person's actions.
This is one person so far that has done the exact same thing to me from what you have described. It has been a year I'm still single and I'm not in a rush to be in a relationship. In conclusion I say take things one step at a time and learn from the relationship.
TerminatorTX3 3 years ago
Completely Right
ArmoLove4Life 3 years ago
love ur make up.... pretty girl
shay18 3 years ago
Push yourself into multiple projects until you have no time to think about him. Try to date again right away. Move on little by little. If a person disrespects you, remove them completely from your life. Don't give them an inch to creep back in. They don't deserve your time if they can't act respectfully. They are usually easy to get over once you meet someone real and nice. Recognize the behaviors so you never settle for that again. Stop the cycle now.
wazoome 3 years ago
your dumb
ArmoLove4Life 3 years ago
i like your eyeshadow
and im gonna do a response to this
:)
MizzCoCoLatte 3 years ago
yay!!! gracias & cant wait!
justmomo89 3 years ago
it took me awhile to get over my ex but i found another man in the mean time, at first i think he'd be a rebound but we're still together almost a year later and i'm more in love then i ever was with my ex. you just have to know when the time is right to move on. time heals everything. it will def take LOTS of time. occupy yourself!
you have REALLY nice skin, what kind of cleanser do you use? if you don't mind me asking lol.
yojmoney 3 years ago
I keep a mental report card on the females that I date.I base it on several things like marales, values, character, sex, good credit and an ability to lol at my stupit jokes.If you get a failing grade overall then your cut,nothing personal.If I see that person in the streets im going to give a huge and keep it moving.
mallen4000 3 years ago
yo this is david. dont find another person to rebound with. find sometime to yourself or your friends. you and your ex can still be cool or not depends on you. just dont let the situation get the best of u ok. keep your head up and your ass down. peace
davidsherefool 3 years ago
i like your vidoes u speak about real interesting topics and probly helped some people go through it..so keep doin wat u do :D
blueghost08 3 years ago
i wish i knew i really wish i did cause i have been stuck like stupid on this one guy who at this rate i think is gonna be forever *shudderdsz*
FutureFlow08 3 years ago
Never settle for less. If they're no good pieces of shit, let them GO. It's the easiest thing to do, but people make it so hard. Never hang on to somebody who brings you down in whichever way; and never EVER rush into another relationship to forget the last because you are really doing damage to yourself by doing that.
GloomGrl18 3 years ago
lol yes i am!
justmomo89 3 years ago
This always made me Laugh "The Best Way to Get over somebody is to get Under Somebody"=]...lol but it's not advise! i've tried it it Don't work! so when you find out how to move on...LET ME KNOW!!!
thoodie 3 years ago
LMAOOOO
justmomo89 3 years ago
HEEEEEEY MORGAN! so they say the best way to get over something old is to get something new...this comment wont help...but i felt like saying it anyway ; )
BlueZette22 3 years ago
lol yea it really doesnt help ive tried it...
but thanks anyway!! LOL
justmomo89 3 years ago
You Let Go When Some one Isn't Happy anymore. And You Just Move On.
In the werds of 2Pac..
"We Can Spends Days, Weeks, and Even Months Analyzing Something, Trying to Put the Pieces 2getha, or You can drop em and move tha fuck on."
xSubliminalCriminalx 3 years ago
true true...thanks babe
justmomo89 3 years ago
I'm glad I'm incapable of falling for someone ya'll make it seem like hell.
blacktigerwu 3 years ago
lol just the end of it
justmomo89 3 years ago
well Momes im turning 32 in a month and I have to let go of someone right now and its hard. endings come new beginnings. Breath deep when you are meditating on this.
oscarthedread 3 years ago
deep breathing..yea...
with endings come new beginnings..
I like that
justmomo89 3 years ago
just always remember u do not hafta settle for just nebody, even if it means waiting a lil while longer for that right person..trust me for me it was worth the wait..all the pain crying i endored.so worth it now im soo happy
MamiYare 3 years ago
yea...one of these days!
justmomo89 3 years ago
Love? I have no experience with this stuff! Good luck!
wisdom1221 3 years ago
lol!
justmomo89 3 years ago
Just tell'em straight to hit the road and don't listen to i'm sorry's or excuses. Cut'em off completely and go party with your closest friends. Avoid situations that leave you feeling lonely, thats what friends are for. And on a side note (and im sure you hear this a lot) you are beautiful and i love your voice. CIAO
UrBasicGuy 3 years ago
yea i def. do go out ALOT more than I used to just to avoid being alone..
awe you love my voice? i loved that!! LOL
justmomo89 3 years ago
i duno how to let my last go in fact i hate her realllll bad but i cant let her go at the same time so i duno
CPTcripp 3 years ago
I had to let go today. I just broke his heart so he would hate me. That made it easier for me :( I didn't know what to do or say.
WigityTV 3 years ago
wow..i did that before..karma to me =(
justmomo89 3 years ago
:( karma is a bitch! i guess i'll have to wait and see lol Good LUCK! :)
WigityTV 3 years ago
By doing just what you said...remembering all the wrong that a person did and asking yourself "Is it worth to get back with E, knowing good and hell well you shouldn't?" I really dont understand why people CONTEMPLATE being with shitty mofo's who they say out of their own MOUTHS are not good for them. That's akin to me saying that I'm going to take a study break with this guy who always goofs around when we're suppose to be studying. Whats the point??
jiatv 3 years ago
Sigh..big sis..your right. You were from the beginning..thanks for listening to me all those nites when i was saying the same thing i did in this vid and you kept telling me to leave him alone...i love u. =) momo's gon get it right real soon promise!!!
justmomo89 3 years ago
u tell them how they hurt u and that u can't forgive them for what they did and its time for u to move on ,not into another relationship but just move forward without them.
kingofextreme007 3 years ago
yea i like that last part...not to another relationship but just move forward without them...
justmomo89 3 years ago
You answered your own question. Why are you gonna carry on loving someone who doesn't deserve you and your love? If they loved you they wouldn't fuck you over. Forget about them and wait for that one that will love you how you deserve to be loved. And as for "real love" you can't "really" love someone who doesn't love you. Alot of females make the mistake of thinking they can and often confuse love with other emotions, me, never. If you're an asshole Idon't deserve to know you. Simple as.
kweencessX 3 years ago
Your right and its crazy i give my friends the same advice..you think he really loves you if he did this too you? and ii cant even take my own..eh..ill get over it!! thanks for the advice mama
justmomo89 3 years ago
You answered your own question and its easier when you KNOW they "don't deserve you or your time." I'm going through this now....you have to love yourself more and constantly remind yourself that someone who is deserving is indeed out there.
And whenever you get the urge to call, repeat fuck that fool out loud over and over (LOL) and remind yourself of everything they did to you. If was bad enough for you to leave the relationship, it's a good enough reason to stay away...
juiceegapeach 3 years ago
yea I guess I did...idk i guess sometimes you just want something to work SO bad..u think you can fix things.
LMAO@ fuck that fool!!!
LMAOOOOOOOOOO
justmomo89 3 years ago
SUCK IT UP MO!! lmao jk jk
you know i love you.....and love is pain. That's why I'm NEVER falling in love..sheeit.
JClax10 3 years ago
Yeps, love is pain, but it's such a beautiful thing too. You can't help falling in love =P it will happen to you one day and you're gonna be like wtf how did this happen...
kweencessX 3 years ago
i love u 2 clax...and u will one day!!
justmomo89 3 years ago
I'd like to go get you.
bosshogg585 3 years ago