women by and large today in our society do not want to be concidered as ornaments and sex toys for men but rather be accepted as intelegent self reliant human beings able to stand on there own merits. yet when it comes to "t-girls" scociety expects exactly the opposite. and views them by and large as sex toys to satisfy a mans fettish for "alternative" sexual experiences. as a mtf early in transition I can say scociety will be disapointed with me as my purpose is not just be a sex toy.
I'm not hetero, but I do want to point out that a lot of pre/non-op trans women are relatively okay with using our genitals, including for penetration. I wouldn't want to sleep with anyone who assumed that I would function like a typical cis guy in bed, but I also wouldn't want someone to *expect* me to be all shy about my bits or to see me as male for using them in a certain way. Basically I just want them to talk to me and not make assumptions about what I'm comfortable with.
Your message is nice, but don't forget that transwomen can be lesbians just as easily as ciswomen can. You don't need to limit your dating tips to men. :)
@BPmunny Oh of course! I completely agree! Even though the blog I am reading in this video is written by a man who has dated transwomen for some years, and I thought I'd share his awesome tips. And probably because I havent dated women, or am not lesbian myself, it might be out of place for me to address the topic, since I know nothing personally of it, or the challenges, from that perspective anyway :) Thanks for your comment
You are so sweet & so nice <3 , BTW , for Me , T-Gurls , TV's etc... are all Ladies , so I Luv them just the same as I can Love a G-Gurl , a Genetic Gurl , a Lady, since you are in fact , a Woman like any other Woman . Very well explained & very good video thx <3 !! Go Girl !! Kisses hun xxxx <3 .
Been learning a few things from your vids. Great advise. Too many traditional things are not practiced by enough people anymore. Holding a door for a lady, standing at the table when a woman comes to sit down. Helping with her chair. It's considered cliche by some I'm sure. My family raised me better than that. Many people don't even take there hats off for their national anthem anymore. These are acts of respect. Be a man and teat a woman like you should.
Thank you for this video, so many great tips that I also try to convey in my T-Girl Dating Guide. So many guys need to learn these things before trying to date us.
"...i hate all faggots i hope the get aids and die"
I don't understand why I get yelled at when I compare people who say terrible things, like what YOU said, to Nazi's. It's so obvious that you're the type of person who would have joined the early movements, as you share similar levels of hatred and intolerance. Plus the "and die" part remains me of the Nazi's just before the Hollcaust.
Hang on a minute. Did you use to be a man and you are now a woman? Cuz you look TOTALLY female. Sound female too! It must be so hard going through a gender change. Congrats for having the courage to do it. Don't let haters get to you. I'm a vegetarian and I get shit all the time cuz I choose not to eat meat/fish. I can only imagine what life is like for a transgendered person. Stay strong :)
I'm here to help others like me. Women (or men) who excepted the first plumber to set up the proper plumbing, but had the order mixed up with another. So the women (or men) take it upon themselves to replace the unwanted plumbing, with the set they originally hoped for.
And a big thank you (along with a ton of hugs & kisses!!) for inspiring many people (including myself) to someday reach their goal of matching the body with the mind, while looking FABULOUS as you do it! You go girl!
@Leafs81Chick "If you cannot prove that your God exists, it remains a figment of your imagination, and thusly doesn't hold any water in reality."
So... gravity was not real, until it was proven to be real? Before then, Aristotle's theory that heavy things just fall to the ground because they're heavy... that was how the world really worked?
@LightBrite94 Whoa! Pulling the "God" card. I have to assume you're Christian if you're espousing religious dogma - and since I am not Christian - or religious, I don't much care for it. At least have consideration for that, and realize how narrow-minded and uneducated a comment yours is. I mean seriously, where is your brain? Before you speak on anything at least seek proper education on the topic.
@urmwhynot Hey, just because he said God made you a way for a reason is not dogma and it is not a uneducated comment. Don't tell someone there views of reality and life are wrong then get mad when people tell you that your wrong. Perhaps God did make you a man on purpose to see what kind of choices you make, not wrong or right but just the nature of the choices period.
@LightBrite94 I wouldnt support his comments too soon my dear - he just told me in an inbox that he likes to date trans women - which are women like me. And BTW PISS OFF!!! you arent welcome here!
@urmwhynot Seriously chick this wasn't worth you getting upset. Its not that serious. How can you get mad for me voicing my opinions. And FYI it dosen't matter if he likes to date transgender woman. More power to him. I dont knock what your doing all I was saying is I dont get it. But maybe thats because I have never been in your shoes. But whatever. My point still stands
@LightBrite94 Goodness, so you came here to tell me that I am unnatural in your opinion, and by the will of God, and you don't think it was worth me getting upset over? Seriously chick, check yourself some more, because you are way out of line. Fair enough if I came to spread hate on your channel, and fair enough if I came to judge you as coldly as you have me - and fair enough if I held offensive opinions about your right to exist; but this?! It's just uncalled for. You're uncivil.
@TheCRONICles Espousing anything in the name of "God" is dogmatic - therefore uneducated - you arent speaking from fact, you are speak from a religious POV. I am not religious, and I dont appreciate either of you two you placing me in the scope of your idea of god. Its offensive, especially looking at the state of your idea of god - its laughable to think that I have even wasted my time replying to you no-brainers.
@urmwhynot While I am Christian but not some Christian freak like you may think. I wasnt tryna offend you or any transgender I made this comment because I was voicing MY OPINION.And in MY OPINION it dosent matter how you feel! You were born a MAN and no amount of surgery can change that. You cant bear children, You dont have a menstrual cycle, & you will never know what its like to be a real woman. Your insides are still those of a MAN. That is nothing against you though, its the truth
@LightBrite94 You just listed the effects of my condition as a negative, yet you say you are not being offensive? If you truly understood what it is to be a woman, you would realize that none of those physical attributes matter. I asked you to seek proper eduction on the topic, but here you are espousing opinions that are not educated. Its like when white people thought black people were dirty, lowlife creatures and enslaved them - They were like you my dear, uneducated, and narrow-minded.
LOVE your tips and they're very accurate. Though we are trans, we are women too, just in a different way other than born that way and we couild do something about it and did. As I've told every man that's emailed or hit on me, I'm a lady first and don't treat me differently as you would your own mother. Most guys just want sex and think that's what we're all about when nothing could be further from the truth. Love your other vids too. Keep up the great work!
Was the statement that transgendered women don't tend to like bisexuals just making a point about dislike of being treated as males, that is, failure to recognise such women as female? A truly bi male may love and appreciate such a woman as a woman no less than a hetero male, whatever the genetalia. I'm sad at this apparent biphobia, as though all bi males are so ignorant and are just seeking homosexual experiences with trans women (which would make them gay, not bi). Are you against true bis?
@MinorityFractal It's not necessarily true in all cases, but there is a concensus to avoid bi-sexual men, or rather, to not intentionally engage them. It's not a phobia so much as it is a gathering of response through common experience, though for some it may be connected to your question. I personally don't have an issue with bi-sexuals, or dating them with the provision that we are compatible, and have an observable connectivity.
@urmwhynot I'm pleased that you don't have a problem with bisexuals. It may seem to make sense to generalise bad experiences to the group as a whole -- it's simpler & easier than judging each person as an individual, but that's really the definition of discrimination. Thanks for your reply.
@MinorityFractal It's probably more like the saying, "Once bitten, Twice shy". We don't rally together in an anti-bi-sexual cause or sentiment, nor do we go around beating up bi-sexuals, or discouraging them in anyway. It just so happens that the common experience is one that is negative for many trans-women.
you're hilarious. i enjoyed the video and your advices were accurate. but in general a majority of guys are dogs sooo giving them advices or talking to them wouldn't do much haha
I found the comment very interesting that said that most MTF tg's want to be taken and submissive. I'm currently dating a MTF & noticed the 3d time or so that it seemed like she wanted to be dominant, but it seemed like she was forcing it. My question is: Do a lot of you feel a sort of "obligation" to show you CAN be dominant due to the fact that a lot of guys out there want to be dominated? I LOVE being dominant with her and treat her like a beautiful flower (like yourself) :)
Good video. I have a question that might be able to answer. Do the majority of TG plan to have the surgery to transition fully, or is the percentage of those that intend to keep their penises substantial. I consider myself an "admirer"; I can't really say why I find TGs so arousing but I do. Unfortunately, my only contact with TGs up to this point has been w/TG escorts, no one I would consider asking real-world questions of. Also you are most beautiful, inside & out, and your partner is blessed
@john3809 Surgery is under-gone based on preference. Each person ultimately makes that choice for themselves. There is a large consensus to have the surgery. But there is also a percentage of people who don't want it, or who want it, but can't afford it. It's a gross expense that costs on both mentality, as well as the pocket. Many take a rain-check and work towards paying for it...others do not seek it at all. It varies like that.
Um, excuse me, I hope you don't mind me asking, but are you the same girl that I just saw from a documentary? About a German boy who had a sex change and turned into a girl, and is now a pop star? Just curious to know, you have the same voice.
@icelavenderx I believe you are thinking of Kim Petras, who is a transgendered german pop-star, as well as being youngest person to undergo SRS(sex reassignment surgery)?
im still looking for my princess, Im active in the trangendered community here,, im caring, loving, a good cook,,, i like to think, good boyfriend material.
well so far im doing good. thats what my girlfriend tells me and at first she was realy iffy about me cuase i never asked her the "usual" questions that other guys asked her. i just know that shes a beautiful person inside and out. she makes me feel special and all mushy inside, and its been awhile since any girl has made me feel this way. but the only negatives are that she tells me that shes "scared of me" well i dont blame her. cuz shes told me all about her past fuck-ups.
@pancakesnsyrupamarth NOw that is simply not true i know plenty of Gentle men, and i know plenty of Feminists that while they don't openly admit it love to be treated like ladies, and as for the gentle men, well they have balls enough to open our doors, so a Lady has enough self respect to say thank you.
So i reject your statement that no one dose it, because there are plenty of men that do. and if you are afraid of getting hit by a woman for opening her door once and a while,
i understand the give respect thing but u need to join the 20th century lol noone hold doors for women anymore all us guys are afraid of gettin smacked for it to many womens libbers out there
I've been coming across your videos a lot while looking up information on transgenders and going through transitioning. You got great videos and helpful information, so I subscribed. Thank you for the videos.
I have gender identity disorder, or gender disphoria I think it's called nowadays. I'm a male (despite my YT profile saying otherwise) gradually coming out and getting ready for the transition process. I came out to my wife, she was in the middle of separating and possibly divorcing anyway (long story) so I figured I'd tell her. Surprisingly she's supportive, it's like we have a brand new bond between us. Her family's taking it well too, but I'm 99% sure I'm gonna lose all my familiars.
Great video. Iv dated 2 beautiful ladies. Both broke it off with me, because of distance as I live in ireland. Im on 2 well known uk websites hoping to find someone special and maybe one day i will. Iv made loads of transgendered friends along the way and have even been approached by guys looking for advice on how to date and engage a relationship with transgendered ladies. Il refer them to this video for sure,, very well done to that gentleman and to you. Mark x x
I think that this is a great video for any straight guy who would be interested in dating a trans woman, such as myself, I have this belief, and it is this. Love is love, it doesn't matter who it is that you love, just as long as they love you with all of their heart, and you love them with all of your heart. I hope to someday find the woman of my dreams, and to marry her. I also wish that more people would not just open their minds, but also there hearts to to the trans gendered community.
saying this as a straight guy, I think you should be proud and realize transexuality as a big part of your identity, not just your femme self. being born the wrong physical sex and actually making it right, if that doesn't show heart, idk what does.
Good for you! I love what you are doing on here. I can not imagine what you have gone through, in your transition over the years. (puddish tummy aside) You must be very proud of where you are now. Your eyes are lovely, voice is beautiful, you are stunning and eloquent. It must be so freeing, making the change to being on the outside who you feel you've always been on the inside. Take very good care. XO
Thanks alot for the education, tips and your knowledge. I think alot of men who date and like transwomen have a fear of being looked at differently by society, people who dont understand and are ignorant will find it hard to look at them (the men) as heterosexual. So some men keep them side of them hidden.
@MrCaribbean People who choose not to see transfemale as male(or vice versa) are not ignorant. It is their opinion and they have a right to it. I am one of those "ignorant" people as you put it. Trans people have a right to identify as they want but their rights end where my nose begins. I would not be happy being tricked.
@CardinalRaker lol..ignorant ppl ignore fact in preferences of their own determinings. it is your perceptions of sex/gender that determines your opinion, and not factuality. Therefore you are ignorant.
FACT: while a trans person is not genetically female/male, unlike you with your bloated opinions, our gender identity is determined by biological differences between us & the cisgendered..and not choice, because choosing to be this way would be as stupid as choosing to be ignorant, like you.
@CardinalRaker If the guy KNOWS AND LIKES transwomen, then he's NOT being tricked! This video is for straight guys wanting to date transwomen! I.e., THEY KNOW THEY'RE TRANSSEXUAL! Get your head out of your ass and try to understand the video!
I am so glad I discovered your youtube channel. It seems that the one thing I have to keep explaining over and over again is that this is not a SEXUAL thing, it is about personality and identity. After 37 years of pretending to be male, I finally had the opportunity to do a 'transformation' with a lady who did my makeup, hair and dressing...for the first time in my life, I saw ME, and I cried tears of joy. You're in my favourites list now. :)
FIFTH PART;You have made me start considering this “URMWHYNOT and I hope to see more of your informative videos. What I truly find even more wonderful is how down to earth you bring yourself across in your desire to help the much maligned and ostracized Trans gendered community but likewise, helping others such as myself begin to question our unfounded fears, doubts, and careless apathy towards women who are just “different”. ”. Keep up the good work.
Well that's why I think Lea is such a special young lady. She's obviously in the top 1% of successful transitions....meaning she will have no trouble whatsoever passing for the woman she is ever again. Because of that, she could simply walk off into the sunset and turn her back on the whole scene/community and live out her life like any woman....but the fact she still discusses it to help others is testament to the person she is. She is 1 in a million, and extremely selfless.
FOURTH PART:Though children may not be possible, it is always a choice to adopt. I can see that Trans gender women can become mothers as loving and supportive as any other genetic woman. I have also began to consider that if I were to find a woman who I could truly find desirable and then have her tell me as we began to become more committed to each other, that she was trans gendered, that I would not be as shocked, and just as well still love her regardless.
THIRD PART:Then again there are those who many not see either reason or accept women like you, simply because they have hates and biases that nothing can shake off.
Hopefully they will be diminished in numbers as our society becomes more accepting of different manners of lives and circumstances. I think that one manner would be the final acceptance of a man being legally capable to marry a Trans gendered woman he has fallen in love with.
SECOND PART: to be able to have their bodies altered to look more in the manner that their mind finds proper, so that she can function better being released from the horror of having to constantly be faking being what she is not.
I have began to follow other videos as well as yours, and I have to comment that you are definitively helping to break down barriers and biases that others may have concerning women who have had to be Tran gendered by medical means.
FIRST PART: I have to thank you for making me more aware of how to treat a transgender woman. In short, treat her as you would treat any other beautiful woman that you are attracted to and desire to enjoy getting to know personally. What I find is that the most wonderful thing for these women who are erroneously born with the body of a man, is to finally through current science and more advanced medical technology
There is no "transition". "Transition" is false hope for a hopeless condition. Cosmetic surgery on your pubic area does not "transform" you into something else, it only helps you to fool certain dimwitted people into thinking believing you're the opposite sex.
@urmwhynot And I suppose you do? I suppose you really believe that genital mutilation really transforms your body into that of legitimate female body? Youi're fooling yourself. It is a cosmetic surgery no different than the breast surgeries some women get to fool men into thinking their boobs are bigger than they actually are, or the face lift surgeries some women get to fool men into thinking they're younger than they really are. You have a guy shape your genitals into something resembling
@urmwhynot You are so right! Some people just keep projecting there own values and viewpoints on things they have not took the time to "Learn" and get the facts about. It is sad but we live in a world full of ignorance. I hope one day that will change but i am not sure it will. All we can do is live with them, and feed them peanuts. LOL. :)
You are too kind to deem such morons with a response! I found you attractive until I got out my futuristic microscope and zoomed in to the molecular level and spotted that Y-chromo. Not really of course: my brain finds the feminine form attractive. So if you get get some surgery etc. to look feminine...
Do straight mtf girls tend to go for bio boys for reasons of affirmation of their femininity? Or do they tend to try for ftm guys to minimise hassle?
@danman2424 I agree, cosmetic surgery "does not transform you into something else"....but trans people (as far as i know as a cis-gendered person) don't want to be someone else: by matching their bodies to their brains, they're trying to become their true selves.
@MadSerena By "transform into something else" I meant physically. Cosmetic surgery on your genitalia cannot and does not make your physical self into whatever sex you desire. It's a psychological crutch.
It's curious how many people feel this way until someone important to them comes out as TG. If only intelligent conversation alone could engender a broader perspective in the world at large...
Yes, Michael's advice is great and right on track, and I say that as woman who happens to be transexual and has intimate relationships only with masculine men. However, there's a backstory: I once dated Michael and had to listen to him witter on about his porno business all evening, and I never once heard a compliment. "Do what I say, not what I do"?
Yes, Michael's advice is great and right on track, and I say that as woman who happens to be transexual and has intimate relationships only with masculine men. However, there's a backstory: I once dated Michael and had to listen to him witter on about his porno business all evening, and I never once heard a compliment. "Do what I say, not what I do"?
I do have a question, I dont know if you monitor this website, I am looking at dating a trans woman, but I am running into MASSIVE issues, with my family, and especially, my co workers. do you have tips?
As a fellow transperson, I'd like to say that you are a beautiful woman. I'd be open to dating a mtf woman in the future because I know that mtf's are just as womanly as the average ciswomen. Stay strong and best wishes,
If you're looking that great first thing in the morning, I can only imagine how awesome you must look later in the day! And thanks for sharing such intelligent thoughts. It's very refreshing!
All of youre Videos are soft-spoken...I cant understand a thing if i dont turn the sound extremly high.it wuld be kind if u can change it in futures Videos.
I agree with everything you said except one- SRS. I've quite a few ts friends, and only three really hate their genitals (they're the ones who've already had SRS.) Most of the girls I know have no issues with their penis, and usually are only considering SRS in old age as they don't want to be 'half and half' when they're pushing 60. I think you're projecting your own feelings onto others. Having said that i've noticed it tends to be western trans women who want SRS
@grahamhg cont. wheras most of the girls I know are Thai/Philipina/Malaysian. Some trans girls are really disphoric and need SRS badly, while others have no desire for it. I'd say both these types are relatively few and most girls fall somewhere inbetween. A couple of girls I know have decided not to have the op after finding a guy wholoves them as they are. I await the flaming......
I think all transgender women are different just like all genetic girls. I have met all sort of transgender girls, there are some who are more femenine and others who simply love being trannies, very open minded sexually, so it all depends on the person, culture. There are so many transgender girls who like to be top on men, women and other transgender girls, I would say it is more important to be respectful, and get to know the person before you consider a serious relation.
u are a hardcore ts. what i like bout u is that ur not the type of tranzie girl that would force a person and shout to everyone " hey everyone im dating a tranny".
Ha! How cool is this? I wrote the 11 Top Tips for Dating the Transsexual Woman, which is what she's reading. If you have any trouble understanding her, you can read the original in my blog posts at: MySpace, do a name search for: michaeltsg. I also run TSGirlfriend...come visit, read the many articles and visit our (very well guarded) chatroom (read the Room Rules first).
@MichaelTSGirlfriend can i give you an advice? take the word "shemale" out of you blog, most ts girls find it very offensive as it is related to the porn industry.
You're really awsome, much respect !!! (19 year old adolescent boy from Belgium). I can't imagine the struggle for all the people having transgender. No it's not a deadly disease, but it's a pitty life can be unfair from birth on. I love all people with good hearts and with needfull common sence (aka morals and knowledge).
Also the women that atrack me are those who are strongwilled and have no prejudged minds. If only more open-minded people existed, a better world ...
@JohnfromPerth saying you look and sound like a natural woman is not a compliment why isnt she just pretty that other part was unnecessary lol that should be added the the list
I like ur video...I am a man that is in love with transwomen I've never got the chance to date transwomen I've only had a onenight stand with a transgirl I want to date women an you thought me alot I think that alot of men really try to be good men an learn all that they can about the life style and culture..
you spoke a lot about character. You have good character yourself, a warm smile and a kind voice. Now make a video showing off your pretty eyes. You dont have to, i just want to compliment you as the kind girl you are.
For a man, lesbians make better friends than straight women anyway. They are more laid back, aren't so sensitive to criticism, know how to have a laugh more, and aren't afraid to try your interests. Aka , be a "buddy".
Have you ever actually dated a transwoman? Not fucked, not hired a shemale I mean actually dating. It's not like she can even use the thing properly after a month or two of hormones. The groin is like an area of nonexistence when dating a transwoman. It's best not to talk about it, touch it or even think about it. Besides. If you want cock find a man. Theirs will be bigger, able to function and the man will actually enjoy using it.
Two more things. Calling a trans woman by her birth name is BEYOND disrespectful, it is hateful, cruel, and can reduce them to tears. Don't hesitate to throw someone out of your house for saying that to your girlfriend. You or your girlfriend may find the following websites helpful with dealing with the transphobia you will encounter at some point.
im looking for a chick with a dick lol
JohntheBaker123 2 hours ago
i have to turn my volume to the max just to hear you :)
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women by and large today in our society do not want to be concidered as ornaments and sex toys for men but rather be accepted as intelegent self reliant human beings able to stand on there own merits. yet when it comes to "t-girls" scociety expects exactly the opposite. and views them by and large as sex toys to satisfy a mans fettish for "alternative" sexual experiences. as a mtf early in transition I can say scociety will be disapointed with me as my purpose is not just be a sex toy.
Segnet37451172 3 weeks ago
Hi if you are single I will definitely go out with you on a date. W/b -3
bacardiconlimon 3 weeks ago
I'm not hetero, but I do want to point out that a lot of pre/non-op trans women are relatively okay with using our genitals, including for penetration. I wouldn't want to sleep with anyone who assumed that I would function like a typical cis guy in bed, but I also wouldn't want someone to *expect* me to be all shy about my bits or to see me as male for using them in a certain way. Basically I just want them to talk to me and not make assumptions about what I'm comfortable with.
1000Bluebirds 3 weeks ago
Your message is nice, but don't forget that transwomen can be lesbians just as easily as ciswomen can. You don't need to limit your dating tips to men. :)
BPmunny 1 month ago
@BPmunny Oh of course! I completely agree! Even though the blog I am reading in this video is written by a man who has dated transwomen for some years, and I thought I'd share his awesome tips. And probably because I havent dated women, or am not lesbian myself, it might be out of place for me to address the topic, since I know nothing personally of it, or the challenges, from that perspective anyway :) Thanks for your comment
urmwhynot 4 weeks ago
You are so sweet & so nice <3 , BTW , for Me , T-Gurls , TV's etc... are all Ladies , so I Luv them just the same as I can Love a G-Gurl , a Genetic Gurl , a Lady, since you are in fact , a Woman like any other Woman . Very well explained & very good video thx <3 !! Go Girl !! Kisses hun xxxx <3 .
ProfessorSilesky 1 month ago
i abouslutely love your hair it looks good. :)
1991believeinme 2 months ago
Been learning a few things from your vids. Great advise. Too many traditional things are not practiced by enough people anymore. Holding a door for a lady, standing at the table when a woman comes to sit down. Helping with her chair. It's considered cliche by some I'm sure. My family raised me better than that. Many people don't even take there hats off for their national anthem anymore. These are acts of respect. Be a man and teat a woman like you should.
SUPERAMAZINGCOREY 2 months ago
Thank you for this video, so many great tips that I also try to convey in my T-Girl Dating Guide. So many guys need to learn these things before trying to date us.
xoxox Amber Lynn, T-Girl Dating Coach
AmberLynnTGirl 2 months ago
what excelent advice, as a MTF wanabe I'm soaking up all the wisdom i can at the moment. (learning to be female)
i could not understand your speech at some points. are these available in print form?
Segnet37451172 2 months ago
@blkmun86 you are gay...
TheWhizz123 2 months ago
so treat her like the woman she is thats simple down to earth advice and its exactly what I have been doing ;)
terribletim17 3 months ago
@terribletim17
It's astonishing just how many people don't understand this! Who would've ever guessed, treating people with respect makes them like you?!
Arkk0n 2 months ago
@blkmun86
"...i hate all faggots i hope the get aids and die"
I don't understand why I get yelled at when I compare people who say terrible things, like what YOU said, to Nazi's. It's so obvious that you're the type of person who would have joined the early movements, as you share similar levels of hatred and intolerance. Plus the "and die" part remains me of the Nazi's just before the Hollcaust.
Leafs81Chick 3 months ago
i dont care if you are transgendered,i would definetly date you and treat like the woman you are!!
ChrisTheBest1992 3 months ago
I agree with you completely.... Your a woman and as all women you need to be treated like a lady....
MegaMesmes 3 months ago
She male / lady boy is a girl or boy whit a female body but a penis.
Trans or transsexual are boys or girls that change sex completely.
The porn industry uses all these names so your first tip is based on an misunderstanding and not fact ;)
Now that that has bin cleared up to my question.
How dose sex work whit a lady boy / she male VS trans and or female?
And i hope you don't view this as disrespectful as it is not meant as such. ^^
Partyffs 3 months ago
Hang on a minute. Did you use to be a man and you are now a woman? Cuz you look TOTALLY female. Sound female too! It must be so hard going through a gender change. Congrats for having the courage to do it. Don't let haters get to you. I'm a vegetarian and I get shit all the time cuz I choose not to eat meat/fish. I can only imagine what life is like for a transgendered person. Stay strong :)
thangacchi 4 months ago
@urmwhynot
I'm here to help others like me. Women (or men) who excepted the first plumber to set up the proper plumbing, but had the order mixed up with another. So the women (or men) take it upon themselves to replace the unwanted plumbing, with the set they originally hoped for.
And a big thank you (along with a ton of hugs & kisses!!) for inspiring many people (including myself) to someday reach their goal of matching the body with the mind, while looking FABULOUS as you do it! You go girl!
Leafs81Chick 4 months ago
@urmwhynot
I got your back, sister.
I get the same comments. Fortunately for these people, it's wrong to insult people with learning disabilities.
'Stay strong, and carry on.'
Leafs81Chick 4 months ago
@Leafs81Chick Thank you for the support :) I do appreciate x
urmwhynot 4 months ago
@LightBrite94
If you cannot prove that your God exists, it remains a figment of your imagination, and thusly doesn't hold any water in reality.
Now about your "MY OPINION" comment. Your opinion means nothing when it comes to reality.
You - "My favorite color is blue."
Me - "Okay, that's great, I guess? But this car is red."
Besides, what she said was also her "OPINION," so I guess it counters yours? So we end up in the same poistion. You're an idiot. :)
Leafs81Chick 4 months ago
@Leafs81Chick Precisely - and so perfectly said! x
urmwhynot 4 months ago
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@Leafs81Chick "If you cannot prove that your God exists, it remains a figment of your imagination, and thusly doesn't hold any water in reality."
So... gravity was not real, until it was proven to be real? Before then, Aristotle's theory that heavy things just fall to the ground because they're heavy... that was how the world really worked?
dstebbin 2 months ago
This is weird. It dosent matter if you think you should be a woman. If you were born a man obviously god made you a man for a reason.
LightBrite94 4 months ago
@LightBrite94 Whoa! Pulling the "God" card. I have to assume you're Christian if you're espousing religious dogma - and since I am not Christian - or religious, I don't much care for it. At least have consideration for that, and realize how narrow-minded and uneducated a comment yours is. I mean seriously, where is your brain? Before you speak on anything at least seek proper education on the topic.
urmwhynot 4 months ago
@urmwhynot Hey, just because he said God made you a way for a reason is not dogma and it is not a uneducated comment. Don't tell someone there views of reality and life are wrong then get mad when people tell you that your wrong. Perhaps God did make you a man on purpose to see what kind of choices you make, not wrong or right but just the nature of the choices period.
TheCRONICles 4 months ago
@TheCRONICles Exactly.
LightBrite94 4 months ago
@LightBrite94 I wouldnt support his comments too soon my dear - he just told me in an inbox that he likes to date trans women - which are women like me. And BTW PISS OFF!!! you arent welcome here!
urmwhynot 4 months ago 2
@urmwhynot Seriously chick this wasn't worth you getting upset. Its not that serious. How can you get mad for me voicing my opinions. And FYI it dosen't matter if he likes to date transgender woman. More power to him. I dont knock what your doing all I was saying is I dont get it. But maybe thats because I have never been in your shoes. But whatever. My point still stands
LightBrite94 4 months ago
@LightBrite94 Goodness, so you came here to tell me that I am unnatural in your opinion, and by the will of God, and you don't think it was worth me getting upset over? Seriously chick, check yourself some more, because you are way out of line. Fair enough if I came to spread hate on your channel, and fair enough if I came to judge you as coldly as you have me - and fair enough if I held offensive opinions about your right to exist; but this?! It's just uncalled for. You're uncivil.
urmwhynot 4 months ago
@TheCRONICles Espousing anything in the name of "God" is dogmatic - therefore uneducated - you arent speaking from fact, you are speak from a religious POV. I am not religious, and I dont appreciate either of you two you placing me in the scope of your idea of god. Its offensive, especially looking at the state of your idea of god - its laughable to think that I have even wasted my time replying to you no-brainers.
urmwhynot 4 months ago 2
@urmwhynot While I am Christian but not some Christian freak like you may think. I wasnt tryna offend you or any transgender I made this comment because I was voicing MY OPINION.And in MY OPINION it dosent matter how you feel! You were born a MAN and no amount of surgery can change that. You cant bear children, You dont have a menstrual cycle, & you will never know what its like to be a real woman. Your insides are still those of a MAN. That is nothing against you though, its the truth
LightBrite94 4 months ago
@LightBrite94 You just listed the effects of my condition as a negative, yet you say you are not being offensive? If you truly understood what it is to be a woman, you would realize that none of those physical attributes matter. I asked you to seek proper eduction on the topic, but here you are espousing opinions that are not educated. Its like when white people thought black people were dirty, lowlife creatures and enslaved them - They were like you my dear, uneducated, and narrow-minded.
urmwhynot 4 months ago
LOVE your tips and they're very accurate. Though we are trans, we are women too, just in a different way other than born that way and we couild do something about it and did. As I've told every man that's emailed or hit on me, I'm a lady first and don't treat me differently as you would your own mother. Most guys just want sex and think that's what we're all about when nothing could be further from the truth. Love your other vids too. Keep up the great work!
kelli43938 4 months ago
@kelli43938 Thanks for your lovely comment, and support :) x
urmwhynot 4 months ago
Was the statement that transgendered women don't tend to like bisexuals just making a point about dislike of being treated as males, that is, failure to recognise such women as female? A truly bi male may love and appreciate such a woman as a woman no less than a hetero male, whatever the genetalia. I'm sad at this apparent biphobia, as though all bi males are so ignorant and are just seeking homosexual experiences with trans women (which would make them gay, not bi). Are you against true bis?
MinorityFractal 4 months ago
@MinorityFractal It's not necessarily true in all cases, but there is a concensus to avoid bi-sexual men, or rather, to not intentionally engage them. It's not a phobia so much as it is a gathering of response through common experience, though for some it may be connected to your question. I personally don't have an issue with bi-sexuals, or dating them with the provision that we are compatible, and have an observable connectivity.
urmwhynot 4 months ago
@urmwhynot I'm pleased that you don't have a problem with bisexuals. It may seem to make sense to generalise bad experiences to the group as a whole -- it's simpler & easier than judging each person as an individual, but that's really the definition of discrimination. Thanks for your reply.
MinorityFractal 4 months ago
@MinorityFractal It's probably more like the saying, "Once bitten, Twice shy". We don't rally together in an anti-bi-sexual cause or sentiment, nor do we go around beating up bi-sexuals, or discouraging them in anyway. It just so happens that the common experience is one that is negative for many trans-women.
urmwhynot 4 months ago
you're hilarious. i enjoyed the video and your advices were accurate. but in general a majority of guys are dogs sooo giving them advices or talking to them wouldn't do much haha
GlitterrPrincezz 4 months ago
you are funny, charming, and adorable! are you single? hehe =)
108vasudeva 5 months ago
@diman55 agreed, dating a transgender would be way too difficult, always having to watch what you say
l0ovechild47 5 months ago
I found the comment very interesting that said that most MTF tg's want to be taken and submissive. I'm currently dating a MTF & noticed the 3d time or so that it seemed like she wanted to be dominant, but it seemed like she was forcing it. My question is: Do a lot of you feel a sort of "obligation" to show you CAN be dominant due to the fact that a lot of guys out there want to be dominated? I LOVE being dominant with her and treat her like a beautiful flower (like yourself) :)
heychupacabras 5 months ago
your fucken hot darlin
delusivex 6 months ago
Awesome vid. If I ever dated a trans woman, this would be the the 1 vid I'd turn to. Thanx.
argh698 7 months ago
God damn you're sexy!! If I ever go out with a trans chick I want it to be you!
AWinterDemise 8 months ago
lovely. I would date you. Meet me in Miami Florida
funguy7979 8 months ago
Where can I find this blog?
buffy1445 8 months ago
WATCH MY VLOGS
jamielivefree 8 months ago
Good video. I have a question that might be able to answer. Do the majority of TG plan to have the surgery to transition fully, or is the percentage of those that intend to keep their penises substantial. I consider myself an "admirer"; I can't really say why I find TGs so arousing but I do. Unfortunately, my only contact with TGs up to this point has been w/TG escorts, no one I would consider asking real-world questions of. Also you are most beautiful, inside & out, and your partner is blessed
john3809 9 months ago
@john3809 Surgery is under-gone based on preference. Each person ultimately makes that choice for themselves. There is a large consensus to have the surgery. But there is also a percentage of people who don't want it, or who want it, but can't afford it. It's a gross expense that costs on both mentality, as well as the pocket. Many take a rain-check and work towards paying for it...others do not seek it at all. It varies like that.
urmwhynot 8 months ago
@urmwhynot
Um, excuse me, I hope you don't mind me asking, but are you the same girl that I just saw from a documentary? About a German boy who had a sex change and turned into a girl, and is now a pop star? Just curious to know, you have the same voice.
icelavenderx 8 months ago
@icelavenderx I believe you are thinking of Kim Petras, who is a transgendered german pop-star, as well as being youngest person to undergo SRS(sex reassignment surgery)?
urmwhynot 8 months ago
@urmwhynot
Yeah, that's who I meant. Sorry! You guys both have soft voices, which is good lol
icelavenderx 8 months ago
im still looking for my princess, Im active in the trangendered community here,, im caring, loving, a good cook,,, i like to think, good boyfriend material.
markirish37 9 months ago
well so far im doing good. thats what my girlfriend tells me and at first she was realy iffy about me cuase i never asked her the "usual" questions that other guys asked her. i just know that shes a beautiful person inside and out. she makes me feel special and all mushy inside, and its been awhile since any girl has made me feel this way. but the only negatives are that she tells me that shes "scared of me" well i dont blame her. cuz shes told me all about her past fuck-ups.
jmvargasme 9 months ago
well said!!!
skwid12 9 months ago
Some of what you say - men should apply these to ALL women - you offer great advice.
catcomplex 9 months ago
you are SO GORGEOUS :P
starwarsnerdable 9 months ago
get a new girlfriend, cause chica has some issues, if she dosn't like to be treated with dignity and respect.
AlexandriaUrssa 9 months ago
@pancakesnsyrupamarth NOw that is simply not true i know plenty of Gentle men, and i know plenty of Feminists that while they don't openly admit it love to be treated like ladies, and as for the gentle men, well they have balls enough to open our doors, so a Lady has enough self respect to say thank you.
So i reject your statement that no one dose it, because there are plenty of men that do. and if you are afraid of getting hit by a woman for opening her door once and a while,
AlexandriaUrssa 9 months ago
:) this is really cool! i'm glad you posted this!
goodBUMBLEBEEnough 10 months ago
i understand the give respect thing but u need to join the 20th century lol noone hold doors for women anymore all us guys are afraid of gettin smacked for it to many womens libbers out there
pancakesnsyrupamarth 10 months ago
I love this video. Simple respect for who I am is all I ever want from anyone.
~ Julie (aka Dacrimara)
Dacrimara 10 months ago
Interesting,,,,, there are some things that you said that I agree with. But personal experience leads me to not agree with everything you have said.
thrillkillx11 10 months ago
WOW your hot! :D
Kamikuru77 10 months ago
I would worship the ground you walk on!!! NO LIE, you are sooooOOooo beautiful!!!!! <3
heavensclown 10 months ago
Omg you're so pretty(: I'm a straight girl and I think you're so down to earth and a great inspiration. Keep up what you are doing! xoxo
SabrinaB1992 11 months ago
Your hot i want you!
quietriley2007 11 months ago
You're beautiful lady.
Wolfbloodvamps171 11 months ago
ok your so hot
oceanblue247 11 months ago
I've been coming across your videos a lot while looking up information on transgenders and going through transitioning. You got great videos and helpful information, so I subscribed. Thank you for the videos.
LuvlyLivia 11 months ago
I have gender identity disorder, or gender disphoria I think it's called nowadays. I'm a male (despite my YT profile saying otherwise) gradually coming out and getting ready for the transition process. I came out to my wife, she was in the middle of separating and possibly divorcing anyway (long story) so I figured I'd tell her. Surprisingly she's supportive, it's like we have a brand new bond between us. Her family's taking it well too, but I'm 99% sure I'm gonna lose all my familiars.
LuvlyLivia 11 months ago
I've got a transgender girlfriend and I love her :D
PatitoFilmsSAdeCV 1 year ago
your pretty :)
Indigos8rboi 1 year ago
wowww pretttyyy
valeria333able 1 year ago
Great video. Iv dated 2 beautiful ladies. Both broke it off with me, because of distance as I live in ireland. Im on 2 well known uk websites hoping to find someone special and maybe one day i will. Iv made loads of transgendered friends along the way and have even been approached by guys looking for advice on how to date and engage a relationship with transgendered ladies. Il refer them to this video for sure,, very well done to that gentleman and to you. Mark x x
markirish37 1 year ago
DAMNIT PRETTY WOMAN, SPEAK LOUDER. :P
Hankthejollyspoon 1 year ago
I think that this is a great video for any straight guy who would be interested in dating a trans woman, such as myself, I have this belief, and it is this. Love is love, it doesn't matter who it is that you love, just as long as they love you with all of their heart, and you love them with all of your heart. I hope to someday find the woman of my dreams, and to marry her. I also wish that more people would not just open their minds, but also there hearts to to the trans gendered community.
AxlSebastin 1 year ago
saying this as a straight guy, I think you should be proud and realize transexuality as a big part of your identity, not just your femme self. being born the wrong physical sex and actually making it right, if that doesn't show heart, idk what does.
jstandsforlove 1 year ago 13
Good for you! I love what you are doing on here. I can not imagine what you have gone through, in your transition over the years. (puddish tummy aside) You must be very proud of where you are now. Your eyes are lovely, voice is beautiful, you are stunning and eloquent. It must be so freeing, making the change to being on the outside who you feel you've always been on the inside. Take very good care. XO
littleblackdevils 1 year ago
'Dont be an ass about their difference.' 'Treat other humans with respect'.
it's sad that those points still need to be mentioned
i loved this video
thank you and the blogger who wrote it!
MsBananarchy 1 year ago
i am confused
nuttingbounce 1 year ago
Thanks alot for the education, tips and your knowledge. I think alot of men who date and like transwomen have a fear of being looked at differently by society, people who dont understand and are ignorant will find it hard to look at them (the men) as heterosexual. So some men keep them side of them hidden.
MrCaribbean 1 year ago
@MrCaribbean People who choose not to see transfemale as male(or vice versa) are not ignorant. It is their opinion and they have a right to it. I am one of those "ignorant" people as you put it. Trans people have a right to identify as they want but their rights end where my nose begins. I would not be happy being tricked.
CardinalRaker 1 year ago
@CardinalRaker lol..ignorant ppl ignore fact in preferences of their own determinings. it is your perceptions of sex/gender that determines your opinion, and not factuality. Therefore you are ignorant.
FACT: while a trans person is not genetically female/male, unlike you with your bloated opinions, our gender identity is determined by biological differences between us & the cisgendered..and not choice, because choosing to be this way would be as stupid as choosing to be ignorant, like you.
urmwhynot 1 year ago
@CardinalRaker If the guy KNOWS AND LIKES transwomen, then he's NOT being tricked! This video is for straight guys wanting to date transwomen! I.e., THEY KNOW THEY'RE TRANSSEXUAL! Get your head out of your ass and try to understand the video!
Zephur19 1 year ago
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sppecials 1 year ago
your such a sexy girl as a bi man I would consider MTF transgenders in a way so that they still have there male genitalia.
eddiet809 1 year ago
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meglam2007 1 year ago
I LOVE your voice! I could listen to it all day!
AWinterDemise 1 year ago
you're gorgeous
TrannyBoiJacob 1 year ago
wow...ur a real beauty...wats ur name?
jejake 1 year ago
i like you! you are very sexy.
ecin61 1 year ago
Go grrl!
:Dx
ArcadePerfect 1 year ago
I am so glad I discovered your youtube channel. It seems that the one thing I have to keep explaining over and over again is that this is not a SEXUAL thing, it is about personality and identity. After 37 years of pretending to be male, I finally had the opportunity to do a 'transformation' with a lady who did my makeup, hair and dressing...for the first time in my life, I saw ME, and I cried tears of joy. You're in my favourites list now. :)
btw: so good to hear an Aussie accent!
emergingsophie 1 year ago
FIFTH PART;You have made me start considering this “URMWHYNOT and I hope to see more of your informative videos. What I truly find even more wonderful is how down to earth you bring yourself across in your desire to help the much maligned and ostracized Trans gendered community but likewise, helping others such as myself begin to question our unfounded fears, doubts, and careless apathy towards women who are just “different”. ”. Keep up the good work.
Wateringman 1 year ago
@Wateringman
Well that's why I think Lea is such a special young lady. She's obviously in the top 1% of successful transitions....meaning she will have no trouble whatsoever passing for the woman she is ever again. Because of that, she could simply walk off into the sunset and turn her back on the whole scene/community and live out her life like any woman....but the fact she still discusses it to help others is testament to the person she is. She is 1 in a million, and extremely selfless.
GhibliFan1 11 months ago
FOURTH PART:Though children may not be possible, it is always a choice to adopt. I can see that Trans gender women can become mothers as loving and supportive as any other genetic woman. I have also began to consider that if I were to find a woman who I could truly find desirable and then have her tell me as we began to become more committed to each other, that she was trans gendered, that I would not be as shocked, and just as well still love her regardless.
Wateringman 1 year ago
THIRD PART:Then again there are those who many not see either reason or accept women like you, simply because they have hates and biases that nothing can shake off.
Hopefully they will be diminished in numbers as our society becomes more accepting of different manners of lives and circumstances. I think that one manner would be the final acceptance of a man being legally capable to marry a Trans gendered woman he has fallen in love with.
Wateringman 1 year ago
SECOND PART: to be able to have their bodies altered to look more in the manner that their mind finds proper, so that she can function better being released from the horror of having to constantly be faking being what she is not.
I have began to follow other videos as well as yours, and I have to comment that you are definitively helping to break down barriers and biases that others may have concerning women who have had to be Tran gendered by medical means.
Wateringman 1 year ago
FIRST PART: I have to thank you for making me more aware of how to treat a transgender woman. In short, treat her as you would treat any other beautiful woman that you are attracted to and desire to enjoy getting to know personally. What I find is that the most wonderful thing for these women who are erroneously born with the body of a man, is to finally through current science and more advanced medical technology
Wateringman 1 year ago
surely there should only be one rule- she is a woman, treat her as such.
miscelaineouspsc 1 year ago
I think you are 100 percent woman. I would be honored to be able to escort out on a date.
elvis3700 1 year ago
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There is no "transition". "Transition" is false hope for a hopeless condition. Cosmetic surgery on your pubic area does not "transform" you into something else, it only helps you to fool certain dimwitted people into thinking believing you're the opposite sex.
danman2424 1 year ago
@danman2424 wow! another person talkin about something they have no idea about...wat a world of morons we live in
urmwhynot 1 year ago 24
@urmwhynot And I suppose you do? I suppose you really believe that genital mutilation really transforms your body into that of legitimate female body? Youi're fooling yourself. It is a cosmetic surgery no different than the breast surgeries some women get to fool men into thinking their boobs are bigger than they actually are, or the face lift surgeries some women get to fool men into thinking they're younger than they really are. You have a guy shape your genitals into something resembling
danman2424 1 year ago
@urmwhynot You are so right! Some people just keep projecting there own values and viewpoints on things they have not took the time to "Learn" and get the facts about. It is sad but we live in a world full of ignorance. I hope one day that will change but i am not sure it will. All we can do is live with them, and feed them peanuts. LOL. :)
MaraJadeZX 1 year ago
@urmwhynot
You are too kind to deem such morons with a response! I found you attractive until I got out my futuristic microscope and zoomed in to the molecular level and spotted that Y-chromo. Not really of course: my brain finds the feminine form attractive. So if you get get some surgery etc. to look feminine...
Do straight mtf girls tend to go for bio boys for reasons of affirmation of their femininity? Or do they tend to try for ftm guys to minimise hassle?
Love your laugh, by the way.
PaulDiracFRS 1 year ago
@danman2424 how silly.
DominicanoOR 1 year ago
@danman2424 I agree, cosmetic surgery "does not transform you into something else"....but trans people (as far as i know as a cis-gendered person) don't want to be someone else: by matching their bodies to their brains, they're trying to become their true selves.
MadSerena 1 year ago
@MadSerena By "transform into something else" I meant physically. Cosmetic surgery on your genitalia cannot and does not make your physical self into whatever sex you desire. It's a psychological crutch.
danman2424 1 year ago
@danman2424
It's curious how many people feel this way until someone important to them comes out as TG. If only intelligent conversation alone could engender a broader perspective in the world at large...
estilley2019 1 year ago
Yes, Michael's advice is great and right on track, and I say that as woman who happens to be transexual and has intimate relationships only with masculine men. However, there's a backstory: I once dated Michael and had to listen to him witter on about his porno business all evening, and I never once heard a compliment. "Do what I say, not what I do"?
ShelleyAlexa 1 year ago
Yes, Michael's advice is great and right on track, and I say that as woman who happens to be transexual and has intimate relationships only with masculine men. However, there's a backstory: I once dated Michael and had to listen to him witter on about his porno business all evening, and I never once heard a compliment. "Do what I say, not what I do"?
ShelleyAlexa 1 year ago
You have a cheeky but beautiful smile
butlercorp 1 year ago
And to every guy looking for the same, don't trust Fillipino ladyboys!!! They are con artists
ticker2008a 1 year ago
I have spent 5 years trying to meet transgender women for LTR. It's been a lost cause. I give up!!!
ticker2008a 1 year ago
OH MY GOD YOUR HOT
punkrockmonk07 1 year ago
I do have a question, I dont know if you monitor this website, I am looking at dating a trans woman, but I am running into MASSIVE issues, with my family, and especially, my co workers. do you have tips?
cajohnson1234 1 year ago
nice :-)
TheOliverFFM 1 year ago
I am surprised and saddened at the same time to hear these tips are actually necassary.
This life must be hard with people seing you as a stereotype instead of the real you. I truly admire your inner strength.
unusmultorumm 1 year ago
BRILLIANT !!!!!
DJmichelleLove 1 year ago
As a fellow transperson, I'd like to say that you are a beautiful woman. I'd be open to dating a mtf woman in the future because I know that mtf's are just as womanly as the average ciswomen. Stay strong and best wishes,
Kris
sportzgremlin 1 year ago
If you're looking that great first thing in the morning, I can only imagine how awesome you must look later in the day! And thanks for sharing such intelligent thoughts. It's very refreshing!
santiagobenites 1 year ago
u look like Sookie stackhouse
nicksevern 1 year ago
penis or no penis, ur breathtaking ;) id treat u like a lady. my lady would only get the finest in life!!!
justinruleseverythin 1 year ago
I've thought about being with one?
darkmoon24 1 year ago
i cant hear a thing...its to quiet
Semmel1986 1 year ago
All of youre Videos are soft-spoken...I cant understand a thing if i dont turn the sound extremly high.it wuld be kind if u can change it in futures Videos.
ty&Greetings from Switzerland=)
Semmel1986 1 year ago
Wow this is a hard list. 'Dont be an ass about their difference.' and 'Treat other humans with respect'.
Amazing people apparently need lists of rules to attempt to adhere to this.
Farbo123 1 year ago
Thanks for the tips. While I've never dated a transexual woman, I do admire the feminine form in all its manifestations, and you do justice to it.
ufgator4u 1 year ago
I agree with everything you said except one- SRS. I've quite a few ts friends, and only three really hate their genitals (they're the ones who've already had SRS.) Most of the girls I know have no issues with their penis, and usually are only considering SRS in old age as they don't want to be 'half and half' when they're pushing 60. I think you're projecting your own feelings onto others. Having said that i've noticed it tends to be western trans women who want SRS
grahamhg 1 year ago
@grahamhg cont. wheras most of the girls I know are Thai/Philipina/Malaysian. Some trans girls are really disphoric and need SRS badly, while others have no desire for it. I'd say both these types are relatively few and most girls fall somewhere inbetween. A couple of girls I know have decided not to have the op after finding a guy wholoves them as they are. I await the flaming......
grahamhg 1 year ago
@grahamhg There will be no flaming over what you have said, because there is truth to it. Thanks for sharing:)
urmwhynot 1 year ago
I think all transgender women are different just like all genetic girls. I have met all sort of transgender girls, there are some who are more femenine and others who simply love being trannies, very open minded sexually, so it all depends on the person, culture. There are so many transgender girls who like to be top on men, women and other transgender girls, I would say it is more important to be respectful, and get to know the person before you consider a serious relation.
TheMb023 1 year ago
u are a hardcore ts. what i like bout u is that ur not the type of tranzie girl that would force a person and shout to everyone " hey everyone im dating a tranny".
trnylover 1 year ago
Ha! How cool is this? I wrote the 11 Top Tips for Dating the Transsexual Woman, which is what she's reading. If you have any trouble understanding her, you can read the original in my blog posts at: MySpace, do a name search for: michaeltsg. I also run TSGirlfriend...come visit, read the many articles and visit our (very well guarded) chatroom (read the Room Rules first).
MichaelTSGirlfriend 1 year ago
@MichaelTSGirlfriend Yes, please support Michael's content, and check out his myspace, and website. Thank you again Michael:)
urmwhynot 1 year ago
@MichaelTSGirlfriend can i give you an advice? take the word "shemale" out of you blog, most ts girls find it very offensive as it is related to the porn industry.
RicardoR5 1 year ago
@MichaelTSGirlfriend
You're really awsome, much respect !!! (19 year old adolescent boy from Belgium). I can't imagine the struggle for all the people having transgender. No it's not a deadly disease, but it's a pitty life can be unfair from birth on. I love all people with good hearts and with needfull common sence (aka morals and knowledge).
Also the women that atrack me are those who are strongwilled and have no prejudged minds. If only more open-minded people existed, a better world ...
joskes123 9 months ago
i love you to bits
nico17fierce 1 year ago
Where can i find a transwoman as sexy as you??
eagleofmiami 1 year ago
@eagleofmiami this is the disrepectful comments she was talking about
natedogs212 1 year ago
@JohnfromPerth
1) She was born a female. The doctor identified her as a male. The doctor was incorrect.
2) She looks and sounds like a natural woman...because she is a natural woman. She is NOT a robot.
IratePirate1212 1 year ago
great video, thanks for uploading.
TheHellBound666 1 year ago
@JohnfromPerth saying you look and sound like a natural woman is not a compliment why isnt she just pretty that other part was unnecessary lol that should be added the the list
jco280 1 year ago
I like ur video...I am a man that is in love with transwomen I've never got the chance to date transwomen I've only had a onenight stand with a transgirl I want to date women an you thought me alot I think that alot of men really try to be good men an learn all that they can about the life style and culture..
Trinilove27 1 year ago
hello what the name of the blogg you read?:)
90linemarie 1 year ago
this video shattered all my transsexual fantasies
G1nS3nG 1 year ago
@G1nS3nG wouldn't you feel offended by what the porno industry puts out if you were in their situation?
natedogs212 1 year ago
Most of this video is just BS.
KelticForce1349 1 year ago
What about dating a woman when you are a woman?
thecrazyalchemist 1 year ago
you are really hot.
kyjoe9 1 year ago
I agree on everything but.. I love bisexual men! :D
so apart from that big thums up!
Ladypurpulhair 1 year ago
OMG soooo true on so many levels. I think I might have had at least 10 out of the 11 happen on a regular basis :( xxx
josh1143 1 year ago
I'd have second thoughts about dating a transgender woman, but as long as she's hot and has a vagina and has a human personality, score for me.
Mindcontrol106 1 year ago
@Mindcontrol106 .. what you meen "has a human personality" ? O_o
Ladypurpulhair 1 year ago
Thank you for making videos! I think this one is especially good to dispel many myths and misconceptions people have about MTFs.
sarcasticwhiteboard 1 year ago
Thank you for the wonderful tips and, by the way, you look so cute when you get tongue tied. You always look absolutely lovely in all your vids
tonytone74 1 year ago
This is a very good, very entertaining, very informative video. Very well done.
joelovesbaseball 1 year ago
well said lady
TRANNYTASTIC 1 year ago
you spoke a lot about character. You have good character yourself, a warm smile and a kind voice. Now make a video showing off your pretty eyes. You dont have to, i just want to compliment you as the kind girl you are.
solarcollector123 1 year ago
There are 4 beautyfull Australian woman: Nicole Kidman, Kylie, Elle McPherson and off corse YOU.
breen38 1 year ago
wow you are adorable love your ascent and great job on your hair
also your skin looks fab-u-lous !!!!!
fightclubflix 1 year ago
i want to date a transexual :( i would really like that.. not for sex but i wanna be with one.
justinruleseverythin 1 year ago
your hot , i wish i can be like you
Doncore1 1 year ago
For a man, lesbians make better friends than straight women anyway. They are more laid back, aren't so sensitive to criticism, know how to have a laugh more, and aren't afraid to try your interests. Aka , be a "buddy".
Ayatron34 1 year ago
@Ayatron34 You know it's funny, women feel the same way about gay guys XD
kikikinko 1 year ago
Have you ever actually dated a transwoman? Not fucked, not hired a shemale I mean actually dating. It's not like she can even use the thing properly after a month or two of hormones. The groin is like an area of nonexistence when dating a transwoman. It's best not to talk about it, touch it or even think about it. Besides. If you want cock find a man. Theirs will be bigger, able to function and the man will actually enjoy using it.
InfiniteCheese 1 year ago 17
@InfiniteCheese bravo!!
urmwhynot 1 year ago 6
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@InfiniteCheese
Two more things. Calling a trans woman by her birth name is BEYOND disrespectful, it is hateful, cruel, and can reduce them to tears. Don't hesitate to throw someone out of your house for saying that to your girlfriend. You or your girlfriend may find the following websites helpful with dealing with the transphobia you will encounter at some point.
questioningtransphobia . wordpress . c o m
IratePirate1212 1 year ago