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  • Thank you Gracie..you will never know how much this meant to me..love you

  • Dear Gracie,your transparency is very refreshing....i was abused by men as a young adult..and unfortunately it turned me to alcohol[my 20's] to numb the emotional pain..i somewhat know what your mom and auntie went through.i appreciate you so much for this video..((HUGS))...............­....Asha:)

  • I can understand to an extent what you been through my dad never put his hands on my mother although he tried to once but my younger brother hid the belt but he was very verbally abuse towards my mother and myself as well. I know our experinces arent the same but I use to hate father just like you do but after a while I learned to forgive him. I gonna lie it didn't happen over night but I realised the only person I was hurting by staying angry with him was myself.

  • @AnnaFenty why is that fucking relevant?

  • @AnnaFenty Where are you trying to get?

  • @AnnaFenty so? why is that anything to do with it?

  • @AnnaFenty And how is this relevant to anything she just said?

  • i love you !

  • Aww damm;/ no human deserves to be beaten! wtf...no matter the way you are, you still don't deserve it those are juuz fknn cowards that are insecure, immature, stupid & low-self esteemed persons that have the need to hurt someone else to make their asses feel a little better forealss..anyway I love your hair & accent, your so inspirational<3(:

  • LOVE YOUR HAIR ! and you!

  • Thank you so much Gracie. My best friend throughout my childhood was sexually and physically abused by her farther. She never told a soul and there was no evidence but I just knew, 100% what was going on but no one believed me. She lived in that house for 15 years and became a different person, he destroyed her. It seems no one wants to talk about this issue and spread knowledge and support. It's all swept under the rug I know that was hard so thank you xx

  • Just Wonderful.

  • i pulled throo this... i coped with this for 12 years of my 14 year life and now i am stronger:) just saw this and you are so right! inspirational... thats all i can say xxx

  • Also, the effect this has on not only the victim of abuse, but the whole family's dynamic is affected. Do you really want your children to look back on their childhood and remember such painful memories of you? and grow to hate you? I really hope you get some help and stop arguing with others here that you can actually attempt to justify hitting your wife, or other family, cause its absolutely sadistic.

    Thats my opinion - before you begin swearing and rambling again..

  • It's absolutely unacceptable that any man should have any reason treat a women with such disrespect, using violence. 'Stiffyboy' (What a lovely username you chose to represent yourself, well done), you are entitled to your own opinion, but this is mine. There is no reason in this world to hurt people around you, especially your family who you should love, and who care and love you. Don't defend your actions when there is no reason in hell to behave in such a disgusting way.

  • @StiffyBoy56 , I hope you burn in hell brah.

  • grace**

  • @StiffyBoy56

    You are such a hypocrite and such a dick. You really need to grow a pair because know one has to go through what grave and her family and know one respects you for saying what you said GET A GRIP.

  • I've been burnt, cut, punched slapped, beaten up three times or more a day from age 2 to 14, by a mental person that worked in my household ( as a maid) and couldn't tell anyone about it, because if I tried, she'd hurt me more. and I'm 19 now, and I can't just leave it in my past.. I can't stand seeing anyone hitting a child, even if its just a little bit, and I'm trying to make sure it never happens again, to anyone I know.. now that I'm older, and stronger..

  • i love you grace, i have the same mental scars you have. </3

  • it takes alot to talk about something like this and its so inspiring that after you have gone through all this that the only thing you want to do is help other women and children that have witnessed the same thing! i wish there was more people like you in this world! i love you gracee!

  • This is amazing! Thank you for this Gracie! :)

    And by the way, ATTENTION ALL HATERS. get a life. So sad that you actually have to hate on other people because you hate yourself. Its disrespectful! Gracie was HURT! And you're going to sit there behind your damn keyboard and tell her to suck it up? Like it was HER or her MUMS or her AUNTS fault?! THOSE WOMEN ARE STRONG.

    You haters are COWARDS. LOW. LIFE. COWARDS.

  • You're so beautiful. You are wonderful.

  • your so strong, i love people like you!

  • Your so inspiring, this made me respect you so much more!

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  • i've sort of gone thro the same stuff not exactly the same obv bt yer :/ x

  • @StiffyBoy56 your disgusting.. have some respect you dirty old bastard.

  • @StiffyBoy56 you are actually an idiot...

  • @StiffyBoy56 Wow you're not only really ugly but also really stupid. I feel sorry for you, it must suck having such a sad life. Rest in peace, idiot.

  • @StiffyBoy56 I hope for mankind you are trying to be funny or ironic, i pity you if you mean this seriously.

  • @StiffyBoy56, omfg you are so full of yourself!

  • @StiffyBoy56 I've never read comments that are so sad and pathetic in my entire life. A woman will be respectful to a man who shows respect for her, and vice versa. She won't respect a man because he hits her, she will fear him. There's a big difference. And before you start running your mouth off calling me every "offensive" word under the sun, I really don't care. I haven't insulted you or made comments about your life, therefore any aggressive retaliation will be because I hit a nerve.

  • @StiffyBoy56 u sorrylittle bitch! where do u live? cuz u knoi willbeat ur sorr ass if i ever c u. u better hope that i dont! And u will never get a girl to lay by ur side with u at nite eiter.

  • @StiffyBoy56 u are such a bitch. i am a woman and we dont wantto be stomped on or beaten. u bother me!so go away urself. and also if ur sweet we will loveu for life. if ur an asshole we will leave ur sorry ass to beg o your knees to get us back.

  • please watch my vids on my profile it descirbes alot of what i went through WARNING its gruesome and scary

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  • @melkrisable YOUR MOM SURELY MUST HAVE DESERVED IT.... just an observation

  • @StiffyBoy56 no human being deserves to be beaten you fucking idiot! 

  • @melkrisable What the fuck do U know asshole? Women have zero respect for men they don't fear. Women deeply want to be controlled. They gravitate to strength & raw animal brutality. They find it sexy & intriguing. Look ass jockey, I've been around a long time & I know women. U stomp their fucking ass & they love U for life. If you're nice, they walk all over U. Its the law of nature; I'm just the messenger. Now please... GO FUCK YOURSELF BITCH U BOTHER ME!

  • @StiffyBoy56 You sad, sad, person. I feel bad for you. You must have such a pathetic and lonely life. You might as well lock your self up in a closet, because no one really wants to hear you, and no one really cares. :) Stupid idiot.

  • @PalomaHasBigGlasses Evidently YOU care!

  • @StiffyBoy56 Reading your replies make me laugh! :D Go die in a hole, no one would care. especially since nobody loves you because of your beliefs on beating women.

  • @PalomaHasBigGlasses U seem to be trying to start a long drawn out conversation with me. I'm flattered U have such an interest in me, but I'm already married & unavailable so I hate to break your little heart but U have to look elsewhere for male attention. U are too mentally limited to debate & too uninteresting to laugh at so I'll engage U no more. I'm waiting for a smarter person to debate. I hope you someday find a guy like me, cause clearly, U DIG ME REALLY BAD!

  • @StiffyBoy56 Aw such a shame, that you're taken, because I am dying to be with you.. (I hope you understand my sarcasm) You are so full of your self its mind blowing. Its funny how your only way of self-defense is to demean women, insecure coward. Also, learn how to spell "you". You must have in interest in me since you re taking time out of your day to reply to my comments. Have a nice life, go and get educated about the change on female rights in the world. "Case Closed"

  • @PalomaHasBigGlasses Learn how to spell "yourself".

  • @StiffyBoy56 i hope you feel the same when your daughter gets stomped one day

  • @melkrisable I dont have a daughter, I have 2 sons but if I had a daughter I'd train her to be respectful & obedient to men. Not to run her mouth & do what she is told. Women should be silent & supportive. My wife speaks when I ask a question. Other than that she shuts TFU!! A womans job is to be pretty, never say no & cook & clean. Her place is on her knees, on her back or on an ironing board. And if she wont do all the above she deserves a steak on her eye. Case closed

  • @StiffyBoy56

    You dirty mother fucker.

  • @emoteapot13 Cant you make your point without swearing and name calling you dumb fucking asshole slut bitch ass motherfucker!! If you don't like my opinion don't read it and don't follow it. I still have a right to think and say what I please. So you go suck a fat one you loud mouth obnoxious cunt.

  • "dosent"????? So, on top of everything else you're an uneducated, low achieving, grammatically deficient dumb ass too!! Go fuck yourself! Now let's see if you make good on your promise to leave me the fuck alone. I don't think you can do it. I think you're in love with me really! I think you wanna go bobbing under my zipper!

  • SO, you never called the cops on this guy even though you care about your mom THAT MUCH? That makes total sense. And you say any MAN who puts his hands on a WOMAN? What about a man who gets his penis chopped off and gets it thrown in the garbage disposal? How about people shouldn't abuse each other.

  • When you started to sorta cry I wanted to just hug you, omg:(

  • I used to be the one watching it cause my dad used to hit my mum. then I became the reciever when they got divorced.. now I'm the one giving it. it's a cycle.I'm not proud of my temper but when Im pissed all I wanna do is hit people or stuff.. I think that when you grow up in a violent environment, it becomes part of you and you'll respond to everything using violence.. unless you get yourself sorted out, like see a therapist.. but personally I can't afford it..

  • @xHARLEQUEEN: There are shelters all around that will offer free counseling/sessions. You should try and get connected with one of these. You could probably google a free helpline, too. I get how much courage it takes to own up to what you're doing, but think about what you're doing. It's not beneficial to you, your partner, or anyone available to see it. If you really want to change, then get help. 

  • @xHARLEQUEEN I respect you for admitting that you recognise it's wrong, not many people are capable of that. I'm not sure whether you live in the UK or not but there's literally loads of help out there for you, although most help is more focused on the victim. try contacting Samaritans, you can just send them an email or call them. You could even go through the NHS to see a therapist. Remember If you don't do something about it, it won't go away. Good luck!

  • DV SUCKS!!! Its a sad thing that alot of people go threw. I went threw it and thought it was something all kids go threw. THIS IS NOT NORMAL. I know it might be hard but speak up! HAVE A VOICE. I saw my dad try to kill my mom and it was horrific. I remember every detail, and sometimes I wish i didnt. The best thing that you can do is see a DV councilor! You can get free sessions thats what I had to do. JUST BE STONG AND SPEAK OUT ABOUT DV.

  • beautiful message!

  • wow. you have open lots of peoples eyes to the horrible things that happen!

  • My god, your hair is awesome !!!! :)

    Well done by the way, your very brave xxx

  • could u do a video about self hrming my friend needs help

  • is this 'uglyfaceofbeauty'?xx

  • @xlovehearts2628x yeah :)

  • It's gonna get crazy before it gets better <3

  • MYESHALEE51 leave the relationship if they can hurt you think of the effects of it on your baby if you fall and the baby gets hurt then it will prob die it's wat happened to my aunt

  • thank you i thought i was alone . im in a abusive relationship and im 5weeks pregnant and im trying to get the courage to leave . but its hard

  • @MYESHALEE51It's very hard, but after you find that courage I'm sure you will feel so much better in yourself. Hopefully there are people around to support you, you'll realise after you leave just how little you need your partner. You can focus on your new start with your baby, and have to consider their future. I'm 20, my dad was abusive and my mum never left him but says regularly that she should have earlier on. It'll only get harder with time and your baby will most likely have a better life

  • @MYESHALEE51 growing up in a home without that kind of abuse. Good luck with everything (sorry that was looong hehe) xxx

  • @MYESHALEE51 you have to think whats best for that unborn baby. leave before its too late.

  • @immilovesmakeup1 I've lived it. It will get better just keep faith.

  • i am going through this right now.. im in the postiton you are in but with my step 'dad' as if i could call him that.. i have noone to talk to about any of it, noone understands it, i cant talk to my sister or my brother & i feel alone, even when i talk to my best friends about i feel as if im being judged.. i would love if i could private message you here on youtube as i love the person you are & i would love if i could talk to someone who has lived it, i hope you see this but if not ohwell xx

  • @immilovesmakeup1 She might not see this message because this is an old vid, just mail her and see what happens:) She understands what your going through, good luck for the future, everything works out in the end and if it doesnt then its not the end :) much love xo

  • @immilovesmakeup It will get better, you just have to be strong and all stick together. Try to talk to your brother and sister (if they're not too young), they probably feel the same. There are so many people who have lived it and come out on the other side so much stronger because of it. I have, my parents are still together but my dad is hardly ever abusive now. Like someone said, try to PM her anyway :) You can always PM me too if ever you feel like it. Loveee xxx

  • You are such an inspiring lady :'-) x

  • You are so truly awesome ! :)

  • Just want you to know that you are amazing, seriously.

    Yeh, its so refreshing to see this, how you have such a strong positive attitude. Guess thats a tribute to the other strong women in your life :)

    Take care and stay awesome <3

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  • Love for this girl, very brave. x

  • you such a strong person look up to you so much gracie, your beautiful!

  • God Gracie, you've been through so much. You're so strong. The people arguing on these comments are disgusting and disrespectful. Xxxxxx

  • You're so beautiful! In the inside and outside! <3 Stay strong and you sound like Adele so much!

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  • Please make the most of your life. You have an army of fans who will support your video. Stay beautiful in the inside.

  • Thankyou so much for addressing such an important topic, I know that you have not only given me the courage to do anything but also a lot of hope. God bless you sweetheart xoxo

  • @Stiffyboy56 I hope you're trolling.

  • @stiffyboy56

    You are a loser and are r a terrible person. How could you do that to a girl?

  • @StiffyBoy56: Why would you brag about hitting females? Why would you brag about hurting someone who loves you and would do anything to protect you and be there? Why? You and many other abusive guys are the reasons why females cry themselves to sleep and wonder what's wrong with them and how they can change themselves just to please you and fall apart and are so insecure about themselves. You are a pathetic excuse for a human being and don't deserve anything good that comes your way.

  • @StiffyBoy56

    i wouldn't date you... lol i feel bad for the girls that did

    i also feel kinda bad for you in a sick pathetic way :/

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  • @StiffyBoy56 what the hell is wrong with you? what are you doing here you miserable motherfucker? being mean to everyone aroung you,and commenthing the most stupidest things? youre fucking stupid and disgusting and a miserable human being that thinks like the devil get the fuck off here and stop being so stuck up you fucker i wish i could fucking ounch you right in the face right now and just kill you just fot saying that you fucking bitch! you have no idea what people here have gone trough

  • @StiffyBoy56 sure you have.... One day your gonna get yours weather it be on the street by some bitches friends or relatives or getting gang raped in jail... it just proves what kind of father and home emviroment you have had!.. m

  • @masonsbeautymama hmmm, pass the ketchup

  • @StiffyBoy56 You are a disgusting excuse for a man

  • @StiffyBoy56 you dick head.

  • @StiffyBoy56 im only 12 thats disgusting :`(

  • @StiffyBoy56 Oh wow, you're so manly! Shut the fuck up. People like you disgust me. It's not long before you end up in jail for domestic violence, there, you'll become some inmates bitch. You pathetic excuse of flesh & bone...

  • @StiffyBoy56 LOL U mad bro? <3 Calm your tits. Approaching this from a psychological point of view, there is a chance you grew up in a bad home, you either suffered from molestation or abuse itself. Either that OR you were emasuclated at one point in your life, so you decided that the only way you feel masculine is by hitting a female. That's pretty pathetic if you ask me, js. 

  • @RoarNikkiSaur But nobody asked you, skank! I see it like this.... If your faggot, bitch ass dad had kicked your slut-whore mothers ass more often, she'd probably have given him a decent daughter rather than a POS dumb ass whore like you. LOL tambien!

  • @StiffyBoy56 Woah bro, are you getting mad because it's true? Hah! You see, you don't know me at all BUT I know you very well, judging by your comment. You're a very insecure person which means you'd resort to violence. There's a shortage in your brain. Get it know? c: GOOD! Now if you were raised in a good environment, you would know better. But hey, you can't turn a piece of shit into a diamond.

  • @RoarNikkiSaur WOW!!! You are writing to me almost every day! You must really want some of this good stiff dick. C'mon, fess up!! Well, sorry to bust your bubble, Fishcake, but I don't fuck fat, ugly, diseased whores. Well.... there WAS that one time with your coffin dodging, decrepit, ugly, horny mother, BUT I WAS DRUNK!! Does that really count? Write all you want, I'm done with you, bitch! I tend to ignore fan mail from loudmouth tramps. Bye now, and please DIE! LOL

  • @StiffyBoy56 Your maturity pleases me... .___. Come up with better insults that actually don't involve necrophilia. That's illegal, I hope you know that. Seek professional help. Maybe a good psychiatrist can give you psychoanalytical therapy. I'm sure you have the time, considering the fact you waste it posting idiotic YouTube comment <3

  • @StiffyBoy56 and @RoarNikkiSaur

    All of you shut up!If you can't say anything nice about anything/anyone, don't say anything at all!

  • @MsCreator999 Standing up for what I believe in. No problem in that. 

  • @StiffyBoy56 Only stupid, unsocialable people with no answer swear as much as you do, and wishing death apon someone is inhuman, you filthy dog. Dont take your anger out on someone because you live a crap life. xxx <3

  • @fluffybunnylove1 #truesay

  • @fluffybunnylove1 Anything you say, Sugar Britches!

  • @RoarNikkiSaur Don't worry about him. He'll probably kill himself soon.

  • @stiffyboy56 ...Gracie will go much further and look back and laugh at people like YOU. total fucking MUG.

  • @stiffyboy56 you're the biggest waste of a human life I've ever come across in my existence so far. You stupid fucking prick. You deserve to have your pathetic excuse of a penis chopped off and stuffed in that disgusting mouth of yours. Karma is a bitch and my god will you fucking get yours, you vile disgusting pig. Bet you don't even have a wife, nobody would be fucking stupid enough to put up with you. You'll go nowhere in life ever, with people just like you, where as the rest of us and grac

  • @retrobarbielovesmac WOW, you sound like you have violence issues! LOL

  • This struck the deepest chord with me, I genuinely am crying because our stories sound so similar, you pinpoint everything perfectly. I love you for bringing this to peoples attention. You have truly inspired me to work in a womens refuge also! theres is nothing more heartbreaking than watching someone get hurt and youre so young all you can do is watch. Whats more saddening is that as children you see it an deem it acceptable, it is not. stand up for yourself and the ones you love <3

  • Ily for this. I just really do♥

  • ok i waz in DV for 5 years i called the cops end of story u dont need to know about my life

  • would love to hear if u work in the womens refuge..sounds amazing :) 

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  • I'm ok -christina aguilera. Love that song talks about it

  • i went though it to and i called the police. my dad first hit me when i was 5 years old i called the police at age 15. i couldn't take it anymore so i ran away my mom knew were i was going to a friends house my dad didt know in till one day my mom called me and i answered it and it was my dad i was so scared and that's when i could not take it anymore i was 15 when i called the police my dad was sent to jail for 4 years because of DV now my mom have a bf and a baby on the way and me i am HAPPY

  • @olenkuuro im glad your happy:)

  • I know just what you've been through. But for me it was my mum and her boyfriend. My mum was also violent to my dad, and some people seem to forget that domestic violence isn't just men being abusive towards women. It works both ways.

  • your amazing

  • I've witnessed DV many times, but unlike you, in most cases, it was mothers abusing their sons and husbands, so I know what you are saying. I had a stepfather that was, at times, physically abusive, but his daughter was much more abusive toward my side of the family, in the emotional sense. I think that emotional abuse is much worse than physical. If I could have, I would have the children taken away from some mothers. Still, it happens both ways, like your experience shows.

  • this was wonderfully candid and poignant.

  • This deserves sooo many more views!

  • I love that SWEATER!

  • youre such a beautiful person <3

  • Your such an inspirational person, I've been through domestic abuse and now its left me broken, fucked up and while I wad going through it I turned to self harm. But I know that help is out there and its scary at first but things will get better. Tell your mum she is amazing, beautiful and give her a hug from me.

  • gracie you are insanely inspirational <3 your amazing for telling your story x

  • you are a true inspiration to everyone, even people who haven't been through anything like that. You are truly amazing, and i admire you so SO much

  • umm... i think we are the same person..this is soo brave..

  • my dad alway drink so much alcohol,and he alway argue wif my mum~~sometime i feel scare of my dad ~~

  • "music was my conversation" that is so beautiful

  • my dad beat me up, i always told him id report him but then hes hit me more and say then your friends would know who and what your dad did you and i didnt want that so i didnt. im only 12 and ive had an awful life, and i really dont want anyone to go through what i went through so please, if anyone sees this comment, stand up for yourself please

  • @imp7lol :O! thats aweful, please please tell someone! then this will be put to an end!

  • @imp7lol report your dad, say that he hits you even more when you say that you are going to report him, say it to your mom, say to the police that you don't want to go home after you having report him because if he knows that, he will hit you more! STAY STONG! <3

  • @imp7lol No one deserves to be abused-I can imagine being beaten and being afraid of everything-especially not knowing when the person is going to go off. Have you talked to anyone? any adult or some sort of authority because you don't deserve to be hurt. I hope you find peace.

  • I also dealt with it through my childhood & it hit me real hard, it made me weary of men for about 8 months. So when I was little I refused to speak to any male family members. I totally respect you! You're so inspiring, it takes a lot to talk about something so personal. x

  • You are my new idol.! All your videos are going to be added to my favorites...! Especially this one.!

  • wow thank you !

  • You are such an inspiring doll! X

  • That's so emotional thank you for sharing x

  • love you xx

  • oh my god made me cryy :'( x

  • @CandyFloss178 She can't! And while we're on the subject ..... why don't U mind your own goddamned business? Who the fuck are U to question or judge me, bitch? BTW, what state are U in? Maybe we can go out sometime, huh? You'd really dig me once I drop my pants. PM me your phone number. Bye!! XXX

  • @CandyFloss178 That's the kind of attitude I'm talking about! If my wife talked to me in that tone she'd be vacuuming her teeth off the kitchen floor. And by the way, the word you wanted to use was "you're" and NOT "your" you dumb bitch!

  • thank you <3 you're a strong woman.

  • @StiffyBoy56 You disguist me..

  • @StiffyBoy56 At no time is it EVER excusable to hit another human-being. You are disgusting. 

  • @callmeuhmanduh I disagree

  • @StiffyBoy56 ugh,i can't believe you would actually say that and to say no black eyes merely because that doesn't look ladylike,who do you think you are?how dare you comment such a thing and especially on this video or one like it.i don't give a shit if this has anything to do with religion or whatever pathetic excuse you might come up with. women have equal rights to men but you have lost yourself that equality.i would happily give you the slap in your face that you need anyday and im a girl.

  • @Paramoreactivity So..... you would slap me in the face to show me that violence is not the answer??? LOL, and you wonder why the world thinks women are dumb as fuck!! Go to bed, whore!

  • @StiffyBoy56 i never said violence isn't the answer,that was not my point.My point was that you should not discriminate against someone just because of their gender,and you think im dumb as fuck?as far as violence is concerned no,i prefer to think it is not the answer but there is a difference between someone who deserves it and someone who doesn't. and whore?... hah!also this"world"you talk about clearly isn't the real one.anyway i cannot be bothered argueing with you so lets stop,thanks

  • @Paramoreactivity go fuck yourself... thanks

  • @StiffyBoy56 i hope ur wife kills u in ur sleep

  • @ChristynaElaine And I hope your grandmother spends eternity in hell sucking Satans dick, just like she did in her earthly life. Dumb ass nappy neck cunt!