Rough Sex and BDSM - Going Beyond The Occasional Spanking

[shannonakinRN]

Tie her down with some soft restraints or rope, and do some sensation play. That's fun but not too extreme...

[Drahregssor]

wellll obviously soooomeone hasn't been doing their homework -.-

[0NLINESEX]

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[flamingo2014]

lol



[nicegirlniceful]

yes,i love too.

[Hellbent4improvement]

Seriously?... wtf? Obviously your not experts, and especially not therapists... Just opinions for simpleton people...

[monin417]

bla-bla.....

[Commonsense11111]

i know extreme pain, listening to you two talk. that is extreme punishment

[animeemo321]

BDSM isn't porn. It is a lifestyle i have been in since i was 19. I openly and publically wear my collar. As a male Submissive, I take pride in my Mistress.

[sexykatie90]

sexykatie90 any more videos like this? Rough Sex and BDSM - Going Beyond The Occasional Spanking

[DrGraceG]

pls for the REAL non judgmental facts for beginners on this topic view sensualmentality site

[WilhelminaXanthia]

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[CaptainQuo]

"There's not much middle ground"

Bollocks. They just have no imagination.

[LordTSevere]

Where did you two get your expertese ?

[CapitanoGUC]

who cares ??????????????? :-/

[DrGraceG]

which one of you is the submissive?

[treezX]

@DrGraceG my thoughts as well..it seems she wears the pants in that relationship

[Lunarious247]

bdsm.... is awesome... :P

[ke0010k]

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[ba8ygir1]

Please stop talking about BDSM as a negative... please

[encabulator]

@ba8ygir1 totally agree; admitting to an interest in BDSM is equivalent to how it used to be to admit to being gay

as long as both parties are adult and talk about it and fully trust each other, then ENJOY!!!

[ba8ygir1]

SMH (shaking my head) There is one thing that i would greatly appreciateand that is if ppl who really are not that knowledgeable on the subject of BDSM, would please stop making references to it as though there is something abnormal about it, the fact is everyone has one kink, fetish or, another its just that W/we practice and act upon O/ours in different ways. (Different strokes for different folks).

[ba8ygir1]

If all you know of this lifestyle is based on things youve seen on TV or on line, then stop a lot of these depictions are crude and are a poor representation of U/us as a whole. There is a happy medium you know.

[MellaniaEQ]

Goodness... what a bunch of cliches strung together to shallow drivel. Why do people keep asking, or listening to, Dan and Jenn? I keep stumbling across these videos while checking others and thinking "Maybe this one will be worthwhile." But alas. First off, if you want to be taken seriously, why are you laughing when you read questions? Secondly, why do you comment at all on issues you're obviously not all that knowledgeable on? Please stop! you're going to end up really confusing people.

[martijnspeed]

my girl likes bdsm to i like to be tied up but i`m still a little afraid is that reasonable ???

[Kinkspace]

Have you tried talking to others that have practiced for some time?

[martijnspeed]

i don`t know people who are into that

at least as far as i know ...

[Kinkspace]

Lol I am the opposite;) If you want info you can either ask me here, in e-mail or go read tons of stuff on my website.

As a free member you can comment in forums and blogs and ask questions.

If there is anything specific I can help you with just ask :)

[VirtualLizzie1]

CUM spank our ass!  We deserve it. ;)

[joei1382]

This is a shame to BDSM.

[JesusManson323]

Pulling her hair while fucking her in the ass, doggystyle.

That's about as hard I feel like fucking my girl. I have no interest in spanking or beating chicks. It's mostly psychological for me, I realized.

[Kinkspace]

It is for everyone, only religious extremists are in denial of that.

[meowwl]

Stoplight colors work nicely....Green for all good, yellow for slow down/less intense, red for HOLD IT/"get me the hell out of these ties now!"

[safapresley]

This is stupid

[erniebeggs]

who are these two jokers. She is not a dom, she is a domedian

[Kinkspace]

ROLMAO! Theres me trying to be polite =)) ;)

[streamingmad]

There's always bond tickling, which is not especially rough put can make someone feel completely helpless. There are dental gags that hold a mouth open. That suggest several possibilities, such as using a crochet fork to make her gag physically. This last is a tad dangerous, if she actually vomits she could actually drown in it.

[bondsly]

I had rough sex once with a girl she was fucking me on the top while she was kicking my ass with boxing gloves punching me in the head she had a orgasm.

[gloveboxer]

Incredible! This is a fantasy I'd had ever since I was about 3 years old: sitting on a person and soundly boxing their ears with boxing gloves on. I've had a sincere glove fetish ever since. My wife doesn't mind at all: she encourages my eccentricities. Our play isn't very rough, and that's perfectly fine. But I still wear gloves (opera) to bed every night, especially in case we get in the mood. So keep boxing those ears with boxing gloves...and let me know how it's going!

[carlypoos2]

fulfull your fantasy, or it was a wasted thought.

[arielrebelfan1]

@blackgoddess123 nice

[PrincessKLS]

sex while on the period is gross to me.

[deathizmylife]

but feels so much better for both of you

[madmum23]

"he made me do it" haha! love it!!!

these guys have such a cool chemistry together,..i bet they have great sex!! ;D

[elliez23]

"Good girls close their eyes and bad girls get a blindfold" hahaha :)

[jdfox1]

I have always enjoyed different types of sex. Being submissive to strong men can be very fun...if your partner is qualified. I'm very feminine, so it's fun! It's all about your personalities and the different things your into. I love aggressive and dominant men, and being submissive and very feminine around men can be very sexual. Very sexy! It's fun and safe, and many men are really into it. That's sexy!

[5tallcoolone]

jdfox damn ur fine looking! Can we go out? Ur hot!

[logansGT]

You seem quite experienced, lindario.

When did you first taste the rubicund rubigo subjoining from the unmentionable gullet of a Luthdrungian Slimepole?

[manboyxxx]

good safety word, "SAFETYWORD"

[mishiqwertyuiop]

what is bdsm?

[ElvisLivesUpstairs]

Based on Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission and Sadism & Masochism

[Retarded121]

basicely hard core sex torture which some people enjoy like hell:L

[Mikunluv]

i'm one of those ppl. :)

[Retarded121]

:L sweet man

[MishysFriendDani]

is it normal to be into bdsm or some form of it at such a young age

[lbrh4]

Yes

[ooooooOOOomann]

i love rough sex.

i mean when my girls slaps my face after i grabed her neck and were going wild, thats just awesome... and she told me that she enjoyed it too ... but we have "normal" sex as well with great emotions... and i am enjoying this too...

sry for bad spelling:D

[mujwoo]

me n my partner are the same

we enjoy both normal and rough sex =)

[SMFETISH00AA]

Some good advice, ha?!?

[jsg103]

i agree with "imassbbfan" except the part about not sounding like a porn watching pervert, bc i am...lol

[samantha731705]

its so true about not being able to find middleground!!

[eancarana]

FYI, a knowledgeable Dom can bridge the gap between vanilla and hard core for the newbie bottom/sub.

[imassbbfan]

I'd kind of like to see them have sex. I don't want to sound like a pervert who watches porn all the time or something, but they are both experienced and I think it would be awesome!

[emogirll10101]

OMG i love porn

[nawstra578]

try biting, its awesome :D

[DanAndJenn]

We are just happy and enjoy life - very much like a 5 year old actually.

Enjoy the moment - it's OK!

[22flubber]

Jennifer is hot. I'll bet she's a bad girl in bed.

[charlie47130]

There,s nothing wrong with a good ole fashion otk spanking especially if administerd by a beautifull woman-- she must spank hard and very fast--must leave your bottom blood red and slightly bruised and blisterd to feel the full efect of a good spanking--I have seen the same woman for 5 years once a month and i pay her $150 for a 1 hour session for spanking and domination--being her slave is what i am and nothing more for i am useless and not allowed to speak unless spoken to--a true slave.

[albiman68]

Who actually needs Dan and Jennifer to explain them what to do in a bedroom... ???

[falldinea]

Ummmm, these two remind me of a cute youth pastor couple.

[Kykler666]

Its called fun sex you retards

unlike you normal boring bastards i like to take things to the 100th level. I am a sex freak you fuckers

[thewhile]

yeeaaahhhh

[Mann1979HH]

If English had been taught to me by presenting stuff like this to me, I would have been a far more ambitious pupil :)

[prokuyt]

me too, english lesson would be composed of my fucking the blonde while the guy gets from girls for me to fuk

[Mann1979HH]

My point is that if adults had given me videos like this one or masturbation confessions of women, I would have been very ambitious to read that stuff.

[GildorStarlord]

ahahaha^^ "good girls close their eyes, bad girls get a blindfold* I'm going to write that up.

[newtoomanga]

now this...is a horror movie...could you imagine sitting in a room with those two telling you stuff about bdsm and making bdsm jokes? holy shit this is sooo not right

[katherine1331]

Nails, biting, blindfolds, tying your limbs to the bedpost, handcuffs, have sex on gravel etc.

[imastupidasswhoreaty]

It's normal!

[Mythmakers]

wtf..

[bunone4billy]

Hahahaha what the fuck is this?

[tlndofa]

you's are great..i think i needed this one.i am no bdsm but i am ruff and i get bitten all the time then i do pull hair and stuff,also the nails are not fun at all.for the monthly part i do find it is a womens horniest time to enjoy from all the consent activation , plastic sheet the bed though.

[AnonAmEye]

Sexuality Opens Higher Levels Consciousness Through The Frequency Of Ecstasy In An Orgasm...

[ilcavaliere147]

what great "maitres à penser" you are!

[vonte34]

can i have sex with jennifer

[Yihud]

she said i feel your pain, omg, im sure she does. lol.

[shamanone]

gads...give two morons a camera and they become experts...they are clueless and superficial....turn them off...I am

[hoodmilk]

huh, what? I think they're worth listening too. They're just trying to share a little knowledge with confused people. Chill out.

[yankeeclipper1952]

Amen.

[yankeeclipper1952]

Amen.

[iownurmom57]

2 minutes and 50 seconds into ur 9 minute and 30 minute video i love you guys as a couple and as individuals! You and your man are beautiful, honest, and REAL!!!! I love it all!

[skittzblack]

And as for books they were talking about, S&M 101 is always a good one, and The Loving Dominate is also a very very good book that I would give to any of my friends researching the BDSM lifestyle

[skittzblack]

wow thanks Jon for makeing us oklahoma people look so well (end sarcasam)

[tiffanyteen69]

ITS NOT BAD

[atuyt987]

For a much more useful answer to questions about this subject (and others) go watch the BDSM Series on The Joy Spot here on Utube. If you have sound problems, use a headset and it should be fine, or go to the website listed. The sound there is perfect.

[MasterBKM]

The Key thing to remeber is that Nothing in the Bdsm Lifestyle is set in Stone . What works for you may or may not for others . There has to be Trust , Honesty and comuinication above all else for a Power exchange to take place.

[ginginnyme]

But what about switches? some like to be controlled sometimes and controlling at other times.

[HAZEM1983]

pls help : i love spanking more than having sex what does that mean ? pls help

[ginginnyme]

You mean to the point of orgasm? Sounds like you are into masochisim more then you know. You may be a submissive.

[brandeewyne]

masochism and submission are two completely seperate issues.  they shouldn't be grouped as one in the same. granted, it's often the case that a submissive is a masochist .. but it's not an absolute connection.

[ginginnyme]

Well I mean the majority of submissives I would imagine must be into pain, or at least some sort of punishiment?

[BeSiv]

Nope. Submission is getting the kick out of pleasing the other person, submitting to their desires; its one element of TPE, total power exchange. There are Dominants who are masochistic, all masochism means is getting sexual pleasure from feeling certain types of pain. You can be submissive and not a masochist; you can be masochist without being submissive. Believe it or not, most people dont fit into convenient boxes, even "perverts" (what many S&Mers call themselves).

[pressgangers]

if that fool needs to write a letter to a tv station, then its obviously not in the soul of the letter writer to be mean and rough

[ans012345]

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[alphawav3]

YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!!!! :)

[Noxe]

If you like spanking, you'd love Spankcandy. Check them out on YouTube. They're from Omaha, NE and perform for venues around the city. Their focus is fetish & fantasy.

[abyworld]

try ab/dl

[Jacob951]

Good handling of a very touchy topic - especially helpful for beginners wondering where to start.

[desertrun]

It's 'occasional'

[DanAndJenn]

Yeah we caught that... a little to late... :-)

[ginginnyme]

I kind of like spanking but lately my boyfriend wants to do it a lot more. and he is even talking about bondage... we had a argument about it last weekend, he thinks I dont trust him to control himself. safe word? I dont know if he will stop..:( no

[renyoc]

Have a consequence for him if he doesn't control himself. okay?

[DanAndJenn]

No but maybe we should be :-).

[Dreamline45056]

LOL!!!  Canadian, right?