The women say they want a man with a sense of humor. Fair enuff but most bad-boys out there have a great sense of humor. Their funny when their feeling good. That's the problem, they use their humor to seduce.
Most women don't know what they want until they are in thier mid 30's everything else is fairtale bullshit. Women of all races need to learn that it is not normal for a man to be with just one woman. Which is why we're able to breed well into our 80's and they stop procreating in the 40's.
@stingray650 No lol. I married w/ 2 kids and at the age of 49 I've out grown trying to nail every tail I see. It doesn't mean I wouldn't want to but it's not worth the trouble. Like I tell my son "Don't have sex w/ any woman that you wouldn't want to have children by. I use to be a stripper 30yrs ago so I've gotten it out of my system.
This bitch is ugly ass fuck rocking that weave asking for all these demands bitch you is not paris hilton are kim kardashing. Who wan't you black bitches
I'm sure these ladies in this video was messing around with these no good men when they was younger..See what happend when you turn away from the good guys out here!!! Now,your broke down and old living by yourself..Thinking your going to still have that chance of finding that good black man that you thrown away years ago!!! It's to late that man is happy and married now!!! He living the good life with his wife now..It you women fault why you can find a good man!! Stop fucking with the bad boys!
@BENZCLS5 Yeah that's how they do,, I usually try not to laugh in their face when I see a women with 2-3 kids trying to look at me on the sly hoping for me to holler at them OR some women twice my age that's all used up thinking I want them.
The best you can do with women is pimp em and move on.
The worst you can do is get caught up in bullshit babymama drama
What Black Men don't understand is IN ORDER TO DESTROY THE BLACK MAN YOU DESTROY THE BLACK WOMAN. BLACK MEN AND WOMEN DON'T FALL FOR THIS SHIT! IF SHE FALLS SO DO WE! PICK HER UP AND HOLD HER BECAUSE WHEN EVER WE NEED IT SHE HAS ALWAYS SUPPORTED US.
@theright1allthetime So in other words the women in your famiily has done nothing for you? If so than Im sorry for you. You must be looking at the wrong women. Now I know there are some hard bitches out there. Six of them are my sisters lol. Take care.
@Fujisuka - That sounds like you got that from Tupac. See guys like him know the right thing to say and women eat it up but do they walk the walk? The women love bad boys like him though. RIP.
Women don't know what the hell they want. They're never satisfied and they bitch and complain about the simplest shit. Also they are a waste of money. I say they are only good for a fuck.
Black women with college degrees make me horny as fuck. My dick gets hard when a black women tells me that she has a degree! Black men don't feel bad if a black woman has a college degree I guarantee you that if you play your cards right she would still consider you as a possible match even if you don't have a degree. The only thing black females want from black men is to be straight up with them, comfort them and let them know that you'll always be there for them.
Why all yall hating on black women..if yall dont like "sistas" then fuck off yall dont gotta be with em its yo choice..hate aint needed stay in your lane and date whoever but disrespect not needed.
@happytrails07302 i have no damn idea, there are much better looking single women they could have done a study on. Most of these women on the video are not in the "cream of the crop" of a selection pool. Just keeping it real...
Fuck black ugly ass women with their over weight body's, ghetto fucking mouth, I am a black man who love white women my motto is, you now it feels right when that white girls pussy is tight.
I also notice how arrogant and stucked up black women are against average\ugly men. They act like the best lookin guy will always treat them like queens
The lady in the yellow and black sounds more suitable for a pet. "You can send him out...and when he comes back to you...". Correction, maybe she wants a frisbee. The elderly sister is looking for a "clown". Fascinating piece!
@ukmediaisjewish are u Fuckn stupid??? They just decided to put ugly black women in this video. Look up Christina Milian, Meagan Good, Lauren London. We have black beautiful women. We are Fuckn yall over!!! Blacks are the SEXIEST and most BEAUTIFUL!
they want big dick and money and if it was rich white boy with big dick then this will be just perfect for black bitches. that's why they are single with ugly white looking kids for white race, can't marry or just white man's porno whores. this is one reason why we don't want and don't love them!
BW want men who are somewhat balanced in strength and sensitivity (to her), decision-making, SENSE of HUMOR , Laid-Back, Down-to-Earth, MANGINA FREE or REDUCED at least, hard-working, financially secure (if possible), just there for her & can have leveled conversation & IN CHRIST! Another thing is if both parties can be open to talk about their problems and life's problems & be open-minded about it, REAL TALK!!! BW, STFU about there ain't no good men & talk to some!! FUCK!!!
@WizzoPro9476 Yeah, but if he is Laid Back, a few months down the road you might be saying he is not ambitious enough. Some might say they want a man who takes charge but then complain later, the guy is too controlling or self-centered. Pssst, most men don't like to TALK, they just do it because they have too. Women will talk about friends and relatives you've never met but you half to pretend to be interested. Your asking a lot in your list.
@ukmediaisjewish i agree with you on that one black women are the least attractive of other races both whites and other ethnicity are the most beautiful
All these women are WAY past thier prime and honestly not women black men want physically anymore. Unfortunately, they didn't have the knowledge or COMMON SENSE to look for these things when they were young and ATTRACTIVE. Now all the guys that they ignored when they were sexy are the ones they crave.
DYNSIGHT.You want a big dick,a nice car,money,house and we dont care how he got the money.These hunkess raped robbed and trick to get what they want but if a black sell a little drugs then hes bad.We get lock up and these sqares cant still knock our women while were gone.Now you took your section 8 to the suburbs and these sqares let the hunkess make pornos, strippers,hookers out of them.
What they want seems reasonable from what one can tell from this short clip. One thing I've noticed is that theyre all abit older in age, not in the ideal target age group men seek out.
Sadly I can be pretty sure without even knowing them that theyve each probably passed up numerous men having the intrinsic qualities they currently want while they were in their prime yrs; but hey that can be said of all women not just black women. So theyre really no different.
Sounds like they want trained puppies. Be this way, be similar to me, be like what i want, what I want, and what I want. these Black women are MISERABLE! they have all had a man with those same attributes and the shyt didn't work. Bottom Line, Black women seem to control the Black Man, after getting their Pass from the white man 9Education, Job, Credit, Home, Title/Status) but is came with no Power. That Power Hungry Black Woman must dominate, and the next best thing is, The Black Man!
@BlackWomenAreNoGood I'll take it by your name that you a "predisposition" & thus are blind to neutrality and any good that may come from BW as well. If you're personal preference isn't black women keep this in mind. The handful of black women you encounter in one demographic however big or small is not indicative of all black women because of varying cultures & if attitude is your problem believe me man, that isn't a bi-product of race it's one of an unkempt upbringing.
All that talk and there are still no clear answers. A lot of "kinda's" and sort of's. Black women want everything (all women for that matter), but few have any real substance to give back.
@nichirenx Practical yes but reasonable? ehh not so sure. For me to definitively say their requirement sheet is reasonable I would have to see their personalities, financial situation, and history i.e children further. From the looks of the video many of these women are already 35+ and realistically speaking are years late to the punch on trying to find the one....
@FitnessGuru1988 Most of them seem to be asking for standard personality traits.
At least in this video. Sense of humor, goals, connection, enjoys going out, etc.
Even at their ages it does seem reasonable.
Now if they were asking for a young adonis , making, seven figures, with the comedic power of Bill Maher, to sweep them off their feet that may be a bit unreasonable. Makes one wonder, is it better for certain types of people to be lonely and wanting or with someone and dissatisfied.?
@nichirenx The word reasonable is subjective and I already said I didn't definitively say that their terms weren't. Reasonable is comparative. While a homeless decrepit woman wanting a ambitious well cultured financially secure man is guidelines for a schizophrenia medication, Beyonce having those same requirements becomes reasonable. I would further have to see their habits & mannerisms when they aren't primped up for the camera and the world.
@FitnessGuru1988 What you are saying is that you are withholding positive view of their standards until you have actually met them? So it is unreasonable for anyone to , without having been observed enough, ask for pretty basic positive values in someone.
I respectfully disagree with your premise because it seems biased towards the negative.
@nichirenx Wanting "basic positive values" requires you to reciprocate those values as well. Basing whether these women are anything based off 5 sec shuffling clips would be presumptuous of me. My reservations don't implement me. they are as they are, reservations. My lack of praise doesn't doesn't equate to condemnation. So it isn't the bad things I say but the lack of good things that makes me biased? - Guru
@gromtkn You have very healthy outlook in relationship and also know right timing to invest into relationship. Find a lady you can talk to easily, feel at home (one friend - she got married because her hudsband felt like wearing slippers.No long list) If you can get to know more people in genral, it helps a lot finding a mate. You made me laugh so much and I am saving your quotation; a pulse, weigh less than me, less than 30 sec video (LoL) - It's a CLASSIC!! Good Luck on everything you do!!.
Typcal black women in America, all the women being interviewed are fat, self centered single or divorced mothers. They always crying about what they want in a man but never come close to wondering is their body what a man wants. I guest they figure as long as they have a good job and can cook that they don`t need to look good for a man they want to love and sex only them.
Family was born in the heart of God; it was not an institution that MAN created. This is why the world and its psychologists and therapists will never fix and strengthen a family the way GOD intended.
These are the same things white women look for in a man. I wonder why women go for thugs or the wild guys so much if they really want a good man. Women don't make sense. - Of course men don't make sense either but we at least are somewhat predictable. I am so tired of the games that get played. - It would be nice to find a woman that would appreciat a man with some flaws, we are expected to deal with their flaws without complaints or they go off on a rant about all our flaws. Same ole, same ole.
You should have taken a chance with me, I didn't have what you were looking for long ago but look at me now! However, there was this women, to this day I don't understand why she dated me with that old beat-up truck..but she did. Everyday of her life she wakes up kiss me & the kids w/ a smile & physical/spiritual happiness. Furthermore, to those which it matters, last time I checked in these terrible financial times our savings ends w/ six zeros. LOVE YOU DE
YES YOU HEAR BABIES, BECAUSE WOMEN HAVE SON AND DAUGHTERS. THEY HAVE THEM BECAUSE A MAN WAS THERE TO HELP THEM MAKE THEM.
THEY ARE WITH THIS WOMEN, OTHERS RAN, IRRESPONSIBLE LITTLE BOYS, OR THEY LEFT THEIR KIDS TO FOLLOW A NEW WOMAN. SELFISHNESS IS SOMETHING WE WOMEN DONT WANT IN A MAN. GET IT?
am a black man with a daughter, and im raising her too be respectful to everyone...i think it is the foundation of any relationship...i don't want her to b a stand offish bw, but a bw who respects herself, has dignity, grace and pride...and hopefully she will find a bm who identifies these traits and loves and respects her for them...hotep
am a black man with a daughter, and im raising her too be respectful to everyone...i think it is the foundation of any relationship...i don't want her to b a stand offish bw, but a bw who respects herself, has dignity, grace and pride...and hopefully she will find a bm who identifies these traits and loves and respects her for them...hotep
black women don't know what they want because when they get it they don't want it. black women want to lead when they are not leaders. this is why they fell in marraige 75% of the time.
@ballsdanglin youre right - they say they want a good man and when they get one treat them like shit ; they get a lazy good for nothing with a crimal record that calls them names and kicks their asses they call them "men" , and wonder why good black men mostly marry white women ?
Someone sent me a response asking me if all blk women need is security - what about love. My response to that is "love is an action, not an emotion". If a man loves you he will not hesitate to provide for a woman: provide security (protection), money and decent shelter for his family. Making sure the lights are on is love. Making sure the children have a decent school is love. Making sure their community is safe is love. Making sure their family is fed is love.
@clmason33172 "If a man loves you he will not hesitate to provide for a woman: " And I suppose because you're a women, and you love your man, you'll provide the cooking and the cleaning? I agree that love is action, actions speak louder than words, but in this day and age its time we realised we are all independent beings. All of us must be capable of supporting our selves and our offspring on our own,because life isn't fair and we can loose our partners, to accidents and death.
@kendrawhisp We're not married or living together yet, but I do provide some the cooking and some of the cleaning for him. I don't have a problem with that. Nor does he have a problem with picking up the damn mop or doing dishes. Afterall, we will be in a duel-income household. If I didn't have to work, I'd do it all, without having a problem with it.
Shit happens, I understand, but 70% of blk children are fatherless...Come on!
@clmason33172 "70% of blk children are fatherless..." No one is saying this isn't a problem, and i wouldn't blame blk women, or men. Infact I have nothing to say on the matter because I don't have the first clue about why this is happening.
@kendrawhisp I must also say that both me and my BOYfriend are Muslims and being in a relationship is different than being Christian or another religion. In Islam, women have lots of freedoms in marriages, like being able to keep 100% of their income. It is the man who is the provider and and this is their right to be the decision-maker. A woman's income is to be given to the family as charity and for luxuries.
I think the difference in mindset stems from religion.
@clmason33172 And when we do lose our children's fathers, is it really a good idea to let another man in the house, because you can't look after yourself and your kids and you need a man.
@kendrawhisp Yes, having a step-father in the home is really better than raising them alone. Just because you CAN do something, doesn't mean you should.
Most blk women, or women period, don't need NEED a man, they want one. Meaning when they get someone, he should actually DO something for them they can already do for themselves, but should have the stones to take the burden off. People who burden you with shit, are not worth the effort to keep them around.
@clmason33172 "Yes, having a step-father in the home is really better than raising them alone" Finding man good enough for a women is hard enough, surely, after our first discussion YOU KNOW THAT. Find in a man good enough for OUR babies, now THAT is near impossible.
@clmason33172 "People who burden you with shit, are not worth the effort to keep them around." Life is hard, things happen, and sometimes, people end up being useless, you can't just throw them away.
@kendrawhisp Yes you can. Dating someone isn't a binding contract. Marrying someone has its difficulties, but those relationships can be ended, as well. Happens everyday.
These women never stated they wanted a thug, YET you people seem to think they secretly want one and just want money? WTF is wrong with you idiot ass human beings? THINK, USE YOUR BRAINS!!!
@clmason33172 What I meant to say was: I bet all those woman are over 30, have kids, and weren't looking for any of the shit they claim they now want in a man ........ when they were younger.
@illxtra Maybe they were, maybe they weren't, but they are now...and that's the point.
When you are younger, you do have a tendency to look for more fleeting things than when you get to be 40. So what? The problem is men don't. They still want to be with a 20 year old, looking stupid with her..in the club. That's a real problem that needs to be addressed in our community.
@clmason33172 No no no that's not the point!!! Not everybody looks for more fleeting things the WHOLE TIME they are younger. You should start looking for stability long before you reach 30. There are good young black men out there. Black women keep chasing after the same old good for nothing men who they think are gonna change into what they want, but they never do.
And people wonder why black women always stay "waiting to exhale".
@MrVeesworld I don't know where your comments went, but let me sum up my point for you:
Provider = Man
Not Provider = (well) Bitch
I'm no lesbian and neither is no woman fighting for the Blk family, but Blk men, like you, have failed our community by being sociopaths and psychopaths. Get professional help before it's too late for the black community.
I want a female without kids. A chick who is not grinding on every man in the club. A chick who will let a man be a man and let him lead. A woman who don't have an attitude. A woman who does not act like she is hard and cursing all the time. A bunch of tats? That crap is not sexy... Get back! How about a woman who works out and takes care of her body? A woman who shows less and leaves more to the imagination. A Feminine Female!
@FrigidWhisper So you want someone who's from the third world? I know several women who wear burquas and are single. They were raised not to expect anything from life and will work dutifully for their man. They don't mind being beaten, either.
@clmason33172 "I know several women who wear burquas and are single. They were raised not to expect anything from life and will work dutifully for their man" They do house work dutifully for their man because the man provides for them. You see, in a society where men provide for women, it makes women their property. You advocate this set up by choice, but men are controlling nutters, mostly, allow a man to be a provider and watch them forget your humanity.
@kendrawhisp No actually, they work dutifully for God, to whom they pray and bow down to; not their husbands. Men do not work for their wives nor for themselves, but to abide by God. At least that's what's on paper.
In Islam, no one belongs to another; Muslims are only slaves to God. Islam allows women to be full sovereigns over their money and themselves. This is not applied universally and some people call themselves Muslims who truly aren't abiding by God's laws.
@clmason33172 "they work dutifully for God" You think rules like doing the house work while the man goes out to work is a rule to ensure God get's something for it? DOn't be silly. It's a system of family life, to enhance human existence. It's not just supposed to be, God says jump so jump. There is serious problem with how people think among Muslims, I think most Muslims don't have a fucking clue what the message is anyway.
Black women want a man with money to marry them, so they can get child support and alimony. When they say "Sence of Humor" they mean a wimp they can embarrass in front of their friends and in public. When they say "Sence of Humor" you can't make fun of them (that's not funny to them, they don't like that), but they can make fun of the guy. Black women also want a simp who will not hold them accountable for their actions. Black women HATE men who hold them accountable for their actions.
@BBYoungLady Don't take bits and pieces of my comments, I said "Black women want a man with money to marry them, so they can get child support and alimony".
@Tsugua21 why not? That's the part I'm focusing on, not the other stuff you said. You generalizing a whole group of people like that isn't right. People marry for different reason. Women in general prefer men with money because they believe money is power, and that's the power to provide. More money you have the more you can provide. Why would a woman be thinking about divorce just as she gets married?
@BBYoungLady 50% of all marriages end in divorce and 70% of divorces are filed by women (so they can get child support and/or alimony). The average marriage last about 8 years. With child support and alimony laws it makes no sense to even get a women pregnant let along get married. I don't hate women, I hate the anti marriage laws against men. Would you get married if you stand to lose everything you worked for and custody of the your kids?
@BBYoungLady Never, but we're suppose to overlook that and provide everything for the blk man so he can feel good about himself and get what he wants without having any sense of responsibility to give to others.
As a black men, who has appeared in Smart Money magazine in May, 2009- in a full 3 page article on investing, I have earned all the things I have gained and self respect is one of them. Scholarship? Funny stuff.No Stanford University gave me some tuition money only because mom's worked there.
So, a BLK woman PROVIDED FOR YOU and you haven't done the same for a BLK WOMAN in return. Interesting! Just because you have money, doesn't make you desirable. Stop believing that. Your attitude sucks, and you don't have enough money to compensate that with a healthy woman of *any* fold. Good luck cuddling up to the $ on a cold Winter's night.
Lastly, most Black men do go to college on an athletic scholarship and when that fizzles, what do they do to provide for the baby-mama they now have?
@BBYoungLady I don't think it's funny. My man isn't blk and I don't feel like settling for someone's baggage. I'm educated and have no children - but I guess that since I'm not a "dimepiece", or music video hooker, blk men don't want me...Oh well!
Sad to say, I was really hoping for a strong blk man like my father. They don't make men like him, anymore.
@clmason33172 Well aren't you stereotyping all black men by saying that they have baggage? Every man and woman has a different story. You can't have a few rotten apples and decide that all apples are rotten. How comes there are black women out there who are happily married to black men? If black men aren't for you then fair enough but putting them into one basket ain't good. Being educated doesn't get someone a man lol men are visual creatures, they're different to women. I'm 17 and I know that.
@BBYoungLady I was going to educate you until I read you were 17. Let me just leave you with this: Die young and don't have kids because then no black man is ever going to want you. Go with God because you need him.
@clmason33172 don't leave me with that rubbish. All the guys I have dealt with have been black and will most likely be black. Please don't push your negativity onto me based on your own experiences. I have had bad experiences with black guys ONLY because they were the ones I have been in relationships with. I'm sure if i was to date exclusively white men or others I'd have the same experience. LOOOL at your last comment. That's how I know you're not serious. I may be young but I ain't stupid.
@BBYoungLady No, actually, I am very serious if you think men being visual is the hook to keeping them. Like I said, you'll learn with time. Talk to me again when you're 25 or 30 then we can have a real deal conversation, slut.
@clmason33172 Of course it's not, but it's part of it.
And how the hell can you call me a slut? that's why NO MAN would want you - I can feel the bitterness coming from your post. How immature. I doubt I'll be having a decent conversation with you whether I was 25, 35, or 45 :/
@BBYoungLady We all want an attractive person, so why did you bring that up!
If you have more than one boyfriend before 18, then the chances of you being a slut is high. And I don't give a shit if you don't sleep with them, it doesn't matter, you're a slut. (It's called a reputation. Learn to deal.)
I already have a man, dumbass! So, what are you talking about? He may not be black, but then again, you probably don't have a man if he is black. By 25, you'll be "bitter", too.
@clmason33172 Based on YOUR opinion I am a "slut" for having more than 1 boyfriend before the age of 18.
LOL The fact that you're cursing and getting angry for no reason is funny. It's the internet, calm down. No need to be calling names - we're not in pre-school anymore. And if you have a man, Why are you worrying about what other men are doing? And he is black and very much a man ;)
@BBYoungLady No, sweetheart, it's not my opinion. Learn to live with it, Babe.
I'm not a sociopath; I'm concerned for our community. I may be taken and man knows how to hold things down, but our community at large is being threatened by the lack of balls on our so-called men. The MALES in our community want to call us "bitches" yet it's their BITCH MOMMA who brought them into this world and raised their asses...WTF?
Sweetheart, I don't think you'd know a real man if he fell on you.
@clmason33172 STOP PATRONISING ME! I am not your babe, sweetheart or any other flippin' petname. I am having a serious conversation with you. You're older than me, you keep saying how young I am so why don't you behave like a grown arse woman and talk to me properly.
@BBYoungLady Sweetheart, a tantrum, really? Even at your age, you should know better!
The reason I'm not taking you seriously is that you don't know what you don't know yet and you're trying to make it seem like you do. I find this really cute cause I can look back at my life and say "wow I used to think the same things". You'll learn.
And any man dating you, isn't a real man. I don't care if he's older (25, really?). He still doesn't have to do much to impress you because you're 17...
@clmason33172 You are the last one who should be talking about tantrums. At least I am not throwing my dummy out of the pram and calling you stupid names.
@BBYoungLady ...and at 17, you're not going to challenge any man's bullshit. And that's the reason men, of any race, don't want a 40 year old woman. They got to come correct to us. They know better.
Look up a song called "I Will Survive" by Gloria Gaynor and listen to the lyrics. Really listen...and learn. Like I said, this conversation would have been more pleasant if you were 25 or 30, but alas!
@clmason33172 Yes, I do challenge a man's B.S. Of course men have tried it with me because they think I'm a clueless young girl, but when I open my mouth, they are very surprised, which is why I am actually happy in my relationship.
@BBYoungLady Also, I would be remiss if I failed to tell you it's "patronizing" with a "z". Don't demand respect before you're able to earn in, Sweetheart.
@clmason33172 "And I don't give a shit if you don't sleep with them, it doesn't matter, you're a slut. (It's called a reputation. Learn to deal.)"
Wow? Seriously? When I was 17 I used to pal around with 4 boys, we were the school nerd, by your definition I am a slut. I had never thought of myself in that way before... probably because it's TOTAL horse shit. NO WAY you have a man! How many big macs have you had today? I bet they ship them in by the truck load.
@kendrawhisp I don't give you great credit for thinking.
You're right! I don't have a man! OMG! I have a woman who doesn't have any breasts and has a penis! Do you know the number to the people at Guinness Book of World Records? She will be ecstatic when she comes home that she will be a record holder - probably in TWO categories: the World's smallest breasts and the World's largest clitoris!
I don't eat @ McD's. I cook by trade and for my girlfriend. ;-)
@clmason33172 "I don't give you great credit for thinking". Coming from someone that clearly has trouble thinking, it's not much of an insult. You having a man would have been more likely. A women, no matter how misshapen is far too intelligent to fall for you.
@kendrawhisp I have no trouble thinking about the possibilities that there is more to a situation than what's partially laid out for me. I don't live in "What if" world.
I'll be sure to tell him that. He'll need a laugh after a long day's work.
Alot of you sistas see it one way and some of the brothas do the same thing too and it should be about sharing and caring.Money is a real issue and some sistas stick with that brotha whose trying to the right thing by her now if he lose his job rather by a firing or a laid off,some of you sistas will kick his out or just leave him along altogether.Some of us brothas will use game just to get the sex and after a while then some of you cats run out on her for the next peice of coochie.
@mightyblack1 That's a good point. I want whatever my parents have. My dad lost his job last year and not once did my mom belittle him. Instead she encouraged him through every job application and interview until he got a new job
@UnlimitedProdiction1 I got liad off and my wife of ten years kicked me out back in May of last year and the other black women around her had a hand in it too.Alot of these sistas are outside looking in and they don't have a man either and they want to see other sistas without too.Too me alot of these sistas want control of the black man,that's right his mind body and soul along with his check.As long as they call themselves the strong black woman,watch out because she's only for her damn self.
thug .... did i say thug sorry i meant thug.. i used to want thugs all my life then i changed and now i only want thugs
onofomi 1 week ago
The women say they want a man with a sense of humor. Fair enuff but most bad-boys out there have a great sense of humor. Their funny when their feeling good. That's the problem, they use their humor to seduce.
stingray650 2 weeks ago
Women want a man for babies, respectability and a home. Then they want their freedom.
You ladies could have many nice guys but you want Bobby Brown.
stingray650 2 weeks ago
Most women don't know what they want until they are in thier mid 30's everything else is fairtale bullshit. Women of all races need to learn that it is not normal for a man to be with just one woman. Which is why we're able to breed well into our 80's and they stop procreating in the 40's.
Fujisuka 2 weeks ago
@Fujisuka So what do you say to them? Hey baby, I gottsa spread my seed around because it's the way I'm made.
stingray650 2 weeks ago
@stingray650 No lol. I married w/ 2 kids and at the age of 49 I've out grown trying to nail every tail I see. It doesn't mean I wouldn't want to but it's not worth the trouble. Like I tell my son "Don't have sex w/ any woman that you wouldn't want to have children by. I use to be a stripper 30yrs ago so I've gotten it out of my system.
Fujisuka 2 weeks ago
This bitch is ugly ass fuck rocking that weave asking for all these demands bitch you is not paris hilton are kim kardashing. Who wan't you black bitches
lilTBANKS 4 weeks ago
No shudup u wanta thug just like the rest of the black females
UncleRuckus90s 1 month ago
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theright1allthetime 1 month ago
I'm sure these ladies in this video was messing around with these no good men when they was younger..See what happend when you turn away from the good guys out here!!! Now,your broke down and old living by yourself..Thinking your going to still have that chance of finding that good black man that you thrown away years ago!!! It's to late that man is happy and married now!!! He living the good life with his wife now..It you women fault why you can find a good man!! Stop fucking with the bad boys!
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theright1allthetime 1 month ago
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@BENZCLS5 Yeah that's how they do,, I usually try not to laugh in their face when I see a women with 2-3 kids trying to look at me on the sly hoping for me to holler at them OR some women twice my age that's all used up thinking I want them.
The best you can do with women is pimp em and move on.
The worst you can do is get caught up in bullshit babymama drama
theright1allthetime 1 month ago
Baby crying in the background = DEALBREAKER!!!
producer4real 1 month ago
What Black Men don't understand is IN ORDER TO DESTROY THE BLACK MAN YOU DESTROY THE BLACK WOMAN. BLACK MEN AND WOMEN DON'T FALL FOR THIS SHIT! IF SHE FALLS SO DO WE! PICK HER UP AND HOLD HER BECAUSE WHEN EVER WE NEED IT SHE HAS ALWAYS SUPPORTED US.
Fujisuka 1 month ago
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theright1allthetime 1 month ago
@theright1allthetime So in other words the women in your famiily has done nothing for you? If so than Im sorry for you. You must be looking at the wrong women. Now I know there are some hard bitches out there. Six of them are my sisters lol. Take care.
Fujisuka 1 month ago
@Fujisuka I'm saying is that these women need to be honest, and say they want a thug..
theright1allthetime 2 weeks ago
@Fujisuka - That sounds like you got that from Tupac. See guys like him know the right thing to say and women eat it up but do they walk the walk? The women love bad boys like him though. RIP.
stingray650 2 weeks ago
Women don't know what the hell they want. They're never satisfied and they bitch and complain about the simplest shit. Also they are a waste of money. I say they are only good for a fuck.
e84fresh 2 months ago
@e84fresh What black women want is found in the video called "What Women Want is Worship".
vincent15641 1 month ago
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Black women with college degrees make me horny as fuck. My dick gets hard when a black women tells me that she has a degree! Black men don't feel bad if a black woman has a college degree I guarantee you that if you play your cards right she would still consider you as a possible match even if you don't have a degree. The only thing black females want from black men is to be straight up with them, comfort them and let them know that you'll always be there for them.
MrAtheosRecords 2 months ago
Why all yall hating on black women..if yall dont like "sistas" then fuck off yall dont gotta be with em its yo choice..hate aint needed stay in your lane and date whoever but disrespect not needed.
damercenarymrc 3 months ago
@damercenarymrc racist cunt. So you only identify black people as family "sistas", how about this..black people fail. Across the board..fact.
michael616joaquin 2 months ago
Word of Advice: any woman who puts great emphasis on a man's appearance is very likely to be a whore and will cheat on you.
JMorde999 3 months ago
Why did they find the more unattractive, overweight women for this discussion? Who cares what these women think about relationships?
happytrails07302 3 months ago
@happytrails07302 i have no damn idea, there are much better looking single women they could have done a study on. Most of these women on the video are not in the "cream of the crop" of a selection pool. Just keeping it real...
bwebmasta1 2 months ago
Love field study vids, but find hotter women ok and no single moms, DAMN!!!!
goyneser1 3 months ago
Fuck black ugly ass women with their over weight body's, ghetto fucking mouth, I am a black man who love white women my motto is, you now it feels right when that white girls pussy is tight.
mikevickphi 3 months ago
@mikevickphi Plz fuck thm whites sluts
eazydee415 2 months ago
I also notice how arrogant and stucked up black women are against average\ugly men. They act like the best lookin guy will always treat them like queens
jamare456 3 months ago
This video needs to be heard!!!
princeofthepen 3 months ago
why do black woman r girls want give white guys are men a chance is a blk man im n ms yall r stupid sum of the sexy woman in this life r blk
FormanMudder 4 months ago
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why do black woman r girls want give white guys are men a chance is a blk man im n mississippi
FormanMudder 4 months ago
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why do black woman r girls want give white guys are men a chance is a blk man jealous
FormanMudder 4 months ago
why do black woman r girls want give white guys are men a chance
FormanMudder 4 months ago
The lady in the yellow and black sounds more suitable for a pet. "You can send him out...and when he comes back to you...". Correction, maybe she wants a frisbee. The elderly sister is looking for a "clown". Fascinating piece!
crowncliff 4 months ago
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limitbreak187 4 months ago
@ukmediaisjewish are u Fuckn stupid??? They just decided to put ugly black women in this video. Look up Christina Milian, Meagan Good, Lauren London. We have black beautiful women. We are Fuckn yall over!!! Blacks are the SEXIEST and most BEAUTIFUL!
KingNorwood1234 4 months ago
Most single women don't know what they want. That's the problem.
cooljoescott 4 months ago
@cooljoescott You got that right
blain147 4 months ago
Funny how BW become reasonable once they get old and fat and have babies crying in the background. I promise you, that's not what BM want.
producer4real 4 months ago
ALL BLACK WOMEN JUST WANT A FINE BLACK MAN LIKE ME... NEXT QUESTION!
theright1allthetime 4 months ago
Now American black women want a good man after they been ran through by thugs? SMDH.
BlackDoom77 4 months ago
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BlackDoom77 4 months ago
they want big dick and money and if it was rich white boy with big dick then this will be just perfect for black bitches. that's why they are single with ugly white looking kids for white race, can't marry or just white man's porno whores. this is one reason why we don't want and don't love them!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
fuck u bitches for wearing weaves............
tahmid4777 5 months ago
BW want men who are somewhat balanced in strength and sensitivity (to her), decision-making, SENSE of HUMOR , Laid-Back, Down-to-Earth, MANGINA FREE or REDUCED at least, hard-working, financially secure (if possible), just there for her & can have leveled conversation & IN CHRIST! Another thing is if both parties can be open to talk about their problems and life's problems & be open-minded about it, REAL TALK!!! BW, STFU about there ain't no good men & talk to some!! FUCK!!!
WizzoPro9476 5 months ago
@WizzoPro9476 Yeah, but if he is Laid Back, a few months down the road you might be saying he is not ambitious enough. Some might say they want a man who takes charge but then complain later, the guy is too controlling or self-centered. Pssst, most men don't like to TALK, they just do it because they have too. Women will talk about friends and relatives you've never met but you half to pretend to be interested. Your asking a lot in your list.
stingray650 2 weeks ago
They're ugly. Who would want them? Everyone knows black women are the least attractive.
ukmediaisjewish 6 months ago
@ukmediaisjewish bequiet
trini4eve9 5 months ago
@ukmediaisjewish i agree with you on that one black women are the least attractive of other races both whites and other ethnicity are the most beautiful
tony1985ize 4 months ago
@ukmediaisjewish Their not that bad looking.
stingray650 2 weeks ago
they look like gorillas but yor mom is one hahaha
Arnold34251 6 months ago
Who cares what black women want? They all look like gorillaz.
Apocalypse4mankind 6 months ago
These women are old looking and are probably the types who dissed good men when they all were young. Now theos good brothas are gone and moved on.
mreconomics1000 6 months ago
@mreconomics1000 Yep, you are right.
blackbolt75 6 months ago
@mreconomics1000 Exactly right. Brothas moved on and they are jealous lol.
CommanderB9488 5 months ago
Let's just say black women are unrealistic and want 100 things in a man while a white woman wants 1 thing.
MegaSlaze 6 months ago
@nigger you no you want a big dick!
az097637 6 months ago
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All these women are WAY past thier prime and honestly not women black men want physically anymore. Unfortunately, they didn't have the knowledge or COMMON SENSE to look for these things when they were young and ATTRACTIVE. Now all the guys that they ignored when they were sexy are the ones they crave.
JayLouisJohnsonII 6 months ago
all of these are but ugly and fat
mark12345823 6 months ago
None of these women are "dating age." They all look like they have grandchildren.
bhillboy37 6 months ago
DYNSIGHT.You want a big dick,a nice car,money,house and we dont care how he got the money.These hunkess raped robbed and trick to get what they want but if a black sell a little drugs then hes bad.We get lock up and these sqares cant still knock our women while were gone.Now you took your section 8 to the suburbs and these sqares let the hunkess make pornos, strippers,hookers out of them.
az097637 7 months ago
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Pariah2001 7 months ago
U women r a great, great,great credit 2 our race, sisters like u all r becoming extremely rare n this day n age.
milesdevlon 7 months ago
What they want seems reasonable from what one can tell from this short clip. One thing I've noticed is that theyre all abit older in age, not in the ideal target age group men seek out.
Sadly I can be pretty sure without even knowing them that theyve each probably passed up numerous men having the intrinsic qualities they currently want while they were in their prime yrs; but hey that can be said of all women not just black women. So theyre really no different.
SLICENSLASH 7 months ago
gentle man thats it,all white are gentle, black people are not gentle they are more like satan ,the lucifer who take what did long belong to him
seemecool12 8 months ago
Sounds like they want trained puppies. Be this way, be similar to me, be like what i want, what I want, and what I want. these Black women are MISERABLE! they have all had a man with those same attributes and the shyt didn't work. Bottom Line, Black women seem to control the Black Man, after getting their Pass from the white man 9Education, Job, Credit, Home, Title/Status) but is came with no Power. That Power Hungry Black Woman must dominate, and the next best thing is, The Black Man!
AsiaticDisciple 8 months ago
@BlackWomenAreNoGood I'll take it by your name that you a "predisposition" & thus are blind to neutrality and any good that may come from BW as well. If you're personal preference isn't black women keep this in mind. The handful of black women you encounter in one demographic however big or small is not indicative of all black women because of varying cultures & if attitude is your problem believe me man, that isn't a bi-product of race it's one of an unkempt upbringing.
FitnessGuru1988 8 months ago
You know what Women want in a Man?? The answer is,THEY DON'T KNOW!!!!!!
Airsoftcleaner 8 months ago
All that talk and there are still no clear answers. A lot of "kinda's" and sort of's. Black women want everything (all women for that matter), but few have any real substance to give back.
donnis618 8 months ago
stop looking for a man for happiness look to jesus Now thats true happiness
MrCoby303 8 months ago
Very good video.
These women are mature and put a positive spin on things.
Their requirments are reasonable and practical.
Great stuff.
nichirenx 8 months ago
@nichirenx Practical yes but reasonable? ehh not so sure. For me to definitively say their requirement sheet is reasonable I would have to see their personalities, financial situation, and history i.e children further. From the looks of the video many of these women are already 35+ and realistically speaking are years late to the punch on trying to find the one....
FitnessGuru1988 8 months ago
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nichirenx 7 months ago
@FitnessGuru1988 Most of them seem to be asking for standard personality traits.
At least in this video. Sense of humor, goals, connection, enjoys going out, etc.
Even at their ages it does seem reasonable.
Now if they were asking for a young adonis , making, seven figures, with the comedic power of Bill Maher, to sweep them off their feet that may be a bit unreasonable. Makes one wonder, is it better for certain types of people to be lonely and wanting or with someone and dissatisfied.?
nichirenx 7 months ago
@nichirenx The word reasonable is subjective and I already said I didn't definitively say that their terms weren't. Reasonable is comparative. While a homeless decrepit woman wanting a ambitious well cultured financially secure man is guidelines for a schizophrenia medication, Beyonce having those same requirements becomes reasonable. I would further have to see their habits & mannerisms when they aren't primped up for the camera and the world.
FitnessGuru1988 7 months ago
@FitnessGuru1988 What you are saying is that you are withholding positive view of their standards until you have actually met them? So it is unreasonable for anyone to , without having been observed enough, ask for pretty basic positive values in someone.
I respectfully disagree with your premise because it seems biased towards the negative.
nichirenx 7 months ago
@nichirenx Wanting "basic positive values" requires you to reciprocate those values as well. Basing whether these women are anything based off 5 sec shuffling clips would be presumptuous of me. My reservations don't implement me. they are as they are, reservations. My lack of praise doesn't doesn't equate to condemnation. So it isn't the bad things I say but the lack of good things that makes me biased? - Guru
FitnessGuru1988 7 months ago
@gromtkn You have very healthy outlook in relationship and also know right timing to invest into relationship. Find a lady you can talk to easily, feel at home (one friend - she got married because her hudsband felt like wearing slippers.No long list) If you can get to know more people in genral, it helps a lot finding a mate. You made me laugh so much and I am saving your quotation; a pulse, weigh less than me, less than 30 sec video (LoL) - It's a CLASSIC!! Good Luck on everything you do!!.
classicpiano123 8 months ago
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classicpiano123 8 months ago
@gromtkn so true.....All these women are clueless. Before making what you want in men, look at yourselves:
These women are obese with crying babies on background. Too funny.
classicpiano123 8 months ago
THe only lady that made any sense was the ond one 0:32
GanjaOnDeck 8 months ago
You don't have a clue!!!! Hate to say it but there is a reason the black man is moving ON!!!!
MrRick5690 9 months ago
Typcal black women in America, all the women being interviewed are fat, self centered single or divorced mothers. They always crying about what they want in a man but never come close to wondering is their body what a man wants. I guest they figure as long as they have a good job and can cook that they don`t need to look good for a man they want to love and sex only them.
LACraig621 9 months ago
Family was born in the heart of God; it was not an institution that MAN created. This is why the world and its psychologists and therapists will never fix and strengthen a family the way GOD intended.
jesus7es7dios7 9 months ago
lies lies lies they dnt know what they want thats y less black women are married in there 30s
MrKito101 9 months ago
These are the same things white women look for in a man. I wonder why women go for thugs or the wild guys so much if they really want a good man. Women don't make sense. - Of course men don't make sense either but we at least are somewhat predictable. I am so tired of the games that get played. - It would be nice to find a woman that would appreciat a man with some flaws, we are expected to deal with their flaws without complaints or they go off on a rant about all our flaws. Same ole, same ole.
specialks1953 9 months ago
I'll tell ya what black women want ...a white guy with a job. :P
sweetbilly 9 months ago
You should have taken a chance with me, I didn't have what you were looking for long ago but look at me now! However, there was this women, to this day I don't understand why she dated me with that old beat-up truck..but she did. Everyday of her life she wakes up kiss me & the kids w/ a smile & physical/spiritual happiness. Furthermore, to those which it matters, last time I checked in these terrible financial times our savings ends w/ six zeros. LOVE YOU DE
MrRick5690 10 months ago
who else is sick of masculine black chicks? lol black woman brought this on themselves some aren't even close to being dateable lol
DELTABOY04 10 months ago
It's way to late for them now lol.
EnvelopedInDarkness 10 months ago
YES YOU HEAR BABIES, BECAUSE WOMEN HAVE SON AND DAUGHTERS. THEY HAVE THEM BECAUSE A MAN WAS THERE TO HELP THEM MAKE THEM.
THEY ARE WITH THIS WOMEN, OTHERS RAN, IRRESPONSIBLE LITTLE BOYS, OR THEY LEFT THEIR KIDS TO FOLLOW A NEW WOMAN. SELFISHNESS IS SOMETHING WE WOMEN DONT WANT IN A MAN. GET IT?
WHOSJASPER 11 months ago
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am a black man with a daughter, and im raising her too be respectful to everyone...i think it is the foundation of any relationship...i don't want her to b a stand offish bw, but a bw who respects herself, has dignity, grace and pride...and hopefully she will find a bm who identifies these traits and loves and respects her for them...hotep
wakeen01 11 months ago
am a black man with a daughter, and im raising her too be respectful to everyone...i think it is the foundation of any relationship...i don't want her to b a stand offish bw, but a bw who respects herself, has dignity, grace and pride...and hopefully she will find a bm who identifies these traits and loves and respects her for them...hotep
wakeen01 11 months ago
black women don't know what they want because when they get it they don't want it. black women want to lead when they are not leaders. this is why they fell in marraige 75% of the time.
ballsdanglin 11 months ago
@ballsdanglin youre right - they say they want a good man and when they get one treat them like shit ; they get a lazy good for nothing with a crimal record that calls them names and kicks their asses they call them "men" , and wonder why good black men mostly marry white women ?
allenwood100 11 months ago
Someone sent me a response asking me if all blk women need is security - what about love. My response to that is "love is an action, not an emotion". If a man loves you he will not hesitate to provide for a woman: provide security (protection), money and decent shelter for his family. Making sure the lights are on is love. Making sure the children have a decent school is love. Making sure their community is safe is love. Making sure their family is fed is love.
What about that? Too much?
clmason33172 11 months ago
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@clmason33172 "If a man loves you he will not hesitate to provide for a woman: " And I suppose because you're a women, and you love your man, you'll provide the cooking and the cleaning? I agree that love is action, actions speak louder than words, but in this day and age its time we realised we are all independent beings. All of us must be capable of supporting our selves and our offspring on our own,because life isn't fair and we can loose our partners, to accidents and death.
kendrawhisp 11 months ago
@kendrawhisp We're not married or living together yet, but I do provide some the cooking and some of the cleaning for him. I don't have a problem with that. Nor does he have a problem with picking up the damn mop or doing dishes. Afterall, we will be in a duel-income household. If I didn't have to work, I'd do it all, without having a problem with it.
Shit happens, I understand, but 70% of blk children are fatherless...Come on!
clmason33172 11 months ago
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@clmason33172 "70% of blk children are fatherless..." No one is saying this isn't a problem, and i wouldn't blame blk women, or men. Infact I have nothing to say on the matter because I don't have the first clue about why this is happening.
kendrawhisp 11 months ago
@kendrawhisp It's happening because our men are shit.
clmason33172 11 months ago
@kendrawhisp I must also say that both me and my BOYfriend are Muslims and being in a relationship is different than being Christian or another religion. In Islam, women have lots of freedoms in marriages, like being able to keep 100% of their income. It is the man who is the provider and and this is their right to be the decision-maker. A woman's income is to be given to the family as charity and for luxuries.
I think the difference in mindset stems from religion.
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 And when we do lose our children's fathers, is it really a good idea to let another man in the house, because you can't look after yourself and your kids and you need a man.
kendrawhisp 11 months ago
@kendrawhisp Yes, having a step-father in the home is really better than raising them alone. Just because you CAN do something, doesn't mean you should.
Most blk women, or women period, don't need NEED a man, they want one. Meaning when they get someone, he should actually DO something for them they can already do for themselves, but should have the stones to take the burden off. People who burden you with shit, are not worth the effort to keep them around.
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 "Yes, having a step-father in the home is really better than raising them alone" Finding man good enough for a women is hard enough, surely, after our first discussion YOU KNOW THAT. Find in a man good enough for OUR babies, now THAT is near impossible.
kendrawhisp 11 months ago
@kendrawhisp Um, no it's not. Having a healthy relationship, even a homosexual one, is better than raising a child alone.
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 "People who burden you with shit, are not worth the effort to keep them around." Life is hard, things happen, and sometimes, people end up being useless, you can't just throw them away.
kendrawhisp 11 months ago
@kendrawhisp Yes you can. Dating someone isn't a binding contract. Marrying someone has its difficulties, but those relationships can be ended, as well. Happens everyday.
clmason33172 11 months ago
they want men that wont do shit for them when they get them pregnant lol stupid black bitches
mottopower4250 1 year ago
@mottopower4250 That's funny, as I didn't hear one of them say that.
clmason33172 11 months ago
These women never stated they wanted a thug, YET you people seem to think they secretly want one and just want money? WTF is wrong with you idiot ass human beings? THINK, USE YOUR BRAINS!!!
subway108 1 year ago
@subway108 ^5
clmason33172 11 months ago
I bet all of those women are over 30, have kids, and weren't looking for any of the shit they claim they now want in a man.
illxtra 1 year ago
@illxtra ???
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 What I meant to say was: I bet all those woman are over 30, have kids, and weren't looking for any of the shit they claim they now want in a man ........ when they were younger.
illxtra 11 months ago
@illxtra Maybe they were, maybe they weren't, but they are now...and that's the point.
When you are younger, you do have a tendency to look for more fleeting things than when you get to be 40. So what? The problem is men don't. They still want to be with a 20 year old, looking stupid with her..in the club. That's a real problem that needs to be addressed in our community.
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 No no no that's not the point!!! Not everybody looks for more fleeting things the WHOLE TIME they are younger. You should start looking for stability long before you reach 30. There are good young black men out there. Black women keep chasing after the same old good for nothing men who they think are gonna change into what they want, but they never do.
And people wonder why black women always stay "waiting to exhale".
illxtra 11 months ago
@MrVeesworld I don't know where your comments went, but let me sum up my point for you:
Provider = Man
Not Provider = (well) Bitch
I'm no lesbian and neither is no woman fighting for the Blk family, but Blk men, like you, have failed our community by being sociopaths and psychopaths. Get professional help before it's too late for the black community.
clmason33172 1 year ago
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I want a female without kids. A chick who is not grinding on every man in the club. A chick who will let a man be a man and let him lead. A woman who don't have an attitude. A woman who does not act like she is hard and cursing all the time. A bunch of tats? That crap is not sexy... Get back! How about a woman who works out and takes care of her body? A woman who shows less and leaves more to the imagination. A Feminine Female!
FrigidWhisper 1 year ago
@FrigidWhisper So you want someone who's from the third world? I know several women who wear burquas and are single. They were raised not to expect anything from life and will work dutifully for their man. They don't mind being beaten, either.
clmason33172 11 months ago
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@clmason33172 "I know several women who wear burquas and are single. They were raised not to expect anything from life and will work dutifully for their man" They do house work dutifully for their man because the man provides for them. You see, in a society where men provide for women, it makes women their property. You advocate this set up by choice, but men are controlling nutters, mostly, allow a man to be a provider and watch them forget your humanity.
kendrawhisp 11 months ago
@kendrawhisp No actually, they work dutifully for God, to whom they pray and bow down to; not their husbands. Men do not work for their wives nor for themselves, but to abide by God. At least that's what's on paper.
In Islam, no one belongs to another; Muslims are only slaves to God. Islam allows women to be full sovereigns over their money and themselves. This is not applied universally and some people call themselves Muslims who truly aren't abiding by God's laws.
Feh, it's a big World.
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 "they work dutifully for God" You think rules like doing the house work while the man goes out to work is a rule to ensure God get's something for it? DOn't be silly. It's a system of family life, to enhance human existence. It's not just supposed to be, God says jump so jump. There is serious problem with how people think among Muslims, I think most Muslims don't have a fucking clue what the message is anyway.
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FrigidWhisper 1 year ago
Black women want a man with money to marry them, so they can get child support and alimony. When they say "Sence of Humor" they mean a wimp they can embarrass in front of their friends and in public. When they say "Sence of Humor" you can't make fun of them (that's not funny to them, they don't like that), but they can make fun of the guy. Black women also want a simp who will not hold them accountable for their actions. Black women HATE men who hold them accountable for their actions.
Tsugua21 1 year ago
@Tsugua21 Maybe We want someone who knows "sence" isn't a word. Is that REALLY too much to ask?
clmason33172 1 year ago
@clmason33172 sense like common sense
Tsugua21 1 year ago
@Tsugua21 ...or maybe we want a man who comes correct the first time???
clmason33172 11 months ago
@Tsugua21 "black women want a man with money to marry them."
since when did a woman of ANY race desire a poor man?
BBYoungLady 1 year ago
@BBYoungLady Don't take bits and pieces of my comments, I said "Black women want a man with money to marry them, so they can get child support and alimony".
Tsugua21 1 year ago
@Tsugua21 why not? That's the part I'm focusing on, not the other stuff you said. You generalizing a whole group of people like that isn't right. People marry for different reason. Women in general prefer men with money because they believe money is power, and that's the power to provide. More money you have the more you can provide. Why would a woman be thinking about divorce just as she gets married?
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@BBYoungLady 50% of all marriages end in divorce and 70% of divorces are filed by women (so they can get child support and/or alimony). The average marriage last about 8 years. With child support and alimony laws it makes no sense to even get a women pregnant let along get married. I don't hate women, I hate the anti marriage laws against men. Would you get married if you stand to lose everything you worked for and custody of the your kids?
Tsugua21 11 months ago
@Tsugua21 With as negative an attitude that you have, who would marry you???
clmason33172 11 months ago
@Tsugua21 They also want men with criminal records.
xXLonelyWarrior10Xx 1 year ago
@xXLonelyWarrior10Xx Well, if we want a man with a criminal record, a blk man is the way to go!
clmason33172 11 months ago
@BBYoungLady Never, but we're suppose to overlook that and provide everything for the blk man so he can feel good about himself and get what he wants without having any sense of responsibility to give to others.
clmason33172 11 months ago
As a black men, who has appeared in Smart Money magazine in May, 2009- in a full 3 page article on investing, I have earned all the things I have gained and self respect is one of them. Scholarship? Funny stuff.No Stanford University gave me some tuition money only because mom's worked there.
MrVeesworld 1 year ago
So, a BLK woman PROVIDED FOR YOU and you haven't done the same for a BLK WOMAN in return. Interesting! Just because you have money, doesn't make you desirable. Stop believing that. Your attitude sucks, and you don't have enough money to compensate that with a healthy woman of *any* fold. Good luck cuddling up to the $ on a cold Winter's night.
Lastly, most Black men do go to college on an athletic scholarship and when that fizzles, what do they do to provide for the baby-mama they now have?
clmason33172 1 year ago
What a black woman wants in a man is what every woman wants in a man,
BBYoungLady 1 year ago
@BBYoungLady Sho nuff, but these blk men don't want to hear that! smdh
clmason33172 1 year ago
@clmason33172 LOL this is all just funny to me - well i have my guy already and he's purrrfect :D
BBYoungLady 1 year ago
@BBYoungLady I don't think it's funny. My man isn't blk and I don't feel like settling for someone's baggage. I'm educated and have no children - but I guess that since I'm not a "dimepiece", or music video hooker, blk men don't want me...Oh well!
Sad to say, I was really hoping for a strong blk man like my father. They don't make men like him, anymore.
clmason33172 1 year ago
@clmason33172 Well aren't you stereotyping all black men by saying that they have baggage? Every man and woman has a different story. You can't have a few rotten apples and decide that all apples are rotten. How comes there are black women out there who are happily married to black men? If black men aren't for you then fair enough but putting them into one basket ain't good. Being educated doesn't get someone a man lol men are visual creatures, they're different to women. I'm 17 and I know that.
BBYoungLady 1 year ago
@BBYoungLady I was going to educate you until I read you were 17. Let me just leave you with this: Die young and don't have kids because then no black man is ever going to want you. Go with God because you need him.
clmason33172 1 year ago
@clmason33172 don't leave me with that rubbish. All the guys I have dealt with have been black and will most likely be black. Please don't push your negativity onto me based on your own experiences. I have had bad experiences with black guys ONLY because they were the ones I have been in relationships with. I'm sure if i was to date exclusively white men or others I'd have the same experience. LOOOL at your last comment. That's how I know you're not serious. I may be young but I ain't stupid.
BBYoungLady 1 year ago
@BBYoungLady No, actually, I am very serious if you think men being visual is the hook to keeping them. Like I said, you'll learn with time. Talk to me again when you're 25 or 30 then we can have a real deal conversation, slut.
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 Of course it's not, but it's part of it.
And how the hell can you call me a slut? that's why NO MAN would want you - I can feel the bitterness coming from your post. How immature. I doubt I'll be having a decent conversation with you whether I was 25, 35, or 45 :/
BBYoungLady 11 months ago
@BBYoungLady We all want an attractive person, so why did you bring that up!
If you have more than one boyfriend before 18, then the chances of you being a slut is high. And I don't give a shit if you don't sleep with them, it doesn't matter, you're a slut. (It's called a reputation. Learn to deal.)
I already have a man, dumbass! So, what are you talking about? He may not be black, but then again, you probably don't have a man if he is black. By 25, you'll be "bitter", too.
*hugs*
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 Based on YOUR opinion I am a "slut" for having more than 1 boyfriend before the age of 18.
LOL The fact that you're cursing and getting angry for no reason is funny. It's the internet, calm down. No need to be calling names - we're not in pre-school anymore. And if you have a man, Why are you worrying about what other men are doing? And he is black and very much a man ;)
BBYoungLady 11 months ago
@BBYoungLady No, sweetheart, it's not my opinion. Learn to live with it, Babe.
I'm not a sociopath; I'm concerned for our community. I may be taken and man knows how to hold things down, but our community at large is being threatened by the lack of balls on our so-called men. The MALES in our community want to call us "bitches" yet it's their BITCH MOMMA who brought them into this world and raised their asses...WTF?
Sweetheart, I don't think you'd know a real man if he fell on you.
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 STOP PATRONISING ME! I am not your babe, sweetheart or any other flippin' petname. I am having a serious conversation with you. You're older than me, you keep saying how young I am so why don't you behave like a grown arse woman and talk to me properly.
And I know what man is ideal for ME.
BBYoungLady 11 months ago
@BBYoungLady Sweetheart, a tantrum, really? Even at your age, you should know better!
The reason I'm not taking you seriously is that you don't know what you don't know yet and you're trying to make it seem like you do. I find this really cute cause I can look back at my life and say "wow I used to think the same things". You'll learn.
And any man dating you, isn't a real man. I don't care if he's older (25, really?). He still doesn't have to do much to impress you because you're 17...
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 You are the last one who should be talking about tantrums. At least I am not throwing my dummy out of the pram and calling you stupid names.
BBYoungLady 11 months ago
@BBYoungLady ...and at 17, you're not going to challenge any man's bullshit. And that's the reason men, of any race, don't want a 40 year old woman. They got to come correct to us. They know better.
Look up a song called "I Will Survive" by Gloria Gaynor and listen to the lyrics. Really listen...and learn. Like I said, this conversation would have been more pleasant if you were 25 or 30, but alas!
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 Yes, I do challenge a man's B.S. Of course men have tried it with me because they think I'm a clueless young girl, but when I open my mouth, they are very surprised, which is why I am actually happy in my relationship.
BBYoungLady 11 months ago
@BBYoungLady Also, I would be remiss if I failed to tell you it's "patronizing" with a "z". Don't demand respect before you're able to earn in, Sweetheart.
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 Well I'm British, so it's with an "S", Thanks.
BBYoungLady 11 months ago
@clmason33172 "And I don't give a shit if you don't sleep with them, it doesn't matter, you're a slut. (It's called a reputation. Learn to deal.)"
Wow? Seriously? When I was 17 I used to pal around with 4 boys, we were the school nerd, by your definition I am a slut. I had never thought of myself in that way before... probably because it's TOTAL horse shit. NO WAY you have a man! How many big macs have you had today? I bet they ship them in by the truck load.
kendrawhisp 11 months ago
@kendrawhisp I don't give you great credit for thinking.
You're right! I don't have a man! OMG! I have a woman who doesn't have any breasts and has a penis! Do you know the number to the people at Guinness Book of World Records? She will be ecstatic when she comes home that she will be a record holder - probably in TWO categories: the World's smallest breasts and the World's largest clitoris!
I don't eat @ McD's. I cook by trade and for my girlfriend. ;-)
clmason33172 11 months ago
@clmason33172 "I don't give you great credit for thinking". Coming from someone that clearly has trouble thinking, it's not much of an insult. You having a man would have been more likely. A women, no matter how misshapen is far too intelligent to fall for you.
kendrawhisp 11 months ago
@kendrawhisp I have no trouble thinking about the possibilities that there is more to a situation than what's partially laid out for me. I don't live in "What if" world.
I'll be sure to tell him that. He'll need a laugh after a long day's work.
clmason33172 11 months ago
Alot of you sistas see it one way and some of the brothas do the same thing too and it should be about sharing and caring.Money is a real issue and some sistas stick with that brotha whose trying to the right thing by her now if he lose his job rather by a firing or a laid off,some of you sistas will kick his out or just leave him along altogether.Some of us brothas will use game just to get the sex and after a while then some of you cats run out on her for the next peice of coochie.
mightyblack1 1 year ago
@mightyblack1 That's a good point. I want whatever my parents have. My dad lost his job last year and not once did my mom belittle him. Instead she encouraged him through every job application and interview until he got a new job
UnlimitedProdiction1 1 year ago
@UnlimitedProdiction1 I got liad off and my wife of ten years kicked me out back in May of last year and the other black women around her had a hand in it too.Alot of these sistas are outside looking in and they don't have a man either and they want to see other sistas without too.Too me alot of these sistas want control of the black man,that's right his mind body and soul along with his check.As long as they call themselves the strong black woman,watch out because she's only for her damn self.
mightyblack1 1 year ago