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  • damn yall kno his gurls killd him after this.............thats crazy

  • Oh this song brings back so many memories, I use to bump this song over and until someone got annoyed and said stop! Lol, his life was taken way too soon but he was a talented young man for sure!!!! -3 R.I.P CHRIS BENDER -3

  • this is what yhu call ah sonqq!we miss yhu Chris Bender!!!!&&dhat bxtch whoo qot chuu killed-has rotted n jail&&died!!!! REST IN PEACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Hell yeah I live in Florida but i was raised in Cleveland definitely a CLASSIC , and Trick jammed this too !

  • black women will never understand this. they are to stupid to understand

  • ???black women!!

  • @Quasia582 YES I SAID BLACK WOMEN. THEY DONT UNDERSTAND SHIT

  • Who will it b?

  • such a great talent taken away way to soon! how sad we only had a glimse of this young genius! his songs will live on forever......... timeless

  • Yes i remember this song getting played on 93.1 all the time!! My parents had this cd the real deal

  • This song is truly a CLASSIC it's the only single I know that get's mad love when ever it's brought up in conversation or heard on the radio after all these years...so sad he was killed shortly after it was recorded.

  • Ya'll are wrong... he got killed in front of his moms house in boston by a dude he had beef with... nothning to do with a female #GoogleIt

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  • this was me at one time

  • I REALLY LOVE THIS SONG HE SHOULD HAVE MADE MORE HE WAS A GOOD ARTIST!

  • throw back my cuz loves this song

  • A TRUE CLASSIC THAT NEVER GETS OLD. I LOVE THIS!

  • I love this song soooo much! He could have been a great sensation! He was taken way too soon!

  • THIS IS A CLEVELAND CLASSIC!!!!!!!!!!!!R.I.P. CHRIS BENDER

  • @mznailz69 hell yeah it iz lol

  • @21684regal Tell'em here in Cleveland back in the dayz...it came on 93.1FM WZAK all the time!!!This 1 an Pourin Like Rain...remember that 1?? On 4 Lovers Only, an Bobby Rushhhhhh....lol

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  • @mznailz69 he wasnt from cleveland but its a classic fo sho! i his music!

  • @dcoles89 I know he wasnt from Cleveland, I said it was a Cleveland Classic b'cause here n Cleveland we heard his music an played it( AN STILL PLAY IT) all the time ....CLEVELAND SHOWS CHRIS BENDER MUCH LOVE!!!!!!R.I.P.CHRIS BENDER CLEVELAND OHIO STILL LOVES YOUR MUSIC 20 YEARS LATER!!!!!!CLASSIC

  • i love this song im in the same boat damn need to choose and stop playing

  • I been looking for this song for almost 20yrs.. I still love this song because it brings back the good old days i had down in job corps!!!R.I.P Chris its such a shame you died so young due to haters but your music will continue to live on!!! Much love my dude.

  • yea this is hott 

  • Yooo i'm sure i'm Chris biggest fan!!!!!! super talented!!!!!!! we should all donate to his fam!!!!! don't worry Chris on my rise "i got you" your life time fan Platinum P the real one!!!!!!!! RIP TO A LEGEND!!!!!

  • Who will I chhosee..!

  • what song is this sample from?

  • RIP Chris so sad to see such young talent go to waste.... amazing voice...amazing song!! WHO SOULD I CHOOSE?!

  • Yo this was a great song!! I know niggas out here can still relate to this song. Rip homie!!

  • One of my all-time favorites

  • R.I.P He died really young.

  • 216

  • trick used this music for the song hold on

  • The jam

  • classic! 

  • i luv dis song i was a young wife at da time, n my stepdaughter sung this at my bedroom door singing it! but she said"my dad has a problem" LOL

  • @dgolightly2010 lol it do sound like that's what he said, but I think he said the other

  • 4:48 does he say "heifer, here's my mind"? LOL Love this song....it really takes me back in time...

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  • what i meant to say was i though troop sung this.

  • i searched hard for this it was troop lol!

  • Chris Bender was killed because him and his cousin got into it with some guys over something small, and he lost his life at 19. So sad, what a waste of talent

  • Loooove this song!!! So very sad such a big talent was taken so young!!! His music lives on though.. And this song is still the shit!

  • still bumpin it in Cleveland thanx for uploading this lady girl99,i been trying to find who sings this for years,google is amazing!!!

  • still bumpin it in Cleveland

  • R.I.P.

    

  • the girl shot him he is dead now after he made this song she shot him dead so yea dont tlk about the dead now the man messed up and had to pay for it in the way thats so sad thats why it aint gud messin with ppls emotions cuz jus like he did u will die.....SAD

  • R.I.P Brockton stand up

  • R.I.P FOR CLEVELAND

  • @mandingo1150 brockton player

  • Dang, they played this song so much in South Florida (Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, West Palm Beach), everyone thought he was from Miami, lol. Trick Daddy even used this song. Throwing my L's up for Lauderdale, lol.

  • @aseifa77 word up I remember that! i still thought he was mia all day. after i read your comment i had to wiki it! BOSTON MASS ?!?!?!? LOL

  • @aseifa77 that's so funny - I was so shocked to find out he wasn't from So Fla either - Hot 105 used to play the MESS outta this song back in the day!!! <3

  • @aseifa77.You are absolutely correct. Ft. Lauderdale native to da core. This song is still the jam in 2011.

  • i love you cris and i am so sorry that you didn't know which girl to choose and i hope that all ignorant mother.....f learn from you

  • da shit!! boy boy boyyyy!

  • I LOVE THIS JOINT ITS MY LIFE I LIVE IT

  • LUV!!!!IT!!!!!

    

  • CHRIS BENDER! Love this song..

  • its funny that this guy had two had two chicks and choose the good one. and in the later years he is about to merry her... and im that women and so lucky that he use his head and look at life the right way.. love you hun

  • speaking as a youth in Georgia, we killing it now at least those of us who know good music

  • i'm from Georgia...the deep south and we used to kill this song back in the day...it was so sad when he got murdered....i used to also love his song Pouring like Rain....

  • We had a big time rapper here in Savannah that got killed in the hood. That's why when you get to be too big you have to leave the hood behind. It's sad but some people can not handle your success....

  • doesnt matter what happen to him.thats him n his family business.whatever the situation may hav bn.....another artist gone with plenty pontential to become someone great in the music industry

  • Notice how this has no dislikes cuz this was good music, 90's baby

  • Chris was a legend in BROCKTON Massachusetts, where he was from and KILLED in the projects!! Not Maryland, get your facts straight. He was killed over jealousy.

  • @tha508watcha I heard one of the chis did it..but you know how rumors fly..f'd up..Great musik tho..R.U.J.C...(Rest Until Jesus Comes)

  • CN U SAY IM GOIN THRU DIS AS WE SPEAK AN I DNT KNO WHICH GRL TO CHOOSE OMG AN BOTH WANA MARRY ME OMGGGGG

  • MAN THIS WAS MY SHIT......RIP CHRIS BENDER.....

  • I will forever have u in my dreams and i love all his songs and that was some wrong azz sh-- that happen to him i dont think he deserved that doe damm get over it. R.I.P chris

  • Anybody know where I can get this album? This used to be my song!!!

  • i'm so surprised yet relieved that no one has sped this up and turned it into a rap song

  • @JaielleAmara trick daddy from miami couple years ago with the same tune not sped up already did it

  • My all time fav song whn dealing wit women

  • Absolutely LOVED this song...We wore this song out in Cleveland '92...still a cut!

  • People need to get they're facts straight.....he was murdered in 1991....not by one of the girls in the song. He was shot and killed sitting outside in his car in Maryland. Look it up in Wikipedia.

  • @DJMIKED36 see people b makin shit up cuz i heard he killed his self becuz this song was a real situation

  • @smoovgotgo25 no he actually got killed by one of the boards that hes talkn bt in this song

  • um so feelin dis shit. dis all i play in my car

  • I heard this song every moring in the early 90's. I love the whole cd!!! My brother would play this and tell me to only be with one woman at a time and this guy getting killed was the reason why. 1 and done. That is the way to live.

  • OMG!!! man I love this wgole album!!!! my pops used 2 be like turn dat down girl!!! love it CLASSIC

  • Check the single from the soon to be out Cd by us " Y 7 HILL " Go on and love your lady " , written by Eliot Gould & Azell, performed by Gregory Taylor, featuring " Muffy " This track was never released by the late ( Chris Bender ).

  • i love him and his music sooooooo much RIP

  • This is for the people that think that chris bender was killed by one of the girls in the song. In fact he was murdered sitiing outside his mothers house. One of the men not to long ago was released from prison. the other guy got life. So please do you research. he was not killed by one the the young ladies he was singing about in this song FYI for anyone who thought other wise

  • its always be the greatest songs that have the artist who either died young or never come out with another songs. Their live are cut short too soon!

  • R.IP CHRIS BENDER

  • love this song,i wish he was still he would of been great

  • my jam

  • R.i.P. CHRiS BENDER!!!:

    ryt now, im feeling this somthin majorlyk!!!: 2 men...luv or money... smh bcuz theyv both lied, so i'll probally jus do ME!!!:

    frm NEOHiO to SEGEORGiA...ur missed chris...

  • love dis song r.i.p chris

  • One of the girls actually killed him...great talent, I love his entire Tape. I can only imagine if he would have still been around

  • who in the fuck will kill this sexy maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan but he shouldnt have been confused messed the fuc up di is my bros and mine shiiit

  • who in the fuck will kill this sexy maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan but he shouldnt have been confused

  • wen i first heard this song a month ago i went crazy over it..

    i couldn't stop thinkin bout it..

    and yesterday wen i found out how cute he was i couldn't do nun but cry and think of how young he was wen he died..

    this song is forever green..

    (Rest In Peace Chris Bender)

  • iLoveee Dhiss Sonqq <3...!

  • Fine but NEVER forgotten!!!

  • I SOOOOOOOOOOO LOVVVVVVVVVVE THIS SONG!

  • I SO LOVE DIS SONG ITS SAD HOW PPLZ SAY HE GOT KILLED BY ONE OF DA GIRLZ BROTHER'S 4RM MAKE IN DIS SONG SMH DOE WEN YOU LOVE SOME ONE IN YOU CAN NOT CHOOSE DA BEST THING 2 DO IS LET DEM BOTH GO NO MATTER HOW MUCH IT HURTS LIFE GOES ON IN YOU MEET BETTER PPLZ DEN DA ONE'S YOU ALREADY KNEW

  • He got killed over this song! It is a great song though

  • This song is the mutha fkin shit i can hear this shit over and over smokin a blunt, drinkin sum hen or raynal just vibin

  • @don305choppa i kno thats right papi

  • His life was 19 years and 93days in total yet here we are 19years 117days and counting after his death still enjoying his music. His music outlived him in total time on God's earth and still sounds fresh to this day. May God give him paradise. This brother truly had a wonderful voice.

  • ALL WHO STATED THAT HE WAS KILLED DUE TO CHEATED IS TRUE BUT NITHER GIRL PULL THE TRIGGER SOMEONE WAS HIRED TO DO IT BY ONE OF THEM SHE OF COURSE DID IT OUT OF JEALOUSY

  • NO HIS GRUL DID KILL HIM AND HE WAS CHEATING GET THE FACTS RIGHT HE WASNT TALKING BOUT HIS MOTHER 1 HE LOVE THEN THEY JUMP OFF DOE

  • one of best best in the 21 first century

  • - lovee this songg <333

  • - iilovee thiss songg <3

  • true scenario...very real

  • I know alot of people can relate to this song. Me being one of them LOL besides sometimes it be that way.

  • this is my song 

  • this is one of my fav song

  • to bad he was tlkn about his gf and his mom and his gf thot he was cheating!!!

  • .On November 3, 1991, at 2:17 A.M.,[4] Bender was shot and killed in Brockton [1] [5] while sitting in his blue Mercedes Benz outside of the Crescent Court housing project where his mother lived.[6][3] Eroy Kindell was convicted of second degree murder and has been recently released from prison. His accomplice Stephen "Sticks" Fernandes was convicted of first degree murder and sentenced to life without parole.

  • i was involved with a married man when this song came out!!!!! I was pregnant!!! go figure! i had my baby, she is 19!!!!!!!

  • @mindi970 what happened to the guy is he in ur kids life

  • omg i looooovvveeee dis song always have

  • 1 OF Y FAVORITES ! I USE TO LISTEN TO THIS EVERY NITE ! R.I.P CHRIS BENDER MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE.. DIED AT A VERY YOUNG AGE 19.

  • Before he was able to record a second album, Chris Bender was shot at 2:20AM on November 3, 1991 and was killed in Brocton, Massachusetts. Sitting in his Mercedes Benz in front of the apartment where his mother lived, Bender was shot more than

  • Love this song!

  • actually we're both wrong he was shot by 3 men from his neighborhood out of jealousy and rage

  • He was killed in a car crash! How sad

  • @slimtye1 no he was killed for cheating this song is based on it

  • damn!!! i'm such a jerk.. what will I do? :(

  • i fell da same way he felt on this song dam

  • free devere !!k'weezy here !

    coit2nell

    cleveland ,ohio

  • @pumagirl444 Ahaa Betta Sayy That ! Nell Rd !

  • Man....this song was a hit. I just hate that he past before his time. No doubt, he would have been a young man hitting up the charts like crazy!

  • Awww this is so sad... I love this song... RIP he was so cute.... we must always remember to chose life and be thankful for it no matter how hard it may seem, he was just a baby when he was shot dead!xx

  • iLove It!

  • i luv this song

  • i luv this song my favorite song of all time

  • DANG CUZ WAS COOL AND HE WAS GOING THRU, AND 3EAST AT COUNTY THEY SAID HE TOOK HIS OWN, BUT THEY NEVER RULED OUT FOUL PLAY. MY BOY WAS REAL I HAD A MIX TAPE....WOW SADLY MISSED ALONG WITH LENNY BIAS OF THE BOSTON CELTICS

  • from cleveland..used to LOVE this song! and it's such a shame that he died so young and right when he would've blown up...i don't run into too many people outside of cleveland or PA, that know of him..sad

  • @princesskagome23 lol seem mos of us commentin on this from cleveland.

  • @princesskagome23 I DO AND I LOVE HIM AND IM FRO THA AK

  • this song real talk i feel the same way but fuck em get money.....

  • back in the days when good music ruled the radio......

  • Great song

  • OHHHH I LOVE DIZZ SONG I BEEN LOOKIN FOR DIZZ 4 DA LONGEST

  • nice song!

  • my god i been searchin for this for ages but i couldnt remember the title or surname just found it by chance love this joint !!!!!!!

  • Shit im only 14 and im in this fucking situation :(.. But i love this song

  • great song..........rest in peace

  • i love this song

  • some jealous niggaz killed him

  • Till this day nobody sounds like him he had his own style which is very rare nowadays

  • both parties makes up my world

    my minds in confusion

    wondering which girl

    

  • -Damn Who Would I Choose??????

  • Respond to this video...  rip bruh

  • so many job corp memories...missen my girls tonya, scent, jamilla,baby boy...damn turner albany ga....dem was da days wish i new were they were now

  • yo at my niggas growin up in cleveland bumpin dis big ups i did too real shit e.c st clair da view parkwood n a lotta of other hoods too many to name r.i.p cb

  • @jay355353 hey where u from im from st.clair

  • this my shit. ladies get at ya boy hec

  • this my shit ive heard this song since i was a jet grow'n up in the pj's (frazier home savannah georgia) & i still love this song ''who will i choose'' lol (insider) this song means alot so listen to the words it goes hard rip cb & all the fhp fallen soulja's gone but not forgotten

  • im only 17 and i been hearing this song all my life rip CB! true story real talk one of these girls he talkin bout killed him! crazy shit

  • @TheToomuchmoney Nah, he wasn't killed by a girl over this song. That's just been a rumor for the longest. He actually got killed over an altercation he and his cousin had with some other people, 2 weeks prior to his death.

  • @TheToomuchmoney na he got killed by a dude

  • I JUST HEARD THIS JAM TODAY AND IT BROUGHT BACK SO MANY MEMORIES. ITS SAD THAT A YOUNG DUDE JUST STARTING OUT LOST HIS LIFE OVER JEALOUSY!! R.I.P.

  • I love this song. I haven't heard it in a while though. I told a friend of mine that his life is like this song. LOL! I remember when this song first came out and he got killed people were saying the song was a true story and it was one of the girls from the song that killed him. Another story I heard was that he killed himself over the girls... People have a vivid imagination I tell you that. LOL!

  • @ALuvLikeNoOther ..... I WAS / AM A FRIEND / FAN..... HE JUST WALKED OUT THE DOOR AT THE WRONG TIME!!! AND GOT HIT..... THIS SONG WAS A LETTER O HE WROTE TO A GIRLFRIEND...

  • @ALuvLikeNoOther his gf killed him cause she thot he was cheating but he was tlkn about his mom and his gf

  • im tryna remake this song i need the instrumental if anyone has it email me at zoworlds@aol.com

  • the industry would of been crazy if cb was still here the otha cb,usher,all of em could of hung it up r.i.p. chris bender

  • I used to love this album....Chris Bender was about to blow up.....another senseless murder because of jealousy...RIP

  • Classic Track!! RiP CB+

  • dis shit ridin its gne always be a hit..

  • man i love this song when this came out i new it was my song i was like in 8th grade now im 30 and still on it R.I.P baby you are missed

  • man this is my song ,haven't heard it since 8th grade good times in Elyria,OH R.I.P baby

  • My song, but why would she kill him. Wayyy to jealous. Like really, why?? it's a good song though.

  • Was looking for this song for yearrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrssssssss­sssssss thank you so much, have not heard this from I was in high school.

  • my jam R.I.P

  • i was 5 when this came out but i remember the beat and remember growing up my brother playing it to death...this is a classic

  • RIP to my cousin Chris Bender. WE HOLDIN IT DOWN FOR YOU, HE WAS READY TO PUT BOSTON ON THE MAP. JEALOUSY.. SMFH.

  • Christopher Bender was shot at 2:20 a.m. as he sat behind the wheel of his Mercedes Benz in front of the Crescent Court apartments where he grew up and where his mother still lives. A family member said Bender was hit by seven bullets, but police would only say he was struck by more. Eroy Kindell was convicted of second degree murder and has been recently released from prison. His accomplice Stephen "Sticks" Fernandes was convicted of first degree murder and sentenced to life without parole

  • classic condolences to the man. Shorty shouldn't have caused this man to perish. he the truth.

  • WOW Powerful Lyrics To Describe A Love Triangle

  • DAMN ITS FUCKED UP WHEN U LOVE TWO WOMAN