Bottled up sheds light on the important issue that many face in these changing times: depression. It shows how one can get caught up in the daily frustrations of life, and instead of dealing with the issues at hand, bottle them up. Then shows how through a shift of perception, a shift in circumstances occur.
This is not the life that God wants for us guys; I've been there and there are so many reasons for teen depression. Rather it it's being misunderstood, or bullied, or substance abuse, or feeling alone no matter what situation you may be in, or whatever your case, there is hope for you. Once I turned everything over to God and trusted in Jesus and His promises to us, and with time, small changes turned into bigger ones and after a while, my life really began to turn around. There is hope in Jesus
I pulled a trigger to my head and it would not go off once and I am 13 it was when I was 12 then I tried to strangle put a knife to my chest and sharper a sword and cut but now I'm fine and I fought it with the help of my friends I am doing better god stopped all of it now nothing can stop me
@A0v0v0y I know exactly what your talking my "best" friend and I were talking and I told her i was getting a little depressed more often and what not, and she just flips out, telling me i'm a bad influence and that she doesn't associate herself with people like me because depression is "fucking stupid", pissed me the hell off,
Yeah... Well, one of my classmates had been really depressed for months, and at some point she ended up alone because her friends assumed she was just posing for attention....
There really should be more education on this subject, not only in special programs but also at school. To raise awareness of the problem.
really anyone here whos depressed, dont use the crutches(drugs alchohol and nicotine). it doesnt help. youll find the light, fight it, get your ass up and go run, do anything, and talk to someone. it helps.
This is a well researched piece of video, I like the point you make about drugs and alcohol being a relief for very real pain. the pain is real and so is the relief from the drugs. Thankyou for making this video, The kind hearted sentiment and sensitivity you have for the subject is not lost on me.
There is a CURE for deep Depression, Despair, and Hopelessness. I was in the Chains of Hopelessness for years and couldn't find anyway out. I used my Addictions to cover up the pains I was feeling. But now I am finally Free and have so much Hope, Joy, Happiness, Peace, and Love that I have ever experienced. There are 100s of people that I know personally who have experienced the same things! Click on my name to see these Powerful Stories of Hope and Freedom. You can have the same also!
hey guys I have just started a teenage depression weblog where you do not need to feel alone anymore ! the sites just got started so help get it going !
i dont know if im depressed. lately it just been like one day ill be happy and fine and then the next day ill be really down and just not feel all that great. maybe im manic or bipolar or something but i dont know
Why oh why do these teens kill them selves? The answer to the question is obvious but not for the dim minded. Why do you go to school? Why are you working? What is your life for? You say money I should slap your eyeballs to the back of your head. They get this way because they have been taught that what they are doing is for money. We are not here for money, we are hear to learn, explore, grow, invent, love, live. Teach them to live, the money is just a side thing. Greed is the death of humanity
@mythril4 Or maybe its because we dont know how to handle things like death, and we use drugs drink alcohol or hurt ourselves just because we know that is a way out but I dont know im 20 years old and ive been feeling this way since nov 2005 and theres no tellin how many times ive tried to kill my self or just drink the pain away to where maybe one ill drink enough and i wont have to deal with this crap any more i hate the way i feel and im tired of the pain in my chest that its causing.
Well...it's never too late to learn. You want to know then let me teach ya. Drugs and alcohol, well those seem like a way out when in fact, they are the key to the door to get in, they R.S.V.P a spot in misery just for you. Life is a bitch, yeah we've heard this zillions of times. But here is the fact, that statement is a lie, life in fact is not a bitch, too many are simply just mislead to think it is. If you hate the way you feel, then, why are you still walking that path?
I think there are a few major issues why people such as your self make your self believe your trying to escape something. First, from day one being taught that if you don't make a huge income you are worthless, that is BS! Second, lack of values in your parents thus yourself, true values within your self are the real strength in life, few even know what they are anymore. Laziness, yes too many of become to lazy to teach each other all the wonders in life.
Death, what is it really? Did you actually loose someone? No you did not, just postponed the visit. Death will happen to you an I (I know "duh") at any random time if it's own choosing. The reason you feel so torn inside is not that you were not taught how to handle death, you were just mislead on how to. I lost 8 close family members now, I am 27, I knew all of them very well, I am not depressed in the least, I can tell you how I do this if you wish..
@mythril4 then lets do something about it instead of bitch because teens are increasingly becoming depressed, i am one of them due to my two friends that have committed suicide, my dead beat dad who decides to take me out to dinner on my 18th bday just to yell and throw threats out(i called the cops) my jobless mother, who will never understand what i have been through so she doesn't know how to help even tho i
@mythril4 try and love people around me it doesn't feel full, i feel empty and powerless.... i've seen counselor after counselor, exercised, made goals (achieved some but felt no accomplishment)
Well you've not me and I do wish you could, at first I seem cold and hard as if to have a bad attitude. Counselors have set them selves to a certain level of guidelines and tend not to believe there is more to each person than what they have learned.
Those goals you tried to achieve were not your goals, it's why they feel empty. I do love to help people, but what I don't do is embellish the truth to make people feel better. The truth is the fact that can't be denied
People often get upset with me at first for this, I am now out to cover up a problem with pretty flowers, I am out to help people come to terms with who they are and learn to use their own skills to better their own lives.
Now, I am not a counselor, I have a genuine love for people regardless of what they think of them selves. You have not found a fulfilling goal because you need to understand your self better first to find that one goal to set.
Weakness, sadness and mistakes are required to understand happiness and strength, those help you understand the true value of mankind. I had to raise my self since age 9, I watched people get shot in the head and even got hit by the spatter at age 10. I was not traumatized by this, instead it helped me understand how valuable you, I and others really are and what we are all really about. So first you need to discover who you are, once established the rest becomes easier.
The longer you wait to ask for help the harder it gets. When I had to ask for help it was after I had attempted suicide and needed to go to the hospital. I had realized how stupid the choice I made was and after trying to fix it myself I finally came to the conclusion that I can't do it alone.
I found out that I have clinical depression, generalized anxiety disorder, and social phobia. A year later I'm doing much better but i know i'll always have to be careful.
Lord please cover them in your precious blood! You have all power to over come the enemy! GEt back satan!! Your kingdom is coming down in Jesus name!!!
i am not sure if i am depressed or not. every night i come home from 2 to 4 hours of dancing, and i now it sounds stupid, but i get really stressed out. to make things worse, i usually do my homework on the bus or in homeroom since i cant seem to do it before then. and people at school always ask why im so quite because i never talk and i just say that theres nothing to say, but i know thats not the answer...but i just dont know what the answer is either.
@sonnyjoone17 You might have Social Anxiety Disorder, or something, Research Social anciety and depression, But don't keep it in, tell someone close to you!!!
First don´t write about on my channel comments. I want to be more optimistic and positive but I get the suicide thoughts everyday. I´m not gonna take my life because I have siblings and cousins that I respect. I have had suicide thoughts on and off for more than 5 years but now had them on and off every day for a months. I regret many things I have done the last ten years. Like I have made bad decisions but I don´t think I have so big reasons to have suicide thoughts but I get the daily.
@83Mysterio Get help, even though it seems you can handle it, there might be a time where you get really low, then the suicidal thoughts might creep up, do something about it before it gets too far. Livewithout regrets, You can't change the past , So look forward and focus on the present and tomorrow! x
@IglesiasMusica Thanks. I have gotten help. I have been to the psychiatrist clinic and I´m going there again in a few days. One psychiatrist said that I´m not bipolar but that I got like force thoughts. About the suicide. They come and go. Even though I get sometimes really strong suicide thoughts I would never do it. I think often of regrets and I know that it´s stupid and a waste of time. I think like that I life would have been better if I had made other decisions years ago Etc. thanks again
Please tell someone you can trust and find help. You are to Precious and your life is worth so much to let it be gone by suicide. I know depression and I know what it's like. Suicide is no the excape from the pain that we need. We need a good Doctor would can help and a good counselor. I care and so do alot of others. Jesus can help, too because He loves you more than we will ever know till we see Him face to face.
I have read every coment posted and think its great u all are speeking out even if its just the tube.Great way to get in touch with others.I,m quite older now have to kids of my own.I 2 thought I needed to end life had a very hard road all I can say is untell you grow older with age its hard to understand even as u do get old you may not understand it all But you do begine to realize wow its not as bad as I thought then u say I'm glad to be here.If u have kids it will hit u true luv b strong.
u don't have to be scared. I'm a teenager, I told my mom, and I got help right away. when u tell ur parents what ur going through, they know it's serious. it's a tough rode but it's the only way out.
hey, I told my mom and yea.. she was a bit over caring at first but, i'm getting help now, taking medication for it and seeing a therapist. it's the only way out man. people like us are powerless over our depression. that's we we need to get help. we can't do it ourselves.
xxcomfortablynumb1xx.....i been where u are right now...well im still there but worse. i was in the er from pulling the triger 3 times to my head. the gun never went off and i got pissed off and pointed it at the water and it went off! at that point, i think god just let me know what was about to happen. he showed me! its hard, it sucks, it hurts like a mother fucker. but im here still...!!! i dont want to be but i am.....u mean something to some one....and that some one is YOU
The video DID NOT SAY 'GET OVER IT' in fact it was saying just the complete opposite if you will listen to what he is saying! He is saying you need HELP in order to get past this....you need to talk to a professional that deals in depression, especially teen depression, but you have to talk to someone in order to get there, not hold this in. Tell a teacher, a pastor, a parent -but people CARE! Let them help you!!!!!!
@ifuckzebras wow...are you for real? i guess you've never had a friend actually try to kill themselves...that or you're one of these idiots who think depression is fake and people do it for attention...you're naive mate!
Yes, depression is a painful feeling! Knowing how I feel being when I get depress. Good thing God is a healer and my protector. Yes I had been depressed and sleep too much! Being worried for no reason at all. I thank you so much! Here I am going to give my guilt, my shame, anger, and worries to God and put it on the cross. Lord Jesus, I thank you for healing me!
Depression is just horrible. I've actually met over dozens of people suffering from it (my cousin is a psychiatrist and I'm aspiring to become one too) - ONE in FOUR people on the planet are clinically depressed
And in response to earlier comments, YES suicide hotlines DO CARE. As mentioned before, people take that job because they care in the first place.
Ugh I always wonder why do we HAVE to have a stupid purpose...
What we just do what we have to do in the world and then what?
I feel like it isn't worth it to be here though...
But...somehow I am still hanging on to a little thread.
And I think I am stupid for being upset because supposedly I am not going through the beyond horrific things that people complain about (thats what I think)
I smile and all that...but the happiness just doesnt stick to me. It is like I have a mask...
My final thought on depression. I believe depression is nature's way of telling you something needs to change about yourself. That you need a new purpose in life. Depression is the most natural thing found in every living creature. Self actualization is key to self realization which is the key to self esteem. Set a new small goal, no matter how small. Prove to yourselves that you can do something no matter how small or large. care about a stranger, workout for 5 mins, study for one test.
When i was depressed and thought that no one cared about me, when my friends avoided me, when I was neglected by my parents something changed. I watched an HBO documentary about Darfur, you know, stuff like little kids forced to kill, raped, beaten, stuff like that. And even though I wasn't able to directly relate I thought that since that stuff didn't happen to me I would be okay. I think the problem is most people forgetting that things can be alot worse. Though for some it is...sorry.
I spent years in pretty bad depression. Sometimes I'm as high as a kite and other times I'm low as a rock. It's not about feeling happy or sad, although that does come into it, but life just seems numb and not worth living.
Being sad is normal sometimes, being depressed adds hopelessness. I will try to help any of you that is willing to let me help. Please let me know. Thanks. :)
of course im not telling anyone who is depressed to suiide if they think that the only choice. But for me i experience depression, stress, and other complexities or shall i say crazy thing going on in my life.
Sometimes you might think people who are depressed decide to kill themselves is mentally ill. But for my perspective view you gotta do what you think can make you feel better and there will be forgiveness from god cause he understand.
gee what does everyone keep saying depressed people bad choice in life. Have eyou ever been through the experience? If ya don't then stop fussing over this serious issue. Some people onsidered to be deadlocked in their life and their is nothing i mean NOTHING can change in order to make them satisfy with their life.
that's right "everyone" won't be. but when there is nothing good about anything in your life, what may have been a bump in the road when you have a job and a family, is enough to make suicide seem the only way out of what is an oppressive and worthless life. until you experience depression, it is hard to make this distinction. hence, your callous comment about a bump in the road--to you, today, maybe, if you are on the street starving that bump might be the final straw.
People with depression, however depressed you are, get help right now. Suicide isn't the answer. If you or a friend is depressed, see/call your health service. They will be very nice to you and will help you/your friend get better. It's not too late, people love you, your life is worth living.
Also the most common way to tell between sadness and depresion is sadness may last a few hours, mybe a day or to, but depressio is sadness that last for long periods of time, also if ure sad your not going to kill yourself, if ure depressed you may
i remember about a year ago i was really depressed for about 2 mounths, i still have bits of depresion that last mybe a few days, a week or two, in those 2 mounths i was very close a few times to attempting suicide. i did also cut myself, and i still do off and on today. i didt tell anyone, but this is a message ot to all those wih depression. YOU WILL get better, and people DO care about you. GET HELP NOW, and if you are very close to attempting suicide, CALL THE SUICIDE HELP LINE!!!!!! NOW!!!!
They do care. You don't take that kind of job unless you care. Never give up hope- help is always nearby. Have faith in your fellow man (man as in mankind, not gender), in yourself, and/or in your belief system.
For everyone who is feeling this way just remember... THERE IS HOPE!!! All you need to do is just seek help. That help could be a parent, a youth group leader, a pastor, a pastoral counselor, a teacher or any other trusted adult.
I worked as social worker with families with children in danger of being removed due to behavioral problems. If I'd had this tool I could have helped more families identify depression in their teens, empower parents, and more importantly, shared the Good News of God's healing Love & brought hope to situations otherwise hopeless! Share this with anyone working with families with mental health issues. Dr. Nelson does an excellent job sharing the Hope God could bring with sound clinical principals!
This video is a great tool for awareness of a real problem with teens today. It is NOT ment to depress you. It is to make people aware of an Issue this man has personal experience with. Please seek help if you are depressed and May God Bless you. The seens in this video opens your eyes to things people just take for granted in the world today. There is hope and help out there please seek it. Please pass this along to make others aware of the ongoing problem with teens. You may save a life!
Any parent that is concerned about their teen or pre-teen that may be struggling, withdrawn or other negative behavior concerns - should take a few minutes to watch this powerful and informational video.
JEW FAP FULL OF HERPIES!!!!!!!
firefr3nzy4345 1 month ago
Penos!!!!!!!!!!!!!
firefr3nzy4345 1 month ago
Bottled up sheds light on the important issue that many face in these changing times: depression. It shows how one can get caught up in the daily frustrations of life, and instead of dealing with the issues at hand, bottle them up. Then shows how through a shift of perception, a shift in circumstances occur.
okrend1 2 months ago
This is not the life that God wants for us guys; I've been there and there are so many reasons for teen depression. Rather it it's being misunderstood, or bullied, or substance abuse, or feeling alone no matter what situation you may be in, or whatever your case, there is hope for you. Once I turned everything over to God and trusted in Jesus and His promises to us, and with time, small changes turned into bigger ones and after a while, my life really began to turn around. There is hope in Jesus
TheJmpeters 4 months ago
I pulled a trigger to my head and it would not go off once and I am 13 it was when I was 12 then I tried to strangle put a knife to my chest and sharper a sword and cut but now I'm fine and I fought it with the help of my friends I am doing better god stopped all of it now nothing can stop me
Layton15 8 months ago
The sad thing is that, as depression changes a person's behavior, a lot of their friends turn away just because of that.
A0v0v0y 8 months ago
@A0v0v0y I know exactly what your talking my "best" friend and I were talking and I told her i was getting a little depressed more often and what not, and she just flips out, telling me i'm a bad influence and that she doesn't associate herself with people like me because depression is "fucking stupid", pissed me the hell off,
TheNewMalone 8 months ago
@TheNewMalone
Yeah... Well, one of my classmates had been really depressed for months, and at some point she ended up alone because her friends assumed she was just posing for attention....
There really should be more education on this subject, not only in special programs but also at school. To raise awareness of the problem.
A0v0v0y 8 months ago
ive been in clinical depression for 3 years a since i was 15 i started treatment 2 years ago i feel almost normal now..
zaroonx 9 months ago
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kaiuiaasddd 10 months ago
really anyone here whos depressed, dont use the crutches(drugs alchohol and nicotine). it doesnt help. youll find the light, fight it, get your ass up and go run, do anything, and talk to someone. it helps.
PBlover14 11 months ago
I have talked to all those people he said to talk to and they didn't help me at all and I don't have many friends cause they all hate me
Mattsskatergirl4ever 1 year ago
@Mattsskatergirl4ever same =(
EmpressCarm 11 months ago
This is a well researched piece of video, I like the point you make about drugs and alcohol being a relief for very real pain. the pain is real and so is the relief from the drugs. Thankyou for making this video, The kind hearted sentiment and sensitivity you have for the subject is not lost on me.
goatyboy2007 1 year ago
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There is a CURE for deep Depression, Despair, and Hopelessness. I was in the Chains of Hopelessness for years and couldn't find anyway out. I used my Addictions to cover up the pains I was feeling. But now I am finally Free and have so much Hope, Joy, Happiness, Peace, and Love that I have ever experienced. There are 100s of people that I know personally who have experienced the same things! Click on my name to see these Powerful Stories of Hope and Freedom. You can have the same also!
mdcombs79 1 year ago
anyone else think its funny when the guy in black literally starts to steal things?
funfun4mee 1 year ago
read the Quran
NoorminAllah 1 year ago
i think theres nothing left for me here, but i still dont knw y im even around i jst hope one day i wake up and finaly realise its time
illchek 1 year ago
hey guys I have just started a teenage depression weblog where you do not need to feel alone anymore ! the sites just got started so help get it going !
xanga - undiscoveredgirl1
check it out ! thank you :)
xx
lauradavis1 1 year ago
excellent video, thank you for making it and sharing it.
jaunsquarepants 1 year ago
LOL, what's with the guy covered in black?
alexfanx 1 year ago 3
@alexfanx he is supposed to represent death
joeislame13 1 year ago
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laxmasta261 1 year ago
@laxmasta261 We went over it in class, haha. The guy who made the video came into our classroom and explained it.
joeislame13 11 months ago
thank you for sharing your insight
joanwelling 2 years ago
i dont know if im depressed. lately it just been like one day ill be happy and fine and then the next day ill be really down and just not feel all that great. maybe im manic or bipolar or something but i dont know
lolaspakola 2 years ago
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if nothing else works. Jesus will.
TheIggy457 2 years ago
Why oh why do these teens kill them selves? The answer to the question is obvious but not for the dim minded. Why do you go to school? Why are you working? What is your life for? You say money I should slap your eyeballs to the back of your head. They get this way because they have been taught that what they are doing is for money. We are not here for money, we are hear to learn, explore, grow, invent, love, live. Teach them to live, the money is just a side thing. Greed is the death of humanity
mythril4 2 years ago 8
@mythril4 Or maybe its because we dont know how to handle things like death, and we use drugs drink alcohol or hurt ourselves just because we know that is a way out but I dont know im 20 years old and ive been feeling this way since nov 2005 and theres no tellin how many times ive tried to kill my self or just drink the pain away to where maybe one ill drink enough and i wont have to deal with this crap any more i hate the way i feel and im tired of the pain in my chest that its causing.
Dgremmels 8 months ago
@Dgremmels
Well...it's never too late to learn. You want to know then let me teach ya. Drugs and alcohol, well those seem like a way out when in fact, they are the key to the door to get in, they R.S.V.P a spot in misery just for you. Life is a bitch, yeah we've heard this zillions of times. But here is the fact, that statement is a lie, life in fact is not a bitch, too many are simply just mislead to think it is. If you hate the way you feel, then, why are you still walking that path?
mythril4 8 months ago
@Dgremmels CONT....
I think there are a few major issues why people such as your self make your self believe your trying to escape something. First, from day one being taught that if you don't make a huge income you are worthless, that is BS! Second, lack of values in your parents thus yourself, true values within your self are the real strength in life, few even know what they are anymore. Laziness, yes too many of become to lazy to teach each other all the wonders in life.
mythril4 8 months ago
@Dgremmels CONT 2...
Death, what is it really? Did you actually loose someone? No you did not, just postponed the visit. Death will happen to you an I (I know "duh") at any random time if it's own choosing. The reason you feel so torn inside is not that you were not taught how to handle death, you were just mislead on how to. I lost 8 close family members now, I am 27, I knew all of them very well, I am not depressed in the least, I can tell you how I do this if you wish..
mythril4 8 months ago
@mythril4 yeah i would like you to tell...
Dgremmels 8 months ago
@Dgremmels CONT 3
Remember those seven deadly sins in that book everyone hates and/or likes (the bible)? Well religious or not, they are real in their own right.
Wrath - Hate is always a path to self destruction.
Greed - The path in bad decisions
Sloth - Those lazy people that I was talking about
Pride - Too much causes others you feel inferior to you, too power hungry.
Lust - Well you know were this leads people.
Envy - The primary cause of depression today.
Gluttony - Self induced is bad.
mythril4 8 months ago
@mythril4 then lets do something about it instead of bitch because teens are increasingly becoming depressed, i am one of them due to my two friends that have committed suicide, my dead beat dad who decides to take me out to dinner on my 18th bday just to yell and throw threats out(i called the cops) my jobless mother, who will never understand what i have been through so she doesn't know how to help even tho i
corywilkinson1 3 weeks ago
@mythril4 try and love people around me it doesn't feel full, i feel empty and powerless.... i've seen counselor after counselor, exercised, made goals (achieved some but felt no accomplishment)
corywilkinson1 3 weeks ago
@corywilkinson1
Well you've not me and I do wish you could, at first I seem cold and hard as if to have a bad attitude. Counselors have set them selves to a certain level of guidelines and tend not to believe there is more to each person than what they have learned.
Those goals you tried to achieve were not your goals, it's why they feel empty. I do love to help people, but what I don't do is embellish the truth to make people feel better. The truth is the fact that can't be denied
CONT....
mythril4 3 weeks ago
@corywilkinson1
People often get upset with me at first for this, I am now out to cover up a problem with pretty flowers, I am out to help people come to terms with who they are and learn to use their own skills to better their own lives.
Now, I am not a counselor, I have a genuine love for people regardless of what they think of them selves. You have not found a fulfilling goal because you need to understand your self better first to find that one goal to set.
CONT...
mythril4 3 weeks ago
@corywilkinson1
Weakness, sadness and mistakes are required to understand happiness and strength, those help you understand the true value of mankind. I had to raise my self since age 9, I watched people get shot in the head and even got hit by the spatter at age 10. I was not traumatized by this, instead it helped me understand how valuable you, I and others really are and what we are all really about. So first you need to discover who you are, once established the rest becomes easier.
mythril4 3 weeks ago
The longer you wait to ask for help the harder it gets. When I had to ask for help it was after I had attempted suicide and needed to go to the hospital. I had realized how stupid the choice I made was and after trying to fix it myself I finally came to the conclusion that I can't do it alone.
I found out that I have clinical depression, generalized anxiety disorder, and social phobia. A year later I'm doing much better but i know i'll always have to be careful.
amyes77 2 years ago
the maker of this came to my school today, it was cool lol but sad at the same time hearing about how many teens my age commit suicide a year
peanutbutterjammer 2 years ago
Lord please cover them in your precious blood! You have all power to over come the enemy! GEt back satan!! Your kingdom is coming down in Jesus name!!!
prayerwarrior1995 2 years ago
i am not sure if i am depressed or not. every night i come home from 2 to 4 hours of dancing, and i now it sounds stupid, but i get really stressed out. to make things worse, i usually do my homework on the bus or in homeroom since i cant seem to do it before then. and people at school always ask why im so quite because i never talk and i just say that theres nothing to say, but i know thats not the answer...but i just dont know what the answer is either.
sonnyjoone17 2 years ago
@sonnyjoone17 You might have Social Anxiety Disorder, or something, Research Social anciety and depression, But don't keep it in, tell someone close to you!!!
IglesiasMusica 1 year ago
First don´t write about on my channel comments. I want to be more optimistic and positive but I get the suicide thoughts everyday. I´m not gonna take my life because I have siblings and cousins that I respect. I have had suicide thoughts on and off for more than 5 years but now had them on and off every day for a months. I regret many things I have done the last ten years. Like I have made bad decisions but I don´t think I have so big reasons to have suicide thoughts but I get the daily.
83Mysterio 2 years ago
@83Mysterio Get help, even though it seems you can handle it, there might be a time where you get really low, then the suicidal thoughts might creep up, do something about it before it gets too far. Livewithout regrets, You can't change the past , So look forward and focus on the present and tomorrow! x
IglesiasMusica 1 year ago
@IglesiasMusica Thanks. I have gotten help. I have been to the psychiatrist clinic and I´m going there again in a few days. One psychiatrist said that I´m not bipolar but that I got like force thoughts. About the suicide. They come and go. Even though I get sometimes really strong suicide thoughts I would never do it. I think often of regrets and I know that it´s stupid and a waste of time. I think like that I life would have been better if I had made other decisions years ago Etc. thanks again
83Mysterio 1 year ago
@83Mysterio I'm glad you've got help! :) x Good luck x
IglesiasMusica 1 year ago
@IglesiasMusica thanks.
83Mysterio 1 year ago
I try to tell my parents but they dont care because there the reason..
MultiSuperfunny 2 years ago
Please tell someone you can trust and find help. You are to Precious and your life is worth so much to let it be gone by suicide. I know depression and I know what it's like. Suicide is no the excape from the pain that we need. We need a good Doctor would can help and a good counselor. I care and so do alot of others. Jesus can help, too because He loves you more than we will ever know till we see Him face to face.
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BornAgain59 2 years ago 3
I have read every coment posted and think its great u all are speeking out even if its just the tube.Great way to get in touch with others.I,m quite older now have to kids of my own.I 2 thought I needed to end life had a very hard road all I can say is untell you grow older with age its hard to understand even as u do get old you may not understand it all But you do begine to realize wow its not as bad as I thought then u say I'm glad to be here.If u have kids it will hit u true luv b strong.
brodix68 2 years ago 2
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XxXjoannXxX 2 years ago
u don't have to be scared. I'm a teenager, I told my mom, and I got help right away. when u tell ur parents what ur going through, they know it's serious. it's a tough rode but it's the only way out.
buenfiesta82 2 years ago
hey, I told my mom and yea.. she was a bit over caring at first but, i'm getting help now, taking medication for it and seeing a therapist. it's the only way out man. people like us are powerless over our depression. that's we we need to get help. we can't do it ourselves.
buenfiesta82 2 years ago
xxcomfortablynumb1xx.....i been where u are right now...well im still there but worse. i was in the er from pulling the triger 3 times to my head. the gun never went off and i got pissed off and pointed it at the water and it went off! at that point, i think god just let me know what was about to happen. he showed me! its hard, it sucks, it hurts like a mother fucker. but im here still...!!! i dont want to be but i am.....u mean something to some one....and that some one is YOU
4evernayana 2 years ago
wuts with the ninja hahaha
4evernayana 2 years ago
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yogonu 2 years ago
The video DID NOT SAY 'GET OVER IT' in fact it was saying just the complete opposite if you will listen to what he is saying! He is saying you need HELP in order to get past this....you need to talk to a professional that deals in depression, especially teen depression, but you have to talk to someone in order to get there, not hold this in. Tell a teacher, a pastor, a parent -but people CARE! Let them help you!!!!!!
rlway1955 2 years ago
im in this movie, dude in the orange jacket
BrooksMartinMusic 2 years ago
I'm 13, when I was 11 i attempted to strangle myself, smacked my head off of a stoney wall and self harmed, and stopped.
This year, I attempted to strangle myself, make a nouse 3 times with my school tie and i started self harming again.
I keep feeling as if it shouldn't be me here... and someone else should be able to take my place.
I miss being happy without the emptiness inside :'(
TammyJ708 2 years ago
Hey everyone on here ! If u need a friend, I'm here.Don't kill yourself!!
Chirsty76 2 years ago
I have attempted suicide soo many times but there is something stoppin and i think i knwo what it is.. i dont want to die i want help !
xxx
youngmumdanielle 2 years ago 4
Add me as a friend if u want. :) I'm here for u hun!
Chirsty76 2 years ago
I'm glad u didn't die!! Keep yr head up.
Chirsty76 2 years ago
i attempted suicide just three days ago on Friday
my mum found me just in time
i just couldnt cope with my mental illness anymore i just wanted the hallucinations and overwhelming feelings to stop
im just scared when i talk to my psychiatrist 2morrow he will want to put me back in the psychiatric hospital again Y_Y
i hate it in hospital T_T
NeonSav 2 years ago
I 'm bioplar,so I know u feel.If u need me to help I will.Just add me as friends.:) I don't want u to die!
Chirsty76 2 years ago
I'm so sorry u did that,but I'm glad she found u.add me if u want.
Chirsty76 2 years ago
ive tried suicide 4 times there's just somethin stopping me
AntiStupidGirl 2 years ago 21
something stopped me to. i was never into religion. but over time, i think god was and he was telling me its not my time. i still dont know
xXxSceneScotNICKxXx 2 years ago 2
Im here if u need me! :) add me!
Chirsty76 2 years ago
...thats low spamming suicidal teens....
zevvay 2 years ago
I'm not spamming anyone!! I'm really trying to help.I'm not that rude kinda person.
Chirsty76 2 years ago
@AntiStupidGirl then your doing it wrong
theboarman 1 year ago
@AntiStupidGirl go for a 5th time and actually do it
ifuckzebras 1 year ago
@ifuckzebras wow...are you for real? i guess you've never had a friend actually try to kill themselves...that or you're one of these idiots who think depression is fake and people do it for attention...you're naive mate!
twowheelworld 1 year ago
@ifuckzebras wtf dude
EscobarLovesTRS 1 year ago
@AntiStupidGirl Really sad to hear=( you don't know me but i'm a good listener and i'd like to help you if your still struggling:)
SvendsenAtheist 1 year ago
@AntiStupidGirl heyy if you ever need someone to talk to..message me :)
95nblair 1 year ago
@AntiStupidGirl its your will to live
carnifex714 11 months ago
@AntiStupidGirl Somthing keeps stopping me too
Dgremmels 8 months ago
Yes, depression is a painful feeling! Knowing how I feel being when I get depress. Good thing God is a healer and my protector. Yes I had been depressed and sleep too much! Being worried for no reason at all. I thank you so much! Here I am going to give my guilt, my shame, anger, and worries to God and put it on the cross. Lord Jesus, I thank you for healing me!
davidjain918 2 years ago
Depression and suicidal thoughts are hard to deal with, and hard for people to understand if they do not have it. It really is a struggle.
kasulis 2 years ago
Depression is just horrible. I've actually met over dozens of people suffering from it (my cousin is a psychiatrist and I'm aspiring to become one too) - ONE in FOUR people on the planet are clinically depressed
And in response to earlier comments, YES suicide hotlines DO CARE. As mentioned before, people take that job because they care in the first place.
JamiePS3Howitt 2 years ago
hey im depressed and have been a self harmer for two years if anyone wants someone to talk to i dont mind email me :)
lauradavis1 2 years ago
Omg same. I've attempeted suicide twice.
Freakysince96 2 years ago
ahh not good i've come close so many times. stay strong !
lauradavis1 2 years ago
u too
Freakysince96 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
Kill yourself faggot
MyStaticAge 2 years ago
oo look there, wth u think ur doing
SasukeLP1349 2 years ago
i agree
Metrall502 2 years ago
Ugh I always wonder why do we HAVE to have a stupid purpose...
What we just do what we have to do in the world and then what?
I feel like it isn't worth it to be here though...
But...somehow I am still hanging on to a little thread.
And I think I am stupid for being upset because supposedly I am not going through the beyond horrific things that people complain about (thats what I think)
I smile and all that...but the happiness just doesnt stick to me. It is like I have a mask...
ObsessedMusicFreak32 2 years ago 4
It's not stupid.
I understand completely what you are saying.
BenjaminEffingBarker 2 years ago
Thanks :/ :)
ObsessedMusicFreak32 2 years ago
the vid is weird
but depression sucks you know
no light at the end of the tunnel.. what the hell.
nonsense
xchinatsux 2 years ago
i hate myself and want to die i have no reason to live
speaker3600 2 years ago
speaker3600...why would you wonna kill yourself?? I can talk to you, if you dont have anyone to listen..
celinedionloved 2 years ago
My final thought on depression. I believe depression is nature's way of telling you something needs to change about yourself. That you need a new purpose in life. Depression is the most natural thing found in every living creature. Self actualization is key to self realization which is the key to self esteem. Set a new small goal, no matter how small. Prove to yourselves that you can do something no matter how small or large. care about a stranger, workout for 5 mins, study for one test.
JoePyrotechnic 3 years ago 2
When i was depressed and thought that no one cared about me, when my friends avoided me, when I was neglected by my parents something changed. I watched an HBO documentary about Darfur, you know, stuff like little kids forced to kill, raped, beaten, stuff like that. And even though I wasn't able to directly relate I thought that since that stuff didn't happen to me I would be okay. I think the problem is most people forgetting that things can be alot worse. Though for some it is...sorry.
JoePyrotechnic 3 years ago 2
I spent years in pretty bad depression. Sometimes I'm as high as a kite and other times I'm low as a rock. It's not about feeling happy or sad, although that does come into it, but life just seems numb and not worth living.
BritishBobbie 3 years ago
i have depression imm 13
i have no friends and everybody talks about me right in front of me i feel worthless
nickjarvis01 3 years ago
It's okay, I know how you feel.
You're not alone.
It will get better one day, I promise.
BenjaminEffingBarker 2 years ago
Being sad is normal sometimes, being depressed adds hopelessness. I will try to help any of you that is willing to let me help. Please let me know. Thanks. :)
deabcd 3 years ago
continued....
of course im not telling anyone who is depressed to suiide if they think that the only choice. But for me i experience depression, stress, and other complexities or shall i say crazy thing going on in my life.
Vietnamemperor12346 3 years ago
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Sometimes you might think people who are depressed decide to kill themselves is mentally ill. But for my perspective view you gotta do what you think can make you feel better and there will be forgiveness from god cause he understand.
Vietnamemperor12346 3 years ago
gee what does everyone keep saying depressed people bad choice in life. Have eyou ever been through the experience? If ya don't then stop fussing over this serious issue. Some people onsidered to be deadlocked in their life and their is nothing i mean NOTHING can change in order to make them satisfy with their life.
Vietnamemperor12346 3 years ago
well i got to tell u im barely surviving the storm....
viper90988 3 years ago
the problem is depressed people make bad choices. very hard to ask for help, very alone.
bajawind 3 years ago
Depressed individuals dont make bad choices.
Its called a bump in the road of life.
Everyone can make a bad choice, but will not be depressed.
whoistracii 3 years ago
that's right "everyone" won't be. but when there is nothing good about anything in your life, what may have been a bump in the road when you have a job and a family, is enough to make suicide seem the only way out of what is an oppressive and worthless life. until you experience depression, it is hard to make this distinction. hence, your callous comment about a bump in the road--to you, today, maybe, if you are on the street starving that bump might be the final straw.
bajawind 3 years ago
Actually I do know what depression is all about. I have individuals in my life that experience depression. Including I. My common sense is stronger.
whoistracii 3 years ago
People with depression, however depressed you are, get help right now. Suicide isn't the answer. If you or a friend is depressed, see/call your health service. They will be very nice to you and will help you/your friend get better. It's not too late, people love you, your life is worth living.
lucyelizabethK 3 years ago
Easy to say then doing it... i have a personality disorder - avoidant/resistant cross between XD i cant physically ask for help
Renchalla 3 years ago 2
Also the most common way to tell between sadness and depresion is sadness may last a few hours, mybe a day or to, but depressio is sadness that last for long periods of time, also if ure sad your not going to kill yourself, if ure depressed you may
umahuma4 3 years ago 2
i remember about a year ago i was really depressed for about 2 mounths, i still have bits of depresion that last mybe a few days, a week or two, in those 2 mounths i was very close a few times to attempting suicide. i did also cut myself, and i still do off and on today. i didt tell anyone, but this is a message ot to all those wih depression. YOU WILL get better, and people DO care about you. GET HELP NOW, and if you are very close to attempting suicide, CALL THE SUICIDE HELP LINE!!!!!! NOW!!!!
umahuma4 3 years ago 5
They dont care
dodobrain115 3 years ago
They do care. You don't take that kind of job unless you care. Never give up hope- help is always nearby. Have faith in your fellow man (man as in mankind, not gender), in yourself, and/or in your belief system.
brandontarbet 3 years ago
For everyone who is feeling this way just remember... THERE IS HOPE!!! All you need to do is just seek help. That help could be a parent, a youth group leader, a pastor, a pastoral counselor, a teacher or any other trusted adult.
DarthVader2550 3 years ago 10
@DarthVader2550 Its hard tho, totell someone, exspecially if they don't have it, i feel like they won't understand :(
IglesiasMusica 1 year ago
I worked as social worker with families with children in danger of being removed due to behavioral problems. If I'd had this tool I could have helped more families identify depression in their teens, empower parents, and more importantly, shared the Good News of God's healing Love & brought hope to situations otherwise hopeless! Share this with anyone working with families with mental health issues. Dr. Nelson does an excellent job sharing the Hope God could bring with sound clinical principals!
wvnanc 3 years ago
This video is a great tool for awareness of a real problem with teens today. It is NOT ment to depress you. It is to make people aware of an Issue this man has personal experience with. Please seek help if you are depressed and May God Bless you. The seens in this video opens your eyes to things people just take for granted in the world today. There is hope and help out there please seek it. Please pass this along to make others aware of the ongoing problem with teens. You may save a life!
srchssteach 3 years ago 2
As a teen-I only wish someone would have shared with me all the ways depression can affect your life. What a difference something like this can make.
fishykissin 3 years ago 4
Any parent that is concerned about their teen or pre-teen that may be struggling, withdrawn or other negative behavior concerns - should take a few minutes to watch this powerful and informational video.
suescheff 3 years ago 4