Flesh and Blood "Shadows and Lights" 1992 -Video

[snootzie78]

If VH1 ever does another rendition of Behind The Music, Wilson Phillips needs to get on there. They've been through a lot together--from dysfunctional parents (Beach Boys/Mamas & Papas) and their drug problems/abuse, Carnie's weight problems, and Chynna's departure from the group, and the emotional comeback.

[coolsweetgroovy]

Makes me think of my own Dad I'm the daughter of an absentee father

[breakthehabit79]

To my Dad, there's not a day that goes by that I wish you and I were still in each other's life. We're not perfect. We're both too proud to admit our wrongdoings, and admit that we have hurt each other in the process. We have missed out on so much of our lives. Yet, in my heart, I still long for the day when we can see each other again and just talk to each other, and focus on the here and now. That's what matters. I miss you so much, Dad, and I love you. I'll always be your little buddy

[behappy373]

This song made me realize that despite I'd grew up without having my father physically close, he always loved me and he always will! Thank you so much Wilson Phillips for this great song! It means a lot to all those ones who never had their father physically there.

[MissDanni74]

Such a wonderfull song...

[sgpiepie]

I had 4 of their Wilson Phillips MVs in a Laser Disc, talking about obsolescent...Sigh ...I wish EMI records will release a DVD of ALL their MVs, including this one...

[John32070]

This is about Carnie and Wendy's dad Brian Wilson.

[ILuvCaroline]

who was this song about? i

[missiongroove]

Wow. Note the watermark at the bottom of the video. That was my website. I guess this was downloaded from there. Sad that it's no longer around. At least Carnie did post on the message board.

[angie197424]

This is a great video!

[KarinGrever]

Thank you very much for your answer coolsweetgroovy...I appreciate it !!!!

[mitchelmeans]

My daughter will probably look back and listen to this song one day. She has no contact with her father!

[snootzie78]

I haven't seen the video until now. Thanks guys!

[bmbabygirl]

omg gross title for a song

[coolsweetgroovy]

@bmbabygirl what?? i don't think so

[bluekarma]

You know Chynna was the pretty one but i think if you asked most guys, they would want to be with Wendy. She is a stunning sultry beauty with the most amazing eyes. She really gave me sleepless nights back in those days. Imiss those times!

[KarinGrever]

This Song is so wonderful!!!

[coolsweetgroovy]

@KarinGrever I agree

[trekkerguy]

Wow... if only there were girls like Wendy Wilson these days :[

[coolsweetgroovy]

I love this song to and I understand it I the daughter of an absentee father and when he is here he's very abusive mentally and physically to me, 2 of my older sibilings(brother and sister) and my mom. The only diffence I never heard anything about Brian or John being that way.

[aftershock71]

these girls grew up with a mentally ill parent......no one ever really knows the pleasure of this unless they have lived it..so don't judge or pretend...........

[amberb57]

It's a very emotional song for me, it's so easy to feel the pain in this song!

Twinmom9906, I know where you're coming from, I know a girl, she's 10 now, and her sperm donor has never wanted to have a father/daughter relationship with her, she wasn't a boy. Really sad.

[luvslite]

when i was mad at my father for being a asshole i sang this to him music is the only way he understands feelngs he has three daughters and care not for one of us.

[happyexpectations]

oh, I can relate.. tears, tears, and more tears... thanks~

[hexumfan4ever]

twin mom i feel your pain. i hope your girl's dad wakes up and realizes what a priviledge and gift it is to have children.God bless you.

[1luckymother]

wow i should probably send this song to my dad its true nothing should stop any parent from seeing there own children

[thecaveman]

OH MY GOD! This song is my favourite! I can't believe I forgot this song and finally hearing it again after all these years!!! thanks for sharing! sigh..the sadness of times past

[ChrisRJ]

I hate those clicks that happen inside the video, but it's still a nice song.

[twinmom9906]

This song has always touched me, but just in the past seven years that my two older daughters father has completely cut them out of his life, it's really been a heartbreaking song. I had my dad until I was 13 and he died so I know what it's like to grow up without a father, but I don't know what it's like to be rejected by my father. I can only imagine the pain they feel. THey are 9 and are starting to get to the point of wanting to know him. It just breaks my heart.

[01trjw]

we dont need to hear your life story

[watchucme1]

was that really necessary?

[twinmom9906]

u know, If you don't want to read what I write, then don't. Quit being a bitch!

[gramata66]

-thats heartbreaking twinmom--that's like u against the heavy world--but u have to move on

[mcrlovesBoA]

God do I miss them!!! I love them so much!!! Wish they would have one more concert so me and my mom can see them and sing along...all we have now are albums and memories....where did the 90's go?!

[ducky811]

An absolute AMEN to your comment. I would love to see them myself. They wrote such amazing songs and their talents are just wonderful. It's not the 90's going, it's that great songwriters and performers don't get appreciated by the media like they should. It happens in every decade.

[carrieunderwoodcool]

this makes me cry!

cause i have never met my dad!

And this song makes me cry because it reminds me of him!

[carrieunderwoodcool]

this is how i feel!

[Nagpie]

a Beautiful song with a message, the song is so good it sends tingles down my spine!

[BeautyNthabeatz]

i never had a relationship with my father till this day and till this day everytime i hear this song, it makes me cry. this is such a beautiful song and the SHADOWS AND LIGHT album is a very sad cd but very moving and there best cd! :)

[musicasitshouldbe]

its the counterpart of lindsay lohan's confessions of a broken heart... hmm...

[DMkaka]

Pls tell me more about this.. Thx for posting this video, its a sad song but so beautiful!

[mkr1999]

wow!! wp!!! yea yea grat group!! thaks for this video!! pleas no retry!!

[abbalite]

Wasn't this around the time that Landy had his meat hooks in Brian's back? That would explain alot of the animosity his daughters felt towards him and (maybe) from him...?

[golfsticks33]

great record now one of my favourite WP tracks does anyone have your in love

[elmando5]

That's a very sad song. I'm sure Brian Wilson and John Phillps must have been pissed after seeing this video.

[mahkindofmusic]

If you know about Brian, then you understnad that Carnie and Wendy were really pissed, and rightly so....

BTW Wendy looks totally like Elliot from "Scrubs"

[ascrodin]

Landy was keeping Brian from seeing Carnie and Wendy.

PS. Should we start calling Wendy "Barbie" or "Blonde Doctor"? Maybe she could hook up with Zach Braff. They definitely need to go out with JD and Eliot together.

[trevor1973]

Awesome. Thanks for posting. Wish they would get back together for a third time.