arranged marriage is not really a big deal in our culture. only certain families practice that. it is based on people and their choices. some parents are more strict and some are not. but overall, it usually comes down to the two people who are going to marry each other. if they don't like each other, they need to speak out and express themselves instead of listening to parents because in the end it's their lives.
Marriage in the Hmong culture is a family decision made by the parents and relatives. It is not an individual decision made by the people in love. It has been this way for centuries. Although the practice is slowly changing, arranged marriages are still a large part of Hmong society.
yeah it do hurts that now parents now days doesnt understand i know they want the good for their kids but then sometime they dont think that they are hurting them from ruining their kids relationship with others. it hurts me too that things that i dont want to be in but now i am one of them..
this actually the first song i heard of her that i really like..thinks for the upload..this song was just dedicated to this one couple that died..i heard that they couldn't be together so they die together..this is such a good song..thanks for the upload..i hope that when i find my lover my parents won;t do this to me..
To all the comments...I think that when you become a parent yourself...you'd start to realize why parents do the things they chose to do.....whether the outcome is for good or not.
this life time, we only have one life time. i say ignored your parents, follow your hearts and do what ever makes you happy. Eventually, your parents will get over it. If you have a good college degree and good job don't worry about your parents' approval, you are a man, you can provide for yourself, you don't need your parents. Cov laus lawv tsis paub xav, lawv tsuas xav ua kom lawv zoo siab xwb. I hope every things turn out good for you.
@hua011 it's a song but it has almost happened to me from my past and now that i have already moved forward and have a family of my own, you think it's a movie you should try out a long relationship see if it will be there one day like this music video
@hua011 it's a song you think it is not until when you are in this kind of situation like i have once before from my past, it has almost been like this but now i already have a family of my own moving forward, you should always move ahead never turned back the times...
Parents after parent don't really understand...they wait until you guys prove it out that they really do love each other...that's when they'll say "i'm sorry dear i never knew that you guys truly love each other...if we have known we'll let you guys marry" they'll regret it by then it's too late...i would have done the same thing those two did...
Parents after parent don't really understand...they wait until you guys prove it out that they really do love each other...that's when they'll say "i'm sorry dear i never knew that you guys truly love each other...if we have known we'll let you guys marry" they'll regret it by then it's too late...i would have done the same thing those two did...
parents are parents afterall and sometimes they're just too over protected, but most of the time they don't pay enough attention to you...heh...oh well can't do anything about it...well everytime i listen to a song i can't relate to it xD
omg.. every time i listen to this song... it make me miss my ex gf so much... wish you know how much i miss you os abkia.. i wish i can take my heart out n give it to u b4 i stop breathing and take a good look at you b4 i close my eyes.. but i know, eventho i take it out n give it to u. u won't accept it and forgive me... at least that is the last thing i can do b4 i disappear from this world.
@udontunderstandme thank you but i guess no matter what i had gone through, she'll never understand. eventho i explained, all she said was i'm faking. that is the worst thing pain ever. I'm the one in the middle to keep balance for both side and protect her, but she didn't see what i did for her. all she know was, i'm hurting her. i Know i did but what can i do? one side is my parent and one side is her the one i love. all i can do best was to protect her from getting her and suffer for her :(
@mengo530 Oh...sorry for my super late reply. xD I barely check my inbox. xD but aw~ that's really sad. Hopefully she come to realize soon. I wish you the best of luck. ;)
@mengo530 Hey your comment makes me want to cry. So I'm guessing you married to someone else rather than her that is why she is so mad at you? It's never to late to tell her you love and will always love her.
@microbiologiest I wish I was married or have someone to keep me company but no I wasn’t married. I let her go at the end because my parent always asked me who to pick “my parent or my gf?” If I pick my gf, who will give us the parent blessing and who will be my parent at my wedding and if I pick my parent, I have to let go of my gf. I hide every trouble I went through from her because I don’t want her to get hurt, but at the end, she still hates me. :(
yug los ua neeg ib tiam tsua mauj ib zuag kev hlub xwb. Niamtxiv lub siab tsis zoo. ua nkuaj ua nruag nyob tsua xav tau tus ywg hlub. Niamtxiv tsis puab tias mob tug ntxhais lub siab npaum twg. Tuag lawm mam zoo niamtxiv siab.
it would be nice if everything can restart.. but life is not fair.. eventho it is 21th century, parent hasn't change a bit to understand the young. maybe death is the only way can make them understand how painful when they separate a couple. love this song.
@mengo530 i agree that parents now a day still are the same like back in Loas... wut can we all do to make them understand our love life and situtation.... like u said maybe death will make them understand their children's love for each other...
@kamee07 When it comes to saving ur parent or ur love one from getting drown. Everybody always say they’ll save their parent bc there is nobody can replace their parents, but what about their love one. If u truly love someone wit all ur heart, u’ll know how it feel. She is ur life and the one u going to spent the rest of ur life wit. If I could back turn back times, I will jump in the river and die wit my love if my parent know how i love my love one.
@mengo530 yea u r rite... most ppl would say that they would save their parent.. for me i would save my parent but if my love one drown i will die with him too...
@kamee07 yes.. i regret for not jumping in and die with the one i love n now i suffer in pain bc i can't move on without her. i wish i can turn time back, i will tell her everything then jump in... If anybody ever came to cross this road or path..PLEASE think twice b4 u make the decision because one day u will regret like me hea. :(
@umsloves ey i have a question... r u talkin about ur real life? did this really happen to you? sorry for being nosy but just wondering... n if it is true.. i am so sorry for ur lost ok.. i hope u will someone tat u will truely love now or later...
Lol. The blood is so fake after they jumped off the cliff!! But the song is pretty sad. But you know what'd be worse? If you actually died with the one you love because others are stopping your love. And when you die, its just dying. Like, you don't get reborn and get to love the one from your past life :'( Sad luss.
@yokoyamazki children these days can't distinguish between love and infatuation (infatuation blind you just like this mv and love does not)... and the 50% plus divorce today proves that they are not really in love.
Generations are changing for the better. Don't worry about it too much, unless your folks are truly old fashion.
51018188 1 week ago
arranged marriage is not really a big deal in our culture. only certain families practice that. it is based on people and their choices. some parents are more strict and some are not. but overall, it usually comes down to the two people who are going to marry each other. if they don't like each other, they need to speak out and express themselves instead of listening to parents because in the end it's their lives.
houanai19 1 week ago
Marriage in the Hmong culture is a family decision made by the parents and relatives. It is not an individual decision made by the people in love. It has been this way for centuries. Although the practice is slowly changing, arranged marriages are still a large part of Hmong society.
P0Jntxoog 1 month ago
@P0Jntxoog its not true. it only a small part of our culture. Now days it is not common no more.
SnowqueenHer 3 days ago
sorry, but the children today don't get what they've done so far. someday when u bc a parent then u will get and what u regret in the past.
ZAJDAWB777 1 month ago
i just noticed that that bf is kos lis.. lol
pakaymoua94 1 month ago
i was like this...sad, our lives die
inla06 2 months ago
I agree with the 2 comments above.
Parents need to leave their kids relationship alone.
One day when things get worse they will regret everything they had done.
This song is a good song.
babeelynda 2 months ago 2
my parents use to be like that. But i told them, dude it's the 21st century. So they don't care no more. we even date outside our race. =)
P3RSONALANG3L 2 months ago
this is so sad ,omg ! parent needa leave the lover ALONE ! like WTF !
s3ngboi 3 months ago
zoo heev lawm tiam si thov txhob ua li zaj nkauj no nawb.
07moob 3 months ago
its a very sad song and i guess LOVE IT!
yeah it do hurts that now parents now days doesnt understand i know they want the good for their kids but then sometime they dont think that they are hurting them from ruining their kids relationship with others. it hurts me too that things that i dont want to be in but now i am one of them..
Susan100691 3 months ago
too much blood, how they even died but this song is sad, and words going too slow
xiongmai2 3 months ago 4
too much blood and how they even died but sad
xiongmai2 3 months ago
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xiongmai2 3 months ago
too much fake blood....
disCHICK1996 3 months ago
hay vai
kujvaj 3 months ago
what the HELL.THIS IS A VIETNAMESE SONGS BY DUY MANH.HMONG COPIED THIS SONG FROM VIETNAM LOL
ooyummybunnyoo 3 months ago
sad song.....its so true hmong these days r still like that
mvcx10 3 months ago
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Likeg6x2 4 months ago
1:17 is when i get the goosebumb
XD
very beautiful
Spinner559 4 months ago
this song is good, but all i hear is meow meow meow meow meow...
Juinor 4 months ago
Does tis song have instrumental..can someone tell me thnx alot....
asiangur95 5 months ago
omg they look like monsters with bloody mouth
ahhh180 5 months ago
i met this actor when i was in laos!!! pretty cool guy
jalee1989 6 months ago
im jsut happy tht my parents dont make choice for us and we make it our self..lucky me and my sisters
SeeChang1 8 months ago
i hate parent separate like tht song
kuti3fallinglove1 9 months ago
this actually the first song i heard of her that i really like..thinks for the upload..this song was just dedicated to this one couple that died..i heard that they couldn't be together so they die together..this is such a good song..thanks for the upload..i hope that when i find my lover my parents won;t do this to me..
kkaren151 9 months ago
To all the comments...I think that when you become a parent yourself...you'd start to realize why parents do the things they chose to do.....whether the outcome is for good or not.
txivTIGER 9 months ago
it's true that cause it has happened to me one time from my past and now that i am already moving forward.....
beautifulxiongladee 9 months ago
@mengo530
this life time, we only have one life time. i say ignored your parents, follow your hearts and do what ever makes you happy. Eventually, your parents will get over it. If you have a good college degree and good job don't worry about your parents' approval, you are a man, you can provide for yourself, you don't need your parents. Cov laus lawv tsis paub xav, lawv tsuas xav ua kom lawv zoo siab xwb. I hope every things turn out good for you.
1mokie 10 months ago
this song is so sad... ;(
tshuavkuvlawmxwb 10 months ago
i agree all of u guys this song is so sad made me cry my ass off :(
12100chonger 10 months ago
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gaomeeshengchang 11 months ago
sorry for what i'm gonna say. for me i think she's way little old for the guy.btw thanks for sharing.
oarfishtkb1 1 year ago
@oarfishtkb1 it don't matter...it just a song...
hua011 11 months ago
@hua011 it's a song but it has almost happened to me from my past and now that i have already moved forward and have a family of my own, you think it's a movie you should try out a long relationship see if it will be there one day like this music video
beautifulxiongladee 9 months ago
@hua011 it's a song you think it is not until when you are in this kind of situation like i have once before from my past, it has almost been like this but now i already have a family of my own moving forward, you should always move ahead never turned back the times...
beautifulxiongladee 9 months ago
this is just a sad song
kaseyx9 1 year ago
Damn this MV is scary
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Parents after parent don't really understand...they wait until you guys prove it out that they really do love each other...that's when they'll say "i'm sorry dear i never knew that you guys truly love each other...if we have known we'll let you guys marry" they'll regret it by then it's too late...i would have done the same thing those two did...
lilshawtylee 1 year ago
Parents after parent don't really understand...they wait until you guys prove it out that they really do love each other...that's when they'll say "i'm sorry dear i never knew that you guys truly love each other...if we have known we'll let you guys marry" they'll regret it by then it's too late...i would have done the same thing those two did...
lilshawtylee 1 year ago 20
im not in your shoe but yeah i would be the same thing too..
hua011 1 year ago
parents are parents afterall and sometimes they're just too over protected, but most of the time they don't pay enough attention to you...heh...oh well can't do anything about it...well everytime i listen to a song i can't relate to it xD
udontunderstandme 1 year ago 2
omg.. every time i listen to this song... it make me miss my ex gf so much... wish you know how much i miss you os abkia.. i wish i can take my heart out n give it to u b4 i stop breathing and take a good look at you b4 i close my eyes.. but i know, eventho i take it out n give it to u. u won't accept it and forgive me... at least that is the last thing i can do b4 i disappear from this world.
mengo530 1 year ago 3
@mengo530 aw~ so cute...ur ex girl is so fortunate...i don' t know how that really feels but that's really cute and deep >.<
udontunderstandme 1 year ago
@udontunderstandme thank you but i guess no matter what i had gone through, she'll never understand. eventho i explained, all she said was i'm faking. that is the worst thing pain ever. I'm the one in the middle to keep balance for both side and protect her, but she didn't see what i did for her. all she know was, i'm hurting her. i Know i did but what can i do? one side is my parent and one side is her the one i love. all i can do best was to protect her from getting her and suffer for her :(
mengo530 1 year ago
@mengo530 Oh...sorry for my super late reply. xD I barely check my inbox. xD but aw~ that's really sad. Hopefully she come to realize soon. I wish you the best of luck. ;)
udontunderstandme 10 months ago
@mengo530 Hey your comment makes me want to cry. So I'm guessing you married to someone else rather than her that is why she is so mad at you? It's never to late to tell her you love and will always love her.
microbiologiest 1 year ago
@microbiologiest I wish I was married or have someone to keep me company but no I wasn’t married. I let her go at the end because my parent always asked me who to pick “my parent or my gf?” If I pick my gf, who will give us the parent blessing and who will be my parent at my wedding and if I pick my parent, I have to let go of my gf. I hide every trouble I went through from her because I don’t want her to get hurt, but at the end, she still hates me. :(
mengo530 1 year ago
@mengo530
aww that sad...why didn't you just tell her the truth...
hua011 11 months ago
@hua011 how can u tell the one u truly love when your parent didn't approve for the relationship?
mengo530 11 months ago
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gaomeeshengchang 11 months ago
@mengo530 you are not confidence in yourself cause you still bare hand for your momy and dady money hu... you cant do that for the one you love..
for me i will break from my mom and da to start my new life... if it make me happy what i am going throught,,,
one day they will understand,,,,, i will do anythings for my love and nothing in my ways...
goawaymenolikeyou 10 months ago
very sad.....tears.....
559hmoob 1 year ago
yug los ua neeg ib tiam tsua mauj ib zuag kev hlub xwb. Niamtxiv lub siab tsis zoo. ua nkuaj ua nruag nyob tsua xav tau tus ywg hlub. Niamtxiv tsis puab tias mob tug ntxhais lub siab npaum twg. Tuag lawm mam zoo niamtxiv siab.
cherryhlub 1 year ago
what a touch song. ;[ i hate parents that fuck do that shit.
ihatelove95 1 year ago
do they have the movies of this?
missConfused 1 year ago
i like how they r sleeping on leaves!!! LOL
NoonDoa 1 year ago
it would be nice if everything can restart.. but life is not fair.. eventho it is 21th century, parent hasn't change a bit to understand the young. maybe death is the only way can make them understand how painful when they separate a couple. love this song.
mengo530 1 year ago 2
@mengo530 i agree that parents now a day still are the same like back in Loas... wut can we all do to make them understand our love life and situtation.... like u said maybe death will make them understand their children's love for each other...
kamee07 1 year ago
@kamee07 When it comes to saving ur parent or ur love one from getting drown. Everybody always say they’ll save their parent bc there is nobody can replace their parents, but what about their love one. If u truly love someone wit all ur heart, u’ll know how it feel. She is ur life and the one u going to spent the rest of ur life wit. If I could back turn back times, I will jump in the river and die wit my love if my parent know how i love my love one.
mengo530 1 year ago
@mengo530 yea u r rite... most ppl would say that they would save their parent.. for me i would save my parent but if my love one drown i will die with him too...
kamee07 1 year ago
@kamee07 yes.. i regret for not jumping in and die with the one i love n now i suffer in pain bc i can't move on without her. i wish i can turn time back, i will tell her everything then jump in... If anybody ever came to cross this road or path..PLEASE think twice b4 u make the decision because one day u will regret like me hea. :(
umsloves 1 year ago 2
@umsloves ey i have a question... r u talkin about ur real life? did this really happen to you? sorry for being nosy but just wondering... n if it is true.. i am so sorry for ur lost ok.. i hope u will someone tat u will truely love now or later...
kamee07 1 year ago
I like the song
salinaherr13 1 year ago
Lol. The blood is so fake after they jumped off the cliff!! But the song is pretty sad. But you know what'd be worse? If you actually died with the one you love because others are stopping your love. And when you die, its just dying. Like, you don't get reborn and get to love the one from your past life :'( Sad luss.
igoteggigotchicken11 1 year ago
great job on cutting out the part they jumped off the cliff..lol
YLLJB 1 year ago
awwwwwwwwwwwww.........parents these days dont understand their childrean at all its just soooooooo sad
yokoyamazki 1 year ago 32
@yokoyamazki children these days can't distinguish between love and infatuation (infatuation blind you just like this mv and love does not)... and the 50% plus divorce today proves that they are not really in love.
moobdluag1 5 months ago
@moobdluag1 true true but still when u find ur true love it wont matter any more
yokoyamazki 5 months ago
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MaiPaKou 1 week ago
@yokoyamazki one day when you are a parents, you'll understand why they did what they did.
nujtxeej 4 days ago