I just watched Grey Gardens yesterday and haven't seen any real clips of lil' Edith that's why at first I think Drew's performance was "okay, she's good" but, when I saw this I was so impressed and shocked by Drew Barrymore's performance in the movie! Her acting was excellent! I can't even distinguish who is who. Drew captured and portrayed every expression, accent and even the looks of Edith perfectly!
I have a very different opinion of Jackie Kennedy after seeing this documentary and also reading more about this marvelously indearing women. Jackie should have helped them. This would never have happened in a Southern family. Family is family no matter what....................
This is a disgrace on the Kennedy's to allow their kin be without and having all that weath themselves. The human selfishness has stooped to a very low level.
What a character! :) Her free spirit is admirable with the horrendous circumstances they had to endure. They were used to people doing everything for them I guess, thus retreating into their own little world. It is a shame since she had a born talent for the written word at a very young age.
I'll answer my own question because I found the family history on some site. Her remarks about being "Southern" make sense now I realise because her father, Phelan Beale, was born in Tennessee and grew up in Alabama -- so that must be what's she's referencing. So many layers of history and personality with these women and their lineage.
As she speaks about pride and such, she says something about having a temper and that it's "Southern," but I don't quite understand...they lived in New York most or all of their lives, or at least I thought, and NY is not a Southern state -- does anyone know what she means by this?
Edie told the truth and her mom couldn't hadle it, so she made her feel crazy instead of appreciating how different she was.. Her mom really did a number on her by keeping her as a personal pet and never allowing her to truly grow!
People of a certain... shall we say... breeding? would not even think to clean... it isn't in their plane of reality. And one thing builds on the other... a maid leaves... the cook leaves... everyone leaves... Add to that depression...
"I returned to to the Catholic church, so I shouldn't be reading astrology." haha Yet she loved astrology more than any thing. She was an interesting woman. She obviously was mentally ill, but she came from a family the couldn't accept it. No Beales could be mentally ill. But she was also brilliant and loving; she was unique and interesting. In her youth, she was stunningly beautiful, a fascinating woman. I am looking for a book of her letters and poetry.
@HelenaNV In my experience, eccentric is just another name for being mentally ill. I think she definitely had some mental health issues. There is nothing wrong with that; lots of people have or have had mental illness.
Thank you for posting this! My fav from this film. Much to learn here concerning the Golden Rule. P R I D E ! They think you don't have it, or something. They don't realize how sensative a human being is! I don't mean a Scorpion or Saggitariun, but EVERBODY! People are terribly sensative! So they run ROUGHSHOD over EVERYBODY! How true Edie! Wise beyond her years. What a treasure she was. Miss you!
Little Edie was a good looking woman and doesn't look 56 at all. But it is so strange that they didn't do anything to sort themselves out... parents divorced when mother was 35, and she didn't do anything since then, living on their family's help... Little Edie looks slightly insane.
So much to learn here. She was using a glass to read. Why? She couldn't afford glasses. Where was her family? Bye bye.They lived in filth. Where was their family? They knew they existed & who they were. So close a relative to just discard. the mental illness is not an reason to say bye. I bought this film to see the trend. I know in my heart & I cry. The papers show why. It's greed that's why.
She's right there about Sagittarians, from personal experience I think that they make wonderful partners, stable, loyal, honest, genuine...
I wish Edie had found someone special to really appreciate her, she had so much to give, I hope that her mother realised what a kind and generous person her daughter was and the sacrifices she made through pure love and loyalty. Those sons of hers deserved a kick in the pants for trying to force her to sell the house by refusing to help in any way.
I think they both seem like such caring loving people. Little Edie seems to have such a wonderful childlike quality yet she is very capable. I think she is more of a borderline personality disorder. She was so pretty and so caring though and really smart and funny which borerline's usually are. They are fascinating though.
I love the Beale women. Big Edie and her beautiful voice. Try listening to her sing "Tea for Two" without a tear in your eye. Littel Edie was still a beauty, even with Alopecia. Her intelligence was still evident, and she was strong enough to take care of herself after her mother passed away.
People don't take the time to actually listen to what Edie has to say - they look at her outfits and the state of her home and just assume she's a nutcase. If people would just sit and listen to what Edie had to say, they'd realize what an eloquent, self-aware, intelligent woman she was. You can't expect her to be totally normal after the life she led - so what, if she's a little whacky? I'd prefer that to some boring, "normal" stick-in-the-mud, anyday.
Rape? Schizophrenia? I think some of you are over-anaylyzing. She was an immature, undisciplined rich kid--with no skills to serve her in the "real" world. She was brought up (not very well) to become a rich man's wife. Given that her mother had "lost" in the divorce (only the house + 300/mo.) and Little Edie's "free-spirit", it didn't happen. THIS happened instead. THANK GOD! Who would you rather see in E. Hampton? A bunch of class-climbing anal sphincters like Martha Stewart or the Beales?
Beautifully said!! Isn't it sad how so many people are so ahistorical in their thought? These deficient idiots shouldn't be allowed to even watch these swell dames. Pearls before swine, you undehhstaaand...
The "swell dames" in this documentary are preserved here on film for the kind few who can appreciate them. Everyone else can go watch the movie or pay $250 to see the B-way musical! (I've refused to support either.) Maybe they'll get to sit next to the sort of people who took over the Hamptons.
Something worth the $'s is the Maysles daughters GG book (2009). Includes all the film transcripts plus a vast chunk of what wasn't used. What you've seen is just the tip of the iceberg. The Ediths were far more fascinating, hilarious, shrewd, insightful AND crazy than you'd think. And actually, they really WERE in on the joke. They knew who they were. The sphinctery climbers you mention have no self-knowledge or worthy inner resources. Thus, the climb-climb-climb. They can keep it, the pricks
Hey, thanks for the recom on the book. Just read your profile. I should never have left NYC. Your brain is a precious commodity that I might appreciate even more than this documentary.
p.s. Don't you love those "sunspots" on the film, dancing around Edie's head when she's saying, "I think they got it awl wrawng"? and talking about how sensitive human beings are? Cosmic intervention! Better than drugs! (Big Pharma or otherwise)
The sunlight loved Little E, as did the moonlight. The camera loved her as well. The same could be said for Big E. In fact, all of the Bouviers were mediagenic, no matter what the circumstance: Jackie looks alluring even in that Zapruder film (she does, admit it) and as for John Jr., COMPLETE Bouvier, well, he never took a bad picture in the entirety of his brief life. His sis Caroline, on the other hand, is, well...um.. a Kennedy. Or more specifically, a Kennedy woman.
I kind of like Caroline's looks. No one in the limelight has an overbite anymore, like those actresses and models in the 1920's. But, like...um... the rest of the Kennedy women (except the one they labotomized), she just needs to eat something and get a haircut. What is with all that long hair, even in their 70's? I always loved Jackie in that pink, blood-splattered boucle. Too bad she and that princess-sister, who was also sold to the highest bidder, nearly put the kabosh on this film.
It's easy to judge Jackie, especially when one becomes a thrall to the Great Ediths. That being said, the entire situation was very complicated. The average person might not see the knots in it, having average, everyday priorities and all but these folks were different. Little E never tired of airing a host of hilarious complaints bout how shabbily they were treated by Jackie, but Big E totally got it. Jackie was the guardian of a mythic legacy, a paramount concern for "Old Society" families.
Haha--truly !! Nearly all of that family today laugh at the notion themselves. They are descendants of a Bonapartiste cabinet maker (albeit a very successful one) who emigrated to Philly when Napoleon fell. Their association with the Emperor's useless brother, also an emigre and who had been "King of Spain" for 5 minutes made them notable. They also had the luck to make their money before the industrial revolution--a "clean" "polite" finance-based fortune. No dirty mines or railroads here..
So to recap, you have a clan with the most dubious and fictional type of wealth (stock and real estate speculation) connected to the most dubious and fictional "royal" family in European history whose ultimate contribution is placing one of it's female members at the center of one of the greatest myths in American political history ("Camelot"--that reference, by the way, actually came directly from Jackie's mouth). Of course, we also have "Grey Gardens"..and perhaps this explains the Ediths ?
To hear that edie herself is thinking about that people called her schizophrenic changed my angle on the whole story compeltly! Maybe that was the reason she could not live alone? And big edie knew that and in fact, really had to take care of her? I thought little edie has schizophrenia in the first place. question is if it occured that early in the 50ies or if she´d become ill by living with her mother. What do you think? And where is this from, i dont have that szene on my òriginal`DVD!
Little Edie wasn't schizophrenic. She was set apart by society, thwarted by her mother, abandoned by her family, and looked upon as a bug under glass. She was lonely, that's all. Anyone would be, after all that.
Most of the insecurity and erratic behavior that people develop are the result of lonliness.
Edie, being the sweetnatured soul that she was, suffered deeply for the selfishness of those around her.
I would be willing to believe that little edie was manhandled by a few of those rich men, and when she said "stop it", she was "put in her place", as were ALL women of that time period. It was her decision not to live with those men for the rest of her life, and she was actually very uncompromising, and THAT is what made little edie different AND stronger than other people. She also lived by her convictions, come hell or high water, and then Hell and High water came to visit......
Edie's frame of reference is so different from ours, and what we see is a woman transcending her circumstances, not racting in a dysfunctional way. True, she was unsanitary, but she was simply not given the frame of reference to be a person of self initiation. Watch the way big edie interacts with her, and the things she says behind her back, and you can clearly see where the patterns originated. Edie was most assuredly NOT mentally ill, but still coping with a situation she did not choose.
Women of her era who grew up in her circumstances were simply not equipped to take care of themselves, and her mother, in trying to help her the best way she new how, hindered her development and self image. Edie was a true victim of her circumstances, and the choices that are available to women of her social class nowadays are EXTREMELY different from the choices available to women like her back then.
Many women in her era had to struggle with poverty&social discrimination too. They kept fighting though: Dorothy Dandrige, Lena Horne etc.
You can skip lunch for ice cream. House Decoration for a lipstick. But what can justify the unhygienic living condition? Were sweeping the floor once in a month too much? No. How about disposing empty cat food cans?
I love Little Edie, she had a really spirited, lively soul. But the Beales were irresponsible. 10 year old girls trapped in old women's bodies.
Edie was not schizophrenic. She held back so much in this movie. She was obviously coming from a frame of reference in which she was hurt by a few select people who happened to posess real external power, and her revolution was not an external one, but was fought internally. She dated many famous,powerful men, one of which could have provided her with the lifestyle she desired (J. Paul Getty), but she, for some reason, didn't end up with him, and as a result, her choices were extremely limited.
Is there any actual evidence that she was possibly raped or what have you by some men in her life?
I think there is definite evidence that little eddie was hurt by people or someone while she was away in New York, or else she wouldn't have run home... but what an abusive person her mother is. Either way, both of them are victims of their personal choices to some extent.
I have got crazy relations too! but I have no money or family connections so they remain quite Mad. If my family had some of those attributes they would just be wealthy eccentric types. Shame!
Edie has some sort of psychosis - as evidenced by her delusional thinking, paranoia, emotional lability. She can at least be diagnosed as having a Schizotypal Persoanlity Disorder. She is very lovable, but unfortunately mentally ill as well.
She was not schizophrenic. My mother has it, it's all about mental confusion, hallucinations, paranoia and hearing voices in their heads. Edie seemed to have full possession of her marbles!
my grampy B used to say that all the time in reference to the crappy carpentry of the new "developments" near his farm in connecticut... he was a STAUNCH yankee who believed in doing things with skill and care.. he was a great man.
This clip is one of my favorites, despite it being completely contradictory. --Which isn't a bad thing. It's almost comforting to hear her honesty, but also very humane, comparable ignorance.
Ooo...she's crazy, but I love her lol
SkankExpose 1 week ago
Little edie is so lovely
mmmitch643 1 month ago
She's pretty with great teeth. That's genetic, I think.
boomerlady 1 month ago
wow this is intense
rachbell555 2 months ago
She seems naturally intuitive and wise about life and people. She's adorable and lovely. Thanks for posting.
Bethycakesable 2 months ago
I just watched Grey Gardens yesterday and haven't seen any real clips of lil' Edith that's why at first I think Drew's performance was "okay, she's good" but, when I saw this I was so impressed and shocked by Drew Barrymore's performance in the movie! Her acting was excellent! I can't even distinguish who is who. Drew captured and portrayed every expression, accent and even the looks of Edith perfectly!
cute07nm 3 months ago
Scorp should NEVER marry Sag ... only Cap/Pisc & preferrably Cancer ... mayBe Virgo consider depending rising signs & moon ...
PlanetEarthSupport 6 months ago
Wow!
msjennable 7 months ago
She is captivating.
yolowell 7 months ago
i love her lipstick color! :)
kakadoodoo3000 9 months ago 3
I have a very different opinion of Jackie Kennedy after seeing this documentary and also reading more about this marvelously indearing women. Jackie should have helped them. This would never have happened in a Southern family. Family is family no matter what....................
scruffy281 10 months ago
I agree. The Kennedy's had lots of money. They should have helped them out waaay more.
Old money is never financially generous though... never. (not that the Kennedy's are old money).
xqeenx 1 year ago
She's obviously talking about Big Edie here.
Mike6E 1 year ago
This is a disgrace on the Kennedy's to allow their kin be without and having all that weath themselves. The human selfishness has stooped to a very low level.
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earthlyfriend 1 year ago
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Who is this dumb cunt???
katholickunt 1 year ago
i love you little edie
misslilac 1 year ago
What a character! :) Her free spirit is admirable with the horrendous circumstances they had to endure. They were used to people doing everything for them I guess, thus retreating into their own little world. It is a shame since she had a born talent for the written word at a very young age.
dawnten 1 year ago 6
Shes so cool, i like just to listen to her. she no crazy . just the opp.
kentucky9000 1 year ago 5
I'll answer my own question because I found the family history on some site. Her remarks about being "Southern" make sense now I realise because her father, Phelan Beale, was born in Tennessee and grew up in Alabama -- so that must be what's she's referencing. So many layers of history and personality with these women and their lineage.
YellowMangerCalling 1 year ago 3
As she speaks about pride and such, she says something about having a temper and that it's "Southern," but I don't quite understand...they lived in New York most or all of their lives, or at least I thought, and NY is not a Southern state -- does anyone know what she means by this?
YellowMangerCalling 1 year ago
i think its astrology not astronomy
joemack 1 year ago
@joemack oops; thanks for the heads up
theairinthebranches 1 year ago
Edie told the truth and her mom couldn't hadle it, so she made her feel crazy instead of appreciating how different she was.. Her mom really did a number on her by keeping her as a personal pet and never allowing her to truly grow!
traceymanzano 1 year ago
Little Edie rules..........she's wonderful.
hilljayne 1 year ago
she should get glasses instead of using a magnifying glass
pontyfaxjr 1 year ago
Eccentric is just a term used for the harmless, mentally ill upperclass.
Nevertheless, both were fascinating women.
MrBlanco45 1 year ago
So much more interesting that her cousin Jackie -- so so so much more naturally classy without the put-on, Just a natural.
TheDamienZone 1 year ago
her mother was very selfish....but both Edie's were afraid of being alone :(
0zombiepixie0 1 year ago
People of a certain... shall we say... breeding? would not even think to clean... it isn't in their plane of reality. And one thing builds on the other... a maid leaves... the cook leaves... everyone leaves... Add to that depression...
nmsoberguy 1 year ago
"I returned to to the Catholic church, so I shouldn't be reading astrology." haha Yet she loved astrology more than any thing. She was an interesting woman. She obviously was mentally ill, but she came from a family the couldn't accept it. No Beales could be mentally ill. But she was also brilliant and loving; she was unique and interesting. In her youth, she was stunningly beautiful, a fascinating woman. I am looking for a book of her letters and poetry.
frank47hammer 1 year ago
@frank47hammer I don't think she was mentally ill. She was just eccentric.
HelenaNV 1 year ago
@HelenaNV In my experience, eccentric is just another name for being mentally ill. I think she definitely had some mental health issues. There is nothing wrong with that; lots of people have or have had mental illness.
frank47hammer 1 year ago
Thank you for posting this! My fav from this film. Much to learn here concerning the Golden Rule. P R I D E ! They think you don't have it, or something. They don't realize how sensative a human being is! I don't mean a Scorpion or Saggitariun, but EVERBODY! People are terribly sensative! So they run ROUGHSHOD over EVERYBODY! How true Edie! Wise beyond her years. What a treasure she was. Miss you!
milesbjameson 1 year ago
love this video!! skitzo freenick lol
TheLadyjazzy1 1 year ago
2:04 - 2:08 is completely hysterical - Edie had such a great sense of humor. Just one of her many talents.
Mike6E 1 year ago 2
Little Edie was a good looking woman and doesn't look 56 at all. But it is so strange that they didn't do anything to sort themselves out... parents divorced when mother was 35, and she didn't do anything since then, living on their family's help... Little Edie looks slightly insane.
yellowwitch1 1 year ago
if the buthday is between septembuh thud...
michellethehawtie 1 year ago
who is she? i follow this link form a forum on a post about Jackey O
silvershields 1 year ago
@silvershields big edie was edith bouvier, jackie's father's sister. jackie's aunt, this would make little edie jackies first cousin.
RobNLynchburgVA 1 year ago
So much to learn here. She was using a glass to read. Why? She couldn't afford glasses. Where was her family? Bye bye.They lived in filth. Where was their family? They knew they existed & who they were. So close a relative to just discard. the mental illness is not an reason to say bye. I bought this film to see the trend. I know in my heart & I cry. The papers show why. It's greed that's why.
PROFILESophiaYates 1 year ago
Amazingly wonderful lovable woman
trannyache 1 year ago
I love her accent it's so gentle
cbrun67176 1 year ago 10
She's right there about Sagittarians, from personal experience I think that they make wonderful partners, stable, loyal, honest, genuine...
I wish Edie had found someone special to really appreciate her, she had so much to give, I hope that her mother realised what a kind and generous person her daughter was and the sacrifices she made through pure love and loyalty. Those sons of hers deserved a kick in the pants for trying to force her to sell the house by refusing to help in any way.
sleepypoodle 2 years ago 7
i love her. i wish i could have been her friend. what a darling
pastybaby 2 years ago 6
She is lovely
stu57stu 2 years ago 6
I'm sorry that she does it as a result of cataracts, but the way she reads things with her magnifying glass is so touching :)
lechaise 2 years ago 3
I wonder why the Maysles did not use this scene for the main documentary...she opens up so much in this part!
nycdre 2 years ago 6
I think they both seem like such caring loving people. Little Edie seems to have such a wonderful childlike quality yet she is very capable. I think she is more of a borderline personality disorder. She was so pretty and so caring though and really smart and funny which borerline's usually are. They are fascinating though.
cuddlyangl 2 years ago 3
I love the Beale women. Big Edie and her beautiful voice. Try listening to her sing "Tea for Two" without a tear in your eye. Littel Edie was still a beauty, even with Alopecia. Her intelligence was still evident, and she was strong enough to take care of herself after her mother passed away.
joolee75 2 years ago 5
did she have alopecia totalis?
because i notice that she also had no eyebrows
brabon1 2 years ago
People don't take the time to actually listen to what Edie has to say - they look at her outfits and the state of her home and just assume she's a nutcase. If people would just sit and listen to what Edie had to say, they'd realize what an eloquent, self-aware, intelligent woman she was. You can't expect her to be totally normal after the life she led - so what, if she's a little whacky? I'd prefer that to some boring, "normal" stick-in-the-mud, anyday.
Mike6E 2 years ago 6
This woman fascinates me.
I didn't know about her until Ch4 showed first the film, then the doc a week later over xmas.
Just very eccentric - an artistic part of me understands her in a way.
darganx 2 years ago 5
Rape? Schizophrenia? I think some of you are over-anaylyzing. She was an immature, undisciplined rich kid--with no skills to serve her in the "real" world. She was brought up (not very well) to become a rich man's wife. Given that her mother had "lost" in the divorce (only the house + 300/mo.) and Little Edie's "free-spirit", it didn't happen. THIS happened instead. THANK GOD! Who would you rather see in E. Hampton? A bunch of class-climbing anal sphincters like Martha Stewart or the Beales?
nauort23 2 years ago 2
Beautifully said!! Isn't it sad how so many people are so ahistorical in their thought? These deficient idiots shouldn't be allowed to even watch these swell dames. Pearls before swine, you undehhstaaand...
giannireb68 2 years ago 2
The "swell dames" in this documentary are preserved here on film for the kind few who can appreciate them. Everyone else can go watch the movie or pay $250 to see the B-way musical! (I've refused to support either.) Maybe they'll get to sit next to the sort of people who took over the Hamptons.
nauort23 2 years ago
Something worth the $'s is the Maysles daughters GG book (2009). Includes all the film transcripts plus a vast chunk of what wasn't used. What you've seen is just the tip of the iceberg. The Ediths were far more fascinating, hilarious, shrewd, insightful AND crazy than you'd think. And actually, they really WERE in on the joke. They knew who they were. The sphinctery climbers you mention have no self-knowledge or worthy inner resources. Thus, the climb-climb-climb. They can keep it, the pricks
giannireb68 2 years ago
Hey, thanks for the recom on the book. Just read your profile. I should never have left NYC. Your brain is a precious commodity that I might appreciate even more than this documentary.
p.s. Don't you love those "sunspots" on the film, dancing around Edie's head when she's saying, "I think they got it awl wrawng"? and talking about how sensitive human beings are? Cosmic intervention! Better than drugs! (Big Pharma or otherwise)
nauort23 2 years ago
The sunlight loved Little E, as did the moonlight. The camera loved her as well. The same could be said for Big E. In fact, all of the Bouviers were mediagenic, no matter what the circumstance: Jackie looks alluring even in that Zapruder film (she does, admit it) and as for John Jr., COMPLETE Bouvier, well, he never took a bad picture in the entirety of his brief life. His sis Caroline, on the other hand, is, well...um.. a Kennedy. Or more specifically, a Kennedy woman.
giannireb68 2 years ago
I kind of like Caroline's looks. No one in the limelight has an overbite anymore, like those actresses and models in the 1920's. But, like...um... the rest of the Kennedy women (except the one they labotomized), she just needs to eat something and get a haircut. What is with all that long hair, even in their 70's? I always loved Jackie in that pink, blood-splattered boucle. Too bad she and that princess-sister, who was also sold to the highest bidder, nearly put the kabosh on this film.
nauort23 2 years ago
It's easy to judge Jackie, especially when one becomes a thrall to the Great Ediths. That being said, the entire situation was very complicated. The average person might not see the knots in it, having average, everyday priorities and all but these folks were different. Little E never tired of airing a host of hilarious complaints bout how shabbily they were treated by Jackie, but Big E totally got it. Jackie was the guardian of a mythic legacy, a paramount concern for "Old Society" families.
giannireb68 2 years ago
@giannireb68 The Bouviers styling themselves as "Old Society" was certainly mythic!
nauort23 2 years ago 2
Haha--truly !! Nearly all of that family today laugh at the notion themselves. They are descendants of a Bonapartiste cabinet maker (albeit a very successful one) who emigrated to Philly when Napoleon fell. Their association with the Emperor's useless brother, also an emigre and who had been "King of Spain" for 5 minutes made them notable. They also had the luck to make their money before the industrial revolution--a "clean" "polite" finance-based fortune. No dirty mines or railroads here..
giannireb68 2 years ago
So to recap, you have a clan with the most dubious and fictional type of wealth (stock and real estate speculation) connected to the most dubious and fictional "royal" family in European history whose ultimate contribution is placing one of it's female members at the center of one of the greatest myths in American political history ("Camelot"--that reference, by the way, actually came directly from Jackie's mouth). Of course, we also have "Grey Gardens"..and perhaps this explains the Ediths ?
giannireb68 2 years ago
To hear that edie herself is thinking about that people called her schizophrenic changed my angle on the whole story compeltly! Maybe that was the reason she could not live alone? And big edie knew that and in fact, really had to take care of her? I thought little edie has schizophrenia in the first place. question is if it occured that early in the 50ies or if she´d become ill by living with her mother. What do you think? And where is this from, i dont have that szene on my òriginal`DVD!
xelaresom27 2 years ago
Little Edie wasn't schizophrenic. She was set apart by society, thwarted by her mother, abandoned by her family, and looked upon as a bug under glass. She was lonely, that's all. Anyone would be, after all that.
Most of the insecurity and erratic behavior that people develop are the result of lonliness.
Edie, being the sweetnatured soul that she was, suffered deeply for the selfishness of those around her.
TheKearnsmike 2 years ago 4
That was great what she said about people being sensitive.
JelloFarming 2 years ago 7
Little and BIG Eddie, unique in every way....a study for the millennium!
minx45th 2 years ago 3
I would be willing to believe that little edie was manhandled by a few of those rich men, and when she said "stop it", she was "put in her place", as were ALL women of that time period. It was her decision not to live with those men for the rest of her life, and she was actually very uncompromising, and THAT is what made little edie different AND stronger than other people. She also lived by her convictions, come hell or high water, and then Hell and High water came to visit......
thegenie1 2 years ago
Edie's frame of reference is so different from ours, and what we see is a woman transcending her circumstances, not racting in a dysfunctional way. True, she was unsanitary, but she was simply not given the frame of reference to be a person of self initiation. Watch the way big edie interacts with her, and the things she says behind her back, and you can clearly see where the patterns originated. Edie was most assuredly NOT mentally ill, but still coping with a situation she did not choose.
thegenie1 2 years ago 3
Women of her era who grew up in her circumstances were simply not equipped to take care of themselves, and her mother, in trying to help her the best way she new how, hindered her development and self image. Edie was a true victim of her circumstances, and the choices that are available to women of her social class nowadays are EXTREMELY different from the choices available to women like her back then.
thegenie1 2 years ago 35
Many women in her era had to struggle with poverty&social discrimination too. They kept fighting though: Dorothy Dandrige, Lena Horne etc.
You can skip lunch for ice cream. House Decoration for a lipstick. But what can justify the unhygienic living condition? Were sweeping the floor once in a month too much? No. How about disposing empty cat food cans?
I love Little Edie, she had a really spirited, lively soul. But the Beales were irresponsible. 10 year old girls trapped in old women's bodies.
bellynellykelly 1 year ago
Edie was not schizophrenic. She held back so much in this movie. She was obviously coming from a frame of reference in which she was hurt by a few select people who happened to posess real external power, and her revolution was not an external one, but was fought internally. She dated many famous,powerful men, one of which could have provided her with the lifestyle she desired (J. Paul Getty), but she, for some reason, didn't end up with him, and as a result, her choices were extremely limited.
thegenie1 2 years ago 8
Is there any actual evidence that she was possibly raped or what have you by some men in her life?
I think there is definite evidence that little eddie was hurt by people or someone while she was away in New York, or else she wouldn't have run home... but what an abusive person her mother is. Either way, both of them are victims of their personal choices to some extent.
bustthewave 2 years ago 3
Im studieing astrology now, and i find this video helpful. I love her. I wish she had a better life in the 70s.
margerineandturkey 2 years ago
"Schizophreeeenic" - adorable the way she says it.
goldengirl67 2 years ago 5
I bet if she had some meds she would've have been something else. She comes across as someone with a huge heart.
dragonfly4evr 2 years ago 3
@dragonfly4evr Yep, another zombie. She wouldn't be herself. Medication screws up your liver and your mind.
MsMesem 11 months ago
"I went back to the Catholic Church, I shouldn't even be talking about astrology"..LOL
therenia22 2 years ago 7
She's a nut , it's obvious...bless her heart..but very entertaining.
keed48 2 years ago
I have got crazy relations too! but I have no money or family connections so they remain quite Mad. If my family had some of those attributes they would just be wealthy eccentric types. Shame!
But I do love Edie.
homeplan20 2 years ago
Edie has some sort of psychosis - as evidenced by her delusional thinking, paranoia, emotional lability. She can at least be diagnosed as having a Schizotypal Persoanlity Disorder. She is very lovable, but unfortunately mentally ill as well.
pbunting 2 years ago
She was not schizophrenic. My mother has it, it's all about mental confusion, hallucinations, paranoia and hearing voices in their heads. Edie seemed to have full possession of her marbles!
xchampbearx 2 years ago 10
No, she had some form of mental illness. It is kinda obvious.
fionafan22 2 years ago
@xchampbearx thanks for this
shayrollins1 1 year ago
I love the capture of her in the light at around 1:58; it's beautiful.
kameyaki223 2 years ago 5
Something about her is beautiful... it comes from inside and I love the creative way she ties her scarves.
VercingetorixXIII 2 years ago 51
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She's the original "Drama Queen"
wendyglowworm 2 years ago
Drew berrymore nailed her on the talking & actions!! I love how interesting and full of stories she is!!
BabyTeela 2 years ago 6
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" I think they've got it all wruuuuuuonnng..."
grai 2 years ago
how have I been a gay man of 40 and just heard of grey gardens? Watching this woman is captivating.
marcushot1 2 years ago 5
she makes so much sense, even if she's crazy.
Sunnybunny2006 2 years ago 3
my god, to just spend a day with this woman would be incredible. sooooooo interesting!
elessar2k49 2 years ago 7
I rented a copy of "Grey Gardens" and this scene wasn't in it.
musiknouvel 2 years ago
yeah I mis-tagged it - fixed it now - this is from the folllow-up documentary, "The Beales of Grey Gardens."
theairinthebranches 2 years ago
Your kidding was it filmed at the same time by the Masons?
waitingtolive 2 years ago
"The Beales of Grey Gardens" has footage that wasn't in the original documentary.
MondoBeno 2 years ago
rent 'the beales of grey gardens'. it's another documentary
siltor67 2 years ago
This def. one of the best scenes! They said such profound things!
allends612 2 years ago
My favorite scene- so happy I found it. Thanks!
denstevj 2 years ago
Roughshod - there's a word you don't hear today - but a great word regardless.
goldengirl67 2 years ago
my grampy B used to say that all the time in reference to the crappy carpentry of the new "developments" near his farm in connecticut... he was a STAUNCH yankee who believed in doing things with skill and care.. he was a great man.
thebigskynow 2 years ago
where do you live that you don't hear that word on occasion? or the phrase "riding roughshod"?
BernardProfitendieu 2 years ago
thanks for putting this up
axuxaxux 2 years ago
This clip is one of my favorites, despite it being completely contradictory. --Which isn't a bad thing. It's almost comforting to hear her honesty, but also very humane, comparable ignorance.
I love little Edie! :)
ajewell1284 2 years ago 2