♥ Dating 101: Dress to Impress (for Skimpy or Frumpy Dressers) ♥

[Mizuki123000]

Oh my gosh thank you soooooo much you have helped me alot! I also like your attitude it gave me cofidense to ask the guy i like out and he said yes. So thank you so so much!

[girlsrock937]

I lovee your channel I totally SUBSCRIBED! (:

im intrested in a guy..But im totally not sure if he even likes me.. He will look at me from top to bottom and smile but im still not sure :/

[DramaQueen9324]

lol WAKE THE FUCK UP!

[singeress1]

honestly, i think i'm more of the homebody person. But the only difference is that I've really been trying to makeover myself. As in wearing makeup, clothes that fit, and i'm gonna try and not wear long jeans all the time like i have been. Oh, and reading seventeen helps alot. But yeah, i see where your coming from.

[ssf1998]

Omg i love ur stuff and i was wondering if u could do one thats just about make-up and how to put it on and stuff that would be amazing please and thank you!!!333

[cici19rihanna]

You are so funny lol

[mcbreezy16]

ugh, im halfway through freshman year and i went with the skimpy route. your so right that i only attract the guys that are DTB or whatever :/ i wish i could somehow take that back and not dress as party girlish! GAHH

[sappyscassie13]

WAKE THE FUCK UP!!!(:

[imistyify]

Girl please(;

[Brownieism14]

You're so funny and helpful! I trust what you say <3

[LiveForTheLols]

I love what she says at the end about making you the best you, that you can be <3

[IceOfficialMusic]

lol blah blah blah anorexic barbie (; you are so funny !

[DogBunnys]

Thank you so much

[15bubblegumlover]

I picked out my outfit then watched this.

Changed it!!!!

Thanx :)

[Emmerslovesyou]

I'm ugly...I'm fucked. :/

[love2lovefriends]

haha i love u! ur so awsome and helpful

[lily8394]

wake the FUCK up... haha you're awesome

[CarolineLikeSparkles]

Like, I started watching ur vids about a week ago, 3 days ago I got a bf ;)

[KeaneLuvr]

I like your in-your-face advice!! People need to heart it!

[applegreen7777]

thank u! u r very sweet and beautiful!!!!!

[mOnIcAlUb1]

maaaan i like your videos!!

[danglesmonkey]

When you say stuff in your high voice like when you said " but what if I have low self esteem?" it reminds me of Katy Perry when she was younger.

[kristina21032000]

you have so manyyy glassesssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!

[kazzababe10]

thank you so much haha. Its good for someone to poor out the honest truth, no matter how you feel, yet still being nice about it! :)

Helped me alot ((:

[LivylovesFashion]

loved this video <3

[MadiSkinner]

IM SOOO JEALOUS OF YOUR AWESOME STUFF(behind you) AND YOUR KNOWLEDGE OF DATING AND STUFF :D

[xxmissevolxx]

i like your videos :) realy helpfull

[hpxlove6]

I'm not a frumpy dresser but I do dress comfortable. But I do make it work. I act myself. I mean yeah I don't wear makeup (I'm in 8th grade so I shouldn't be anyway). I just wanted to say that you can dress comfortable and work it, like I do. I am so NOT frumpy.

[xxawesomegirl22]

woooww ur awesome

[purelylindsay]

I really like this video, you make some valid points while speaking with honesty. I'm glad you're giving people the blunt truth, it's what we need instead of pretending all the mistakes will be looked over.

[emy151]

Hey you guy don't be puting bad commet when she taking time out of her day to help you I meen come on! And who care of she say the f word she helping you. so who cares. don't worry about it not a big deal. Thank you so much you video really help and change my eyes.

[SojournToPerfection]

@mgmissmg2

Then don't fucking trust me :)

[amykhayam]

You are awesome! <3

[pengugirl123]

im not saying im the best dresser but if your wear a sweater with rainbow stripes what would i wear with that? a scarf? a necklace? a braclet? ANYTHING THAT WOULD IMPROVE THAT UGLY SWEATER!!!!! thank you!

[lilymonkey95]

my friend is already FUCKING beautiful and she doesn't wear makeup (shes like anti-makeup) and guys love that about her. i'm not saying girls shouldn't wear makeup is just guys love it if a girl looks good even without it.

[iamjade1000]

thank you so much you really help but can you do a make up video please that will help more.... thanks!!!! :)

[iamjade1000]

thanks you really help with that. but there is a guy i like and he only notices the eyes and the figure so is it alright if you do a make up video thanks alot!!!! :)

[caya4eva]

Girl! Thanks so much for helping me WAKE UP! And Ethat there's a whole lot of competition out there, and if I won't a guy I have to STEP UP MY GAME. You are right, and there ain't gonna be no more frumpy me. That girl? GONE. Thanks again! You're the best! K.I.T.! Much love:)

[funnyMAKElaugh]

I genuinely love your videos! I subscribed XD

[lawshorizon]

To be honest - “Less is more.” Speaking as a guy, one thing that’s a little unattractive to me are things like a girl wearing blue nail polish, two earrings that look like two big silver cookies, and something stuck in her nose – but it did get my attention! But Hey! – maybe that’s just me?

[SojournToPerfection]

@lawshorizon

:P Hahahaha. Maybe it is just you. I think I look flyyyy. ♥

[SparkleyEyes08]

im so glad i found you!!!!!!!!! u are sooo helpful thank u!

[2BaD2BNo1]

Next time you wanna say ugly, say cruttaz instead. :D 90% of people won't know what that means but it's funny. It'a a british slang word which means ugly. I like your videos, you really know how to keep it real. Best of British!

[eric0100]

my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is. it hard too find the right girl :(

[jules4socca]

im 13 and this vid just made me reaally sad cause im a tomboy who sorta has expectations by my peers that im not gonna wear makeup or let my hair out or wear a dress......sometimes being a guy just sounds so easy, none of this to worry about :/

[mandycupkakes]

he IS gonna deal with jeans and a t-shirt

[clayographer]

thank you so muchh you have very good advice

[clayographer]

thank you soo muchh you have very good advice

[Thekidsfromyesterda1]

What if u have a bigger nose:( draw attention to that!?:(

[snowangel689]

i think your jrunk tht day cuz um you need to wke the hell up nd relized you got a 12 pack of beer in your fridge with a condonm

[KeliRitchieOffical]

thanks now i realize that im kinda frumpy i wear flattering clothes and make up but my stupid frizzy hair ussualy looks like crap and u gave me a dose of reality thanks

[niay291]

I like someone at My gym and ofcourse i look like shit all the time lol how can I get his attention or to talk to me ?

[coolkat4532]

you r

[anngormanloves]

Hey! my freind dresses like a................"Party Girl" So To Say Im Die-ing to tell her that shes shows WAYYYYYY TO MUCH SKIN but im to.....nice i guess (A.K.A i have no back-bone) Is there a way i could tell her with out being mean? I mean She once wore DAISY DUKE shorts a belly top that showed A HELL of a lot of cleavage you seem what i mean? what do i say?!?!?!

[colebreanda9]

What if your like smaller in the bra area than everyone and your really insecure about that , how should you dress ?

[colebreanda9]

What if youur like smaller (*in the bra area*) than everyone annd your really insecure about that , how should youuu dress ?

[lovelifebby1]

Which category are you considered as in your opinion?

[shawtyblanca]

dang gurhl u hve hella glasses

[KayliO5]

Im generally a frumpy dresser, and you just made my day with that :) thanks for the insult!

[tennayaxo]

ahah, i like you

[SophomoresLovePie]

I'm kind of in the middle of skimpy and frumpy... i work on my make up and appearance but i dont work to much on it and i dont show much skin except for like tank tops and stuff but im friends with this guy and we've been friends for about three years.... over this time i have fallen head over heels for him and i was wondering if you could give me some advice on how to SHOW him this? rather than just tell him please?

[bonnie04]

Cont... and then I started reading fashion blogs to get inspiration for different ways to wear outfits from the clothes that I already had at home - and now I know for MYSELF how to put together great outfits, and which types of clothing best suits my small frame and short stature, and what hair cuts suit my face shape. All I can say girls is the internet is an amazing resource. You don't need to fork out cash for beauty or fashion lessons. Just search on youtube and fashion blogs! xxx

[bonnie04]

I used to think that I should just dress as comfortably as possible (in clothes that were so unflattering), but the truth was that I didn't KNOW how to make myself look better. All it has taken is the HUGE amount of knowledge on youtube. There are sooo many beauty gurus - I've watched countless videos and trialled so many looks out and now I know the PERFECT look for what suits ME! I stick to this and it only takes 10 minutes max on the train to work or in the morning and I feel totally rockin.

[TaylorBugLovesYou]

wow im in 7th grade and i think you should do a video about how to tell a guy that you like or love him or whatever it is because i think that tomorrow i am going to tell him but im so scard btw you have a ton of sunglass and wow i love your face when you say the f word plus you are so pretty i love your vids :p

[ReneeZimbodgi]

what if you're in the middle?

[DanielaElaEla318]

haah "PSH GIRL PLEASE"

[sonohrina2012]

this is really helpfull!!

[XoXEmo14AngelXoX]

You have really amazing advice in my opinion, thank you SO much! I love your videos <3

[jasminejayjayJJ]

u just helpped me out on the whole way i look at life just now..... and tht was a lot to take in but i think i understand wat ur sayin

[deryer]

Well, my school has uniforms so my choices are limited. End of story :)

[XPrincess30]

guys want to get laid and are extremely visual creatures XD

[abluestripedshirt]

a million hundred billion... haha I dont think so :) x

[MochaK97]

I've just come to the conclusion that I'm just ugly and always am going to be :/ oh well...

[JusticeLeeMckinney]

WAKE THE FUCK UP! lmbo lovvee itt xD

[gameman007112010]

i love this girl!!!!



[fanfetixx93]

U have alot of sunglasses!!(:

[punkyglam]

i think you just saved me from starting highschool with short shorts and a low cut shirt! thanks!

[TheDMW100]

<3 im skimpy. i mean i just dress this way to celebrate my body!!!!

[BeingYourself1]

You speak so fast :O

[SojournToPerfection]

@BeingYourself1

I know :( It can be a hindrance.

[BeingYourself1]

@SojournToPerfection the first time i heard you, i was like OMG it's hard to follow her, and now i am like she's so easy to understand :P

[GrrrSmiLeyx3]

Yourr So Funny Lmfaoo :'] & Yepp Totally Agree Appearences Do Matter :)

[SuperTaffyTV]

I try my best to look sexy but my family is poor. So some of this can't apply to me, so can someone give me ideas that won't be too spendy? I really want to look super pretty and rich but I can't so can someone help me with some cool but cheap stuff that is close to sexy and decent?

[BeingYourself1]

@SuperTaffyTV you should go to thrift stores, they sometimes have really cute thing, and buy thing on sale :)

[ItsEsmeeBitchez]

IF YOU A HOMEBODY GIRL, WAKE THE FUCK UP, YOU HEARD RACH

[MsMegaloveman]

Yaah you're right.

Appearances to matter.

[AngieSKINcare]

man i love you so much rach <3

[xXsammyluvXx]

lol i a bit of a party girl.. oops. :/

[GuysxxxHi]

Thank fuck someone finally said this! So true, I know girls on both ends of the spectrum who I listen to whine about guys not liking them or the wrong guys liking them. I always thought I was thinking unjustly as I personally enjoy the makeup and clothes and all the girly stuff when in a relationship I wouldn't say I'm high maintenance when it comes to myself I really and lazy girls who then complain drive me insane!

[musicmonkey1011]

You give great advice so I'm gonna ask you this real quick and if you could reply asap that would b awesome... So I'm kinda one of the "homebodies" I do my hair and makeup but my clothes I just always wear running shorts and a tank top and I don't have alot of money to go shopping I only have one pair of jeans and they are really big and they sag "/

[n1animallover]

ty rachel im in 8th grade and i have a very low self of steam but u showed me that if i try i can make myself look better and feel more confident in myself keep making these videos

[somya211]

I hope u have some suggestion

[somya211]

Hi Rachel, I know what u r saying but I don't know know what to do. Like I have been thinking about an over do but I am scared that my parents might bot like the sence of style. And I want to u r email I can't find it.

[gabriellefreedom2001]

Im gonna post this vid on my friend's facebook. She seems to think that the only way to get guys to notice her is to have her boobs or butt hanging out. I've tried to tell her for years you can dress sexy without looking like a ho. Classy not trashy. But she wont listen. But everything you were saying reminds me of her.

[michellerockz7899]

thanks all your videos helped me you rock

<3

[SilverPrincess13]

"WAKE THE FUCK UP!" Haha I love your tips.

[katieee14ist]

some of us dont know fashion or how to dress...er..to look good i guess i could say

[5jordo]

Dang girl you are really honest!! and all of your honest things make sence and i agree wwith!!

[theprincess857]

you have really helpd me i love you girl ! thank you thank you ! thanksss a loot !!! keep it up plzz ! :) all of my suporte and all of my love ! im veryy lazy and sometime i just leave my self and i don't tried to make my self look better ! but i was wrong ! i really am !!!!!

[OfficialJUSTINLuver]

Love how you keep it real (: yeah, maybe a line or 2 was a bit harsh, but once I thought Bout it , it was completely true.

[netty1ful]

i love ur tips

[Ultraviolight]

There are days I just can't be bothered to do my hair up, whack my eyeliner on, throw on a cute outfit... Those days I just want to scrape my hair back into a ponytail, throw my jeans and a band tee on and make no effort at all haha...

xox

[MissBretastic]

This will help me!!!!!

[yomammalova]

omg wat an abudance of sunglasses got thar

[frigginemo]

u give great advice 

[frigginemo]

when i go into high school should i experiment with my clothes and try new things like having more color?

[SojournToPerfection]

@frigginemo

OF COURSE!!!! You had to ask?

♥

[MyTemporaryAccount88]

As a man, I'll say this: You girls worry too much about jewelry etc. Yes makeup etc works wonders, but it should enhance your looks, not make you look like someone else from when you wake up.

Find a look that fits your personality, and that helps us guys finding someone we like much more, and prevent you from getting screwed. Well, that and thinking twice about what kind of a guy he really is.

Really cute btw ^^

[SojournToPerfection]

@MyTemporaryAccount88

Thanks for your input! It's always great to hear from the male side! :D

♥

[jokersgirlfriend45]

maybe can you do one on finding out wether or not your EX still likes you? can ya do one on exes.....

[MyTemporaryAccount88]

@jokersgirlfriend45 Ask him. If he's a douchebag about it, ask yourself if you really want to date a douchebag ;)

[BASHFULNIGUHH]

you know wassup(:

[EsyaFL]

Wow, your videos are so great, why do you have so few views!

[Starstruck6292]

okay, so i don't know which one i am.

i usually have a graphic tee, skinny jeans, && chuckk lowz. which are vans...

[SojournToPerfection]

@Starstruck6292

Eh, you sound borderline.

This video is aimed at extremes: total slobs and hoochie mamas.

Just do your best to look your best. :)

♥

[TheZoey9900]

@Starstruck6292 Hey! That's what I wear! Cool.

[MizSushiKitten]

i absolutely LOVE you. can you do a video for shy girls?

[SojournToPerfection]

@MizSushiKitten

Haha, there isn't a shy bone in my body! But I've gotten a few questions on overcoming shyness, so keep an eye out, because I hope to cover it soon.

Thanks for the love!

♥ 

[44Ashley4444]

amen to this video

[6776kc]

can u do a video on wat to say to not make ure self look like you dont want to kiss the guys your with but u think it is jsut to early to do that!!

[Bryaanna]

How to get the attention of a boy who doesn't really show his feelings.

[Bryaanna]

Could you do a video for those guys that are bad boys ?

[SojournToPerfection]

@Bryaanna

What do you mean?

[MsSakuraTomoe]

But.......what if you are only a 10 year old homebody? T^T

[SojournToPerfection]

@MsSakuraTomoe

Then why the hell are you watching this? TEN?! At ten, I was listening to the Spice Girls and watching Sailor Moon, not looking for dating advice. RE-LAX. ♥

[stephmturner1]

Can we be friends? I feel we'll be besties.  -3

[gleegirl25]

Oh my gosh! your a life saver! i really like this guy and i wanted to know what kinda dresser i am to look my best. thanks alot for the tips! (=

[SojournToPerfection]

@gleegirl25

No problemo, m'dear. ♥

[morkieee]

What Lip color/ lipstick or gloss are you wearing??! It looks so nice and natural!

[SojournToPerfection]

@morkieee

If I remember correctly, it's "Mystery" lipstick from Jordana. Blotted with some clear lipgloss. =]

♥

[darly3051]

How do Yhu Edit Your Videos?

[vampirelily91]

and im glad you talk about homebodies too. some girls i know wonder why their boyfriends leave them for a skimpy dresser. its like if you want to keep him, keep yourself in the game, even if you dont like makeup or you dont like doing your hair. do simple little things like letting your hair down and putting on some lipgloss and mascara. just make sure you stay true to yourself. woman are beautiful! it shouldnt be hidden or overdone. shoot i had to get that through my head. lol

[SojournToPerfection]

@vampirelily91,

Thanks for your responses.

Yeah, it was important to cover both extremes. While some people think that women don't "respect themselves" by dressing in revealing clothing, I think that women show lack of respect for their bodies by not taking care of themselves! Its always good to have a balance and I hope this video helps someone if finding theirs!

xoxo,

RACHEL! ♥

[vampirelily91]

@SojournToPerfection More like thankyou for the video. lol That balance is whats needed in a woman taking care of herself. I glad someone stood up for us & said it. I get tired of telling my best friend this. Her boyfriend told her once that i was beautiful & she got mad at me saying to tone myself down. lol I dont even show much skin! Well i had to set them both straight but the point is i know im doing my job right. Please keep up the 101 vids. Your so goregous and very insightful! ^_^b

[vampirelily91]

thank you! finally some one said it! there is no reason to dress like your a "dancer" at the local strip club. its disgusting. maybe if woman had more respect for themselves, they would have to worry about guys sending mixed messages and all that jazz!. listen to the pretty chicky in the box up top lol