How can I emotionally detach myself from my boyfriend and the relationship? It hurts me mentally and emotionally being in love with someone who doesn't seem to be all that serious about me or the relationship. I just want to feel free, I want to be happy and the only way I believe I will be able to accomplish this is by not being emotionally attached to him. I don't want to hate him or anything, I just want to have the carefree attitude that if it works, ok, if not, it's still ok.
@Famfriass Just keep moving forward with your life and try to forget about him. Dont linger on someone that hurts you, and as hard as it may seem you just got to stop thinking about him. Time is on your side, your gonna have a lot more happy experiences in your life, and a lot more relationships as long as you dont hang on to someone who is hurting you.
I have a no news watching rule alowed in my place. Its a positive emotions drama free zone here.:) As always great work! Keep making the videos and spreading the love dex, really does make a difference. I always feel better after seeing your vids, good karmas coming your way.
Great video, Dex. I really enjoyed this one. I used to be a pretty big news junkie but there was a moment when I realized how most of it just created negative emotions in me. Now I try to avoid it and I've been thinking lately about how I would go about watching news without negative emotions so this video helped a lot! Also, I can relate with what you said about negative people not wanting to hear anything about positivity. I have friends who I've talked to that reacted the same way to me.
Nice to see you making so many videos lately. I used spent so much time thinking about shit that i can´t chance. There are a lot of things wrong in this world, but if you put your time on them you see a lot of negativity/bad things. I think we should be focusing to make our own lives better and not spending time focusing on the social issues. You just get a headache.
to be serious for once....i have experienced so much death this year, personally, and worldly. I have been plunged head first into emotions that are so strong, they could break the thickest of steels. i never thought these emotions could exist, but I needed this. i needed these emotions to make me stronger and make me realise everything i need to, and its still happening. i am thankful that i'm on anti depressants because if i wasnt i dont think i would be able to handle it.
...this video. Im sure i speak for all of us when i say we love & appreciate what you do on here. You & ppl like you who try to get positive energy out there are ppl who give me hope in humanity. Im serious tho. Much love & serenity
...effecting the way i feel, cas like i said on fb, i didnt used tobe this way. I have gone thru so much shit in my 19 yrs of life & come thru with a smile. In fact, thoz experiences made me love & appreciate & be more positive in life. Thats why i dont get why this negative information flow is having such an effect on me. i think its the enormity of it all. Ur so right, i just have to find a way to get past it thats all. It will take some work. Anyhoo, i thank you tremendously for making (TBC)
...when others are happy & enjoy their lives. I used to get this soooo much from people..i cant TOTALLY relate!! haahha...but NOWi feel like IM kinna becomeing like onna themz who can see the negatives in things & that i HATE. Shit Dex, y the fuck would ppl write that kinna stuff to you, you make such positive videos, how the fuck can ppl attack you for the good shit you are doing?? i just dont get that. For me, i do believe that is is the things im seeing/realizing/reading that is (TBC)
...then just completely let go of it. But that is gonna take a LOT of time & working thru. Like i kno it will be the best thing for my own mind & therefore the others around me as well, cas like u said, how we feel & behave directly effects thoz arnd us, we totally absorb the vibes & emotions of thoz arnd us. Hahahaa ur SOO right abt thoz ppl who r negative & dont wanna see or hear from positive ppl. They avoid
positively like the plague, they make everything negative! haha They dont like (TBC)
...not to click on them. Its just so hard cause its just there & its hard to ignore them. Maybe my best bet wld be limiting my time on the internet in general (which i have been trying to do lately anyway) ...but yeah, dude if i was having a good day i would DEF stay away from negativity. It wld ruin my day :/ haha. & yeah...ok another thing u mentioned imma try n work on, not getting emotionally attached to the things i read or see...or like maybe i can read it, feel it at the moment, (TBC...)
Goin crazy is def a good thing :) Ok so i think ur so right. i mean, i dont watch TV but i seek out my own news sources thru internet & etc, which is just as bad- actually probably worse since thoz things are often even worse than TV news. Ur totally right, all u ever hear on ther is negativety, & i rlly like what u said, imma try & stay away from theez sources. Whenev i see something on youtube or the internet that i feel is gonna bring me to a negative state i will do my very best not (TBC...
theres always going to people that are going to be assholes i used to be one of them until i watched your videos. now i have a amazing girlfriend man (:
Good words. Thank you.
NIETZSCHEAN14 6 days ago
My advice: dump the television.
NIETZSCHEAN14 6 days ago
Subbed.
700007123 3 weeks ago
How can I emotionally detach myself from my boyfriend and the relationship? It hurts me mentally and emotionally being in love with someone who doesn't seem to be all that serious about me or the relationship. I just want to feel free, I want to be happy and the only way I believe I will be able to accomplish this is by not being emotionally attached to him. I don't want to hate him or anything, I just want to have the carefree attitude that if it works, ok, if not, it's still ok.
Famfriass 4 months ago
@Famfriass Just keep moving forward with your life and try to forget about him. Dont linger on someone that hurts you, and as hard as it may seem you just got to stop thinking about him. Time is on your side, your gonna have a lot more happy experiences in your life, and a lot more relationships as long as you dont hang on to someone who is hurting you.
xenoman4421 3 months ago in playlist More videos from Dexthepole
U made my day.
mmay67 7 months ago
Do you dex, or is that your actual name.
diggablemanny 7 months ago
I have a no news watching rule alowed in my place. Its a positive emotions drama free zone here.:) As always great work! Keep making the videos and spreading the love dex, really does make a difference. I always feel better after seeing your vids, good karmas coming your way.
kingrotty 7 months ago
i haven't watched the news in over a year now. i hear about the things i need to hear about.
garymccaffrey 7 months ago
Great video, Dex. I really enjoyed this one. I used to be a pretty big news junkie but there was a moment when I realized how most of it just created negative emotions in me. Now I try to avoid it and I've been thinking lately about how I would go about watching news without negative emotions so this video helped a lot! Also, I can relate with what you said about negative people not wanting to hear anything about positivity. I have friends who I've talked to that reacted the same way to me.
dkuyk91 7 months ago
tats are awesome, good choices.
Giablo1 7 months ago
Nice to see you making so many videos lately. I used spent so much time thinking about shit that i can´t chance. There are a lot of things wrong in this world, but if you put your time on them you see a lot of negativity/bad things. I think we should be focusing to make our own lives better and not spending time focusing on the social issues. You just get a headache.
killedbydeath24 7 months ago
HOLY SHIT i love dj Eco! nice taste in music man too bad his latest album was shit
jojo191519 7 months ago
Dex I love your videos. Your positive energy sure does reach me.
xtensitymusic 7 months ago
to be serious for once....i have experienced so much death this year, personally, and worldly. I have been plunged head first into emotions that are so strong, they could break the thickest of steels. i never thought these emotions could exist, but I needed this. i needed these emotions to make me stronger and make me realise everything i need to, and its still happening. i am thankful that i'm on anti depressants because if i wasnt i dont think i would be able to handle it.
joshipoo16 7 months ago 3
...this video. Im sure i speak for all of us when i say we love & appreciate what you do on here. You & ppl like you who try to get positive energy out there are ppl who give me hope in humanity. Im serious tho. Much love & serenity
~Yasmin
WeedPeaceSerenity 7 months ago 6
...effecting the way i feel, cas like i said on fb, i didnt used tobe this way. I have gone thru so much shit in my 19 yrs of life & come thru with a smile. In fact, thoz experiences made me love & appreciate & be more positive in life. Thats why i dont get why this negative information flow is having such an effect on me. i think its the enormity of it all. Ur so right, i just have to find a way to get past it thats all. It will take some work. Anyhoo, i thank you tremendously for making (TBC)
WeedPeaceSerenity 7 months ago
...when others are happy & enjoy their lives. I used to get this soooo much from people..i cant TOTALLY relate!! haahha...but NOWi feel like IM kinna becomeing like onna themz who can see the negatives in things & that i HATE. Shit Dex, y the fuck would ppl write that kinna stuff to you, you make such positive videos, how the fuck can ppl attack you for the good shit you are doing?? i just dont get that. For me, i do believe that is is the things im seeing/realizing/reading that is (TBC)
WeedPeaceSerenity 7 months ago 2
...then just completely let go of it. But that is gonna take a LOT of time & working thru. Like i kno it will be the best thing for my own mind & therefore the others around me as well, cas like u said, how we feel & behave directly effects thoz arnd us, we totally absorb the vibes & emotions of thoz arnd us. Hahahaa ur SOO right abt thoz ppl who r negative & dont wanna see or hear from positive ppl. They avoid
positively like the plague, they make everything negative! haha They dont like (TBC)
WeedPeaceSerenity 7 months ago 3
...not to click on them. Its just so hard cause its just there & its hard to ignore them. Maybe my best bet wld be limiting my time on the internet in general (which i have been trying to do lately anyway) ...but yeah, dude if i was having a good day i would DEF stay away from negativity. It wld ruin my day :/ haha. & yeah...ok another thing u mentioned imma try n work on, not getting emotionally attached to the things i read or see...or like maybe i can read it, feel it at the moment, (TBC...)
WeedPeaceSerenity 7 months ago 3
Goin crazy is def a good thing :) Ok so i think ur so right. i mean, i dont watch TV but i seek out my own news sources thru internet & etc, which is just as bad- actually probably worse since thoz things are often even worse than TV news. Ur totally right, all u ever hear on ther is negativety, & i rlly like what u said, imma try & stay away from theez sources. Whenev i see something on youtube or the internet that i feel is gonna bring me to a negative state i will do my very best not (TBC...
WeedPeaceSerenity 7 months ago 3
your awesome. great video
kankurou1010 7 months ago
Good video as always.
Monsterenergy791 7 months ago
have you heard of the secret?
AdderApple 7 months ago
@AdderApple I live by the secret! 24/7
Dexthepole 7 months ago 3
theres always going to people that are going to be assholes i used to be one of them until i watched your videos. now i have a amazing girlfriend man (:
tylerp232323 7 months ago
Why Should We Pay To Live.
Dear Mr President why do you want to shut off my lights and take my shelter away.
THEVC760 7 months ago
true. good videos dude. screw haters
sxearon 7 months ago
do you use cannabis?
more2yalife 7 months ago