Krissie Speaks about Sexual Orientation

[kattflikka]

thanks, this is very usefull. You're so wise and beautiful.

[mangric]

sorry dear i got to correct you gay was not ment to mean homosexual the original meaning of gay means happy i like sean , bummping uglyies i wanna see ur ex's , i see it this way stay out of my bed ill stay out of urs i think everyone should go by that rule diff stroke for diff folks and i never seeen the show of jake , your cute , whats on dream the catchers in the room?

[annabaker100]

i belive you on one main part of this i think everyone is bi cause i have been siting and talking to people about stuff and i have got most of my friends to see that there not straigh i have band lables from my self i cant stand them

[JoeyBoya]

I believe sexual orientation is.... Love, Attraction, Desire, Companion, Sex, ETC ;)

[eshb4u2]

you act like your thinker. your premise leads you to the point that there is no truth, think in circles, and the mind becomes mush.

first its "not your judgment to make" then you make the judgment for all of us?

ring-around the rosey, pocket full of posie, abra-kadabra we all cant think!

[TakevaSitoku]

I believe that what you say is true. I think that everyone is bisexual, and I think that is natural. It's logical to believe that being "straight" is natural, but since we see it in animals that aren't smart enough to tell that they are gay it must be natural. I think that the average person will deny being gay until they 100% believe it and it makes absolutely no argument to them that they are completely straight.

[InternetOccultist]

Bisexuality is common in nature, so why not in humans?

[RapelandLover]

Krissie, you should do a video on gender

[daganliberal]

I don't think everybody is bisexual though. I use to think so, but I did some more research about sexuality. A lot of people who may have this once-in-a-lifetime attraction to a sex to which they are not attracted can be caused by a certain feminicity in a male or a masculinity in a woman. Although, 40% of humans are some kind of bisexual. It isn't 50-50 as to which sex a bisexual person is attracted.

Anyway, I look at the kinsey scale:

[daganliberal]

0-heterosexual

1-bisexual

2-bisexual

3-ambisexual

4-bisexual

5-bisexual

6-homosexual

7-asexual

8-pansexual

[daganliberal]

Well, linguistically, "gay" and "straight" are slang. But it is true that "homosexual", "bisexual", and "heterosexual" both mean sexual purposes. However, gay and straight have the slang conotation of being both a homo/hetero/bi sexual and homo/hetero/bi phile. Phile meaning that you show love.

I'm sorry, my dad's an english teacher. I have to learn about this stuff all the time.

=P

[bluebell091]

i totally agree with what u say i was brought up as christian,but i had it rammed down my throat so don't go to church now because of it,but i believe that everyone should be treated the same,i have a lot of friends who are gay and they are really nice people,think of it this way if you were a employer would you ask a potential employee if he or she is gay,straight or bi before u hire them encase their sexual orientation would somehow affect their work?

[dryadivine]

I'm attracted to your vocal mannerisms.

[bananababy1017]

god is good

[Ichliebemusikundybd]

Wow! That was brilliant. I'm not sexually attracted to anyone, but I'm affectionately attracted to people of both sexes. People look at me like I'm a unicorn, because I don't see any kind of sexual activity to be exciting, but I smile anyways. I do believe that everyone is biromantic as well, simply because love is all about the person beneath the exterior, not their physical appearance, if people could just be more open minded, they would be surprised, at who they may fancy romantic wise : ))

[thelawofone]

I concur my lady...Not only am I sexually attracted to you but I also find you quite intelligent. I appreciate your posts, very thought provoking Thanks.

~Love&Light~

[carlototix]

amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Dara454as]

_YOURFREEGAYWEBSITE._COM_ The 2nd and 3rd dunk are both technically difficult. The 2nd dunk, the guy spins reverse which the body isn't used to which makes it extremely difficult...Carter did it and the going off one foot (the right foot) and dunking with the same hand is ridiculous.The 3rd is just insanely difficult cuz it's a straight up dunk with no run and between the legs...crazy...hopes Rudy chooses one of these.

[AlexisKahla]

Wow.

Have some decency.

[dannyjam]

i totally agree and totally luv u but i dont believe everyone is Bi. If angelina jolie was lying in front of me with her legs open I'd vomit on her vagina just to cover it up.

[bluebell091]

eww that is gross

[RabidKyuubi]

I'm speechless.That was very well put...

[honolulugold]

I agree with you in just about the whole video. I don't know if I would use a fake character with contrived dialog to bake up my argument though. Not saying that the quote isn't right though. I don't think being gay or straight is simply based on sex, but it's the clearly the biggest difference between the two people. It is the difference in sexual partners that is the division amongst people more than any other issue.

[dr0d0uk]

i do agree with what u are saying krissie...:)

[daganboy]

If I were gay, I would be attracted to the young version of sean connery

[drawfourwild]

that was insightful.

you explained it with ease, also referring to a Dawsons Creek scene :)

[MonkeyOctober]

Labels are for soup cans,not people :)

[MonkeyOctober]

You rock Krissie!

[ToxicTwizzler]

It's official! you are absolutley amazing!

I totally 100% agree with you. What you speak is amazing and so please, keep talking! Because we need way more people like you in this world! =]

[RoseyDanes]

Wonderful! Beautiful! I wish I could meet you in person. I ABSOLUTELY agree with you that we are all bi. Could not agree more.

[tinaking69]

so ive watched your videos. you're a smart girl.

[brahud]

Unless you are perfect...don't deal with other people. The only reason you would talk shit on others (unless you are perfect), is because you are trying to focus or divert the attention of your imperfection onto others. Only when you face your "demons" or " dragons" or "personal issues" will you go to where you are happiest.

[diva3d]

i think that people should not be judged for the choices they make or who they are its not thier fault that they are attracted to tha same sex and so speaking as krissie said it really dosnt define the person an i really rate this video 100% and people should reall picture it the way she looks at it even though im straight i think wat she say make a lot of sense....

[ginkiba3]

This video is so straight on, Human sexuality and menality is extremely complex, its not all about hormones and turn-ons, because of our intelligence we can't fathom the deeper concepts of our own sexuality, causing all this Straight/ Gay mayhem.

[MercysHollow]

A bit confused if someone is attracted (sp?) to someone and it is not in a sexual way why then would you use the term Bisexual?

[WiccanLoner]

I believe the term would be asexual.

[mysticaxxstar]

the term "asexual" is referring to something that can reproduce by itself..

[Davethesilentone]

it could also refer to the orientation of a person who is not sexualy attracted to anyone.

[xxWiCCANxxLOVExx]

what sexual orientation are you? and can u talk aout the other orientations?

[Twightwee]

Krissie, you should totally do a video on Transgenderism! You are so smart and introspective that I would love to hear what you got to say!

[krissiespeaks]

I may be doing a collaborative video on transgenderism with a friend of mine, but it's just a thought right now... But that is a possible future video ;)

[xxWiCCANxxLOVExx]

u should!

[CrimsonKing101]

F A G HA G

[krissiespeaks]

Are you offering me the position?

[StarShine87123]

Ohhh, what't the matter Crimson, did your fag-hag leave you behind. Are you looking for another one? I'm sure we could find one for you.

[CrimsonKing101]

Bit touchy arent you. Did i adress you? Maybe you cant see a joke. Unfortunately you left your sense of humor in your mothers uterus.

[draygonicewing]

Wow...how far our understanding of each other has come if we can make comments such as this when someone has a different opinion. Perhaps it is you who needs to get real with yourself. Hate never solved anything.

[theenchantedkitty]

YOu should do a meditation video, will U??

[Flid666]

You= Gorgeous :)

[DonnieTheWhite]

u r my hero lol

[GaijinWizard]

If I understand you correctly, you are stating simply that love is love, regardless of the genders involved. If so I agree. Too often our labels (I'm glad to hear another speak of labels the same way I have been for a number of years now) have been used to seperate us as people. We have our differences, of course, but to use those differences to attack another is a sign of an immature species. Yours is the voice of reason, my friend.

Blessed be.

[turtle6fish]

I was referring to the people who blame christianity for starting controversies and dont give me a fucking serman on my opinion either please.

[turtle6fish]

I dont think people should keep fucking blaming christianity for fucks sakes because the world has controversies over wether or not your gay or straight. If your gay or straight CHRISTIANITY didnt do anything, its the world that put the controversey out there.

[Donutmangreen]

amen...I like seeing other intellegent people out there

[jimmybrimmz]

this is a really good video, you seem very clever.

[JazmineTheWerido]

So True x

[charmedboy666]

you r incredible insightful and you think alot of the things me and my friends think and im going to add you as a friend right now.

[Malaxaphobia]

Yay. You're the only person on here that has

said that they thought everyone is bisexual. I completely agree.

[diegoekohn]

It was a pleasure hearing your arguments. Thanks for your video. You are very attractive too.

[demolitionbarbiedoll]

Dude/Gurl/sweetie... Get some fem-mones hehe...puberty is getting the best of you, lmao

[slycooper007]

I agree with the whole "being gay doesn't mean your a bad person" thing. I am Christian, I do believe that being gay is a sin and whatever, but I'm not going to discriminate against gay people. If you're gay, I'll hang out with you if your an good person.

[demolitionbarbiedoll]

YIKES!!! Ur a real gurl hahaha

[draygonicewing]

And being human means I have sex...

Sex is sex...no matter who with. Yourself, man, woman...PVC.

It's called sex. And yes, were all BI. You ever seen a man who likes watching a porn with a guy that has a flaccid member? Nope...lol

I know a hottie when I see one, you included. But men get me off, but I don't have enough experience to know for real.

Geez I need to get laid...*sigh*

Hi, I'm Lisa and I am a 30 year old virgin...*cringe*

[MisterCool]

I kind of see what you are saying but I'm a little confused. If a guy only has sexual arousal and desire for women yet finds himself on occasion attracted to another guy for other reasons (EX tone of voice, good looks, style) that never gets to the point of arousal or sexual desire, does that mean he is bi??? I always thought to be bisexual, a straight guy would have to at least want to get sexual with another guy. Does nonsexual same-sex attraction give someone a fraction of gayness?

[pmccarthy001]

Yes, I agree that we're all bisexual. Not necessarily in sexual behavior, but in spirit. You seem fine to me, regardless of whether you choose to say your bi, gay, or straight... but yes, I also agree you, and I are just people, human beings. Behaviorally, as far as 'real' people are concerned, it'd probably be most accurate to say I'm... asexual. As has been said before, I ain't doing any business, if you will... However, I have been attracted, even sexually, to both men and women.

[collegeguy2009]

i agree in some extent.

[marykeniger]

Brilliant, very good. THank you for those thoughts. I agree!

[mm1048]

sorry to break the news to you buddy but christianity is a myth. check out the book "the christ conspiracy: the greatest story ever sold" by acharya s.

[fruitikay]

cute kitty in the background. :)

[collegeguy2009]

Damn rite itt is... I'd lurv to hear itt sumhou.

Christianity had caused controversies worldwide, ranging frum forced, coerced conversions to stoning, lynching and beheading women and homosexuals for condemning and denouncing patriarchy.

[mm1048]

being gay is not a choice. fuck the bible.

[cammyguy]

Well, there's no point countering a childish remark like that. Someone is stuck in their ways and finds it easier to blaspheme the Holy Word of God instead of looking at the cold, hard Truth. I'm sorry, but I think we're done here. I'll still pray for you and pray that the seeds that I have planted here will someday sprout in your life. God loves you. Please, don't keep rejecting Him. Ask Him if He is real; honestly, in your heart. He will draw near if you do the same! I promise! :-)

[mm1048]

you dont have to be a christian to believe in god. your definition of "god" is not the same as mine. lets just agree to disagree. if you want to believe in the bible, thats your choice but please dont cram your religion down other peoples throats. thank you.

[cammyguy]

There is only one God. No cramming; I'm stating the Truth. I have decided today that I can better spend my time praying for people on forums instead of doing these stagnant comments back and forth. So, I hope and pray that you come to know the Truth and know it SOON! I am obliged to tell you that Jesus is coming back at any time and He loves you very much. That's all I can say. Repent, turn, and serve the King. Like being gay, it's your choice. Choose LIFE!

[eancawhither]

Great Video.

[mm1048]

its so easy to be homophobic if someone is straight just like its so easy to be a racist if someone is white. everyone is different so try walking in someone elses shoes for once. great video krissie.

[cammyguy]

I am not afraid of homos. I feel sorry for them. They gross me out, but I am not afraid of them or their blatant sin. Haha....your logic is pathetic! Homophobic:straight as is racist:white?!?!!? What in the world. I don't even need to debunk that. It's too obvious. Haha! "Everyone is different" ....Oh, please!!! :-)

[mm1048]

cammy, you say that youre not afraid of "homos" but you obviously hate them because of their "blatant sin". you obviously got this crap from the bible. if you believe its a sin to be gay, then you must believe that its a sin to eat shellfish, wear fabric made of two fibers (cotton/poly blend), touch the skin of a pig (football), plant two different crops in the same garden (tomatoes and cucumbers), etc. try reading another book besides the bible and you just might learn something.

[cammyguy]

I know that we may never come to terms; I will still speak truth into darkness! I know some gays and I truly don't fear them. I DO NOT HATE them! I hate their sin/lifestyle. I hate their CHOICE to act homosexually. This is from the Bible, which makes it truth. Yes, it's a sin to be gay, but the rest are not sins. I am quite learned, and the Bible is the single best book to read. I will pray for you and others like you to see Truth. Jesus is coming back, so PLEASE be ready. You only get one shot!

[smartblonde94]

This is exactly what I think. People are people. Why do we have to put a label on everyone like food cans?

[pateldevon]

She means that we are bisexual in a way that we are attracted to each other in a way.

[ReallyNow9]

Tolerant? What exactly, are you "Tolerateing"? I think someones a bit insacure about which side of the line he plays on...

[cammyguy]

I am a man, married to a woman; the only way it should be! Guys should only have sex with their wives, not with any other women and not with men! Krissie is tolerant of the bi-sexual/homosexuality myths. I'm not tolerating any of these lies or deceit, "ReallyNow9," and I'm not ashamed of it. I laugh at your comment about ME being insecure. My wife would agree that I am a very secure man. So, sorry you're lost and confused. God's Word offers truth and clarity. It's there if you want it. :-)

[ReallyNow9]

And as a man married to a woman, do you have any idea what its like for homsexuals? No. So how can you say my love is anyless moral than yours, without using the bible? Even if you don't accept it we will go about living our lives, working, keeping homes, and raising our children, while you're doing nothing about it except wrinkling your nose because of a resligiouse superstition. maybe you're not insacure, but you are one thing, and that's extremly rude.

[cammyguy]

Homos are not a race or a culture. You are sinners. Period. But we are all sinners. Some of us just ask God for forgiveness and others justify their sins and call it an "orienation" or a "lifestyle" or a "preference." Yes, you prefer to sin; your lifestyle is one of sin! How can you honestly accept that it's normal or right for two males or two females to be intimate? It's not anatomically possible! It's NASTY!!! I really don't care if you call me rude. I speak the truth and I'm not ashamed.

[ReallyNow9]

We are people, you're right it's not a culture it's just, love, it is NOT a choice, and thanks hun but i'm a witch, so your whole spheal on sinning just smells like superstition to me. I "justify" nothing; I don' t have to, what i do with my wife is no more wrong than what you do with yours, and trust me, it's very possable ;) your "truth"is irrelavant, you have nothing to do with our lifestyle, accept, or stay out.

[cammyguy]

You are being deceived! What seems like love is wrongful lust. It's a Hellish perversion of what love is supposed to be. Flee from this evil. It is YOUR choice! A witch?! You are in MORE danger! The demons can keep you in darkness, but I am telling you the way to freedom! Take it! Jesus offers it to you! Don't reject Him again! It's not MY truth, it's THE Truth! I will not stay out. I will not accept. I will fight the spiritual darkness and the Lord will prevail! Amen!

[ReallyNow9]

You sound like a lunatic, take a breath hun, blessed be... Deceived my foot. I tryed years to be with men, and every time i ended up crying and becoming self abusive and only hurting the man i was with, some people simply can, not, be with the other gender in intamate ways. If you have any real reasion, disregarding your religion, i would love to debate. Also, "amen" does not, end everything, thank you for your concern nonetheless.

[cammyguy]

(PT. 1)I know it seems loony to you, but ironically you can't see that you're deceived because you're deceived. We are corrupt, immoral people; all of us! The Truth goes against our flesh, but we should not do whatever we feel like. I feel like looking at porn sometimes, but that is a sin against me, God, my wife, and even our future children, so I must fight and overcome those carnal desires. It's not easy, but right choices rarely are.

[cammyguy]

(PT. 2)I'm sorry about your poor experiences with men, but that doesn't make you homosexual. You chose that path of your own free will. Relationships without Jesus in them are either doomed or are going to be very hard. Some may be abusive, unfaithful, etc. Not to say that all Christian relationship are great 'cuz they aren't. If you follow God, wait on His timing, and are faithful to obey Him; He can bless you with a man/relationship that you thought was only in your dreams!

[ReallyNow9]

Also, I've always loved women, before i tryed men and after, if was under the presur of midwestern life I tryed males out and it wasn't right, are you seriously trying to say I should do what feels wrong? how unnatural. how confused. Your happyness may come from a book, and thats fine, but to use that book to take away other happyness is just, plain, sick.

[cammyguy]

Yes, I'm saying that you should do what feels wrong to you! Because the carnal self wants to sin (do what you do with your 'wife.') It feels right to do that, but that doesn't MAKE IT right! It's unnatural for two females to be intimate AND YOU KNOW IT DEEP DOWN!!! You are just too prideful, stubborn, and EVIL to admit it! My happiness and joy come from knowing the Creator! The Bible neither grants happiness nor takes it from others. The Holy Word of God is Truth and love!

[ReallyNow9]

Can you for TWO SECONDS stop salicating your god like a common whore? It's right: you wouldn't know, obviously. Stay out niches you arent apart of it you aren't going to be cival. It's wife, not 'wife' acording to my religion, i'm wed.

[ReallyNow9]

Again, WITHOUT, your superstitions hun, I didn't ask for a sermion, i want hard, cold, facts religion free of how I am affecting the quality of your life and why you should care. Ought not preach to a witch, we woun't agree with Christian values because your book tells you so, you have to defend that anser tooth and nail and so far you've given me fluff.

[cammyguy]

Final post: I care because I don't want ANYONE to go to Hell. Many will reject Him and spend FOREVER there. I love you (yes, I do!) and I care about your heart and soul. I can better spend my time praying for people instead of endless commenting. You may never see the Truth by me posting it continually, so I hope and pray that you learn sometime SOON that Jesus will return. He loves you very much. Repent, turn, and serve the King. Like being gay, it's your choice. Choose LIFE!

[ReallyNow9]

Thank you, for your concern, yet again. You're right, it woun't happen. I'll go to "hell" rether than give up whats right. Love you too, blessed be.

[WiccanMann04]

Could you please stop your Bullshit Fucked-up Preaching? because we, the world, are sick of it. She is just trying to make a point, so SHUT YOUR RELIGIOUS MOUTH UP!

[WiccanMann04]

this message is for cammyguy

[tabathajc1981]

im a female attracted to men and women...but i am sexually attracted to women...

[Homie0static]

Gay can not be a choice because if it is then that means that hermaphodites have a choice . The sexual preference comes from the genetic information. Also, sexual preference comes from arousal which involves genital engorging. Who chooses something that is a bodily cycle. Feel free to expand (and explode).

[Grimli]

Excellent points. Society is way to hung up on sex.

[KernAshraven]

Very good presentation,Im not gay but I get what your saying.

BB

Kern

[texcastaway]

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[2HoleDraw]

"Gay" or "Straight" are gender preference labels, not than sexual orientation labels. I've met plenty of gay people who have had sex with both genders and enjoyed it, but prefer to spend their time devoted to the same gender as themselves. Then there's many people who are having same-gender sex who only think they are gay. For them it's all about the sex.

[2HoleDraw]

So being gay is all about having sex?

[smokepigbear]

She didn't say that. On the contrary, she said it doesn't define a person, but it does define the *label*.

[Ilyblm]

okay so...

im bi leaning towards "straight"?

im attracted to males

but truthfully i find myself attracted to a lot of female characteristics

mostly not sextually

thanks :)

[DeathDealer48]

im gay well sexually but i do feel attracted to women in a strange way not to sleep with them or even have a romantic relationship but to be close to them say like will and grace that is more than friendship that is love

[ShareBear80]

I'm attracted to your intelligence, your knowledge, and your strength.

[smokepigbear]

I second that. I'm a gay man but if attraction means I'd very much like to be there spending a good time enjoying your intelligence and courage, then I'm VERY much attracted to you. You're tops, girl! :-)

[Turpsup]

Sexual preference

[trance609]

well said!

[FloydTheBarber77]

These are some GREAT points.

I really believe everyone is bi to a certain extent.

Great vid<3

BUMPING UGLIES! My dad used to say that all the time!

HAHAHAH!

[bgd841]

My favorite comment I have stealen from my mom is "If all the chruch's said, 'oops, we were wrong, your suppost to be gay, not straight' then how many people who have said 'being gay is wrong' would become gay after blasting gay people?"

[thisisrJ]

Haha. No gays in the military? DOUBTED. And you're right, its not just sex. Theres more to sexual orientation than sex, its basically how you love. Just stop the awesome-ness, its too much haha :D

[krissiespeaks]

No, I meant to imply that they weren't allowing gays in the military for a long time. Now, they do. But before, it was forbidden.

[thisisrJ]

Thanks for putting it out: Everybody is Bi-Sexual. Again Krissie, you rock :)

[Esmireth]

I am attracted to your ability to express your opinions so passionately...

and you have pretty eyes too.

[kinga8l06]

hmmm

[unmoved4]

i totally agree with you!

[steev75]

this video is brillaint thank you and so apt at this time of yr in the uk, its pride weekend :-) thank you for helping add to making this yr great for me :-)

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[brucer20]

Homosexual relations were just different than heterosexual with its own dynamics. The condemnation was more pronounced by Martin Luther and John Calvin.

[brucer20]

Have you thought about forming a group on stickam?

[tusgodeireadh]

I agree with everything that you have said. Thank you for this video....

[regevaway]

Damn!!! You've read my mind! I always say everyone is bi-sexual in some way or another!! There's got to be at least one person with the same sex as yours you'll be atracted to in this world, not necessarily physicaly. Good one Krissie!

[wangstah2007]

exactly as you said Krissie

[wangstah2007]

being gay is not for sexual purposes gay people want to be loved and be with someone they love

[bubuar]

Thanks for your video Krissie...I totally agree with you, me being gay is not only for sex, it's also for love, attraction and connection with my partner.