Why I answer all Formspring questions / Clarifications

[TheSweetestVegan]

Why are people so silly! Thats like asking Christians why they are sinning EVERY SINGLE TIME they sin. I feel you annoyance.

[squeak140]

Do you think Porter is always sick because he goes to daycare and around so many gems?

[InformationMommy]

@squeak140 I am sure that is what it is... and there are studies that back up the fact that kids that attend daycare do get sick more often... however once they go to school (kindgergarden and what not) they are actually sick less often than children that stay at home.

[08sarahrangel]

Now I'm curious as to what happened with Lucy lol. And if you are talking about jolepole lucy..? Oh and btw I am a Christian, and the bible says you shouldn't judge. So all the fellow Christians that are hating on you are not setting a good example, and I'm ashamed. One more thing, I loved your chicken nugget vid.. But it did make me want chicken nuggets sooo bad haha.

[InformationMommy]

@08sarahrangel I have already talked about Lucy far too many times. And yes I totally agree... christians really shouldn't be judging one another :) And thanks :)

[tygersflowerz]

no disrespect but i'm sticking with the baby vids/baby questions. anything addressing non-mommy/baby-care related drama... i'm not even commenting on anymore. any question that addresses any such things, i'm just skipping over. that raunchy lucy question was too much. and i honestly feel it was passive-aggressive to post it... but again, my opinion. addressing it at all is adding to the drama, and being just as dramatic as them. again, my opinion. but that's how i feel.

[InformationMommy]

@tygersflowerz And yes I totally agree... that ridiculous Lucy question was just out of control ! I know how you feel about me addressing all of the questions...

[tiffyboo692]

It's really irritating..And you're very welcome

[InformationMommy]

@tiffyboo692 Aww thanks

[frowniebrown86]

love ya, ya jackass!! hahahaha

[InformationMommy]

@frowniebrown86 I love ya too, ya jackass :) LOL

[SuperArmywife4life]

I think it's horrible how you have to validate every little thing.......I love your videos!!!!

[InformationMommy]

@SuperArmywife4life I know... and thank you so much !!!

[westminniechica]

If you feel blessed, then you can feel blessed. If you are an atheist, that's fine, if you are not, that's ok too. People change over time, my opinion on things sometimes changes from day to day. I think it's ridiculous that people are holding you up to a certain "standard" based on one thing you said. Just because one person believes one thing does not mean that they fit into the "stereotypes" Keep posting videos and I love watching the controversial stuff! Stay strong and I'll keep supporting

[InformationMommy]

@westminniechica I know... I am not perfect and I wish people would realize that... thank you for the support

[Trinette75]

yep there are all types of 'Christian' ppl out there. if we took every word or sentence literally, the world would be pretty messed up and confused. do you think that some people even know what they are saying when they comment....

[InformationMommy]

@Trinette75 Probably not :)

[TaylorSwiftfan1iever]

Well Jen I have have to say your videos have been really helpful. I'm a teen and I'm not pregnant, but I have a lot of questions about pregnancy and parenthood in general because I want to be a mom someday so I do a lot of research on all sorts of things. I like learning from your videos.

[InformationMommy]

@TaylorSwiftfan1iever Aww thanks

[0625harmony]

and if they do a vid that i am not interested In guess what I DON'T WATCH. I love you Jen but I am not a baker so I did not look at the cake vide and don't plan to bt does that mean i have to right to talk bad about her cause she makes cakes and i don't WTH. Please people try to leave the high school days behind you being a bully is never cool.

[InformationMommy]

@0625harmony That's totally cool... I love Carla but I don't scrapbook so I skip those vids of hers too... I am totally not offended :)

[0625harmony]

Wow these people are really out of line. Be a grow up we are all adults and if you are not then if you can not say something nice don't say anything. youtube is not for people to be bashed or treated wrong for there way of thinking or how they raise there kids. these people that do the vids Jen, Carla,Amy THEY DO NOT HAVE TO DO IT so when someone puts there life on the web to help people and give them tips, advice,help they should not be disrespected. I love the vids they are helpful

[InformationMommy]

@0625harmony Thank you so much !!!

[ramonswife]

i just love how people disliked this video.... i guess they have nothing better to do then to bug you and try to bring you down.... sad thing is it's only taken them down.... pathetic that people waste their time with things if they do not really care... wish i had that much free time lol

[InformationMommy]

@ramonswife I know... I just know that I will get tons of dislikes no matter what I do... 

[crazymommylife]

i guess i just did not realize the huge amount of hate going around in the youtube community until i joined formspring!! haha...its pretty rediculous. my parents always taught me that its not what you say, its how you say it! people can disagree without being outright rude and hateful.

[InformationMommy]

@crazymommylife I 100% agree with you

[tlktvprincess]

Ugh! People annoy me! I hate that people always feel as though other people need to explain themselves to them... And it really bugs me that people are so rude, you don't HAVE to make videos but you do, and your videos are do helpful even though I don't have kids yet (I'm 17) because they make me think about things that i never would have thought about when I do have kids... And porter is just a sweetheart

[InformationMommy]

@tlktvprincess Aww thank you so much !!!

[GrowingWithLove]

LOL I think it's the same person or group of people that are going around putting negative/hateful comments on videos. I think they just have nothing better to do!!

Besides that I really like your videos and thanks for taking your time to make them :)

[InformationMommy]

@GrowingWithLove I agree... I really hope all those haters don't have children they should be watching instead... And thank you !

[rachg09890]

One of the definitions of Blessed:Bringing happiness, pleasure, or contentment. Geeze people really like to nitpick!

[InformationMommy]

@rachg09890 I know right !

[misskrystle12]

yep I like watching your videos :)

[InformationMommy]

@misskrystle12 Awesome :)

[ljewkes]

and I hate the dislike button, a few people were putting the dislike button on jen candidmommy's gender reveal video, wth!?

people are so rude!

[InformationMommy]

@ljewkes Yeah people are just idiots sometimes

[ljewkes]

Is it more fun to do videos or to answer from formspring!? I really love watching your videos!! you make me laugh so hard!!!

[InformationMommy]

@ljewkes I really like doing both :)

[lilblondehooker]

Being blessed doesn't mean being religious. I'm not an atheist, but I take no offense to your beliefs. That's what I find funny, people who treat youtube like gospel. If someone makes a video that shares a different opinion on something, all hell breaks loose. Apparently, no one is allowed to have differing views. I've seen this in the comments on many vlogger channels, and I laugh at all the people who hate a vlogger SO much and yet feel the need to watch and make snide comments.

[InformationMommy]

@lilblondehooker Exactly... why can't more people just agree to disagree !

[reginax10]

im not a mom.. im subbed cause i love your open personality and hearing diff opinions and how informative you are about things! i have met MANY kind, lovely atheists and many judgemental, mean christians..it really doesn't matter what religion you believe in you can be a good person ..& i'm saying that as a christian!

[InformationMommy]

@reginax10 Aww thank you ! Exactly... good people are good people whether they believe in a god or not... 

[renator88]

I LOVED the nugget video!!!!!!!!!!! I hope you do another one with burgers or chicken burgers or whatever!! I bet it was fun!!!

[InformationMommy]

@renator88 We will see what happens but that would be fun

[alandamandamama]

The Chicken Nugget Video was not my favorite BUT I also thought is was a funny idea... I never dislike videos, I just close out if I am not into one... I either like a video or do nothing... It is like the saying if you do not have anything nice to say do not say anything at all... I think it is a waste of time and energy to dislike. I just stop watching. :)

[InformationMommy]

@alandamandamama I know... I don' waste the time disliking a video... I don't watch either :)

[mrsmommy81]

Good video:) You have gorgeous eyes, Jen!

[InformationMommy]

@mrsmommy81 Aww thanks :)

[Bellebtrfly]

Are you answering every question? I have submitted a few yesterday and the day before (I believe) and haven't seen them on there yet. Just wondering.

[InformationMommy]

@Bellebtrfly I am... I am sorry you don't see them... if you still don't see them please ask again !

[deathcabforjenny]

I enjoy your rants. "Just sayin'" Lol.

[InformationMommy]

@deathcabforjenny haha... you rock... just saying :)

[claireemann]

i can't believe you got mean comments about your nugget video....it just made me crave nuggets yummy :) lol

[InformationMommy]

@claireemann I know right :)

[allharr]

Good for you for putting up with all the rude comments/questions. I totally agree with you that as you get more subscribers there are way more rude people. I'm trying not to take these things to heart...but it can be difficult. I just need to remember I'm not the only one. Anyways, just wanted to comment and say I love watching your videos and keep doing what you're doing! :)

[InformationMommy]

@allharr It's hard somet day and sometimes I just laugh it off.... thanks for the support

[familyinthemaking]

I'm a Christian and it ticks me off to see other Christians who put Atheists down. That is a form of judging and they have no right to do that. NO ONE has a right to judge anyone else, whether you are a believer or not. We are all created equal, some just choose to act like they were given no sense. Vlog on. =)

[InformationMommy]

@familyinthemaking Thank you !

[hailbop87]

The narrow minded-ness of SOME (not all) religious people can be very frustrating! I don't understand their religious beliefs & have no desire too, they are entitled to believe what they want, & live their lives the way they want & thats not my business, so why do some choose to make how us athiest's live our lives their business?? They don't have to understand every tiny detail of what we believe! very frustrating! <3 watching your videos, & i find all the formspring ?'s amusing :)

[InformationMommy]

@hailbop87 Yeah I don't care what people believe but why must they judge me... so frustrating

[vocalgirl1986]

People are going to find the negative in anything you say. Humans love drama. But you know that. I wish it would stop. I love every video you have ever posted. Your REAL. I don't have a set religion because I don't know what to believe. And I feel very blessed to have my baby.

[InformationMommy]

@vocalgirl1986 They do love drama... and thank you so much !

[xxxxjunebugmamaxxxx]

You don't have to feel blessed by God you can feel happy/Blessed same thing!!!



[InformationMommy]

@xxxxjunebugmamaxxxx I agree

[tiffyboo692]

It kills me that everything has to always be about religion...religion does NOT make someone who they are...Ya i am not atheist but thats beside the point...i see ppl as a whole and not just one thing about them...jen u are AWESOME!!!!! :)

[InformationMommy]

@tiffyboo692 Exactly... I just don't know why it has to be brought into every single thing I do... thank you so much !!!

[shannorah]

If they hate you so much, why do they take their precious time to watch? That's what I am wondering! lol

[InformationMommy]

@shannorah Exactly !

[mariahemmett]

just ignore them hun they are not worth your time... i know its much easier said than done!! :) There are some things that i disagree with you on. but like you said everyone has there own opinion .. I know how it feels to get crappy people saying stupid things.. i recently found out i am prego and posted a video on it.. some random person told me i should abort it.. that people like me should not reproduce and that my husband is a murdering terroist.. CRAZY anyway love you!! Keep up the Vids!!!

[InformationMommy]

@mariahemmett What... abort it... what the hell is wrong with people !

[chabella123]

I dont always agree with ur opinions.but i think its a safe place to say there is freedom of speech.You have the right to make vids and give ur opions.Ppl who dont like u SHOULD just simply NOT watch u.Simple, right??You'd think.But like u are INTO making vlogs, there are actually ppl out there who LOVE to make negative comments on vlogs.Sad, but true :( So be strong woman!:) ur doing a great job.Dont give them the satisfaction of the tiniest attention out there.(thats what they want) :)

[InformationMommy]

@chabella123 Yeah I wish those people would just move on but I am still going to make videos, so no worries :)

[4boysandalittlelady]

I really respect your positive attitude towards so many negative comments. It's normal to not agree with everything someone says. I don't know why it has to be all or nothing with some people. Being an adult is about learning to interact with many people and handle yourself in a mature and respectful way. I feel you have done that. That's all you can do!! Take care!

[InformationMommy]

@4boysandalittlelady Yeah I am not an all or nothing type of person and I don't think anyone is really. Thanks for your support

[HighClassEmergency]

I <3 you Jen, your an amazing mother :)

[InformationMommy]

@HighClassEmergency Aww thanks

[Mommy2angelplus2]

*giggles*

[InformationMommy]

@Mommy2angelplus2 LOL

[shanleighbean]

I think your videos are great! You can not care for a person. It's normal I don't agree with or get along with some people. And that's ok. I mean flash back to preschool if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. It's rather simple.

[InformationMommy]

@shanleighbean Haha... very true !

[xoxazurixox]

Oh dear God! I'm Catholic (in an albeit very chilled, budism is also interesting kind of way). The comments you are getting are anything but "christian". I don't agree with every single thing you say, but that's normal. I don't agree with everything my best friend says either. Disliking an innocent 1 yr olds' birthday video! Are you serious?! There are some sad, lonely people out there with nothing better to do. Don't let the b******ds get you down Jen! Hugs :))

[InformationMommy]

@xoxazurixox I agree... it's so hypocritical I think. And yeah why dislike Porter's birthday... what did he ever do to them? Thanks for the support !

[TheBrittbrat2341]

People are taking things to literally. Get a life people geesh!

[InformationMommy]

@TheBrittbrat2341 I agree !

[JSSmith4273]

I enjoy watching your videos. Do I agree with everything, of course not. It is not human ways for everyone to agree. Me being a Christian when I saw the question I was curious as to what your answer would be. I myself am very curious about "why" people don't believe and what they think will happen when they die. I work for a company of people who don't believe. And they all have different answers. Just my opinion.

[InformationMommy]

@JSSmith4273 Thanks for watching my videos and being christ like :)

[TTCBabyno1]

Don't mind the nasty people, like ive told you before i think your vids are great. They're just bored or like picking on people...whatever floats their boat i say!! 

[InformationMommy]

@TTCBabyno1 Thanks a bunch... and yeah these people need to find something better to do with their time

[scoutsami01]

Good grief people can be so mean/caty ....just b/c someone's says they are blessed doesn't mean they aer refering to being blessed by God... gessh. I subscribe b/c I enjoy your videos and those who are picking your words apart must have nothing better to do with their time.

[InformationMommy]

@scoutsami01 Aww thank you !

[AussieMummySince07]

I just want to say i love your videos- i love the way you get your message across and your views, how you articulate yourself. I enjoy every video you make and even when i dont agree with your view, i still enjoy your videos and dont at all find you to be an "idiot"!!! I think the people making such ridiculous comments/questions are the REAL idiots!!! Keep up the good work, your videos are great :)

[InformationMommy]

@AussieMummySince07 Aww thanky ou so much ! And yeah I don't ask everyone to agree with me, just to listen.

[dreamflight6000]

Life would be pretty boring without all the rude comments. :) Although I could live without them. Someone told me today that it wouldn't kill me to do my hair and makeup. Ugh! I have been enjoying your formspring questions. :) I am watching YT videos this morning. Cancelled our plans and we are staying home and taking the morning off. I am way too tired. Henry is watching TV.

[InformationMommy]

@dreamflight6000 Yeah right :) What... who has the right to tell you how to do your hair... ridiculous ! Good for you for taking a break...

[amandad0108]

It's like people know you're an athiest so they listen for things to "call you out on"... which is totally annoying. I'm a Christian and I often do and say things that aren't very Christ-like. I would hate for someone to point every single one out to me and expect an explanation. And like another commenter said, it's probably Christian people who are saying those things. It's ridiculous, it doesn't even matter. Why aren't you allowed to use the same figures of speech that everyone else uses?!

[InformationMommy]

@amandad0108 I know... why does everyone have to call me out... super annoying... and yeah I can use those same figures of speech too :)

[vickywog]

Just wanted to make a comment about the blessed thing. I'm christian and believe in God and all that good stuff, but wow, all those most likely 'christian' people keep attacking you. SMH the holiday stuff and now the blessed thing. People dont only need to mind their business, and stop nit picking you, but all those so called christians who keep bringing this up need to stop judging! Wow!

[InformationMommy]

@vickywog I know right... I didn't think christians were supposed to judge and that is all I am getting :)

[17701326]

I wish viewers would keep in mind, while watching videos, that not everyone believes the same things and THAT'S OK! And you are exactly right, if you don't like a video (or a Youtuber) then just don't watch the videos!

[InformationMommy]

@17701326 EXACTLY... I am totally not asking anyone to agree with me... I am just giving information

[Kelleyatwork78]

This is the same reason I told my 18 year old niece to get rid of her formspring! She had such horrible things said to her and I told her time and again to get rid of it...I think she still has it! I read some of the q/a and its horrible what people say to you or anyone else!

[InformationMommy]

@Kelleyatwork78 Yeah formspring can be a mess... it doesn't bother me, I just answer the questions

[MBShrewsbury]

I just think its Odd some what funny that people would sit and watch a video then comment and say I hate your videos.. REALLY WHATS THE POINT> There are 1,000's of other youtube moms you can go watch then.. PEACE OUT!! LOL

[InformationMommy]

@MBShrewsbury I agree... seriously then don't watch the video !

[TheYummymummyful]

i dont believe in god either yet i feel very blessed and thankful for my daughter to me i feel my daughter is here today (5 years ttc) because i have family members that are past on and i believe that they are the ones that are looking down on me and blessed me with my daughter because they know how much my dreams were to have a baby. x

[InformationMommy]

@TheYummymummyful Yeah I think people need to realize that there are multiple definations to words

[SofiHowie]

I love your videos - i think you are a real genuine person and I hope I can be like you when I become a mother! It makes me sad you get rude comments :( oh well!

xxxx

[InformationMommy]

@SofiHowie Aww thank you... I really do try to be real !

[RileyBugg2010]

Some people have nothing better to do than sit at home and look up people that they hate and then say rude nasty things to them.. I think you all are very brave for putting up with all of that! I love your videos ! If it makes any difference ;)

[InformationMommy]

@RileyBugg2010 Totally true and sad... thank you so much !

[09codysmummy09]

I dont see why adults have to be so childish they dont get anywhere by asking questions like that. I love watching your videos and think you are such a great mum. :-)

[InformationMommy]

@09codysmummy09 Aww thank you !