people who dont understand what does this song mean? then they so gay and stupid you never know how important your dad and mom is until you see them sick and lose them.time cant turn back.you will regret what you have done for your dad and mom.everything your dad n mom say are correct.do you know why let me tell you ok.your dad and mom say,tell,yell,angry,headache of you is because they love or like you very much.if they dont do anything then thats mean they dont k and you not important anymore
i think the dad dont want the son to live away cuz the parent will miss the son cuz the son is their only hope to live n they wanted to be taken care from the son cuz they have taken care of the children n maybe they wanted some love from the son.... also maybe the dad say that to the daughter cuz the daughter will someday be marry and someone told me that gurl was borned to be sell to other family and that y the father say that to the daughter
@zaissiab ... Tus Nyab hlub nws tus txiv hos leej niam hlub nws tus tub = tus tub yuav tau xaiv nws tus poj niam los nws niam ... kawg muaj kev nyuaj siab xwb ?
2 all da hmong peeps... learn how 2 love ur dad more cuss wen u dont have 1 anymore u'll regret it n plus if ur da only son or da youngest 1 stick wit ur mom n dad dats da roll in our culture......
this is a bad ass movie... but u kno this movie teaches u how to love both side of ur familys the same damn amount.....don't always love ur wife's side the most....ur parents gave their all mighty might to give u ur life.....be a mann and take over ur wifes words sometimes...u kno... can't always let ur wife take u over.....this movie teaches everyone a perfect example about how parents feel when their only son listen to their wifes word only......ps....this still happens to hmoob people nowaday
i agree wit you.. it is true that our parent give their life for us, but if we got a wife who don't like or get along with our family. it is hard for the guy to help both family... one person can't not handle two families. tats y i never want to get marry... but without marrage, i don't have a life.. life is hard and life is never fair.. hope i will get a wife at lease like my family...
thats right... but i hate those mom that always convine their daughter... hate those kind of granny.. they r jux some piece of shit that wants to have problems... mannn... why do hmong people always have this stupid problem going on... come on... love ur parents mann.. dont listen to ur wife all the times... ur the man.. ur in charge.. so u should know and so whats right.. dont love ur wife to much or ur life will ruien.. thx
then... I am the younger son in the family. I decided to move out. My dad was pissed. I could tell that my dad cried inside his heart. Week after I moved out, my dad ended up in the hospital for having stroke. It was a terrible situation. Please listen to your parents.
did u cry for ur dad???u know ur the last son who got to live with ur parent..but luck i the oldest..my older brother pass away when i haven born..suck but yea..it always great to live with ur parents...i would let my parent live with me if they want...good luck
If in your family have many sons you can do that. Remember you can find a wife but you can't find a new father. One life one father. suppose you have a son that you really hope in him but when he grow up and left you, it will hurt you most. A good son should take care their parents. Don't make they sad or cry.
you said that's right but you never know if you only have one child left and you love the most, you will do the same thing as him no matter what. Why our culture always do like this becuse you hope to having a son to take care you when you get old. Let's Think about when you were a baby, who take care of you? Parents never give up to raise you up when you were sick, they effort to make you fell better or find medicine to you. Trust me bro, just do anything they want before too late.
I didn't cry when I saw this movie. Actually I think this movie really portrayed well why mother/father and son/daughter-in-law can't live together. Parents expects too much from son/d-i-law. You have to obey parents in everything or you are a bad son/d-i-law. Parents use the death threat to make son/d-i-law do what they want. Parents play the guilt trick on son/d-in-law. sorry, parents need to change their ways too. they brought this upon themselves.
So sad for Xab ... he wanted Hnub Lis so badly and he acted like he's already got her in the palms of his hands .... LOL ... until some sorry ass Hmong guy went to Thailand ... Hnub Lis married a Hmong Meka loser ... so that she could help him watch his CD store at the flea market like Mab Suav Lis
I totally agree with you.. My old man pass away went I just turn about to turn 19, We never had the chance to have a Father to son talk.. I am still sad till this day.. Everytime I come to think about it, it just make me cry still. My old man pass away back in Nov 2000. Still miss him and now my mom has remarried, everything is not the same... :(( I wish I can have a chance to have that father and son talk.
sorrie to hear that...but in life you can never have anything u want such as keeping someone u love to stay with u...u never want them to die or leave but thts how life is...so stay strong and remember he's in a better place now...
Sad and true...too many of us tend to forget about the loves our parents have for us...Now that they are old and smelly, we want to part them from us... I wish I have a chance to live and take care my dad... Keep in mind my friends, you only have one mom and one dad in this lifetime.... Appreciated each and every moment you live together in this life... PEACE...
aaa.. hmong people are just fine as they are. parents ani't mean. their tradition is it to better ur kids life, not to be like theirs. fuckin people like u thats y hmong peeps r hatin on each others. wanna b gangster n shit. PRIDE TO A HMONG.
in english it means something like don't want to leave but because of the because...so basically he doesn't want to leave his parents but then he'll lose his wife. therefore he had to choose between the two and he chose his wife over his parents...hope that helps.
yeah... i know that... im just saying, whomever wrote that line was on crack. i found the song to have very strong points, but the lyrics could have been done better.
Tub los ntxhais los yeej hlub yus ua niam ua txiv tag nrho mas..Ua cas Hmoob mas pheej hlub thiab nav thwm cov tub xwb? Kuv xav mas cov ntxhais tseem hlub yus ua niam ua txiv tshaj..tus Tub yog tias tus nyab tsis nyiam yus ces nws yeej tsis hlub yus li lawm thiab mas Hmoob aw...
this song is really important because it show how your parents treat you when you were little as a baby.
When you were little they.....
1. take care of you
2. the mum was the one that give birth to you
3. the dad use all his energy to raise you up
4. the parents want you to become a good boy/good girl
5. they don't want you to become a bad person or anything just is really worst.
6. the things that you want it, you have to act really good so they can buy you stuff that you really want it aswell.
LoveJarrod 4 weeks ago
people that dont undertsand wat the song is about r stupid n if they say this song is suck .....they r more suck....they r just jealous..fuck haters
ugenyang 1 month ago
people who dont understand what does this song mean? then they so gay and stupid you never know how important your dad and mom is until you see them sick and lose them.time cant turn back.you will regret what you have done for your dad and mom.everything your dad n mom say are correct.do you know why let me tell you ok.your dad and mom say,tell,yell,angry,headache of you is because they love or like you very much.if they dont do anything then thats mean they dont k and you not important anymore
zoosiab86 2 months ago 4
Hmong meka biches!!!
jayisGay209 4 months ago
they're all good actor ! better then MEKA people lol (:
kougatakeshi 5 months ago
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kougatakeshi 5 months ago
i think the dad dont want the son to live away cuz the parent will miss the son cuz the son is their only hope to live n they wanted to be taken care from the son cuz they have taken care of the children n maybe they wanted some love from the son.... also maybe the dad say that to the daughter cuz the daughter will someday be marry and someone told me that gurl was borned to be sell to other family and that y the father say that to the daughter
gaomeeshengchang 5 months ago
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gaomeeshengchang 5 months ago
my khaws kos poom song is better
vangstarsful 6 months ago
wow tis song is not sads at all its suck....
vangstarsful 6 months ago
@vangstarsful you idiot listen to the song carefully and see how other children/teenagers/young adult treats their like crap!!!
you're such a dopey because you think that this song is really gay which it is not so shut the fuck up and get a life!!
LoveJarrod 4 weeks ago
this is a little funny
GetLikEmkay 6 months ago
MOST IMPORTANT MESSAGE from his dad is @ 2:48
KmAlbum 8 months ago
thank u
hmonghero97 9 months ago
whats this movie called?
hmonghero97 10 months ago
@hmonghero97; Ib Leeg Tub
MrTAchi123 9 months ago
wow....the first hmong song i had ever heard that doesnt have to do with love for a girl....thumbs up if you agree
dthao92 10 months ago
@dthao92 I agree like u say, i jux heard tis song for their mom and dad, first song i know that dont sing love for girls :D
loluevang99 7 months ago
@loluevang99 u should try "whyteshadow khoom plig zoo"
kamoua123 6 months ago
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@loluevang99 u should try "whyteshadow khoom plig zoo"
kamoua123 6 months ago
wat movie is this plz?
hmonghero97 11 months ago
Vim kev hlub ntawm txij nkawm thiaj li mus raw li nws lub siab:)
txawm li ntawv los nws lub siab yeej tseem nco ntsoov tias muaj nws niam thiab txiv uas yog tus tu nws loj hlob....
neegsiabphem05 1 year ago
what movie is this?
maaaaiy 1 year ago
a very good song.. sad too.. the dad don't know how to let go.. but he is understandable. the guy is PW lol
yangcher89 1 year ago
ua cas es cov pog thiab nyab tsis si haum tas li?
zaissiab 1 year ago
@zaissiab ... Tus Nyab hlub nws tus txiv hos leej niam hlub nws tus tub = tus tub yuav tau xaiv nws tus poj niam los nws niam ... kawg muaj kev nyuaj siab xwb ?
kuvtseemnco3 1 year ago
@kuvtseemnco3 tsis yog lawm, vim leeg niam khib tias leeg tub hlub tus nyab thiab tus nyab los khib tias tus txiv hlub leeg niam.
zaissiab 1 year ago
@kuvtseemnco3 Sharing is caring. (:
missvang3r 5 months ago
good
Arooswan 1 year ago
tee song is kinda sad
loveloving1 1 year ago
LOL! At the conversation at 1;10!
kouthaostar90 1 year ago
LOL! At the conversation 1:10! so funny!
kouthaostar90 1 year ago
there is nothing sad about this video as what the title said!!!
seancramento 1 year ago
dude, the girl so fucking hot, i watch these vids just cause of her XD
43405555 1 year ago
@43405555
lol funny
hahhaha she's now married to my uncle
pakaymoua94 1 year ago
my parent would be very proud of me if i can buy a house
zionbnr32 1 year ago
2 all da hmong peeps... learn how 2 love ur dad more cuss wen u dont have 1 anymore u'll regret it n plus if ur da only son or da youngest 1 stick wit ur mom n dad dats da roll in our culture......
hawjtub 1 year ago
its sad because his dad doesnt let him go to have a home
oarfishtkb1 1 year ago
@oarfishtkb1
oarfishtkb1 1 year ago
Its so sad that your own dad come and talk to you about dying.
He told me that and everything because I'm the oldest. How sad!
mnloser 1 year ago
"One century of a human's life is like a dream"
quoted from Mulan
GinZeGin 1 year ago
i love this song...........its so sad...........
55ONG5 1 year ago
my eyes water everytime i watch this video. :'(
BabyHmoob 1 year ago
Its a sad vid but anytime when i see Xab, I laug. He's a king of Hmong comedy actor.
me4everyoung 1 year ago
My friend has to learn the hard way. His dad pass away and he has just finally notice how helpful his dad was.
bboysoul1 1 year ago
really sad song
xab thoj is a good actor
i like is vids
fibodibo1 1 year ago
sad
fibodibo1 1 year ago
I don't like my father very much but this is a great movie and a great song. :)
ni66agay 2 years ago
this is a bad ass movie... but u kno this movie teaches u how to love both side of ur familys the same damn amount.....don't always love ur wife's side the most....ur parents gave their all mighty might to give u ur life.....be a mann and take over ur wifes words sometimes...u kno... can't always let ur wife take u over.....this movie teaches everyone a perfect example about how parents feel when their only son listen to their wifes word only......ps....this still happens to hmoob people nowaday
rthao76 2 years ago
i agree wit you.. it is true that our parent give their life for us, but if we got a wife who don't like or get along with our family. it is hard for the guy to help both family... one person can't not handle two families. tats y i never want to get marry... but without marrage, i don't have a life.. life is hard and life is never fair.. hope i will get a wife at lease like my family...
mengo530 2 years ago
thats right... but i hate those mom that always convine their daughter... hate those kind of granny.. they r jux some piece of shit that wants to have problems... mannn... why do hmong people always have this stupid problem going on... come on... love ur parents mann.. dont listen to ur wife all the times... ur the man.. ur in charge.. so u should know and so whats right.. dont love ur wife to much or ur life will ruien.. thx
TxlMcy 2 years ago
then... I am the younger son in the family. I decided to move out. My dad was pissed. I could tell that my dad cried inside his heart. Week after I moved out, my dad ended up in the hospital for having stroke. It was a terrible situation. Please listen to your parents.
kenjidakota 2 years ago
did u cry for ur dad???u know ur the last son who got to live with ur parent..but luck i the oldest..my older brother pass away when i haven born..suck but yea..it always great to live with ur parents...i would let my parent live with me if they want...good luck
cutevueguy 1 year ago 2
You didn't cry when u saw this movie but u will spit blood when your son left you.
thojh22 2 years ago
This is not expect to much only one thing to stay with, that's all.
thojh22 2 years ago
If in your family have many sons you can do that. Remember you can find a wife but you can't find a new father. One life one father. suppose you have a son that you really hope in him but when he grow up and left you, it will hurt you most. A good son should take care their parents. Don't make they sad or cry.
thojh22 2 years ago
you said that's right but you never know if you only have one child left and you love the most, you will do the same thing as him no matter what. Why our culture always do like this becuse you hope to having a son to take care you when you get old. Let's Think about when you were a baby, who take care of you? Parents never give up to raise you up when you were sick, they effort to make you fell better or find medicine to you. Trust me bro, just do anything they want before too late.
thojh22 2 years ago
I didn't cry when I saw this movie. Actually I think this movie really portrayed well why mother/father and son/daughter-in-law can't live together. Parents expects too much from son/d-i-law. You have to obey parents in everything or you are a bad son/d-i-law. Parents use the death threat to make son/d-i-law do what they want. Parents play the guilt trick on son/d-in-law. sorry, parents need to change their ways too. they brought this upon themselves.
hummingbyrde 2 years ago
dayum dis song ish tite cuz...
The286ruthless 2 years ago
Thanks for sharing. This song makes me realize how priceless time with my father is and how special a father love is.
samanthaxiong 2 years ago
awhs..
thiis one was sad..i cried..
gyrlie 2 years ago
nice song by xab. really like it.
princevaj09 2 years ago
xaab thoj got some goodass songs,..man!!
apriljerry09 2 years ago
what is the name of the movie here?
sophieyang1982 2 years ago 2
oh the name is called "Ib leeg tub". It a very good movie.. Thank You
tusneegkuvhlub100 2 years ago
thank you very much. :)
sophieyang1982 2 years ago
anyone have this song...please upload or let me know...i will really appreciate it...
559lady 2 years ago
does any one noe where i can download the real song and the name of this song
kengyaj 2 years ago
Girl version is better and sadder.
darkmasta666 2 years ago
sad song but hey...its true....
mighty3574rm559 2 years ago
she look a lot like one of my buddie's wife.. She very pretty..
darkside59 2 years ago
song is called ib leeg tub
2checkityo 2 years ago
whats the name of the song? name ASAP. thanx peoples.
PoppinJin1 2 years ago
it so true
changtoulee 2 years ago
HaHa she is always the charming girl...most of all i love her cute big eyes..Damn u XAAB u greedy nnoooo let me take her...LOL..
Juinor 2 years ago
yes, her cute huge eyes are gorgeous...
DiSoNeNcBoI 2 years ago
damn tha girl is hot!!!!!!
elmo697 2 years ago
So sad for Xab ... he wanted Hnub Lis so badly and he acted like he's already got her in the palms of his hands .... LOL ... until some sorry ass Hmong guy went to Thailand ... Hnub Lis married a Hmong Meka loser ... so that she could help him watch his CD store at the flea market like Mab Suav Lis
joenemo651 2 years ago
so her husband own a cd store at the flea market too? lol.
julye 2 years ago
aw...love this song...learn to love the people tht luvs u wen theyre still here...cuz wen theyre gone its gonna be to late to show them ur luv...
lilxionggurlo 2 years ago
I totally agree with you.. My old man pass away went I just turn about to turn 19, We never had the chance to have a Father to son talk.. I am still sad till this day.. Everytime I come to think about it, it just make me cry still. My old man pass away back in Nov 2000. Still miss him and now my mom has remarried, everything is not the same... :(( I wish I can have a chance to have that father and son talk.
darkside59 2 years ago
sorrie to hear that...but in life you can never have anything u want such as keeping someone u love to stay with u...u never want them to die or leave but thts how life is...so stay strong and remember he's in a better place now...
lil209boiz 2 years ago
please.... if you are gonna dis someone, do it somewhere else! and please... don't speak bad of Hmong people, because it does hurt too you know!
kagomevangel 2 years ago
lol i like this song!
erbeb 2 years ago
this song is fken true for are hmong ppls
4lifehmong 2 years ago
Sad and true...too many of us tend to forget about the loves our parents have for us...Now that they are old and smelly, we want to part them from us... I wish I have a chance to live and take care my dad... Keep in mind my friends, you only have one mom and one dad in this lifetime.... Appreciated each and every moment you live together in this life... PEACE...
tonga38 2 years ago
gosh hmong boss sometimes arent man they need tooo stop being stupid...
theforever1000 2 years ago
hmong people r never that nice...FUCK hmong people these day
MrMengo911 2 years ago
aaa.. hmong people are just fine as they are. parents ani't mean. their tradition is it to better ur kids life, not to be like theirs. fuckin people like u thats y hmong peeps r hatin on each others. wanna b gangster n shit. PRIDE TO A HMONG.
koolleo 2 years ago 24
@koolleo True Shet Why is hmong killing hmong over just 3 letter's
4lifehmong 1 year ago
hli lives in the us now!..ahha in mn!
lol she got a baby boy!!..lmao...
she married the dude that did
nkauj nyab..ahahh
08090mai 2 years ago
wow , she got her baby now? that was quick? i thought she was pregnant only and now have a baby.. thats nice... congrats to her then...
julye 2 years ago
Not Hli, its Hnub
vicki23vang 2 years ago
lol...hli is the hmong name...ahhah
08090mai 2 years ago
nice song... what the heck does "siab tsis xav ncaim los vim qhov vim" mean? dont frkn make sense... less I'm missing something here...
tnjthornism 2 years ago
in english it means something like don't want to leave but because of the because...so basically he doesn't want to leave his parents but then he'll lose his wife. therefore he had to choose between the two and he chose his wife over his parents...hope that helps.
muabruakoj 2 years ago
thanks that helps me too.
i was thinking of toilet and it didnt make sense. :D
liloSakura890 2 years ago
toilet is: QHOV VIV.
tnjthornism 2 years ago
u crack me up. :P
mrmrsvue2 2 years ago
lol it does sound like it, right?
or is it just me?
liloSakura890 2 years ago
hahaha your funny, my sister never learn hmong too and she thought that too.... :)
sophieyang1982 2 years ago
yeah... i know that... im just saying, whomever wrote that line was on crack. i found the song to have very strong points, but the lyrics could have been done better.
tnjthornism 2 years ago
LOL i was crackin up it means he dont wanna go but because of his wife he had to move out.
iirOckYoufashO 2 years ago
ahah muabruakoj explained it all...ahahaha
08090mai 2 years ago
yeah it hard to be the youngest and only son in the families...but no matter what, i'll always be with my families!
alien209 2 years ago
dam this song cool but its to sad :D it remember of my dad pass away :D
4lifehmong 2 years ago
sometimes, being a son in the hmong community is really difficult, trying to live up to standards set by your father.
thaov100 2 years ago
omg it ib leeg tub
CrazyLiloCrips 2 years ago
ifeel like im watching those chinese movie dub by thai. lol
kulyia 2 years ago
does anyone know how to get the original version of this song! i really want it please! thanks!
kagomevangel 2 years ago
xab is the #1 hmoob pab eb now!
162playboyz 2 years ago 19
Can anybody tell me what this song called? I know the singer is Xab Thoj....
simplynaive89 2 years ago
NICE song!!! ish not true wat his dad say about living with the grl side of family ish bad!!! sumtyme ish the opposit!!!
Hmong103queen 2 years ago
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i like this song
lucievang 2 years ago
Tub los ntxhais los yeej hlub yus ua niam ua txiv tag nrho mas..Ua cas Hmoob mas pheej hlub thiab nav thwm cov tub xwb? Kuv xav mas cov ntxhais tseem hlub yus ua niam ua txiv tshaj..tus Tub yog tias tus nyab tsis nyiam yus ces nws yeej tsis hlub yus li lawm thiab mas Hmoob aw...
hlubkoj25 2 years ago 3
agree definitly....
ihearthue 2 years ago
i would have to agree he is very creative
zoonkaujzoonraug 2 years ago 3
xab is one of hmong best actor and i would hate it so much if he stop making movies
shengcang 2 years ago 3
why is everybody so mean to him
buddyclubs 2 years ago