All Time Low - "Lullabies" (11/28/08 @ The Starland Ballroom, NJ)

[asingerh]

why does everybody assume he was crying? Doesn't sound like that to me at all.

[DamonRennaker]

His brothers name is Tom spellit right get it straight

[JodieeGaskarth]

He's brother was called Tm, Not Daniel, And who ever that is that disliked it is a fucking prick. Just sayin'...

[Haleyfae96]

0:38 makes me cry every time. He is so strong holy shit I'm lucky my family and friends pulled through.

[MaineiacBarakitty]

Alex is the strongest person ever, he has such a big heart and he is so respectful <33

[WICKED325]

Oh good god... 0:38 just brought me to tears :,C Reminds me of my best friend who died... This song actually is inspiring me to work on my song for one of my closest friends Chris, who's brother committed suicide. For you Danny -3 ATL, truly amazing C,:

-Jasey

[Kellcutie101]

I always cry when I hear this song. I cried even more that he is crying. He is so amazing and brave to even be able to finish the song and to finish it with his amazing voice being so strong 3 hes so amazing I can't handle it (':

[JacobBlackLuver1]

I lost my dad a little over a year ago, which is when I got really interested in All Time Low. Their music has helped me through so much. I've been recently been diagnosed with depression, and have used self-harm and contemplated suicide. Their music is why I'm still here. Their songs offer those few minutes of escape, and if you've been in my shoes, you know how much that is. I love Alex so much, for not only teaching me it's okay to be sad, but teaching me how to move on and live life.

[MultiHeipaadeg]

@JacobBlackLuver1 it was the same for me... i lost lots of friends.. they didn't die but they left me and turned out to be somone i thought they weren't... it was the morning i said to myself i didn't want to live anymore. but then i found them... they learned me so much with just music and just listening to them is making me cry :'( but iv'e moved on and have gotten new friends and one best friend that i really love <3

[OppeltDrums]

Everyone can stop replying to my comment now.

RIP Tom

[lifeguardocmd]

the one person who disliked this has no soul.

[randomnesshumans]

@ThrashUnreal1000 That's pretty disrespectful, considering what actually happened, and you're pretty much just using such a horrible event just to get some shitty attention on the internet.

[KitKatDezzy]

I love Alex.

And omg just this video brings me to legit tears.

[wild4music96]

i have so much respect for this man. He is so strong and brave to be able to write a song like this, and then sing it live. I know i could never do that. Truly amazing.

[1317jat]

I can't watch ATL performing this or listen to this song after losing my dad and my brother.....it doesnt happen i cry everytime...here come the tears

[xNRMxx]

when is he crying?

[cheeseluver123]

This boy is by far the bravest person i have ever seen. It amazes me how strong he is. I know I WOULD NEVER be able to write a song like this, let alone even sing it & still sound amazing. I cry everytime I watch this! But I love it so much I can't stop listening! Alex is my biggest inspiration & role model! Love you, Alex <3 <3

[silverscreencam96]

When Alex says "Let's do this dance mother fuckers", I burst into tears every single time, without fail.

[xxsingmetosleepatlxx]

I heard the emotion in his voice. I can tell, when he says "throw the bottle, break the door, and dissappear", he's got so much emotion. I thought he was going to burst out crying then. I'm so sorry for Alex. He's amazing.

[wpswag4life]

@OppeltDrums also he tweeted “ to set the record straight my brothers name was Tom. I have no idea who came up with ‘Daniel’. What you read on tumbler isnt always fact..."

[wpswag4life]

@OppeltDrums alex just got a new tattoo with the initals T.E.G in it so im assuming people are right saying his name is thomas.

[punkg0esCrunk]

one dislike ? lets get him

[t0mm69]

i just realizd..i was at that show, it was my first ATL concert ever,

[cheeseluver123]

Alex Gaskarth is my FUCKING HERO<3

[OppeltDrums]

Does anyone have any idea what Alex's brother's name really was, or even if he existed to begin with? It seems the only real root of the whole "Daniel Gaskarth" thing is some piece fanfiction, and this whole Tom Gaskarth is making me have doubts. Does anyone have any links to an interview or anything published where Alex talks about his brother? I can't find anything official, or anything that doesn't look sketchy. :/

[Fagskarth]

@OppeltDrums He posted to his twitter that the tattoo he got on his hand was for his brother and the letters "T.E.G" around the rose were his brothers initials, Tom Gaskarth. No one knows his middle name but it's speculated to be "Edwin" or something along those lines yep.

[GUMMYxBEARR]

You've taken so much with you :c <3 

[sillySaRbEaR123]

I'm crying... 

[katyPaynexx]

this song makes me cry love you alex<3 :')

[PokeLSouma]

And I'm sitting here crying once again. There's only two songs that make me cry everytime I'm listening to them. This is one of em.

[paintingflowersforyu]

What does he say at 0:38? Forgive me for asking..

What a strong, capable man. I respect him so much. He's just incredible.

[PurpleSkiesable]

R.I.P Tom<3

this song makes me cry every. single. time.

[TheJessicaaEmilyy]

Who could actually dislike this? Alex is so brave, I don't think I could cope without my brother, and for him to be able to write a song like this for his brother, and sing it in front of so many people, shows how strong he is. I love atl, and I love Alex Gaskarth! -3

[BrokenOpen57864]

I remember the first time I heard this song my brother told my mother and I that he had tried to commit suicide.He left with his girlfriend who had actualy pushed him to try and kill himself.When I heard this song, and Alex's storry about his brother I remember that I cried my eyes.I felt so bad for his brother, and for mine. I know my brother tries to hide his depression but I'm never gonna let him be alone. I feel the need to help him, but he keeps trying to push me to suicide. I'm sorry Jut!

[BethieeJ]

Ngl, I love Jack's bra collection

[MariekeMusicx]

0:38 omfg... :c

[cheeseluver123]

He is by far the bravest, strongest, most incredible person I have ever seen in my life. Love you, Alex <3

[Itsleaaaah]

0:38 just broke my heart.

im so proud of him for singing this, even though it clearly upsets him.

This is why i love him.

[xokatem]

wheres the goddamn "love" button on here?

[xokatem]

cant help but cry everytime i listen to this song. im so proud of alex <3

[musicsavedmysoul11]

it breaks my heart to know he had to go through that

[sofieorrico]

awh alex. awh no.

[pianofingers28]

In all honestly, I think Alex is the most amazing song writter. To be able to write a solng like this for his brother is amazing. All the songs he writes has such great meaning to them. I love All Time Low more than anything and it would mean the world if I ever got to see them live & have the chance to meet them. I love you, Alexander William Gaskarth<33

[AllTimeJensine]

This song got to me so much that I have it tattoo on me. :D It's such a beautiful song. <3 I cry every time I hear it.

[ATLAllTimeLow1]

whoever that 1 person who is that disliked this video... cold hearted prick who likes country..

poor alex </3

[holaaasannie]

0:38... fuck..

[allstarbutterfly17]

0:38 just killed me. I'm sure we all know what it's like to hurt inside, but only a few people can really fathom what he's really feeling. To think that even just singing this beautiful song reduces him to tears is painful. I know personally how much this song has touched my life, and my friends' lives as well. And I'm sure we all have similar stories, and that we'll always support Alex no matter what.

[hOt8ToPiC]

ok, forgive me for asking, but at 0:38 was he crying?

because i think he was and it broke my heart into a million peices anyway but i need closer.

:((

[cupcakeskate88]

0:38 kills me inside. I feel your pain, Alex... This song has gotten me through (and still is) the hardest times of my life these past 20 months... It breaks my heart when I hear him cry in this song. I swear he's where I get my strength sometimes.

[bananapancak3]

omg everytime I hear the sound of Alex crying it mades me cry too, it's like someone take a knife and pull it into my heart . I have so much respect for him and he will always be a strong person like in this video <3

[xRANDOMxMOVIESx]

Omg i just watched 0:38 and just birst into tears. Seriously i admire him for this

[cooldani18]

I remember my mom taking my little brother to the hospital because he was sick and it was the same day as an atl concert. When they started singing this song my mom texted me and said they rushed my brother to surgery and that he didn't make it. I collapsed to the floor so hard I broke my arm and I remember waking up to see a security guard calling an ambulance to the hospital my brother died but I couldn't handle bein there so I asked if I could wait a while he said yes and took me backstage I

[xxLadyBelle144xx]

what does he say at 0.38?

[shiningstar0721]

@xxLadyBelle144xx "lets do this dance mother fuckers" but he was crying, so his voice was shakey

[xxLadyBelle144xx]

@shiningstar0721 Awhhhhhhh!! Poor alex <3

[shiningstar0721]

@xxLadyBelle144xx agreed <3 hes so strong for singing this <3

[xxLadyBelle144xx]

@shiningstar0721 i knooww<3<3<3luv him

[shiningstar0721]

@xxLadyBelle144xx  doesnt everyone?<3

[xxLadyBelle144xx]

@shiningstar0721 everyoneshud<3

[shiningstar0721]

@xxLadyBelle144xx agreed! although, i wish like he would do like a small concert in like each state so it would be more one on one kind of thing, where as now there sooo big...but im happy for him and his band

[xxLadyBelle144xx]

@shiningstar0721 yeah ikr!! but theyre alot more popular now so its kinda hard for them to do smaller concerts like this, yeah im happy for them 2 <3

[shiningstar0721]

@xxLadyBelle144xx very true, oh well. maybe eventually they will find away <3

[xxLadyBelle144xx]

@shiningstar0721 ikr i hope so!! the last concert i went to was a total fail :(

[shiningstar0721]

@xxLadyBelle144xx awwh why? jealous though! i havent been to an atl concert yet :/ because the last one that was in my state was on finals for school:(

[xxLadyBelle144xx]

@shiningstar0721 because the crowd was really crazy, and there were alot of tall people infront of me, and alot of big fat guys and im small (compared to them lol)so they pushed me around like crazyy!!! lost my phone. Yeah its was a great night XD aww damn that suxx!! hopefully they come to ur town again !!

[shiningstar0721]

@xxLadyBelle144xx oooo thats no fun! but yeah, i hope so!!cause id love to meet these amazing guys <3 and i just hope my mother will let me go, but shes soo over protective, and shed be all like but ill have to go with you...yada yada...and that would be so fucking embarrassing!

[xxLadyBelle144xx]

@shiningstar0721 awww well i hope you can go!! theyre amazing in concert!! most artists voices are edited and then in concert they sound shitty, but these guys are soo talented<3

[shiningstar0721]

@xxLadyBelle144xx me tooo!! and from all the vids on youtube of their live performances, theys guys are amazzzzing!!! <3

[michaelaATL]

okay i just sobbed watching this & when i heard them play this live i don't think i've ever cried so hard in my life. alex is one strong dude.

[MariekeMusicx]

omfg.. This song leaves me with tears in my eyes.. every time I watch it.

[DTrig3]

Alex is my fucking idol . I wish I could sing like him ! Lol bras on the mic stand ;D

[mjgurl69]

i love you Alex Gaskarth <3

[Stargirlz051]

my brother committed suicide in 2006. Later I went to an ATL concert and they sang this song. I began to cry and Jack looked and me. He told Alex to stop singing. They both looked at me and asked if I was okay. :'( I love ATL

[LifeSucks13100]

When I things like this it makes me so proud. If the Gaskarth can do it so can weit gives me the strength to carry on..

[landscapeofalie]

the fact that this man can get up on stage in front of thousands of kids and sing a song straight from his heart about something that hurts him so much is absolutely amazing. alex gaskarth is a hero.

[mustacheyouaquestion]

0:38 8 *sobs* "Let's do this dance motherfuckers,"

This is honestly the most powerful tribute. It gets me every time. He's so brave. This is why I will support All Time Low through anything, their music is so powerful.

[AllTimeLowAholic]

I cried at 0:37. It's so sad.. :/ He's so strong. I don't know anyone else who can write&perform a song with so much meaning. :/♥

[ChellyCatastrophe]

this video gets me everytime. i cannot even put into words the admiration and respect i have for this guy...i fucking love you alex gaskarth <3

[ThrashUnreal1000]

during this song my mom txted me that my brother kiled himself and i remember falling to my knees crying and a security guars asked me if i was ok and i said no and i fainted and i woke up backsage where alex and jack were sitting in the chair next to me and said dont be scared. and i remember when alex asked me what his name was and i said Dan and he said is it short for daniele and i said yes and we both burst out crying. Alex hugged me and said itll be a right. RIP DAN and thankyou Alex.

[LisaBarakarth]

@ThrashUnreal1000 is this really true ??? and why did he asked for daniel ???

[ThrashUnreal1000]

@LisaBarakarth yes its really true. and because they saw the text.

[LisaBarakarth]

@ThrashUnreal1000 but Alex' dead brothers name is tom and not daniel ... but if you're right I'm really sorry for you ...

[ThrashUnreal1000]

@LisaBarakarth its cool. i mean I guess it was for the better. Even thugh after he killed himsef I cut myself... but ya Alex's brother was Dan.

[LisaBarakarth]

@ThrashUnreal1000 Alex brother's name was Tom >.<

[naturegirl54]

@ThrashUnreal1000 except his name isn't daniel . It was thomas .

[itisntreal]

@ThrashUnreal1000 awkward, cuhz alex's brothers name isn't daniel. but ok.

[cheeseluver123]

@ThrashUnreal1000 #ThatAwkwardMoment when Alex's brother isn't named "Daniel"...

[Brawl4Metal]

@cheeseluver123 Dude shut up, it doesn't matter what Alex's brothers name is. He feels her pain and so do I.

[cheeseluver123]

@Brawl4Metal Geez...I'm sorry. I feel pain too, I've lost a friend to suicide, so I know what it feels like.

I love Alex with all my heart <3

[dropyourcalls]

@ThrashUnreal1000 that's not true because his brothers name was tom and if you fainted you wouldn't be backstage you would be in an ambulance. Stop trying to get attention.

[livelovelax23]

@ThrashUnreal1000 stop trying to get attention. it's not even cute to lie, and what's the point.

[wild4music96]

@ThrashUnreal1000 this couldnt possibly be true bc alex's brothers name is tom.....

[tlnea94]

He is such a brave, beautiful and amazing person! every time i hear him singin lullabies, my heart nearly breaks, but he keeps pulling it off... He's just the best.

[nobodyimportantish]

WE LOVE YOU. He is just the strongest, most beautiful person, all four of them are beautiful people <3

[madipaige021]

Alex Gaskarth is without a doubt my true hero.

[xMariekeMusic]

Aaaaww, 0:37 ...

He sounds like he's crying? :'(

Poor Alex. We'll always love you <3

[francisbrand]

ALEX GASKARTH, OUR HERO!!!

that's all I can say..

[coolncrazy1011]

i replayed this 1000 times and bawled my eyes out. its the song that kept me strong

[Ronaldorulz17]

goddamn for one i can hear the pain in his voice.... and secondly i guess this is why i was at this show and i still remember this song specifically over everything

[nikusia345]

Alex Gaskarth is my hero and always will be. He is so strong and beautiful and I just think he's amazing. I love him with my whole heart.

[lostinkara]

alex crying = me crying.

[DeadOnArrival19]

@lostinkara when does he cry? i can't really tell D:

[misskattkatastrophe]

I was at this show.

[04youencpro]

ALEX IS MY IDOL <3

[ST3V3theK1D]

nothing but respect. cant even put it into words really

[gitschigitschibaba]

Who`s the asshole who pressed the dislike-button? How can you not love it? Alex is so strong...If my older brother committed suicide, I wouldn`t be able to sing a song like this in front of so many people... We love you, Alex. ♥

[lawlkennedy]

I think Alex and Jack are so close is because Alex lost his brother, and Jack is like his brother figure...

I love all 4 of them.

[Raeboo942]

this song makes me cry everytime no matter how many times i hear it...

i think he is so strong for containing himself while singing this i know i'd be crying soo hard...

he is such an awesome person too and he's not an asshole like most of the other rockstars out there :D

but personally i love Zack

[xoxoZashleyoxox]

"...Lets do this dance, motherfuckers..."

God, Alex. It's gonna be okay, man. We're all here for you.

[amandalovesHS]

Does he say 'Come on, babies!" Or "Come on, ladies!"? If he said babies, that just YUIHBIUHOIHJ <3

[kidsgil]

His brother would be so proud, I know I am:)

[gracejepson]

when does he start crying??

[chazatkinz1]

@gracejepson 38 seconds

[EatDeliciousCaek]

It sounds like he's crying! Oh my gosh! Alex, ♥ I would have jumped on stage and hugged him. He's so brave.

[twilight1607]

Did he start crying? Aww poor Alex I've never had anyone close to me die but every time I hear this song I start crying and Alex I love the fact that you can sing this song even though its sad.

I <3 Alex :)

[abzhousley]

crying. omg.

[carlymarie95]

Alex Gaskarth is a brave, brave soul.

I have so much respect and love for him,

and the entire band. They're amazing <3

[LoveLikeRockets95]

*tears&goosebumpss

[XxoxCatzxoxX]

This made me cry so much..

so brave and strong..

able to carry on singing the song for his fans..

Alex Gaskarth is my hero also <3

[Babess4]

I'm crying, Alex you are a hero. I'm glad I weren't there though, because if I was and he cried.. so would I.. 0:38 gets me. <3

[beautifuldisaster155]

this is just too much for me to handle but its so beautiful

[amyluvsgaskarth]

this makes me fucking cry . when his voice cracks</3 you can HEAR the passion he has for his brother, and this song, and how much he cares<3 it makes me shiver<3

[alwaysalltimeliv]

I started crying immediately. He is my hero, this boy right here. He is so strong and inspires me everyday. He truly has changed my life and I cannot wait for the day when I finally go to an All Time Low concert. God bless him and the whole All Time Low band and crew. They are all so amazing. <3

[thisrandomdudette]

when he sighs at 0:37 just before his voice breaks, that gets me.

[futurerockstar1992]

@thisrandomdudette I dont think he was sighing i think he like sobbed

[thisrandomdudette]

i cried.

he, is, amazing.

[TheMainex1]

i almost cried!! it is so sad when he talks and it sound like he is crying!! :( i love him so much and it makes me want to cry when he does!!

[eyelinerfreak13]

i nearly cried when i read the lyrics to this D:

it's the "don't you realize you showed this family a world of pain" bit that gets me :(

he's so amazing for being able to sing this without breaking down completely. this is why we love him :]

does he start crying at 0:38?

i thought remembering sunday was a sad song until i heard this.

i nearly cried when i heard remembering sunday live, god knows what would've happened if they'd played this :(

poor alex.

[SammahSaysHi]

I don't think I could ever "thumbs up" this enough. <3

[SimplyJalyn]

hearts and tears. <3

Ps: head thrashing at the end was excellent ^^

[jobrosSUCKBALLS]

omfg, that's so sweetD:

and LOL @ all the bra's on Jack's mic stand .__.

[dinosarecoolerthanU]

omgg, poor alex.

0:38 gets me everytime ! :(

i love that he can still perform this thoughh<3

[atlandfobfanX3]

i was def here =)

[taylur9315]

awh, this made me tear up when you hear him start crying a little.

[alltimelowwwx0]

i was here. amazzzzing concert.

this song is so sad<3

[xwesaynicole]

oh my god I feel so bad ):

this song is so beautiful and sad.

and alex is just amazing. i love him.

i was so close to going to this show. i wish i couldve made it :/

[ShanniRawwr]

)':

This makes me cry D:

Now you know the reason why i love ATL so much.

x

[skaterboirocker]

does anyone know what kind of venue this is? I'm seeing the Misfits on friday

[TheFearlessFish]

"Let's do this dance, motherfuckers."

Oh, Alex. You don't have to be a badass. We love you anyway.

[lollipopxogirl]

Poor Alex <3

He did amazing though.

They did amazing<3

[francescaohhhx3]

oh my god, i almost cried. <3

so sad what happened to alex's brother.

but his voice tore me up at 0:38

i love this band. <3

[wwechik59]

Omg, he sounded so chokey. ): Poor, Alex, I wouldn't be able to sing this at all if it were my brother I was singing about.

[Jazzzarella]

this is about his broother?

i did not know that

[wwechik59]

Yeah. His older brother committed suicide. It's so sad. ):

[kkarpicki]

i was there. i cried.

[xofalloutboy94]

great quality! haha i was there...best day ever!

[Cure0020]

haha wait.. this is a different version of the same vid..

[Cure0020]

haha i love them (:

it was weird, i was watching this vid, and it said views:20, then my computer decided to be a trippy so i clicked back and came back to it and it said views:95

that's how much people love atl <3