How Does A Guy Make A Self-Conscious Girl Open Up Sexually? - Ask The Hot Chick

[WildManChrisVEVO]

How many inches long are your arms?

[HemaFTW]

This fucked up my last relationship. She was insecure about her body so everything had to happen with all the lights off and under the blankets.

That made the sex pretty fucking bad after like 10-15 minutes I couldn't stay turned on anymore. Plus trying to fuck in pitch black is like... hard o.O

[jonniebakstix]

i roll em over and fuck em doggie it helps.......paper bags will do in a pinch

[GRE99701]

My pre-teen daughter found this. I'm thrilled. This should age-restricted. I guess we'll be blocking YouTube in my house.

[JazukaiX]

@GRE99701 Maybe you should be raising your child better

[JHMnation]

@GRE99701 It's not porn. Seriously. You should be thrilled, she's learning something.

[GuyWithBluePoop]

Bla bla bla. If she has low self esteem just rape her, duh. She will be too scarred to tell anyone about it.

[JHMnation]

@GuyWithBluePoop What the hell is your problem?

[BoSsMaaN101]

She gives amazing advice....SHIT!

[colorblindvids]

This chick gives good advice, my girlfriend has self-esteem issues, I checked this video out for potential LOLZ but it turns out; everything she said is true.

[TravaTalksSmack]

Its called vodka. 

[jewie27]

Paper bag her face = problem solved

[wolfcookieo9]

really good tips honestly it works for me never have problems just stumbled upon these vids

[CurlyAce100]

I've told a girl I like her boobs......didn't work.

[IWantMyVisionBack]

@CurlyAce100

LOL the comments on this channel regarding it's videos is more entertaining.

[CurlyAce100]

@IWantMyVisionBack I know that's the best part about watching these vids. Check out that text messaging one the comments are actually hilarious

[rererererererer2]

so wheres the hot chick?

[TravaTalksSmack]

@rererererererer2 Do you write this on every one of these videos or is there like a team of ya'll doing it?

[acerb45666555]

low self esteem in women can be caused by very serious issues. one has to be very careful to avoid triggering a self destructive reaction.

[mackayash]

So basically lie to her...

[MrCokeDose]

SHE SAID "TITS" HAHAHAHAHA... lol

[YouVixx1]

She's so sexy you can see lots more videos like this free at YouVixx.com

[Hottmeandu4200]

im hot

[nikol4iste]

This bitch is ugly...

[drewhadou]

so basically you're saying we should kiss ass until she finally gets over her issues. its like this; a compliment doesn't change an interior problem. women have this ridiculous delusion that they'll somehow get over a personal problem by being buttered up, which is bullshit considering the fact women with self esteem issues more often than not reject compliments. repeatedly doing it isn't going to change anything. therefore, be yourself, and don't pander. "i like you just how you are" . done.

[appletonkate]

oooh goodness!

*wishes it would not be totally lame to send this video to my boyfriend*

hahaha:D

[1flynlow]

@appletonkate

haha sounds like you need a new boyfriend

[TheDoofuspower101]

OPEN THE DOOR

[manrayyy333]

This applies to everything, not just sex. A girl will pick up things she hears him say to every other girl and will feel like she is not special. I think this is even more true if she has been with a guy who is insincere. She will need specifics from the man who wants to convince her she is amazing to him.

[SealTooGreat]

Totally wrong approach ... guy have to do that and that and that and so on. What about her? She just to have sit down and doing nothing to overcome her self-esteem issues?

Good advice to her is to go to the psychologist because there're too much things that have to be spoken than YouTube's 10 min. video limit can hold it.

[fallen42water]

I completely agree with you guy.

There are too many examples in the world where people want to pass the buck by passing on their responsibilities to someone else.

If a person wants to feel good about themselves then put in the hard work in order to feel good about yourself. The payment will last a lot longer.

Then the couple could be spending more time on more constructive things for the both of them instead of just one person's feelings.

[juanpedro8888]

Totally agree with both of you! But to take that step and to do whatever it takes to overcome the issues are so great that I would be surprised if 5% of the population would ever do this.

And maybe even less for girls.

Get help, be constructive, but still it will be much easier if you would help her on the way and raise her confidentlevel a bit. Always face what you are uncomfortable with! That should be everyones rule of thumb:)

[fallen42water]

Hey Juan,

I do agree with you and apparently I have nothing better to do then comment on your response at this ungodly hour,

but I have to say that it in my experience, it's been a challenge to constructively help women work on their self esteem issues while being romantically involved with them.

I've been doing that with the women I've been involved with for years with no avail... But I still keep trying.

[18blablabla]

OMG!!!!

Women! stop being self-concious about your body! lol lets just say you are taking your top of infront of a guy.... the LAST THING he is going to do... is complain

When women are flirting or undressing or somewith with a guy, hes already feeling so lucky he isn't going to say anything negative!

Just go out and have fun!

[lamby284]

Im with you 100%. I am very self concious, but i found that if you just step out of your comfort zone and let him see you naked or topless whatever, he´s never going to tell you that you´re fat or anything.

[butcheredwards]

wtf her again?

[sweetamy189]

my husband tells and shows me everyday how crazy he is about me, but i dont even find myself attractive. is there something wrong with me?

[DpLogan]

YES

[kingskyz]

of course there is LOL ~~

be more confident.. tats ur husband !!

[tsdcs]

Honest answer:

Yes. Feeling bad about yourself does you no good. And feeling bad about feeling bad about yourself (as you seem to be stating) is the same.

Your issues run deeper than your physical appearance.

[butcheredwards]

sweetamy189 nothing is wrong with you. you are beautiful if a guy says that more than twice or he wants sex?

[18blablabla]

Don't judge yourself negatively, your husband loves you and your body so stop worrying.

[Nalfein1210]

Azzaiel, because your compliments must be sincere, spontaneous and match the reality. If she knows that she isn't a goddess, praising her as if she is can be perceived as insincere or that the guy wants something from her. It shouldn't be so obvious or she would lose the attraction. Be a man with a good taste, not a needy woos.

A single rose given once without a special occasion has greater impact that a bunch of roses given everyday.

[drdormin]

The hot chick is right but this is too much work and there's always the risk that it could backfire, like Azzaiel says, and she'll turn against you for complimenting her too much.

Save yourself the trouble. Dump her and find someone else. There's no shortage of single women out there.

[Azzaiel]

not really, some girl dropped a guy because he "complimented her too much" made here feel weird.