Parental Alienation Syndrome Misuse - Holly Collins & Jennifer Collins Parental Alienation Case

[willis446]

Holly is a hero Mom! The court system in this country is so messed up. It is totally controlled by the devil. All the protective mothers need to unite together and fight with that evil family court system to protect our innocent children! No one can drive away your children except your own wrong behavior. When you do wrong to your children and hurt them, you are driving your children away from yourself and then you blame the other parent's alienation. You are guilty for all and everything!!!!!!!

[willis446]

I had exact same experience with you. Parental Alienation Syndrome theory was created by a pedophile defender Dr. Richard Gardner. It is totally Garbage. It has no scientific support at all. Whoever uses this garbage to attack any mother is hateful. They would rather put children under abusers care. It is insane. Mostly they are child abusers and spousal abusers or the abusers' supporters. They really should be punished and prosecuted.

[theCosmicQueen]

@rorysmithod not only that. but we have utterly incompetent judges and court personnel who have no qualification whatsoever for evaluating what is best for a child, or for finding out what's really going on. They often are personally motivated or politically instead, or just not competent for the job in other ways as well. "The people's safety is the highest law" I forgot how that goes in Latin but it's an age-old legal standard.

[theCosmicQueen]

@HotjakeOneal15 PAS used to be a real situation, but it was the parent who was already abusive in other ways, most likely to use that on the kids. The abuser will try and alienate the kids from the nurturing parent (who is usually the mother), the abuser will also try to extinquish the other parent. They do everything to eliminate the other parent as if they don't exist, especially when that abuser gets with a new spouse. And moms shouldn't be accused of PAS for talking about/ exposing abuse!

[unclefixer]

I have said it before and I'll say it again, the system is corrupt and fraudulent. It about money, power and control, and now those that have used and abused it, are now the ones it is feeding on. Women abused it , and yes men did to, and now it ,the family court system, is turning on them. The kids and the innocent parents are the ones being violated and hurt. We need to bring this God awful racket and fraud under control, make it about our kids and saving our society.

[knarainmd]

I think there are always two sides to every story. Divorce and custody creates an environment in which we can convince ourselves of anything. Example: my ex accused me of starving my children while on vacation! She reported it to CPS. Fortunately, I had receipts and witnesses to back me up. My pre-teen daughter did tell her though that she was hungry (because I wouldn't buy junk food) and that complaint became the basis for abuse!

[theCosmicQueen]

@knarainmd maybe she WAS hungry and needed more snacks, even healthy ones. Do you know anything, or have you ever studied, about the physical needs of growing kids? as a mom, I definitely studied up and there's plenty to know.

[desdmoana]

I am in a similar, though not as severe situation with my daughters, 13 and 16. I believe that part of the problem is that the courts do not have the time, man/woman power, or money to fully investigate these cases. Or conversely when these cases ARE observed under a microscope it seems (as with this video) that either leniency or badly written laws are being applied. Too much is left to the judges digression, or not enough. I say this because SO many of these cases seem cut and dry.

[rubyslippers71]

@SacredSocietyAP Is it "greed and hatred in the worst form" for a parent to want to protect their child from well documented horrific physical abuse at the hands of their father? That is the ultimate love--wanting to keep your children safe from deadly violence. If this was a bickering parent going after another, I agree with you-that's not love and it only hurts children. A parent of either gender that horrifically abuses their child needs serious help, but the child should be kept safe.

[rubyslippers71]

@SacredSocietyAP Like I said, the priority should ALWAYS be the child's wellbeing. I agree that abuse comes in many forms, not just physical, and the intentional keeping of a child from a perfectly good parent can cause horrific damage to the child and entire family. We're talking about two different situations here though-one is a good parent being wronged by a revengeful ex, and the other is a child being extremely physically abused by a parent. Keep the child first, not political correctness.

[SacredSocietyAP]

@rubyslippers71 Well I am the good parent being kept from my child by a crazy-ex whose only doing it to hurt me..My ex was molested for years by her father and really believes that men are just sperm donors in this world with no useful purpose in child raising.

[rubyslippers71]

@SacredSocietyAP That's a horrible situation.Fathers are so critical in raising healthy children, and I'm a huge advocate for good fathers getting involved with their kids. Kids need their dads! The only situation where I think either parent's involvement with a child should be restricted (sometimes stopped) is when they're abusing their children. Too many children are put back in abusive situations because judges have agendas or are corrupt. I really hope things work out for you and your kids.

[lfant65]

I feel for you. Evil is not a gender issue. Men and women use all kind of tricks in association with their lawyers to undermine the loving relationship with our children. They harm our children in order to inflict us pain. I love my children, but the mother has alienated them in a way that I cannot recognize them anymore. They use profanities against me, even physical violence. I don´t care about Gardner´s life or death, I care for my children and the alienation I see in their hearts.

[childrenunderground]

The point I am trying to make is that even if there was PAS in our case (which there wasnt.) It is WRONG to keep children from a GOOD parent!!! BUT punishing the offending parent should not be the first and foremost goal!!! No one even acknowledges how CRUEL it is to the children to suddenly and traumatically rip them away from a loving parent that they had such strong emotional bonds. That in itself is INHUMANE!!!!!!

[childrenunderground]

Then to put children with an ABUSER is absolutely CRIMINAL!!!! The main goal appears to be to break the childrens bond with their mother. All they really succeed in doing is breaking the children. As part of the punishment to the mother the children suffer the most! We lost our mother, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, pets, school, church, etc. We LOST EVERYTHING!!!!!!! On top of that we were PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY TORTURED!!! All in the name of PAS!!!

[2nikki46]

Abusive people do not care about anyone except themselves. Parental Alienation was coined by a pedophile Dr. who helped other pedophiles gain custody of their kids and get the protecting Mom out of the way. He slit his throat when those kids grew up and tried to sue him. We now have an environment that abused children cannot be safe or believed. Shame on a society that accepts this crap PA from a known abuser.

[jaredabduntion]

I believe you. my ex use to abuse abuse me emotional and fisical,after my child born he treated me to take him away from me,he told me he will destroy and he did he kidnap my child . and yes

[W3Ar31]

please dont make it as though all dads are like this though please a lot of men are having a hard time as we s♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥peak

[hope4kidz]

When I hear, "Give our children a Voice," I want to scream, "Shut UP long enough to listen to the children's voices!"

Jenn is a grownup who has been abused, by her father, by the U.S. Courts, the court records stand on their own, read, learn, and LISTEN to what the Children say before trying to shut them up!

I love this family more with every passing day.

Know the story; learn before you speak.

LISTEN FIRST! ~

The kids are SCREAMING!

Can you HEAR?

Why Silence the Children?

[hope4kidz]

Learn before you speak about that which you know nothing. What assinine questions you ask. How do we know you are a human being?

This father fractured his 4 year-old son's skull! The medical records speak for themselves. The judge knew. Read the transcripts. Jennifer did not ask for their lives to be plastered across the internet.

What choice was this loving, intelligent, college educated daughter and son supposed to do?

They begged their mother to protect them. She did!

[maqam4000]

hi I know its not just mothers who do this, both parents do it, and i am not using the following word but, as an excuse. But mothers do have all the rights in the courts and they do pull this PAS thing all the time. Its wrong for both parents to do it, completely wrong. Anyway i hope u have a good christmas and new year, and everything is sorted out. bestwishes

[rubyslippers71]

so mothers have all the power in the courts? Historically that may have been true, but the pendulum has swung so far the other direction. Of course there are cases where mothers (and fathers) use their children to badmouth the other parent. In cases of severe abuse (such as the one shown in the video), PAS is ridiculous. The first priority should always be the child's welfare, and clear abuse should be acted on and NEVER disguised as PAS.

[soullovesoceanblue1]

Well, you don;t know me or my childs situation. I realize it happens unfortunately more often to Dad's than mothers. I have always insisted that PARENTS remember that it hurts children to have other people/parents/ whoever disparage their other parent infront of the child. In our case this DAD was just proven to be guilty! I KNOW HAVE MY SON BACK!! In our case I was the parent who was wronged.

[maqam4000]

PAS exist i have hard evidence of this, it really exists

[UKSecretCourts]

PAS and Gardner have been discredited by every reputable organisation.

PAS leaves the children in the hands of an abuser.

these comments were made by Richard Gardner..

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[soullovesoceanblue]

Still I am torn. Yes there are very good reasons for a parent, mother or father to try to get protection for their children, especially when there is documented proof of abuse. This is ridiculous that the judge gave the father custody. My son is now missing. They have moved from the last known address and we have no clue where they are. I'm only looking to get custody returned to me and supervised visitation and some kind of counseling for his dad. Of course my son will need a lot of counseling.

[pwreric]

dont be fooled.Its sad but Parental Alienation is real.Obviously every case is not the same.projection is the culprit here.I do it but I will acuse them of doing it and get back at them for all the terrible things I've done.Yeah I know it's crazy.

[soullovesoceanblue]

my son got a message to me to come and get him. He told me when and where to pick him up. When I did, he said that the address we got was only a mailing address not the real one. I brought him home and they have no phone so I couldn't call them. His dad reported him as a runaway and now the police who could never help me in the past now took him to a runaway shelter who made him go back to the hell hole of emotional abuse he left just 72 hours before. The judge said it was not an emergency.

[soullovesoceanblue]

We found the address when he ordered copies of court documents while trying to withdraw him from school to put him in school up there. As of the 5th of July '08, they have disappeared from that address. My son had a cell phone and was communicating with his friends, but was afraid to call me. His stepmother had his phone disconnected when they thought his friends were giving me information. Last year the she made him break up with his girlfriend the day she found out the girlfriend spoke to me.

[soullovesoceanblue]

I was afraid this would happen. I tried to get a restraining order when my son was 3 months old and it was denied. Then I finally was ABLE financially to leave just before he turned 2. I counted all the times the dad threatened or actually "took" my son who is now 16 yrs old and missing, it is at least 6 times. My son has 1st been alienated while living 5 minutes away. Then the dad moved 5 hours away without asking or informing me or the court.

[AbolitionistX]

I noticed that this case is in Massachusetts. I've been watching some MA courts for around a decade now and have found that there are a large number of Judges and GALs that will ignore documented abuse and stalking by a battering man. I actually heard one judge tell a woman seeking a restraining order, "I don't see any blood or visible bruises, it must not be too bad. You shouldn't have gotten him upset. Denied. {gavel bangs}" Financial records show the father paid the GAL to report his way!

[AbolitionistX]

Then, after ex-parte communication from the father's attorney, the judge gave the documented abusive father custody! Over the next years, the father successfully harassed the mother, continually dragging her into court for more and more support money (that the children never saw a dime of), denied the mother visits with the children and lied to the children about the mother... clearly PAS! My last information is that the mother has been denied visits with the unemancipated children for ~8 years.

[AbolitionistX]

Evidently, two of the three children are now emancipated. The mother is still denied access to the unemancipated child and of the two that are emancipated, one believes the lies of the father and will have nothing to do with the mother, while the other will speak with the mother on occasion, but has clearly stated a fear that the father will "find out" that they've talked and "take it out" on them. And the father's stalking? While it is less frequent, it still occurs so the mother is now moving!

[AbolitionistX]

My thoughts and prayers are with you. The main problem is a corrupt court system where judgments can be "obtained" in advance from the right connected attorney and a client with enough funds. This isn't just about an abusive parent, it is about power and corruption! BTW, I'm a father and I find the position and actions of many of the "father's justice" movement groups despicable. I have seen known documented abusers defended by such misguided groups... I am strongly opposed to those actions!

X

[mychildrencomefirst]

I am the mother of this remarkable young woman. You are my hero for having the courage to expose the injustice! Love Mum

[UKSecretCourts]

What's happening to mums who stand up for their children is a clear miscarriage of justice.

The legal system has been corrupted by PAS, which is Dr Gardners creation to get Pedophilia widely accepted.

He quite simply was a madman.

I hope that this makes more sense to you now.

We need to make social services accountable. We need to remove the secrecy.

Their policies wouldn't stand the light of public scrunity.

[UKSecretCourts]

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Parental Alienation Syndrome

Dr Gardners Quotes