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  • That is so true. Becuase I'm an Emo and I hate it when people say "I'm Emo" because they are depressed. you know not all Emo are depressed

  • I'm sorry I keep commenting, but you're reeeeeally super interesting.

    I also wanted to say thanks for playing Perfume in the background. xD

  • your so right. i mean i dress like a punk/emo but i like lady gaga n j rock n i even collect plushies, but there are always jackasses who r like OMG HOW CAN YOU DO THAT YOUR SO FAKE

    wait now, im fake cuz i do what i like n dont pretend to be something im not?? -.-'

    i dont think so....

  • i've watched this vid in the past and i came across it today. Still love it. Man if you lived here we would have awesome conversations. YEAH. Yesterday I wore men's jeans and ppl who know me looked at me like i'd gone mad. Cause it apparantly didn't fit in with my regular style. -sigh- i ran with it though. <3

  • Applause!

    I'm a Visual Kei, Goth, Oshare Kei, Lolita, Scene loving girl who is probably the ONLY one like it in my school. I got called 'emo' for how I dressed and I never understood why. One day I am all goth/vk than the next I am scene/ok. Regardless of how I look, I'm always laughing, really hyper and fun to be around. I don't fit any of the stereotypes really. The person who called me emo was trying to keep his sister from being my friend for very dumb reasons.

    Fashion is fashion. Love it!

  • Good vid!

  • All I'm gonna say here is: you are right, you basically took the words right out of my mouth, I adore you and people who talk crap should go flush their heads. And I'm usually rather nice :P :3 I am a pretty mainstream, easygoing kid who happens to love rock/metal and anything to do with that kind of music. Most people who judge me by my looks think I must listen to popmusic and r&b 24/7 but I don't and I hate having to justify that.

  • it's cold in ohio >_< brrr

  • HELL YES! Happy goths do exist!

  • Next time someone says im not goth for liking mcr im sending this video.

    ¬_¬

    <3

  • You don't know how amazing I find you <3

  • Your not goth,Your not emo,Your not anything...Your just you. c:

  • If you weren't a boy, you could do roller derby. Seems like your kind of thing, brother ^^

  • I completely agree with you. Anyway, being goth doesn't mean being sad and moody. Goth is a style, not a personality. Limiting yourself to the social norm is just silly.

  • I wish more people like you understood how important it is to just be yourself and live your life the way you want it rather than by someone else's rules. Life's too short anyways to live it like something you're not.

  • Nose piercing to tragus(?) connected by a chain. AMAZING.

    Dred locks. AMAZING.

  • you make me smile :D

  • <3 hugs and kisses from a fan :D

  • You have the best videos I've seen on youtube. :]

  • This was really a nice piece of advice. I can't agree more. (I'm a gamer, ballet dancer, Lolita)

    Also, I love Electro World! excellent choice. :D

  • You're an inspiration. :)

  • ily~

    i used to get alot of shit for doing manba make up and gyaru fashion and liking that subculture while at the same time liking darker musics, vk music, some metal, etc etc, and dressing in darker clothes etc.

    blah~~

  • Kai you are such an admirable and inspiring individual.

    And I hear Electro world in the backround, I love that song!!!

    ^-^

  • I love you, like a lot. x]

  • yay cute shit x3

  • God this is seriously what I think everyone should just get into their thick heads. Live your life how you want to live it and let everyone else do the same. Amen. I'm a cheerleader and a pageant queen and an anime kid and a pokemon player and an artist. I am a nerd and I like vintage clothes and ball jointed dolls and Taylor Swift. I am one huge giant omgwtf oxymoron weirdo but isn't that how everyone should be? Like shit because you like it, not cause you are "supposed to".

  • Awe, Kai your little bears look like Hamtaro :P

  • agreed 100 percent:)

  • Thank you for this video! I didn't even realize this until watching this, but this happens to me all of the time. I'm interested in a lot of different things while my friends are strictly the goth stereotype. So when I'm interested in cute, pink stuff (and other stuff but that's just one example) they give me weird looks and say shit. Even though I love them they'll just have to put up with me from now on :)

  • I really enjoy your video! I am person listen everything from Sopor Aeternus to Coldplay. I love anything and everything.

    Why put yourself in a box?

  • XD kai I cant belive u listen to siousxie ^^ shes like my role model I love her to death.and I totally agree with u,ppl shouldnt stop or only listen to certian bands to fit into the sterotype of the subculture..i hate that alot of my friends will stop listening to a band or just cuse there is one person that they dont like that listens to them that they will hate that band. Why cant ppl just be them and not sterotyped -_- its so frustrating

  • Yay! For plushies and cute shit!

  • YOU ARE MY INSPIRATION KAI!!!!

    Keep It Up!!!!

    p.s- You Hair Is Bitchin'

    P.P.S- You Make Me Melt *blush*

  • I love you for mentioning The Cure and Siouxsie and the Banshees. This video also made me happy (: I get told all the time that if you say "Dig" (Like: I totally dig that!) and certain words, it makes you a poser. I say I'm a punk-- how can you be a fucking poser in the PUNK trend? It's about not giving a shit and being yourself. Takes a poser to know a poser.

  • You're right, but there's one thing I don't understand. Why do you jump from one style to another style?

  • @kakashino8 because i love fashion. and mostly because i can.

  • @kakashino8 i jump from one style to another like crazy. i am a gemini and have 2 completely opposite sides to me. i will be like a rainbow puked all over me one day and i will be extreme goth the next. its fun as fuck and i need that change in my fashion constantly b/c i love both ways and i get bored without it. it kinda sucks though b/c its expensive and my closet and room is mixed of the 2 styles and i have to buy for 2 people pretty much. it gets pricey.

  • @kakashino8 Have you yet realized how silly that question is?

    "You're right but there's one thing I don't understand.

    Why do you jump from one style of music to another style?

    From one language to another?

    From one culture to another?"

    Really?

  • Everything you say is so true. c: Thanks for being you.

  • i love you O.O

  • This is going to sound really silly and possibly not make any sense, but I've wanted my labret pierced for a few years, and I was an art major so I thought it would fit because a lot of students in the art dept have piercings, but I ended up switching majors, and now I still have pink hair and stuff and everybody in this new department is more traditional and I was scared to get my labret done and not fit the "clean cut" stereotypes of my new major, but now I think I'm going to get it. Thanks :)

  • You look absolutely adorable in this video, Kai :'D reminds me of a living dead doll or somethingg~

  • I love your videos and art. You're such an inspiring individual. Please keep it up. :)

  • AMEN! :D

  • Goth + Cute Shit = Awesomeness :'3

    Stereotypes are so annoying! D:

  • So true! I hate when people act out the stereotypes... So you're a goth... Do you have to be a depressed asshole? I have piercings in my face and people look at me, shocked, when I hold the door open for entire families... I'm not just some dumb ass teenager going through a phase.

  • You're my inspiration to be daring and different <3

  • Frankly, I think "dark and depressing" is possibly as far away as Goth as it gets. Goth came out of the post-punk movement, a genre of music still very culturally and politically aware, but with a glam-rock sensibility. The aesthetic happened to appear dark because it reflected the paranoid nature of the times, almost a parody to the brightly-colored antics happening elsewhere. It had little to do with being maudlin and morose, and all to do with good music.

  • This is why I love you so fucking much Kai.

    Cause your not afraid of what people think bout what you like.

    I'm the same exact way. I love everything dark and gothic and all that but my room is covered in things bright. And then I have my living dead dolls and stuff. You can like so much more than just how you dress or whatever.

    I also play hockey and I've been made fun of before because I'm a goth kid and I play hockey. So effing what be who you want and love what you want. <3

  • @zeTokyoMisMatch thats how life should be. i have bones and bats and all sorts of creepy shit all over my room and then i have gloomy bears and hello kitty and shit XD live life however you feel best. who cares what everyone else has to say about it lol.

    and FUCK YEAH. i played hockey, soccer and for a short time, rugby. got kicked out of all of them for being too violent but it was AWESOME.

  • @KINGgutterface

    exactly :D

    there needs to be more people like us out there in the world xD

    we're also the type of people that don't you know follow everyone else and

    feel we have to "fit" into society by being just like everyone else.

    we're who we are and we're proud. <3

  • You're right! I agree with you. Next time if you videotape your speech, please turn the music a little bit down. I was distracted by the music and I had to listen your vid-speech for over and over again.

    You're so right tho, thank you for existing in this parasitistic world of slav-e-whores.

  • Yes!! I know how you feel.

    I like visual kei and gyaru.

    complete different things. but many people think that I'm just "emo" because they don't know anything from other cultures. and they think that because I'm "emo" I have to be all down and not like anything else.

  • @SkeletonScare Oh how I hate when people call others "emo" just because they're different from theirselves and they have no idea what to "label" them as... >_> Not that you should have to "label" people at all... But I guess that's how it is V.V

  • you're so right :3

  • You go, Kai. <3

    Mm, yes, I've had a lot of people come up to me and ask if I'm depressed or very dark and whatnot because I wear black on a near-daily basis. It's quite tiresome having to explain the same things over again. orz;

  • the world needs people like you :)

  • You're like an adorably super cute black but sweet cupcake.

    Everything about you is cute!! Your voice, your look, you preferences, everything~

    I do agree that you need to watch out for number one and make yourself happy. :] I'm from Ohio, I actually go to school at Kent State but I'm like an hour away from Toledo, and I have always felt that Ohio is just the judgmental asshole of the US. But I have learned from life that no one should give a shit. :] Your speech was adorable and you are cute.

  • very interesting. i get what your saying and agree 100%

  • "I don't wear black because I'm depressed, I wear black because it looks good."

    Oh my stars, I agree with this so much. I love the color black and half my school thinks I'm either goth or emo, but I am really a happy person! Cute things are adorable! I do like pink, I just don't want to dress like every whore-Barbie clone at my school!

  • btw your new dreads and make up look great!

  • I love you Kai! I like to wear goth stuff, i love ALSO goth music and gothic literature, i like dark things and horror movies but i'm a pretty cheerful person...and i like plushies... <3

  • ah yes - i've had this conversation with people many a time. i dress punk but that's not all i listen to and you should see my room >.<

  • that plushie has its ear ripped off.. its lovely :D

    Thank you kai, you've put into words everything i believe in!

  • You are the most real person out there *O*

  • i love you <3

  • Word.

  • i hear perfume in the background

    ELECTRO WORLD~~~~!!!

    good advice kai

    you are what you want to be

    but i do miss you being cute and colorful

    cause i love colors but i also love you no matter how you dress or look

    stay individual!!!!

  • I know exactly what you are saying, thats cool!

    I m a dude and i just like to wear nail polish, listen to death metal, but also to jrock and some happy jpop like lmc ...

    So people I know or I meet are like, dude what are you? Are you emo? goth?

    And i m like, uhmm well i m not any of them i m just beiing me, and some people respect that and think its pretty cool, while i didnt really expect such reactions :)

  • Your awesome plushies reminded me that I need to make you an awesome sock monster for being awesome.

  • is that Capsule playing as the backroung music?

    x)

    

  • So true! And fits my life so well right now, I'm a fairly "normal" person, but I've recently dyed my hair blue and am planning on starting to stretch my ears and I'm getting henna tattoos with my best friend soon- But I really don't want to be a-n-y stereo type. I don't want to be a scene kid, or goth, I'm an artist and I am MYSELF and that should be all that matters (: Love you forever and always Kai, you're so damn inspiring in the way you just, /live/.

  • It's not an awful video at all, I really do love that message, and think it's absurd that someone would call a person something like a "poser" cause they don't fit into THEIR idea of what *stereotype* should be, it's absurdly ridiculous, I think being happy is more important than fitting in.

  • You just gotta be who you want to be - like you do.

    I have so much respect for you!

  • amen to alll of what you said! <3

  • I have been looking for a jumper like that for forever O.O. And so true, so true.

  • i get you totally !! and i love you!

  • I also grew up listening to Siouxsie & the Banshees and The Cure~

    Fucking amazing music. :3

  • I have so many cute things, you should see my room!

  • I should have my husband watch it. We go to an industrial club called Das Bunker sometimes, and he loves dancing industrial. But he won't dance industrial with me because "you can't dance industrial together." And it pisses me off! I want to dance with him, but he won't because he's too embarrassed that someone might judge him for it. Anyway... I 100% agree with you! Thanks again Kai for being awesome as usual! :-)

  • Coco Chanel : "In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different." Your variety is what makes you irreplaceable, Kai. <3 that's why we love you.

  • Couldn't agree more. You should like what you like and it doesn't matter what others think.

  • respect fro speaking up. im the same, but still i love cute japanesey things and its awesome, its happy and cute and ..cute..and just plain cute!

  • *high five kai* Righteous :] There are no rules, an even if there were, th ppl that wrote them are prolly dead by now and couldnt care less. People take themselves way too seriously nowadays. an when i look at Kai i dont think "goth!" or "cyber", i think "Kai". Let individualism be youur banner to stand under, stereotypes are a waste of time.

  • You are awesome.

    Is that Perfume I heard in the background? And...YMCK maybe? No...Plus-Tech SqueezeBox? Anyway, you're so right. I am perfectly happy with being "a walking rainbow" one day and "oh, look at that fugly blackdressed person" the other. Even if things you like are different to eachother, it shouldn't matter.

  • aw I love u kai, ur so freakin cute :P ur awsome and screw stereotypes. life is to short to limit ones self to stupid things like that, if it makes u happy, then do it and/or enjoy it :)

  • Are you wearing black eyelens?

    Anyways, Im loving your eyes here :)

  • :D I loves you.

  • i love this video it sums up what i keep trying to tell ppl who give me small mindded coments =)

  • well said :D

  • Oh yes thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not all goths are sad!!!!!!! and just cos your a goth doesnt mean that you cant like cute, pink or fluffy things!! <3 <3 <3 <3 Thank you Kai!!! I love you! And just cos you dont listen to JUST goth music doesnt mean that your not goth..... I'm gonna share this video everywhere <3 Its a message that all people should hear. <3

  • I agree with you! I hate it when people say things like that. Everyone is free to do whatever they want, and whatever they like. And you're so cute! *___*

  • Thank you, dear~ I like visual kei but a lot of people in the community will look at me funny and criticize me beause I like kpop and I like to dance. What's wrong with that? CUTE THINGS ARE FUN TOO! D: I love you dude keke

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