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  • My friend just committed suicide last night. It's a horrible thing to go through. I keep asking myself why but I know it won't help to look at the what if's. I've been crying all morning with my friends. I really wish I knew that she was hurting, R.I.P Harmony <3 we will always love you :'(

  • im 13 turning 14 next month i have cut and tried popping pills i tried running away. recently i lost my two best friends and that almost killed me. my last peices of hope sit in. my mom. my frend (i love him). and music. music it helps me through everything. and my mom dont judge me. then my friend. talis. he is my last strand of sanity without him i would die he seems to have a sense when to call me and he can always tell when im sad. i love him more than anything he is my everything! luv him!!

  • Who told you life wasnt worth the fight, they were wrong, they lied NOW YOUR GONE AND WE CRIED..! Maybe this whole world inst that bad a place, and why would you leave the stage in the middle of a song :) These words are truely brilliant and please think twice before doing the wrong thing, life may seem to overwhelming and everything seems to be pitch black, dont ever forget the ones who loves you. And they are there for you, you just forgot them in your despare.!

  • People have been in bad times, so please listen. Open up your HEART everyone has one, i thought i didn't, but everyone does. Don't give up. I did and it was bad, but now i believe I can do anything...

  • I just had a friend who committed suicide. No one really knows why but after she did it really affected more people then she would have ever thought. To this day the thought of her death brings tears to my eyes and many other people. So please this is coming from the other side before you even think about suicide remember even though you may think no one will care people do and when your gone it affects more people then you truly think it ever could.

  • Two days ago i've tried to kill myself by taking 119 pills but NOTHING HAPPEN? i'm tired, i really am. god damn it

  • I just wish someone could hold me. I'm alone, suicidal and crying. Wish I had a close friend I could talk to but I really don't. Gotta keep fighting because my parents love me and I love them too. Gotta keep fighting.

  • @DrummerElliott please keep fighting, please. talk to somebody, or tell your parents: they WILL understand and try to help you. just don't give up

  • I was bullied for 3 years in grade school because I had terrible acne and the past 2 years I was made fun of for listening to screamo. I was suicidal and i came close to killing myself a few times. If I woulda known about this song, I might have changed early on. I'm 17 now, since August: I haven't had any of those thoughts, I pray every night thanking God for getting me through those rough times, even though I pushed Him away then. If you are suicidal: tell someone! I did. And never lose hope!

  • For all of those who is thinking of ending their life, please don't. My son did almost 2 years ago, and to this day I hurt, I am in so much pain, I miss him each and everyday, this goes for both his mother and sister as well. We can only speculate as to the why, which causes even more pain because then we think what if we had done this or done that? Believe the pain is so unbearable to the point that I have thought about ending the pain. IT IS NOT WORTH IT!!!!

  • I am sorry to read what you wrote, but coming from a Son's point of view...sometimes it's harder for a son---as they are going through life---and they are the ones that literally feel like THEY are the ones hurting so badly inside....that it will never end --ya know? I just wanted to place a grain of speculation on the table is all. *I think, sometimes? When depressed, people are already feeling that same hurt that you're talking about, my dear. It's a horrible cycle...sorry to have read this

  • @jacquesno3 Why are you sorry to have read this?

    Yesterday was my son's birthday, the second one after his death and the pain was just the same as it was a year ago. People with depression such as myself, don't think about the aftermath of of a suicide, they only think about how to stop the pain, stop the hurting, stop the loneliness, just to name a few of the things that causes one to think that suicide is the answer.

  • @murfr5 But it is not the way. Believe me I have thought about suicide even now I think about it, but I also think about how my son's death affected my wife, daughter, relatives, and , myself I think about how much I hurt and then think about how much more my family hurt if I follow my son. My pain is so bad, that it makes me think of suicide, so I can relate to every son, every daughter, every parent that is dealing with thoughts of suicide, but it is not worth it!

  • @murfr5 I ask everyone that is thinking about suicide to think about how much it will hurt their parents, their brother or son, their sister or daughter, their boyfriend or girlfriend, all their relatives, even their pet, I do believe someone out there will hurt as much as I do that they will think about suicide themselves.

    Is this really what you want?

    There is not a problem that cannot be solved especially if you ask for help, remember the song Lean on me? It is about asking for help.

  • my therapist made me look up this song after i tryed killing my self... it made me think alot....<3

  • My father tried to commit suicide on Thanksgiving, 2009. A month later, this song/video came out on YouTube. and I cried because it reminded me so much of him. And now I'm glad that he survived, and I survived-I had many suicidal thoughts while he was in the hospital-and then Unstoppable came out. I feel like Rascal Flatts can change people's lives. They've changed mine, and they are my first favorite band.

  • There will always be people asking "why?" but think not in sadness of them that they have left us, think in happiness as for a short while we had them. We must always remember, I remember this time as my uncle commited suicide 2 weeks before Christmas. I pray that if your still asking why i hope you find peace, its okay to cry, its strong, they are always alive in our memories <3

  • I cry for you to come home my son even though I know you can't. It's been almost 8 yrs and I miss you so very much. I am trying so hard to do something positive to keep your memory alive. I have joined the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, you would be very proud of me I am sure. Not a day goes by when I don't think of you. rest in peace my beautiful son. Kenny L Connors 2/8/85 ~ 12/16/03. for help please call the national hot line 1-800-273-8255. where there is life there is hope

  • I submitted a video response- a memorial vid for my friend Lorenzo who killed himself 3 months ago. I'll never understand why, and I don't think I'll ever be able to accept that he's gone. I miss him everyday.

  • Jason. Imissyou... ♥

  • this is a beautiful song a girl pictured in the first 20 seconds of this video looks incredibly familiar to a girl that i went to high school with, and hung herself the summer going into our senior year. everything in this song is so true to her. the autumn sun shining, she was on almost every varsity sport and there is a line in the song about trying as hard as possible no matter the game. she was one of 4 suicides in my four years of high school. i think about her almost everyday.

  • keep going, it gets better

  • TRhis might sound dumb but im eleven years old so my mind might be different..

    My dog got cancer in his hip. My mother and father are talking about putting him down. So on a night, I promissed him I would never let anyone take his life away no matter what. Even if he is a dog, I cant break that promise. But I always ask...Why did I have to promise him something that sounds so hard! you can respond all you want and tell me what to do.

  • @montmurf Beautiful heart, there are promises we just can't keep... if your dog is meant to be by your side a little bit more, he will, but if he's not... I know it's hard. REALLY hard, but he'll never forget you or stop loving you. There are some things we just can't control... you know your heart will ALWAYS be with him, no matter what. You have to think in what's best for him, I'm sure life won't stop for him. Just this life.. he will be your angel :) STAY STRONG, both of you will be fine.

  • @montmurf I know it's hard. But...Honey, if your dog is suffering...then it might be the best thing for him...I know I'm just a stranger, but you have to trust me...I've seen enough in my life to know that watching someone, or something, you love suffer...it sucks, really bad. And I also want you to know, that.... when, or rather if they put him down, then He won't feel a thing. It'll be like he fell asleep. I hope that's some sort of help to you..

  • This song , & many others gave me hope to never give up<3

  • Jakob. im sorry. i love you. i dont understand. you were always so happy and full of life. and now your gone and i never told you what you ment to me. you hung yourself. you could have told me. i would have tried to help.

  • WOW to all of the 43 peopl ehwo dilike this song. That shows how much you care about the people like me. the ones who are depressed and suicidal...

  • Please for any young person out there fighting depression, OCD, or just feeling lost visit BOTKACH.com they help youngsters in need who can not afford to pay for counseling it is a wonderful foundation!

  • To everyone out there going through a hard time, STAY STRONG. i knows its easier sad than done, trust me, but the only way to get better is to keep holding on to yourself and your faith. Please dont give up. Ive wanted to alot, but my sisters and brother keep me here. I love every single one of you guys out there struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts...been there done that. but im getting better and i know you guys will to <33 I LOVE YOU, NEVER FORGET THAT. I DO CARE <3

  • Sometimes I feel that I have no choice! I feel so bad, sad and alone, with no reason! And I have just wonderful friends who support me no matter what, an amazing family! I don't know why I feel this way!

    4 years ago my cousin committed suicide, and I can say that after all this time, has not been easy and I cannot get over it! I have many regrets and problems with myself!

    Somehow this song makes me get up! But I'm still wondering WHY to a lot of things! D:

  • I've just recently lost one of my sisters to suicide last month & i can honestly say it is a really horrible thing to go through,i have so many regrets about the past but i just hope she can now see that despite everything deep down i did care! i carry so much pain around inside me now that's she gone but i'll never forget her,Rest In Peace Emma - 06.10.2011<3,anybody who is having problems and feels like there is no hope seek help! death is not the answer,keep strong guys xx

  • I heard Gary, Jay, and Joe had a hard time recording this song because they all knew someone who commited suicide. I strongly understand how they felt. Suicide is serious, people. If you know someone who will commit suicide, don't stand there and act like nothing's happening, GET HELP!

  • I just want to say to ANYONE who feels like giving up, please DON'T do it no matter how much you think someone in your life doesn't care TRUST me somebody does. And don't even do it for them, do it for YOU, you ARE worth something. You are loved, there's nothing wrong with the way you feel a lot of people get down but the important thing live minute by minute it WILL get better. Please get help, you can get through it. God loves you and he's always there when the whole world walks out.

  • I keep getting bullied, im overweight, people make fun of me because I like country music, my friends hate each other and become mean people to me. and im just ten. I have a bunch of worries and feeling stuck in me. And I only have one question..why me? But the next thing I knew, I was taking singing lessons, I was preforming solos, duets and I was one of the youngest singers who made it to my teachers group who sings more and preform more. So I may be sad and scared, but This song is awesome

  • @montmurf why? right time for the answer, and you also is the one who can answer that. You'll understand it for sure. Smile :) things will get better

  • @montmurf, I was also bullied by classmates when I was younger because of being overweight & I just never felt like I fit in. Stick in there, God's got something really awesome in store for you. He loves you & has promised that he will never leave you or let you down. He can turn all the negatives in your life into positive things like he has done for me. God bless you!

  • @im1cg im bullied just cause im in foster care

  • RIP Son, I love and miss you more than anyone will ever know!

  • R.I.P Charlotte Renae Kingsley

    You Are A Strong Angel, Fly High And Soar Like Nothing before, my sweet Little Angel.. <3

    People, "Don't be a Potato face, be a tomato, youu." <3 -Charlotte. she was13.

  • I have lost 2 people to suicide.. my mum when i was 6 (34 years ago) and my partner 12 years ago.. both will always be forever in my heart and it still seems like yesterday.. and yes still till this day i ask why.. this is for both of you.. Love and Miss you always xxxx

  • i lost 2 friends not long ago because of suicide both like brothers to me an lost them both only few months apart........first one did 2 weeks before his b-day an the other 3 days after his b-day. other hand i was in depression for 4 years tried to kill self few times, 8th grade tried to kill my self on my b-day an couldnt....then first year of high school i was goin to run out of school an get hit by a car,but im doin better now but i will always be heart broken by losin 2 friends by suicde :(

  • R.I.P Lee Marki. You are so smart, talented, funny, one of the awesomest people ever, nice, sweet, kind, and so many other things. I miss you, Lee!!!!! I cry in this song because I think of you!

  • when i first heard this song it made me realize i had a serious problem that IS commen in teens now....i felt so alone and worthless, i felt like nobody cared, that nobody ever would, my friends started to notice it and told me to look at myself....i didnt believe them, and i started to pull away from the things i loved, such as my softball and my track and feild. just because you feel like nobody cares, there is somebody there....im there for you <3 ive been through this....recently.

  • 4 months ago today I lost my cousin to suicide. I have always had this song on my phone because I listen to it when i have cut and tell myself I would never want someone to think of me to this song if I killed myself. But I also never thought I would think of someone when I hear this song.. but now I do. I still wonder why, but we will never know. I miss you jack and I love you so much <3

  • Reading these comments gives me hope, watching this music video makes me cry. It lets me know i'm not alone. I don't know you, but for this, I love you.

  • I lost my dad to suicide on April 16, 2004... To this day, not a day goes by without thinking about it. My heart goes out to all that have lost somebody and just know that Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I sometimes have to remind my self of how much suicide hurts people, so the stupid and selfish people of this world don't get to me.

  • when i first watched this video i thought it was the official music video thumbs up if you think it should!

  • @tahunabiker they actually do use this i remember when this song first came out they used it on a country tv channel...

  • @tahunabiker I didn't know it wasn't until I read your comment. haha.

  • @tahunabiker it is the official video, even though it's just like a slideshow.

  • when i was in the 2nd grade my best friend killed himself. then 5 years later i started to see him, then seeing other people. i started to hear voices telling me to kill myself. that was like 10+ years ago. in 2008 i had a baby and then got help, i tried killing myself again. since 2008 to now im on meds and having to go to peer supports. i still have my days, but im learning how to cope with it. all i have to say is dont give up and get help.

  • @belove991 Sounds like you're demon possessed, for real!

  • @antisanta11 wow! i have been prayed over so many times. i got saved in the summer of 1997. and i still have problems. learn your mental illness.

  • @belove991 i am so glad you got help. you gotta be here for that baby. my roommate killed himself in 2003. i am now on meds as well. i try to tell people all the time to get the help they need. and that being on medication doesn't mean you are weak, it means you decided to take control of your life. you stop living in fear. bless you.

  • @belove991 Wait when u were in gr 2 im just assuming that he was in gr 2 too... he actually killed himself? That is the most sad thing I have ever heard.

  • @belove991 why did he kill himself ?so sorry that happend to u

  • @belove991 stay strong...my sis at heart is saying she wishes she was dead and evryday i see her i end up changing her mind. It's hard on me becuz she's told me b4 that I was the only thng stopping her from it....when she said tht I learnd how important friends could be thn...keep going...cuz I promis tht things get betr in time

  • This vid saved my life. Literally. I was suicidal because of being bullied and manipulated by an ex-friend. She was physically and emotionally abusing me. She wouldn't leave me alone. She even texted me, "Why don't you just kill yourself? Nobody likes you and nobody appreciates you. So, just do us all a favor." I decided with it and thought, "Maybe she's right. Maybe I should." I moved and found new friends who said "She's wrong. You have all of us while she has nobody. You're everything."

  • I know my friends and family love me. Inside I'm afraid to die. But it all comes down to the fact I have nothing waiting for me after I graduate. I don't have any job skills and if I went to college I'd just be waisting time and money. I don't think my dad ment it the way he said it but it made me feel like I have no purpose in this world. That I was never ment to live beyond high school. I am scared shitless of what I'll do to myself one day.

  • @ddmae12 I felt that way once. I kept asking myself, "Whats the point of college? I'm just going to die before I do anything with my degree. Its just a waste of time and money." I was so wrong. It wasnt until college that I truly found myself. Dont give up. Life is so worth it. Dont be afraid to reach out if you feel you are going to harm yourself. 1-800-784-2433 The people at Hopeline are always there to listen. :hugs sweetie.

  • @ddmae12 I don't know what you are going through but I do know what the survivors will be going through...when my son Kenny was 18 years old He put a gun to his head and shot himself....this December 16th will be 8 years since he died, my heart breaks like it was yesterday...I don't know you but I do care 1-800-273-8255 is the number for the National Suicide Prevention line, they can and will help you...all you need to do is call please

  • @ddmae12

    mean verbal comments can hurt as much as someone punching us. Your dad may think he is helping you,

    If it is too hard to tell him that negative comments like that make you feel horrible about yourself, and to please stop, then at least know he is speaking out of fear, or his own failures, and insecurities.

    You have a kind heart. Help someone tomorrow --- a kind word, a smile, a random act of good.

    Tell the negative voices in your head to SHUT UP. If you can talk to someone :)

  • @ddmae12 I felt that way A LOT growing up, but we are all here for a purpose. You are worth so much more than you know and soon this will all be a memory and help you to be stronger and more grounded. Maybe one day you can help people who felt this way? Young kids who thinks life's not worth it. PLEASE don't give up, talk to someone, get help for how you feel. This is only temporary you have a great life ahead of you.

  • This song means so so so much to me! My brother Really tried to kill himself. I mean he did EVERYTHING and still lived! But while he was laying up in the hospital I turned to this song. I have lost family members and best friends to suicide. I love you Aunt Saundra and Tammy. Life was too short!

  • My brother Geoff just ended his life 9/12/2011.I cant stop asking WHY? This is the most hardest song to hear but also the sweetest...I miss you and love you forever your lil sis..Janine

  • This song was played at my friends funeral

    he hung himself

    and everyone misses nim a lot

    i guess he didnt feel loved and he thought no one cared

    well obviously alot of people cared about him

    so if you dont think anyone would care if you killed yourself your wrong

    cause trust me someone would car

    so please dont do what my friend did dont make even more people go through what me and tons of other people go through

    I love and miss you Matt</3

  • I just tried commiting suicide thirty minutes ago. As the train was about to hit me, I felt God's presence and jumped out of the way. The train driver stopped the whole train for me, ran over to me, found me, and hugged me tighter than i have ever been hugged. PEOPLE DO CARE. God bless everyone and stay alive!!!!!!!!!!

  • i just cryed right now and i can relate to this cause i hate mmy life with school i have been bulllied for my whole life ever since kindergarden this song reallly touches me and i have thought of suicide all the time this help me al lot now thank you rascal flatts for making this song and help people who deals with this and im just 13 and i want to die and end my life cause no one cares for me not my friends i think i can listen to this all the time now since its helps me with my problem

  • @Lazykathy1 Please seek help from your school counselors. I was not much older than you when I moved from thinking about suicide to acting on it. I want to spare you that pain. It may not seem like your friends care but that is just the depression talking. Your friends and your family would miss you very much.

  • @Lost6faraway i tryed theydont help me cause of my new schpool and gthe new school is some shit cause i got bullied worst in this school than my old school that i miss cause it was way better and i could talk to my counselor and my teacher but in this school they dojnt help me for crap and my paremnts dont know what iam going through i even told them that im getting bullied at school and they just say they gotta stop sometme but i have doubt of that and the new kid keep bulling me and my friend

  • @Lazykathy1 1-800-784-2433 Its the suicide hotline. They are always there to listen and help find a solution. :hugs sweetie.

  • @Lazykathy1 Honey your friend don't matter, YOU matter. Your family loves you I can guarantee you that. Please tell someone how you feel and tell them you want help. Remember it will get better love, it just takes time. I'm sorry people treat you bad, but that just means there's something wrong with THEM not you. You are special and they see that so they try to bring you down so DON'T let them. You have your whole life ahead of you, soon this will all be a memory and it will make you stronger.

  • @Lazykathy1 You are loved more than you know. I know it may seem that the weight of the world is bearing down on you but alway remember you are never out of options. I was bullied as a child by people I called my friends and felt that no one close to me really cared. My friends had a tendency of betraying me when I needed them the most. But I found strength. YOU TOO HAVE THAT STRENGTH. Be proactive. I know that there must be someone near to you that can help. I will pray for you, much love

  • R.I.P KASEY CANADA. R.I.P MORGAN SHELL. R.I.P CHARLOTTE KINGSLEY. R.I.P CUZCO. R.I.P STEVEN RUMBAUGH. R.I.P ALL WHO DIED IN SEPTEMBER 11. R.I.P CASEY CALVERT. R.I.P REV SULLIVAN. R.I.P RACHEL SCOTT. R.I.P MICHEAL JACKSON.

  • My life is hell. Nothing is ever going to get better. I want to kill myself.

  • @SuicidalFreak471730 I've been there I used to cut myself and wished that one day I would cut deep enough to die but I learned that sometimes we have to go through some very dark times to come out the other side stronger and if you need someone to talk to I am here for you

  • @SuicidalFreak471730 Please dont. I've been suicidal since I was 5 years old crying myself to sleep because I didnt understand the concept of wanting to end my own life. Its a tough road but you can do it. Seek help from a professional. I suffered in silence for 12 years when I didnt have to. Life really if worth it if you give it a chance. :hugs Message me if you ever want to talk. :)

  • Last year I started cutting myself when life seemed to get to tough. It was a way to forget about the emotional pain and focus the physical pain for me. I finally told my mother about my problem 3 months ago and I am now going to therapy to help me learn that everything will be okay in my life. This is the song I listen to when I need a reminder that suicide is never the answer, you need to get help and do not be afraid to ask for it. It can change your life.

  • I lost a friend to suicide.. She hid it so well. So don't say "Get over it" Because it happens.

  • @GoesKitty I know how you feel...R.I.P. Lauren Brylee Verser (smileybrylee) youtube name...love and miss you baby girl..

  • I feel like life is personally screwing me.....my mom has hsp my grandma has alsimers, my dad has phybermialgia and can't get medicine cuz his job doesnt have health incerancance and doesnt pay him my boyfriend just dumped me and it's just soooo hard to keep going....everyone says this will make u stronger but wen will it end...life is a game full of curveballs when you think you have just recovered from the last one it sends you another when you think i don't want to play anymore! ill keep goin

  • When I feel like I can do it anymore, I listen to this song. Because I know that if I give up - everyone will be asking "why?"

    Sometimes, I ask that myself. Why is life like this for me?

    But it's just life and I'm just me. Thank you, Rascal Flatts.

  • you know, there comes a point where everybody obviously hates you, and what you want to do is blow their freaking brainz out, but you can't cause they're so many, and you're very demoralized, there are approximately 6.96 billion people in the world, let's say that the part that hates you is approximately 6,960 persons. of course you have friends, but you know that they won't stick with you and your depressed thinking, so, who wouldn't be demoralized in a 1-6,960 fight?

  • people sacrafice there lives for depreision if you know anybody that is like this help them make them happy suicide starts out from family isues and bulling from skool help people and make a change sit with someone that sits alnoe plz people deservve to live and not to kill themselve let god lead you in the right way

  • For all of you who thinks that it is easy to get back up you have no clue, by the way it is not life that puts someone in that position it is God he needs people to suffer so they will ask him to help them out, kind of like a Jew asking Hitler for help! Think about it. I have been struggling all my life with low self-esteem, lack of confidence, always 2nd guessing myself since childhood and had 3 request of God provide, protect, and guide my kids and he failed on all three so what is the point?

  • I am 47 years old and all my life I have been pushing and fighting to move forward only to be down I keep going and keep trying but still only to be knocked back down the ultimate blow was when Life took 25% of who I was away from which was my son who died last year and now I just don't care about trying to push or fight to move forward only to be push down.

  • I love this video it makes me cry and remember when i wanted to end my life. Now looking back im glad i didnt because after a couple years of hard work my life is finally where id like it to b and i wouldnt change a thing

  • when it comes to suicide it's not one person who loses it all, it's one family, one society, one country, one world. We are all connected in a way .

  • @forgotten5506...No one forgets your tired... Lot's of people are battling depression and struggling through there own self worth and trying to figure out where they belong.. You have a family that cares, and loves you.. To say your at peace with your decision is for you.. Think of your family, friends, and pets.. They will be the ones left with an empty hole asking why?? Please reach out to your friends, and family for support... I don't know you.. But I do care... And you are loved..

  • Sometimes people forget that some of us are tired. Ive battled depression for 15 years now. Im 32.. finally made my decision for this saturday. people think i have it all. I worked my ass off, own my own business and for nothing. I love my family, my pets, and will miss them when Im gone. But strangely enough, after I made my decision, im at peace finally

  • A 15 year old girl holds hands with her 1 year old son. People call her a "slut", no one knows she was raped at age 14. People call another guy "fat", no one knows he has a serious disease causing him to be overweight. People call an old man "ugly", no one knows he experienced a serious injury to his face while fighting for our country in the war. Re-post this if you are against bullying and stereotyping. I bet 88% of you won't..., yet we should also enjoy the wonderful music.

  • thumbs up if this song made you cry but you still liked it....also thumbs up if you can relate to this song i know I CAN!!!!

  • Who says when it is your time to say goodbye ! 

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  • This song always make me feel like there is hope when i dont think there is

  • i just came back from my bestfriends funeral and he commited suicide by shooting himself, and they played this song which made me cry horribley.

  • This song actually made me cry....

  • Thumbs up if you asked why when you read "Every 40 seconds someone asks why." Bahahah.

  • im so sorry alex i loved you sooooooo much ..you were my bestfriend ....i remember all the good times we had ..i just wish you would not have killed your self. and now it haunts me wondering if i could have done something to keep you from doing that ) : i love yu alex

  • i found my boyfriend in his house. he shot himself with his .38 Its been just 2 years..but sometimes it feels like it was yesterday. I ask Why..why..

  • I know you might think this silly but my little bay arabian mare saved me in so many ways. Some people say i found her but really if you know us you would know that she found me. I wouldn't be here without her. 

  • i had a great great friend when i was 5 years old. the night of my parents wedding, the 18 year old i called my older brother, best friend, and baby sitter killed himself. this year, I'm 16 years old. and just this year I found out about his death not being accidental. all i can keep asking is "why" why did he do it? why did he leave us? even now im crying. Alec Eady, you are loved so much. and missed greatly. i'll never understand why, but in my heart is where you belong

  • this Song is amazing

  • I wish I could have words to what my family has been through, I just lost my cousin he died because of cancer, and my life hasn't been easy since then and now my parents are fighting and whenever I need someone my best friend is with me, but sometimes I wish I can go too heaven with my cousin but if it wasen't for my friend I would maybe have suicide already but she made me understand the meaning of life, and I live for myself.

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  • first of all, i must say, the 41 people that disliked this video have NO heart.

    secondly, for all the people who say "oh just get over it"... you need to understand that you just cant get over feeling suicidal or being depressed. this video got me thru a lot of tough times. all those times i felt suicidal cuz my "friends" made fun of me, all the times ive cried over losin the greatest thing that never happened to me, all the times i cried cuz i missed a family member, this song got me thru it.

  • @keyportraider60 I agree with you some people just need to understand............

  • Respond to this video... It's hard to explain to someone who has no clue. It's a daily struggle being in pain or feeling sick on the inside while you look fine on the outside. Please put this as your status for at least 1 hour if you or someone you know has an invisible illness (PTSD, Anxiety, Bipolar, Depression, Diabetes, LUPUS, Fibromyalgia, MS, ME, Arthritis, Cancer, Heart Disease, Epilepsy, Autism,M.D. etc.) " Never judge what you don't understand!

  • @keyportraider60 It's hard to explain to someone who has no clue. It's a daily struggle being in pain or feeling sick on the inside while you look fine on the outside. Please put this as your status for at least 1 hour if you or someone you know has an invisible illness (PTSD, Anxiety, Bipolar, Depression, Diabetes, LUPUS, Fibromyalgia, MS, ME, Arthritis, Cancer, Heart Disease, Epilepsy, Autism,M.D. etc.) " Never judge what you don't understand!

  • @keyportraider60 people say "just get over it" what are they nuts i've never been depressed mind you but you do not say that to a depressed person to me it makes you look like you could care less about them and that'll lead to suicide now i may be wrong but i think i have connected the dots on that also agreed 41 people have no heart or soul

  • PLEASE HELP!

    I asked BOYCE AVENUE to do a cover (w/ MEGAN NICOLE) of "Why" by Rascall Flatts.

    My bestfriend Ricky died when he was only 13, he left behind his Mom, Dad & twin sister. At 10, it was hard to deal w/ even till now. A few months ago his Dad killed himself due to the lose of his only son.

    Copy,paste AND LIKE this on their page for a cover of this song to help put out the message to prevent suicide, it'll help ppl even w/ the smallest bit of acknowledgement that ppl care & WILL help

  • There is a reason why we were born. Its hard to believe this sometimes especially when we are faced with millions of problems, heartaches etc... When you reach that stage, just breath-push away any suicide thought and just breath.

  • This song is so beautiful and meaningful, I cry every time I hear it. literally just last night, I met this girl who posted a quote on "witty" who said she was going to take her life because she was clinically depressed, and her family and friends thought she was being ridiculous. Me and at least 10 other girls online told her how wonderful and valuable she was, that she shouldn't take her life. She promised she would stay with us for a few days. Hopefully she'll change her mind all together.

  • I love they put 'listen to music' in the list of solutions <3

  • amazing **tear**

  • i have tryed commiting suicide multiple times because i really thought no one cared i tried drowning myself and something would always catch my attention and there is only one time tht my entire body went numb and then i thought i heard someone call my name...but no one did, i took tht as a sign tht i have a purpose and tht somewhere someone cares :)

  • @wildeyedredneck Please don't try to hurt yourself again, I care. If someone called me and said you hurt or killed yourself I'd cry even though I've never met you. You matter.

  • @xXFoxPawXx Thank you! i havent done anything in awhile and i dnt plan on it :)

  • no matter what, it's still hard to keep living if everyone around you wants you dead,

    I know that you know it's hard for us. What I don't understand is instead of encouraging us, you're just saying we're too weak or too dumb to commit suicide, just because of a problem. @shaydeluca yes life pushes us, and we must push back, but no matter how hard we push, if others push on the other side, that's when we fall in the pit of suicide.

  • i lost my dad o june first and this song reminds me of him so much that i cry all the time

  • Everyone who listens to this song, their heart grows a little bigger because of it.

  • After everything that has happened, my grandparents died 6 months apart, my aunt is in the hospital for the 3rd time this year, my father has to go to the hospital again because he has another blockage, my grandfather is very sick, my little sister has 3 holes in her heart and some blockages and has had 4 surgeries and she is 12, and much more ive learned that this stuff makes you stronger, ive had many suicidal thoughts since i was 12 and i am 15 now i've learned that it does get better

  • @PattyCake4809 you are right it is worth the effort -dont give in to those thoughts - press on and be strong

  • After everything that has happened, my grandparents died 6 months apart, my aunt is in the hospital for the 3rd time this year, my father has to go to the hospital again because he has another blockage, my grandfather is very sick, my little sister has 3 holes in her heart and some blockages and has had 4 surgeries and she is 12, and much more ive learned that this stuff makes you stronger, ive had many suicidal thoughts since i was 12 and i am 15 now i've learned that it does get better

  • I'm depressed about a brake up... and I feel like no one would care.. and i dont know what to do I have soo much planned for my life, but sometimes I feel like i'm nothing to no one :(

  • @Kjohnson364 You are something to me and I care. If I was told you hurt or killed yourself I'd cry for you. I don't know you and you don't know me but you still matter to me.

  • After all the things I've been through, drug addiction, depression (still am), Suicide attempts, Treatment center "visits, I'm a stronger person. This song, helped me on the nights I couldn't fall asleep at night because I hated school and didn't want to wake up the next morning... This song made me realize, It gets better if I live another day. That it just takes time. For anyone whos been in my situation, I'm here, I know what you feel. And it DOES get better.

  • I think about it sometimes..i think of all the people i would hurt and that makes me more upset..sometimes i wish i could just crawl iinto a hole and never come out..but then i listen to this song and it gives me hope <3

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  • i try suicide once bu putting a 9mm to my head and pulling the trigger. its just to bad it jammed. whats the point in living when every1 u care for and love hates and dispises u 4 no reason. well the reason is im not like them. its hard living knowing that ur like a beautiful butterfly but every1 treats u worse than a cockroach or a bed bug.

  • @blazeironfist you may not feel like people dnt car but there are friends and family out there that do care about you and wouldnt know what to do if you werent alive. i know because i believed that no one cared and that everyone hated me. i tried to commit sucide before but i noticed all that i cared about and that there must be a reason to live and someone out there who cares. and with the gun jamming, that's God showing oyu that you have a reason to live and that it's t time for you to die

  • i have also wanted to kill myself...actually tried hanging myself and i passed out and woke up and felt so bad....going through that makes me believe that god kept me alive for a reason...there is a reason why i am here...i always wonder what it wouldve been like tho

  • @563kklein god aways has a plan for us but the thing is we dont know what