On That Controversial Tip: "Do it NOW" (Part VI)

[dunk602]

You good ppl sista and please know that when it comes to "The Great Work" you don't choose IT, IT chooses you. You are touching lives because you have chosen to be in that frequency so continue to do this because it pours from your being and is what ur spose to be doing sister. Hotep and pride/respect to all melinasians! Boom!!

[reeBeee92]

MY God makes no mistakes :)

[starsflirt]

I LUV YOU :)

[hippidippi8]

you are awesomeeee! <3 much love

[MrSexxxy20]

This would be a good moment to play " I choose me" by Tamia :-)

Thank you for sharing this Shira

[TheTelesha]

great message.i can appreciate this

[kalaigirl]

i was the poor weird girl to with only like 5 friends in high sku now i got lots. every one thought i was weird cuz i was being me

[kakesmonster90]

you've spoken to me, I feel you.

[jnellegirl]

Thank you for sharing! I appreciate you sharing your knowledge and speaking the truth. You are beautiful inside and out

[sundayxafternoon]

I love this!!! you have spoken to my heart!! You are truly a BLESSING!!!!! SPREAD YOUR LOVE AND SPIRIT because it is so BEAUTIFUL!

[babygurlB32]

OMGGGSSSHHHHHHH!!!

WHAT A FLIPPIN BLESSING...U ARE!!!

I'm feelin God rite now n so much love... so much love for u woman

I know wutchu mean wen ur jus feelin like "i love u guys"... cuz we freakin love u too shira.,... man.... that's God..

He's here.

[Maliarianna]

I receive you

I feel you

I see you

I hear you

[Zakariyya21]

Keep up the posts sis this light skin club makes me sick I'm lightskin myself wid NAPPY hair and I love it but sum lightskin ppl really P me off their jus lost programmed and dnt know themselves and it gets to u even more when u got these dumbass lightskin supremesists in ur own family makes u sick. keep up the posts sis. ur bruddah from london

[logician3]

First off, this want no dang MINI series, i cant believe Im sitting here watching part 6. LOL. Jesus said "Love your neighbor as you love yourself". I used to have a pretty bad insecurity problem about my weight. When I was a little kid adults would tell me and my brother "You guys need some meet on your bones". Now I realize how stupid many adults are to say some stuff like that to a little kid. Of course i was skinny, I was 10 years old!! Never tone it down Shira, keep teachin!!!

[LoveUrHairCar]

I feel you girl!

[mimialexa77]

thank you for the series

[CHHA82]

GIRL I JUST WANT TO SAY U TELLIN THE TRUTH!!!

[DanielleMonet]

thankyou for this series;;u really are an inspriration for me to be me and to love myself despite others saying or implying i have nothing to love =);;and i love the way you communicated your point: in a intelligent aggressive witty demeanor while using mild profanity =) lolz!!

[purpledreams04]

Thank you!!

[xxbahachickxx]

I loved this video Shira....x

[kevalenoxx]

THIS WAS AMAZING!!! :D

[oogeyogg]

only recently i've really started being myself.

i was feeling especially reluctant to be so recently, and this video series totally helped me!

thank you!

[Hoopermazing]

Get over yourself, bitch.

No one cares.

Now, if you would be so kind, please stand up and turn around so we can see if you have a magnificent donk-donk, like your sister in crazy, Erykah Badu.

[ladamadelcaribe]

I am glad someone finally said it!! GO GIRL

[pontaloon666]

Wow, thank you so much for this series.

[newnikky09]

You are the stuff! I love your videos! You're an inspiration!

[BiracialGirl1977]

Damn I'm getting a little teary eyed, all's i wanna say is Thank You

Thank You for being sooo damn REAL and refreshing, i would so love to chill with you,

I wish more people were like you.

You are an awesome person.

[bktrinigurl]

Amazing series!

[ecarroll9454]

law of attraction

[isis919191]

THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!... that is all.

[ashley110188]

This series is dope. I felt that on this level I was alone. Having dark skin and being who I am was hard until I told a couple people to screw themselves. I am that weird girl and I love it. Whenever I said these things I was shut down. I'm glad you were successful at enlightening a few people out here. Hopefully people will love themselves too.

[stupidsaywut]

i think God sent this to me bcuz everything u named, that was me...an notice i said WAS bcuz ive gotten over that stuff, i used to wear jackets (even in the heat) to hide my "flat" butt, an it made my BO worse lmao! but i stopped, i accepted my butt an come to find out, once i accepted it, ppl didnt think it was so flat after all! it aint huge but its enuff! lmao n my tummy got a lil jiggle! so wut?! i have huge eyes, ppl used to make fun of them but once i accepted em, suddenly they loved them!

[oliverhill1]

Love This!

[100CINNAMONGIRL]

but u made me cry. i wanna take those contacts out, and were my fro with my caramel brown skinn. damb that felt good :D

[rwill117]

that girl that didn't smell so fresh :-s LOL.

[1diamond977]

I spelled ur name wrong b4 sorry. Oh and I love your vids. I'm adopting u as big sister! lol Your the best. I am embracing me!

[ThePoetikmind215]

God has great things in store for you.

[buttahon3ypink]

Yessss!!! thank you you kno waht gurp yes i said gurp cuz u r u nd i love that about i told u once b4 i LIVE 4 u ...i thank 4 sharing yuh opinion am a call u Sharing Shira lol :D YOU R b.e.a.utiful women god bless you nd waht u stand 4 i understand everything u said and i agree wit u 100% ...life gave u lemons u didnt make lemonade u threw them at peolpe so they can make their damn lemonade ....

[nygirl4life]

You have a beautiful soul and a very insightful mind.

[keepingitreal10000]

You're quite amazing dear Shira

[j21589m]

amazing

[divaeyez25]

this is why i subscribed to you . i know if we had meet we would be really good friends

[destiny5104]

You have just confirmed everything I was taught and Everything I live for!

[destiny5104]

My god this should be worldwide this would help alot of people!

[Browniebunches]

thank you Shira

[ladeg91]

Wow i almost shed tear with this. Shira i know you get alot of comments posted out here but hopefully you get the chance to read mine. I think you are beautiful and by that i dont mean physically i mean it in general. The fact that you would actually take time to post something touching like this trully shows that there people like you remaining. You said you are not mitivating but i say U are. It Takes one person to lend a hand and i belive your post has touched someone out there that was torn.

[Triicksz]

thank you.

[Godisgreaterthanu]

I am just watching all your videos. When are we gonna get you on Oprah. Shira if you wrote a book I would buy it. I really would and so would so many people! You're brilliant!

[toyaboo2]

Laughter is scientifically proven to help heal. The endorphins, chemicals transmitted, the workout from the inside out (literally), and the overall good feeling one gets from it HEALS! Look it up, studies have been done. I will get back to you with a true story from a book i read...You are amazing. A QUEEN!

[aprailss]

Can not believe how I have read a million self-help books trying to be okay with ME...a black woman from Mississippi living and working in white middle class Dallas and with a great job trying to fit in and "match" with the people I work with and at 29 finally like, I just gotta do me. If I had found you and these videos years ago, I would have been so much better off. Thanks. YOU ARE A MINISTRY!

[ans324]

i know this is all from the heart, but you could be an amazing actress

[SugarFreeTV]

thanx why do u think that?

[nailgail]

You have changed my life. You are an angel. Thank you so so so much for these videos.

[BestToBeAlone]

All I can say is that I'm in tears because I can relate to everything you have spoken about in these videos except I'm in the opposite. My own family use to call me Buckwheat, Oreo cookie because I had a white boyfriend which is my sons father today, ugly and of cause nigger. It was a hurtful horrible thing to go through then but today I can say that I truly love me and I'm so glad God made me the way I am. Amen.

[Laboheme5]

yep

[shadowlita]

You are on a complete high level of TRUTHFULNESS. I am not there yet but I am a work in progress. Thanks for coming on Youtube and sharing these powerful snippets of wisdom.

[AmaryllisTV]

Shira you're reluctant to accept that you are a motivational speaker. Like it or not woman you inspire!!! Like Drake would day you're effin best!

[pagandaughter]

Your videos are incredible. You show people that they can love who they are. I hope everyone watches this channel at some point.

[owly13]

I stumbled upon your channel and watched you for 10 sec before I knew I loved you and you pulled me in with your self awareness it was amazing

now I thank God I did I am a 30 year old Hispanic woman who has struggled with these issues my whole life you really made me think and I truly understand you I thank you and hope and pray that I will fully accept myself for me I'm getting there but you inspire me to try harder thank you again

[zheahra]

Shira,

Love, love, love your style.

Rock it, girl,

Zheahra

[tumalay]

Just simply Shira..thank you..

[gypsydancermacaholic]

Amazing series! Thank you for sharing this with so many! WOW I did feel what you were saying on so many levels. I too have a flat ass and even though I wish it had more fluff it is what it is, just means I can squeeze into tighter spots easier LOL.

[princessbeyonce1]

OMG. you've just changed my life..

LOVE U girl

[macaroniandchesse12]

shira i love you girl i watch all of these things man LOL and i feel you girlll i feel you

[MissShaye1]

Thanks Shirah...i really needed to hear this. I have been putting off what I want to do in life because I am comfortable with my job but I don't feel fufilled. You hit the nail on the head when you said you dont know how much time you have. With that being said I am going to step out on a faith and follow my dream. Thanks so much for the message. It was definitely a blessing.

[LoveSelfFirst616]

Shira, I could totally connect with your spirit through out this whole series. You are deep girl!

[jamieos90]

wow, i really needed this. you have NO idea how badly i needed this, you cannot even fathom what this just did for me. THANK YOU SO MUCH

[MichaelFan4eva]

Still lovin the skittles nails.

[stephiereal]

and so did i...then i realized..they were wrong. i was trying to figure out why everhting was backwards then i realized it was just cause i looked different than them. "oh you got your lips done"WTF IM 8!(not anymore but u know wat i mean) LIKE THEY BOTHERED ME FOR NO REASON! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr­rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr­rrrrrrrrrrrr

[SugarFreeTV]

girl u write more than me! lol

[stephiereal]

lol i told my friend Artarika earlier that i type/write as i think...really fast and ALOT haha. but for some reason i dont talk so much...i smush it together when i talk ...strange(??)

[stephiereal]

im 5'3 and i wear size 9 - 91/2 shoes. i like it. :) i have a dimple chin dimple cheeks dimples all around my mouth i like it. i used to hate all of that. ppl called me MJ i was like thanks so much and theyd stare because i knew()'actually i wanted to marry him but its all good...thats okay.)that he was my idle and plus..it made me look different. the girls who called me names and such wondered y i cried but didnt care...becasue i liked looking different from them. they wondered y boys liked ME

[stephiereal]

you..seem perfect. did you evr make a mistake(like the good hair girls )or like them?

[SugarFreeTV]

sure i always make mistakes girl! but i learn from them (i try to)

[sashlav04]

OMG Shira I used to say I hate my big size 10 feet and flat ass. A few yrs ago I accepted them and I love them now. I buy cute heels in my size and I wear pants that I think make my booty so cute and small. I call it my puff! lol! Now, I need to accept my belly and work on it from there if I want to change it. Thank you for this mini series.

[SugarFreeTV]

no prob

[writeserengeti13]

What bothers my spirit is black people still have these issues after all these years. But I guess the point is...it starts with me...and you...her...him...and then hopefully one day we all get it.

[SugarFreeTV]

i hope...

[writeserengeti13]

this is good.

[SugarFreeTV]

tahnk  u so much

[MacysCorner]

I love your message, Shira.

[SugarFreeTV]

thank u

[browntee7]

Gurl!!! Some realizations about me were slowly opening the door but this series blasted the door open so I see some notions that have allowed me to live in fear. Thanks for shaing because at least for me it is a blessing.

[SugarFreeTV]

work :)

[abs0lutelyfab]

Thank you, Shira!

[SugarFreeTV]

thank u

[CarlRSVP]

Brilliant group of videos x

[SugarFreeTV]

thank u

[mcnuggetssmcnuggetss]

Damn Straight Shira!

[SugarFreeTV]

ha!

[Nikki3100]

Preach Shira! This is deep.

[SugarFreeTV]

it really is

[biotchplz]

LMAO, "Guys, Seal ..and Heidi Klum" but thank you! This is NEEDED in our community! Just last night, my friend was describing someone and said "He has good hair" and I was just SHOCKED that that phrase was still in our vocab! thanks for getting us smarter! worrrk!

[SugarFreeTV]

yeah it is dumb isn't it

[Jamielooksgood]

All I can say is Thank you....Thanks alot for posting especially during my time of distress..

[SugarFreeTV]

i hope it helped

[slbb]

Soooo true about laughter...one of my mottos

laughter is medicine to my soulllll :D

[SugarFreeTV]

yes

[EstrellitaBacio]

Shira you're so right when you hate yourself you are telling God he made a mistake in your creation and we all know he doesn't make mistakes. Too many of us are scared to make moves for fear of making someone else uncomfortable but my father said it best one monkey don't stop no show if someone doesn't agree with your path then they don't have to go down it with you but you better! Loving you Shira!

[SugarFreeTV]

thank u E Bo:)

[leolava]

Thank you, your great SOOOOO GREAT <3 your gorgeous your speech is so real i stayed to watch you and listen more man your so right.

thanks <3

[SugarFreeTV]

thank u

[chubbi44]

You know what I hear you more than you know. I lived in another state up until approximately 3 yrs ago. I left with my son and headed South because, we will say safety reasons. I make 3x less then what I did in the other state, I'm not even working my field..But, I can truly say I am happy, PEACE OF MIND, is priceless!

[SugarFreeTV]

work

[MyNameIsJanee]

i learned to DO ME, and i wish i learned it sooner. aaaaaaaaamen, a-fuckin-men!!!

[MyNameIsJanee]

i am utterly speechless with teary eyes over here. you speak volumes and i think a lot of people need to hear it. i'm a white girl who people think is biracial. i've been friends with every race, sexuality, whatever. i've heard the LSAA belittle the dark girls/guys. i've dated every color of the rainbow. i'm a big girl and used to be afraid to show my curves. once i learned to love me, boys came around my door. i dress crazy, & for my size, thats not heard of... at least not often. i glow baby!

[SugarFreeTV]

i'm happy for u girl

[raddestqueen]

I hate when I'm being pressured to be "more black" and people accuse me of trying to white when they way I act, dress, talk, etc. is the way I feel COMFORTABLE-- not because I'm trying to be someone else. I was raised by a white mother and grew up with white friends. I don't know what else people expect. This IS who I am. But then, when I wanna wear cornrows or listen to rap, I'm still a poser! I am who I am, I like what I like, I do what I do and I get heat from both sides no matter what.

[SugarFreeTV]

i know the LSGC is truly double sided (the point i was making )

[yagurlnell]

Shira, u r for real (as Wendy Williams would say) "my friend in my head". As another light skinned AA woman, I have never heard anyone tell 'my' story through their mouth like you just have. From dating pro athletes, to the dark skin girl jokes, to having the love of my life (or so i thought) take back the engagement ring when i refused to straighten my hair n rocked a fro, to hating my flat ass but now love it. Thank u so much. The light n realness that u exude is too beautiful for words. work

[SugarFreeTV]

thank u

[babyyannyy]

im incredibly tired but i stayed up to watch this series. its 3am. im glad i did.

thank you.

[SugarFreeTV]

work :)

[ninahdee]

We hear you Shira! This needed to be said. Thank you for having the courage to give it to us "SugarFree". Self-love people. Google it!

[SugarFreeTV]

i'm trying to keep my "sh!t" together when people don't get it but i did have to say it

[aisevar]

thank you for sharing it was pretty deep but i totally feel you

[SugarFreeTV]

and for that i am grateful