Secret Attraction Technique: A Simple Phrase to Stand Out

[cooroxd123]

I think this is a risky phrase..like double edge sword. I'll give it try though.

[bigcherry99]

i'm a woman. that is BAD advice!

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anytime anyone says 'we could be friends' my first thought is 'i wasnt planning on not having sex with you, until NOW!'

[gillianorley]

Think of it like a negotiation. If you're negotiating to buy a car or a house or something and you are unwilling to walk away from the deal empty-handed, then you are screwed from the start.

Even if it is the case that this method may result in some women seeing you as a friend, if your attitude is "I MUST score with THIS woman or I have failed," then you have failed.

If your attitude is, "she is attracted to me, fine, if not and sees me as a friend, fine."

THAT will make you attractive.

[205jonesgirl]

IMO -- if a guy I was interested in said this too me, I would think: oh, he's not attracted to me and this is his way of letting me know hes not into dating me.

[stellabubbles]

I dont know whether this guy is hillarious tragic or just plain creepy



[kamileishon]

it works. Creates a more relaxed enviroment where the woman can relax and open up more. And thats were you can work your magic and get close with her (emotionally) and there is a great possibility that she sees the great in you, gets attracted and you and ends up with you! IF you are for real and are looking for a Relationship. Not just sex.

[shanelebrocq]

@kamileishon Sorry to burst your bubble honey ! But real men dont care about you emotionally ! We protect you because we want to have sex with you again ! Men that have mother issues will want to get close to you but hey there just trying to fulfill a void !

[slim240293]

It's funny because only guys that don't seem to have met a women in their lives say this "trick" won't work... :)

[rightbraind88]

i as a woman agree that this will work. if theres a lot of attraction involved that phrase will be seen as a challenge. and ladies we do love a challenge dont we?

[nathanrivera91]

Bullshit

[ehlu15]

"I think we'd be great friends"

"ok then it'll stay that way"

THIS WILL NEVER WORK!

[InternationlAmerican]

@tiadawn100 Cool, sorry about calling you a man, I didn't realize u were a woman, glad you understand and agree. Thanks.

[InternationlAmerican]

@tiadawn100 Dude, this is not true, if you act like a friend then she'll treat you like one but if you act attractive then she won't see you as "just a friend", ull be an attractive friend and she'll be more open to dating you, happens all the time, friends often become lovers. I have a lot of female friends, I've slept with most of them and were still friends because I don't want a relationship yet. Try it yourself, you'll be surprised.

[JusticePunkz]

@tiadawn100

This is to put the woman's guard down. He may put himself in the friend zone, but he doesn't act like the other guys in he friend zone. He stands out with his other attractive qualities. He becomes untouchable.He can leave you for another woman at anytime. It is up to the man to get himself out. Its really easy on any date when the man is ready to move. Doing something your other guy friends don't do. Your guard was down, emotions flare, your done for.

[JusticePunkz]

@JusticePunkz

Pretty much putting you in the friend zone until we want you.

[InternationlAmerican]

@JusticePunkz Excellent answer, you obviously "get it", what most guys don't realize is that if you are an attractive person ie. someone with an attractive personality, then she simply can NOT put you in the "friend zone", because as David says "attraction isn't a choice", she can still find you attractive but still be friends. Most women will tell u that there are always at least 1 or 2 guy friends she wouldn't mind dating. Go ahead, ask any girl u know, they'll tell you. anyway, good post!

[prilstrudel]

all I can see is a male loner talking to himself.