love that quote, I learned that important lesson way to late. Trust me people if you have to feel sorry for a person situation don't! cause trust that they did something for them to end up there.
I was watching a Christian show the other day and this guy was saying how his wife when she met him, he had a low paying job, a high school drop out and NOW 4 years later he has is working on his masters and he is now the bread winner and they have a beautiful home and family. Its one thing if a man has a IDGAF attitude, but she believed in him and saw something in him. It all comes down to the individuals, not all cases are the same but I know what you are saying Shay.
Well.....what if the guy was in college, and he's currently not working; and he's doing really well & progressing in college. Don't recognize the potential? Get the fuck out of here with that shit.
I love this video. I'm going through something like that were I give this man knowledge and all he has been doing is give me dis~hormony. I told him he still has his old ways and (I took him back after to see change but none) so I'm done.
And what I usually do it I seebull crap walk I let it walk.
Fellas, please stop the Barack comparisons. You ain't Barack and the women coming your way aren't Michelle either. Shay... It's hard to treat many sisters as queens when all they want to do is treat me like a subject. All I run into is women who talk about "being equally yoked" (despite having no idea what that means) and want far more from a man than they deserve. Okay, you got a degree and drive a Lexus, but what kind of wife and mother would you be? They never seem to think about that.
That applies to women as well. Just got out of a stupid relationship with this chick. I didn't listen and even put on blinders and focused on her potential. WRONG!!!! Never will I do that again. Played for a sucker and learned a difficult lesson.
Michelle Obama dated Barack before he become President. When they first started dating he was not a wealthy guy. You must see a potential in a serious long term mate. But he/she must have a plan and must have weighted and looked at the "big picture" of what she/he is pursuing.
Now if your dating an apparently flat out sorry dude and deep in your heart he is worthless other than that wood he jabbin and stabbin you with,Keep it on that note period only If your strong minded and not weak for the dude.
Its funny that I heard 8 diffirent stories about snake bitting.It verys though cause I Know Women motivaite men to reach for the stars.No matter what as long as a guy you love(key word love and can't live without)is trying and giving it 300%you can't knock a dude for that.Just because you seen an episode of real house wives and think thats how you want it right now.Thats unrealistic thinking!
I agree with you whole hearted. I was in a situation about a year ago where I was seeing this man whom I really liked. He told me in the begining that he didn't wnat anything serious. I thought that he would eventually change his mind but it never happened. He wanted to continue kicking it even after he moved out of the state but I realized that I wanted more so I put an end to our sexual involvement and seeing him. I feel REALLY stupid because he told me how he felt up front what a waste!
And really, this is what a lot of women are doing these days. They are bypassing a lot of the red flags that men always show about themselves & yet women never seem to recognize them. Thats totally true, believing someone from the very first meeting & accepting the fact that it is what it is without thinking that if you put in enough time & effort into the "relationship" that things will eventually change isnt wise. I'd advise women to have good standards, but to be realistic about them as well
I agree. But I think it's crucial for women understand that potential does matter if it's a man who's is actively trying to put that potential to use rather than only giving a guy a chance if he's already accomplished.
so, so true..his ''potential'' dont mean a damn thing...
MyrandaLuv1 7 months ago
Yes sweety u are rite...it is impossible to turn a Jackass into a racehorse!
ctezeno1 7 months ago
love that quote, I learned that important lesson way to late. Trust me people if you have to feel sorry for a person situation don't! cause trust that they did something for them to end up there.
1985BlueLove 7 months ago
love this...I'm sharing your video on our site on Facebook...KoKo & Kryme Idle Talk
KKIdleTalk 7 months ago
good snake metaphor story lol :)
Music4life495 7 months ago
people cant change people, only God can change people, thats when a person decides to change themself
Music4life495 7 months ago
I was watching a Christian show the other day and this guy was saying how his wife when she met him, he had a low paying job, a high school drop out and NOW 4 years later he has is working on his masters and he is now the bread winner and they have a beautiful home and family. Its one thing if a man has a IDGAF attitude, but she believed in him and saw something in him. It all comes down to the individuals, not all cases are the same but I know what you are saying Shay.
m0renachula704 7 months ago
Well.....what if the guy was in college, and he's currently not working; and he's doing really well & progressing in college. Don't recognize the potential? Get the fuck out of here with that shit.
damndisplace07 7 months ago
thank you!! this is truth!!! i always try telling my gf's this but they ain't hearing me.
dajewel1982 7 months ago
What the hell is that snapping sound?
MuhammadEgypt 7 months ago
Very true!! xxxx
spookyboo22 7 months ago
I love this video. I'm going through something like that were I give this man knowledge and all he has been doing is give me dis~hormony. I told him he still has his old ways and (I took him back after to see change but none) so I'm done.
And what I usually do it I seebull crap walk I let it walk.
I'm going to do just that.
kim66660000 7 months ago
Fellas, please stop the Barack comparisons. You ain't Barack and the women coming your way aren't Michelle either. Shay... It's hard to treat many sisters as queens when all they want to do is treat me like a subject. All I run into is women who talk about "being equally yoked" (despite having no idea what that means) and want far more from a man than they deserve. Okay, you got a degree and drive a Lexus, but what kind of wife and mother would you be? They never seem to think about that.
TJ347 7 months ago
@TJ347 These are the things we need to consider when choosing a mate, but some are so caught up in material and superficial things.
m0renachula704 7 months ago
Tell it like it is Shay..☺
happydimples39 7 months ago
MY MOTO "IF HE SHOWS YOU WHO HE IS BELIEVE EM!" MEN ARE LIKE ANIMALS, THEY DON'T CHANGE THEIR STRIPES, THEY CHANGE WHERE THEY FEED, LADYS!!!
1SEXYTINA1 7 months ago
It's good to see you again Shay! Your books and videos have helped me tremendously.
msdivamimi 7 months ago
lol i LOVE that example 0f da snake!
LenkeH 7 months ago
That applies to women as well. Just got out of a stupid relationship with this chick. I didn't listen and even put on blinders and focused on her potential. WRONG!!!! Never will I do that again. Played for a sucker and learned a difficult lesson.
AVAMProductions 7 months ago
Michelle Obama dated Barack before he become President. When they first started dating he was not a wealthy guy. You must see a potential in a serious long term mate. But he/she must have a plan and must have weighted and looked at the "big picture" of what she/he is pursuing.
trynow11725 7 months ago
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Kountrygyrl99 7 months ago
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Kountrygyrl99 7 months ago
@trynow11725 When Michelle met the President, he was finished with Law School....
Kountrygyrl99 7 months ago
You are speaking truth!! THANKS!!!
Chynelle40 7 months ago
Why was I just thinking about you this morning? You are so on point with this?
brnize1969 7 months ago
OMG, take heed my sistas. This so true!
Shepave 7 months ago
amen sista speak it its the truth. now if onley we could get our sisters listen, and change things round.
nattynatxxx 7 months ago
Now if your dating an apparently flat out sorry dude and deep in your heart he is worthless other than that wood he jabbin and stabbin you with,Keep it on that note period only If your strong minded and not weak for the dude.
DEVINECLUB 7 months ago
Its funny that I heard 8 diffirent stories about snake bitting.It verys though cause I Know Women motivaite men to reach for the stars.No matter what as long as a guy you love(key word love and can't live without)is trying and giving it 300%you can't knock a dude for that.Just because you seen an episode of real house wives and think thats how you want it right now.Thats unrealistic thinking!
DEVINECLUB 7 months ago
its funny that i heard 8 diffrent stories about snake bitting
DEVINECLUB 7 months ago
I agree with you whole hearted. I was in a situation about a year ago where I was seeing this man whom I really liked. He told me in the begining that he didn't wnat anything serious. I thought that he would eventually change his mind but it never happened. He wanted to continue kicking it even after he moved out of the state but I realized that I wanted more so I put an end to our sexual involvement and seeing him. I feel REALLY stupid because he told me how he felt up front what a waste!
shae1178 7 months ago
right on time
northofgeomom 7 months ago
Great advice, awesome story! However that snapping was working my nerves honey lol! Thanks for the wise words.
QueenAshonti 7 months ago
Never date a girl on her potential either...hmmmm
Blake472 7 months ago 13
YES! My snake bit me in the ass this pass weekend!
dsp7631 7 months ago 2
Awww! I love Ya! I know u have a busy life but love watching your video's! You have helped me out alot!
MsChinadoll25 7 months ago
Welcome back! Love the book!!
nbk8w7s 7 months ago
Absolutely Correct
JOEGOODIE561 7 months ago
great to see you back..love your videos
meadowarch 7 months ago
And really, this is what a lot of women are doing these days. They are bypassing a lot of the red flags that men always show about themselves & yet women never seem to recognize them. Thats totally true, believing someone from the very first meeting & accepting the fact that it is what it is without thinking that if you put in enough time & effort into the "relationship" that things will eventually change isnt wise. I'd advise women to have good standards, but to be realistic about them as well
Liliworld627 7 months ago
Good to see you! I was just thinking about you & wondered where you were.
Great advice! Men never date women that don't have it going on & women should do the same.
HappitoRelax 7 months ago
ima lazy nigga! my bitch gone take care of nola
NoLaTvShow 7 months ago
oh my damn.....u be taking the words out my mouth.
DavionIsAKoolAssNerd 7 months ago
I agree. But I think it's crucial for women understand that potential does matter if it's a man who's is actively trying to put that potential to use rather than only giving a guy a chance if he's already accomplished.
kuunami 7 months ago 10