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  • Interesting song...I suppose he knows how men think.

  • Love it

  • I love this song...only one that has truely Loved can even understand.... YOU GO MY BROTHER.

  • DWELE'S VOICE MAKES ME COMPLETELY CONTENT

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  • LOVE IT!! CHEATING WITH HIS OWN GIRL. THATS HOW IT SHOULD BE. LADY IN STREET AND FREAK FOR UR MAN..LOL

  • most women dont get that this is the key to keeping relationships spicey. just wanted to add that dwele is truly underrated as an artist. i been down since tainted love. he still dropping some of the best soul music out here. plus he got a b boy vibe about himself that im feeling as well. its only a few cats out here that i actually go purchase their albums. dwele is on of them. keep the it coming family. your music got me through some ruff times. i appreciate you bro.

  • "I fell asleep with my love affair and woke up next to my girl."

    FIRE!

  • @ummimraan1 I wish all women would be like that. They could be sexual & classy all at da same time.

  • wow!

  • I love this song... The concept is the secret to happiness..

  • Real fly song

  • Very clever song :)

  • I thought that his girlfriend had split personalities :/

  • not gon' lie,.. i was confused at first lol

  • Hot sht luv it my nig keep dat good music comin peace

  • one of my favorite artist

  • grande Dwele!!!

  • Man I love R&B guitar rhythms !

  • "You asked me who I wanted. The nasty one I suppose." Go head Dwele!!! My husband always wants the nasty one. LOL

  • @carmay3600 haha lol :)

  • i know she didn't step on nat black and mild.

    

  • <3

  • i was about to say his he cheatin with twins lol!

  • this is like the difference between work and life, lol

    i love me some dwele!

  • i like that red bag and red shoes combo!

  • @1AHOTT I think all women want to be like that, but it takes the right man.

  • real music!!

  • y the hell is this dude not on a chris brown level or trey songz level??? def. wtf moment...

  • Note how he says "Im cheating on my girl WITH my girl" get it?

  • I remember when I first heard this song. I didn't get all of it but I knew he wasn't literally cheating on his girl. Once I grew older I realized, he was talking about the same girl and her versatility. This song will always be amazing.

  • She so pretty from the side. 3:32

  • Genius for this song, it took me 6months to finally get what he was saying because I was jamming so much to the beat lol. All along i thought he was cheating on his girl with another girl smh @ me lol.

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  • the girl in the video, slyly looks like aaliyah ..

  • @Liciaa165 Lol. she does

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  • U guys are slow lol he has the best of both worlds with one girl! lol

  • GIRL BEAUTIFUL IN THIS VIDEO

  • ya all right in ya own ways but it all adds up to maybe dwele is a dog and made the song for a x he had that he did wrong and felt like he wanted that song to be about.never no good jam!

  • Never knew there was an official video to this!

  • mzhussle got some serious male issues lol

  • from a man point of view alot of us wouldn't cheat if u women would provide what he's talking about be both my girl and my girlfriend at the same time good azz songs right here

  • For those who think this is about cheating it isn't. This is about how a man sees his girl both as a sexually desirable woman and as a sweet nice woman. I wish all men could be like this.

  • @ummimraan1 We wish all women could have both of these qualities. 

  • I love this song cuz this let you know that one woman can be EVERYTHING a man needs. She can flip it on her man and be versatile, his every fantasy.

  • @ummimraan1 And I wish all women could be like his girl and give their man a real fantasy!!!

  • @ummimraan1 100%.... Very few of us out there. Most men dont/wont step out of their box to please their lady.

  • @ummimraan1 I feel you idk why everyone dosent see the consept of this song

  • Niggaz ain't shit....Ain't never satisfied even when they got the BEST....I wish a asteroid would come and kill all them bitches....Hell yeah I'm mad, and scorned I hate all them muthafuckaz!!! But a bitch ain't never gone be GAY...I just won't fuck with nobody!!!

  • i cant relate to this song i wud never cheat on my baby 

  • @JeremyKirtley hes talking about the same girl.

  • @JeremyKirtley listen to the words mannnnnn!!!!!! the end of the song, he's cheating on his girl with his girl...

  • i respect this man for promoting excitement , love and thrill in his own relationship with his girl!

    

  • Thumbs up if you got your wife and your side sleeping in the same bed. lol nah jk

  • @Ballistic718 lol

  • Great song can't stop listening to it.

  • This song will alwayz b n my top 3 favs

  • @TheDvs1der why?

  • @jeanrollan She eliminates the need to step out on her because she knows his fantasy ;)

  • Still one of my favorite Dwele tracks!!!

  • Neo Soul never fails me....I so love it!!!

  • @kccastille send me a friend request =)

  • girl, girl, GIRL

    my favorite  part =)

  • What us black men famous for lolz

  • @DadMakesMelol all men do it...

  • genius song. it also be in context if you were dating twins

  • loko loko muito bom

  • INCEPTION

    My woman shows up, blows up and knows what I ...

  • INCEPTION

    3 Layers Deep

  • This is for the fellas who have a female that think I'm the one their cheating with. Girl bye play your position and you won't have to worry about me.

  • Awesome how his woman knows to be everything to her man and this song is a tribute to that. He is saying how he appreciates this about her. She is all he needs. AWESOME! Everything a man needs in one woman.

  • I GET IT NOW its his gf and they role playing

  • ya you actually have to listen to the words to understand what he is saying

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  • im confuse lml

  • @MsKeeks123 Yes it is

  • I'm so glad that 2888 people know what real music is

  • ladies that's how you do it cause i did it !!!

  • I like dis cut rite here!!!!!!!

  • Very nice song.

  • he's not cheating, just REALLY confused LOL

  • His Girlfriend Is A Respectful Lady, But She Just Has A Freak Side To Her. Thats All...

  • Confession...[k]™

  • I feel so dumb, I aint get it till the second verse lol

  • @sticksmania his girl has two sides. Lady in the day and a freak at night, basically.

  • This is a hot track and original. I had to watch this video a few times to really get what he was saying. Very clever indeed. Do your thing DWELE!!!

  • This is HOT!!! If you used your imagination it would really be less cheatin!!!

  • @DoubleSwagD It actually would.

  • hot track, how many cd's does he have out

  • @xratedjdub he has 4 on label cds; Rize, which was done b4 he was signed, then there's all the countless tracks he's on for others. It's a lot

  • One of the hottest r&b tracks ever made people are sleeping on Dwele!!

  • FINALLY!!!! LOVE THS SONG & VIDEO AS WELL!!

  • man i love this song.i wish my gal would spice it up like his gal in the video does.every man loves spice.thats how u keep ya man

  • LOVE THIS!!!!

    

  • i LOVE how he cheats INSIDE the relationship. lol. All we gotta do Ladies : is spice it up ;)

  • @yayasmiley09 Go on wit' yourself, ha ha. Peace.

  • @yayasmiley09 and same goes for the guys..

  • No particular order for me;

    Dwele

    Raphael Saadiq

    Bilal Oliver- probably my favourite

    Maxwell

    D'angelo

  • this is my band director's brother

  • Who are the 62 people that couldn't figure what the song is about even with the video?? cuz that the only reason I can think of that they wouldn't like this song!!

  • @Nativedizzle - it's people with no ability to listen to quality. can't blame them, they don't get it. i just can't wait for the day Dwele comes to South Africa again.

    btw, Bilal is coming this august

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  • Very cool video with a happy ending!!!!

  • I love this song and Dwele!! Him and Raphael Saadiq are my favorite soul artists! Anyone check out Raphael's new album Stone Rollin? Heard it on NPR's first listen and loved! It's a must have

  • @nmg18ismuzik Saadiq is the man!

  • that's what makes women so mysterious..

  • Im doing that right now with my man. he tries to tell me that is not him but I know its him. Everything about this other guy is him all the way. I get the sweet love and understand from my man. And the other guy is this bad boy type. But it all comes down to being the same person. This song it to real for me.

  • OH! It's the same girl!!!

  • I Love how I got this song the first time i heard it and my friend was like wait.. what ? lol But it's a dope song of course "I Fell alseep with my Lover.. Then Woke up next to my Girl" <3 Dwele is top 5 rnb for me.

  • Seems like 62 people still do not get the message. LOL!

  • Some get it and some don't, very clever song, great post. Peace.

  • my girl did that to me once was lookin normal one day then the next had her hair to her shoulders wearin a thin dress so u could see her hips and her chest.....

    and then another girl lookin good past by...lol

    men... what can we do?

    thats what I told her lmao

  • nice voice

  • Shout out to my sweetheart, rafiQ, that posted this for me! Thank u boo!! I'll always keep me and ur girl tight! ;)

  • I cheated on my girl

  • @Jaffet1990 haha whats her number?

  • lol fuck this song i always cheat on my bitches 

  • @CaliTv3 that's why you'll never find a true WOMAN! jus sayin

  • @CaliTv3 hes cheating with his girls 2nd personality.. hes a good man seen

  • well at least he honest lol.

  • Only a real Man can find the best of both worlds in one women.. i love it :-)

  • @dymeprincess401 Anyones opinion of a real man or a real women in my opinion is a figment of their imagination Their is no one who is perfect

  • @dymeprincess401 sooooo true. There needs to be more men like this.

  • @dymeprincess401 NEVER TRUER WORDS SPOKEN DYME!

  • Only a real Man can find the best of both worlds in one women.. i love it :-)

  • That hit the spot!

    

  • i just understood the song after watching the video;) i'm not slow tho, but Dwele had me on that one

  • I love this song!!! Lol..sum of y'all think this song is about him cheating on his girl...listen to the words! His woman is a "lady" in the streets, and a "freak" in the sheets! She kind of has two personalities.

  • Whats the girls name? I wanna cheat wit her too?JK babe! : ) He-heeeeeeee

  • I wish my boyfriend would tell me he's cheatin -___- i'd kill the muthafucka. haha jk.

  • Dwele kknows he can sing me right out my clothes!! 1 sexy black man with a beautiful voice..love him!!

  • this girl looks like Aaliya @ 0:26

  • 12TH April Dwele will be in hometown, Birmingham, UK!! Cant wait for this shit!!

  • im 17 and i love this song, im into the whole neo-soul thing deffinently a guud one

  • @gryphon5160 Welcome to real music

  • glad real rnb is coming back

  • Aaaah this is a nice twist to the song I like it. A good way to keep a interesting relationship

  • Have been in love with this for awhile. Played for my girl and she didn't get it. Blondes??????

  • i so agree wit u kettege

  • song is so deep,i did something to the same beat 

  • Me and my husband loves this song! Yep this is exactly how to keep the spice in a marriage/relationship. Lady in the streets but a super freak in the sheets.

  • 58 people need to kick rocks!!!

  • Thank you for making a song that doesnt make men look like dogs, some of us stay true to are women and praise them for putting up with us

  • Probably his best song

  • love this song... thanks for the tribute Dwele...

  • Hate advertisements!!!!

  • I would kill a motha funka to see this cat, raheem devaughn, musiq, and ERYKAH do a tour....... I need a business loan!!!

  • Is it just me are these ladies the same person?

  • @LyricJaz lol hahaha thats the point

  • @LyricJaz ... It's not just u, it really is the same person :-)

  • @LyricJaz Yeah he is not really "cheating" with another person, role playing or lady in the streets freak in the sheets

  • @LyricJaz uuuhhh yeah lol how else can u "fall asleep with your lover and wake up next to your girl?"

  • rhythm, soul, beat, sexuality and sensuality this song has it all. One of my new favorites

  • dwele has put detroit cody high on the map its possible we can make it cody

  • @Dagg3rm0uth the question should be why doesnt it have millions and millions of views? am i right? lol

  • @Dagg3rm0uth Its because people don't have soul!! And don't know that feel good neo-soul music!!

  • James Dewitt Yancey (February 7, 1974 – February 10, 2006),[1] better known by the stage names J Dilla and Jay Dee, was an American record producer who emerged from the mid-1990s underground hip hop scene in Detroit, Michigan. According to his obituary at NPR.org, he "was one of the music industry's most influential hip-hop artists, working for big-name acts like A Tribe Called Quest, De La Soul, Busta Rhymes, Dwele and Common.

  • @ivedigga J DILLA Is definitely the inspiration behind this joint.. This was my way to pay hummage to an extrordinary producer and friend.

  • Dwele and Raheem ALL DAY!! Keep SOUL music ALIVE Brothas:-)

  • 57 of yall prolly thnk soulja boi is r&b. NOPE.

  • very soulful video

  • I want my boyfriend/husband to cheat on me at night *winks*

  • That's how you do it!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Love this song, that is fact of how it should be.

  • so underrated

  • that video girl look like Vanessa Simmons Rev Run's daughter

  • this should have ben a number one on the R&B charts.

  • Hahaha thank you guys! :-) ...and to KandiC16 I agree with you but I also think that the fantasies should be fulfilled by both sides. just like I'm the lady and the whore, I would want my man to be both a gentleman in public and a dominator in bed...When I listen to Dwele, Raheem, vikter duplaix and Jill scott I hear grown folk music...they show both sides of the same coin....how to make love, receive, and even conceive with love. ;-)

  • "Rrrrrrrouw...LOL!" : )

  • Nice song.. He even chose the right shawty, Erika Mayshawn is both naughty & cute haha

  • @Queenslunatik That's her name, Erika! She's good lookin

  • @jeanrollan Haha knew her? Check her pics.. long legs!^^

  • Dwele and Raheem know what's up.

  • The girl in this video "is sexy as hell."