Assalam o a alykum amena i really loved to see you started this great work i would need your little help if you could do please i am muslim living in london and looking for a partner who is pious and hafiz-e-quran as well if you know anyone please let me know or if there is any coming event or organization which is working here please let me know may allah bless u.
Marriage martrimonal websites are full dogey perverts that cant themselves wives or husbands, of course due to the rules regarding interaction with other sexes is limited just find try to arrange one urself
salam. could you please a tutorial on this makeup look please. and one o your favourite blushers because the ones you use seem to compliment you skin very nicely :D
Salaam Alaikum sister :) It's so funny that you speak of how you find a mate in Islam. When I was thinking of reverting and even after I always wondered how that worked. The funny thing is that my fiance and I found each other through Muslima.com. I never thought I'd use something like that but alhamdulillah I did.
first thanks for all you're great tutoriel, i've just seen something on you're video that you're wearing a ring on you're shahada finger, if the image is not reverse, any way it's just for you're peace.i'm sorry for my english i'm belgian so, i hope that you're understand me and don't take it on the wrong side. salam sister peace
Slaam sis I was wondering if you know of any events similiar to this taking place in Manchester or the surrounding area? Or where I can find out about them? xx
Sister i tired to open the link posted in the side bar for the style of hijab u have worn but it seems to be a problem there, i couldnt view the video maybe its been deleted..
@amreenahmed17 ah, the link is correct, methinks youtube is having technical issues... the 1st link links to the 'pink waterfall hijab' and the 2nd links to my 'muslim tag' video (just type that into the youtube search engine & my vids should come up)
To be honest sister I don't approve or agree with events like these, I don't know but I guess there's still potential fitna around && it's like "shopping" for a spouse.
The best thing to do for both brothers && sisters is that they're to keep patient && have their family actually find them their other halves where it'll be more formal, sincere && beneficial insha'Allah.
Anyways sister, you look gorgeous masha'Allah, love your Hijab, you're talented.
@TheMuslimahSouljette Wa 'alaikum as-salaam sister :o) I've actually been to one of these (as a mahram for a friend) and it wasn't like "shopping" at all. I guess they all differ, and the attitude you have determines whether the experience was beneficial. Many people actually chose to bring their families, which, again, gives a more formal vibe.
Also, I personally know people who literally have no avenue whatsoever to find a potential spouse. Their families have no connections or are non-Muslim, and they have been trying for YEARS. Does patience mean to just sit around and not do anything proactive? I've never been a 'speed-dating' type set-up or any other events so I honestly don't know how they pan out or if it's appropriate so I can't comment on that.
@ Amenakin: & sister, this issue of not being able to get the ideal Muslim(ah) is a depressing factor seen as none of the Imams, Sheikhs, Elders are trying to help resolve it via Islamic approaches. I think our Ummah is gana suffer tremendously if this is the case for a more longer period in the future. SubhanAllah, during the early times marriage was a like a major MUST for the Ummah & now it's like a casual insignificant practice given less & less consideration. Anyways sister, hope u're gd.
@TheMuslimahSouljette oh yes, I totally agree with you on that point. I think that if the Imams got more involved, it would be tremendously helpful. I've enquired about this issue with many elders and communicated indirectly with regards to imams intercepting for our single sister (who are looking) but have always reached a dead end. Yes, marriage was seen very differently in the early times. Thank you for your input :o)
@ Amenakin: I absolutely sympathise for my broz && sisz who have been waiting for years to get married but sister what I meant by patience was that we mu'mineen wal mu'minaat shouldn't resort to events or practical measures like such where our Haya && Faith will be at risk. I was thinking on behalf of them sisters who are extremely shy && wouldn't want to confront the brothers AND as for famillies being present then I'd give up lol, my family would NOT even consider such an event ...
mashaAllah sis excellent video...but nowadays ppl just go n find a bf or gf n just get married..i hve seen lots of hijabi not married sisters at school or around london city with bfriend....i like the old idea of the auntie luking n knw sum1 u could get married to n so on..
Wow!!! great! you just inspired my next vid! I was gonna talk about male and female relations... and you just made it more uplifting by talking about Marriage!!! :) Great!
Note: some sheiks have given fatwa these matrimonial events are actually haram. I have also heard that phone calls are inappropriate too. The best way is considered for parents or relatives to introduce a couple. and for the mahram to be present while the two speak and get to know each other. Allahu alam.
ya totally the matrimonial events like the speed dating thing that western culture do now is like dating in a way a lot of cultures in the muslim world frown against this matrimonial stuff. sounds hypocritical too since muslims not allowed to date. i kno in lot of middle eastern countries they consider it haram, i did a minor in middle eastern studies in university.
@rajkumarikaan2 Although I'm not in the situation and alhumdullilah wasn't in it prior to marriage, I totally sympathise for sisters who have been looking for partners for years on end and find these events another source of potentially finding someone. It can be very distressing for many families when their daughters are unmarried. The fact that Middle Eastern countries find it haraam says nothing, as we look to our Scholars and not to any Tom, Dick or Harry for well-grounded opinions.
@saebeyok1jeung This is the thing - many Sheikhs have many different opinions. We respect them all, and draw our own opinions from there. So who are we to judge others' decision when their choice, although being frowned upon by some Sheikhs, has been approved by others? No Sheikh would give the go-ahead for the couple to get to know each other without a mahram present.
this matrimonial event is cheap! in lndn events like dat are like a £100 :S...neway lvely vid :D- btw sis i cnt seem to c the links u provided of the hijab tutorial u copied-dsnt cme up4sme resn...xxx
@Misspurple0902 wow, £100? And people still turn up? The links I put up are for 'pink waterfall' (in hijab tutorials folder on my channel) and the 'muslim tag' video :o)
Assalamualaikum Sister wish they make video about this matrimonial and put on you tube ,..i relay come but i can't ,..in japan we have masque center in tokyo i am still look around community sister and brother around me ,..i relay come to hear about moslem more ,...thank you so much sister for comfirmation ,..
@OhDuniaku wa 'alaikum as-salaam, sister... sorry but that won't be possible as most people don't want to be filmed and put on YouTube for this purpose!
U are so precious-my family is 100% Syrian (from the old country) growing up boys just did not tempt me like they did my friends- (something wrong with me?) i dont know- it was not worth hurting my familys feelings- i had that auntie situation- every-time there was a new arabic guy we sat around the table and talked- this did not work for well for me- but when i married my husband everyone ask him are you Syrian?>.he just laughed and i told them some-days he was other he was not LOL x shelly
haha no he is not but he love the food and thats good enough for me-((i cant eat American meat and potateos lol-- he is good one- he embraces how i am and that is a easy at the same time a hard thing to do.-- much love shelly
the whole video made me nostalgia of how my own sister got married jazakallah ho khair n the funny thing is i have to go this whole matrimonial see the pic check the profile that i am weary of before i start Wallah
interesting process, never heard of this kind of marriage arrangement here in the US. if I am to get married I think I'll just ask the imam to help me with this. btw I like yur hijab. :-)
OMG what a huge coincidence! I've just been witha colleague/friend to get her registered at Central Mosque in Birmingham! They actually email profiles now. To register you must donate £40 towards the mosque (which is all good)
@lovemakeup786 Oh I've heard of that service - I was going to make a video about it a while back, but never heard back from them after I wrote to them asking about info about their service!
You are allowed to meet them but there has to be a third person present (a brother or aunty) just to maintain the formality. As the saying goes: if a man and a woman are alone in the room then the shaitaan (or devil) is the third person (TEMPTATION)
@xkhadzxq yes, they can meet with one another, as long as a third person is present. Sister 'lovemakeup786' is absolutely right about the shaytaan being the 3rd party present. At the end of the day, our nafs is always going to keep swaying us and that, couples with the whisperings of shaytaan into our hearts, can easily make us unable to draw an appropriate line. So it's best not to risk it!
Salam,
Curiously Amena, how did you meet your hubby? :)
SarbiraPreece 1 month ago
The mahrams usually a guy not a woman
sara14405 2 months ago
GReat video :)
TheAyeshatai 8 months ago
Assalam o a alykum amena i really loved to see you started this great work i would need your little help if you could do please i am muslim living in london and looking for a partner who is pious and hafiz-e-quran as well if you know anyone please let me know or if there is any coming event or organization which is working here please let me know may allah bless u.
goodonebond 1 year ago
do u hide ur hair all the time and why??
hunnybee1226 1 year ago
@hunnybee1226 She's a muslim, and its called a hijab.
banandababa 7 months ago
Marriage martrimonal websites are full dogey perverts that cant themselves wives or husbands, of course due to the rules regarding interaction with other sexes is limited just find try to arrange one urself
2010MujahidBoxing 1 year ago 3
i have a question..how did you and your husband meet
61sania 1 year ago 13
salam. could you please a tutorial on this makeup look please. and one o your favourite blushers because the ones you use seem to compliment you skin very nicely :D
112angelsss 1 year ago
Salaam Alaikum sister :) It's so funny that you speak of how you find a mate in Islam. When I was thinking of reverting and even after I always wondered how that worked. The funny thing is that my fiance and I found each other through Muslima.com. I never thought I'd use something like that but alhamdulillah I did.
bcambindo 1 year ago
first off you are gorgeous masha'Allah! second, i wish we had more of these in the U.S. (particularly the new york area) =(
foolishmistakez 1 year ago 2
LOL Yoda aunty.........
they are a extinct species now....thanks Allah.....
Your comments are so true and fun....but I don't think there is something like this (marriage set-up) in Canada
sonyaahasan 1 year ago
salamou 3alaykom sister,
first thanks for all you're great tutoriel, i've just seen something on you're video that you're wearing a ring on you're shahada finger, if the image is not reverse, any way it's just for you're peace.i'm sorry for my english i'm belgian so, i hope that you're understand me and don't take it on the wrong side. salam sister peace
3eljiya 1 year ago
Slaam sis I was wondering if you know of any events similiar to this taking place in Manchester or the surrounding area? Or where I can find out about them? xx
lilshawtie1234 2 years ago
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lilshawtie1234 2 years ago
salaam sis.
the website link for the booking of this event is incorrect.
ummkulthum1 2 years ago
@ummkulthum1 wa 'alaikum as-salaam... that's en email address :o) I'd suggest ringing the number
Amenakin 2 years ago
Sister i tired to open the link posted in the side bar for the style of hijab u have worn but it seems to be a problem there, i couldnt view the video maybe its been deleted..
amreenahmed17 2 years ago
@amreenahmed17 ah, the link is correct, methinks youtube is having technical issues... the 1st link links to the 'pink waterfall hijab' and the 2nd links to my 'muslim tag' video (just type that into the youtube search engine & my vids should come up)
Amenakin 2 years ago
To be honest sister I don't approve or agree with events like these, I don't know but I guess there's still potential fitna around && it's like "shopping" for a spouse.
The best thing to do for both brothers && sisters is that they're to keep patient && have their family actually find them their other halves where it'll be more formal, sincere && beneficial insha'Allah.
Anyways sister, you look gorgeous masha'Allah, love your Hijab, you're talented.
Salamu 'Alaikum.
TheMuslimahSouljette 2 years ago
@TheMuslimahSouljette Wa 'alaikum as-salaam sister :o) I've actually been to one of these (as a mahram for a friend) and it wasn't like "shopping" at all. I guess they all differ, and the attitude you have determines whether the experience was beneficial. Many people actually chose to bring their families, which, again, gives a more formal vibe.
Amenakin 2 years ago
Also, I personally know people who literally have no avenue whatsoever to find a potential spouse. Their families have no connections or are non-Muslim, and they have been trying for YEARS. Does patience mean to just sit around and not do anything proactive? I've never been a 'speed-dating' type set-up or any other events so I honestly don't know how they pan out or if it's appropriate so I can't comment on that.
Amenakin 2 years ago
@ Amenakin: & sister, this issue of not being able to get the ideal Muslim(ah) is a depressing factor seen as none of the Imams, Sheikhs, Elders are trying to help resolve it via Islamic approaches. I think our Ummah is gana suffer tremendously if this is the case for a more longer period in the future. SubhanAllah, during the early times marriage was a like a major MUST for the Ummah & now it's like a casual insignificant practice given less & less consideration. Anyways sister, hope u're gd.
TheMuslimahSouljette 2 years ago
@TheMuslimahSouljette oh yes, I totally agree with you on that point. I think that if the Imams got more involved, it would be tremendously helpful. I've enquired about this issue with many elders and communicated indirectly with regards to imams intercepting for our single sister (who are looking) but have always reached a dead end. Yes, marriage was seen very differently in the early times. Thank you for your input :o)
Amenakin 2 years ago
@ Amenakin: I absolutely sympathise for my broz && sisz who have been waiting for years to get married but sister what I meant by patience was that we mu'mineen wal mu'minaat shouldn't resort to events or practical measures like such where our Haya && Faith will be at risk. I was thinking on behalf of them sisters who are extremely shy && wouldn't want to confront the brothers AND as for famillies being present then I'd give up lol, my family would NOT even consider such an event ...
TheMuslimahSouljette 2 years ago
ur links don't work for me..! about how u tied ur hijab
cheekymunky00 2 years ago
jazakumullahu khair
barakAllahu feekum
amazing video..learn alot
Ilove you for the sake of ALLAH..barakAllahu feekum again..
chick1800 2 years ago
@chick1800 aw, I'm glad you learned some things, I hope it was beneficial i'A
Amenakin 2 years ago
hehe yoda auntie!
khadijahmimi 2 years ago
the mahram should be a mature male...
mashaAllah sis excellent video...but nowadays ppl just go n find a bf or gf n just get married..i hve seen lots of hijabi not married sisters at school or around london city with bfriend....i like the old idea of the auntie luking n knw sum1 u could get married to n so on..
preciouspearl9 2 years ago
Wow!!! great! you just inspired my next vid! I was gonna talk about male and female relations... and you just made it more uplifting by talking about Marriage!!! :) Great!
BlackWomanDeen 2 years ago
@BlackWomanDeen cool! I'm glad it was inspiring!
Amenakin 2 years ago
lol I love how you explain the whole fiance thing. You're so cute :)
ValleyGurlFrmHell 2 years ago
@ValleyGurlFrmHell thanks Su!
Amenakin 2 years ago
how did you meet your husband??
jellybeansies 2 years ago
@jellybeansies though a mutual friend
Amenakin 2 years ago
Note: some sheiks have given fatwa these matrimonial events are actually haram. I have also heard that phone calls are inappropriate too. The best way is considered for parents or relatives to introduce a couple. and for the mahram to be present while the two speak and get to know each other. Allahu alam.
saebeyok1jeung 2 years ago
ya totally the matrimonial events like the speed dating thing that western culture do now is like dating in a way a lot of cultures in the muslim world frown against this matrimonial stuff. sounds hypocritical too since muslims not allowed to date. i kno in lot of middle eastern countries they consider it haram, i did a minor in middle eastern studies in university.
rajkumarijaan2 2 years ago
@rajkumarikaan2 Although I'm not in the situation and alhumdullilah wasn't in it prior to marriage, I totally sympathise for sisters who have been looking for partners for years on end and find these events another source of potentially finding someone. It can be very distressing for many families when their daughters are unmarried. The fact that Middle Eastern countries find it haraam says nothing, as we look to our Scholars and not to any Tom, Dick or Harry for well-grounded opinions.
Amenakin 2 years ago
@saebeyok1jeung This is the thing - many Sheikhs have many different opinions. We respect them all, and draw our own opinions from there. So who are we to judge others' decision when their choice, although being frowned upon by some Sheikhs, has been approved by others? No Sheikh would give the go-ahead for the couple to get to know each other without a mahram present.
Amenakin 2 years ago
community aunty lol im desi and i never heard that its usually the family n fmaily friends that find suitable partners and or arrange marriages
rajkumarijaan2 2 years ago
@rajkumarijaan2 ah, they are but a rare breed now!
Amenakin 2 years ago
Dear Amenakin,
What is your Madzhab? Are you syi'ites?
sarakiut 2 years ago
if you date someone are you going to hell?
RaSaUsproductions 2 years ago
@RaSaUsproductions no one can say who is going to hell or not only Allah(swt) knows that information.
PeligrosaPrincess 2 years ago
the auntie thing is still around in some communities and do i dread it!
RaSaUsproductions 2 years ago
@RaSaUsproductions lol they can be useful sometimes
Amenakin 2 years ago
this matrimonial event is cheap! in lndn events like dat are like a £100 :S...neway lvely vid :D- btw sis i cnt seem to c the links u provided of the hijab tutorial u copied-dsnt cme up4sme resn...xxx
Misspurple0902 2 years ago
@Misspurple0902 wow, £100? And people still turn up? The links I put up are for 'pink waterfall' (in hijab tutorials folder on my channel) and the 'muslim tag' video :o)
Amenakin 2 years ago
Assalamualaikum Sister wish they make video about this matrimonial and put on you tube ,..i relay come but i can't ,..in japan we have masque center in tokyo i am still look around community sister and brother around me ,..i relay come to hear about moslem more ,...thank you so much sister for comfirmation ,..
OhDuniaku 2 years ago
@OhDuniaku wa 'alaikum as-salaam, sister... sorry but that won't be possible as most people don't want to be filmed and put on YouTube for this purpose!
Amenakin 2 years ago
U are so precious-my family is 100% Syrian (from the old country) growing up boys just did not tempt me like they did my friends- (something wrong with me?) i dont know- it was not worth hurting my familys feelings- i had that auntie situation- every-time there was a new arabic guy we sat around the table and talked- this did not work for well for me- but when i married my husband everyone ask him are you Syrian?>.he just laughed and i told them some-days he was other he was not LOL x shelly
magicadespell56 2 years ago
@magicadespell56 lol, so is he Syrian?
Amenakin 2 years ago
haha no he is not but he love the food and thats good enough for me-((i cant eat American meat and potateos lol-- he is good one- he embraces how i am and that is a easy at the same time a hard thing to do.-- much love shelly
magicadespell56 2 years ago
the whole video made me nostalgia of how my own sister got married jazakallah ho khair n the funny thing is i have to go this whole matrimonial see the pic check the profile that i am weary of before i start Wallah
ma as salam
ahmeds027 2 years ago
@moelei020307 lol I know, most of my vids (even hijab tutorials) have the muslim matrimonial ads running on them!
Amenakin 2 years ago
interesting process, never heard of this kind of marriage arrangement here in the US. if I am to get married I think I'll just ask the imam to help me with this. btw I like yur hijab. :-)
StrainSop 2 years ago
@StrainSop you're lucky you can do that - I don't know of many imam's here who offer that...
Amenakin 2 years ago
the masjid I go to is small, and since I've only been Muslim a few months I figure it's the best way because I don't know squat about how this works.
StrainSop 2 years ago
OMG what a huge coincidence! I've just been witha colleague/friend to get her registered at Central Mosque in Birmingham! They actually email profiles now. To register you must donate £40 towards the mosque (which is all good)
lovemakeup786 2 years ago
@lovemakeup786 Oh I've heard of that service - I was going to make a video about it a while back, but never heard back from them after I wrote to them asking about info about their service!
Amenakin 2 years ago
mashallah, you look gorgeus, love that hijab, where didd u get it from?
vydajkadajka 2 years ago
@vydajkadajka Both of them were gifts from abroad... thank you!
Amenakin 2 years ago
great video! you look gorgeousss sister!
GottaLoveMaanax 2 years ago
@GottaLoveMaanax aw thank you!
Amenakin 2 years ago
So are you not allowed to meet them before you think about marrying them? x
xkhadzxq 2 years ago
You are allowed to meet them but there has to be a third person present (a brother or aunty) just to maintain the formality. As the saying goes: if a man and a woman are alone in the room then the shaitaan (or devil) is the third person (TEMPTATION)
lovemakeup786 2 years ago 9
@lovemakeup786 Okay thankyou,sister x
xkhadzxq 2 years ago
@xkhadzxq yes, they can meet with one another, as long as a third person is present. Sister 'lovemakeup786' is absolutely right about the shaytaan being the 3rd party present. At the end of the day, our nafs is always going to keep swaying us and that, couples with the whisperings of shaytaan into our hearts, can easily make us unable to draw an appropriate line. So it's best not to risk it!
Amenakin 2 years ago
@xkhadzxq yes its absolutely fine to meet and speak to a potential spouse but is compulsory that there is a third party present.
rizlavsskitzo 2 years ago