Marla, I watch you every day in the kitchen while I do dishes and cook!! I'm glad my computer is in the kitchen...it is like you are here cheering me on!! It motivates me to keep going!! Thank you so much!!
Thank you for loving me Flylady. I love you too! I watched you capturing dust bunnies too, and you are such an example of joy. I've been fluttering for years, and I'm motivated to give myself the best gift to myself as well. I'm jumping in again. Thank you thank you!
I am so thankful for FlyLady...in all forms. I spend a goodly portion of every day clicking here, clicking there, videos, radio, emails, her website, etc. If ever there was a LOVE, it's FlyLady. She takes the sting out of the whole business of housekeeping and she is a bright spirit - she uplifts, she amuses, she's so fresh and natural, I can't say enough about her. She has become my sister and guiding light, through her presence online. This peptalk is just what I needed.
I recognize Marla having lots of tears in he voice from the moment she talks about the person who had cleaning dishes as a punishment as a kid. I have tears in my eyes when Marla says that she loves me too. Fact is, I have been fluttering and already a lot of what she says has stuck with me, I am dressed to lace up shoes for the second time ever since I started 3 years ago and I have just eaten my lunch in time and have already drank some water and I learn to take care day by day. Thank you Mar
PLEASE READ FROM BOTTEM OF MY RESPONSE FIRST, thanks... NOW
IF MY WIFE WERE TO TELL BILL AND HIS WIFE HOW IT WAS GIVING BIRTH TO 9 NINE CHILDREN AND HOW PAINFUL IT WAS, would it be a true statement if Bill were to say " I understand" how could he?
Well as I were talking with my wife about my pain and so on she said " RAY HONEY I UNDERSTAND, I KNOW"
This is the continuous of page below so read bottom first....
I was having real bad pain this day and the children//stress was not helping.!
My wife said " yes dear o understand"
WE ARE MARRIED 29yrs and have 9 children, God is good, fantastic in fact!
WELL, I said, honey if Bill from across the way came over to visit and we were sitting together, him his wife and us and you were venting on a bad day!
Thank you for your help. Even across the world your words work wonders. Nearly got my house decluttered my controljournal is starting to look good. Even our DS are starting with the Riley Challenges. Got to go get some water. My routines are getting in place and it takes less than an hour to get my house mother in law friendly!
I sat down with a glass of water to search you tube for inspiration. I am currently avoiding cleaning my house. I am so totally overwhelmed. I don't know where to start. I often hope for more flylady videos. Today here you were with exactly what I needed! So, thank you for reminding me that it doesn't have to be perfect and that I can take better care of myself. You have more of an impact than you will probably ever know. God Bless you!!!
Thanks for your video.I clean houses for a living yet when it comes to my own I'm too tired its like taking my work home.thanks for the motivation.
fr3ddy3101 9 months ago
Marla, I watch you every day in the kitchen while I do dishes and cook!! I'm glad my computer is in the kitchen...it is like you are here cheering me on!! It motivates me to keep going!! Thank you so much!!
bonniespruin 9 months ago in playlist Flylady videos
@HaSHEMismyFortress I hope things are going better for you now!! Take care!!
bonniespruin 9 months ago in playlist Flylady videos
Thank you for loving me Flylady. I love you too! I watched you capturing dust bunnies too, and you are such an example of joy. I've been fluttering for years, and I'm motivated to give myself the best gift to myself as well. I'm jumping in again. Thank you thank you!
ipodMom 10 months ago
I am so thankful for FlyLady...in all forms. I spend a goodly portion of every day clicking here, clicking there, videos, radio, emails, her website, etc. If ever there was a LOVE, it's FlyLady. She takes the sting out of the whole business of housekeeping and she is a bright spirit - she uplifts, she amuses, she's so fresh and natural, I can't say enough about her. She has become my sister and guiding light, through her presence online. This peptalk is just what I needed.
Chinwhiskers 10 months ago
Honestly, Marla, I just have to say God bless you for all of the work you've done here.
cascadejacques 1 year ago
This message means the world to me. Bless you Fly Lady!
tlowenbraun 1 year ago
I recognize Marla having lots of tears in he voice from the moment she talks about the person who had cleaning dishes as a punishment as a kid. I have tears in my eyes when Marla says that she loves me too. Fact is, I have been fluttering and already a lot of what she says has stuck with me, I am dressed to lace up shoes for the second time ever since I started 3 years ago and I have just eaten my lunch in time and have already drank some water and I learn to take care day by day. Thank you Mar
elisastulpe 1 year ago
I'm learning to FLY now, thanks to you! Finally Love Myself....
draget77 1 year ago
Thank u FLY LADY for loving me! blessings
draget77 1 year ago
omg u made me cry cuz most women put every one in front them
becvictoria 1 year ago
We love u too as u r doing this for us
we (muslims)'d also want to offer u advice please think about your Creator and read about islam. u can see the videos of thedeenshow here on youtube.
We INVITE you to ISLAM. No blind faith here please listen for yourself
tosikuai 1 year ago
wow, Fly Lady, I love you too.
RepindatJesus 1 year ago
I must ad for the Glory of Marriage!
Married 29 Yrs with 9 children from 26 to 8yrs old
7 still home!
My wife works hard never complains she drives girls to cheerleading, tumbling, gymnastics, school, shops, cleans etc.
NEVER complains! She has God/Jesus!
God is great!
I help with ALL I can, in everything! My boys friends comment to them( not me I'd hit them lol) that there mom is hot!
We have love time and eachother!
And what they say about getting older and love making is wrong. We still have
skippyjl1 1 year ago
WoW, you MUST be sick of me by now?
LET ME TELL YOU ALL A FEW IMPORTANT THINGS, please?
I'm married 29yrs to same beautiful woman that ( honestly) asked me to marry her!
Man, what a blessing!
We have 9 children all in 29 yrs and all 2 Yrs apart.
I love my wife so very much, she is beautiful God has been extra good to me, why?
My boys friends come over and tell my boys that THEY (we) have a HOT MOTHER!
my love for her is NEVER ENDING, I want her more today then when we first married, it is AWESO
skippyjl1 1 year ago
AS YOU SAY YOU HAVE NO CHILDREN IT'S OBVIOUS WITH NO LITTLE ONES RUNNING AROUND, right?
WELL, AGAIN I SAY"IF YOUR NOT LOOKING OUT MY EYES OR THEIRS, HOW ONE THIS EARTH CAN YOU UNDERSTAND ?
COMPASSION IS A OVER- RATED WORD!
NO MAN CAN RELATE WITH A WOMAN ON THE PAINS OF CHILD BIRTH, NO PERSON CAN UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE WITH CHILDREN UNDER FOOT, AND NOT HAVE IT!
please learn to curve your steps! TALK EXPERIENCE NOT UNDERSTANDING!
thank you!
Ray USMC 100% Disabled Service Connected
skippyjl1 1 year ago
MY WIFE STORY STARTS 4th page down then up!?!?
We love each-other very much God has given me a BEAUTIFUL WONDERFUL DARLING SEXY WIFE!
YOU WOULD NEVER KNOW SHE HAD 1 child let alone NINE (9)!
29 YRS OLDEST 26 down to 8yrs!
SIX GIRLS 3 BOYS!
any way
My point FLY LADY!
YOU MENTION THAT PEOPLE SAY " but I have children and you do not understand "
THEY ARE RIGHT!
HOW CAN YOU SAY "O I UNDERSTAND BUT IT CAN AND SHOULD GET DONE"?
skippyjl1 1 year ago
HELLO!
TO START READING PLEASE GO TO BOTTOM 3 pgs down to the FIRST no room to write story):
ANYWAY!
after all is said and done could BILL ACTUALLY RELATE TO THE PAIN OF NINE CHILDREN IN BIRTH?
NO O SAID!
SO I THEN SAID TO MY WIFE, no matter how someone says they feel your pain or understand it are missing reality!
My wife said to me" yes Ray I know your pain and stress inside"
I LOOKED AT HER AND Asked" can you look through my eyes and see how I feel or see things"?
NO WAY NO MATER HOW MUCH
skippyjl1 1 year ago
PLEASE READ FROM BOTTEM OF MY RESPONSE FIRST, thanks... NOW
IF MY WIFE WERE TO TELL BILL AND HIS WIFE HOW IT WAS GIVING BIRTH TO 9 NINE CHILDREN AND HOW PAINFUL IT WAS, would it be a true statement if Bill were to say " I understand" how could he?
Well as I were talking with my wife about my pain and so on she said " RAY HONEY I UNDERSTAND, I KNOW"
Well my point!
NEXT PAGE BELOW, THIS ONE AND SO ON!
no room to write?
skippyjl1 1 year ago
This is the continuous of page below so read bottom first....
I was having real bad pain this day and the children//stress was not helping.!
My wife said " yes dear o understand"
WE ARE MARRIED 29yrs and have 9 children, God is good, fantastic in fact!
WELL, I said, honey if Bill from across the way came over to visit and we were sitting together, him his wife and us and you were venting on a bad day!
PLEASE READ NEXT PAGE STARTING WITH NOW!
I always run short on space
skippyjl1 1 year ago
I had a talk with my wife the other day and this one was a good one for us both!
We talked about the pain I am in, I'm 100% Disabled USMC Service connected,..
Well we were talking about the pain I have 24/7 and how this day was really building up on me... My wife heard me out and said...
CONTINUED
NEXT PAGE UP, please read
skippyjl1 1 year ago
She is so right about shoes on your feet .
Thank you my fly lady w/wings on I drank lots of tea today and water. I hope u have great day tomorrow . I know I will :)
imabee2010 1 year ago
Thanks for the encouragement!!!! I have 3 kids under 4 and use too many excuses! NO MORE :)
mrandmrshorn 1 year ago
thank you Flylady! i needed that.
bookworm8687 1 year ago
What a wonderful video! I've been FLYing for the last month. It is incredible. :)
God Bless you!
susq30 1 year ago
Dear Marla,
Thank you for your help. Even across the world your words work wonders. Nearly got my house decluttered my controljournal is starting to look good. Even our DS are starting with the Riley Challenges. Got to go get some water. My routines are getting in place and it takes less than an hour to get my house mother in law friendly!
bcaatje 1 year ago
I sat down with a glass of water to search you tube for inspiration. I am currently avoiding cleaning my house. I am so totally overwhelmed. I don't know where to start. I often hope for more flylady videos. Today here you were with exactly what I needed! So, thank you for reminding me that it doesn't have to be perfect and that I can take better care of myself. You have more of an impact than you will probably ever know. God Bless you!!!
olly02169 1 year ago
Bless you Marla :) Thank you for this new video :) Elly
biscuitnrabbi 1 year ago