♥ Dating 101: Getting Over Getting Dumped/How to Deal with a Breakup ♥

[Jacquelinetaylr]

4:43- 4:44 :) teehee! 

[4ry4m12]

I dont think Brad Pit was the perfect man all that his famouse, rich, cute and a good actor he still like any other guy a cheater im not saying there all cheaters but his like most, if he was so perfect he wouldnt have done that, a perfect man is a gentleman and what Brad pitt did was nothing to be compared to a gentleman

[pengugirl123]

i was staring at her earings the WHOLE time o.O

[JazzyV2012]

I like my ex's best friend im not sure what i should do.? Can u make a video 'bout that or just reply back Plz. :)

[macimisa22]

Can u do a video on HOW TO TEXT A BOY??

[alienforce4]

you are amazingg! and i love how you are so direct. i got dumped yesterday :/ he apperantly didnt want nothing serious..so this whole time i thought we were getting serious but i guess not. plus he lived like 40 m away...so i guess it was the best for us. :( your helping alot! (not saying ill get over him in a day or two... but this helps) Thanks :))

[cockycollins19]

You have very nice lips

[niay291]

What if you'r stuck with him for a long time.? Its hard to get over my sons father. I tried so hard to get over him but I keep seen him all the time =/

[thereisabetterWay323]

This is only my humble opinion, lol, but I think this is your best video. :)

[michelleeelee]

You speak so eloquently! :D I love your videos on relationship advice and how you are very straightfoward:)

[TheFluteplayer98]

How can Jennifer Anniston get over Brad Pitt just like that? I had a break up that happened a week and 4 days ago and I still haven't got over it yet.

[theprincess857]

guys please thump up so she can see it ! a guy said he really like me and after that he want it to make out with me and i rejected him and i stoped talking to him ! and now he's saying bad things about me to all the guys that i know he told them that im a bitch and a lot of bad things !and this shit is really conroling y life right now :'( i can't take it anymooore! i really don't know what to do ?, ! should i talk to him or revenge him ?? "i wish i could kill him"

PLZ REPLY TO ME

[aileenaful]

!!!!! RACHEAL!!!!!! you must read my coment and reply!!!! About two weeks ago I really have found my soul mate... But my best friend's boyfriend is the boy I likes best friend. So I asked him to tell the boy I like that I like him,,,, and the reply was "no"...... What's that supposed to mean ?????

P.s. I have no classes with the boy I like and I only see him in the locker hall after and before classes......... I'm not a stalker but I know all the classes he has

[SojournToPerfection]

@aileenaful

Let me guess: middle school?

[hiphopcrazy123]

I have to share my drama with you lol I wasnt looking for enything serious so i went to bed with guy that ive known for long time. But now im havin feelings for him his sweet to me feels like its not just sex, but he doesnt say if he wants more and its buggin me, i wanted to find out what we actually are but its very complicated bcus i gave myself to him just for fun, so why would i expect more right? But i want more now :( HELP?

[ovanaalst]

hey, the vid is epic! i just got dumped and i ahd some trouble! he meant a lot to me and he actually lied all along to use me! u are amazing and i love ut vids! ur rock!

[jokersgirlfriend45]

it took me a long time to get over my last boyfriend....a long time. I learned from my mistakes and also learned he was never worth it anyway. and now i am about 99% sure i have found my soul mate. ^_^

[babypaddywack]

LOVE THIS VIDEO!!!! you are so awesome :)

[zirahtosk]

Rachel I have a friend who was in a year long relationship and it's been three moths she is the what you call "Jennifer Anniston" she's indenale and how can I wake her up without being rude?

[Auwa419]

Tell us ur new guy update

[Mindlessblexi]

I don't even have a boyfriend I just watch it videos for fun and the future

[Mindlessblexi]

Ur an expert I don't even have a boyfriend but I just watch ur videos for fun and for future purposes u r truly gifted and

[TheFluteplayer98]

Thanks! This really helped!

[RosieTheBeast]

I really like you're videos but I was sad to hear from you that you don't like Angelina Jolie, since in my opinion she is an amazing actress, but w.e

[KatherinesAdvice]

Thanks! I guess I was going through it all wrong :(

[GlamiLass]

I love Jake Gyllenhaal :D <3

[CandlesnKisses]

Correction my dear, Jennifer Aniston wasn't DATING Brad Pitt, they were married.

But it was widely rumored that he was ready to start a family and she didn't want to give him that because she didn't want to sacrifice her body or her career.

Going back to another video of yours! Being the other woman: Angelina was willing to give him those things, obviously, as evidenced by her choosing to adopt children and then having a biological child with Brad, followed by 2 more.

[SojournToPerfection]

@CandlesnKisses

Technicalities. My gut tells me that the woman is a tramp. And I usually go with my gut.

Besides, I was just trying to make a point, which you helped strengthen for me. Poor Jen was dumped/broken up with by her husband, the hottest guy in existence, and she got over it. If she survived, we can too. ♥

[3DMadnesss]

I love the little starting bit with the theme tune and everything :) xx

[Steohna]

Wow, so clear and concise! I couldn't agree more, and although I had tried saying the "same" thing to my friend a while ago, your words are much stronger. I should send him this video^^

[SMiLExALOT]

LOVED THIS VIDEO<3

oh heck i love ALL your videos !:)

[lolwithfriends]

should you ever date your best friend?...

[147bk]

the worse part its that he talks about his gf how amaizing she is and blah blah blah and i feel like im dying :(

[147bk]

I'll do the 1st step here: I met this guy, and at 1st i wasn't interested in him so i just treated him as a friend, but it was clearly that he was into me, anyway we spent days talking and kinda flirting. So the other day we were chatting and he decided to drop the bomb, he told me that he had a gf (he was single when we met), and i was like wtf!!(all of these in my mind) gosh i wish i told him something but instead of that i just smile and said im happy for you :S

[the23rdbanshee]

Omg yay so happy you're making so many new videos! I was sad that you made fun of Angelina Jolie my favorite actress. Just wanted to clarify even jennifer aniston herself said she doesnt think that he cheated on her while they were married.

[SojournToPerfection]

@the23rdbanshee

I can't stand the sight of her.

[TheStephsite]

when i read your asterisk comment, thats me right there. i didnt follow my gut feeling. and even though im the one ending the relationship, it hurts that much more than i knew we were not right for eachother and i ended up hurting him more. thanks so much for this video, i will definitely try to follow the process!

[BlondieBeautieLove]

I have NEVER! been dumped but i know i will be soon thanks for this!

[nicarox105]

love the new intro its amazinggg

[SojournToPerfection]

@nicarox105

Thanks! My computer crashed and I lost the files for my old one, so I had to improvise :(

[fernezlian]

The guy that I was with said he doesnt trust me, and yet he says he wants to be friends? How can you have a friendship without trust? What should I do, keep my distance and just move on? Or try to be friends with him again?

[rosebudloves]

BEST VIDEO YET!! I went through a horrible break up and still a year later I am still healing but watching this I can look back and see were I failed and how I dealed with the situation appropriately. I am so much stronger and learned SO much from my last relationship, YOU WILL LIVE! I did :)

[SojournToPerfection]

@rosebudloves

I'm so glad to hear it! And you are absolutely right. Jean Baker Miller (psychiatrist) said that people grow and develop through relationships. My understanding of myself changed radically once I began forming intimate connections with others. Being in a relationship can bring out things in you (both good and bad) that you never would have imagined about yourself. ♥

[rosebudloves]

@SojournToPerfection can I super like this :)

[ILOVEMYDOG458]

oh i LOVE your videos! there SO helpful! -3

[cupcake31990]

Thank you for the amazing advice. I am going through a breakup right now, and this video is helping me deal with it. So thank you soo much for doing this video

[SojournToPerfection]

@cupcake31990

Sorry to hear that, love. But I'm glad the video helped :) ♥

[lilgeekable]

Would you suggest apologizing if you had a bad breakup, like face to face?

Especially if it was a long distance relationship and he is here for a week more?

Lot of drame with this kid, but I just wana leave things good

If you respond, thank you!

[SojournToPerfection]

@lilgeekable

If you feel like you have something to apologize for, then I would definitely say, go for it. The ability to apologize and admit your mistakes is the mark of a rational, humble person. ♥

[funnyMAKElaugh]

Your videos are seriously helpful! Thank you for making them :D

[12gymnast21]

I love ur videos! U always know how to talk an u have amazing advise (:

[lilgeekable]

What i did to step number 2 is i gave it back to him.. but he wore the ring again. :/ had a horrible breakup we ended up on a bad note but thank goodness i had a long distance relationship. I deleted all his info and my email and made a new one. Damn, wish I followed #4 before i had done some things.. Have experienced all this, and now I find new ways to follow through a breakup. Thanks chica!

[KarenLynnz]

Lovig the new intro!!

[ELOHAY777]

1st comment hooray

[helena4624]

omg im luvin it SojournToPerfection is backkk!!! love you so much xoxoxoxoxo