Nigger women are hideous baboons who should be swinging from a noose in the breeze on a tree in my backyard. They are little more than mildly sentient cattle, to be exploited and tamed by their glorious superiors: whites. If any nigger dares become indignant with her white master, she ought be beaten mercilessly. A nigger must learn to silently, obediently, loyally, and fearfully serve her master, lest her overgrown, gorilla buttocks and lips be covered in welts at the end of a righteous whip.
And now for a little REALITY CHECK (for all these BW women who convince themselves that they are so "successful" (Rolling eyes). INCOME 2010 ALL MEN: $41,474 BLACK MEN: $33,629 ALL WOMEN: $30,085 BLACK WOMEN: $25,378 INDIVIDUAL INCOME 2010 BLACK MEN: $37,419 BLACK FEMALES: $32,35 SOURCE: US Census Bureau 2010 blackdemographics. com/income.html (Now WHO has been lying to you people? ...and WHY?)
They are single because of the very nature of women and how they think. A rich woman will never marry a man who makes less money , never. Give me an example of a wealthy woman with a poor man in a lasting relationship..........I will be waiting forever because it won't happen
@MrROTD You are completely wrong on this point. It happens and I've seen it ...and I am around a lot of people who are indeed "wealthy". While working a good job (but far from wealthy) I dated a young, beautiful self-made millionaire and we were talking about the possibility of marriage. She saw my potential though she had much more money. Today I am wealthier than her but she had NO guarantee that would ever happen. If you have money WHY would you care about your mates money? Makes no sense!
@MrROTD In addition you are clearly dismissing the many public examples which also prove that you are wrong. J-LO (and chauffeur); Brittney Spears (and K-Fed); Madonna; Monique; Liz Taylor; Ophra (may have not "lasted" forever but it lasted for many MANY years ...in fact longer than most marriages do). In fact J-Lo recently admitted that marriage was at least a possible consideration with her current "boy toy" who makes a LOT less money than her.
Black women in fact betrayed themselves when they completely turned their backs on all of their elders, the church, black men and black business and completely dumped their entire support base in exchange for drugs, discos, dog tracks and government assistance programs of every concievable kind in the mid 70's.
There is in fact an extremely informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that very in-depthly covers this exact subject.
I can answer this question very easily. Most successful black women are single because
1. They have consumed themselves in their professionalism and dont know how to attract and/or date and/or keep a man because their career comes before their relationship.
2. Their success has created an "Im the dominant one" illusion so they are least willingly to submit to the will of a man (black men dont put up with this.)
3. They want a successful black male equivalent (very hard to find)
@Mrbaltimore2001 men cheat because of thier wives, if a man is taken care of sexually he won't cheat, in every case it's the wifes fault, she won't put out. I know that ladies need to get into it to have sex but thats what KY is for. I will never marry because women have forgotten that sex is thier duty and that men NEED sex. I am better off dating and getting sex that way, much less expensive than paying Vaginamony
If your not a black woman SHUT UP!!! Stop trying to analyze them....just because a group of black woman can't find a "good man" doesn't mean they all can't...Stop with your ignorance people!!!
Black women with degrees portray themselves as being so perfect top notch but I'm reality they are ignorant bitches. They say the man has to be on their level. Can any successful black woman tell me what level that is ? They can't because no one ever matches their level of ignorance
@e84fresh I don't know what their level is, but I think you would need an elevator to get their. While the other races of women are on the first floor.
White women are more available and sexier and even more successful than black women who are successful, maybe black women should stop to date the same wrong kind of man everytime...it' s easy to raise standards when all they do is dating the same wrong man everytime...black women fault...
Okay everybody here is the REAL reason for this problem of no BM available. Firstly there are. But anyway it is because BW (ak girls) are lacking maturity until they reach 34 years old and upwards. While young and attractive they do not want the smart, well to do, clean cut guy in school or working at the shoe store . They want exciting, over confident, sexualized, "hard" dudes with attitude (swag) and smooth talk. They will drop panties for this guy, even if he has a record and babies already.
@ENYPolyglot I'll tell you "what now"..what now is the club, facebook, craiglist! That's where people are going to find so called "dates" and prospective life long (or short life) partners. It's ridiculous at best, but it doesn't faze me because, I know without a shadow of a doubt that I am going to meet the man of my dreams and reality whether he is black or not. The mainstream media goes to far with this "70% of all black women are single) foolishness...
exercise, eat good, feed your mind-don't go to euro or Afro-balance is the key and be a relevant ol'head stay current,but be grounded in your age...that's free for now
I'm 46, dating a man 18yrs my jr and I think it a matter of choice and principle. What's important and to whom? The brothers I know in their 40s are either cheating, thinkin their still "the bomb" (bed-hopping), jaded by child-support/divorce or single by choice..... I know (5) black men who have been "single" for over 5yrs!!!!! Sorry but I don't know any white men who live like this, straight or gay, and I thought she'd touch on this... Why do they remain single? Marriage can be sweet.
@ENYPolyglot - You are dating a guy 18 years your junior, And you think he LOVES you ??? I give it 5-7 years, when you start to really BREAKDOWN and LOOK your age. You better hit that gym and get some surgery. Wait Ashton left Demi ??? And Demi doesn't look as good as she looked 2 years ago. YIKES !!! Demi once was a HOTT looking white woman. Good Luck GURL !!!
@ENYPolyglot - What the HELL does choice have to do with you acting a FOOL, so called DATING a young man that is old enough to be your CHILD. You should certainly OBSERVE you current relationship. REFLECT to see that YOU are an IDIOT and CHOOSE to find a MAN @ your LEVEL. I can understand the sex and the companionship, but after that what do you talk about ??? What do you REALLY have common other than being horny and do you see yourself with this person 5-10 years from now ? 56 - 38 REALLY !!!
why the heck in america people keep promoting this idea that black women have to marry black men, for that matter why do whites have to marry whites, how long has that ship sail? or did american media not get the memo, you guys need to get a real salad not the kind where every ingredient stays in its corner of the plate!! mix it up throw in the dressing whirl everything around and eat!
they are single because nobody likes black women. Black women are low class, wear idiofrontic transvestite wigs, they are materialistic, rude, dumb, angry, and confrontational. Black women are too st
There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
I like black woman like the one on the interview. and whats her name in the lethal weapen movie where theres the armored trucks being ripped off and that woman that say's to Danny Glover,,, you the jam in my lelly donut,,, she was soooo hot, ummmm hunnnnnny
woman like her are the sexiest thing on ths earth.
If i didnt have a nice lady right now???
Id grab the first black hunny i saw.
to me they are wayyyy more talkative and wayyy more personable than white woman..
Black women with college degrees make me horny as fuck. My dick gets hard when a black woman tells me that she has a degree! Black men don't feel bad if a black woman has a college degree I guarantee you that if you play your cards right she would still consider you as a possible match even if you don't have a degree. The only thing black females want from black men is to be straight up with them, comfort them and let them know that you'll always be there for them.
men want women, not a resume. and black women need to want to get married before 30yo, cuz once you hit your 30s the likelihood of marriage goes way down every year from that point.
@Chas0x01 I don't agree with that...30 is not old...not by a long shot. If a woman of any race wants to believe in the media hype that they are damaged goods by 30 or 40, then that belief will come true to them...the Bible teaches that "as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he." I don't believe such foolish things which is probably why I haven't had many bad exp. on the dating end of things. No woman should "need" to get married before 30 yrs old. I don't know where ppl get these ideas
@Famfriass you can get married after 30yo. i'm just saying it gets harder and your good options dwindle. good eligible men in their 30s are marrying women in their 20s. many highly eligible men in their 40s are marrying women in their 20s. men in general who want children are likely to marry women in their 20s.
it seems a lot of black women don't think about this, but timing plays a major role in this whole thing.
@Chas0x01 Happy New Year! I respect your opinion, I just don't share that belief..I don't think age has anything to do with someone "finding" or marrying someone that is eligible, esp. with the divorce rate as high as it is among all races and genders. This whole you have to get married before 30 years of age or it will get harder to find a "good" man is just another attempt on society to get women all scared and to place an expiration date on us. I don't buy into it.
@Famfriass Happy New Year to you too:) i think the best advice you could give to an aaw is to get her to think about marrying in her 20s. you can just checkout the numbers. there are more male children born than females, but by an age group reaches 18yo the numbers are the same. from that point women begin to slowly outnumber men. so by 30yo availability starts to become an issue. also men and especially successful men usually want younger women. i just think it's important to understand that.
Polygamy is the answer. We must return to our original Black standard of family. Black women have always outnumbered us but prior to slavery this was never an issue. The issue is attempting to attach white standards to black love. So through 400 years of slavery, jim crow, and an overall oppressive society has conditioned the minds of black women to believe that they have to have their man all to themselves. Polygamy would also solve the infidelity issues. Black culture for Black people.
Polygamy is the answer. We must return to our original Black standard of family. Black women have always outnumbered us but prior to slavery this was never an issue. The issue is attempting to attach white standards to black love. So through 400 years of slavery, jim crow, and an overall oppressive society has conditioned the minds of black women to believe that they have to have their man all to themselves. Polygamy would also solve the infidelity issues. Black culture for Black people.
Listen very carefully, and I hope you black men and women take this to heart. When non blacks become successful, the whole world takes notice and pays attention. When blacks become successful, no one cares. Just ask Oprah with all her millions she was still turned away from a store in Europe. That's just the way the world is so it's pointless to argue with the facts.
Why do you people post videos like this on you tube? Like "why I don't date black women and why black men like white women" You never see white people posting videos like "why I hate white women and so forth. You never see white people posting vids on how successful they are because they know it already and they get paid for it on reality shows. Really? Just love yourself sheeesh! I'm sure your mothers are proud.
…..not all black women are dirty spoiled sellout self-hating white men’s wh0res/h0es who want be white or lil pink d’ck….and not all black men are ain’t sh’t or gays who want non black women, we need more black family and real chocolate/dark/brown skin black sons/kids in america in all the world! f’ck white devils dark skin and black love are the best!
pls my real dark/brown skin african/black ppl wake up and stop mixed up with ugly racist whites because your mixed or biracial kids with crakkkers and non black ppl will always go to white race just like fake azz mixed white man’s wh0res Alicia Keys or Halle Berry they both have white/light skinned looking kids and ain’t real dark skinned african/black looking! obama is not black that’s why he in white house because racist weak crakkkers want to destroy us.
stop think only your vagina and start thinking your head as smart black woman and mother of race. because if we don't stop fighting with each other and fuck with ugly racist crackers then black women, men, real dark skin black race/kids and culture will disappear in this world just like in south-america! pls wake up!
stop bitching and trying date of another brotha who don't wanna be playe and can understand your personality no matter how he looking. you black women need to stop being such selfish dumb bitches because all this shit works only against you and your black men.
they love white men and his lil d'ck just like in porno that smart racist white men shows to their dumb self-hating black azzez but only ugly old nasty looking crakkkers or wiggers date or want marry them. that's why so many black women are single, unmarried or porno white man's wh0res.its one of the reason why your black men are f'cking up, gays, hate, don't trust and don't like you black women.
because black women are selfish dumb azz self-hating sellout white man's wh0res who hate dark skin and real dark/brown-skinned black men, that's why we're is in deep sh't. black women think that racist fake white people are their friends and their racist white "kings" men for real in love with them...smh!
@uky whatever. While u exist in ur sad pathetic life I'll laugh all the bank. Ever consider euthanasia? Ur taking up too many precious resources. I can't imagine anyone with half a brain would miss you. Heaven forbid you ever end up in my OR. I just might not see fit to wake u up afterwards and do the world a favor.
getting married? Don't do it till you get the workbook set by General Hafeezah called BEFORE YOU SAY I DO HIS/HERS go to generalhafeezah dot c o m or amazon to order the set of books or call the author 404-441-7686
black men and women need to work together. times have changed; it is very hard to live in a single income household. women need to understand that we can still get our points across in a feminine way without emasculating our black men. my grandmothers voice is so so yet powerful. she speaks at a whisper, but when she speaks the hole family is silent. we dont have to yell and scream. i honestly wish the media would stop with the black women cant find a man stories.
because they are dirty dumb sellout white man's whores/hoes that's why they are single, can't marry black man or porno whores. they don't give a shit about dark skin black men, sons, black race and culture so karma as bitch she always come back to you no matter what. i hope all they die in hell they deserve this!
Depends on how you define success...if its on a mainstream t.v. show; then you can bet its a definition that is given to us..and we define ourselves by the standard that our 'massa/parent' gave to us. The very ones who have successfully taken this world to the brink of Hell.
This is an anti-marriage generation. Many men and women just want sex buddies for life. And even if they get married, how many remain faithful for life, or even stay together? No black girl curse. Just a change in the overall society.
This is not happening only in the US. It's the same thing everywhere (Guinea-Bissau, Portugal, Brazil,...). The fact is you're educated, you don't really want to be in a relationship with someone who didn't go far in school and/or doesn't seem to have the same chances to succeed as you do. It doesn't matter if you man or woman, black or white. More women are in colleges and they are better students most of the time. And of course they are looking for someone of the same "level" to live with...
Many black women need to raise boys that will become these "successful", eligible men that these single black women want to date. They need to stop mating with "niggas" instead of men.
They're SINGLE because they keep going on TALK SHOWS and late nights shows like 20/20, Dateline, Diane Sawyer, Barbra Walters, Tyra Banks and others complaining. I don't see women of other races going on shows complaining.
@retiredstalker So in other words marriage is about women serving men? What is with the power trip? I thought partnership was the new thing for the 21st century.
What is the break-down for the husband? What does he do, other than earn money (because women do that also) and have the woman serve him?
Propaganda this is being done because of the rise of michelle obama can't get to her get to the rest of them they step up their media assault on black women on purpose to drive black women to white men or other race's because once the black woman cut's out from the self preservation game we are done in this country anywhere white's are they always remain a ruling class over the darker mix up race's the so called pure white's control the MEDIA I REPEAT MEDIA what's there purpose?
pls my black ppl wake f'ck up not all black women are dirty spoiled sellout self-hating white men's wh0res/h0es who want be white or lil pink dick....and not all black men are anti sh't or gays who want non black women, we need more black family and real chocolate/dark/brown skin black sons/kids in america in all the world! f'ck white devils dark skin and black love are the best!
all these dirty sellout dumb white man's black or mixed porno whores/hoes and strippers come from church. Church tell black women to fuck and do whatever they wnats but keep black men to be gays, fags, dumb coons who kill each other sametimes. Church tell to black men to date/marry only black women who are dirty, fat and ugly as shit who come from white man's dick or porno industry smh! that's why we is in shit!
they love white men and his lil d'ck just like in porno that smart racist white men shows to their dumb self-hating black azzez but only ugly old nasty looking crakkkers or wiggers date or want marry them. that's why so many black women are single, unmarried or porno white man's wh0res.its one of the reason why your black men are f'cking up, gays, hate, don't trust and don't like you black women. that's why!
because black women are selfish dumb azz self-hating sellout white man's wh0res who hate dark skin and real dark/brown-skinned black men, that's why we're is in deep sh't. black women think that racist fake white people are their friends and their racist white "kings" men for real in love with them ... smh!
Many men and women just want as many sex buddies as they can get even into old age. In general, society is moving away from marriage. People view marriage as a prison or as being pointless so instead they live together, have some kids and look forward to the next sex buddy. I have this romantic view of finding a life partner and building a family and sitting in a rocking chair next to my old man when I'm in my 80s but then I snap back to this current reality.
Most black women are loud, ghetto, and have chips on their shoulders. Many are single mothers & think all of this can be veiled by big earnings & what's even more ridiculous is that they believe they are a good catch therefore believe they deserve more than what they are. Most Black women are stereotypical and not anywhere worth dating. A lot of them will make your life miserable. And what is it with this sick desire by black women to seek black men solely on the basis of his bank account?
What women don't get is men don't give a FUCK about how successful, rich or powerful they are. Men generally go for looks and for women who aren't complete bitches to them. All that other stuff is irrelevant.
@steviesbackbitch - Wow, God forbid any of these dumb bitches would get it. Men eat with there eyes, if it looks good and has a BRAIN we go for it. And yes the bitchy attitude is a MAJOR DEAL BREAKER !!!
Don't forget humans... People who get things like jobs are handed to them. I say this because you can be one of the best workers around, if no-body needs you, you aren't going to work. Then we can't forget about the hiring thing. When people hire you, they gave you the job. Now you show them that you can do the job and they keep you by your performance. Yet the employer can take the job away from you and you can end up like shit blackwomen so don't be high and mighty if you have good job.
A lot of western black people don't care about marriage, compared to other groups of people. I think these black women get jobs around non-black people and then they start thinking that they should be married too because their non-black co-workers are married.
All women need to get through their thick skulls that MEN DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT STATUS, MONEY, POWER, EDUCATION, CAREER SUCCESS, etc. That is irrelevant. Men mostly just want hot young chicks who give them erections. Nothing else. Nobody's beating their dick to Hilary Clinton or Angela Merkel or to some rich old billionaire woman.
@steviesbackbitch You comment is absolutely wrong. I positively adore going shopping to Bloomingdale's with my older more successful girlfriend. She gives me spending money and buys my clothes all I do is smoke weed and house work. It takes me two hours to clean the apartment go food shopping and cook dinner. I am living the dream PS3, porn and drugs all day every day. Looks fade with time but a natural talent to make money doesn't.
Sounds like gigolo behavior. If you had any money of your own you wouldn't be relying on a woman and you'd be going after the youngest, hottest girl you could get.
Also a lot of women are still looking for men who make more money than they do, even if they make a good living themselves.
@steviesbackbitch So when women did it it was being a stay at home wife. When a guy does it its being called a gigolo?? Successful rich feminist types don't mind a guy like me because it is a message to the world that women are equal to men. Who am I to tarnish their dreams and mines. Lions spend 22 hours a day laying down when lionesses hunt for food etc.. I am not lazy.... even got a masters degree. I was gifted with ok looks and a good charm which all you need in life ;-)
It is more common for women to live off men's money than vice versa. Many of these so-called successful, independent women are looking for men who make more money than them, not a guy to live off their income. They have a smaller dating pool to choose from while men who make the same money have a bigger pool to choose from.
@steviesbackbitch I was an honors student in political science and psychology. Clever people are the easiest ones to manipulate because they are overconfident. The findings of focus groups which are used for marketing research for consumer products is where peoples weaknesses are exposed. all I do is sell a product (me) to a specific demographic group based on their emotional needs. in the words of Shakespeare "the world is a stage and the people in it are players"
Seriously, numerous reports from the census reveal that middle/upper income black women are not having any children, because most do not marry (at all).
Please utilize the net's resources to learn more about this rising phenomenon.
@queenimayya I think black women have to be wiser when selecting partners. If a man is unemployed and/or underemployed, behaves like an infant, has a history of incarceration, lacks a suitable level of education, has multiple concurrent sexual partners, spends most of his time emulating rappers, lacks spirituality, likes to smoke marijuana and use other drugs, and/or has a history of mental illness, more than likely he will not become a good husband/father.
@queenimayya What you say can't possibly be true,because 72% of all black sons are coming from single mother headed house holds,so don't the BW raise their sons any better?BW claim to be the backbone of the community,these are the result we have from your leadership,BW are not fit to lead the black community so either you get in line and show respect to good BM,or fall with the WM that simple
@GTR1nissan IM SO DISSAPOINTED N YOU. DONT U KNOW that it is hard for a single mom 2 raise children who r productive in society?? u r definitely RIGHT, BW cant play the role of both "mommy" & "daddy", some blk woman say they can but its a very difficult task, and that attempt in many cases has failed. i am the product of a single family home. my father cheated on my mother and ran off with his white mistress, leaving behind 3 kids and a world of burdens. {continued above}
@GTR1nissan {continued below} how was my mother suppose 2 predict an outcome like that?? especially after years of built trust and 3 children?? i havent seen my father since, what a cowardous act hes left my family 2 deal with! my mother did as u said, she was "in line" and stood by my fathers side 4 many years, yet it still resulted in heartbreak and embarassment. blk men need 2 take more responsibity and stop blaming bw 4 EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!! -RubytheRiot
@1473Tiera I'm sorry to here about your situation,I never excused BM at all for this kind of behavior,I can't judge your situation because I was'nt there,but we do have a serious problem with BW choosing the WORST of their men to have kids with,then blaming all BM for their problems,I do not support no good deadbeat BM,but many BW I know that would never give me the time of day have chosen to date these men,now they wanna be victims.Good BM can only help if you allow them to
@GTR1nissan Why would you want a woman that was attracted to 'thugs?' I would never be interested in a guy that liked whorish women, irrespective of his looks, job, etc. At the end of the day, it all boils down to character.
Surely there are single women in your community that have no interest in thugs. -But you won't typically find these women in the clubs, or at the house parties. If you head down to your local library, or a bookstore, etc, I'm sure you'll have a greater level of success.
@Mary2020VA No it's not,the same middle class BW you hear bragging about the college degrees and carreers,mess with the same thugs the hoodrats do when their YOUNG,I've seen this play out hundreds of times.Having children is a good thing,but it needs to be done for the right reasons.
@queenimayya My mom does'nt fit this category but your dad prolly does,everybody knows that many BW,make poor choices in the men they choose to have their kids by.BW are known for doing scandalous stuff like lying about being on birth control,to men that they were never even in a relationship with,to try and tie him down.When BM treat you nice you disrepect them,when these thugs treat you like crap,you respect them,
@queenimayya Many of you BW are on welfare,strippers,prostitutes,single mothers living in roach infested projects homes,so you have no room to put down BM
@GTR1nissan The reason why you believe that most black women are prostitutes/strippers and/or welfare recipients is because those are the women that reside within your community/environment.
Most middle income, professional black women do not reside in low income/working class black neighborhoods.
@Mary2020VA I am not from the hood,I grew up in a diverse middle class area.So I know all about so called independent professional college BW B.S. that date the same thugs as the hoodrats do,I grew with plenty of them
@Mary2020VA America's economy is falling,so will see how independent you BW are and how useful your degrees are when the WM,can't afford to pay you to be mammies in corportate america,and get down on your knees and suck him anymore,BW will learn that to show to respect to decent BM,or suffer with the WM
Marriage is an outdated institution in the Western world. Marriage existed to establish paternity and to ensure that men are kept subservient to the social order. It does not make sense in such times when women are earning more degrees than men and have out-based an ever increasing portion of men economically. In an age of disposal relationships, mobile lifestyles, prophylactics, DNA testing, artificial insemination and career women, marriage is a dinosaur.
There would be fewer single "successful" black women if more stopped fucking out of wedlock like it's recreation. A mother and father, not single mother or mother and baby daddy, can better raise a son that will grow into one of these "available" men.
Black women are selfish dumb azz self-hating sellout white man's whores who hate dark skin and real dark/brown-skinned black men, that's why we're is in deep shit. black women think that racist fake white people are their friends and their racist white "kings" men for real in love with them...smh!
all this ranting , sound too Hollywood ~ We Black Guys Know the difference bet. real and bullshit - , I tell you brothers Don't Trust No one who put titles like, Why Can't A Successful Black Women Find Black Man ~
What really matters is how we treat each other. As long as your man treats you like a queen and you treat him like a king and you show each other respect, then that's what will keep you together through the good as well as the bad times.
If we've learned anything from this economic crisis, is that the "stuff" that we put so much value on, really has no value at all if we're not happy!
Black women of this ilk are looking for a man that will impress their friends. I have a degree and I get flack from my friends because I look at the man for who he IS and not his net worth.
I am currently seeing a man who drives a bus in New York City. We actually met in middle school and he was too shy to approach me. It was a fluke that we met up again after 30 years. We both believe we were born to be together and we're happy!
A woman acquiring a degree, a top job, her own car and her own house don't mean jack to me. There are certain qualities and characteristics you look for in a woman and unfortunately some woman who acquire "it all" are some how transformed into something else and are far removed from the qualities that a man finds attractive, which has absolutely nothing to do with her materialistic possessions or accomplishments.
@rynex01 you are right on point, this women are ridiculous ,why go on national if not international tv and broadcast this bullshit its sad really they are so desperate,as if someone stop them from dating people of another colour. they are so frustrated and desperate
black women are single because they haven't found a White man who will do more than bang them down the street Black business women you have to make them feel important then you can frig them
@RaptorQueen Have you ever heard black men going on TV and complaining about how they can't find women? it's only black women who do that. Most successful black men are dating women of other races
black women are recognized as the least attractive race on earth, thats probably why so many are single. that and the fact nearly all of them have kids already and 50% have herpes. FACT
@labartic black women being "least attractive" is totally subjective, but it's not surprising to me when people say such things when we're far from the western ideal of beauty as it can get..
black women can make more on welfare collecting free healthcare, free money for each kid, free food stamps, etc, by being single. So they have no incentive to get married and have to pay for all that shit.
@labartic ok you sir or ma'am write the most dumbest/racist/ignorant comments I have ever read...you clearly have no clue on what your talking about and obviously have no opinion of your own...here is a smart idea how about you actually put more thought into this issue rather than quoting stupid stereotypes. Oh and I would like to know where you get your "facts" DUMB-ASS!!!
most black women are not getting married because they have adopted a selfish hard hearted state of mind that brothers hate. they rather date and marry outside their race because this is a fact. just be nice.
What we as black Christians are about (and, yes, it involves a process) is enjoying the presence and knowledge of God and wanting to see the name and person of the Lord Jesus Christ glorified above anything else in this world and the next to come. We do not have to worry about the confused, natural wisdom of this article writer. The word of God says if we seek first the Kingdom God will supply all of our needs & we have an even greater blessing in our obedience
look back history very "Closley" i cant stress that word enough..both parties are at fault to a degree however if you understand the concept of adam and eve and how deciet and a man and womans mentality and along with the rest of the stories and thats just for starters
He're a fact BLACK WOMEN SAY BLACK MEN CAN'T HANDLE A STRONG BLACK WOMEN AND WE black men are overall no good.. black women can't forgive black men.ok? understood.How do black women forgive a white man who has raped you, eliminated your culture, hung your fathers and sicked dogs on your mothers,would not even consider you or your male counter parts human.....yet your are able to "look past that"....hmmmm weird. If a man doesnot respect the DEEPNEST OF YOU CULTURE THEN HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!!
Black women dont know there place as a women. They think money or a job means successful. Being a wife to your husband a mother to your kids together as a family is being successful. Set goals together chase your dreams together and putting God first is the key...
Back womens attitudes are what keep them single. They want good brothers to kiss their asses, but thuggish brothers don` have to. So fuck black women, get yourself a white girl or hispanic. Sisters always calling themselves Queens, but most act more like Kings. Most are fat, and many have kids already before you even get a chance to meet them. Sisters are their own worst enemies who blame everyone and everything for why they`re single accept themselves.
The system has destroyed black families by encouraging women to get a degree? I'm not surprised that it has so many thumbs up. We BW love to blame other people or "the system." If white and Asian women can get degrees what's in our DNA that makes it a problem for us. Would you rather we were like video vixens and hoodrats who don't get educations and depend on men to support them? BW destroyed their options in middle school when they dated the thug and made the nerd feel like a loser.
The American dream is a lie and is destroying marriages in America. Our perception is our destruction. We watch too much tv and read too many junky novels about relationships, and then we expect reality to be just like the mess we read in books and see on tv. We know nothing about commitment and dedication to family and Godly principles that keep people together for life. That's at the heart of why marriages fail and why some people never find the right mate.
@mrjtjt Very true best comment on here! I am glad that God has led me to the right mate and I am only 25 and she is 22 and my wife and I have been married for three strong years. We are both are black but thats not what makes us strong it's Jesus Christ that makes us strong thats what our whole relationship has been based on even way before we were married.
successful Black women.......i saw big foot and the lockness monster but i have never seen the beast callled a successful Black women do they really exist?
The reason why 70% black women are single is because by the age of 30, 90% are either Gold Diggers or Bastard Breeders.
Golddigger (def.) a women who is out for material gain. One who looks for her financial equivalent or greater and thumbs her nose at those financially beneath her.
Bastard Breede4r (def.) One who defecates children from more than one baby daddy, depreciating in value for Mr. Right. Primarilily seen as being a fuck puppet with no value.
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Nigger women are hideous baboons who should be swinging from a noose in the breeze on a tree in my backyard. They are little more than mildly sentient cattle, to be exploited and tamed by their glorious superiors: whites. If any nigger dares become indignant with her white master, she ought be beaten mercilessly. A nigger must learn to silently, obediently, loyally, and fearfully serve her master, lest her overgrown, gorilla buttocks and lips be covered in welts at the end of a righteous whip.
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iiidol 5 days ago
They are single because of the very nature of women and how they think. A rich woman will never marry a man who makes less money , never. Give me an example of a wealthy woman with a poor man in a lasting relationship..........I will be waiting forever because it won't happen
MrROTD 1 week ago
@MrROTD You are completely wrong on this point. It happens and I've seen it ...and I am around a lot of people who are indeed "wealthy". While working a good job (but far from wealthy) I dated a young, beautiful self-made millionaire and we were talking about the possibility of marriage. She saw my potential though she had much more money. Today I am wealthier than her but she had NO guarantee that would ever happen. If you have money WHY would you care about your mates money? Makes no sense!
iiidol 5 days ago
@MrROTD In addition you are clearly dismissing the many public examples which also prove that you are wrong. J-LO (and chauffeur); Brittney Spears (and K-Fed); Madonna; Monique; Liz Taylor; Ophra (may have not "lasted" forever but it lasted for many MANY years ...in fact longer than most marriages do). In fact J-Lo recently admitted that marriage was at least a possible consideration with her current "boy toy" who makes a LOT less money than her.
iiidol 5 days ago
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Black women in fact betrayed themselves when they completely turned their backs on all of their elders, the church, black men and black business and completely dumped their entire support base in exchange for drugs, discos, dog tracks and government assistance programs of every concievable kind in the mid 70's.
There is in fact an extremely informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that very in-depthly covers this exact subject.
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I can answer this question very easily. Most successful black women are single because
1. They have consumed themselves in their professionalism and dont know how to attract and/or date and/or keep a man because their career comes before their relationship.
2. Their success has created an "Im the dominant one" illusion so they are least willingly to submit to the will of a man (black men dont put up with this.)
3. They want a successful black male equivalent (very hard to find)
wattsr81 2 weeks ago
Bias
MegaPsycho84 4 weeks ago
How come it's never a special on why successful white men, cheat on their wives with expensive escorts
Mrbaltimore2001 1 month ago
@Mrbaltimore2001 men cheat because of thier wives, if a man is taken care of sexually he won't cheat, in every case it's the wifes fault, she won't put out. I know that ladies need to get into it to have sex but thats what KY is for. I will never marry because women have forgotten that sex is thier duty and that men NEED sex. I am better off dating and getting sex that way, much less expensive than paying Vaginamony
MrROTD 1 week ago
Thats an odd twitter advertisment.
itscat92 1 month ago
If your not a black woman SHUT UP!!! Stop trying to analyze them....just because a group of black woman can't find a "good man" doesn't mean they all can't...Stop with your ignorance people!!!
qsh21 1 month ago
WHY would a man EVER want to get married? What's in it for a man??
A man has no legal recourse if a marriage ends. He won't get access to his kids. He'll have alimony up the ass. It's NOT worth it!
A single man has ALL the power. He can ENJOY life as opposed to putting up with some uptight, nagging bitch trying to be his momma.
mikelorenz121 1 month ago
Black women with degrees portray themselves as being so perfect top notch but I'm reality they are ignorant bitches. They say the man has to be on their level. Can any successful black woman tell me what level that is ? They can't because no one ever matches their level of ignorance
e84fresh 1 month ago
@e84fresh I don't know what their level is, but I think you would need an elevator to get their. While the other races of women are on the first floor.
Superseadragon 1 month ago
White women are more available and sexier and even more successful than black women who are successful, maybe black women should stop to date the same wrong kind of man everytime...it' s easy to raise standards when all they do is dating the same wrong man everytime...black women fault...
Sannypowa 1 month ago
Okay everybody here is the REAL reason for this problem of no BM available. Firstly there are. But anyway it is because BW (ak girls) are lacking maturity until they reach 34 years old and upwards. While young and attractive they do not want the smart, well to do, clean cut guy in school or working at the shoe store . They want exciting, over confident, sexualized, "hard" dudes with attitude (swag) and smooth talk. They will drop panties for this guy, even if he has a record and babies already.
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ENYPolyglot 1 month ago
@ENYPolyglot I'll tell you "what now"..what now is the club, facebook, craiglist! That's where people are going to find so called "dates" and prospective life long (or short life) partners. It's ridiculous at best, but it doesn't faze me because, I know without a shadow of a doubt that I am going to meet the man of my dreams and reality whether he is black or not. The mainstream media goes to far with this "70% of all black women are single) foolishness...
Famfriass 1 month ago
exercise, eat good, feed your mind-don't go to euro or Afro-balance is the key and be a relevant ol'head stay current,but be grounded in your age...that's free for now
oguferay 1 month ago
@ 1:12 "They can find men, they just haven't found the one yet." Hey, Lady, isn't that the whole point?
beachbody03 1 month ago
LMFAO obviously if they are single and do not want to be, they ARE NOT SUCCESFUL!
LackadaisicalE 1 month ago
I'm 46, dating a man 18yrs my jr and I think it a matter of choice and principle. What's important and to whom? The brothers I know in their 40s are either cheating, thinkin their still "the bomb" (bed-hopping), jaded by child-support/divorce or single by choice..... I know (5) black men who have been "single" for over 5yrs!!!!! Sorry but I don't know any white men who live like this, straight or gay, and I thought she'd touch on this... Why do they remain single? Marriage can be sweet.
ENYPolyglot 1 month ago
@ENYPolyglot - You are dating a guy 18 years your junior, And you think he LOVES you ??? I give it 5-7 years, when you start to really BREAKDOWN and LOOK your age. You better hit that gym and get some surgery. Wait Ashton left Demi ??? And Demi doesn't look as good as she looked 2 years ago. YIKES !!! Demi once was a HOTT looking white woman. Good Luck GURL !!!
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ENYPolyglot 1 month ago
@ENYPolyglot - What the HELL does choice have to do with you acting a FOOL, so called DATING a young man that is old enough to be your CHILD. You should certainly OBSERVE you current relationship. REFLECT to see that YOU are an IDIOT and CHOOSE to find a MAN @ your LEVEL. I can understand the sex and the companionship, but after that what do you talk about ??? What do you REALLY have common other than being horny and do you see yourself with this person 5-10 years from now ? 56 - 38 REALLY !!!
arelius1971 1 month ago
Three well spoken African Americans...love to hear blacks speaking proper English.
Famfriass 1 month ago
why the heck in america people keep promoting this idea that black women have to marry black men, for that matter why do whites have to marry whites, how long has that ship sail? or did american media not get the memo, you guys need to get a real salad not the kind where every ingredient stays in its corner of the plate!! mix it up throw in the dressing whirl everything around and eat!
ladyevenstar22 1 month ago
no man wants to date or marry an angry black bitch with a wig
xb5jb7 1 month ago
black women are retarded whores with no class and they all wear transvestite wigs
xb5jb7 1 month ago
they are single because nobody likes black women. Black women are low class, wear idiofrontic transvestite wigs, they are materialistic, rude, dumb, angry, and confrontational. Black women are too st
xb5jb7 1 month ago
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There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
pc0p1mp 1 month ago
Nooo not really ive seen alot of white woman that i like
but it seem's they always go for the insecure,or pretty boy
im not saying it's true but i see thing;s a certain black woman i dont see in caucasian woman.
Im not sure they know what they want either,
alot are blinded bt feminism too.
not sure they would be there when you were down?.
kirkconway 2 months ago
Hi guy its me again.
im tired of the sub standard underneath thinking that small white towns have that have an all white thing, and theres no black woman to talk to.
tired of the white person thing of conservative atitude,
and run here run there with no life of thier own.
and yes they are totallly sexy and dark like my little chocolate bar,ummmmmm yummmmmmy,
zowie.
kirkconway 2 months ago
Kirk, lol, white women must piss you off a lot!
MrAtheosRecords 2 months ago
Hi Mr Atheo's
I like black woman like the one on the interview. and whats her name in the lethal weapen movie where theres the armored trucks being ripped off and that woman that say's to Danny Glover,,, you the jam in my lelly donut,,, she was soooo hot, ummmm hunnnnnny
woman like her are the sexiest thing on ths earth.
If i didnt have a nice lady right now???
Id grab the first black hunny i saw.
to me they are wayyyy more talkative and wayyy more personable than white woman..
kirkconway 2 months ago
I want this i want that thats all i see with ones here the US
or totally cold and intimidated.
not into the game thing never was never will be.
if a black woman and white man are happy together
then let it be, no big thing
not into what other's think. .
kirkconway 2 months ago
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Black women with college degrees make me horny as fuck. My dick gets hard when a black woman tells me that she has a degree! Black men don't feel bad if a black woman has a college degree I guarantee you that if you play your cards right she would still consider you as a possible match even if you don't have a degree. The only thing black females want from black men is to be straight up with them, comfort them and let them know that you'll always be there for them.
MrAtheosRecords 2 months ago
men want women, not a resume. and black women need to want to get married before 30yo, cuz once you hit your 30s the likelihood of marriage goes way down every year from that point.
Chas0x01 2 months ago
@Chas0x01 I don't agree with that...30 is not old...not by a long shot. If a woman of any race wants to believe in the media hype that they are damaged goods by 30 or 40, then that belief will come true to them...the Bible teaches that "as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he." I don't believe such foolish things which is probably why I haven't had many bad exp. on the dating end of things. No woman should "need" to get married before 30 yrs old. I don't know where ppl get these ideas
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass you can get married after 30yo. i'm just saying it gets harder and your good options dwindle. good eligible men in their 30s are marrying women in their 20s. many highly eligible men in their 40s are marrying women in their 20s. men in general who want children are likely to marry women in their 20s.
it seems a lot of black women don't think about this, but timing plays a major role in this whole thing.
Chas0x01 1 month ago
@Chas0x01 Happy New Year! I respect your opinion, I just don't share that belief..I don't think age has anything to do with someone "finding" or marrying someone that is eligible, esp. with the divorce rate as high as it is among all races and genders. This whole you have to get married before 30 years of age or it will get harder to find a "good" man is just another attempt on society to get women all scared and to place an expiration date on us. I don't buy into it.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Happy New Year to you too:) i think the best advice you could give to an aaw is to get her to think about marrying in her 20s. you can just checkout the numbers. there are more male children born than females, but by an age group reaches 18yo the numbers are the same. from that point women begin to slowly outnumber men. so by 30yo availability starts to become an issue. also men and especially successful men usually want younger women. i just think it's important to understand that.
Chas0x01 1 month ago
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Polygamy is the answer. We must return to our original Black standard of family. Black women have always outnumbered us but prior to slavery this was never an issue. The issue is attempting to attach white standards to black love. So through 400 years of slavery, jim crow, and an overall oppressive society has conditioned the minds of black women to believe that they have to have their man all to themselves. Polygamy would also solve the infidelity issues. Black culture for Black people.
TheLectureKing 2 months ago
Polygamy is the answer. We must return to our original Black standard of family. Black women have always outnumbered us but prior to slavery this was never an issue. The issue is attempting to attach white standards to black love. So through 400 years of slavery, jim crow, and an overall oppressive society has conditioned the minds of black women to believe that they have to have their man all to themselves. Polygamy would also solve the infidelity issues. Black culture for Black people.
TheLectureKing 2 months ago
Listen very carefully, and I hope you black men and women take this to heart. When non blacks become successful, the whole world takes notice and pays attention. When blacks become successful, no one cares. Just ask Oprah with all her millions she was still turned away from a store in Europe. That's just the way the world is so it's pointless to argue with the facts.
airbrush70 2 months ago
Why do you people post videos like this on you tube? Like "why I don't date black women and why black men like white women" You never see white people posting videos like "why I hate white women and so forth. You never see white people posting vids on how successful they are because they know it already and they get paid for it on reality shows. Really? Just love yourself sheeesh! I'm sure your mothers are proud.
airbrush70 2 months ago
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…..not all black women are dirty spoiled sellout self-hating white men’s wh0res/h0es who want be white or lil pink d’ck….and not all black men are ain’t sh’t or gays who want non black women, we need more black family and real chocolate/dark/brown skin black sons/kids in america in all the world! f’ck white devils dark skin and black love are the best!
swagboi7 2 months ago
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pls my real dark/brown skin african/black ppl wake up and stop mixed up with ugly racist whites because your mixed or biracial kids with crakkkers and non black ppl will always go to white race just like fake azz mixed white man’s wh0res Alicia Keys or Halle Berry they both have white/light skinned looking kids and ain’t real dark skinned african/black looking! obama is not black that’s why he in white house because racist weak crakkkers want to destroy us.
swagboi7 2 months ago
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stop think only your vagina and start thinking your head as smart black woman and mother of race. because if we don't stop fighting with each other and fuck with ugly racist crackers then black women, men, real dark skin black race/kids and culture will disappear in this world just like in south-america! pls wake up!
swagboi7 2 months ago
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stop bitching and trying date of another brotha who don't wanna be playe and can understand your personality no matter how he looking. you black women need to stop being such selfish dumb bitches because all this shit works only against you and your black men.
swagboi7 2 months ago
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they love white men and his lil d'ck just like in porno that smart racist white men shows to their dumb self-hating black azzez but only ugly old nasty looking crakkkers or wiggers date or want marry them. that's why so many black women are single, unmarried or porno white man's wh0res.its one of the reason why your black men are f'cking up, gays, hate, don't trust and don't like you black women.
swagboi7 2 months ago
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because black women are selfish dumb azz self-hating sellout white man's wh0res who hate dark skin and real dark/brown-skinned black men, that's why we're is in deep sh't. black women think that racist fake white people are their friends and their racist white "kings" men for real in love with them...smh!
swagboi7 2 months ago
@uky whatever. While u exist in ur sad pathetic life I'll laugh all the bank. Ever consider euthanasia? Ur taking up too many precious resources. I can't imagine anyone with half a brain would miss you. Heaven forbid you ever end up in my OR. I just might not see fit to wake u up afterwards and do the world a favor.
TivaDiva08 2 months ago
@uky so where does a Harvard educated doctor fall in your ridiculous categories?
TivaDiva08 2 months ago
@TivaDiva08 Most likely she is a bitch.
uky1985 2 months ago
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Black women are nothing but bitches, baby mommas and welfare moms. All of them fall into one of these 3 categories.
uky1985 2 months ago
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getting married? Don't do it till you get the workbook set by General Hafeezah called BEFORE YOU SAY I DO HIS/HERS go to generalhafeezah dot c o m or amazon to order the set of books or call the author 404-441-7686
agodsend624 2 months ago
black men and women need to work together. times have changed; it is very hard to live in a single income household. women need to understand that we can still get our points across in a feminine way without emasculating our black men. my grandmothers voice is so so yet powerful. she speaks at a whisper, but when she speaks the hole family is silent. we dont have to yell and scream. i honestly wish the media would stop with the black women cant find a man stories.
yoshibaby3 2 months ago
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because they are dirty dumb sellout white man's whores/hoes that's why they are single, can't marry black man or porno whores. they don't give a shit about dark skin black men, sons, black race and culture so karma as bitch she always come back to you no matter what. i hope all they die in hell they deserve this!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 2 months ago
Depends on how you define success...if its on a mainstream t.v. show; then you can bet its a definition that is given to us..and we define ourselves by the standard that our 'massa/parent' gave to us. The very ones who have successfully taken this world to the brink of Hell.
lutollo 2 months ago
For starter get rid of that wig!
hppaviliontac 2 months ago
This is an anti-marriage generation. Many men and women just want sex buddies for life. And even if they get married, how many remain faithful for life, or even stay together? No black girl curse. Just a change in the overall society.
ImNotRacistImBias 2 months ago
This is not happening only in the US. It's the same thing everywhere (Guinea-Bissau, Portugal, Brazil,...). The fact is you're educated, you don't really want to be in a relationship with someone who didn't go far in school and/or doesn't seem to have the same chances to succeed as you do. It doesn't matter if you man or woman, black or white. More women are in colleges and they are better students most of the time. And of course they are looking for someone of the same "level" to live with...
mgstification 2 months ago
Many black women need to raise boys that will become these "successful", eligible men that these single black women want to date. They need to stop mating with "niggas" instead of men.
Par5Birdie 2 months ago 26
@Par5Birdie - These women have to STOP making children OUT OF WED-LOCK.
arelius1971 1 month ago
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Hi, I hope that you'll have a chance to check out some of my BHM vids when you have a few- thanks so much
shieldsff 1 week ago
They're SINGLE because they keep going on TALK SHOWS and late nights shows like 20/20, Dateline, Diane Sawyer, Barbra Walters, Tyra Banks and others complaining. I don't see women of other races going on shows complaining.
Par5Birdie 2 months ago 5
black women, your job titles and degrees have NO VALUE to most men.men VALUE respect,beauty and emotinal availability.its not that hard
juseph29 2 months ago
How black women can no longer be single especially successful black women
W=willing to serve your husband in bed & the kitchen
I=Illustrate your commitment & dedication by cooking & cleaning
F=first & foremost know that the husband is head of house & breadwinner
E=effort to serve your husband & tend to the kids & the kitchen
retiredstalker 2 months ago 2
@retiredstalker So in other words marriage is about women serving men? What is with the power trip? I thought partnership was the new thing for the 21st century.
What is the break-down for the husband? What does he do, other than earn money (because women do that also) and have the woman serve him?
ImNotRacistImBias 2 months ago
Why are successful Black women single HOW ABOUT
1. because many of you hang your careers over a guy head
2. many of you believe the world owes you something just because you have a high paying job
thepriceification 3 months ago
You are so unattractive
crangdaniel 3 months ago
Propaganda this is being done because of the rise of michelle obama can't get to her get to the rest of them they step up their media assault on black women on purpose to drive black women to white men or other race's because once the black woman cut's out from the self preservation game we are done in this country anywhere white's are they always remain a ruling class over the darker mix up race's the so called pure white's control the MEDIA I REPEAT MEDIA what's there purpose?
RealityIsAIllusion 3 months ago
black bitches are bald head
stickloc 3 months ago
@stickloc not all thats a stereo type
miriambradley 2 months ago
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pls my black ppl wake f'ck up not all black women are dirty spoiled sellout self-hating white men's wh0res/h0es who want be white or lil pink dick....and not all black men are anti sh't or gays who want non black women, we need more black family and real chocolate/dark/brown skin black sons/kids in america in all the world! f'ck white devils dark skin and black love are the best!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 3 months ago
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BLACK WOMEN'S VAGINA+BLACK CHURCH=NEW RACIST KKK WHITE MAN FOR ALL REAL DARK SKIN BLACK MEN!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 3 months ago
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all these dirty sellout dumb white man's black or mixed porno whores/hoes and strippers come from church. Church tell black women to fuck and do whatever they wnats but keep black men to be gays, fags, dumb coons who kill each other sametimes. Church tell to black men to date/marry only black women who are dirty, fat and ugly as shit who come from white man's dick or porno industry smh! that's why we is in shit!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 3 months ago
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they love white men and his lil d'ck just like in porno that smart racist white men shows to their dumb self-hating black azzez but only ugly old nasty looking crakkkers or wiggers date or want marry them. that's why so many black women are single, unmarried or porno white man's wh0res.its one of the reason why your black men are f'cking up, gays, hate, don't trust and don't like you black women. that's why!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 3 months ago
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because black women are selfish dumb azz self-hating sellout white man's wh0res who hate dark skin and real dark/brown-skinned black men, that's why we're is in deep sh't. black women think that racist fake white people are their friends and their racist white "kings" men for real in love with them ... smh!
MaybachMusicBOSS99 3 months ago
Many men and women just want as many sex buddies as they can get even into old age. In general, society is moving away from marriage. People view marriage as a prison or as being pointless so instead they live together, have some kids and look forward to the next sex buddy. I have this romantic view of finding a life partner and building a family and sitting in a rocking chair next to my old man when I'm in my 80s but then I snap back to this current reality.
ImNotRacistImBias 3 months ago
Maybe they are placing value on the wrong things for attracting a suitable partner...if she's single and over 30 its her fault.
LongLoxx82 3 months ago
Some Black women complain too damn much
pierrepaul591 3 months ago
Most black women are loud, ghetto, and have chips on their shoulders. Many are single mothers & think all of this can be veiled by big earnings & what's even more ridiculous is that they believe they are a good catch therefore believe they deserve more than what they are. Most Black women are stereotypical and not anywhere worth dating. A lot of them will make your life miserable. And what is it with this sick desire by black women to seek black men solely on the basis of his bank account?
NEOSOUL34 3 months ago
What women don't get is men don't give a FUCK about how successful, rich or powerful they are. Men generally go for looks and for women who aren't complete bitches to them. All that other stuff is irrelevant.
steviesbackbitch 3 months ago 25
@steviesbackbitch dont you think that if you have more money you can buy things that will help your looks even if you are already pretty
Hervey52891 3 months ago
@Hervey52891 point made
mistikalnawe 3 months ago
@steviesbackbitch your email address explains your fowl mouth...Don't need to say any more.
danap577 1 month ago
@steviesbackbitch - Wow, God forbid any of these dumb bitches would get it. Men eat with there eyes, if it looks good and has a BRAIN we go for it. And yes the bitchy attitude is a MAJOR DEAL BREAKER !!!
arelius1971 1 month ago
Quit sucking pussy you'll get a Man.
wallyt17 3 months ago
Don't forget humans... People who get things like jobs are handed to them. I say this because you can be one of the best workers around, if no-body needs you, you aren't going to work. Then we can't forget about the hiring thing. When people hire you, they gave you the job. Now you show them that you can do the job and they keep you by your performance. Yet the employer can take the job away from you and you can end up like shit blackwomen so don't be high and mighty if you have good job.
MRRhymealot 4 months ago
Leave it to any race of women to find somthing to complian about. Stop whining and get back to work.
gmann1695 4 months ago
Black women's minds are like silly puddy easy too mold and shape
mdna72 4 months ago
A lot of western black people don't care about marriage, compared to other groups of people. I think these black women get jobs around non-black people and then they start thinking that they should be married too because their non-black co-workers are married.
steviesbackbitch 4 months ago
All women need to get through their thick skulls that MEN DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT STATUS, MONEY, POWER, EDUCATION, CAREER SUCCESS, etc. That is irrelevant. Men mostly just want hot young chicks who give them erections. Nothing else. Nobody's beating their dick to Hilary Clinton or Angela Merkel or to some rich old billionaire woman.
steviesbackbitch 4 months ago
@steviesbackbitch You comment is absolutely wrong. I positively adore going shopping to Bloomingdale's with my older more successful girlfriend. She gives me spending money and buys my clothes all I do is smoke weed and house work. It takes me two hours to clean the apartment go food shopping and cook dinner. I am living the dream PS3, porn and drugs all day every day. Looks fade with time but a natural talent to make money doesn't.
dinamo4889 4 months ago
@dinamo4889,
Sounds like gigolo behavior. If you had any money of your own you wouldn't be relying on a woman and you'd be going after the youngest, hottest girl you could get.
Also a lot of women are still looking for men who make more money than they do, even if they make a good living themselves.
steviesbackbitch 4 months ago
@steviesbackbitch So when women did it it was being a stay at home wife. When a guy does it its being called a gigolo?? Successful rich feminist types don't mind a guy like me because it is a message to the world that women are equal to men. Who am I to tarnish their dreams and mines. Lions spend 22 hours a day laying down when lionesses hunt for food etc.. I am not lazy.... even got a masters degree. I was gifted with ok looks and a good charm which all you need in life ;-)
dinamo4889 4 months ago
@dinamo4889,
@dinamo4889,
It is more common for women to live off men's money than vice versa. Many of these so-called successful, independent women are looking for men who make more money than them, not a guy to live off their income. They have a smaller dating pool to choose from while men who make the same money have a bigger pool to choose from.
steviesbackbitch 3 months ago
@steviesbackbitch I was an honors student in political science and psychology. Clever people are the easiest ones to manipulate because they are overconfident. The findings of focus groups which are used for marketing research for consumer products is where peoples weaknesses are exposed. all I do is sell a product (me) to a specific demographic group based on their emotional needs. in the words of Shakespeare "the world is a stage and the people in it are players"
dinamo4889 4 months ago
Lol, Mr. dinamo, can I enroll into your program?
MrAtheosRecords 2 months ago
@MrAtheosRecords Read "Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us" By Dr. Hare.
dinamo4889 1 month ago
do black men want to get married? Do American men want to get married? just asking.
KasirRham 4 months ago
BITCH IS THE NEW BLACK, what a perfect title, wouldnt you say? Lol.
blackandmild77 4 months ago
Seriously, numerous reports from the census reveal that middle/upper income black women are not having any children, because most do not marry (at all).
Please utilize the net's resources to learn more about this rising phenomenon.
Mary2020VA 4 months ago
@queenimayya I think black women have to be wiser when selecting partners. If a man is unemployed and/or underemployed, behaves like an infant, has a history of incarceration, lacks a suitable level of education, has multiple concurrent sexual partners, spends most of his time emulating rappers, lacks spirituality, likes to smoke marijuana and use other drugs, and/or has a history of mental illness, more than likely he will not become a good husband/father.
Mary2020VA 4 months ago
@queenimayya i know you don't really believe that,..... there are bad seeds in every bunch no matter what race
djobsession 4 months ago
I dont get y people want to get married anyway y have a wife if I can have a life
MrTyboy0735 4 months ago
@queenimayya What you say can't possibly be true,because 72% of all black sons are coming from single mother headed house holds,so don't the BW raise their sons any better?BW claim to be the backbone of the community,these are the result we have from your leadership,BW are not fit to lead the black community so either you get in line and show respect to good BM,or fall with the WM that simple
GTR1nissan 4 months ago
@GTR1nissan IM SO DISSAPOINTED N YOU. DONT U KNOW that it is hard for a single mom 2 raise children who r productive in society?? u r definitely RIGHT, BW cant play the role of both "mommy" & "daddy", some blk woman say they can but its a very difficult task, and that attempt in many cases has failed. i am the product of a single family home. my father cheated on my mother and ran off with his white mistress, leaving behind 3 kids and a world of burdens. {continued above}
1473Tiera 4 months ago
@GTR1nissan {continued below} how was my mother suppose 2 predict an outcome like that?? especially after years of built trust and 3 children?? i havent seen my father since, what a cowardous act hes left my family 2 deal with! my mother did as u said, she was "in line" and stood by my fathers side 4 many years, yet it still resulted in heartbreak and embarassment. blk men need 2 take more responsibity and stop blaming bw 4 EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!! -RubytheRiot
1473Tiera 4 months ago
@1473Tiera I'm sorry to here about your situation,I never excused BM at all for this kind of behavior,I can't judge your situation because I was'nt there,but we do have a serious problem with BW choosing the WORST of their men to have kids with,then blaming all BM for their problems,I do not support no good deadbeat BM,but many BW I know that would never give me the time of day have chosen to date these men,now they wanna be victims.Good BM can only help if you allow them to
GTR1nissan 4 months ago
@GTR1nissan Why would you want a woman that was attracted to 'thugs?' I would never be interested in a guy that liked whorish women, irrespective of his looks, job, etc. At the end of the day, it all boils down to character.
Surely there are single women in your community that have no interest in thugs. -But you won't typically find these women in the clubs, or at the house parties. If you head down to your local library, or a bookstore, etc, I'm sure you'll have a greater level of success.
Mary2020VA 4 months ago
@GTR1nissan Actually, the statistics show that fewer black women are having children. This is especially true for middle/upper income black women.
Mary2020VA 4 months ago
@Mary2020VA No it's not,the same middle class BW you hear bragging about the college degrees and carreers,mess with the same thugs the hoodrats do when their YOUNG,I've seen this play out hundreds of times.Having children is a good thing,but it needs to be done for the right reasons.
GTR1nissan 4 months ago
@GTR1nissan Do you honestly believe that most professional (middle/upper income) black women are chasing criminals and having OOW children by thugs?
Mary2020VA 4 months ago
@queenimayya My mom does'nt fit this category but your dad prolly does,everybody knows that many BW,make poor choices in the men they choose to have their kids by.BW are known for doing scandalous stuff like lying about being on birth control,to men that they were never even in a relationship with,to try and tie him down.When BM treat you nice you disrepect them,when these thugs treat you like crap,you respect them,
GTR1nissan 4 months ago
@queenimayya Many of you BW are on welfare,strippers,prostitutes,single mothers living in roach infested projects homes,so you have no room to put down BM
GTR1nissan 4 months ago
@GTR1nissan The reason why you believe that most black women are prostitutes/strippers and/or welfare recipients is because those are the women that reside within your community/environment.
Most middle income, professional black women do not reside in low income/working class black neighborhoods.
Mary2020VA 4 months ago 2
@Mary2020VA I am not from the hood,I grew up in a diverse middle class area.So I know all about so called independent professional college BW B.S. that date the same thugs as the hoodrats do,I grew with plenty of them
GTR1nissan 4 months ago
@Mary2020VA America's economy is falling,so will see how independent you BW are and how useful your degrees are when the WM,can't afford to pay you to be mammies in corportate america,and get down on your knees and suck him anymore,BW will learn that to show to respect to decent BM,or suffer with the WM
GTR1nissan 4 months ago
Marriage is an outdated institution in the Western world. Marriage existed to establish paternity and to ensure that men are kept subservient to the social order. It does not make sense in such times when women are earning more degrees than men and have out-based an ever increasing portion of men economically. In an age of disposal relationships, mobile lifestyles, prophylactics, DNA testing, artificial insemination and career women, marriage is a dinosaur.
ibmsony101 4 months ago
@queenimayya BESIDES THERE ARE FEW QUALITY BLACK WOMEN
americangangster86 4 months ago
My queens I'm here for yous.
nataniellek 4 months ago
There would be fewer single "successful" black women if more stopped fucking out of wedlock like it's recreation. A mother and father, not single mother or mother and baby daddy, can better raise a son that will grow into one of these "available" men.
Par5Birdie 4 months ago
attitude!!!! nuff said
sean311973 4 months ago
Why are sucessful black women single? Because being sucessful does'nt make you wife material.
tbursee 4 months ago
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Black women are selfish dumb azz self-hating sellout white man's whores who hate dark skin and real dark/brown-skinned black men, that's why we're is in deep shit. black women think that racist fake white people are their friends and their racist white "kings" men for real in love with them...smh!
hotplaye999 5 months ago
all this ranting , sound too Hollywood ~ We Black Guys Know the difference bet. real and bullshit - , I tell you brothers Don't Trust No one who put titles like, Why Can't A Successful Black Women Find Black Man ~
bkknight45 5 months ago
What really matters is how we treat each other. As long as your man treats you like a queen and you treat him like a king and you show each other respect, then that's what will keep you together through the good as well as the bad times.
If we've learned anything from this economic crisis, is that the "stuff" that we put so much value on, really has no value at all if we're not happy!
dawnnie7678 5 months ago
Black women of this ilk are looking for a man that will impress their friends. I have a degree and I get flack from my friends because I look at the man for who he IS and not his net worth.
I am currently seeing a man who drives a bus in New York City. We actually met in middle school and he was too shy to approach me. It was a fluke that we met up again after 30 years. We both believe we were born to be together and we're happy!
dawnnie7678 5 months ago
A woman acquiring a degree, a top job, her own car and her own house don't mean jack to me. There are certain qualities and characteristics you look for in a woman and unfortunately some woman who acquire "it all" are some how transformed into something else and are far removed from the qualities that a man finds attractive, which has absolutely nothing to do with her materialistic possessions or accomplishments.
rynex01 5 months ago
@rynex01 you are right on point, this women are ridiculous ,why go on national if not international tv and broadcast this bullshit its sad really they are so desperate,as if someone stop them from dating people of another colour. they are so frustrated and desperate
josephjohnsononline 5 months ago
Bitch is the new black.... really? There you go shooting yourself in the foot again and carrying up the % even more.
rynex01 5 months ago
WELL, I guess we sould stop being successful then. lol
RaptorQueen 6 months ago
tubeyou9878 6 months ago
what about succesful black men?
RaptorQueen 6 months ago
@RaptorQueen Have you ever heard black men going on TV and complaining about how they can't find women? it's only black women who do that. Most successful black men are dating women of other races
wamnicho 5 months ago
black women are recognized as the least attractive race on earth, thats probably why so many are single. that and the fact nearly all of them have kids already and 50% have herpes. FACT
labartic 6 months ago
@labartic black women being "least attractive" is totally subjective, but it's not surprising to me when people say such things when we're far from the western ideal of beauty as it can get..
Eternalux 4 months ago
black women can make more on welfare collecting free healthcare, free money for each kid, free food stamps, etc, by being single. So they have no incentive to get married and have to pay for all that shit.
labartic 6 months ago
@labartic ok you sir or ma'am write the most dumbest/racist/ignorant comments I have ever read...you clearly have no clue on what your talking about and obviously have no opinion of your own...here is a smart idea how about you actually put more thought into this issue rather than quoting stupid stereotypes. Oh and I would like to know where you get your "facts" DUMB-ASS!!!
bajinxmaximus 6 months ago
most black women are not getting married because they have adopted a selfish hard hearted state of mind that brothers hate. they rather date and marry outside their race because this is a fact. just be nice.
rnesbit2 6 months ago
THEY DO NOT WANT TO !!! By the time they are 30ish "good men" do not want them !!!
mba2ceo 6 months ago
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What we as black Christians are about (and, yes, it involves a process) is enjoying the presence and knowledge of God and wanting to see the name and person of the Lord Jesus Christ glorified above anything else in this world and the next to come. We do not have to worry about the confused, natural wisdom of this article writer. The word of God says if we seek first the Kingdom God will supply all of our needs & we have an even greater blessing in our obedience
shieldsff 6 months ago
look back history very "Closley" i cant stress that word enough..both parties are at fault to a degree however if you understand the concept of adam and eve and how deciet and a man and womans mentality and along with the rest of the stories and thats just for starters
ruddiato 6 months ago
He're a fact BLACK WOMEN SAY BLACK MEN CAN'T HANDLE A STRONG BLACK WOMEN AND WE black men are overall no good.. black women can't forgive black men.ok? understood.How do black women forgive a white man who has raped you, eliminated your culture, hung your fathers and sicked dogs on your mothers,would not even consider you or your male counter parts human.....yet your are able to "look past that"....hmmmm weird. If a man doesnot respect the DEEPNEST OF YOU CULTURE THEN HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!!
iliveonce11 6 months ago
Black women dont know there place as a women. They think money or a job means successful. Being a wife to your husband a mother to your kids together as a family is being successful. Set goals together chase your dreams together and putting God first is the key...
RealDeal3839 6 months ago
Most successful Black women are far more educated than most Black men for starters............
jacopman 6 months ago
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Back womens attitudes are what keep them single. They want good brothers to kiss their asses, but thuggish brothers don` have to. So fuck black women, get yourself a white girl or hispanic. Sisters always calling themselves Queens, but most act more like Kings. Most are fat, and many have kids already before you even get a chance to meet them. Sisters are their own worst enemies who blame everyone and everything for why they`re single accept themselves.
InterracialLoveX 6 months ago
The system has destroyed black families by encouraging women to get a degree? I'm not surprised that it has so many thumbs up. We BW love to blame other people or "the system." If white and Asian women can get degrees what's in our DNA that makes it a problem for us. Would you rather we were like video vixens and hoodrats who don't get educations and depend on men to support them? BW destroyed their options in middle school when they dated the thug and made the nerd feel like a loser.
angelchild829 6 months ago
Attitudes and unrealistic expectations. Period!
OnlyGreatness007 6 months ago
The American dream is a lie and is destroying marriages in America. Our perception is our destruction. We watch too much tv and read too many junky novels about relationships, and then we expect reality to be just like the mess we read in books and see on tv. We know nothing about commitment and dedication to family and Godly principles that keep people together for life. That's at the heart of why marriages fail and why some people never find the right mate.
mrjtjt 7 months ago
@mrjtjt Very true best comment on here! I am glad that God has led me to the right mate and I am only 25 and she is 22 and my wife and I have been married for three strong years. We are both are black but thats not what makes us strong it's Jesus Christ that makes us strong thats what our whole relationship has been based on even way before we were married.
tuki1boo 6 months ago
@tuki1boo - Thanks. Putting god first is most important. Happy for you and your mate. god bless!!!
mrjtjt 6 months ago
These women will fuck you worse than these crackas will.
Matter fact they team up with crackas to tear ur ass down.
Once she gets a kid or a ring from u she will run to the judge
the judge will hold u down while she kicks you in your balls
over and over and over and over..The whole time she is
lining up her next victim with the same phat ass & smile she
set ur ass up with...You will learn by mid 30s how shit works
but some get caught in the web b4 that & once u in the web.
You are a slave!!
DoomCity202 7 months ago
successful Black women.......i saw big foot and the lockness monster but i have never seen the beast callled a successful Black women do they really exist?
thegodofwar2009 7 months ago
Not Sure Why This Is an Issue, What About all the Single Educated White and Latina Girls? Why Not Ask Them?
urdynamix1 7 months ago
@urdynamix1 Easy. Black Women who are successful still carry the Black Woman stereotype with them.
YoungnRomantic 7 months ago
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The reason why 70% black women are single is because by the age of 30, 90% are either Gold Diggers or Bastard Breeders.
Golddigger (def.) a women who is out for material gain. One who looks for her financial equivalent or greater and thumbs her nose at those financially beneath her.
Bastard Breede4r (def.) One who defecates children from more than one baby daddy, depreciating in value for Mr. Right. Primarilily seen as being a fuck puppet with no value.
dznutz1971 7 months ago
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Why do so many black women have babies by these sorry ass no good lazy low life bombs???Please comment.
Twoodssax1234567 7 months ago
I can talk to a black woman alot more than any white girl ive seen,
Im a white man and i don't like white woman i don't trust them all they do is talk junk or BS you.
not judging anyone but I see this all over the place.