Saving face 10

[Songsmirth]

Yeah! It's the young guy. Not that Cho wasn't nice but I like the young guy. I knew a lady who married a man 22 years her junior and she just looked younger and younger every year they were married. And two happier people you've never met. Someone get a bat and beat that dad!! All for him. He wants everyone to be centered around him. Tiresome old fool. Go mom!!

[kmynpffi]

為什麼小薇是說gay而不是用les...呢? 比較口語嗎??

[WhiT3KiSs]

@kmynpffi 嗯, 对啊，大部分美国出生的，不会分這麽清楚，一般都是说“gay"­ 不论男女

[spicyrockstar]

It's not my mom i'm scared of it's my friends and soccer teammates... i know they say "if they don't accept u then their truly not your friends"... but still i'm only in high school right now and friends and soccer are all i have. i don't want to loose them.. but i am having to pretend i like my boyfriend and theres this girl i like and it's killing me, i font know what to do : (

[silenceatmidnight]

@spicyrockstar just follow ur heart it may hurt in the beginnig but it will bring u happiness in the end i shuld know i made the same decisions in high school and now i totally regret it

[Songsmirth]

@spicyrockstar You are depending on others for your self-esteem but it's wrong. You will always be the person you are, so as easy as it is to say, accept that. You will loose some but you will be surprised at the people you find that accept you for who you are. "Accept the best but prepare for the worst." It will be hard for awhile but you will love yourself for it. You need to look at all the wonderful things you are and accept that it is enough. You have the right! :)

[LCBABEZ]

damn that was effed up Wil....

[unlimitedisme]

not only is homosexuality against my culture...

I also live in a place where almost everyone is openly homophobic...

[Songsmirth]

@unlimitedisme Let's hope time will change that. I believe that a generation sometimes has to die before things will change. I've seen it. My step-father was a bigot. Raised that way and wouldn't consider any other way of thinking but his own. When he died I thought, "there's one less of his kind" as mean as that sounds but it's true. I'm not gay and you can imagine the home I was raised with but I'm learning to understand people better. I don't have any right to judge another person.

[RachelNguyen0407]

I was almost cry when She said Mom,I love you..and I'm gay! :(

[DevilZhendy]

Gosh~! i wish my mother is just like you that can accept the truth about me...that i like girls not boys. although she doesn't want to see me with boys at my age...hahaha LOL so for now I just do what my mother wants. Having a boyfriend not girlfriend

[pr1766]

Coming out can be hard..I knew my daughter was gay...when she finally total me.. all l wanted to know why it took her so long..a parent just can't stop loving a child because they are gay. She was afaird I would be disappointed or even reject her..Living in fear and a secret life is not good for anyone..it can make you an anger and unhappy person..Beside the true will eventually come out..

[gialong142]

ur daughter would be really fortunate that she has had a parent like u .

[wsmzq]

you are a great mother! hope my mom will be like you...but i dont think she is!

[KITTYLOVE100]

Waow.. you are a great parent. People like you should be admire..

[DreamAddict18]

omg i love you, cold you be my mother?!

[leyla760]

hope my parents would be like you, until i haven't told them cause i'm afraid...i don't want to hurt them...

[BlackAngel082]

Wow,! please be my mom..! =D Everyone should have a lovely and  wonderfull, mother just like u ..^^

[pr1766]

@BlackAngel082

Thanks for your kind words. But I have my moments too. My daughter is only out to family members she trusts. So half the family doesn't know about her. Like I said keeping secrets can be very hard. Have faith in your mom's love for you, afterall you are still the person she raised. You just choose to love someone whom society does not deem to be the norm. Good luck with your mom. (you never know she might just surprise you)

[sorbet26]

@pr1766 wow you're such an understanding mom.. My mom is still very much in denial, i didn't exactly "came out" she sorta just found out through someone else which is the worst I feel. But coming from a chinese family it was really hard for me to actually "come out".

[depzi]

@pr1766 i wish my mom will understand me...

[ladytumador]

so ur gay or wat?

[depzi]

@ladytumador i think so...

[ladytumador]

i admire you for being understable parent..your daughter is lucky to have you ...=)

[Songsmirth]

@pr1766 I can't imagine being under that pressure. Glad to hear you listened and accepted the reality of your daughter's life. You could have made it miserable as I've known people to do. I love my daughter for who she is. . not what I want her to be. :) They really are gifts. Packages we open and open. :) Poor grandaughter. Now she has to live with not having told her mother as does her grandfather for not alowing his daughter to see her mom. Egotistical fool.

[breakerchick]

i love this movie!!!!!

[mstenshi13]

i am confused with my sexuality but one thing i'm very sure of is i love girls definitely.. & 4 me loving a same sex is very different in loving with a guy.. just like loving with a girl, i can feel it so much & i can feel the happiness with in me.. anyway, my parents didnt know that i am gay...

[TokioHotelFanatic05]

geez, we're both in the same situation! that's why i feel so lonely, i can't express myself properly

[pr1766]

In some cultures it's very hard being gay. People are afraid of things they don't understand. Plus religion plays a big part in peoples lives. If they believe that it is a sin to be gay then that's all they know cuz the church tells them

Would parents rather have a happy child who is gay or an unhappy child who cannot be true to themselves. You just have to live your life the best you can..and find happiness were you can. and with time you might be able to speak to your parents.

Good Luck

[jaslynk]

i am stupid! I am always wanted by those pretty gals. but i rejected them, omg~

[midnull]

I meet hot girls all the time. They're fine, till they open their mouths. Being pretty is one thing, being pretty and having a noggin' is amazingly hot.

[8wennie8]

shit....wil is breaking up with vivian.....what a coward.........just like me =.=

[amitasticus]

i like it...

[susuwatari007]

Are you guys all OPENLY gay? cause I think that's the problem. Once you come out, there are gay guys/girls EVERYWHERE. Go out to gay clubs! check out groups online! or plenty of fish or something... srsly... EVERYWHERE.

[13Tomboy95]

It is much harder to tell somebody that you like them when they are the opposite gender. Nobody will talk about that its for them totally normal. It is really hard to tell sombody that you like her/him when it is the same gender. You will never know if he/she will tell everybody that you are homsexual. it is really sad that many people think its disgusting. But I'm not sure what I like. I tried both. I hope I will find my real love soon. But hey I have time Iam only about to turn 14 ;) !Germany!

[273jat273]

haha you're 14 and are already looking for your true love? Slow down! Sleep around and enjoy hooking up with as many girls as you can. haha :P

[pherydust]

Check out Imagine Me and You OR I can't think straight... they're cute.

[ConnieCute1]

Imagine Me and you sucks

[8wennie8]

maybe you think the movie imagine me and you it''s too unrealistic? it depends anyway =/

[caty210]

I'm 15 and I fancied a straight girl for 2 years, she ignored me for a bout a year and a half when I told her and now I like another girl who is straight as far as I know... Ah this all sucks, oh and my parents are both christians with very homophobic veiws. It always seems to be the same story...

[lovepeacenappiness23]

She ignored you because she is straight.

[Drew10097]

iam in love with a straight girl too it is just too painful and the badest thing is it last the last 4 years

[waterkeeper511]

I'm a gay guy who's practically in love with a straight guy who sometimes questions himself, but he's pretty much straight. 2.5 years. It sucks, I know.

We should form a self-help group. haha.

[creiselda]

i'm christian and les..my family believes i'm straight..some of my friends do to..not all of them..i think my mom would just end up saying..its your life..as long as you have someone who loves you..but hey..whatevers..sucks and im 22..

[pollohige]

i have a similar story but im 18 XD

[czimon]

my heart goes out to you. we're living the same life. and i turn 22 in a week.

and there's this girl... (you know how that line goes) she's also christian. and unfortunately also straight.

being in love with her is just too painful.

[Valindie]

i fell in love with a girl and it took me a year to tell her how i felt, and she ended up rejecting me.

[lezahmt]

atleast your you know your mom's gonna support you...

[MiZzShinya]

Like the part when WIl confesses to her mom . . .<3

[FOREVERGOSTGRL]

my mom would never want to speak to me again if she knew i wish my mother was more like her

[shungangrockstar]

:(( her grandma died :((

[mooty5683]

i only watched it recently but i would like to vote, tho it's from last year. i say lynn aka vivian is the best. gorgeous, cute, sexy, sweet.

[elledrowxxx1628]

i wish i could say that to my mom ... damn i am too scared to do that i wish i could just tell her straight and face the consequence

[kriss18robinson]

ur too dramatic...too much TV,lol...American dream LOL

[DeelishesDee]

Im in love with a woman. We have been in love for 9 years. The problem is I have been in denial trying to live the American Dream. Im so unhappy. I don't love my husband he is just there. I told him Im attracted to women, but he rather live unhappy for our children. I don't know how much I can take of this. Has anyone ever been in my situation as a woman? I have heard of men in my situation but not women...Please help

[8969171]

aww i know how u feel..well there are a lot of women who hv been in the same situation as u..so ur not the only one..I wish you gd luck n sorry for not sayin anything-cuz im in love wt my frend too! but Im 18

[TLW103]

I would help you out but im only 13 i was inlove with a girl once and she dident even know i exsited.I think you should tell your husband how you really feel and what you want to do myabe he will understand

[ganzoriggege]

do you know butterfly this move about you

[hyle0290]

I think u should face the true .. u cant be with someone that u dont love,...u should get the divorce and be with her.

if u are doin thiz juzt becauze u think it will b btter 4 ur childrn it wont ..u.u

[bianki1976]

hellow iam from holland i lived with a men for over 8 years but i was always in love with girls, i was in denial all of my life untill i met this beautifull great funny girl by msn, and then ik thought i am so unhappy al of my life i want to by happy and i told the guy straight after i met this girl that i was so unhappy and finished the relation ship, now after 3 years iam still with this girl and i have never been happier in my life..

[angerock49]

@DeelishesDee

That must be hard for you... But can't you divorce ?

[painlicker2000]

lol the ending its soo funny

[PhilosopherSocrates]

I can honestly say I didn't see that coming. And I'm usually really good at spotting a plot twist a mile away LOL

[ThattKidd]

I told my mom a few years ago x.- shes still convinced that im going through a phase..and she keeps trying to hook me up with guys :| its kinda lame; but it could of been worse.

[unfamousme]

glad my mom's accepted the fact already..i hope your mom does too..^_^

[unlimitedisme]

lol at the end of this vid.

just when you think it gets too dramatic...

i love this movie

[8969171]

aww the grandmother passed away-soo sad

[winxybel]

helarious!!!!!!great scene,,very unexpexted

[StephChanUzumaki]

This is a good part.

But it took too long to load. D:

[sonjaxfactor]

Hi Chic. Can you add chapter 6 of the story unedited? TIA.

[wlmp]

hahaha shocker! the baby's father is the herbalist's son ....totally unexpected and very very good storyline .. thanks so much for this movie chichoe

[Ginne86]

i totally know its the herbalist son from the very beginning lol. its just a hunch.

[babychuchee]

i saw michelle kreusik just now on 2008 asian exellence awards lol

[evilhomicidalmaniac]

That is how I expect my mother to react.

[The18Smo]

poor you.

My mum reacted pretty much the same. We didn't talk for weeks.

Then the "you-are-so-pretty,-you-can't-­be-gay!"- phasis started and now my mum even judges women passing our way, like "she's your type, isn't she?" So, you never know how this situation turns out in the end. Anyway,good luck to you. *crosses fingers*

[evilhomicidalmaniac]

Thank you.

[unicrys]

i lov dis part so much....... its xiao yu's

omg

lol

[catastr0fairy]

"at least it's not a flesh wound" reminds me of monty python and the holy grail...lol.

[Fairy206]

except this delivery of it is absolutely heartbreaking

[HopeHunny123]

I'd hate if my mum was like that when I told her... It's such a hard thing to have to tell someone and for them to react badly would be horrible =(

[steviejanae]

At least you got the chance to tell them...the worst thing is being "outed" to your parents, now that has a bad ending...

[HopeHunny123]

God I can imagine, that happened to me with school friends when I was younger, but at the time I told them it was all a joke!

[phinayis]

whoa me too! only my brother outed me. just to cover it up, i have to lie a lot. but my best friends know i am.

[elevatorscum]

me too! except they didn't tell my parents

[tav2252]

who you telling...my sister outed me....it was soo bad i couldnt even lie to cover it up...i just admitted it. Then i promptly got told by my mother that i need to "see someone" meaning a shrink. Not quite what i wanted to hear but it coulda been worse.

[hitsumatsulover]

amazing climax, even though i hav seen it b4, but i love the timing n how they dont overdo things, all in perfect proportion!!

[nixmust09]

ooops! sorry that my comment came out 3 times, it's cuz it said that it didn't post it so i clicked again!

[cheyzer23]

i think it will also happen if ever i will come out the closet..ahaha..so better not..but hey,congratz!!

[nixmust09]

yea but it sucked because later my mom said she would accept me and then she took it back so yea they dont accept it but at least they already know! good luck for you with your coming out if you ever do!

[cheyzer23]

hmmm..i guess not..thanks anyway..=)

[blahbagale]

that sucks.Thats what my mom said to me when i told her.

[cheyzer23]

my mom said "u'll burn in hell wen u r les or gay"..

so how am i suppose to say to my mom dat im a les??

[nixmust09]

when i came out to my parents, they didn't even believe me! they wanted to take me to counseling or some crap like that! oh and my mom took me to her church for them to talk to me since she's a christian!

[blahbagale]

Dude man no you want i actually have scriptors an crap that says you wont go to hell. I know cause i was afriad of that an found the truth.

[Ich1hasse]

well you'll hardly go to hell for being gay whatever there is a hell or not so at least you don't have to worry about that. and seriously, I know this wont help, but I dont think its right of a mother, father brother sister, friends to say that you can't be homosexual...imean its you life right and its no crime that you are doing

[cheyzer23]

well said...they're not saying that i can't be homosexual but they said i shouldn't be..and you're also right..it is really our choice..

[roselle061302]

damn right it is...

bu sometimes choosing to be one and outing yourself warrants some unnecessary reactions that you really can live without.

[cheyzer23]

yah..especially here in phil..after said dey will kep on spreading rumors about you..every1 is in ur business..dats y even though i hav my gf we decided not to tell it to any1..for d benefit of two of us..=(

[nixmust09]

when i came out to my parents, they didn't even believe me! they wanted to take me to counseling or some crap like that! oh and my mom took me to her church for them to talk to me since she's a christian!

[nixmust09]

when i came out to my parents, they didn't even believe me! they wanted to take me to counseling or some crap like that! oh and my mom took me to her church for them to talk to me since she's a christian!

[cheyzer23]

im an asian and christian as well..going out is so big problem..for me,its better to just keep it..

[blahbagale]

yep i know how you feel im a cathlic...

[Calipsosara]

MA! I love you! and I'm gay!:))))) Thats...something you hear everyday!:)))))

[lynnrds]

the japanese is the only asian culture that i can think of that accepts homosexuality and embraces it.

[elevatorscum]

maybe cause they do a lot of porn???

[kaylyo]

I came out a year ago, gave this to my mom for her birthday.

[bydneley]

i dont think i can do that I myself cant fathom the idea that i am falling for the same sex what more to tell my parents that i am indeed not straight? My bestfriend knows and im glad she still accepted me as i am. But you cant ask people to stop judging you, it's a taboo in the Philippines. It's crazy to judge people through their gender preference but that's a taboo hard to vanquish even if we all know we have a rampant number of homosexuals nowadays.

[crossgale]

I guess it would depend on how people will eventually come to see that it's just love... They think it's some kind of sexual fetish but.. I just bet for a lot out there it's real love. And nothing is really wrong about loving is there?

[jann4ice]

thats why i left P.I. to work in another country.i hate it there.just cant help it if you feel what you feel.Jeez..

[pollypoppy82]

It is not too hard to speak out,as if your parents love you, they just wanna u be happy,then they will accept who you are and be happy as you are happy.

[caseycat04]

its ok everythings gonna be alright

[butterflyflaming]

it still is a huge thing to come out to families, specially Asian families, and to sum it all up both Asian and Christian families. W might just think of it as a you didn't as i dont have to tell thing. It sucks but yeah that's life. But hey! at least this movie's good right? straight to my favorites

[llallalla86]

Vivian is the cutest!!

[rrlee]

Who is more attractive? Will or Vivian? I cant decide...they are both beautiful....ok...vote...Will or Vivian??

[butterflyflaming]

Will... definitely LOL

[lynnrds]

will

[dabkk33]

will

[hiphoptoorock55]

will

[themetalshadow]

Will's got the cutest personality =] So, she's got my vote.

Both Vivian and Wil are gorgeous, even though Wil's mom is very pretty for her age as well. The whole movie has great characters and the whole meaning is so different and amazing...

[Sakura378]

I say Vivian. She is so cute and absolutely gorgeous! Will is really attractive too, but my vote goes to Vivian.

[emilypancho]

mine too!! wil is a nice person, but vivian is just gorgeous!!!!!

[kaeiy]

I didn't have to tell my mom I'm gay. She just knew right off the bat. Moms know, I guess. My ex-girlfriend's mom knew about her too. Oh well... BTW, I'm Asian and I don't see it as a problem. I wonder if she does. Haha.

I liked this movie, especially the idea that their parents know about their orientation but it's a sad fact that parents will always try to deny it and set up their little girls with just any boy. As it goes, ANY boy is better than the best girl.

[jusmee2]

rrrrr dat last bit was dead sad, true tho!!

[Meli2711]

My mom knew it too!! she didin´t took it well at first, but now she knows who is my couple.

[janren21]

nice video.... i hope im like wel. ma, i love you and i'm gay... wish i can tell my mom that im a gay....

[Yvonne925]

whao...it's very brave of u admit yourself as a gay?anyway where are u from?if you're not asian,i think there should be no others problem...

[jinkyie]

nice... ^_^