You, sir, are dilluded. Your ideas are based on the assumption that women are equally as willing to return the favors of men in ways that they are more equipped to do so. -This is simply not the case anymore- due to the changes brought about by feminism. Women no longer see any need to reciprocate with a man for any reason. The government is their new husband- providing all that they need. Men are shut out of their childrens' lives while paying child support- and you preach this? I say Nay
this is true but i am smarter than your average guy i give affection right before i got sex lol.
like i used to approach my ex and hug her from the back then kiss her and give her compliments blah blah and then i had sex...simple...how hard is it to have sex...
Women are LEECHES and VAMPIRES....they are not 'GIVERS' all they think about is how to manipulate a guy into 'giving' her what she wants. Last chick I met for lunch actually TWITCHED when I said, 'separate checks please'...never heard from her again.
@scootkh ohh wait a minut,,,,U took a woman 4 lunch thn u didnt pay 4 her meal,,,,,,,,,n thn u were expectin her 2 call ya,,,,,,,,,,,,ohh comee onnnn???????
You are such a mangyna. Just what is it that women are giving? In my experience, women take and take and take. You are a Fool! Women are Takers and Men are givers period. What will a woman GIVE to a Man? Sex? ok; he can get that cheaper and at much higher quality from a professiounal. Money? No! She will merely demand and GET his job only to realize that working sucks! - Then, she will decide she wants children and a family. More bill and demands and with a destroyed body- RESENTMENT
A man is the head of woman. If a woman is need and she takes i will feel violated in my authority. If she wants something ask with affection and love. No demanding other wise i will flat out reject u.
@smooveau hahaha - "rejected in your authority"? TROLL ALERT. You should get used to feeling rejected, because it sounds like it will be a life sentence given your current gender role beliefs.
Same for women. He can't read ur mind if u stand over in a corner and stare coldly at hm. Show him affection u should get it in return. Ask about hs life he should in return. Ask hm if there is anything he needs he should in return. If u are doing this and he isn't I would suggest sitting hm down and telling hm it isn't nice to take a free ride while u do all the work. And if this doesn't wake him up do what he does. When u aren't all over him anymore he'll wake up or he isn't wrth ur time.
Same for women. If you want affection from your husband, no you shouldn't have to TAKE it. But you can't stand over in a corner and stare at him either. If you show affection you will get it in return. If you show interest in his life you get it in return. If you ask him, "Is there anything you need?" He will do so in return. It isn't perfect for either women or men but it's better than trying either mind reading or grabbing. And much more rewarding.
O_O I have never had to ask for affection from my husband unless I am upset. When I am upset I can understand where he is concerned. "Is she wanting my comfort or is she going to kill me?" So I'm not sure what this guy is talking about. I think that's a let the man off easy card. Nope, guys, you STILL actually have to come to US and be AFFECTIONATE. You do have to try. If you aren't willing to then I'm sorry don't cry to me when the women aren't interested.
LMFAO ur actualy very funny, i think he means u need to let them make the effort cause wen men start they wont stop til they get it? lol WAT hapens if its a gay guy? lak wat hapens then?
This confuses me. This man is a Christian, and Christians, both women and men, are supposed to GIVE selflessly. So if a man has to work harder at it, (because, according to Mark, you guys are "takers" by nature), oh well, that's part of being a Christian; fighting against our FALLEN nature. Selfishness is not a "male condition", it is a human condition, and a sinful one as well. I don't know why any decent man would be ok with what he's saying.
Mark has the meaning of "ask" and "take" mixed up. "Take" means "without the other person's consent." He should say something like "ask clearly and directly" or "state what you need."
so i practically have to beg a man to hold me or touch me....i really don't care how much fun he makes out of women, i still believe that love is a gift and if touching, holding, affection is not give freely, then i'm certainly not going to be the one to grab from somebody
i think he means that, in your example, if a woman needs affection, she can't just let the man "guess it". He won't. She'll have to tell him that she needs some. I've tried it with my man, and indeed, he can't guess what you want in that particuliar moment, but he is really happy to help when you tell him what you want or need from him. this is my point of view.
@corazoncito77 totally agree. he just can't guess it, or can't guess it all the time. but he is happy if u tell him that u need this or that in certain situations and then i see he is trying to do so. it's so good:) it's working:)
Bible says help each other. love, or giving selflessly is something we have to learn. Where does it write that if u are saved everything comes automatically? LEARNING is part of life, part of christian life, too..
@msquestionmark - he means that a man won't guess what you need. If you want a hug, walk over to him and say, "hey, honey I need a hug".
Women control sex, and men control romance. When a guy wants sex, he comes to get it, he doesn't wait for the woman. Woman have to be the same way. If you want affection, come get it.
I enjoy watching this stuff too. It's interesting, and hopefully will be helpful if I ever get married to someone. My problem is that the "if he loved me I wouldn't have to ask" isn't the whole story. Personally I don't like to ask for things because sometimes I don't feel entitled to do so, or that I'm not worth enough to actually take something that wasn't being offered. Don't know if that makes sense or not.
@2DiamondAngelWings I feel exactly the same way. I'm in a long relationship and I learned to ask, because it's true, he has no problem to give me what I need or want. You deserve it! So ask for it! =)
Deserving? Of course you do! Everybody does. But it is true, you have to go an ask for it. He´s right!
In order to be happy TOGETHER you need to share a healthy feedback of good things from one to each other. And that doesn´t come out of psichic powers, it comes through communication.
Don´t feel yourself not worthy, be aware that you deserve to be loved and giving what the otherone needs, it´s a superior way of loving. But I insist, nothing comes out of mindreading...
I sometimes miss the old wisdom we seem to have replaced with surreal new age thinking. That's why I love your stuff. You remind me a little bit of my Nana telling me "Men are a little bit clueless, baby. You gotta really spell it out and just keep after 'em if you want anything done. Ain't that right, Billy?" To which Papa would nod, never looking up from his book. ROFL
You, sir, are dilluded. Your ideas are based on the assumption that women are equally as willing to return the favors of men in ways that they are more equipped to do so. -This is simply not the case anymore- due to the changes brought about by feminism. Women no longer see any need to reciprocate with a man for any reason. The government is their new husband- providing all that they need. Men are shut out of their childrens' lives while paying child support- and you preach this? I say Nay
shatdog1 2 hours ago
@yalf111 You're a spoiled cunt. Nuff said.
smooveau 2 weeks ago
this is true but i am smarter than your average guy i give affection right before i got sex lol.
like i used to approach my ex and hug her from the back then kiss her and give her compliments blah blah and then i had sex...simple...how hard is it to have sex...
BryanTheDoomBringer 1 month ago
THANK GOD I'M SINGLE!
Cherubaby 1 month ago
Women are LEECHES and VAMPIRES....they are not 'GIVERS' all they think about is how to manipulate a guy into 'giving' her what she wants. Last chick I met for lunch actually TWITCHED when I said, 'separate checks please'...never heard from her again.
scootkh 1 month ago
@scootkh ohh wait a minut,,,,U took a woman 4 lunch thn u didnt pay 4 her meal,,,,,,,,,n thn u were expectin her 2 call ya,,,,,,,,,,,,ohh comee onnnn???????
sova71000 1 month ago
The context is about godly christian wives who are really often the giver... not any women in general/ women of the world.
joystay 2 months ago
what is he talking about?! is he on drugs, woman are takers men are givers .maybe he lives on mars
dan82tl 2 months ago
@dan82tl if you allow yourself to be taken by a woman, then you need to exam your own intentions.
monjiaitaly 1 month ago
You are such a mangyna. Just what is it that women are giving? In my experience, women take and take and take. You are a Fool! Women are Takers and Men are givers period. What will a woman GIVE to a Man? Sex? ok; he can get that cheaper and at much higher quality from a professiounal. Money? No! She will merely demand and GET his job only to realize that working sucks! - Then, she will decide she wants children and a family. More bill and demands and with a destroyed body- RESENTMENT
shatdog1 3 months ago
@shatdog1 You need to see different women.
msclarephipps 2 months ago
In every video i saw 3 dislikes :DD
waqaslakhani92 7 months ago
Woman always take form men ... except it is from the wallet !!! NOT the chest.
mba2ceo 7 months ago
A man is the head of woman. If a woman is need and she takes i will feel violated in my authority. If she wants something ask with affection and love. No demanding other wise i will flat out reject u.
smooveau 7 months ago
@smooveau hahaha - "rejected in your authority"? TROLL ALERT. You should get used to feeling rejected, because it sounds like it will be a life sentence given your current gender role beliefs.
Yalf111 4 months ago
Same for women. He can't read ur mind if u stand over in a corner and stare coldly at hm. Show him affection u should get it in return. Ask about hs life he should in return. Ask hm if there is anything he needs he should in return. If u are doing this and he isn't I would suggest sitting hm down and telling hm it isn't nice to take a free ride while u do all the work. And if this doesn't wake him up do what he does. When u aren't all over him anymore he'll wake up or he isn't wrth ur time.
rilndrmlrh 1 year ago
Same for women. If you want affection from your husband, no you shouldn't have to TAKE it. But you can't stand over in a corner and stare at him either. If you show affection you will get it in return. If you show interest in his life you get it in return. If you ask him, "Is there anything you need?" He will do so in return. It isn't perfect for either women or men but it's better than trying either mind reading or grabbing. And much more rewarding.
rilndrmlrh 1 year ago
O_O I have never had to ask for affection from my husband unless I am upset. When I am upset I can understand where he is concerned. "Is she wanting my comfort or is she going to kill me?" So I'm not sure what this guy is talking about. I think that's a let the man off easy card. Nope, guys, you STILL actually have to come to US and be AFFECTIONATE. You do have to try. If you aren't willing to then I'm sorry don't cry to me when the women aren't interested.
rilndrmlrh 1 year ago
Yeah,you say to your man: Darling,please,hug me. And then he comes and the first thing he touches with his hands,are your boobs. XP
ninadark76 1 year ago 3
LMFAO ur actualy very funny, i think he means u need to let them make the effort cause wen men start they wont stop til they get it? lol WAT hapens if its a gay guy? lak wat hapens then?
chrisbartley88 1 year ago
How can you take when they don't give! How can you take something that is not there!
SarahStraker08 1 year ago 2
This confuses me. This man is a Christian, and Christians, both women and men, are supposed to GIVE selflessly. So if a man has to work harder at it, (because, according to Mark, you guys are "takers" by nature), oh well, that's part of being a Christian; fighting against our FALLEN nature. Selfishness is not a "male condition", it is a human condition, and a sinful one as well. I don't know why any decent man would be ok with what he's saying.
arcpuffin 1 year ago
Mark has the meaning of "ask" and "take" mixed up. "Take" means "without the other person's consent." He should say something like "ask clearly and directly" or "state what you need."
Morna777 1 year ago
i want your brain so i can get laid everyday so i will go get it dont worry ;)
123456cephiro 1 year ago
wow
so i practically have to beg a man to hold me or touch me....i really don't care how much fun he makes out of women, i still believe that love is a gift and if touching, holding, affection is not give freely, then i'm certainly not going to be the one to grab from somebody
200cuisina 1 year ago 3
what does he mean by taking? taking what? taking a thing? like money? or flowers?
what about affection? sometimes a woman needs affection. how can you take affection? like, i don't get it.
msquestionmark 1 year ago 4
i think he means that, in your example, if a woman needs affection, she can't just let the man "guess it". He won't. She'll have to tell him that she needs some. I've tried it with my man, and indeed, he can't guess what you want in that particuliar moment, but he is really happy to help when you tell him what you want or need from him. this is my point of view.
corazoncito77 1 year ago 21
@corazoncito77 totally agree. he just can't guess it, or can't guess it all the time. but he is happy if u tell him that u need this or that in certain situations and then i see he is trying to do so. it's so good:) it's working:)
Bible says help each other. love, or giving selflessly is something we have to learn. Where does it write that if u are saved everything comes automatically? LEARNING is part of life, part of christian life, too..
kicsiLea 1 year ago
@msquestionmark - he means that a man won't guess what you need. If you want a hug, walk over to him and say, "hey, honey I need a hug".
Women control sex, and men control romance. When a guy wants sex, he comes to get it, he doesn't wait for the woman. Woman have to be the same way. If you want affection, come get it.
CarMoves 1 year ago 44
@CarMoves hey, makes sense now. thanks! :)
msquestionmark 1 year ago
@CarMoves amen brother you couldn't define it better.
jgarzaq 8 months ago in playlist Risa
@CarMoves Better yet, if you want a hug, just go give him a hug, no need to ask for it.
Robbob9933 5 months ago
Excellent stuff !
SuzeeBeeNewHaven 2 years ago
I enjoy watching this stuff too. It's interesting, and hopefully will be helpful if I ever get married to someone. My problem is that the "if he loved me I wouldn't have to ask" isn't the whole story. Personally I don't like to ask for things because sometimes I don't feel entitled to do so, or that I'm not worth enough to actually take something that wasn't being offered. Don't know if that makes sense or not.
2DiamondAngelWings 2 years ago
@2DiamondAngelWings I feel exactly the same way. I'm in a long relationship and I learned to ask, because it's true, he has no problem to give me what I need or want. You deserve it! So ask for it! =)
muybien10felicitado 2 years ago
Deserving? Of course you do! Everybody does. But it is true, you have to go an ask for it. He´s right!
In order to be happy TOGETHER you need to share a healthy feedback of good things from one to each other. And that doesn´t come out of psichic powers, it comes through communication.
Don´t feel yourself not worthy, be aware that you deserve to be loved and giving what the otherone needs, it´s a superior way of loving. But I insist, nothing comes out of mindreading...
Nro52 2 years ago
well, your next step would be to find out why you act this way and stop doing it.. you ARE entitled to get what you need...
rola80 1 year ago
I sometimes miss the old wisdom we seem to have replaced with surreal new age thinking. That's why I love your stuff. You remind me a little bit of my Nana telling me "Men are a little bit clueless, baby. You gotta really spell it out and just keep after 'em if you want anything done. Ain't that right, Billy?" To which Papa would nod, never looking up from his book. ROFL
mysticladyrachel 2 years ago 2
I always enjoy whatever it is you have to say. As a transgender female, I see a bit of both sides.
jenn011754 2 years ago