DAY 12 - He's 21 and I'm 34!!!

[Quetzalqoatl99]

I wouldn't date a guy who's old enough to be my father or brother. That's all i gotta say on that note. lol

[myles2go]

Honey, You both are adults and I do not see any reason you should not be happy with this man. i wish you both the best for 2011. Take care1

Myles

[BJSTV]

I want you see a Happy Gay couple LONG TERM that are aged 21 and 32 at YouTube NCweb76 . They are Nick and Jesse and they just had a commitment ceremony with rings. They've been happy for 2 years together now. Age mean nothing in LOVE!!! Boys gain their Pre-Frontal Cortex in their brain at age 20 so they have rational reasoning by that age. So it's OK and safge for you at over age 30.

[DreiHundertftw]

My friend Tyler was 18 and was dating a 36 year old man.

They are happy. And both hot! :D

And you're good looking, just tell people you're 25 ;)

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

WoW!

Thanks tons for sharing so!!!

I ended up having a "relationship" with an 18 YO... But he left me saying he cannot offer me what I am looking for, I got my heart destroyed again and still on recovery, but I am not stopping on believing...

I will be 25 then from now on ツ

[poolerboy0077]

He's a twink isn't he!

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

He's gone :S

[JustPhil22]

My last boyfriend was 8 yrs older than me. I don't think it's necessarily that problematic.

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

Thanks Phil...

After some thought, I know age is not the big deal, but still makes a difference...

[tnmtemerity]

Well, your certainly very cute - and 34 dating someone 21 doesn't make you a dirty old man...

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

I am certain of that now :)

Thanks tons...

Dey

[AussieBum80]

yes. it does. get someone your own age.

[tnmtemerity]

Frankly who he dates isn't my business or yours.

[AussieBum80]

sorry... but when youre in your thirties, dating *cough*fucking*cough* a guy who is BARELY out of his teens, that DOES make you a dirty old man. I know its none of my business, but im dissagreeing with you

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

I guess the world is full of people that have different perspectives about life... and I am sure that is OK...

I am not going out with that guy anyway, the age difference was not important, but it was the different way how we embrace life... That does not mean I will not go out with a person half my age...

[antoniosjourney]

Don't block your blessings. Age is just a number.

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

Yeap, numbers have been overcame already :)

Love tons...

Dey

[klfoxii]

There u go again - limiting your options - age is only a number. If you like him, and he makes u happy - go for it!

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

As soon as I get a bit better I will drop him a mail, hope he will be still available... :)

[Commander147]

since it's late I am gonna skip over other people's comments and talk. I had to confront this idea for a long time... I am 20, and my boyfriend is... more than double my age... I suppose being on the other end of the issue gives me a bit of a different mindset. So let me say, One should not be judged by their age, but rather, maturity, intelligence, insight... (you know, the things that matter.)

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

Thanks lot for such valuable input...

What I am scared the most is to be stupid enough to cut his "wings" as I put it in the video, but I cannot deny that I am also a bit scared and skeptical that he will get tired of me and will go look for someone fresher and younger later on and leave me alone...

I guess are just my insecurities and I am the one to deal with them and not to punish the beautiful opportunity that we may have to love each other, right?

[Commander147]

so for the last few days ive been trying to answer this in a public way.....The answer is me and my boyfriend have our issues... and the one that often angers me most is the insecurities of being with me (which is based on age)but, at the end of the day we always wind up "hanging out." I am not saying that your fears are unfounded... because a lot of the people my age do act that way... but, some of us don't.... Or as I like to say... "Fortune favors the bold"(hope i wasnt too out there for you)

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

Hey this is AWESOME!!!

TX 4 sharing!!!

Love the part of "insecurities", You are so totally right!!!

Love tons,

Dey

[yanajari]

well I've always believed that nothing should stand in the way of true love. However, something I've noticed recently is what happens in the process of aging. When you age, you need someone to take care of you and for that person it will be tough and it will mean sacrifices. So this shouldn't stop you from starting something with him, but I would ask at some point is this the person that you are willing to do that for? Can you take care of them and stay with them for when it really counts?

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

When it will be time to ask those questions???

Time, time, time....

What we give so much credit to it?

Age it is about time...

Falling in love it is about time...

Time here, time there...

F$%ck time...

What are your perspectives on time?

[efeblog]

Do not worry I'm 21 and my partner is 45 and we live together.

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

Thanks for sharing this...

Means a lot lot lot to me!

[Quetzalqoatl99]

@efeblog: You sure he's not your father? lol

[WordsAtWill]

You should do it... age is only a number....

you don't look 34 it not like you have to get married to him... just go out there and have fun....

P

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

That's the point...

I will go out, have fun... Great...

And see how it turns out to be...

But I am definitely not into wasting time and go around and around...

I kinda want family feeling...

Living together, move together...

So, I am just wondering if it worth it to try it out with a 21 YO guy...

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

That's the point, it just happened...

So it is not just like go out and search, it is more about finding...

Isn't?

I really wanna give it a try :(

[bdulcie]

In my opinion it is not the age but the maturity level of the individual. I have always gravatated toward old men. Most of my the guys I dated in the past were anywhere from 5 to 20 years older than me. My partner is 11 years older than me. We compliment each other pretty well. So I think with the right person it could work.

Huggs

B-)

[AreYouMyGayBoyfriend]

I think I am comfortable, I guess I am thinking too much on it...

I just don't want to get into something that I want to be long-lasting and get to realize that the guy just gets bored after few months...

Get me?

:S