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  • mo girls today need to listen to dis

  • My ishh throughout high school!! 

  • R.I.P lala

  • Wehnn Uhh Guuy Says If Yuuh Love Mhe Yhuull Do It , i Saay If Yuuh Lovee Mhee Yuuh Wudnnt Maakee Mhee .

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  • dis my shit

    

  • making that decision is hard though. because right now im trying to figure out what i should do... Everytime i listen to this song i almost wanna cry :o

  • I swear Lyfe jennings looks like a co worker of mine >.>

  • I got a girl pregnant yes.. Why cuz me and her both was stupid. Are we together? hell no. Why did i put all kinds of things in her head ? cuz i was stupid and i didnt want her to leave me.

    All im sayin is that sum men will try to put words in girls head

    but we are happy that we have a wonderful 1 year old baby

    and we treat him lik a king and im a very good dad to him

    MEN JUST NEED TO MAN UP real talkz!

  • i really dont know what was wrong wit the 17 ppl that dislike this....

  • R.I.P lala brown :(

  • I did the same thing when i 13 and i wish everday that i could have waited for the right guy but you need to wait i wish i had ppl telling me too wait and hold in to my innocent's i thought i was in love when i was 13teen and i fd up and you need to believe me you don't want to be hurt in the end babygirl just hold on and if he love's you he well wait for you

  • thats right sex wont make him stay or love you

  • the boy in this video is cute

  • i was 18 till i lost my virginity, & b4 that i was proud to say i was a virgin, guys wouldnt see me as an easy girl, so if u want respect from guys dont give them reasons why not to respect you. So just wait. believe me it will b worth the wait (:

  • im 13 now i lost my virginty when i was 12 at the moment i was datin a 16 yr old n he ld me tht he loved me n tht if i loved him i would have sex unfortunentally i gave in as of now i wish i never fell for him i went to my aunts for a week n when i got home i tried to hang with him n he said strait to my face he dnt want me nomore bc he had someone better n only wanted sex from me now to this day i wish i waited so all u girls trust me n dnt follow my foot steps sex is something to wait for.....

  • @beautifulbitchish wow thanks alott of girls think oh just say no but its hardd my bf nt presurring me but i ffeell i wnt to make him happy i soundd dumb bt thanks to ur storyy it tld me i rrly shldnt do it until im suree of married thanks alott n best wishes<3

  • this was a banqqer n still is a banqqer....i love this song 2 death thnx 2 it i havent had sex untill earlier this year n me n this guy has been dating for 3 years n have been friends ever since kindergarten

  • im 18 now and i had sex for the first time when i was 16, i regreted that moment with the guy. and now, i have sex but i do it with someone who stands by me alot. be very careful who ou chose i would wait till marriage to have ur first time. it will be a bliss if u you :)

  • The girl is really hot :P

  • daam i remember this song

  • gurls out there dont let it go

  • cause from the evilness from guys they sure will tell you anything to get in your pants. but if he really loves you then he wouldnt mind waitin until yall married. so please young ladies women,, just dont fall for it

  • I am still a virgin. and my cousin isnt and everytime we talk about sex she says you should have sexy or make jokes about how ima b 30 when i have sex, and i told her that i wouldnt care. cause the only reason she tried to make me feel bad was cause she wish she was a virgin again. so please think before you let it go

  • > So Under-Rated,, He On Some Real Shit Al The Time,, Damm Shame..

  • ii was 15 with a 23 yr old....... baddddddddddddddddddd mistake.

  • @caytiebugg y was it bad

  • i will go crazy i have a baby girl i will kill 4her

  • Sad How Boys Stare and Look

  • I wish there was more music like this.

  • Well I know this song is sending a very important message to young girls......But who is the guy in the video she was about to have sex with??? He is very attractive!!!

  • @shygirl2011 i know right damn he was fine as hell

  • this song caint get no more real. dang.

  • R.I.P Too My Cousin Yolanda "Lala" Brown Your Gon But Not Forgotten ILY && IMY

  • i am still a virgin and almost 18 and keeping it till marriage i have seen all the situations having sex can put you in:( i will never be put in that postion!!!!!!!!!

  • at 2:50 i like da way she look at her

  • i hopee 2 qod that muh daughter thinkzz before shez does it

  • i pray to God that when my daughter gets to that stage she has the common sense of not to give in easy and to to give it to a FOOL!! i will educate my baby to the fullest! parents nowadays wanna educate about safe sex..how bout we educate about ABSTINENCE !!! the best method out there!!

  • When I was 14 I was put in a situation where my boyfriend said that if I loved him than I would have sex with him. He was pressuring me into doing it. Most of my friends where already no longer virgins. One of my good friends ended up telling her mom what was going on. Her mom called my dad and told him how this boy was pressuring me into have sex with him. The day my ex boyfriend planed on doing it, my father showed up at my school. I am a proud virgin! girls don't give it up until your ready.

  • Boys will tell you anything to get in your pants girls my ex is still trying to get in mine and i have a boyfriend who wont do that to me and if he tells you "if you love me you will do this for me." you tell him that if he really loves you he wont ask you to do it until you are ready.

  • *his

  • Yea no matter how fine he is, or how "pretty" is eyes are---dont get caught up in that

  • Mayne , It Is So Hard Not To Have Sex With All The Peer pressure , Especially From Your Friends That Already Lost It . I Cant Even Count How Many Times Boys Ask Me To Have Sex With Them . Its Really Sad Cause I Have Big Boobs So When Boys Complament Me They Say , You Got Nice Boobs. Is That Really The Only Thing Nice About Me. Im Not Going To Lie , Ive Try'd To Have Sex Plenty Of Times I Just , Stop & Think ... PEOPLE ITS NOT WORTH IT ! Your Gonna Find That Out In The End .

  • Girls do NOT loose your virginity if a guy tells you thaT he is "IN LOVE" with you, Do it when you find the right guy and get married and when your ready. The guys these days got all those lines to get in your pants and stuff keep your head up and keep your virginity til you find the right guy.

  • Damn That Boy Fine !!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • <3 girls probably watchin dis talkin about how nice it is but STILL not understandin da damn msg :( close ya legs

  • some people do not get the message of this video or song. He is tryna tell you some things you really need to hear females listen please...P.S. i know im finna back track but damn that boy was fine...

  • Im 15 And I Get Presured Into Sex By Friends But I Dont Have Sex Im A Virgin And Proud To Be, Boys These Days Do You Dirty And I Think If It Wasnt For This Song And My Mom I WOuldnt Be A Virgin Till This Day. Im One Of The Few Pretty Girls Who Still Has Their Viginity And Its Gonna Stay Like That Till Im Married And My Boyfriend Knows That... And I Kno He Loves Me Because He Calles Me Everyday Or Text Me Sayin I Love You, And I Could Fall For Him : )

  • RIP LALA !

  • 13 guys must be a perv that dont want the truth out

  • LaLa Brown was Beautiful<3 

  • i luv this song

    

  • young ladies LISTEN TO THIS SONG AND U WILL AVOID A LOT OF DRAMA IN YOUR LIFE. YOUR HEALTH AND YOUR PURITY IS YOURS!!! DONT TAKE IT FOR GRANTED

  • Rape the Like button , if you are listening to this Now && Still loving it(:

  • SMH , You can't tell these little girls nothing nowadays !

    But They'll will soon realize one day ! =/

  • I was in her position. but by 3 years younger an i let him take it An the sad part was he wasn't even my boyfriend or anythin An everyday i wish i can still be that innocent girl But the truth is i cant go back so im sayin this to tell girls out there that u should hold onto that innocence for as long as u can! I made the wrong decision but it doesnt mean it has to be the same for you. Dont fall short on self esteem jus because a guy shows you more attention then the rest stay stong with who u r

  • @xXkaseyKaseXx Same thiing happened to me && I regret it SOOOO muuch !

  • She is strong cause if I was her ........

  • who's the dude in the blue??

    i been lookin fer his name fer days...

    can someone please tell me

  • R.I.P. LaLa Brown :-(

    Just felt like saying that so that she won't be forgotten!

  • @dapianoman76 she can never be forgotten she sang this song with so much passion she will always will be remembered through this song.

  • Yeahh mamasz honestly Im in love wit mii man right now buhh shit weve been datin over a year without fuckin.!! I love him nd he loves meh buhh our love dnt revolve around sex.! Dnt let them tell yu tht they love yu.! Wait untill yu KNOW tht they love yu.! Its better waitin then ta just go do it.!! it aint worthit babygirlsz trust meh.!! I kno. Nd once yu lose it. It aint never gon fuckin come bakk.! so wait till yur really ready nd yu KNO tht yu love them forrealsz. Hope ya'll keep it

  • Dese Dudes Now An Days Will Do ANYTHING , Love This Song .

  • best song

  • true i listen to this song before i lost it..... wish i really listen

  • 13 dislikes reaalllyy ?!?! that must be dudes likinn it !

  • Thumbs Up If You Don't Give A Fuck What Year Your Listening To This!!

  • My Freaking Song Man . ;D

  • poor destineymegan... i feel sorry for u... this song inspires me to not have sex bcuz it speaks to me... all of lyfe jenning's song's speak to me... my other favorite song of his is statistics... y'all should listen to it if u havent already...

  • i cant believe shes dead

  • im in high school but and stuff and like if i wanted to have sex i could but i say to myself oh hell naw cuz every dude in my perspective in high school is full of it and i waiting till college cuz i think they little "boys" i know would somewhat grown in to men and have a little bit more commen sense and be less childish :)!!!

  • girls listen up my boyfriend told me the only way i was to be with him was to have sex i was really confuessed at that time and said okay but i dindt no want sex could get you into so i just you know and a couple days later after having sex i fould out i was prego but i gave it up tho and well i walked up to him wit my bellyand he said im not baby dady n i said i only had sex wit you! n after that baby was born an i gave it up for a better lyfe

  • @destineymegan woww dats crazy

  • @56kimmy89 ik but i did the rite thing for my daugther

  • Tiis is one of the soges that should stay on everday jest so little girl can lesne to it and Pinky173670 i feel u but u had ur virgininty loger then i lost mine when i was 13 and u r right its not worth it

  • im glad this song found me when i was younger, my aunt played it for me.

  • hold on to yur innocense use yur common sense...yur worth fighting for

  • R.I.P. LALA

  • its real tlk

  • mhy song!!!!!

  • -! people always think imaa loose my virqinity before i get out of high school .. even thouqh boys always askinq me & i be so close to doinq it then i think about it & just stop cuz i don't think that will be the riqht decision .!!

  • @DEECHIKK1 (NOW YOU GO GIRL THATS WAT IM TALKING ABOUT)

  • Losing your virginity before your with the right guy isn't worth it, you should wait for a man who truely loves you and is crazy about you before letting any man have it

  • I love dis song exspecially lalas part dis song really shows me I made a mistake I thought I was in love and gave it up bt he was just telling me wat I wanted 2 here ... I will neva stop listening 2 dis song!!!

  • Girls trust me do NOT believe what guys tell you. I'm 21 now the first time I had sex I was 16 and thought I was in "love" me and my then boyfriend broke up about a month or 2 later cause he cheated on me. Sex will not make him love you no matter what he tells you. He'll throw you lines like "I just want to show you I love you" or "I thought you loved me". Dont do it trust me. You'll just be another knotch on his belt.

  • @Rozalyn08 i Wishh i Listenned Too This Beforre i Did Anythinnq Stupidd . Now Im Sittinn Herre Only 14 { && } Miqhht Be Preqnantt ="((

    Soo All Those Otherr Gurrls Outt Therre Dontt Doo Anythinnq Stupidd Be Storonnq { && } Thenn Yhuu Will Knoow Wenn Thee Tiime Is Riqhht .

  • @Rozalyn08 Lol, 21.

    You're still a baby.

  • @PortablePinoy Yeah I'm 21 with a baby so I'm pretty sure Im a little more grown than you were at my age.

  • @Rozalyn08 i agree

    

  • @Rozalyn08 true, to bad i had to find that out the hard way

  • @Rozalyn08 how bout ur completely wrong all guys arent like that so dont put say all guys cuz im not like that so keep my name out ur mouth

  • @AM33ZY Most guys are like that and I dont think I said your name at all so shut the fuck up. & you might want to reread your post cause you make no sense at all.

  • @Rozalyn08 u sed dont believe with guys say therefore my name was in ur mouth and if girls wanna have sex let them have sex ur not their mother and so what you got played maybe u shulda thought it out

  • @AM33ZY I said MOST guys. & proof read your shit before you send it to me if you're going to talk shit at least make yourself sound intelligent. "said" is not spelled sed. & I never said I was anybodys mother but look at all the young girls relating to me. You probably dont get a fucking chance with chicks cause you look like a fucking troll hanging around on the computer all damn day. So go ahead and keep replying to me like the young naive little bitch you are! Thanks.

  • Now this is a nice song and all but I can't get over that terrible ringtone sound in the chorus. Listen for it. It ruined the song for everyone I know. :D

  • im going into high school now and everyone says im probally gonna lose it by my junior year but i had them listen to this song and now they no im stronger than that and wont no guy take it away.

  • If I were in the bed room with the guy in blue, it'd be kinda hard to not give it up

  • Yeah so now you see I have black people in my family why would I be rasist? That would be like me turning against my family but I'm glad you see the point in my comment now.

  • I'm sorry but that boy in blue is so damn fine.... :)

  • R.I.P Lala .

    

  • this song means so much , i feel like girls get too pressured into society and really need to trust noone but their family, friends manipulate you and lead you into decisions you dont want to do only just to fit in. keep your head up, and rely on yourself!

  • trust no guy

    

  • -! i love this sonq im savinq myself for the riqht quy & the riqht time cuz ion wanna loose it to a quy that's qo do it & leave .!!

  • The guy in blue has pretty eyes :) And he is so damn fine. :)

  • R.I.P Lala brown still listening to ur music we all miss u!! love this song it tells alot

  • Im white and I dislike how its only black people in this video. White boys aint no better nor different!!

  • @slfew1 -! it was done with black people so what is it to you nobody care how you feel about the video .. qet with it r qet lost danq man dhix not no races shxt no .!!!

  • @DEECHIKK1

    Yeah, How was that races? If you want to get racist then let me help you out! The proper way to spell and say what you replyed would go like this,

    "It was done with black people. So what is it to you? No one cares about how you feel about this video. Get with it are get lost. Dang man this isn't no racist shit, no."

    Okay, but I would still like to know how that was in any way rasist, I was downing a white person but, what ever floats your boat.

  • @slfew1 wow that's really races omg im so hurt ummh let me think im not so if you wanna come with a better one be forreal you said you don't see no white people in the video does it really matters like no it doesn't ... you calling yourself correcting me is no type of races so if you knew the definition of races you will use it way better .!!

  • @slfew1 ohh okay iunderstand nah how you feelinq but ummh that's cuz it was filmed with black people they not saying its just black boys that do that actually all race do that !!

  • Im 17 and a virgin and i love that my boyfriend understands that i wanna wait until marriage to have sex

  • This song is such an inspiration to virgins like me, im 17 and im proud to say i'm still a VIRGIN, i honestly have gotten told they admire me they wish they still were. this songg makes me want to hold on to it as long as i can, nd i will share and inspire other girls to.

  • this was my situation im a month from being 18 and i lost my virginity on the first date with a guy and i was scared because i wanted to do it but i was hoping he wouldn just think i was a slut or anythinyg.its been 3months and we are still together happy and he respects me and im happy we werent in love but it was special for me because i still got to wake up to him i know not all the time does it happen this way for girls but if your ready do it but if not wait. youll know the right time

  • Mayne , It Is So Hard Not To Have Sex With All The Peer pressure , Especially From Your Friends That Already Lost It . I Cant Even Count How Many Times Boys Ask Me To Have Sex With Them . Its Really Sad Cause I Have Big Boobs So When Boys Complament Me They Say , You Got Nice Boobs. Is That Really The Only Thing Nice About Me. Im Not Going To Lie , Ive Try'd To Have Sex Plenty Of Times I Just , Stop & Think ... PEOPLE ITS NOT WORTH IT ! Your Gonna Find That Out In The End .

  • @RihannaNavyBaby I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I DO TO AND I GO DAY TO DAY TRYING TO MAKE MYSELF LOOK BIGGER THEN WHAT I AM SO BOYS DONT SAY ANYTHING TO ME BUT SOME HOW THEY SEE RIGHT THOUGH MY CLOTHES I JUST WISH I COULD HAVE ONE GUY FRIEND NOT TRYING TO GET IN MY PANTS

  • @MOOKIE27FUL Boys These Days , Its Like Thats ALL They Want .!

  • look im 13 turn 14 in a week from turn monday, and this year alone i had 5 boys ask me if they can get it in and all i can do is look at the and say wtf do i look like. when i listen to this song i always say i made a good choice but my question to you guys is did make the right choice?

  • I'm sorry but that guy in the blue is hot....

  • who is heee.. he i soo fineeee

  • smh

  • just because you find your s.e.x doesnt mean all girls should go out and have sex. listen to words of the songs it helps alot and its good advise. use it!!! some girls make that mistake an give it up but trust when u do i promise u will regret it if u waznt all the way ready dnt let a guy tell u stupid thing into makin u think u want to......

  • so im 16 and ive pretty much done everything but sex, and i really love the guy im with now. we have been together a year and i want to have sex with him because im pretty sure he is the one......should i do it?

  • no honey you should wait a little longer if the guy really loves you he will wait until ur really ready

  • @lynngirl666 well he doesnt puss me into doing anything and i really do love him even more for not pushin me into it......i mean yes im ready but im just a little scared.. should i be?

  • @abc12338405 *push

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  • omgg ! Pinky173670 i feel the same way ...... my friends tell me sex is soo good ,and thiers this one person i really like ...i want to give it up but im not suree !

  • if yu r raped does it still count.......especially if its more dan once.........this song is very true

  • Its not really that great i lost my virginity last year when i was 13 and got pregnant the father left me as soon as he found out and now hes datin my neighbor and i hav a four month old son im trying to keep away for him ive always loved this song but i didnt listen hard enough until now

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  • @MrMikelavelle Thanks, I never looked at it like that

  • well too late i lost my v-card .....>.> lol and im 17

    and i lost my virgo to a dued since im Bi whoo hoo xD

  • well too late i lost my v-card .....>.> lol and im 17

  • I'm 14 I lost my virginity to a older guy he said he loved me and had me fooled... me and him stopped talking after I gave it up to him. I'm so ashamed

  • like this if your still listening to this in 2011 <3

  • im 12 and ive already been pressured but ifound it in me to keep my head up and be the best i can

  • @MegaTweetyluver dont do it!! trust me dont do it...if dude cant accept it leave da dude...it aint worth yur pride..

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  • its 2011 and this song is still the best !! (:

    This song is the only thing that reminds me too

    keep my innocents !

  • i L0VE THiS S0NG LALA iS S000 PRETTy. yEAH THE GUy iN THE ViDE0 iS FiNEE. L00KiN LiKEE A y0UNGER NELLy... <3 l0l 13 PPL ARE LADy GAGA FANS...! L0L

  • This is the mad truth

  • @GospelGurl100 Truu,Truu!

  • i have never and never will fall into peer pressure no matter what it is.... i've never followed the croud... im prayinn for all you girls who do fall into that ishh cuz i mean, your choices are up to you, and i got to say, dont blame it on peer pressure, cuz its not the thing that made the decision; you did... So i will pray hard tht God will bless you...

    *PS. this song is BEAST!! LUVV IT!!

  • im 16 and a virgin..i did get pressured alot by the guy i thought loved me, ii almost gave it up but i always wanted to wait for marriage so i said no and he got mad..i relized then i was being played..i stayed anyway but finally threw with the loser..moral to the story is SAVE YOURSELF..TILL YOUR READY...and no ur not ready just cuz he tells u he'll marry u, yea that guy told me too..allll lies..no he doesnt want ur baby. no he doesnt love u..sorry but REAL LOVE WAITS..take care evryone :)

  • I'm A Veryy EASILY Influencedd Girll ! B'tt AT times It's A fUCKINN cURSE ! ;

    #pEER pRESSURE

  • 13 people need to stop haveing sex

  • I love this song it's amazing!! It has so much meaning to it!!!!

  • Luvv dddiisssss ssongggg

  • Its not worth it. I lost mine while i was drunk and my boyfriend thats sposd to protect me and respect me knew i was drunk and still did it.....Dont be stupid like that girls

  • 13 ppl know this is ture

  • I was reading about something like this once. I read that of the numerous teenage girls who are diagnosed with depression, most of them are or have been previously sexually active. It's just not worth it. Teens these days think that sex is just a physical act, they don't understand the emotional consequences it comes with. I'm thankful for having a mom and older brother who were constantly drilling this into my brain.

  • think before you let it go girls. i speak from personal experience and i wish i wouldve saved myself. i cant do anything about it now but you can.

  • girl is sooooo fine (no homo)

  • LOVE DIS SHITT ITS REAL

  • Most men, are pigs!!

  • I've always wanted to save myself for the right guy. I'm 15 now and lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago to a man who I think does love me a lot although he doesn't show it very much... When I was sent away i felt insecure and not too sure about anything because i was the only pretty girl in placement who was a virgin... Everybody kept telling me that sex was great and I felt like a misfit for being a virgin. Girls don't let anyone pressure you into having sex. It's not worth it!

  • @Pinky173670 shidd u sholda been happy u waz a virgen fuck those girls

  • @Pinky173670 u should of let me get at u

  • @Pinky173670 gurl im still gunna bii a virgin till i gtt out collgg thnn its a rap but only 3 kidz,....

  • @Pinky173670 . Yea iSomeTymes Feel Lqk Dhat Since iM 13 , nOw They Steal Tell mehh buh i dont listen cz there is more in life then this sex

  • @Pinky173670 you aint NEVER lied :)

  • Lost it when i was 18 to the man im still with...Thank God i was lucky enough to find a man like him. Thank you mama for being such a pain in my ass.

  • Damnn Im telling Yu I shoulda Listened to dis when i was 15. Forreal Girls Dudes tell You that they are different and they really aint. They Lie. They are the same as the millions of men that came before them. They Dont love you Chick, They love whats in ya pants. They will hit it and leave. Trust me i done been there. I was like Nahh It aint about too happen to me. But it did And if you need someone to talk to Message me on here.

  • @TheMirandaDawn You are soo right.! i would tell my story but i would run out of characters below and plus my full name is goinq to be listed..

  • The person who killed him is stupid because he was trying to help us in a way that we would lession which is by music

  • damn i wish i would of have listen to my dad when he warned me about my first and his intensions!!!

  • Who ever on here is having sex under the age of 16 is stupid