let's break up and then make up...

[ImHXCkids]

you guys are fucking adorable together. xD 

[peaceup08]

I love that you didn't edit out 1:53-2:22, just to get a bit of real life from you two. Another great video! <3

[mizztrinidarlin]

she is so cute

[maaaalo]

well you two are just cute! i just discovered beaver bunch like a week ago. glad i did. your advice is reeeaaally helpful. :) so yeah, thanks!

[noomegustaqueso]

haha so hillcrest huh? gay capital of diego, love it.

[cpoeticfury]

I just broke up with my girlfriend tonight and being insecure i am afraid that i might go back. but this video made me laugh and smile and look forward to the future. thank you so much and i hope you two continue your wonderful relationship

[PKTO92]

Great video, just found you guys thru another youtube, bex bullet.

Great advice. Been single for 5 months now, only ever had 2 gfs, i hate being single. :P

[cornstarch27]

nono i like the glasses :] i think my favorite are the black smaller pair you wear, but the ones now look really cute with the hat. aww- mary and you are adorable. i'm glad she made the cameo appearance :]]]

haha good advice, the last bit, very insightful.

[winzayer]

lol. i'll do the dishes. =P

[annablairTV]

they do really suck.

[jangle116]

this is such a great video. i 5 stared this video just for the part when u didnt have your glasses on. sooo hot, but you look hot with them on too. oh and i think you and mary b are PERFECT together i think you are both so funny and hot and entertaning. love ya jess

[HurleyMyroup]

ohhhh man! Jess without glasses..... for like 20 seconds.

it was rather nice.

ever considered contacts?

[atoceansmercy]

WHERE? =D

[nikicrusoe1]

im not gay but i fully support

[simplayaj]

you look good without your glasses!

[periodico5]

you are soo beautiful :D

[mmstrq]

Thank you to the whole beaverbunch crew including mary. :) <3 Lots of love, keep up the good work.

[mmstrq]

Hey, Jess.

First off i just wanted to thank you, and remind you that the videos you and the rest of the beaverbunch mean a whole lot to every viewer. Like michelle had mentioned in one of her videos that the beaverbunch videos are here to educate each viewer in every way possible and to help the baby beavs in situations that they may encounter. This comment was to just thank you, your videos have helped me in so many ways.

[SSears418]

I would have done the same thing...you don't keep someones things...thats harsh...sometimes you just gotta take one for the team well for yourself :)

[pizzainabox]

how cute you two uhauled it... that is the way to gay it up =)

[whatzername922007]

I love you. I don't know why, but you're like the cutest thing i've ever seen in my life.

[siouxsielover88]

yeah i agree with jjbeejjuice, that painting behind you is awesome!

[alwaysSHOUTalways]

shitshitshit, did you take your plugs out? D:

[ChannelCassie]

Lol it's you!

[PseudoName]

"if it doesn't hurt.......you're weird" XDD

Fun and funny~

Adorable, the both of you. If I might add <3

(and the bowl on the counter made more noise than the water! ;D)

[stickergreen]

haha you are so fucking funny

[sonjunkie]

you look a lot younger without glasses

[hiimbobucancallmebob]

she is, very cute.

[sweetkaiser]

WHY ARE YOU SO CUTE

[shaxincat]

dude, seriously. SO CUTE :D

[jjbeejjuice]

woah!! the painting behind you kicks ass!!

[thundera3]

Wow the background noise is great. You are really cute without glasses...not that I am hitting on you.

[djxthexmonferno]

I have a type you missed. The kind of person that consistantly digs themself into a pit yet expects everyone else to get them out of it. Won't listen to anyone's advice, won't take anyone's suggestions to heart, just flat refuses to help themselves.

One of my exes pretty much dumped her crappy home life on me wile I was already dealing with my own crappy homelife. I drug it out too long and was at the brink of insanity before I talked with my best friend and got the sense to break up with her

[sarasayswhat]

Great advice, and your new place looks fabulous!! I agree too, that painting is amazing, it really draws you in, is it oils/acryrilics on canvas or a print? Nice cameo too!! :)

[insanevaleri]

wel for some reason in this video you look completly different something with the teeth and face idk what it is you just look much different

[paramore13x]

i need some advice.. what should you do if you find that, hypothetically of course, you cant stop having sex with your ex-girlfriend.

[RachelTayra]

haha "no no no I'm making a sandwich!"

I am really liking this new background. it seems very peaceful. Nice video as always!

[banditluva]

nice place!! you guys are soooo cute together :)

[sdakotag]

Thanks so much for talking about this subject, i know how hard it is to talk about this EXSPECIALLY when your girlfriend is right there lol.

[wayfarer628]

you look extra cute in this video. ithink it's cause your ear holes are smaller!

[cautiousplay]

haha i didn't think anyone would catch that. i just took my plugs out to let my ears breathe - i might go down a couple gauges.

[wayfarer628]

yeah that would look really good. i have a friend who is wearing hers at like 1/2 inch right now and i think it would look better smaller

[the66six]

you look very feminine in this video

[thisiskate12]

this one room of your new digs is quite fashionable.

[xwishyouawayxmcr]

jess+mary b <3

[kkmandip]

great video Jess, and thanks for getting Mary on the BeaverBunch video.

[sammymylove4]

Great video. You and Mary B are uberly cute :]

[12249pEST]

hey!!! im moving to sd

[Yaknowdagame]

Hey I'm happy for you and Mary B about getting a new apt. And great advice Jess

[mufcgirl93]

i am really slow. i thought you and mary b were joking about being together from your flawles videos because you are always messing about in them lol.

[cautiousplay]

:) nope, we're serious. definitely together. like peanut butter and chocolate.

[8gabs26]

you guys seriously make me wantt to be in a relationship. You guys are great rolemodels! Thanks for being awesome!

[freakfolyfe]

this helped<3

and you two are tooo cutee

how long have you guys been dating?

[Ashley86Layne]

I packed all my stuff in a minnesota apartment while she was at work in like 3 hours, and then had to drive all the way to idaho. I didnt want there to be a chance that we would get in a big fight, so i took the coward way out, but at least i was safe

[Ashley86Layne]

i've done that toooo. i learned the hard way with my first long term girl

[awakenforlife]

"I have a good girl friend and... ah... I gotta go" :D

Great video. Good advice.

[AnssiArpiainen]

the painting in the background is just simply kick ass! it propably makes the whole room look pretty rad

[simplylissie]

You've got to be the cutest lesbian couple of all time.

Amazing :)

[danisprey]

they're just one of the cutest couples around

[paul20072007]

What's the aggregate total of addresses for you guys since the Beaverbunch started? You should approach United Van Lines to form a Lesbian moving division. (There was a moving company in Toronto which specialized in separation jobs, it was called "Lug em and leave em")

Breaking up is never easy, but it's like shortening sail for an approaching storm--the time to do it is when you first think of it. It just gets harder if you put it off.

[cautiousplay]

:) you don't want to know how many times we've both moved - separately and together.

[juniperfrost]

JESS! Do you work at the mac store?? That shirt reminds me of the genius bar shirts... ;)

[cautiousplay]

haha i thought someone would catch that - i used to, a long time ago. i'm a mac person, for sure.

[juniperfrost]

definitely! me too! I was like MAC STORE MAC STORE! ;) were you a genius?

[DeathcabforRosiee]

'she got me drunk.' that excuse can be used for so many get out's!

your new place looks awesome. XO

[ouREvilone]

When starting out, breaking out seems inevitable but something that should be avoided. Hopefully people find the great one right away but if not, it still does help known how much you are willing to put your feelings out there. Id say in retrospect better respect in myself coming through a break up.

[winkedinkie]

6:31-6:55 You nailed it Jes. Thank you.

[Tobie2]

"If it doesnt hurt, you're weird!!" LOL <- this is also a tell tale sign of head games...

Yes, be single and find a friend with benefits hehehehe

Your place looks cool.

[woweq]

"I do the dishes" :))) lol

[merriberri007]

so very appropriate. I just broke up with my gf on saturday after being together for 9 months, I admit I am heart broken, but holding it together. Surrounding myself with great friends and positive support system. I am taking it day by day. It hurt the way in which it all played out. I know it will all be ok. It just takes time.

*Live Learn Then Date Better Lesbians*

Song of the moment - Survivor - Destiny Child

Lessons Learned - Carrie Underwood

[schotsia]

Cute!

[melodiesNdesires]

lmao "was it good?" ...wow mary b is awesome.

[sweetbutdaring]

I'm confused. Are you Jess? You sound like Jess. You lookg completely different.....................­.

[cautiousplay]

really? weird. what's different?

[youngwithoutyouth]

I noticed that, too. I think it was the lack of glasses at the beginning. It was all in the eyes...

[larissabree3]

Cutest video ever. Girls are crazy!

[drac16]

Almost had a little slip up at 7:05, lol.

[STLinMIND]

haha i noticed that too, didn't think anyone else had caught that =]

[edgehaedjr]

OK, I love this video, but I'm not really paying attention to you. (OK I am, just at the same time not.) The painting of the female/Buddha (I see it as a both - though Buddha is said not to be male or female) is sucking me in. It's just so beautiful! I want one so bad now.

As for break ups, you may of been in many, I've been in none zero in 19 years. (I'm 19) Sha!

[atreyu874]

haha ive been staring at it too XD

oh dont worryy! loads of people havent been in relationships till their 20's

[edgehaedjr]

It's the colours and peacefulness of the face. Now that's some true meditation and inner peace. I see a female samurai- Buddha. Then there is what only can see if you use the artistic half of the brain - especially in the blue area.

Thanks for making me feel better. It's just hurts sometimes, but sometimes I'm happy because I see many people together fight and that I'm glad I'm not in that.

[atreyu874]

oh yeah.. i agree. You seem to know what you're talking about, I like that : ).

haha you're lucky then to have not been in one. They're not really all that fun. XD

[edgehaedjr]

Well thank you for thinking that I know stuff, though I don't. What I know is what I see, and what I see is what I know.

Well, I wanna argue with someone that's not in my family and be like "Boo-yah! I'm right, you're wrong!" ahaha. xD JK

[atreyu874]

Oh okay right on XD

haha i know what you mean. : D

lmao you could argue with me about something lol.

[edgehaedjr]

Someone who gets me! Thank you!

Oh, that's nice of you, but fighting with a YouTuber about fighting is kinda scary... kinda. What if you see them in real life and they end up waking to kick your arse?!? :O That's scary so, no fighting here. Peace is for winners, fighting is for losers. :P OK, I'm a loser. I'm speaking of fight and you said arguing. I'm a loser. FAIL! xD

I love how we're having a convo on here, and Jess is probably cracking up reading this, ahaha.

[atreyu874]

Eh, yeah it kinda is scary. *looks around nervously*

haha no, NOT a loser, you just mis read the statement is all.

hahah she probably is.. umm.. hey Jessss. XD

[edgehaedjr]

*Looks around nervously, and step back slowly*

Well how you know I didn't do it on purpose. I did say it. ;)

Yeah, hi Jess. See you in like two weeks at Sandy Eggo Pride. :)

[atreyu874]

*Erie music plays in background*

haha ; D.

I have to ask, whats your name? : P

Ahh i wish i could go to Sandy Eggo pride : (

ohh well...

[edgehaedjr]

Hey, I'm going to move our convo to messages before someone gets mad - which I bet people kinda are already lol.

And yeah, Sandy Eggo (San Diego) Pride is gonna be beyond wicked! :D

[atreyu874]

mhmm great idea. Let's go.

[DAVETYIOP]

Hopefully that was the last time you have to go through that type of a situation. Breakups are best a learning experience. You have a great week too!

[TheMrSamAaron]

Oh it's a perfect week for this. video was awesome... break up last week not so much awesome... SF Pride this weekend.... Awesome!

[teis1411]

lol mary "was it good" yous two are awesome

[babyjoeysk]

Hey Jess! Thanks for the insight!

great cameo by mary

[alonzoslaw]

I wish you both all the happieness in the world. And you have th must beautiful blue eyes I've ever seen!

[thursdayskommen]

thanks for the words! breakups do suck, just had my first.

[feelinemo1]

you're like a nomad... you keep moving... I don't like doing the break up thing that's why I smash and dash.. but I did the break up thing twice.. not what's hot in the streets. I don't like it..

[KirneH004]

Mary looks like a sweet young lady (and you do too) :)

I hope that you stay happy together for a long time :)

Henrik (in San Marcos)

[aslo6215]

ahahahahahah!

"i had to sleep with her to get my stuff back"

"its not my fault!! she got me drunk"

mary b in the back "was it good"

haha loved it <3

[clasx5ik]

haha love the vids

[KayceKace]

Thanks for this...I've been going through a really rough break up...this made me feel a little better.

[crashfirephoenix]

jess.... you've become a uhaul lesbian!!!! lol just kidding :)

[cautiousplay]

haha i know - but no uhauls were harmed during the making of this new home.

[sftbllmastr]

Good advice as usual. Great to see a Mary B cameo!!!

[leahhope456]

lol u realy had a phycho ex lol, who would make someone sleep with them for ther stuff lol

oh, n u suld make ur vids with mary in em more often

[cautiousplay]

i do - flawles tv :)

[WhoaKaela]

the cops also work as an alternative to sleeping with someone to get your stuff back

[s8ntmark]

Heehee, I love that MaryB is a disembodied voice through most of the video... though her presence is definitely felt :D

Your place is so cute, Is it a Studio?

[cautiousplay]

thank you - it's a 2 bedroom/2 bath condo.

[thisiswhyimnotcanada]

Your new place looks really home-y, looks awesome :)

and yeah break-ups suck, but I take break-ups and make them a positive thing because its like stepping stones to finding the right person.

[dookerbaby]

"stepping stones to finding the right person", very well put!

[irishchristian777]

i love your videos!!!

have a great day

Margurite

[8gabs26]

New place is awesome!

Ok not to be a total nerd but do u work at apple? just wonderin cuz of the shirt. haha

great advice as always =)

[daniGurl89tf]

that was one of your greatest videos.. great advice. lol. and humerous! amazing

:)

[pmoore4]

okay so I have used the "it's not you, it's me" line many'a times...and it in fact works like a charm, usually.

yikes that sounds a litlle heartless..

[questioninghearts]

Good for you two, movin' up!

Jess, your advice is valued as always.

[anc32685]

Thank you!!!!! I just got broken up with a month ago and I feel like I have been through hell and back... I was ready to be with her forever and she was my first real full girlfriend... I hope someday we will work cause we both want it too, but I need to date around and I forgot how amazing it was to be single! So thanks!!! Now if only I could find that once a week girl! LOL

~ANB~

[smikled00dle]

i like mary b in the background. she should be around more often in beaver bunch videos

[teacupears47]

I love your new place Jess! Wonderful advice as usual. Yay for Mary B's cameo! :D

[sonjunkie]

i just said where is Jess' video?

glad to see it. :)

[centerpics]

For some reason you're really different when Mary B is around...I'm not sure what it is but it's awesome. Hi Mary!!!

Break up's suck...but that's a part of life. I've had some crappy ones myself.

[danig120]

she's really different when Mary B's around because she's in loooooove.

aw .

[CousinoMacul]

The new digs look cool. I hope you enjoy it there!

[danig120]

whoa totally weird seeing you without glasses. it's been a while, lol. great video. :D

[awesomeTSUNAMI]

Nifty.