4:42 in the AM I am still remembering the great times 2 nights ago when they played this,,, i was jumping up and down like a crazy in excitement..thank u and come back to FL
Evan Dando is an asshole.. He played in St. Louis last night. "Its a Shame About Ray" Which they were supposed to do in its entirety. Didnt play Mrs. Robinson! Which is on the fuckin album!. Then he wouldnt talk to anyone after the show.He was rushed out ( walked right past me) under a towel as if he was hiding from his fans.... DOUCHE BAG! Refused pictures and basically ran... physically ran to his bus.. lol no one was chasing him... Guess he really missed his heroin on the bus.... lmao!
@mandywantsitnow You are probably the type of lady that calls the cable company and complaints about the premium channels' free preview weekend not coming on. I myself am not famous, even so I would put a towel over my head if I had to walk by you or at least put a paper bag over yours
@BerkLeeDrm haa I wonder why I wrote that? I didnt even listen to the words. or did I..haaahaaaaa hes sayin..I love my drug..................buddy....and she is my drug? doh
@kurt771965 not really.A lot of people become drug addicts because they can't stay dedicated to anything else and feel very unfulfilled,so they turn to drugs.Sorry,not trying to start shit,I just don't like when people talk about drugs like it's something to be proud of.Being "dedicated" to drugs is not something to be proud of.
yesterday.....hey ...what a simple ,honest groundbreaking bit of songwriting.................im a TOTAL addict of this....and Capo 3rd fret and skies the limit!!!!!! ha ah ah aha AHA
they have to laugh to look at eachother. Because they deep down they are ashamed and actually want better for themselves and eachother. There's a lot of meanings i get out of it but I keep coming back to that one too.
This song is not directly about drugs! The "drugs" mentioned and implied in this song are a METAPHOR! Evan has said so himself. This song has a little bit of a deeper meaning than a junkie going with his girlfriend junkie trying to get another hit. Think a little deeper people!
I don't feel like this necessarily has to pertain to drugs and the people you do them wiht. Maybe it could also mean someone who's like a drug to you. Just a thought...
I wonder if they sing this song in Mexico when they kidnap and behead thousands to feed our demand to get high? Maybe the pharmaceutical company CEOs sing this when they look at their balance sheets for opiates and benzos? They have to laugh when they look at each other!
I've never heard this song until now. I'm pretty badly addicted to a number of substances right now, and all I can think about is my cousin when I hear this... he and I used to drive around getting high and just laughing at/with eachother. After one night at the bar and maybe a little bad judgement, he pulled off the road on an express way to fix his tire. Side-swiped by a passing vehicle & lost his leg. I lost my drug buddy that day. My addiction has only gotten worse. Drugs aren't a long ride.
As per my previous comment, I know what Evan is trying to say! I have read about his friendship with Kurdt Cobain and the likes & I loved this song when I heard it, its only now in my twenties that it makes sense. But they aren't really your buddies are they? Unless they give you some for free. I paid for 30, I'm sure he only gave me 20! x
today i read that richard d james *aphex twin* was asked to remix songs from the lemon heads and completely forgot until a courier from the record label showed up at his door and he randomly grabbed something from his archive and submitted it.... just an interesting story i thought i would share
@blisterpacman Dude - I just finally found the "remix " in question (it was for a song called "Style") and yeah it confused the heck out of us when we noticed there was none of the track used nor any similar notes or anything - but checking it out the other day ,I REALLY LIKE IT !! gonna put it out on a weird compilation that's coming out in the fall...
Many years ago, right after Dando was busted for drugs, the local alternative radio station am DJ cued a Lemonheads song by saying, "OK, Evan, put down that crack pipe and step up to the mic!" I remember this because I laughed so hard I almost ran off the road and into a large tree. Ah, simpler times . . .
i love this song as a recovering addict, i never really had many good times when i was using gear. I cant remember most of it. But this song sort of sums up the sadness and loneliness of using, and how pathetic and hopeless yet sweet these people are.
Reminds me of being little. My Dad was an addict and he used to play this all the time and get upset. I never really got why until I was older, but still . Weird.
REAL friends are not drug buddys. Druf buddys are people that hang cause A) they want someone to go up/down with and be brought down and rarely up with. B) People that hang cause you have the drugs. Fuck eveyone who is not your real friend.
@ClangBanggClang No, the girl on the cover I'm pretty sure is Juliana Hatfield, who played base on the album, and had a pretty fair solo career of her own. She's the girl singing on various songs on the album including this one, and lived with Evan Dando for a while in the Allston area of Boston.
No, that song is called "Two Souls (Angelina). I think it's about Audrey Hepburn's Character in "Breakfast At Tiffany's." Great song, but I'm not sure if Dando wrote it. The original is hard as Hell to find.
"we have to laugh, to look at eachother, we have to laugh, cause we're not alone."
no other song reminds me so much of me and my close friends when i was an addict.
i regret being an addict, but for many years, it was who i was, and those memories will always be apart of me, and along with the bad memories, i can't forget those special moments i had, i can't forget how beautiful things were sometimes. sorry if you guys don't like what i posted, i'm just speaking my heart right now.
@lovelovehatehate57 i'm with ya... I feel the same way... although my "doc" was meth...we were all friends... but sometimes i wonder if it wasn't just the drugs that made us friends...
@lovelovehatehate57 hey i totally get what you are saying! i've been where you have been , as much pain as it causes us, we have to remember all the beautiful moments, as well!
I am a recovering addict with 8 months ... I wrestle with the same demons..when it worked for me it really clicked..but that cant last..if it does god bless..but for me..this addict..the pretty lights turned to cop lights and that crazy sound was an ambulance siren.
@lovelovehatehate57 amen. i totally agree. the way i was is what makes me who i am now. i regret some things but then again i don't because i would not be who i am today. and i LOVE this song. i always have since it came out! i miss the 90's.
I'm in recovery and its a hard road, but you look back at those amazing times, whether they look amazing through the lens of time or whether they were, you can't help but cherish them with the bad times too, and hell, there were a lot of those.
4:42 in the AM I am still remembering the great times 2 nights ago when they played this,,, i was jumping up and down like a crazy in excitement..thank u and come back to FL
fedthefukup 17 hours ago
Still a classic >3
antgarratt1973 1 week ago
We all got some. Some more than others.. . .
dickmoose 1 week ago
effin love this song!
abolishcolumbusday 1 week ago
So many memories hearing this track and funny enough all of them in cold dark weather.
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Evan Dando is an asshole.. He played in St. Louis last night. "Its a Shame About Ray" Which they were supposed to do in its entirety. Didnt play Mrs. Robinson! Which is on the fuckin album!. Then he wouldnt talk to anyone after the show.He was rushed out ( walked right past me) under a towel as if he was hiding from his fans.... DOUCHE BAG! Refused pictures and basically ran... physically ran to his bus.. lol no one was chasing him... Guess he really missed his heroin on the bus.... lmao!
mandywantsitnow 4 weeks ago
@mandywantsitnow You are probably the type of lady that calls the cable company and complaints about the premium channels' free preview weekend not coming on. I myself am not famous, even so I would put a towel over my head if I had to walk by you or at least put a paper bag over yours
fedthefukup 16 hours ago
just saw them three nights ago. it was awesome.
bigsammy2914 1 month ago
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Where did you see them? Haven't heard any activity and hoped Evan wasn't lost.
dickmoose 1 week ago
I liked this song better when it was called "Dirty Work" by Steely Dan.
MrSchmitza 1 month ago 2
@MrSchmitza Similar chord progression in the intro, that's about it. They really don't sound alike.
ozena52 4 weeks ago
@MrSchmitza You are totally right on with the comparison . I admit it . I'm a closet Dan fan !!
pelicanmouse 2 weeks ago
@pelicanmouse who isn't
matthewprokes 2 weeks ago
In my opinion, start to finish, one of the very best albums from the 90's! Very solid....
Vacuumscam 1 month ago 4
gay for evan dando? PSSSHT as if thats not a given.
spadehatesscrewtube 1 month ago
Why can't we have GOOD MUSIC ANYMORE??!!! WE NEED MORE GROUPS LIKE THIS!!! ENOUGH OF THE MONKEY RAP
Mizaun74 2 months ago
Going to see them peform 'It's a shame about Ray' in Liverpool in December......cant wait!!!
FuzzyDunlop7 3 months ago
iI love how shootin dope has your father sayin,,what ya do with the camaro I gave ya and why are ya naked cryin in this field?
BerkLeeDrm 4 months ago
@BerkLeeDrm I uh ..am kind of ashamed to admit i have that beat. it involves a german shepard, a 1964 convertible corvette and an airport runway ..
spadehatesscrewtube 1 month ago
@BerkLeeDrm haa I wonder why I wrote that? I didnt even listen to the words. or did I..haaahaaaaa hes sayin..I love my drug..................buddy....and she is my drug? doh
BerkLeeDrm 1 month ago
being an addict is an awesome responsibility...lol!!!....it takes dedication.
kurt771965 4 months ago
@kurt771965 not really.A lot of people become drug addicts because they can't stay dedicated to anything else and feel very unfulfilled,so they turn to drugs.Sorry,not trying to start shit,I just don't like when people talk about drugs like it's something to be proud of.Being "dedicated" to drugs is not something to be proud of.
ChenoaEarth 4 months ago in playlist C
@ChenoaEarth I agree totally. Having spent years fighting my own addictions, I felt I was entitled to make a bad joke about a good song.
kurt771965 3 months ago
Thumbs up if you're gonna go watch The Lemonheads in Little Rock, AR tonight! :D
berryville08 5 months ago
yesterday.....hey ...what a simple ,honest groundbreaking bit of songwriting.................im a TOTAL addict of this....and Capo 3rd fret and skies the limit!!!!!! ha ah ah aha AHA
SuperAlbion01 6 months ago
god fucking damn it
tokechokesmile 6 months ago
they have to laugh to look at eachother. Because they deep down they are ashamed and actually want better for themselves and eachother. There's a lot of meanings i get out of it but I keep coming back to that one too.
renimagery 6 months ago
This song is not directly about drugs! The "drugs" mentioned and implied in this song are a METAPHOR! Evan has said so himself. This song has a little bit of a deeper meaning than a junkie going with his girlfriend junkie trying to get another hit. Think a little deeper people!
shelleyinthecity 7 months ago
@shelleyinthecity Do you mean that words can have more than one meaning? I am not sure I understand...
polkadon1066 4 months ago
@shelleyinthecity why?....too much work
BerkLeeDrm 1 month ago
I don't feel like this necessarily has to pertain to drugs and the people you do them wiht. Maybe it could also mean someone who's like a drug to you. Just a thought...
BrandonThomasWasHere 7 months ago
For those who understand....this is a different type of friendship...
And feels damn good....
thisisaidee 7 months ago
I never did get over someone stealing my Two Weeks in Australia VHS. Thank God this made it on the It's a Shame About Ray Deluxe Edition.
Augustus7669 7 months ago
I miss him so much... our friendship was so fucked up, but... i still miss him every god damned day. I dont even miss the drugs, just him
supervaultdragon 7 months ago
this was the first "CD" I ever bought ( back when they had those ).
crimsonsunlight2 7 months ago 11
@crimsonsunlight2 it's the next CD i'm gonna buy... (cds rule man)
TzGiwrgos15 2 months ago
@crimsonsunlight2 My first cds were Riot Act by Pearl jam and Theres Nothing Left to loss by the foo fighters and this was 6 months ago!. :)
97RockFan 2 months ago
@crimsonsunlight2 the last 'album' i ever bought!!
fal72 3 weeks ago
@crimsonsunlight2 what are these "CD" things you speak of
TeddyJohnson1990 3 weeks ago
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Been there done that haha
annaleigha2 8 months ago
Been there done that haha
annaleigha2 8 months ago 2
my all time fav song to shoot dope too.
blooddrivesme 8 months ago
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supervaultdragon 8 months ago
I wonder if they sing this song in Mexico when they kidnap and behead thousands to feed our demand to get high? Maybe the pharmaceutical company CEOs sing this when they look at their balance sheets for opiates and benzos? They have to laugh when they look at each other!
dtownLaydowns 8 months ago
I never get tired of this song.
sydbarrett5 9 months ago
I totally relate to this song, describes a huge part of my life..
ganjbabiixx 9 months ago
"We Have To Laugh, to Look At Eachother"
Yep Typical StOnTeRs :-) Gotta Love Them <3
Any other Person High On The Herbs(Mariguanna)
This Goes out to you, and this fucking ChiLLin, Prime Song!
StAy HiGh, It WilL GetCha BY!
shannen135 10 months ago
I've never heard this song until now. I'm pretty badly addicted to a number of substances right now, and all I can think about is my cousin when I hear this... he and I used to drive around getting high and just laughing at/with eachother. After one night at the bar and maybe a little bad judgement, he pulled off the road on an express way to fix his tire. Side-swiped by a passing vehicle & lost his leg. I lost my drug buddy that day. My addiction has only gotten worse. Drugs aren't a long ride.
godFlintstone 10 months ago
As per my previous comment, I know what Evan is trying to say! I have read about his friendship with Kurdt Cobain and the likes & I loved this song when I heard it, its only now in my twenties that it makes sense. But they aren't really your buddies are they? Unless they give you some for free. I paid for 30, I'm sure he only gave me 20! x
lisaomarieo 11 months ago
He was an amazingly pretty man,especially for a smackhead!! x
lisaomarieo 11 months ago
today i read that richard d james *aphex twin* was asked to remix songs from the lemon heads and completely forgot until a courier from the record label showed up at his door and he randomly grabbed something from his archive and submitted it.... just an interesting story i thought i would share
blisterpacman 11 months ago
@blisterpacman Dude - I just finally found the "remix " in question (it was for a song called "Style") and yeah it confused the heck out of us when we noticed there was none of the track used nor any similar notes or anything - but checking it out the other day ,I REALLY LIKE IT !! gonna put it out on a weird compilation that's coming out in the fall...
pelicanmouse 9 months ago
gawd. i love this song, so many memories from the '90s.
pulp420 11 months ago
this is a drug song.
k77jones 11 months ago
less is more, unbelievable song
dickens911 11 months ago
Many years ago, right after Dando was busted for drugs, the local alternative radio station am DJ cued a Lemonheads song by saying, "OK, Evan, put down that crack pipe and step up to the mic!" I remember this because I laughed so hard I almost ran off the road and into a large tree. Ah, simpler times . . .
tamcon72 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing. Love it.
lemonblemon 1 year ago
I love this song it reminds of India of all places, Driving back high. Best feeling i've ever felt, I think.
ocdpzildjian 1 year ago
such a beautiful song <3 it makes me ache somewhere in my chest whenever i listen to it.
robynskywalker 1 year ago 2
Oh, this song rox! =)
ChloeJponygirl 1 year ago
young evan dando looks like joe dallesandro
fiveyearwinterkiss 1 year ago
young evan dando looks like little joe
fiveyearwinterkiss 1 year ago
LOVE
xhellabentx 1 year ago
It would be better if it was about H..... This isn't crack head music...wtf lemonhead dude singer?!
JahRed24x 1 year ago
@JahRed24x your a cunt what
ablex7 1 year ago
Ever since I sold this album for drug money I have been wishing someone would put up the video. Thank you Rhino entertainment.
RMallory83 1 year ago 28
@RMallory83 LOL!!!!!!
xhellabentx 1 month ago
I'm too much with myself, I wanna be someone else.
Azhirilol 1 year ago
i love this song as a recovering addict, i never really had many good times when i was using gear. I cant remember most of it. But this song sort of sums up the sadness and loneliness of using, and how pathetic and hopeless yet sweet these people are.
hundhun17 1 year ago
Line of coke,Bag of Cannabis,Nose of Speed,Cigarettes,Booze,LSD,Magic mushrooms,PCP,Khat,etc,etc,blah blah,ad infinitum,Ed naseum...
Bumbumawangis 1 year ago
@Bumbumawangis Ah those were the days!
SunbeltRyders 1 year ago
Reminds me of being little. My Dad was an addict and he used to play this all the time and get upset. I never really got why until I was older, but still . Weird.
bubblekai137 1 year ago
REAL friends are not drug buddys. Druf buddys are people that hang cause A) they want someone to go up/down with and be brought down and rarely up with. B) People that hang cause you have the drugs. Fuck eveyone who is not your real friend.
YourDayHasEnded 1 year ago
man, it takes me back. i used to listen to Lemonheads every single day for two whole years!
qmarybdk 1 year ago
evan dando takes chilled down to another level
roblowefan1 1 year ago
is the girl on the cover of It's a Shame About Ray?
ClangBanggClang 1 year ago
@ClangBanggClang No, the girl on the cover I'm pretty sure is Juliana Hatfield, who played base on the album, and had a pretty fair solo career of her own. She's the girl singing on various songs on the album including this one, and lived with Evan Dando for a while in the Allston area of Boston.
gizmoitus 1 year ago
my drug buddy reminds me so much of my addiction years as well. i am glad i am in a place now where all i get are good memories from this song
sobermunkey 1 year ago
Good song
IzZyTX1991 1 year ago
Song is so chill.
Raford146 1 year ago
I love this song, never gets old. After my initial 90's exposure to this song, the 2007 "Catch & Release" soundtrack reintroduced me to this classic.
ahughes35b 1 year ago
No, that song is called "Two Souls (Angelina). I think it's about Audrey Hepburn's Character in "Breakfast At Tiffany's." Great song, but I'm not sure if Dando wrote it. The original is hard as Hell to find.
Snufferson 1 year ago
fantastic song!
CardiffGiant 1 year ago
I had to hunt this out as i heard it on Trigger Happy
An absolute cracker
tali4569 2 years ago 2
This is classic 90's rock man, it's so good!
necr0sins 2 years ago
@necr0sins yeah this is the epitome of 90's alt. classic cult rock..
JahRed24x 1 year ago
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Trigger Happy TV! :)
tinyyuki 2 years ago
"we have to laugh, to look at eachother, we have to laugh, cause we're not alone."
no other song reminds me so much of me and my close friends when i was an addict.
i regret being an addict, but for many years, it was who i was, and those memories will always be apart of me, and along with the bad memories, i can't forget those special moments i had, i can't forget how beautiful things were sometimes. sorry if you guys don't like what i posted, i'm just speaking my heart right now.
lovelovehatehate57 2 years ago 142
thats inspiritional, good for you for getting through that. thanks for sharing
jrose987 2 years ago
@lovelovehatehate57 beautifully stated
Junkiespop 1 year ago
@lovelovehatehate57 i'm with ya... I feel the same way... although my "doc" was meth...we were all friends... but sometimes i wonder if it wasn't just the drugs that made us friends...
Vizzoid 1 year ago
@lovelovehatehate57
my drug buddy
jtummons 1 year ago
@lovelovehatehate57 I think i know what you mean. Cheers.
House38500 1 year ago
@lovelovehatehate57 hey i totally get what you are saying! i've been where you have been , as much pain as it causes us, we have to remember all the beautiful moments, as well!
Cassiemorg 1 year ago
@lovelovehatehate57 fucking right! i know how you feel.
mobileaudiomanic 1 year ago
@lovelovehatehate57 I think this is one of those songs that sort of makes you speak your heart.
robynskywalker 1 year ago
@lovelovehatehate57 Probably one of the most honest and humbling comments I have ever read on Youtube.
ChristopherAdderley 11 months ago
@lovelovehatehate57
I am a recovering addict with 8 months ... I wrestle with the same demons..when it worked for me it really clicked..but that cant last..if it does god bless..but for me..this addict..the pretty lights turned to cop lights and that crazy sound was an ambulance siren.
cmfishburn 11 months ago
@lovelovehatehate57 amen. i totally agree. the way i was is what makes me who i am now. i regret some things but then again i don't because i would not be who i am today. and i LOVE this song. i always have since it came out! i miss the 90's.
thebjm1967 10 months ago
@lovelovehatehate57 There's nothing wrong with speaking from the heart.Brought a smile to my face.Hope all is well with you!
PweAnderson340 6 months ago
@lovelovehatehate57
me too man,
I'm in recovery and its a hard road, but you look back at those amazing times, whether they look amazing through the lens of time or whether they were, you can't help but cherish them with the bad times too, and hell, there were a lot of those.
katiethrashe 5 months ago
..she's coming over, we'll go out walking, make a call along the way. She's in the phone booth, I'm looking in, there comes a smile on her face.
There's still some of the same stuff we got yesterday!!
I love love love this song!
Shimmygirl5 2 years ago 26
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i love this song!
kNia354 2 years ago
Lovely :)
JimmyTee73 2 years ago 2