I have an abortion coming up soon and I'm feeling more secure in my descision after listening to your story. A lot of people here are being rude, nasty, mean, ignorant and stupid. The good thing is they don't know us and therefor their judgement doesn't matter. Let them think what they want, and I'm going to do the same. It's not wrong and I know that I am doing the best thing I can in my situation.
@Lemonylime1000 Hey I dont want to be mean to you. Just wanted to ask Why not adOPTION? I also hope you plan to never have sex again unless you accept that you could get pregnant. If you do then there is always adoption.
@DarkBeauty1989 No your not being mean. There are many reasons behind this, and since we don't know each other, I probably shouldn't go into them. And yes, I did go into sex accepting that I could get pregnant. I took precautions, but they didn't work. Look, I'm not happy about getting the abortion. However, it is the only option for me in my situation right now. Your opinion is valid, but as you don't know me your advice and suggestions aren't helpful.
@Lemonylime1000 Judgment is necessary, as you're taking the life of a human child. A child who can feel the pain you are forcing on to him/her. What if you're killing a girl, so called girls rights. Pffft. Right to life comes before right to be comfortable.
@desertedsoulx Ok, first off, I am not getting an abortion for "right to be comfortable". I understand your opinion, and I know that you are doing what you think is best, just like people on th "prochoice" side of the issue. I don't know you, so I'm not passing any judgements. To be honest, I really don't care what you think of me. I have many reasons for this, and I don't need to convince a stranger who doesn't know me why me getting an abortion is the only option right now.
I would like to ask for forgiveness for all the people that haven't shown you compassion, from the protestors at the clinic, to the nurse at the ultrasound and for the mean things people have said in response to this video. Thank you for sharing your story. It makes me think about how I should treat people who find themselves in a desperate situation with what seems to be an easy way out. I'm praying for you. Jesus said "Father, forgive them for they know not what they do" when he died .
thanks for sharing your story. You are brave. We all make mistakes as women and young girls. We are allowed to make mistakes, just like men do. Without having to bear the cross of the world on our shoulders. Until there are better living standards, better sex ed, safer streets, more access to education and health, we should never be apologetic for taking care of our minds, bodies and families by resorting to termination. My grandmother who is 87 now, had an abortion at 2. She had 2 kids then.
I understand that these young girls want compassion, and maybe the lack thereof is why they have gotten themselves in these predicaments, however how much compassion are they having for their unborn children? I really just don't have any, and I'm just being honest. Having an abortion does not make you cool.
I hope all is well with you. In this video it seems like you are very sad and still trying to cope. Its really sad that the clinic treated you that way. It seems a bit unprofessional to me. I am a Pro Lifer as well. I do admit it is very angering to see people make decisions that you don't believe in. But it doesn't give anyone the right to treat other people a certain way just because they don't share the same beliefs with you. I will pray for you! Thank You for sharing your experiences!
Imagine if your mother aborted you! You wouldn't be alive today reading this. It makes me wince every time i think about never being born if my mother chose to abort me for the sake of "convenience" or whatever excuse the next pro-choicer uses. Whether the fetus is a life or not, that baby will never be born if it is aborted.
I really feel sorry for you. Even when you allude to perceiving abortion as your "right", its evident in your tone that you KNOW it was wrong.
You are only lying to yourself. If you ever do wake up from that lie; I hope that you are just as able to forgive yourself and move on with your life.
i think no one has the right to talk shit in anyway cause everyone is different and there are people who have abortions due to medical reasons like i have a friend who already has 4 children all delivered by c section and she just found out she is 4 weeks pregnant and the only choice for the saftey of her is to have a abortion but is she considered a baby killer? no cause if that was the case she would have killed the 4 she already has
I think this girl just really loves telling this story.
I'm pro-choice, but only because I do find, in some cases, a child is better to not be brought into this world than end up living an awful life.
This chick says she wants compassion, but listening to her talk I feel like that's her saying she wants attention. This whole abortion story is all about her. From the whining about waking up at 8am to the "unsettling" country song she didn't like, she seems like its all about her. Stfu
Just a quick question....you had said that the clinic you went to didnt have any compassion? And you also say you are pro life? Im very confused. To me, it would be like you didnt have any compassion. If you are pro life, you are against this kind of stuff. Im not trying to be rude or anything, because Im not the one to judge, but where was your compassion when you allowed that sick dr to suck a living soul out of you? I hope it you become pregnant again you choose pro life and keep him.
Perhaps it was "unsettling" seeing your baby on the ultrasound screen because deep down you knew it was wrong... You seem VERY conflicted in the re-telling of your story. And YOU were in pain? Why don't YOU try being vaccuumed out of a uterus? Oh wait.... you will never have to experience that because your mom chose life.
I'll be honest... I'm against abortion and I expected to hate you after watching this video. But that's not the case at all. I feel bad for you. You say you don't regret your decision, but I don't think that is completely true. I think you tell yourself that so you won't feel anything. I think abortion does hurt women. Maybe not immediately, but down the road when they're older- I think the majority end up regretting it.
Yuh its called life!! Murdering a baby is beyond cruel so get over it and if u support abortion ur just as wrong that women will anwnser for what she done n if u had any remorse u woudnt have a problem n hell yuh i have issues!!!! W women who murder there own blood!!!
Im doing an argumentative essay against abortion for my english class, and this was good insight. I dont agree with some prolifers about calling women murderers. I think they have no right caz something like that never probably happened to them so they cant judge. F*k the close minded assholes. Good for you did what is best.
People that kill there baby will serve there god in hell and i pray to my god in heaven that u all that murder ur own young will be rippd apart for all ur days in hell!! U evil ugly witch!!!!!! U disgust me!!!!
I think you are lying.......you do not sleep well at night. How could you? One day if and when you have children, you will look at him/her and regret killing your daughter, ripping her from her sanctuary. Tearing her from her lifesource; you....her own mother. You are right in saying that you should have had precounceling.........it may have turned out differently.
she said in her first video that hating and rudeness just had the opposite effect. besides, i think acting like that and treating someone that way is the opposite of christianity.
i also don't agree with you saying "you pro lifers don't know what you're talking about"... i'm pro life, i know quite a lot about abortion - as much as i can without going through it myself.
and i don't hate you for doing it.
stay strong., you aren't a bad person and i know you don't need me to tell you that
i see all these people (may be christians, whatever) calling you a bad person, ignorant, terrible, whatever. and it makes me sad. personally (being a christian also), seeing this just made me have a deep respect for you for the strength that you had. and the strength that you have now. no, i don't agree with abortion but i don't find you a bad person just because of this - i don't even know you. all you people bashing this girl need to go about the mature way of having a conversation.
you say abortion doesn't hurt woman, but what about the BABY? I'm pro life and like MissPiccola1 im not one of those to attack i would just like to ask a question. why not choose adoption?
I wish people would STFU and realize everyone's situation is different. Imagine being homeless and addicted to drugs. What would you have to offer a child? I think it's more SELFISH when you keep a baby you know you can't care for. This is why I am starting to hate pro-lifers. Don't judge others please you are not God.
fugit omnis gloria. All glory is fleeting. I feel very sorry for you, I do not know your name, but I think you have murdered not your child alone, but whatever moral center you might once have had. Not only that, whatever you think you stand for is assinine, for no one who watches this video will gain anything except a sense of confusion, and the only thing which can come from what you discuss here is that some people who watch this wil regard you as Murderess. I will pray for you.
@acometdriveby LIFE IS AMAZING, "FOR YOU'! FIGURES THE BOYFRIEND LEFT, WHATS NEW? IF I'M NOT MISTAKEN, IT ACTUALLY SEEMS LIKE YOUR TRYING TO CONVINCE YOURSELF IT WAS THE RIGHT DECISION, BUT YOUR LACK OF CONFIDENCE IS QUIT NOTICABLE! I GUESS YOU CAN'T TAKE IT BACK, SO WHY NOT PRETEND YOU FEEL OK ABOUT YOUR DECISION?
@acometdriveby Who is this suppose to help? you're disgusting and you have the friggin nerve to go on about any pain you felt! you expect nursing and people to ask if you're ok after giving a tiny thing a death sentence. do you even realise that a nine week old feutus feels pain and that you allowed them to take it apart bit by bit until they squash the babies head. and you feel good about that? you sick twisted little girl
@acometdriveby By the way you talk it does seem you regret your abortion. I just hope you dont have sex ever again unless you can accept that you could get pregnant. It just isnt right for someone to just keep having abortions every time they screw up. I wish you the best.Peace & Luv
@MrMobsta01 Or you could jump right off that moral high horse you're riding and realize that not everybody is going to follow your self-imposed standards of subjective morality. Take your zealous willingness to oppress women's bodily rights elsewhere, like the Vatican, where there are no women. I'm a Christian and MY GOD is pro-choice. :)
@WrathoftheGoddess Subjective morals...what, was that last night's homework? The trouble with acometdriveby's video, if the comments are any evidence, is that it does not advance either for prolife or prochoice. It is nothing but confusion upon the screen. I get it...you're annoyed about my latin use, so feel you need to rail in an erudite...if that's what you're doing..manner? I've only this to say: FUGIT OMNIS GLORIA IS OLDER THAN THE VATICAN! (not that you'd know, or care). Blocklist....
@MrMobsta01 Sic Transit Gloria Mundi. I'm not even educated and I can throw latin around too! She's no murdererss,she's a woman who had an unwanted pregnancy, and did the right thing for herself. Keep your prayers for yourself.
@dianalee84 Well if you can throw Latin around, at least pick something good! How's about oh I don't know "pedicab' ego vos et irrumabo, dianalee pathice et cinaede atcometdriveby!" The problem with the video is it vouches for nothing - it is all very fine to rant about a woman's rights, and same for carrying on about religion or anything there - this video does nothing at all except spread confusion and doubt about a very troublesome issue i.e. young abortion. Get over yourself!
awesomeness that you tell your story. that takes alot of guts in this society. you are helping so many women with telling your story. if you want to help others, donate to the national network of abortion funds. they help raise money for low income women to receive abortion care
@jordanbieber87 There is a chance, you'll grow up one day. Just hope you never have to be in the position to make this sort of decision. Obviously you're not mature enough to understand that life isn't black and white.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I work at an abortion clinic and I see women having to make this difficult decision every day. They always amaze me with their strength and never do I think that its an easy thing to do. What confuses me is how anti-choice individuals think that women do not consider their options. Pregnancy shines a light over your whole life, and makes you look at everything. Those who have not found themselves in that situation have no idea what its like.
Warmonger sounds like someone in serious need of therapy. He/she is a classic example of what happens when parents fail to do their job of teaching their children properly. Rather than ranting at strangers like a drooling idiot, Warmonger needs to demand an apology from the parents that failed him/her so badly.
Wow honestly your video confused the shit out of me. I just dont know how you could have actually looked at your tiny little baby and seen them being ALIVE just to turn around and have them killed. I understand that it wasnt the right time or what ever your reason was, but adoption is there for that very reason.
everyone talking down worry about yourselves. every woman can do what they feel is best. thank you for posting this and being open it helped so many women:)
If you really felt bad about what you did, you would do the right thing and kill yourself. A worthless slut like you would be better off decomposing in a grave, preferably in a cemetary where only babykillers are buried. If I knew where you were buried I would make a yearly pilgrammage to your grave and take a giant shit on it. cheers!
i like how you say MY BABY yet you killed it like it wasnt a baby people are weird..i dont under stand how u can lay there ask for a pic of the baby come on you know you regret this you just cant say it out loud to your self .
When I think of rapist, murders, the child molesters. Some of these people come from people who are not ready for parenting. These people cause the world so much pain and distress. If you are not ready to parent a child in the right and proper way abort it. The world would be better off. When you think of all the other terrible things people do abortion is the least of all our worries. Abortion does not hurt people or society.
Do people not realize condoms and birth control are not 100% I was on the nuva ring a fool proof birth control and I got pregnant also I got pregnant on condoms alone. I lost both. But everyone thinks I'd be against abortion because I lost babies I woulda kept. I'm not. People do what they feel they need to do... You are a brave woman for sharing this. ANYONE having sex can get pregnant. Don't forget that. And I'm sure sometimes it's better off having the choice!
I'm a male so obviously I didn't have the abortion physically, and found the abortion process easy enough (as long as I was paying for it). But what came after changed who I was. For me I lost a part of myself that day. A part that I will never get back or be able to compensate for , and believe me I have tried. I do have two other children now that I cherish dearly and do wonder what my other son would be like now 17 years on. I will always regret that loss. always. :(
I agree! It's very hard. I know when I do have kids I'm going to look at them and wonder about the little girl who isn't here. It was the right decision, but something we all have to live with. A true shame.
If you don't want a child practice safe sex! Abortion is not birth control !
I understand if it's because of rape or something terribly wrong with the baby, but just cuz a baby is not in ur "short term goals" doesn't mean u can dispose of it like a dirty tampon! Grow up ladies!
I am growing up, and owning my right to reproduce. What a shame you can't understand. Don't you think I feel awful enough? Perhaps, I will do another video one day describing how hard it is to live with. No regrets though. Just a shame you want to kick a woman when she is down. Think about that.
@1984siam i think that if you are so anti-termination you should join the pathetic picket lines she is describing. in australia we have nothing like this. a simple hospital procedure with NO people looking badly at you. just because you think a baby should be born when the situation is not optimal is no reason to have one. my baby was terribly sick but we couldnt afford to have it &and couldnt give it up. i HAVE been raped but still i wouldnt keep a baby unless it was the best thing to do!
i think about mine all the time. what i went through with the happiness of finding out i was having a baby right till having to get it terminated. it is on my mind every day. i cant get rid of my positive pregnancy test but i would NEVER have made another choice than the right one i made 3 weeks ago on 10th May 2011. Australia isnt like US with the anti-abortion so i suppose i am lucky in a bizarre way
Thank you for sharing your story. It was brave of you to speak about something so controversial, and generous to post this for women who have questions about the abortion process. I wish more people who had abortions could feel safe enough to speak freely like this.
Its hard for me to believe your happy with your decision. you keep calling it a baby, most people call it a fetus, because it makes them feel better after they kill it. no stones thrown here, and those people outside of the clinic were out line if they were. My prayer is that God comforts you when reality hits. I have seen many women who end up having break downs after the fact. Please if there is ever a next time, please check into adoption. many many people looking for babies to raise.
It was a baby to me. It was my baby. I believe life begins at conception. It's something I feel very horrible about, but don't regret doing. If I do fall pregnant again under unplanned circumstance, I'll go adoption.
@acometdriveby I am pro-life, but I do not want to comment your page to put you down or make you feel bad. I just wanted to ask you what you think about pro-life and why do you believe people are pro-life? I hope you don't mind asking this question. I don't want to cause any conflict, I just want a pro-choice point of view. I will pray for your healing and your baby, despite the fact you may not believe in Christ and God. Hope to hear from you soon! Very brave girl =) God bless you!
@MissPiccola1 Thank you for your kind questioning. You're one of the nice pro-lifers! Pro-lifers are really mean to me, as you can see. I don't respond to mean spirited individuals. I can see why people are on the other side of choice- it's a baby. It's a huge deal. But adoption and children aren't for everyone. Again, thank you for the prayers. Spirituality is great. Stay kind!
@acometdriveby I don't think you should feel horrible about it. You did the right thing for your unborn child and yourself, and if you believe in God, Allah, Buddha, multiple gods, whoever, they would understand your decision. No human on this earth can judge others' morality because it is completely subjective. You acted within your moral grounds and did a good deed for yourself and your baby. It was a merciful act on your part, don't feel horrible. :)
@acometdriveby I don't think you should feel horrible about it. You did the right thing for your unborn child and yourself, and if you believe in God, Allah, Buddha, multiple gods, whoever, they would understand your decision. No human on this earth can judge others' morality because it is completely subjective. You acted within your moral grounds and did a good deed for yourself and your baby. It was a merciful act on your part, don't feel horrible. :)
@acometdriveby acom, honey, it is hard and nobody knows until they have made the decision. i too call it a baby but it did not change what i felt i had to do. also it does not mean a girl doesn't believe in god. we believe in god and make choices everyday that we would consider wrong and then have to live with them. i do not regret my abortion at all. and i am sorry u had to experience this too. i wish u a comfortable life and growth process through this.
@bigdog9043 It matters not whether it is a baby to you or just a cluster of cells, it is still your body and no person has the right to use another person's body to keep themselves alive. We do not force people to donate kidneys to those who will die without them. I use the terms baby and fetus and child interchangeably when I talk about my whole-hearted support for abortion. It's sometimes harder to give a baby up for adoption than it is to terminate it. We need to remember that and not judge.
@bigdog9043 Yeah, people looking for babies to raise. The foetus/zygote/embryo whatever (or baby as you creeps like to call it) that is currently cooking with potential to destroy my young life is getting aborted in a few days. I'm a heavy drinker and smoker, so maybe even if I wasn't young and poor and unprepared I would have the thing and give it up for adoption. because I don't want to be held responsible for bringing a retarded FAS baby into the world and dumping it on someone else
you were not on the pill.. and you probably weren't using a condom since you boast a lot about not using condoms because you don't like them. this is a form of birth control to you and it's totally wrong. you're not helping the cause to abortion and you're making a huge joke about it to other people who really need one for real reasons. i hope you get aids.
don't leave out the fact that you FORGOT to take your pill "....whoops! i guess i'll just have an abortion, thank god it doesn't hurt as much as child birth!"
why do you seem so proud to be doing this? i'm all for abortion rights, but when people like you use it as a form of birth control because you're to retarded to use a condom or birth control, then i think you should be stuck with the consequences. people like you make people who would really NEED an abortion look bad. jump off a cliff please.
Whoa, that was quick! When did I say this was a part of Birth Control? I got pregnant on the pill. It happens. I never explained the reasoning behind the abortion. Stop making assumptions. This video is for women who don't know about the in clinic experience.
Just say it! Until the jar was full of your dead unborn baby. Cute.
RunNeonTigerTK 1 day ago
Babies look amazing as 9 weeks gestation. Hope you saw the little fingers and feet you ripped apart.
desertedsoulx 6 days ago
thanks
I have an abortion coming up soon and I'm feeling more secure in my descision after listening to your story. A lot of people here are being rude, nasty, mean, ignorant and stupid. The good thing is they don't know us and therefor their judgement doesn't matter. Let them think what they want, and I'm going to do the same. It's not wrong and I know that I am doing the best thing I can in my situation.
Take care
Lemonylime1000 2 weeks ago
@Lemonylime1000 Hey I dont want to be mean to you. Just wanted to ask Why not adOPTION? I also hope you plan to never have sex again unless you accept that you could get pregnant. If you do then there is always adoption.
DarkBeauty1989 6 days ago
@DarkBeauty1989 No your not being mean. There are many reasons behind this, and since we don't know each other, I probably shouldn't go into them. And yes, I did go into sex accepting that I could get pregnant. I took precautions, but they didn't work. Look, I'm not happy about getting the abortion. However, it is the only option for me in my situation right now. Your opinion is valid, but as you don't know me your advice and suggestions aren't helpful.
Have a nice day.
Lemonylime1000 6 days ago
@Lemonylime1000 Ok well just trying to help. I wish you the best peace & luv
DarkBeauty1989 6 days ago
@DarkBeauty1989 You as well. And it's nice to see a polite person here too.
Bye
Lemonylime1000 6 days ago
@Lemonylime1000 Judgment is necessary, as you're taking the life of a human child. A child who can feel the pain you are forcing on to him/her. What if you're killing a girl, so called girls rights. Pffft. Right to life comes before right to be comfortable.
desertedsoulx 6 days ago
@desertedsoulx Ok, first off, I am not getting an abortion for "right to be comfortable". I understand your opinion, and I know that you are doing what you think is best, just like people on th "prochoice" side of the issue. I don't know you, so I'm not passing any judgements. To be honest, I really don't care what you think of me. I have many reasons for this, and I don't need to convince a stranger who doesn't know me why me getting an abortion is the only option right now.
Lemonylime1000 6 days ago
you have killed a life ! your mother gave birth to you she didnt abort you or say i dont want you ! so why go and abort your child
each day is a gift and not a given right !"
Ourladyofguadulupe 3 weeks ago
I would like to ask for forgiveness for all the people that haven't shown you compassion, from the protestors at the clinic, to the nurse at the ultrasound and for the mean things people have said in response to this video. Thank you for sharing your story. It makes me think about how I should treat people who find themselves in a desperate situation with what seems to be an easy way out. I'm praying for you. Jesus said "Father, forgive them for they know not what they do" when he died .
Jillousa 4 weeks ago
You are an evil slut. You are as bad as Casey Anthony you disgusting cunt
FirstAmendmentTube 1 month ago
@FirstAmendmentTube
Stop insulting her for you have never been in her situation! You can't judge her.
TheHugeRedButton 2 weeks ago
Kill the witch.
Alyzabeth1990 1 month ago
thanks for sharing your story. You are brave. We all make mistakes as women and young girls. We are allowed to make mistakes, just like men do. Without having to bear the cross of the world on our shoulders. Until there are better living standards, better sex ed, safer streets, more access to education and health, we should never be apologetic for taking care of our minds, bodies and families by resorting to termination. My grandmother who is 87 now, had an abortion at 2. She had 2 kids then.
melitic 1 month ago
I understand that these young girls want compassion, and maybe the lack thereof is why they have gotten themselves in these predicaments, however how much compassion are they having for their unborn children? I really just don't have any, and I'm just being honest. Having an abortion does not make you cool.
EmberConway 1 month ago
I have one word people, CONDOMS!!!!!!
EmberConway 1 month ago
I hope all is well with you. In this video it seems like you are very sad and still trying to cope. Its really sad that the clinic treated you that way. It seems a bit unprofessional to me. I am a Pro Lifer as well. I do admit it is very angering to see people make decisions that you don't believe in. But it doesn't give anyone the right to treat other people a certain way just because they don't share the same beliefs with you. I will pray for you! Thank You for sharing your experiences!
GabrielleArmah 1 month ago
Hope all is well. Glad people are able to talk about it instead of pushing it under the rug since abortions are performed all the time.
ellie5way 1 month ago
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Imagine if your mother aborted you! You wouldn't be alive today reading this. It makes me wince every time i think about never being born if my mother chose to abort me for the sake of "convenience" or whatever excuse the next pro-choicer uses. Whether the fetus is a life or not, that baby will never be born if it is aborted.
gwhpfan23537 1 month ago
Keep being strong, :) and thanks for posting, makes me a bit apprehensive about the clinic, but its pretty much the only place to go,
vampyres32 2 months ago
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I really feel sorry for you. Even when you allude to perceiving abortion as your "right", its evident in your tone that you KNOW it was wrong.
You are only lying to yourself. If you ever do wake up from that lie; I hope that you are just as able to forgive yourself and move on with your life.
2217Glock 2 months ago
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2217Glock 2 months ago
i think no one has the right to talk shit in anyway cause everyone is different and there are people who have abortions due to medical reasons like i have a friend who already has 4 children all delivered by c section and she just found out she is 4 weeks pregnant and the only choice for the saftey of her is to have a abortion but is she considered a baby killer? no cause if that was the case she would have killed the 4 she already has
cynthiagonzales98 2 months ago
Thank you for sharing, lovely. I wish you all the best.
StillDirrrty 2 months ago
that doesn't sound like the best place to have it done.. also if it was painful you should probably let them know for better anaesthetic?
freakstupid11 2 months ago
I think this girl just really loves telling this story.
I'm pro-choice, but only because I do find, in some cases, a child is better to not be brought into this world than end up living an awful life.
This chick says she wants compassion, but listening to her talk I feel like that's her saying she wants attention. This whole abortion story is all about her. From the whining about waking up at 8am to the "unsettling" country song she didn't like, she seems like its all about her. Stfu
jourd311 3 months ago
Just a quick question....you had said that the clinic you went to didnt have any compassion? And you also say you are pro life? Im very confused. To me, it would be like you didnt have any compassion. If you are pro life, you are against this kind of stuff. Im not trying to be rude or anything, because Im not the one to judge, but where was your compassion when you allowed that sick dr to suck a living soul out of you? I hope it you become pregnant again you choose pro life and keep him.
MsBandit1979 4 months ago
Perhaps it was "unsettling" seeing your baby on the ultrasound screen because deep down you knew it was wrong... You seem VERY conflicted in the re-telling of your story. And YOU were in pain? Why don't YOU try being vaccuumed out of a uterus? Oh wait.... you will never have to experience that because your mom chose life.
jackie92285 4 months ago
Gosh it's her decision leave her alone. What has been done is done.
chachatww 4 months ago
I'll be honest... I'm against abortion and I expected to hate you after watching this video. But that's not the case at all. I feel bad for you. You say you don't regret your decision, but I don't think that is completely true. I think you tell yourself that so you won't feel anything. I think abortion does hurt women. Maybe not immediately, but down the road when they're older- I think the majority end up regretting it.
Dragonsplayground 4 months ago
Yuh its called life!! Murdering a baby is beyond cruel so get over it and if u support abortion ur just as wrong that women will anwnser for what she done n if u had any remorse u woudnt have a problem n hell yuh i have issues!!!! W women who murder there own blood!!!
Shortbutsweet1997 4 months ago
Im doing an argumentative essay against abortion for my english class, and this was good insight. I dont agree with some prolifers about calling women murderers. I think they have no right caz something like that never probably happened to them so they cant judge. F*k the close minded assholes. Good for you did what is best.
therock343 4 months ago
People that kill there baby will serve there god in hell and i pray to my god in heaven that u all that murder ur own young will be rippd apart for all ur days in hell!! U evil ugly witch!!!!!! U disgust me!!!!
Shortbutsweet1997 4 months ago
@Shortbutsweet1997 You have fucking issues...
InAllOurDreams 4 months ago
I think you are lying.......you do not sleep well at night. How could you? One day if and when you have children, you will look at him/her and regret killing your daughter, ripping her from her sanctuary. Tearing her from her lifesource; you....her own mother. You are right in saying that you should have had precounceling.........it may have turned out differently.
mrgregh100 5 months ago
im sorry but why would they have compassion for someone coming in to kill their own baby? this world is going too crazy. smh..
nicolechinny 5 months ago
It was the right choice for you. Do dont feel guilty about it. I have also had an abortion and I am glad I made that choice.
Noosa1978 5 months ago
1. You were a whore.
2. You killed it.
3. You posted it on youtube.
4. You need to die.
LadyPIssa 5 months ago
we all have different beliefs. but anyways, i just wanted to thank you for putting up this video.
mcblarrgghhhity 5 months ago
she said in her first video that hating and rudeness just had the opposite effect. besides, i think acting like that and treating someone that way is the opposite of christianity.
i also don't agree with you saying "you pro lifers don't know what you're talking about"... i'm pro life, i know quite a lot about abortion - as much as i can without going through it myself.
and i don't hate you for doing it.
stay strong., you aren't a bad person and i know you don't need me to tell you that
mcblarrgghhhity 5 months ago
i see all these people (may be christians, whatever) calling you a bad person, ignorant, terrible, whatever. and it makes me sad. personally (being a christian also), seeing this just made me have a deep respect for you for the strength that you had. and the strength that you have now. no, i don't agree with abortion but i don't find you a bad person just because of this - i don't even know you. all you people bashing this girl need to go about the mature way of having a conversation.
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lkuepper1 5 months ago
you say abortion doesn't hurt woman, but what about the BABY? I'm pro life and like MissPiccola1 im not one of those to attack i would just like to ask a question. why not choose adoption?
pitapie18 5 months ago
I wish people would STFU and realize everyone's situation is different. Imagine being homeless and addicted to drugs. What would you have to offer a child? I think it's more SELFISH when you keep a baby you know you can't care for. This is why I am starting to hate pro-lifers. Don't judge others please you are not God.
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So, next time, use a condom! You can get them for free!
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mjt19741 6 months ago
fugit omnis gloria. All glory is fleeting. I feel very sorry for you, I do not know your name, but I think you have murdered not your child alone, but whatever moral center you might once have had. Not only that, whatever you think you stand for is assinine, for no one who watches this video will gain anything except a sense of confusion, and the only thing which can come from what you discuss here is that some people who watch this wil regard you as Murderess. I will pray for you.
MrMobsta01 6 months ago
@MrMobsta01 No, I'm good but thanks. By the way, I FEEL GREAT ABOUT MY DECISION. Life is amazing.
acometdriveby 6 months ago
@acometdriveby LIFE IS AMAZING, "FOR YOU'! FIGURES THE BOYFRIEND LEFT, WHATS NEW? IF I'M NOT MISTAKEN, IT ACTUALLY SEEMS LIKE YOUR TRYING TO CONVINCE YOURSELF IT WAS THE RIGHT DECISION, BUT YOUR LACK OF CONFIDENCE IS QUIT NOTICABLE! I GUESS YOU CAN'T TAKE IT BACK, SO WHY NOT PRETEND YOU FEEL OK ABOUT YOUR DECISION?
carmel350 6 months ago
@acometdriveby Who is this suppose to help? you're disgusting and you have the friggin nerve to go on about any pain you felt! you expect nursing and people to ask if you're ok after giving a tiny thing a death sentence. do you even realise that a nine week old feutus feels pain and that you allowed them to take it apart bit by bit until they squash the babies head. and you feel good about that? you sick twisted little girl
35foxylady 1 month ago
@acometdriveby By the way you talk it does seem you regret your abortion. I just hope you dont have sex ever again unless you can accept that you could get pregnant. It just isnt right for someone to just keep having abortions every time they screw up. I wish you the best.Peace & Luv
DarkBeauty1989 6 days ago
@MrMobsta01 Or you could jump right off that moral high horse you're riding and realize that not everybody is going to follow your self-imposed standards of subjective morality. Take your zealous willingness to oppress women's bodily rights elsewhere, like the Vatican, where there are no women. I'm a Christian and MY GOD is pro-choice. :)
WrathoftheGoddess 5 months ago
@WrathoftheGoddess Subjective morals...what, was that last night's homework? The trouble with acometdriveby's video, if the comments are any evidence, is that it does not advance either for prolife or prochoice. It is nothing but confusion upon the screen. I get it...you're annoyed about my latin use, so feel you need to rail in an erudite...if that's what you're doing..manner? I've only this to say: FUGIT OMNIS GLORIA IS OLDER THAN THE VATICAN! (not that you'd know, or care). Blocklist....
MrMobsta01 2 months ago
@MrMobsta01
You're a loser, asswipe.
TFYFWYA 2 months ago
@MrMobsta01 Sic Transit Gloria Mundi. I'm not even educated and I can throw latin around too! She's no murdererss,she's a woman who had an unwanted pregnancy, and did the right thing for herself. Keep your prayers for yourself.
dianalee84 1 week ago
@dianalee84 Well if you can throw Latin around, at least pick something good! How's about oh I don't know "pedicab' ego vos et irrumabo, dianalee pathice et cinaede atcometdriveby!" The problem with the video is it vouches for nothing - it is all very fine to rant about a woman's rights, and same for carrying on about religion or anything there - this video does nothing at all except spread confusion and doubt about a very troublesome issue i.e. young abortion. Get over yourself!
MrMobsta01 1 week ago
What I really find baffling about this video is your laughter, humor, and giddy sarcasm about all of this. Smh
InTheVampyForest 6 months ago
awesomeness that you tell your story. that takes alot of guts in this society. you are helping so many women with telling your story. if you want to help others, donate to the national network of abortion funds. they help raise money for low income women to receive abortion care
leiapeison 6 months ago
@jordanbieber87 There is a chance, you'll grow up one day. Just hope you never have to be in the position to make this sort of decision. Obviously you're not mature enough to understand that life isn't black and white.
jimmyjazz240 7 months ago
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I work at an abortion clinic and I see women having to make this difficult decision every day. They always amaze me with their strength and never do I think that its an easy thing to do. What confuses me is how anti-choice individuals think that women do not consider their options. Pregnancy shines a light over your whole life, and makes you look at everything. Those who have not found themselves in that situation have no idea what its like.
crash3two 7 months ago
Warmonger sounds like someone in serious need of therapy. He/she is a classic example of what happens when parents fail to do their job of teaching their children properly. Rather than ranting at strangers like a drooling idiot, Warmonger needs to demand an apology from the parents that failed him/her so badly.
moviemakersize 7 months ago
Wow honestly your video confused the shit out of me. I just dont know how you could have actually looked at your tiny little baby and seen them being ALIVE just to turn around and have them killed. I understand that it wasnt the right time or what ever your reason was, but adoption is there for that very reason.
JenniferAnn21 8 months ago
everyone talking down worry about yourselves. every woman can do what they feel is best. thank you for posting this and being open it helped so many women:)
iloveMiaD 8 months ago
If you really felt bad about what you did, you would do the right thing and kill yourself. A worthless slut like you would be better off decomposing in a grave, preferably in a cemetary where only babykillers are buried. If I knew where you were buried I would make a yearly pilgrammage to your grave and take a giant shit on it. cheers!
warmonger1889 8 months ago
i like how you say MY BABY yet you killed it like it wasnt a baby people are weird..i dont under stand how u can lay there ask for a pic of the baby come on you know you regret this you just cant say it out loud to your self .
taramama3 8 months ago
When I think of rapist, murders, the child molesters. Some of these people come from people who are not ready for parenting. These people cause the world so much pain and distress. If you are not ready to parent a child in the right and proper way abort it. The world would be better off. When you think of all the other terrible things people do abortion is the least of all our worries. Abortion does not hurt people or society.
ass246111 10 months ago
@ass246111
Agreed.
acometdriveby 9 months ago
Do people not realize condoms and birth control are not 100% I was on the nuva ring a fool proof birth control and I got pregnant also I got pregnant on condoms alone. I lost both. But everyone thinks I'd be against abortion because I lost babies I woulda kept. I'm not. People do what they feel they need to do... You are a brave woman for sharing this. ANYONE having sex can get pregnant. Don't forget that. And I'm sure sometimes it's better off having the choice!
Lilmisshairdoer 10 months ago
I'm a male so obviously I didn't have the abortion physically, and found the abortion process easy enough (as long as I was paying for it). But what came after changed who I was. For me I lost a part of myself that day. A part that I will never get back or be able to compensate for , and believe me I have tried. I do have two other children now that I cherish dearly and do wonder what my other son would be like now 17 years on. I will always regret that loss. always. :(
HecticAussie 10 months ago
@HecticAussie
I agree! It's very hard. I know when I do have kids I'm going to look at them and wonder about the little girl who isn't here. It was the right decision, but something we all have to live with. A true shame.
acometdriveby 9 months ago
Abortion doesn't hurt women it just kills babies!
If you don't want a child practice safe sex! Abortion is not birth control !
I understand if it's because of rape or something terribly wrong with the baby, but just cuz a baby is not in ur "short term goals" doesn't mean u can dispose of it like a dirty tampon! Grow up ladies!
1984siam 10 months ago
@1984siam
I am growing up, and owning my right to reproduce. What a shame you can't understand. Don't you think I feel awful enough? Perhaps, I will do another video one day describing how hard it is to live with. No regrets though. Just a shame you want to kick a woman when she is down. Think about that.
acometdriveby 9 months ago
@1984siam i think that if you are so anti-termination you should join the pathetic picket lines she is describing. in australia we have nothing like this. a simple hospital procedure with NO people looking badly at you. just because you think a baby should be born when the situation is not optimal is no reason to have one. my baby was terribly sick but we couldnt afford to have it &and couldnt give it up. i HAVE been raped but still i wouldnt keep a baby unless it was the best thing to do!
lollysouldeprived 9 months ago
i think about mine all the time. what i went through with the happiness of finding out i was having a baby right till having to get it terminated. it is on my mind every day. i cant get rid of my positive pregnancy test but i would NEVER have made another choice than the right one i made 3 weeks ago on 10th May 2011. Australia isnt like US with the anti-abortion so i suppose i am lucky in a bizarre way
lollysouldeprived 9 months ago
Thank you for sharing your story. It was brave of you to speak about something so controversial, and generous to post this for women who have questions about the abortion process. I wish more people who had abortions could feel safe enough to speak freely like this.
doyouhaveanopinion 10 months ago 4
@doyouhaveanopinion
Thank you for reaffirming my instinct on speaking up. I wish we could all just stand up for what we believe in.
acometdriveby 9 months ago
i think it's better to not have sex or use condoms i think condoms are safer than anything else if you use them properly.
chutubeme 10 months ago
Its hard for me to believe your happy with your decision. you keep calling it a baby, most people call it a fetus, because it makes them feel better after they kill it. no stones thrown here, and those people outside of the clinic were out line if they were. My prayer is that God comforts you when reality hits. I have seen many women who end up having break downs after the fact. Please if there is ever a next time, please check into adoption. many many people looking for babies to raise.
bigdog9043 10 months ago
@bigdog9043
It was a baby to me. It was my baby. I believe life begins at conception. It's something I feel very horrible about, but don't regret doing. If I do fall pregnant again under unplanned circumstance, I'll go adoption.
acometdriveby 9 months ago
@acometdriveby I am pro-life, but I do not want to comment your page to put you down or make you feel bad. I just wanted to ask you what you think about pro-life and why do you believe people are pro-life? I hope you don't mind asking this question. I don't want to cause any conflict, I just want a pro-choice point of view. I will pray for your healing and your baby, despite the fact you may not believe in Christ and God. Hope to hear from you soon! Very brave girl =) God bless you!
MissPiccola1 6 months ago
@MissPiccola1 Thank you for your kind questioning. You're one of the nice pro-lifers! Pro-lifers are really mean to me, as you can see. I don't respond to mean spirited individuals. I can see why people are on the other side of choice- it's a baby. It's a huge deal. But adoption and children aren't for everyone. Again, thank you for the prayers. Spirituality is great. Stay kind!
acometdriveby 6 months ago
@acometdriveby I don't think you should feel horrible about it. You did the right thing for your unborn child and yourself, and if you believe in God, Allah, Buddha, multiple gods, whoever, they would understand your decision. No human on this earth can judge others' morality because it is completely subjective. You acted within your moral grounds and did a good deed for yourself and your baby. It was a merciful act on your part, don't feel horrible. :)
WrathoftheGoddess 5 months ago
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@acometdriveby I don't think you should feel horrible about it. You did the right thing for your unborn child and yourself, and if you believe in God, Allah, Buddha, multiple gods, whoever, they would understand your decision. No human on this earth can judge others' morality because it is completely subjective. You acted within your moral grounds and did a good deed for yourself and your baby. It was a merciful act on your part, don't feel horrible. :)
WrathoftheGoddess 5 months ago
@acometdriveby acom, honey, it is hard and nobody knows until they have made the decision. i too call it a baby but it did not change what i felt i had to do. also it does not mean a girl doesn't believe in god. we believe in god and make choices everyday that we would consider wrong and then have to live with them. i do not regret my abortion at all. and i am sorry u had to experience this too. i wish u a comfortable life and growth process through this.
sweetkittytwine 3 weeks ago
@bigdog9043 It matters not whether it is a baby to you or just a cluster of cells, it is still your body and no person has the right to use another person's body to keep themselves alive. We do not force people to donate kidneys to those who will die without them. I use the terms baby and fetus and child interchangeably when I talk about my whole-hearted support for abortion. It's sometimes harder to give a baby up for adoption than it is to terminate it. We need to remember that and not judge.
WrathoftheGoddess 5 months ago
@bigdog9043 Yeah, people looking for babies to raise. The foetus/zygote/embryo whatever (or baby as you creeps like to call it) that is currently cooking with potential to destroy my young life is getting aborted in a few days. I'm a heavy drinker and smoker, so maybe even if I wasn't young and poor and unprepared I would have the thing and give it up for adoption. because I don't want to be held responsible for bringing a retarded FAS baby into the world and dumping it on someone else
acuriousaffair 5 months ago
PS. you probably thought the clinic lady was a bitch because the clinic lady probably knew your kind and probably wasn't happy to help you.
C4eaglem 1 year ago
you were not on the pill.. and you probably weren't using a condom since you boast a lot about not using condoms because you don't like them. this is a form of birth control to you and it's totally wrong. you're not helping the cause to abortion and you're making a huge joke about it to other people who really need one for real reasons. i hope you get aids.
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C4eaglem 1 year ago
don't leave out the fact that you FORGOT to take your pill "....whoops! i guess i'll just have an abortion, thank god it doesn't hurt as much as child birth!"
sircloud7 1 year ago
why do you seem so proud to be doing this? i'm all for abortion rights, but when people like you use it as a form of birth control because you're to retarded to use a condom or birth control, then i think you should be stuck with the consequences. people like you make people who would really NEED an abortion look bad. jump off a cliff please.
C4eaglem 1 year ago
@C4eaglem
Whoa, that was quick! When did I say this was a part of Birth Control? I got pregnant on the pill. It happens. I never explained the reasoning behind the abortion. Stop making assumptions. This video is for women who don't know about the in clinic experience.
acometdriveby 1 year ago